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LAUTERBACH, Lance Cpl. Maria F. 20, and infant son Gabriel Joseph, of Vandalia, passed away Saturday, December 15, 2007 in Jacksonville, North Carolina. Maria was a graduate of Vandalia Butler High School Class of 2006, and the Montgomery County Career Center. She was a gifted athlete excelling in soccer, softball and basketball and also very active with the St. Christopher youth group. Miss Lauterbach was a Lance Corporal in the US Marine Corps. Maria is survived by her parents, Victor and Mary (nee Steiner) Lauterbach 3 sisters, Ann, Kate and Theresa; brother, Ed; numerous aunts, uncles, and cousins. Mass of Christian Burial will be held 10:00 AM, Saturday, February 2, 2008 at St. Christopher Catholic Church, Vandalia, with burial following at Calvary Cemetery. Friends may call at the church Thursday, January 31, 2008 from 4-8 PM. The family requests donations to be made to Vandalia Butler Foundation, Maria Lauterbach Athletic Scholarship Fund, PO Box 722, Vandalia, OH 45377. Envelopes will be available at the church. Arrangements by The Westbrock Funeral Home, Dayton.
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Memories and Condolences
for Maria Lauterbach
Sharon Newman
February 5, 2008
Dear Vic, Mary and family,
Once again, we send our sincerest sympathy for the loss of dear Maria and baby. We will always remember her as such a sweetheart, full of life and energy. We only wish we had known her as she became a young woman. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Sharon, Ward, Emily and Alex
Shelly Keller
February 5, 2008
My heart goes out to your entire family. I was so sadden to hear of such a great loss. I had the pleasure of meeting Maria her senior year at my home. My son's friend met her at CTC and brought her over to our house. Maria and I hit it off immediately and chatted for a couple hours. She was such a special lady with certain success in her future. May your memories bring you comfort. How blessed I am to have had the opportunity to meet such a beautiful person.
Jennie Hengehold
February 4, 2008
I wanted to also add, that I am heartily sorry I forgot Gabriel, May this precious little miracle also find his place in Heaven as an angel, I knew I didn't know all the words to say. I hope you can forgive me for accidentally forgetting gabriel.
Cheri Weiner
February 3, 2008
To the families of Lance Cpl. Maria Laurterbach and Gabriel Joseph:
Although like so many others, I did not know Maria, nevertheless, my heart aches for each of you for all that you were forced to endure, to such an unhappy ending.
Your daughter was a beautiful woman too young in life to lose it as she did, and how. It is heartbreaking for everyone who knew her, and to those who never had the pleasure.
May God grant you some comfort, once your grieving has softened, so that you will be able to enjoy the memories you were left to share.
There are no words adequate enough to soften all that you are forced to endure, but if love and caring will be of some help to each of you. knowing how many of us care.
We offer prayers to help each of you through this very sad and difficult time, and please know how many of us care and share your sorrow.
God Bless!
Joseph Beasley
February 2, 2008
To the family of Maria and Gabriell-Only Two little Rosebuds were taken from their home to make their Bloom in Heaven to Deoorate the Throne,God Bless.
Bob & Corinne Bieri
February 2, 2008
May the God of Creation, the Author of all that is good, give you peace in this dark hour. My wife and I were passing by the church on our way to visit our son this morning when were struck by sadness and felt compelled to find out if my suspicions were correct.
We were overwhelmed by the outpouring of support to your family and pray that each day will be brighter with memories of your beloved daughter and her child. Your daughter has touched us, a stranger we did not know. May God bless you and your family and grant you rest.
fellow VBHS alumnist
February 2, 2008
Dear Lauterbach family,
I do not know your family, but my heart breaks for the tragic loss of your daughter and grandson. I cannot imagine your pain, but I know that you are in the prayers of America, and we thank you for your daughter's gift to this country. God Bless her for dedicating her short life to defend her country.
Mary Easterling
February 1, 2008
I never knew your daughter but we shared the title of U.S. Marine. Maria may you and Gabriel rest in Peace. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
SemperFI.
Ohio Women Veterans
February 1, 2008
Words can not express the feeling of grief and pain from your loss. We are sorry.
Lynette Gray Chaplain Ohio -2 Women Marines Association
January 31, 2008
The Ohio Chapter of the Women Marines Association wishes to express our condolences on the loss of your daughter and child. A white rose will be presented at the funeral on her behalf. We pray that your family know you are not alone in your pain and sorrow.
Melody
January 31, 2008
May God support and uphold you as you go through the days ahead. Know that many hearts have been touched by this tragedy. I appreciate Maria's dedication to our country through her military service. Your family will be in our prayers.
C. Lawson
January 31, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Tiffany Klinehoffer
January 31, 2008
I am deeply sadned by your loss. I did not have the great honor of knowing Maria, but I am praying for Maria and her baby everday, and my heart aches for both of them. I am also praying for justice to be served for the two of them quickly. I know there are no words that can make the pain go away, but I read this poem for the first time at a family members funeral and I love the message it sends, so I hope that it gives you peace.
IF TEARS COULD BUILD A STAIRWAY,
AND MEMORIES A LANE.
I WOULD WALK RIGHT UP TO HEAVEN,
TO BRING YOU HOME AGAIN.
NO FAREWELL WORDS WERE SPOKEN,
NO TIME TO SAY GOODBYE,
YOU WERE GONE BEFORE WE KNEW IT,
AND ONLY GOD KNOWS WHY.
OUR HEARTS STILL ACHE WITH SADNESS,
AND SECRET TEARS STILL FLOW.
WHAT IT MEANT TO LOSE YOU,
NO ONE WILL EVER KNOW.
BUT NOW WE KNOW YOU WANT US
TO MOURN FOR YOU NO MORE.
TO REMEMBER ALL THE HAPPY TIMES,
LIFE STILL HAS MUCH IN STORE.
SINCE YOU'LL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN
WE PLEDGE TO YOU TODAY,
A HALLOWED PLACE WITHIN OUR HEARTS
IS WHERE YOU'LL ALWAYS STAY.
Auther Anonomous
I hope your family can find peace in God during your time of grief.
Debi
January 30, 2008
God Bless Maria and Baby Boy Gabriel and God Bless your family.
Donna Lawson
January 30, 2008
Stepping Stones
The Lord came to me in a dream one day and asked,"why do you sorrow?" I answered "Lord my life is so full of pain, I can't face one more tomorrow."
The Lord sat down beside me, and gently took my hand.
He said,
"Let me explain to you and then you'll understand.
Each sorrow is a stepping stone you must surmount each day,
And every stepping stone you climb is a sorrow that's passed away.
The road of life is a mountainside, with crevices in which to be caught,
But as you struggle on your way, I, the Rock ,will lend support.
Everystepping stone you climb makes spirit and heart grow strong.
Exercising Character and faith this road seems painful and long.
The way is paved with stepping stones to uplift your heart and soul,
Though difficult they aid your way, to a City paved with gold.
I know that you are tired, for I too have walked this way,
My sorrows did they multiply, but I cleared the stones away.
I left my rock to lift you up,I left behind my story.
To give you strength to make your climb,to that special place in glory.
And never fear,The Rock is here,
You'll never climb alone.
Surmount life's sorrows,conitinue on,
For they are But stepping stones.
"Leave your troubles with the Lord, and He will help you through the hard times and days to come!John3:16
Bonnie
January 30, 2008
Maria you will never know how you have touched the hearts of the nation, the world. I pray you and Gabriel are happy now, safe in the Lord's house. You have touched me in ways unimaginable, and I pray justice is served. You were far to young to be taken away, but I understand God had another purpose for you. May you and your entire family be at peace.
January 30, 2008
Rest in peace, little ones.
No more pain in Heaven.
Ionmhainn
Joanne
January 30, 2008
Safe in the arms of Jesus
A fellow Ohioan
January 29, 2008
Such a sad sad situation for your family, only time and the good Lord above will ease your pain,I am so sorry for everyone concerned.
J. Ray
January 29, 2008
Maria, may you rest in peace and enjoy your baby, Gabriel, for all eternity. Your loss here on earth is truly a heartbreaking tragedy.
Ron Rosenthal, Sergeant of Marines, 1983 - 1997
January 29, 2008
Semper Fidelis Sister Marine.
May you find the peace in heaven that eluded you in life.
Rosie (WM) Marine Vietnam Era
January 29, 2008
Lance Cpl Maria Lauterbach
Proudly You Served, Thank you for serving our Country and God Bless you and your child.
From One Sister Marine to Another
Semper Fi
James Garley Commander
January 29, 2008
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
From the Members of Daniel D. Fernandez, VFW Post 9676, Los Lunas, NM
Sherie Habel
January 29, 2008
Vic & Mary,
May you know the comfort and peace that only God can give you during this time. I will remember you in my prayers.
Lois Shannon
January 29, 2008
I do not know your family,but I do know what you are going thru.I lost a daughter in May 2006.There is no words to describe the pain of losing a child.The pain will never go away,but it will ease with time.May God bless each of you.
CWO4 Natalie McPherson, USMC/Ret, Life Member Women Marines Association, MI-2 Chapter
January 29, 2008
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
They are in the glory of God. The Marines at the purly gates are watching over them now.
Tracey
January 29, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you get through this tough time.
deborah zeller
January 28, 2008
Your in our thoughts and prayers in this great time of need,may god bless you all...
Jo Sly
January 28, 2008
May you both be in peace wrapped in each others arms.
May justice prevail.
D. S.
January 28, 2008
Day by day, may the light of your special memories of Maria, diminish the shadow of your sorrow and bring you peace.
A USMC Family
January 28, 2008
Not enough words can give the comfort to ease the pain, but please know so many people are praying for your family. Only GOD can help you through this in a way like no one else can, and only HE can give you the comfort and strength you may need. From One Marine Family to Another, God Bless You and Semper Fi. We love you and are praying for you.
Rob & Donna
January 28, 2008
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
a virtual friend
January 28, 2008
May the two of you Rest In Peace and may God be with your family in this time of need!
Karen Schaffer
January 28, 2008
My heart aches for you losing a beautiful daughter and grandchild. I'm sure they are looking down from heaven and are with you even in death. God bless your family and give you comfort during this difficult time.
Mr. & Mrs. Zickefoose
January 28, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family in the loss of your daughter and her precious baby.
S Waldren
January 27, 2008
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
Jack Thomas
January 27, 2008
The Commandant, Officers, and Marines of the Major General Marion E. Carl Detachment 1089, Marine Corps League of Roseburg, Oregon, send our deepest and heartfelt sympathies.
Bob and Margie Zwiesler
January 27, 2008
Your daughter and grandchild will be in our thoughts and prayers at mass today.
Just a person who cares
January 27, 2008
You don't know me, but my heart goes out to your family for the loss of Maria and her baby. I am so sorry that this senseless act has taken these two beautiful lives from you. My deepest sympathies.
Alberta Hendricks
January 26, 2008
No words can express the pain I feel in my heart, for the loss of your loved ones, I only know them through the media. My heart is broken. God Bless You, An unknown
friend, Alberta Hendricks
Allison Neaveill
January 26, 2008
Maria and Gabriel, although it has been awhile since you and I have talked, I feel a closeness to you, we never would have thought. I remember our days at CTC, and I to went into the military, came out with broken feet. Probably what hit me the most is I am expecting my first child also, and after I reconized your picture on the news, I felt so sick at my stomach. I know you and Gabriel are in a much better place, and I pray your family will know I am there with them in prayers, and in my heart Maria, I hold a special place for you and Gabriel.
Patrick Mathes
January 26, 2008
May the love and grace of God be with you Maria and with your son Gabriel from this day forward. I pray that your family will trust in thir faith of Jesus Christ to help them through this very hard time. Rest in Peace. CJ '79
Rev Joseph Clark GySgt USMC Ret
January 26, 2008
To the Lauterbach family. I never met or knew your daughter but we shared the most gifted title in this world that of U.S. Marine. My heart goes out to each of you during this time and I pray God's blessing be with the family.
Tommy Davis
January 26, 2008
Dear Lauterbach Family. As a Retired Marine I understand the Heartbreak that you are going through at this time. Just remember that Maria & Gabriel are in a better place at this time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
SEMPER FIDELIS !!!!SSgt T.V. Davis
USMC Retired
Stephany Scott
January 26, 2008
To the Family I'm very sorry for your lost and may the Lord be with you in this time of Sorrow. God Bless This Family.
Sincerely, The Scott Family
Charlotte Lee
January 26, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Ralph Harbert
January 26, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
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