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Mary Merrill Obituary

MERRILL Mary V. Merrill (nee Nichols), age 60, Sunday, February 19, 2006 at Riverside Methodist Hospital. She was a graduate of The Ohio State University, founder and sole owner of Merrill Associates. Mary was a globally recognized expert and trainer of volunteer management. A frequent presenter at both world and national conferences, and a mentor, a leader, a visionary and a role model to many, she was a wonderful and loved wife, mother, daughter and grandmother. She is preceded in death by her father William H. Nichols and brother W. David Nichols and is survived by her husband, Willard "Bill"; daughter, Ann Marie of Kiev, Ukraine; son, Scott (Carina Silfverduk); granddaughters, Tayler and Tyler Silfverduk of Columbus; grandson, Kyle Kelm of Livingston, Tex.; mother, Virginia E. Nichols of Columbus; sister-in-law, Martha Nichols; nieces, Mary Rojas of Carson City, Nev. and Ruth (Doug) Zawadny; nephew, William Eric (Erika) Nichols. Friends may call Friday from 3-7 p.m. at the NOVAK FUNERAL HOME, 4476 N. High St., (two blocks north of Henderson Rd.), 268-8811. Her Mass of Christian Burial will be 10 a.m. Saturday at Immaculate Conception Catholic Church, 414 E. North Broadway. Msgr. Anthony Missimi, Celebrant. Inurnment at a later date in Mt. Calvary Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the American Heart Association, P.O. Box 163549, Columbus, Oh. 43216 or the Central Community House, P.O. Box 7047, Columbus, Oh. 43205 or the charity of your choice.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Feb. 22 to Feb. 24, 2006.

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Diana Williams

March 13, 2006

Mary Merrill presented at a VAN meeting in Maumee on January 18, 2006. It was the first time I met her. I personally spoke to her during break time and found her to be helpful, friendly, personable, and extremely knowledgable. I was very impressed with her and was so sorry to hear about her passing. Blessings to her many friends and family.

Amy Lively

March 6, 2006

On behalf of the Make-A-Wish Foundation of America, we express our sincere condolences to Mary's family. Her legacy to volunteerism is a gift that will never be forgotten.

Nancy & Matt) Davies

March 5, 2006

I just read of Mary's death in the Clintonville Booster. What a shock! Our prayers are with your family. I sponsored Mary to be on the Whetstone Advisory Board after she made an excellent presentation for a new playground. She was such an asset to the Council. I feel thankful for having known such an outstanding person. God Bless you all!

Sherrie Divierte

February 27, 2006

Bill, Scott and Ann and Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. Mary was a wonderful person, whom I had the pleasure of knowing, even if only for a short time. She was one of the strongest and most influential women I have known in my life. My heartfelt condolences to your family.

Rebecca Kalman

February 27, 2006

I received an excellent education in the field of volunteer admnistration from Mary's publications. I relied on her articles to keep me current and even proactive in the field. Although I never met Mary, I will miss her very much. Her family is in my thoughts.

Ann Bain

February 27, 2006

"The Scottish Association for Volunteer Management ( SAVM) was saddened to hear of the the sudden loss of Mary Merrill. She was due to be the keynote speaker at our 10th Anniversary National Confererence for Managers of Volunteers on the 30th of March.



The Executive Director of SAVM ( Ann Bain) , met Mary at AVA conferences and via the Journal of Volunteer Administration. She was so impressed with Mary's wide knowledge and approach that she persuaded her to come over to Scotland in October 2003 to lead SAVM's annual International Seminar. This was on Strategic Planning and was certainly one of the best rated events SAVM ever held . Typical Comments were " Congratulations for a most excellent day- the speaker was just so relevant" , " At last I understand strategic planning" "This event helped me to realise what needs updating" etc etc.

Indeed the event formed the basis of SAVM's own strategic plan so SAVM itself owes her a great debt.

Ann had the pleasure of hosting both Bill and Mary and of showing them a little of Scotland.



We know that she shared her skills unstintingly through America and Europe and worldwide and that her loss will be noted and mourned by all those whose lives she touched. Already comments are coming in from our members.



We will miss you Mary but your wisdom and work is your legacy and will give people advice and guidance for many years to come.Thanks

SAVM.

Pat Taft

February 26, 2006

Mary was truly an outstanding individual and I hope that all of these tributes will just reinforce what you, as her family, already knew...I was so sad to hear of Mary's passing..along with your family, the training world and field of volunteer management has suffered a major loss - her passion and expertise will be greatly missed.

John Lipp

February 26, 2006

Dear Bill and Family - Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Mary was a true leader in the field of volunteerism and made the world a far better place. She touched so many lives and, through her work, left a legacy that will continue to inspire and bring hope.

Susan Moscareillo

February 26, 2006

I am greatly saddened to hear of Mary's passing. Her work in the management of volunteers and nonprofit management was unparalleled, and a great inspiration to me in my work. She was also a lovely and gracious person. My heartfelt sympathies to her family on their loss.

Bryan & Kelly Barnhill

February 25, 2006

Scott - Our hearts are with you and your family as you mourn. The love and respect for your mother is apparent from the messages here - I am sorry I was never able to meet her. The mark she made in this world is not unnoticed, and I know you are proud of her.

Terri Ranck

February 24, 2006

Ann, I know your family and friends are happy to have you home with them, and so sorry to hear of the reason for your travel. May peace and understanding fill and heal you and may all the joy of your Mother's life be embraced and celebrated. Peace with Christ, Terri Ranck

Patricia Goeller

February 24, 2006

Dearest Bill, Scott and Ann Marie: So sorry to hear of your loss of Mary. I really believe she was a special person sent by God to help all those she touched. I haven't seen your family for several years but never have forgotten all our good times and our Marriage Encounter weekend. We shared many a good times together and I know how you will miss having her by your side. Special people come our way and Mary was one of those. I know she will meet up with Frank and they will hold such innocence and joy as angels from above. Let us thank God for his angels for he has left us not alone. They will guide us through the rest of our lives. Love Pat My prayers are with you and your family.

Denise Niese

February 24, 2006

Bill-



Mary touched the lives of many people. Her dedication made many organizations stronger and able to provide greater service to their constituents. She will be missed by many.



My thoughts are with you.



Denise

Diane Sharp-Keys

February 24, 2006

My deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Mary Merrill. I cannot place a value on the lessons learned and the avenues taken throughout my career in volunteer management, thanks to Mary's wisdom. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Roy Adams, DVS

February 24, 2006

The volunteer program at All Children's Hospital in St. Petersburg, FL benefitted from Mary's great advice over the years!

Kanti Kumar

February 24, 2006

We at UN Volunteers are very sad to learn of Mary passing away. She had been working with us in many areas over the years and in the last two years I've had the good fortune to work with her closely. She made excellent contributions to our website World Volunteer Web on volunteer management, which was the topic closest to her heart. With her we lost a fervent champion of volunteerism. She was not only committed and passionate about the cause, but also kind, warm and a very humble person. Our condolences to all in her family.

Jennifer Evans

February 24, 2006

Bill-

I am so sorry for your loss...She was your angel here and now she's your angel in heaven..Know that all of the thoughts and prayers of your coworkers are with you and your family..She is and always will be with you..May God keep you and your family close during this time of sorrow

Loretta Ward

February 24, 2006

Bill, I am sorry to hear about your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time.

Kristy Sweeney

February 24, 2006

Bill...my heart aches for you and your family. Even though I only met Mary one time I know that she was the light of your life. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this trying time. May the memories you and your family share of Mary comfort you. God Bless you all and if there is anything that I can do please do not hesitate to ask.

Amy Borders

February 24, 2006

Bill.. You are in my prayers. --Amy

Marti Sowka

February 24, 2006

My deepest sympathy to Mary's family during this difficult time. Like many, I first met Mary on line. I was then fortunate enough to meet her in person when I invited her to lead a day-long conference in Central Wisconsin on trends in volunteerism. She was inspirational-packed the day with a huge amount of relevant information. The evaluations of the event were stellar-she delivered-she always delivered! Her personality was such that strangers who needed her expertise quickly became friends-and Wisconsin was no different. She became a friend and mentor who I emailed frequently over sticky issues. Her response was always quick and on target.



Mary will be missed by so many in the field of volunteerism. She was a bridge-builder who achieved success and significance in her life work. Her bridges live on in those she touched. I am honored to have known her and grateful for every conversation we had.

Nancy Gaston

February 24, 2006

I extend heartfelt sympathy to Mary's family. Mary brought a wonderful gift to her professional association, AVA, with her great blend of academic theory and good practices in the field of volunteer management. As editor of The Journal of Volunteer Administration, she provided practitioners with solid and helpful articles on applied research. She will be greatly missed.

Michelle Hardin

February 24, 2006

My condolences to Mary's loved ones. I haven't seen or talked to Mary in years, but I remember her well through the Volunteer Administrators' Network (VAN).

She was one of the kindest and friendliest persons I have ever known - always generous with sharing her time and her expertise. She will truly be missed.

Dean and Karen Gross

February 24, 2006

Bill and Family,

We are so very sorry for your loss. Mary was an amazing person who made everyone feel special. Her great love of others was so evident in her beautiful eyes and gentle voice. She will be missed by many and we feel very fortunate to have known both of you through the Marriage Encounter community. You are in our thoughts and prayers!

Love,

Jim and Meg Morabito

February 24, 2006

We send our love and prayers. Our world has a hole in it... Mary is a gift from God that touched us and so many others.

We wish we could personally give our hugs and presence but we are with you Bill and Ann Marie and Scott... many fond memories.

Meghan Kaskoun

February 24, 2006

Bill and Family,

There are many who are grieving with you, but probably none feeling the loss as deeply. Know that there is a world of love coming your way, and that any help you may need is there for the asking.

Theresa Berkoski

February 24, 2006

Please accept my deepest sympathy of your loss. Mary was such a huge contributor to the field in which I have dedicated my life to. She has been a mentor of mine and I have always appreciated her. I had many interactions with her at AVA conferences and I appreciated her gumption and her tenacity. She has taught me to not be afraid to speak my mind and I believe that she truly has empowered many in our field. She will be greatly missed in our world, but she has left many handprints that will never be forgotten. To all that knew her, we feel all the more blessed and for those who will read from her articles and books, I am sad they will never get the chance to meet such a wonderful person as her, however they will continue to learn from her because she truly left her mark on the world of Volunteer Management. There will always be people like myself who will remember her and be thankful for what she has done to make the world of Volunteer Management so extradordinary. Thank you for sharing her with us. She will be greatly missed. Sincerely,

Tovi Martin

February 23, 2006

Mary was a fabulous trainer and was greatly respected by many in the field of volunteer administration. She will be missed.

Our thoughts, prayers, and wishes are with your family and friends in the days, weeks, and months to come.

Hiba Nasser

February 23, 2006

On behalf of The Muslim Women's Network, we offer our sincerest sympathies for your loss. Mary was a dear friend and colleague to people of all faiths. We shall remember her with great respect and affection.

Jackie Wynn

February 23, 2006

Mary was a great mentor! I met Mary by attending one of her workshops eight years ago when I entered the field of Volunteer Management. Mary generously offered many words of wisdom and gave me much encouragement over the years. To Mary's family, may you find comfort in your memories and the love you share. Sincerely, Jackie Wynn

Kathleen Radcliff

February 23, 2006

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Take good care and God Bless you and your family.



Kathleen Radcliff

Karen Carlisle

February 23, 2006

My sympathy and prayers are with you and family.

Jean Carter

February 23, 2006

Bill, Scott, Ann and family:

My sympathy to you. Mary has been a wonderful friend to me and an "Aunt" to my children. I will keep in my heart her warmth, her deep love of family and friends, and her strong faith in Gods love.

Martin Jenkins

February 22, 2006

Mary's impact on the many organizations and causes for which she worked so hard cannot be overstated. If that wouldn't be enough of a contribution to make, she became friend and mentor to very many colleagues, thereby making her loss even harder to comprehend. She made a difference!

Woods Bowman

February 22, 2006

She will be missed by all of us in academic circles who study volunteering hoping to understand how to make the world a better place. Mary did it. She made the world a better place.

Bruce Summers

February 22, 2006

Mary was a mentor, a role model and a tremendous resource for me and for many colleagues at the American Red Cross. She will be greatly missed.

Rita Reynolds

February 22, 2006

Bill, know that you and your family are in my prayers. Rita

Michael & Beth Ann Ball

February 22, 2006

Bill, Ann Marie, Scott and family,

We are so sorry to hear of your great loss. Mary was indeed a visionary, role model, leader and mentor. We, like so many others whose lives she touched, benefited from all of her gifts. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

We have told many times the story of the night that our Alexander was born and we had been invited to dinner at your home. You had actually staged a wonderful surprise - a couples baby shower with all of our mutual Marriage Encounter friends. We stopped on the way to the hospital to receive hugs and well wishes. All of you prayed for us during labor and delivery. This story is so typical of the Merrill creativity and generosity. We will hold all of you in our hearts forever.

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