Search by Name

Search by Name

James Bowman Obituary

BOWMAN, JAMES "Jimmy" passed away unexpectedly February 8, 2004. He was born October 9th, 1971 and lived in Mesquite, TX where he attended North Mesquite High School and Cedar Valley College. There was never an instrument Jimmy couldn't play or a musical artist that he didn't know. For many years, he could be seen playing instruments and performing at Scarborough Faire where his talents were endlessly admired by his many friends and patrons. Music was his love and his life and he used his passion to inspire and educate others through teaching. Jimmy taught at numerous places and gatherings including the Richland College Emeritus program and the pre-performance lecture series for the Dallas Symphony. He was also a long time employee with the Dallas Opera where his influence and knowledge was greatly appreciated by all those fortunate enough to speak with him. His knowledge of world music was vast and in between his job at CD Source, he was frequently sought out for educational classes, lectures and spectacular presentations. Jimmy is preceded in death by his father Jim Bowman and survived by his mother Judy Bowman of Mesquite, sister and brother in law Carol and Byron Seastrunk of Alvarado, "sisters" Shannon Bradley of Mesquite and JoAnn Oliver Woolley of Chicago and Dylan and Simon, the beloved family bassets as well as a wide and diverse circle of friends, colleagues and admirers. We are holding a service celebrating the life of our James at Richland College in Crockett Hall C140 on the west side of the campus Wednesday February 18th from 6:00 to 7:30 p.m. with a reception following. Directions for the reception will be available at the service. Cards and condolences can be sent to the family at 3626 Gray Dr., Mesquite, TX 75150.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Dallas Morning News on Feb. 10, 2004.

Memories and Condolences
for James Bowman

Sponsored by one of the thousands you touched.

Not sure what to say?





Wynne

June 5, 2025

No... it was not Scott Cantrell, it was John Ardoin...

Shawn Gist

February 11, 2025

I'm here. It's been a while, and there are distractions. You know me, I'm not good at dates or lyrics...
This night, I watched a video of Dave Draiman and Myles Kennedy singing Sounds of Silence and MM singing Sweet Dreams. There was, in the background, someone playing tympani, and more than the singers, this drew me to you. Lots of turmoil in the world. Wish you were here to help me balance.
Love you "brother"!
Shawn

Tiny Dancer

February 9, 2025

How has it been so long? You know I´m heading back. Lots of memories swirling around. It´ll be nice to revisit those places. Oceans of love!

Amy

February 4, 2025

Your mom gave me your Mardi Gras beads last year. Jen(na) and I carried them from the Bywater into the Quarter so you were with us and got that wish list item checked off at long last. I love you always and miss you forever.

October 9, 2024

20 yearsmissing you. Happy birthday my friend.

Amy Gruss

October 6, 2024

Grateful for the ripples still created by your presence in this world (though it was all too brief). I miss you.

Angel of Music

February 16, 2024

Thinking of you....and wishing you were somehow here again.

Shawn

February 9, 2024

My brother, 20 years. We talked recently about how you might like symphonic metal and the beautiful talented ladies fronting these bands with their operatic vocals. Recently Tarja released a more peaceful recording with members of the world music community and I would love to share that with you.
Miss your voice, your advice and counterpoint. Have a nice jam and a chuckle at my loss of lyrics.
Love you brother.

Amy Gruss

October 8, 2023

On my mind often, in my heart always. Wish I had words to convey how much you still mean to me... to so many of us.

Amy Gruss

February 4, 2023

I´ll always remember how you had the entire court of Kansas City RenFest convinced your name was Yoshi... all because the airline wasn´t timely with their snacks and you got silly instead of hangry. Snack packs of pretzels will forever remind me of you. I love you still and miss you always.

Christi

February 4, 2023

Jimmybones - 19 years! How??? Still miss your light in the world. -Tiny Dancer

Amy

February 4, 2022

You´re on my mind so often, and in my heart always. I miss you. I love you.

I could go on (and you know I so often do)... but really, those are the important parts.

C RC

February 4, 2021

This time of year always makes me sad. So much has changed since you left us. However, my heart still has you holding the same spot you’ve always held. Miss you beyond words JimmyBones. Gosh, we were so young. I was so lucky to have you in my life. I hope you are encased in beautiful sound wherever you may be. Love you. XOXO

Amy Gruss

February 4, 2021

You’re on my mind often and in my heart always. I miss you.

Tricia Belmares

August 16, 2020

Listening to "The Flame" by Cheap Trick and I was taken back in time to when Jimmy & I shared some time on this big blue marble. Jimmy & his family will forever hold a place in my heart that they themselves opened. Rest in peace angel, your light continues to shine.

Amy Gruss

February 4, 2020

You remain a permanent part of my heart and soul. I miss you like crazy all the time. It still hurts that I can't share stuff with you (or, let's be honest, bask in your sharing with me)... but the sadness of losing you is the price of loving you and I'm still glad to pay that price.

Jimmy's senior year of high school, I think

Julie Tidwell

November 7, 2019

North Mesquite High School, circa 1992. Annoyed because someone was photobombing him!

Julie Tidwell

November 7, 2019

Julie x

November 7, 2019

Well shucks...I really put off that Bohemian Rhapsody movie because Queen reminds me of you but I watched it the other night and wondered what you'd think since you were the expert. I would've wanted to see it with you like so many other things we did together (Les Mis when we cried on each other's shoulders, that Metallica concert that nearly gave us heat stroke.) I'm sorry I kept telling you Queen sucked when we were in high school. I was so wrong and your taste was flawless and I just wasn't evolved enough. ;) I listen to them now and smile at you gushing over them endlessly. I can't believe how many things remind me of you. I wish we'd never lost touch, I wish I'd been a better friend. Love you, Jimmy.

February 13, 2019

Shawn Gist

February 8, 2019

15 years ago you stepped out of our reality and moved on to another.
We miss you everyday and are grateful for all the joy, comfort, knowledge and love you brought us.
On this day I will put on our memories and carry you with me to teach and inspire others to love and live.
If time allows, and a 6 year old's patience, I will crack open a Mountain Dew, order some Papa John's and sit down to listen to Bohemian Rhapsody or One Bad Pig and think of the Nerf battles, the air hockey games, the amazing performances, and the love and sorrow of our relationships.
Thank you for all you have given me and forgive me where I failed you.
I love you brother.

How I'll always remember him

Amy Gruss

February 7, 2019

Steve Barclay

March 26, 2018

Just yesterday, I went on a nostalgic trip down memory lane after stumbling across pictures from my time at Scarborough Faire. That sent me to the computer to Facebook stalk some old names I remembered from that time.

And that's when I discovered Jimmy's tragic loss.

When I think of Scarborough Faire, several faces jump out at me. Among the fondest are Jimmy and Jacky. And now I learned that both have departed from this world.

My heart is heavy. I'm thinking of these beautiful people.

February 8, 2018

It doesn't get any easier but you certainly made some incredible friends while you were here. They make sure I'm never alone as this day gets closer and our memories of you provoke more laughter than tears and I know you would want it that way. Can it really be 14 years? I think of you every day.

Mom

February 8, 2017

I wish I could listen to you rant and rail. But I have the best memories of past rants. Past rails. And I have the best women in my life because of you. I'm a lucky girl. I keep you close to my heart...and even my toes. Love you. RIP - Jo

February 8, 2017

My dear boy. You left me a world of incredible memories but the most important thing you left me was the people I love most. You would come home and say "oh my god, you have to meet this girl, she is so cool".....and you were always right. Tonight 3 of those
unbelievably cool women and I are about to head over to your
apartment like we do every year to light a candle and talk about how much we loved you.

RIP my son

Shawn

February 7, 2017

It's that time of year again.
I have so many questions and so much to share.
Evan James is 4 now and has fallen in love with the Lion King. We listen to the songs in the car and watch the movie constantly. There are several references posted here from others.
I know you hear what I'm listening to but I wish I could hear you talk about them.
This year I discovered Theocracy, For Today, Tina Guo and Adam Hurst. There are others but that is definitely where the chat would start.
In a rock and roll heaven you must be having a blast because we lost so many voices this year.
I really want to have the conversation about how much incredible art will come out of the next four years. That's my way of looking positively about it.
Oceans of love my brother.

February 6, 2017

I love and miss you still. And since losing Jacky it's even keener, this pain. But how is it that I feel when there's a you-shaped hole in my heart? Must be how amputees still feel pain in a missing limb. My phantom heart, then. Seems fitting.

~xoxoxo~
-a

August 4, 2016

Do you remember seeing Michael Crawford in about 1990 at Starplex from the 5th row? We joked about the no obvious need for the beefy security guards and sat (and stood) all night enjoying the music of Andrew Lloyd Webber. You were wearing a brown shirt that was fringed all over; you told me it was your concert gear!

I saw Michael Crawford again this week and thought about that night and what an amazing time it was. I miss you; hanging out with you; driving around in the Phantom, going through the Long Johns drive thru (you knew EXACTLY what you wanted!) listening and playing music together.

Your absence still moves me to tears even after all these years.

Oh Jimmy.

July 23, 2016

Not sure why I thought of you tonight, but I found myself here. I read the messages other people left you and smiled because you were so loved. I wish I could've talked to you again. Until then...xx Julie

February 11, 2016

Not normally a digital record keeper of this kind of thing. I want everyone who gets this email notice to know I move forward for you, because of you, in awe of you. ~Wolfgang

February 11, 2016

I made a spur-of-the-moment decision to take off for NOLA and spent Lundi Gras (Feb. 8, 2016) on the banks of the Mississippi, wind blown and full of vodka, enjoying a band with an accordion player that was laying it right on down. Angie and I drank a toast to you, and shared our memories of you with new friends. It seemed fitting. My love follows you still.
~xoxoxo~
-a

February 10, 2016

Peggy S

February 9, 2016

Had a special problem last night but it went better than I expected and I realize you were on my shoulder. Still missing you and loving you.

February 8, 2016

Still missing you, loving you and thinking about you every day.

February 8, 2015

I hope you felt the love tonight. RIP

February 10, 2014

You know where I was yesterday and what I was doing. I felt you with me and you made things so much easier, magical even - as always. Couldn't think of a better place to be than a place we shared, a place you gave me. Thank you. Love you. -C

February 9, 2014

How can it have been 10 years. You were remembered this weekend by people you loved and who love you.

Jason Martin

June 4, 2013

Growing up across the street from you, we had some great fun and great adventures. Hardly a day goes by that I don't think about you. I really regret not staying in touch with you in our adult years, but life sometimes carries you away from those you grew up with. I look over your accomplishments and I am so proud of what you had become. Rest well my friend, we have a lot of galaxies to explore when I get there.

Cindy Reynolds

May 14, 2013

I knew you only as a friend of my daughter Julie but you were a great person to be around. You will always be missed. I remember some talks we had and they will always be remembered. Thanks for the memories that you left me with.

May 14, 2013

A little light from across the pond. I'm thinking of you.

Julia Melvin

May 13, 2013

I didn't even know you were gone until now. I'm so sorry that when I bumped into you long ago, I didn't stop to talk longer. That I had to rush away. There was so much to say. And not enough time. You were my best friend once, and my first real kiss. I will never forget all the time we spent together. I know you never did, either.

Christi Rodriguez Cottrell

February 9, 2013

You know how much I'm thinking of you right now. You know why. Love you. Miss you. I still watch the stars. And, I still hear you laughing, my little prince.

February 8, 2013

Thank you for the beautiful friends you left me.

Shawn

January 12, 2013

Watching Classic Albums on Vh1 Classics. Tonight's featured album is a Night at the Opera. Thank you sooo much for introducing me to Queen and the the amazing art of Freddie, Brian, Roger and John. There's is really nothing like Queen and I look forward to sharing them with Evan JAMES. Love you brother, miss you more than anyone can imagine. Though I think Amy comes close. This past year, T-Rex, Awolnation, Devil Wears Prada...
Thank you Leigh Ann.

October 9, 2012

Happy Birthday......this will always be a day to celebrate your beautiful life.

Amy Gruss

October 8, 2012

Thank you for being born. Though losing you brought pain beyond description, imagining a world where you didn't exist is truly devastating.

Though you're gone, your light shines on. I will celebrate your all-too-brief time here and be glad for the moments we had. Happy birthday, my friend.

September 1, 2012

Wish you were here to welcome Lesa's baby, Addie, into the world. She's a beauty!!

Amy Gruss

July 17, 2012

Dreamed about you this morning, but it wasn't one of those subconscious-brain-dump kind of dreams. It was the mortal plane merging with yours. There was a party at your Mom's place and you were present, and no one could see you... except me. (Go figure, the witchy spooky girl...) I looked you in the eye and you were shocked that I could see you, but soon started chatting and catching up.

I've rarely hated waking up so much.

Amy

July 2, 2012

I had lunch with Shanna on Saturday and of course you came up. There were almost-tears and lots of smiles as we shared fond memories. You're still very present in our lives, love. Gone but not forgotten.

July 1, 2012

Thought of you today Jimmy- and i smiled
-Beth

May 18, 2012

Your best friend became a Daddy this morning!
The circle of life.

Christi Cottrell

February 9, 2012

I miss you dearly. On a daily basis I hear or see something that I think would delight or intrigue you. I still think for a split second about picking up the phone or emailing you. I don't know if I will ever truly accept the fact that you are gone. It doesn't feel right to be in a world without you. I always tell myself you are just on another trip seeing some amazing new land and soaking up the culture. It feels a little better to think of things that way. I hope that wherever you are, you are borderline spectacular. Oceans of love my dearest Jimmybones.

Amy

February 9, 2012

You're still the shape of the hole in my heart. While I try to focus on the fact that you're beyond pain now, some days I am selfish and greedy; I just want to hug my friend again. I miss you (and can only take comfort in the fact that I'm not alone in that).

February 8, 2012

Another year without you......you are so missed.

beth wolanow

December 24, 2011

Thought of you today.. and I promise to own opera by the end of jan 2012 ( my promise to you)

Shawn

October 14, 2011

Dark Side of the Moon was on the cover of Rolling Stone recently. Thank you for all you shared and forgive me my ignorance of dates. I wish you were here to meet the little one. He or she will carry your name in remembrance of my best friend. I love you man and I miss you so much. I need to talk to you.

Christi Cottrell

October 10, 2011

Burn down the mission and take me to the pilot. Couldn't help but think of you on your special day. Oceans of love my dear.

October 10, 2011

Still missing you.

Amy

October 10, 2011

There's still a Jimmy-shaped hole in my heart. You're irreplaceable. I love and miss you every day... but it's worth the pain of loss to have had the privilege to know and love you.

October 9, 2011

Can it be possible that you would have been 40 years old today? You will always live in my heart and in my head as a young man who would make the world a better place.....and you did. Happy Birthday!!

Melia

September 21, 2011

I still miss you. I remember fondly those high school days on the phone for hours while you played your music. I can't watch an opera or listen to classical music or Pink Floyd without thinking of you.
I still have the sketchbook you wrote in. I come across it in my studio often and think of you.

February 17, 2011

Oh Jimmy...how can it be 22 years since we first met, and over 7 since we last talked? I found a sheet of music you had written out for me; it was to be the theme for Cyrano. I played it over and over and thought of you.

Shawn

February 11, 2011

I don't know what to say that I don't say to you weekly. Although I'm sorry my recollection of dates isn't better. I watched the Phantom of the Opera movie finally. "We've passed the point of no return"...but I still miss you.
Like Leslie said, Come see us if you can, would love to feel your presence and inspiration.
Love you brother.

February 10, 2011

Still missing my Jimmy-bones. -Tiny Dancer

Leslie Rankin

February 8, 2011

We love you. Can you tickle our aura's today?

Lesa, Les, Judy, Dylan, Simon, Marley, and Cosmo.....

January 1, 2011

It's so hard to start another year without you. I hope you are at peace.

October 9, 2010

Jimmy, You say it's your birthday......it's John's birthday too. You are both sorely missed and very much remembered. Happy Birthday!

March 24, 2010

Jimmy, I just learned of your passing this week, a little over six years after the fact. We had not seen each other in ages (if I remember correctly, the last time I saw you was at a Rush concert at Reunion Arena)... and since I learned you are no longer with us, I have spent the last few days with a grand emptiness inside me.

You were like a little brother to me. I will never forget taking you to see your first Rush concert (where Harvey broke his leg before the concert, but didn't go to the doctor until the next day). I will never forget driving to Fort Worth and meeting up with that couple that got us a copy of Shock Treatment. I will especially never forget the Saturday you came out to one of my drill weekends at the Naval Air Station and came home with your head shaved. (I thought your mother was going to kill me). Mostly, I will never forget the light in your eyes that seemed to burn with eternal youth and happiness, especially when you had a guitar in your hand.

I am sure that you would be saddened to know that our good friend Dan Dowell passed away last September (2009) after a year and a half long battle with cancer, but it somehow gives me peace to think that you and Dano can spend time with each other now.

Lastly, after I learned of your passing, I was trying to explain who you were and what you were to me, to my son, Roy the Fifth, who is now 16 years old. The more I talked to him about you, the more I see you in him. His attitude and vibrant presence seems to copy yours.

Time will heal the pain that I feel, but as all those others who knew you and know of your passing long ago can attest to, the hole in my heart will be a constant reminder of the awesome friend that you were to me. My love to you and your family.
Roy G Pender IV

Amy Martin

March 23, 2010

Just found out Jimmy's passing and it truly saddens me. I was just looking at pictures I have of him at Scarborough Faire. He was so full of life. Such a tragic loss at an early age. He will be missed!!!

Shawn Gist

February 16, 2010

I know that I'm only writing for the benefit of the others. You know what I went through this week because you were with me. It was good to hold you again. As queer as that sounds I miss you and would love to have it back. Be safe on your journey and thanks for saying hi now and again. This year we found Thomas Wynn and the Believers and I got the star fixed...thanks for the quarter note. I love ya brother.

Leslie Rankin

February 13, 2010

Well, I didn't write when I should have but rest assured I was with some pretty amazing people that night who love you more than I think you ever realized. There was drinking, crying, laughing, music....all those things that make other things ok. Like losing one of the most amazing people lucky enough to plop in my life. Wait....I didn't say that right. Yes I did. We were both lucky to have each other...even if it was for such a short time. I love you always and miss you much.

Christi Cottrell

February 9, 2010

Jimmybones - I could not figure out why I had a sleepless night interrupted only by nightmares. Then, of course, this morning I remembered the date.

You are with me always. I don't mind the gentle reminder once a year that this world lost something extraordinary on the day you started your new journey.

Oceans of love...

February 8, 2010

Like every February 8 since you left us it's gray and raining which seems appropriate. You are so missed and so loved. RIP

Christi Cottrell

October 13, 2009

Jimmybones, Your transition from this world inspired me to do something that was officially completed on the 8th, and I know you were with me on the 9th to celebrate. Happy birthday and thank you. Oceans of love, Your Tiny Dancer.

Amy Gruss

October 12, 2009

Spent your birthday under the stars, thinking of you by the camp fire, and listening to another dear friend play his guitar and sing. Christine and I shot some vodka and missed you terribly. It would have been perfect... if only you could have been there, too...

Jacky Donahue

October 10, 2009

There are so many things locked inside me that I would love to say and cannot. It all breaks down to this; I love you and I miss you. Every time your mother smiles I see you.

October 9, 2009

Happy Birthday Sweet Boy.

Christi (Rodriguez) Cottrell

August 9, 2009

Jimmy,

Today I am feeling especially nostalgic, especially for you and all of our little adventures and conversations. I wish you were here so much sometimes that I convince myself that you are really just off exploring some new place, a grand, though extended, vacation. It's easy to do when I am so far away from where we met and established our long relationship.

Often I find myself wishing that my path had kept me closer to you. I wonder how that would have affected our lives. I wish I had been braver and reconnected with you sooner. After all, forgiveness was a ready gift you were willing to bestow. I wish a lot of things.

But more than anything, you know that I am happy. And you, being you, would never have asked for anything more. You were always, and still are, the most selfless human being I ever met.

God, I miss your spirit, your energy. That light that could fill any room you entered. You were one of those rare birds, a genuine larger-than life personality. I feel you with me often. I look forward to reconnecting with you again someday. A new adventure yet again. By then, you'll be the expert (as always in all things) and can show me the ropes, like you so often have in the past.

It will be a long while, but until then, my very dear friend, know that you are always in my heart, never far from my thoughts, and I wish you only joy and peace.

Love always,
Christi

July 31, 2009

"How did it get so late so soon? It's night before it's afternoon. December is here before it's June. My goodness how the time has flewn. How did it get so late so soon?"
-- Theodor Seuss Geisel

May 15, 2009

The Meyerson book...your Mom knew. But then again, she knows everything. I hope you don't mind - it sits on my shelf now along with the Chopin and the Flamenco and the postcard I didn't remember. I know things were complicated. I was selfish and I never got to say I was sorry.

Krista

February 9, 2009

You would have loved it...there was an entire room full of girls talking about you last week. Yeah, you should've been there.

Amy Gruss

February 9, 2009

I wrote this to your mom, but it applies to you, too: I love you.

That's the important bit. All the other words I could choose, or the things I could say... well, that's the undercurrent of it all. And yes, I mean it in the present tense.

Leslie Rankin

February 8, 2009

I still miss you. I still think you should be here with us. I still can't find that damn bird song. I still smile when I think of you. I still cry sometimes too though. I still think I see you on the street and around town. I still have my ipod I wanted you to teach me how to use. Most of all I still love you and think of you often.

February 8, 2009

Can it really have been five years? Some days it feels like you've been gone forever and some days it feels like yesterday.

Krista English

October 20, 2008

Spent yesterday with your Mom and Jo Ann and we talked about your website. Thought maybe I should post it here for anyone who'd be interested in visiting it. We miss you.

www.memoriesofjames.com

Shawn Gist

October 11, 2008

I'm late in writing Happy Birthday here cuz you and I were in North Carolina enjoying the mountain music.
I miss your hugs but still enjoy your presence.

Jacky Donahue

October 10, 2008

Happy late birthday, Sweetheart. I was up late last night listening to the tapes you made me and thinking of you. Nat shares Oct. with you as birthday month and he loves music. I like to think it is you sharing your gift. I keep you in my heart always.

Amy Gruss

October 9, 2008

Happy birthday, dearling. I know you're beyond such things now, but it's important for us to remember... You're still such a part of my daily life that it's hard to believe you're not here. You're indelibly on my mind and in my heart. Weird, but that comforts and saddens me at the same time. I think you'd smile at that paradox.

Judy Bowman

October 9, 2008

Happy Birthday Jimmy. I still miss you every minute of every day but I hope that you have found peace. I love you. Mom

Krista McCurry English

February 8, 2008

Chopin's Nocturne #1 in E Minor -- that's what you sound like to me. That's how I remember you.

Today I gave a chance to some of those songs on the ipod that I usually skip over. And I hope you like the song from last night...

I still remember the day in my kitchen you couldn't believe I didn't go crazy over the new piece of music you heard for the first time that day. I walk in the door and you yell out, "You've got to hear this!" I'd do anything to know what that piece was. I did think it was beautiful...I truly did. It was just more fun to watch you go on and on about it.

Krista McCurry English

October 9, 2007

Happy Birthday! Your Mom and I spent the day chatting when we could, and missing you as always. I hope you could feel the love going out to you today. I'm writing this late on the 9th, after spending the day trying to find the right thing to say from both of us. Still don't know if there will ever be the right words. We'll be ending the day listening to your favorite songs and wishing you were here. We love you.

Krista McCurry English

September 12, 2007

Hey, JB, I've been wanting to tell you something and this was the closest I could come. I was thinking the other day about our trip to Nebraska and how I told you all about my Aunt's house being haunted and how terrified I was going to be sleeping there, but glad she let us sleep in the same bed so I wouldn't be alone! And I thought about the pictures she took of us and asked her if she still had them. She said she saw them earlier this year (before she knew what had happened) and now she can't find them. She says she'll keep looking until she does. That was a fun trip. Thanks for driving with me 10 hours through the night. For years after that all I heard from my Aunt and grandparents was "I just loved that Jimmy boy!" Oh, I did too! I miss you.

Jamaica Storie

August 8, 2007

I have been avoiding signing your guest book because I still don't want it to be true. I have gone through almost every emotion with finding out the passing of my dearest friend. I was depressed and you wernt there to stop what you know could have happend.Then for a long time I was so mad at you for leaving me and on top of it never saying good bye. And as I get close to your mom again and I draw near to a close all I feel is you. A warm rush when I remember all the fun times we had and the things you had to teach. I am forever thankful and I will surely pass on the best of you on to my son.

Jimmy & Jamaica - they were inseparable.

August 7, 2007

My favorite picture of us - 1993

July 24, 2007

Our first picnic - Jimmy and Krista 1993

July 24, 2007

Krista McCurry English

July 21, 2007

Since it's been less than a week since I found out what happened, it's still constantly on my mind. I'm having trouble sleeping so I go through music you introduced me to. This one has been going through my head all day.

Don't you hear my call though you're many years away
Don't you hear me calling you
All the letters in the sand cannot heal me like your hand
For my life
still ahead
Pity Me

Krista (McCurry) English

July 15, 2007

I'm back in Ft Worth vising family and friends and I just found out what happened. If I had known before I would have been there to grieve with the thousands of others who love you. I know we lost touch when I left TX, but I always wondered about what you were up to. I still had all the tapes you made me and the memories would flood back every time I listened to them. And all those photos your Mom took of us. I still have those. Judy, please be strong for Jimmy and for Carol. I love you all still. That's who Jimmy was. We all loved him and we never get over him.

Showing 1 - 100 of 196 results

Make a Donation
in James Bowman's name

Memorial Events
for James Bowman

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support James's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor James Bowman's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more