Amy, I have to just say, you have taught me so very much. I too joined the Catholic church a couple years ago, and brought my husband back after 40 yrs. I am thrilled to be a Cathilic, and to see you and your strength and grace, you sent a great message to all of us. I know that God will bless you in the most wonderful ways, just continue to except his love and comfort. He will wipe the tears from your eyes, and you will see Patrick, or Paddy again one day. Bless those children and keep them close to our Lord. My heart has been with you all week, and will continue to be with you, and you and the children are in my prayers. God Bless all of you.