Hi baby girl, I miss u, god I miss u !! Halloween was not the same without u, we decorated the grave for and Tiff dad carved a great big pumpkin with your name on it and a candle inside it burned for days until the deer started eating it. Lol. Thanksgiving will b here soon, but Christmas will b the absolute worst!! I just want it all to b over . Please get me throu the holidays, I can't do it alone. On November 21 st going to see a medium at Salem creek side inn, PLEASE Ashley come to me Love Mommy xoxoxoxo
Hi Ash Irish weekend is coming up and I can't help but think about last year and how much fun we had. Ashley "Irish potato head" Aldworth I will never forget that day. I still can't believe you did that hahaha just another memory of you that makes me smile :). I know you will be and I don't have to ask but help your best out this weekend please. We all miss you like crazy Claudette 4. Our special angel for life. Love you <3 Amber (Claudette 1)
hi Ashley, wishing u were here sooooooooo bad,miss u more then ever. Iam watching Andrew today n we were talking about u n he said he misses u too.There r no words on how much we miss u. Your friends r so good they always talk about u n keep u alive in memory. I know u r looking down at me n saying, Mom please stop crying.... I can never seem to write to u without the tears running down my faceDana n Kevin r living together now, he moved in and things r good. Lindsay is going to Britt Treude's wedding shower today(wow can;t believe she is getting married) i will never see u walking down the isle in church n having babies n making our family grow bigger n that kills me.... Shark got a new job n starts on monday, we r so happy for him(think u helped him get it) Dad misses u so much too n he seems to be getting bettter from his stroke( again u helped) Dom goes to see u every night n never misses a night he is so sad..I know u r with me i just want to hold u, i love u baby girl my heart is with u in heaven
Hi Ash. I can't believe it is Labor Day Weekend already. This summer went by so fast. :( I miss you a lot, but I know that you have been right there with us at Club Claude's this summer. You were so sad when I told you Mary and Claude were selling Claude's because you wouldn't see ponytail again. When I seen him this summer I was so excited to tell you he was still there, I know you were up there cracking up at him with me!! I will never understand why this happened to you, to us, to your family. But I will always cherish the memories I have with you and believe that you will always be here with us to guide us and lift us up when we are down. Love you Ash always and forever <3 Xoxoxo Claudette #1
Hi Baby Girl, MY days seem to great worse as time goes on without u here, i hate this. It's wrong of god to take u, there was so much more for u to do here yet. I don't understand!!!!! Missing u lots..... Do u remember the girl Gia Allemand from our TV show we always watched together The Bachelor, well she died, she took her own life, she was 29 close to your age. You probably already know this but u always thought she was so pretty i thought maybe the two of u could become friends up there n keep each other company. It helps me to think your not alone because u loved your friends so here, especially that crazy Tiffany Kalman, who misses you soooooo much. Talk to u soon my baby girl
love mommy xoxoxoxoxxoxoxocoxo
Dear Aldworth Family, I am so sorry to hear of Ashley's fatal accident. Please accept my sympathy and condolences.
hi Baby Girl, i love u so much and miss your beautiful smile always n forever mommy xoxoxoxo
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May God Bless all of you.
To all of Ashley's Family: You continue to be in ou thoughts and prayers. Words can not convey the heaviness in our hearts for each of you. We pray for peace, comfort and strength. We did not know your Ashley but did know the joy she brought to her family and pray that the deep pain you are in may one day lift and that joy fills your hearts with all the wonderful memories each of you hold so dear. We know it's almost six months since Ashley has been called home and that a void so deep within your hearts makes getting out of bed some days extremely difficult. Please know you and Ashley's entire family are being prayed for Donna and any one of you can contact me if you ever would like to talk.
Sincerely, Dave and Eleanor Nagele
Hi Beautiful, today that little boy Bradon Boyle will be buried at St.Dominic's Cemetery,so sad, he is the 13yr old that went swimming in pennypack creek and drowned. His grave is really close to yours, u can see it from yours, so Ash take him in your arms today and hold him tight for his family and be his heaven mommy..... H e will love u as everyone does, u were so good with kids and i think God is putting him near u for a reason...fly high my pretty and continue to help your family its so hard we miss u soooooo very much,love u forever till i see u again baby xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox love mommy
I miss u mommy, love Morgie
Hi Baby----Love Mommy <3
WE MISS U
I miss u soo much-i keep waiting for u to come in my bedroom n say goodnight mom, give me a kiss n take morgan to bed....that was every night even on weekends when u went out!!! so how does one go on without that. so many things r a daily reminder of what we lost. Your room is exactly the way u left it (neat as usual) never anything just thrown on the floor or where it shouldn't be..u truly were a neat freak...i look at your toothbrush n cry my eyes out, or your air brush makeup that i know u used your last night here. I know u wouldn't want me to be sad n cry all the time but you won't win this one--cause as long as i live n breathe, i will miss and cry for you my sweet sweet Ashley xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Just thinking about you Nicki. Miss you like crazy!! Feel like not only our lives but so many other things are different and changing since you have been gone. When I look at your pictures still say to myself no way this isn't real. I hope your up there with my Daddy, I think you guys will get a long great :) I love you and miss you both more than you'll ever know xoxoxo Amber
Hey Ash! Miss you like crazy! This summer just is not the same without you physically here...I am so thankful for the past 3 amazing summers I got to spend with you at Claude's!
I miss rooming with you & waking you up early talking you & tiffs ear off as usual while you guys would say "moll shut up!" I miss your "hey girl," that beautiful smile, your hilarious jokes, and that one of a kind laugh- you always knew how to make everyone laugh- ESP with the "ohhhh Helen" or just simply saying "thattttttt" before everything you said! Or how could I forgot the "your mother" jokes!
Ill miss getting you barbecue chicken pizza from JoJo's & the side of meatballs from wawa! Haha you loved that!
Ill miss you singing nicki while getting ready! Ill even miss how long it took for you (and tiff) to get ready- and boyyyyy was that long!! haha Ill miss your surprise dust plugs that you would bring me down (the corn on the cob one is my favorite)! Ill miss all of the cool new accessories for your phone -you & tiff would always have new ones like each weekend! Ill miss looking through all the jewelry & sunglasses you would buy- which was like a million! Ill miss seeing you in those Jeffery Campbells, I still don't know how you made it out in those all night! Hahaha ill miss the irish potato eating contest! That was hilarious!!
This summer is going to be a rough one Roomie!
The list goes on and on of all the things that remind me of our summers at Claude's.... But you are our special angel Claudette this year and I know you will be by our side in everything we do and your memory will live on with us always and forever!
Love and Miss you so much Ash
Ash I really miss you wish you were here so bad. Please help us all out a little extra lately. Love and miss you always. Amber
Today is Memorial Day, outside it's sunny and nice n people r having BBQS, even your family is having a small one, they will always be small ones without u, we will never celebrate again the way we did when u were here with us, NEVER. People say i must go on, and i will somehow but no one will know me anymore because i really died when u did.....my head n heart is always with u Babygirl iLove You soooooooooooooooo much
Love Mommy <3
Hey Claudette #4,
So next weekend is Memorial Day weekend already. Walking not Club Claude's is going to be so hard, waking up at Claude's is going to be so hard, going thru this entire summer without you seems so unreal. I am going to miss that laugh, all your funny comments, crawling into your bed to wake you and Tiff up in the morning, and texting from the other room. Ash I am just going to miss you, you brought out the positive in everyone, your laughter filled the room, and your smile so contagious.
The shore will not be anywhere close to the same without you. We have so many memories most from the shore. Me and Brett always talk about the day we went banana boating and you couldn't move for days you said you were so sore that you couldn't even drive your car. Haha you never went banana boating with us again. The bunnies story always my favorite. Thatttttt carpet cleaner hahahah And Irish Weekend there will never be one better than last and you in the Irish Potato eating contest. God am I so happy to have made all of these memories with you there isn't one that doesn't automatically bring a smile to my face. This summer is going to be a tough one but I know there is no place you would want us to spend it then Club Claude's :)
It's crazy the things we take for granted; the sound of someone's laugh, a text, a friend, a family member, life itself. These are all things I will never take for granted again and I am so happy your laugh is a hard one to ever forget I hear it all the time. Your memory will always be alive within us Ash, I know you will be there with us but in a different way this summer, Our Angel Claudette Four I love and miss you always and forever Nicki!! Love, Amber
Ps: wrap your arms around Donna she really needs to feel her baby girl. We all are taking care of Miss Morgan Rayden and Her are best friends I bet your loving watching her with Rayden :)
Today was a really hard day, missing u more n more. Everything i see or do reminds me of you and brings tears to my eyes. Dom is missing u and swears u r here with us, he hears u at night n even Morgan stares n barks at door coming into our bedroom where she would wait for u to enter, its like she knows u r there (god i hope u r)..Your friends love n miss u and still call n come (thank god) I don't know what i would do without them. There was a mass up at church for u tonight at 7, Me n Dad n Dana were there, also a mass on Monday morning for u too. Your sister Lindsay is cleaning her room right now if u can believe that, she is trying so hard to b strong n misses u so much...Its so lonely in this house without u here, please give us a sign..... We Love You Ashley Girl
We took reed to the aquarium on Saturday. Tiff told me that you and her went on a "date" there last year. seriously, who does that. She misses you. We all miss you. Reed is a little monster now. He learned to crawl up one step and he is obsessed with Food. I still can't believe this is real. Love you
Hi Ashley, The nice weather is here now and i feel sadder u should b here getting ready for the shore with the girls,this just doesn't seen real to us.We can't wake up from this horrible horrible nightmare even as i write this to you i think wait this didn't happen. t
I think about u everyday all day every second of the day. I found myself sitting there eyes closed i can feel the hot tears start to fill my eyes as i struggle to tighten my eyelids the tears drip down from under and roll down my face forcing me to open my eyes and the dam opens up again until a phone rings,a dog barks,a knock on the door or Morgan licking my tears away,for that second i am distracted,then it starts all over again and again until i am so drained i drift off to an unsettled sleep and awake with tears on my pillow, i found out the hard way we can cry in our sleep as well.So this is what my life has become since you have been gone my precious daughter. I am on a raft out in an ocean and the world is going on but i can't seem to get back on land!! Please show me a sign anything Ash Please I Love You baby girl
I CANT STAND THIS PAIN ASHLEY I MISS AND LOVE U SOOOOO MUCH! YOUR SISTERS R LOST WITHOUT U AND MISS YOUR FUNNY COMMENTS AND SMILE. EVERYONE LOVES U SO VERY MUCH. YOUR NANNIE IS SO SAD N DADDY CRIES ALOT AND SHARK IS STILL WAITING FOR U TO COME IN THE DOOR. I WANT U HOME WITH ME ASH.
LOVE FOREVER N EVER N EVER
Happy Birthday Ash!!!!!!
I hope your celebrating big up there today!! We all miss you so so so much down here...it just seems to be getting harder, not a day does by that I don't think about you or wonder how much better life would be if you were still here! I am so grateful for the time we had together and all the memories we shared-they will live on in me forever Ash! Us girls will keep your memory alive in everything we do Ash, I promise that!!!
As the summer time approaches I think of all the amazing memories we have had at Claudes these past 3 summers-Boyyyyy have they been some of the craziest\funniest times in my life ! So thankful to have met you ash! You truly brought the best out in people- always cracking a joke, always having laugh, you truly loved life!
This summer I know you will be our special Claudette angel watching over us and we will keep your memory alive with us in everything we do :-)
Keep a lookout for our balloon messages at 3:00!!!
Miss and Love you so much Aldy Girl :-)
Just a quick hello! Baby reed is crawling all over the place and even pulling himself up! It has gone by too fast! I really wish you could hold him and play. His laugh is so cute! He LOVES his high chair, every time I put him in it, I think of you. I kinda sorta started planning the wedding. It's really for me and mostly tiff to comprehend that you won't be there. But hopefully your family will come and we know you will be there in sprit. We miss and love you Rog.
Hey baby girl,
Happy Easter its a couple days later but i was really really sad and didn't want to write to you crying ha what a joke.... it seems thats all i do, everyone tells me to think of all the good
things about you, but that only makes me cry harder if thats possible, i didn't know a person called cry so much, trying to figure how to stop crying but it hurts so bad. Your friends have been great all of them Ash, you would be so proud of them, they all miss u so much...... Easter they came to see your family and you, Tiff, as usual slept over the night before and gave me n Lin beautiful flowers and a basket for lindsay, she is taking care of your sissy for u.... Jamie also came with flowers for us, so did Karrianne bring flowers and ham [your favorite] n crab dip, strawberries n dip, and carol my friend left flowers on our bench out front, it was a nice surprise when i opened the door,and Kim n A J came with flowers, she misses u so much, and of course Aunt Lu and Nannie Smokey were here for us too. Later when we came to see u, we all talked to u and wished u a happy easter n told u we miss and love u so much. Oh and incase u didn't know, your sister Lindsay spent a coupe hours with u at the cemetery so u wouldn't b alone. Your two sisters miss u sooooooo much, and Andrew and Deleana too
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo Love Mommy
No matter how busy my life can be with school and what not, there is not a day that I do not think about you,Ash. I constantly think about you, your best, and your family. My heart hurts so bad and I wish there was something I could do to bring you back. It's just not fair that someone so full of life was taken from us. I cannot think of another person that could turn a simple comment into a room full of laugther - ooooh helen, thhhaaaat, oh mylanta...It brings a smile to my face when I think about you. I had a customer the other day order a margarita with salt and I just laughed, because I imagined you singing the Nikki song - with salt all around that rim rim rim..You were truly one of a kind Ash, and im honored to say you are my friend. I will cherish every memory we shared and never forget you angel. Love you and miss you so much claudette.
Hey baby girl,
Happy Saint Patrick's Day, Im sure you r at some heaven bar right now drinking with new and old friends laughing and smiling as u always did. Listen, look around that place for a very old dear friend of mine, her name is Teresa Marquard, you will have so much in common, she loved life too,she loved her family, she had many friends,she always had a smile,and her family misses her very much just like yours Ash. Wrap your arms around each other n pull your energies together and send your families a sign that u are together helping each other.
Love Mom xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
hi ashley i miss you so much...love you always and forever!
Love Mom xoxoxoxo
Hey aldy girl!
Where do I even begin... I still feel like this is unreal and wish it was! I miss you so so much! I miss your laugh, your smile, your love for life, the way you always said "hey girl", I miss your obsession with morgan and anything that related to a weiner dog, I miss your love for cute little piggys, I miss our inside jokes & waking up to group texts with you & tiff, I miss the way you would call me "moll", ill miss you making all those dust plugs- love everyone you made for me esp the corn on the cob haha you knew that was my favorite! haha and you loved the name I made up for your little business Dustys by Aldy/ Plugs by Aldy! Ill miss the way we always joked around with eachother about our dogs- like how rudy wears a suit and speaks french! I will miss the your mom/ your dad joke haha, Ill miss the texts you would send me after the ridicoulous pictures I would post on your face book! and who could forget our dancing elf video this christmas- you might have laughed for like 10 minutes when I showed that video to you at finnagins!
Ill especially miss my roomie this summer at Claudes but I know you will be with us at heart
I could go on forever with all of the things I will miss about you!
Please watch over and show some signs to your family- who is truly amazing! Tiff- your best, and the rest of us girls! Your always in our hearts Ash
Love you always :-)
Hey aldy girl!
Where do I even begin... I still feel like this is unreal and wish it was! I miss you so so much! I miss your laugh, your smile, your love for life, the way you always said "hey girl", I miss your obsession with morgan and anything that related to a weiner dog, I miss your love for cute little piggys, I miss our inside jokes & waking up to group texts with you & tiff, I miss the way you would call me "moll", ill miss you making all those dust plugs- love everyone you made for me esp the corn on the cob haha you knew that was my favorite! haha and you loved the name I made up for your little business Dustys by Aldy/ Plugs by Aldy! Ill miss the way we always joked around with eachother about our dogs- like how rudy wears a suit and speaks french! I will miss the your mom/ your dad joke haha, Ill miss the texts you would send me after the ridicoulous pictures I would post on your face book! and who could forget our dancing elf video this christmas- you might have luahged for like 10 minutes when I showed that video to you at finnagins!
Ill especially miss my roomie this summer at Claudes but I know you will be with us at heart and watching over us
I could go on forever with all of the things I will miss about you!
Please watch over and show some signs to your family- who is truly amazing! Tiff- your best- im worried about her, and the rest of us girls! Your always in our hearts Ash
Love you always :-)
One month...I still see your pain so visibly raw and my heart aches for you. The deepest sadness in your eyes, the inconsolable grief, the uncontrollable tears...no greater pain than the loss of a son or daughter...you've had both. Those who loved and were close to Ashley now have a void in their life that we can only try to fill with caring thoughts, prayers and love. You have mine <3
I usually say that as you walk into the kitchen or I see you sitting on the couch. Never could I have imagined I would be writing it here.
I miss you more than anyone could ever imagine. I miss your smile, your face and the way you called me annoying. I wish I would have told you how I felt about you when you were here. You were never a step daughter. You were my daughter. I loved you and cared for you as my daughter. I hope that you knew that. My heart is broken and will never fully heal. I would give anything to see you sitting in the living room eating chinese food and watching Greys Anatomy.
I talk to you everyday. I know that you can hear me. I have a request. Please take care of mom, Dana, Lindsay and dad. Especially mom. Don't worry about Morgan. We are all taking care of her. I even got closer to her. I know that makes you happy. She is all I have left of you besides my thoughts and memories. I miss my daughter terribly.
And baby, if you have a window where you are " beep beep, look out the window" I love you.
It's been a month without you, I still don't understand why. From the moment I first met you in Texas, I knew that you would be in our lives forever. The weekend I came up with your nickname was such an amazing weekend. I'll never forget sitting across the table from you and listening to tiff make fun of your teeth and how they looked like a rabbit. And minutes later I just randomly called you Roger and we all started laughing. From then on you came Rog, roger and aunt Rog to our family. It's so hard to think you won't be around to see Reed grow up. I can't even comprehend the thought of you not being at his 1st birthday party and being our "photographer"! Haha. We had a red/valentine family dinner the other night. I so bad wish you were there, I know it was hard for tiff that you weren't. She loves you Rog, I worry about her. Just send her lots of signs that you are watching over her. We love you like our own! roger that girl!
Such a special person...gone too soon. You touched so many lives with your caring warmth and sweet smile. I will remember you with love always!
Yoooooo girl! (I swear I can never not think of you every time I hear that) I can't believe it's been a month already. I still feel like I'm going to just run into you at the next function and smack your butt or light up a cigg, lol, remember when I put the cigg in your santa's mouth down the shore and you were soooo mad at me I texted you the next day 15 times bc I felt so awful and of course you could never stay mad for more than 5 minutes! You were seriously one of the happiest people I've ever met, alwayssssssss had a smile and never complained about a damn thing. The world would be a better place with a lot more Ashley's running around, that's for sure. I just wanted to check in. I can't stop thinking about your family and Tiff and how much they are hurting, please watch over them and give them strength, as I know you will... don't have too much fun up there! I'm sure you already made a million friends and have 10 pet dogs by now lol... sending a picture of Russel up to you!! Everyone thought we were so annoying with our dogs haha.... it's not our fault they were the cutest dogs in the world :) You are greatly missed, Ash! I will check in next time with hopefully a funny and embaressing story about Tiffany ;) Until next time! xoxoxo
I couldn't really bring myself to write to you on here or on Facebook because I just don't believe this is true yet. The world works in the craziest of ways it is so unpredictable and it is so unfair, at times like this it just sucks. Hard to believe that I won't hear that contagious laugh of yours again. When I sit back and think of you a smile comes upon my face automatically. We had so much fun and for that I am thankful, I am thankful tho cut short that I had the oppurtunity to meet you, the opportunity to call you my friend, a Claudette, and now my very special angel. I am thankful for all the memories us girl made together, those which bring me comfort every time I think of you. If there is anything that I learned from you it's how short life is, I learned to not take anything in life for granted that at any given moment we can loose someone so very special to us. I learned from your love of life to live it to the fullest and enjoy every moment. And most of all to always be happy because I can't picture a memory of you without a smile on your face. Well I would be lying if I forgot the first time I saw you mad, I was actually scared lol we were all ready for no shower happy hour and waiting for you to get down the shore so we could leave, you came down and still needed to shower as we were all dressed sitting there you went in your room opened the door and out came mad Ashley "you guys can just go". Of course we waited and had a great day :) or the time we had a cake fight in Claude's and every single person in the house got "caked" but when we got you coming out of the bathroom you were not very happy but we still got a laugh out of it. How about when we went banana boating, you could not move for days, you said you couldn't even drive your arms were so sore you never went with us again. Our beach bash was probably one of the best days we had down the shore. The bunnies will always be my favorite story tho that and your Irish potato eating contest with the best coach ever :) I could honestly go on and on with stories about all the memories that come to mind when I think about you and am so happy I will always have them. I know this summer will be hard and sad but I also know you will be with us you will always be our angel Claudette (#4). I know just from the snow that we have had every weekend since this tragedy, that you are letting us know you are here and not missing a weekend with the girls.
Your family has been so amazing during this time. I admire their strength, and the support they have for one another. I know it's so unfair and the time they had with you was so short but I also know how lucky you were and especially they were to have a family like yours. I know you probably would be freaking out with all of us girls hanging out with your family at your house all the time I can hear you now "I can't deal" or "I'm so embarrassed" every time someone is telling a story or doing something. But like it or not they are now our family also and we are not going anywhere. Can't forget your baby Morgan, Rayden loves her and talks about her all the time. She even tried to pant Tyson's nails to look like hers.
And Tiffany, Tiffany, Tiffany. I am going to need your help with her, I have no idea how you did it ;) I know that you will always be by her side tho, so send her extra signs when she needs them. I know how proud you are of her she is doing great in school and its all for you. Please Give her patience with me also cause I know I am driving her crazy lol. Thank you for being her best and giving her so many amazing memories, I promise to be there for her always.
Not a day has gone by that I haven't thought of you but when I think of you I can't think that your not here because its still so crazy and unreal to me. You were such a great friend especially to me. My aunt has called me a few times heartbroken to hear about what happened. She remembers when my dad was in the hospital the support you showed me and seeing you at the hospital almost every day. It's crazy someone who has only met you a few times could already tell the type of person you are and how blessed I was to have a friend like you. Nothing will be the same without you, us girls, Club Claude's were not complete without you but I promise in everything we do we will think of you and I know that you will always be with us as our own very special angel. I love you Ash, Ashley Aldworth, Ashley Irish Potato Head Aldworth, Claudette #4, Nicki, Our Angel. Always and forever <3 <3 <3 Claudette #1
IM SORRY IT TOOK ME LONG TO WRITE ON HERE YOU KNOW HOW I AM NOT TOO SAVY WITH COMPUTERS. YOU USED TO DIE THAT I DIDNT HAVE FACEBOOK. HAHA I ACTUALLY THINK I MADE YOU WRITE MY NAME WHEN YOU CHECKED EVERYONE IN AT EVERYWHERE!
I STILL CANT BELIEVE THIS IS REAL. YOUR GORGEOUS SMILE WILL FOREVER BE IN ALL OF OUR HEADS AND HEARTS. I HAD A SUPRISE GOING AWAY PARTY AT PADDYWACKS BASEMENMT FRIDAY AND ALL I KEPT THINKING ABOUT WAS YOUR PARTY AND YOU AND YOUR FACE WALKING INTO THAT PARTY HAHA. IM OFFICIALLY A CLAUDETTE THIS YEAR, I WISH MORE THEN LIFE ITSELF YOU WERE GOING TO BE THERE. NOTHING IS THE SAME WITHOUT YOU. MY HEART HURTS FOR YOUR FAMILY AND TIFF. I WISH I COULD TAKE SOME OF THE PAIN AWAY FOR THEM. PLEASE WATCH DOWN ON EVERYONE ASH. I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH.
I love my high chair you got me! Mommy made me some nasty food! Bet you would have said it was nasty too! I'm getting big and fun now. I wish you and Aunt T could play with me, like you did that one day when you said I was the coolest 4 month old you knew. Love you aunt Rog,
P.s aunt T misses you more than you could ever think. She's lost without. Send her a sign that you are doing great! K?
Never did I think I'd see the day where I had to sit down and try to find the right words to attribute to the friendship we shared, while also trying to comprehend the fact that life has forced me to say goodbye to one of the kindest, funniest and most beautiful girls I've ever had the privilege of calling my friend. You were my first true friend, the first person I ever called my best friend, and while our level of closeness varied at different points in our lives, you and I both know just how special we were to one another. When I think of you, I will think of the little girl who threw the ball across the street because she wanted to meet me and I will also think of the beautiful, light-hearted woman who always made me laugh, always supported me and always gave me a sense of comfort just by being parked out front of her house across from mine.
Neither of us had a comparable friendship that spanned the significant timeframe that ours did. However, as many years as we were fortunate enough to have together, I still feel so hurt and confused that our time was cut so short. We still had so much left to do and say. You were supposed to be in my wedding, be an aunt to my future children and watch our kids grow to be friends the way we were. It's really hard, but I'm trying my best not to focus on the fact that you won't be here in the future, and to instead focus on how lucky I am to have had a friend like you in my past. You've been there for everything, Ash, and I mean everything. Birthdays, our first kisses, crushes, sleepovers, sports teams, vacations, working at the daycare, parties, late nights, loves and losses...I could go on and on.
If there's one more thing I need from you, it's to please be with your family right now: Lindsay, Dana, Dom, your Dad and especially your Mom, she needs you more than ever. You know how she always worries that you're okay… that will never stop. I'll do my best to always be there for Lindsay and be the best friend that I can be. It's going to be really hard for her to continue to grow up without you by her side and it will never be the same for her. I hope to continue to befriend your best, Tiff, and offer her even the slightest comfort in all of this. I know she's a great friend and that she made your last few years here so much fun and so full of love and laughter. I can't thank her enough for that.
Most of all, I need to thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for loving me so unconditionally, even with the mistakes I've made in our friendship. You've played a huge role in my life and helped shape the person I am today. For that, I am forever grateful and I will continue to look up to you, as I always have. If there's one promise I can make to you, it's the promise to take you with me wherever I go in life. Every step of the way, through good times and bad, as old as I may get, no matter how crazy or hectic things become, I promise to always put a special moment aside to feel you there with me. I know you always will be and I know your love and friendship will live on within me, forever.
I love you, I miss you and I'll think of you always.
Your "neighbor" and friend,
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY AUNT ASHLEY
LOVE U FOREVER
LOVE ANDREW AND DELEANA XOXOXOXO
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY SASHY
WE LOVE AND MISS U VERY MUCH
To the Aldworth Family:
My heart is so heavy with sorrow for all of you on the tragic loss of your beloved Ashley. For reasons far beyond our comprehension, God has once again given you an immense burden to carry - a burden no parent could imagine.
There was always something very special about our Ashley. She was a kind and gentle soul as far back as I can remember, and boy did she like to have fun! She loved her family soooooo much. I feel so blessed to have had the honor of being her aunt for the last 25 years. I wish we had more time with her. I have so many fond memories of Ashley and am so glad that Colin grew up with her and Lindsay...what fun sisters they were! Ashley will be so sadly missed. Our lives will never be the same without her. Please, everyone who reads this...please keep our family, especially Ashley's mother, father, step-dad, sisters, Nan and her best friend, Tif, in your prayers, and ask God to give them the strength they need to survive this tragedy. Thank you!
MY DEAR SWEET SASHY,
DEAR DANA, WORDS CAN NOT EXPRESS HOW SORRY DAVE AND I ARE FOR YOU AND FOR YOUR FAMILIES LOSS.THEY SAY WE ARE NOT SUPPOSE TO QUESTION BUT HOW CAN WE NOT AT TIMES LIKE THIS. YOU ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS DAILY;MEMORRIES WILL ALWAYS BE IN YOUR HEART AND MIND.GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. WE LOVE YOU
Love you to the moon and back, forever and ever...
To the Aldworth Family, Our thoughts and Prayers are with you all. You have always been there for our family when we needed you. God Bless You All, The von Vital Family and Viozzi Family
Dear Donna, Harry, Dom, Dana, Lindsay, Tiffany and sweet Morgan,
To say we are sorry for your loss doesn't express how deeply we feel. Both Cathy and I will be here for you
whatever you need...oh Donna, our hearts break...you and your family are in our prayers daily...just pick up the phone and we will be there always. Love, Cathy Allan & Carol Brooks
Dear Harry, Donna, Dana and Lindsey,
This is the hardest note of condolence that I have ever written. Please know that I keep all of you in my prayers, as well as your beautiful daughter, Ashley, who we all know is a beautiful angel in heaven now. We can never begin to understand the reasons why God calls home such a beautiful girl as Ashley, our only consolation is that He picked the best of the best to be with Him in heaven...and although this doesn't seem fair to those who loved her here on earth, it was done for reasons we can't comprehend at this time.
May the loving arms of Our Lord surround each and every one of you, as He whispers words of comfort to you, and gives you the strength to carry on. Take comfort in the many happy memories of Ashley, I am sure there are plenty, and know that I am here for you.
My prayers and deepest sympathy go out to you.
Angie (Fehrle) O'Mara
Recognizing Ashley's life, the laughter, love, and goodness she gave, will fuel many fond memories. We noticed, God will remember, and His promises of life everlasting will come to pass. So have faith and do not wonder, for the true God will take delight in fullfilling his word.
To the Aldworth Family,
I am very sorry to hear about the loss of Ashley. My older children went to school with Ashley and Lindsey at St. Dominic's. And became very close while working together at Accurate Response. They always had great things to say about Ashley and always talked about her beautiful smile. God Bless all of you. Anna Volz
Miss Ashley I had fun wiith you at school when my mom had to go to work you were a fun teacher
Dear Donna,I'm so deeply sorry for your loss. All of you are in my prayers. I hopeyou find comfort in the memories Ash has given all of you.
Sending many thoughts and prayers to Ashley's family and friends. She was such a beautiful young woman who had a smile that could light up any room.
While I know there is nothing that can take away from the pain right now, I hope you find comfort in knowing that her smile will continue to shine on forever.
I am so sorry for your loss I believe you guys know my parents karen carr-kriebel and edward kriebel i could never understand what you are going through if i lost my son I don't know what i would do with my selfs my prayers are with you stay strong<3
Dear Harry and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you. Please find some comfort in the memories that surround and embrace you at this time and cherish them forever. May she rest in peace.
I am truely sorry for the loss of your daughter. Your family will be in my prayers.
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Harry,Donna,Dana and Lindsay.Our families share in your lose of Ashley, As we know what the hurt is in losing a child. Your family will stay forever strong at this sad time, and God will be there to guide each and everyone of you.God bless you all.
Harry, Dana, Lindsey & Aldworth Family,
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. May God give all of you the strength to bear this terrible burden. Just know when you see a star in the heavens that shines a little brighter than all the rest, that is Ashley smiling down and blessing all of you.
I can't stop thinking of you and all if the great memories growing up together. I will never think of the shore without a memory of you. My memories of you will always stay close to my heart. I love you Ashley, I just wish I could if told you one last time.
Dear Aldworth Family, I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May the memories you have bring your comfort.
Dear uncle harry and family sorry for your loss my heart goes out to you's. In loving memory of a wonderful person R.i.p ash<3
Dear Donna, Harry, Aunt Blanche, Dana, Lindsay, and all Uncles Aunts and Cousins, my deepest compassion on the tragic loss of Ashley. Know that all of the family are here to support you in any way you need us.
God Bless the Aldworth Family
harry and family may god bless you and give comfort at this difficult time we are so sorry for loss. ken&janet hill& chery sosnowski
Everyone is going to miss you so much Ashley! I had so many fun times with you at the daycare, and seeing you out. You are such a great person and will truly be missed by everyone. Watch over your family, everyone who's life you've been apart of has been blessed to know you. <3
Sending prayers to the Aldworth family. Ashley was a wonderful person and her memory will shine on in everyone's hearts.
Didn't know you long enough, Ash, only a few short years. But one thing is for certain. When we were together, we were laughing. Me you n Linds really were the greatest three couch potatoes ever. Every time I've been over here the last few years, the first thing I checked to see was if you were home, girl. I could go on n on and get real mushy on here, but I know you'd tell me aunttt sharkkk stoppp. Bottom line, I'll miss you Ashley. You were a true friend. You had a huge heart. You were a blessing in my life and would have been a great sister-in-law one day. I'll stay by your family's side through this. Especially Linds, Donna girl, and Dana. I'll really miss miss ya aunt ash. You'll always be my buddy. I'll always love you. Rest easy sis.
To be honest with you, I don't have the words to make you feel better, but I do have the arms to give you a hug, ears to listen to whatever you want to talk about, and I have a heart; a heart that's aching to see you smile again.I love you Dom &Donna.. Xxxoo
Dear Dana, Harry & Family:
I am deeply saddened to learn of the sudden and tragic loss of your beloved Ashley. No words of comfort can possibly take away the the heartache, sorrow and pain that you are experiencing right now.
Please take comfort in the fact that you loved Ashley each and every day of her life and that love made her life meaningful and special.
Ashley was cherished by many because she was a genuine, giving and loving person.
Ashley's life was shaped fantastic upbringing by her parents and the love of her siblings. Dana, I know Ashley could not ask for a better big sister.
Dana, you are a tremendous person and I know you were a positive influence in Ashley's life and that you loved her very much. You should be proud of that fact.
Please take comfort in knowing that Ashley is in Heaven with Jesus Christ and she has found peace, comfort and tranquility. You all will have lasting and enduring memories of Ashley for the remainder of your days, but also take comfort in knowing that Ashley will be watching over you until you all see her
again in Heaven.
I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers and may God bless the Aldworth family.
Jason Razler & Family
Dear Aldworth Family,
Please accept our deepest sympathies on the tragic loss of your beautiful daughter Ashley and take comfort in knowing she will be missed by many and never forgotten.
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Dear Harry, Donna, Dana and family. I was saddened to read about the death of your beautiful daughter, Ashley Marie. Harry, you were so comforting to me at the times I needed you, please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Dear Aldworth Family,
We are so sorry for your loss God Bless all of you, Dana keep up your spirits I know you are a strong person. Guy and Lee Storace Feasterville, PA.
Dear Harry and family, we are so very sorry to hear of your loss .Such a beautiful life cut too short. Our love and prayers are with you all, God Bless you all, Ron and Donna Hill
Dear Donna,Harry Dana and Lindsey.May God Bless you and give you Comfort at this very difficult time.Our thoughts and prayers are with you. The Houser Family, Carl and Kathy
Harry And Family ,
i am so sorry for your loss of a Beautiful girl!
Our kids have seen too many young friends taken too soon...i am so sorry for your loss...i can't even imagine what you are going through, but know that you are in our prayers...c.clement and family
With deepest sympathy and sorrow. Ashley was amazing to her clients. She will be deeply missed by the patients and staff at Graduate Dialysis.
To Ashley and her family,
I cannot even begin to say how sorry I am. Ashley, I spent everyday sitting behind you for 4 years of my life, you made everyday so special and fun. I would give anything to go back to them years. You were truly a real friend, we may have not always hung out with the same group of friends or saw each other often on the weekends, but you were always here for me. We always kept in touch and I knew we always would. At one point we literally knew everything about each out. I felt like I knew your whole family even when I didn't know them. We have the funniest, weirdest memories together I will never forget...you were just so funny and worry-free everyone loved you:( I will never ever forget you Ash. My memories of you are nothing but great, recently you just wrote me the nicest thing saying how I was you best friend in highschool and my last memory of you will always be that nice thing you wrote, you will always be one of my best friends, now you are just my angel <3 I love you Ash, please look after all your friends and family I know you will. Whenever I see a pink pig I will always think of you and always have because they remind me of you!
Will never forget her, and her smile, just a beautiful girl.
Still doesn't seem real. Thinking about all the great times we had at the Beachcomber, Sea Isle, and North Carolina. I was so lucky to have grown up with you and binny. You, Andrew, and Poppy need to keep an eye out for us. We didn't say it nearly enough, but I love you.
Praying for the Aldworth family through this unbearable time. RIP Ashley, you were taken away too young! You will be missed and never forgotten! Fly High beautiful!
Harry I am so so sorry. Karen Mammarella
Another star in the sky. I'm very sorry for your loss.
My deepest thoughts and prayers are with Lindsay, and the rest of your family. I always enjoyed the times in the past that I spent with Ashley, she was a beautiful girl inside and out and always had everyone laughing. Her friends & family will never forget the great memories they shared with her. RIP Ashley may you watch over all of those who loved and cherished you most. Fly High Ashley, you will truly be missed by so many.
So sorry for your loss, rest in peace Ashley.
Dana and Family, I am so very sorry for your loss! Please know that you and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers!
Coleen and Nolan
Dear Harry and family, I know there is nothing anyone could possibly say or do to ease the pain you are all going through. My heart breaks for you all. Ashley you were taken to soon. May you be in a better place.You will be sadly missed. Love, Charlotte Gasperi
I still feel like I am stuck in a terrible dream. Ashley, you have left such an impression on my heart. I will carry you with me every where that I go. So many times a day I grab my phone to text you something hilarious, send you a horoscope or just see how your day is going and then it hits me all over again. I am so very, very grateful for our time together. I promise to take good care of Donna Girl and Linds. I love you.
Harry: There are no words that can give you and your family comfort at this time.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you. God bless you all, through these painful and sadden times. Know that we all grieve with you.
Ashley, where do I even begin? We have been through so many ups and downs in the past 10 years. This doesn't feel real. Every night I lay here in bed hoping I'm going to wake up from this terrible nightmare. I know we weren't close the past couple years but I still considered you a friend. Whenever I saw you, you were always smiling. Your smile and laugh were so contagious. I would give anything to go back and make up for lost time! I'm glad I got to be apart of your life for as long as I did and I will always cherish the memories we had! Fly high my beautiful angel. I know Matt and Daniel and everyone else were waiting for you at the gates. I will see you when I get there my friend. And until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of his hand. I love you Ashley, Now. Forever. And Always<3
Harry, Dana, & Aldworth family: my deepest sympathy on this terrible loss of such a gorgeous girl. You have an angel in heaven watching over you. May God comfort you in this time. All my love and prayers go out for you and dearest Ashley.
Thinking of your family at this difficult time. May Ashley RIP.
Words cannot express how sorry I am for your tragic loss!! My heart goes out to you all,I will keep you all in my prayers, god bless you all!
Dale Wilkinson Wallauer
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
please know you are in our thoughts and prayers Bill & Charlene Kessler.
Dear Donna and Harry,
We are so very sorry for the horrendous pain and loss you are feeling. We cannot imagine your shock. We hold you in our thoughts and prayers and close to our hearts.
With love and sympathy,
Diane & Ned Drinker
Harry, Dana and family
We were sorry to hear about Ashley. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dear Donna and Harry,
I'am so sorry for your loss,my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time of sorrow.
Harry, Donna, and Family,
So so sorry for your loss.
Joanne (Geraldine Biggins daughter)
Our deepest sympathy is with the Aldsworth family and friends
The Carman family
Ashley, I only hope you knew how much I loved you. You were always in my thoughts & my beautiful & funny Niece. There is a void in my heart for my beautiful Godchild. You & poppy & Andrew can keep an eye on us. We need it.
Ashley you were a great teacher to my daughter.you will be greatly missed but never forgotten
With our deepest sympathy, so sorry for the loss of your daughter.
I still can't believe this is real.. Just this morning Kaylee mentioned how Miss Ashley was her favorite teacher bc they always played games and had fun together. I'll forever be grateful for the bond you've shared with my daughter and the mark you've left on her life. Everyone's hurting because of how truly amazing you were.. May you rest in peace Ashley.
Dear Harry & Donna,
My thoughts are with you all at this time. With deepenst sympathy.
Dear Harry, Donna and Family,
Robin and I are deeply sorry for your loss and you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Glenn and Robin Morton
I am so sorry for your loss, you are my thoughts and my prayers
May our Savior grant you His peace and comfort at this very difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Harry and family. I dont even know what to say, I'm sure you have heard it all. Know that Ashley is watching over with my dad. Maybe that is why God took him first so that he was there waiting. I am always thinking of you all and wish that I could do for you guys what you all did for us... Love you all! Michelle Szymczak and family
Our deepest condolences for the loss of your beautiful daughter. Our prayers are with you. God bless all of you.
I cannot imagine how you guys are coping with this tragedy. I hope and I will pray for God to ease the pain of the loss of your beautiful angel. God bless all.
Harry and Donna
My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.
uncle Harry&family my heart goes out to you and your family, Ashley was so beautiful and amazing. I'M so sorry for your lost you are in our prayers always Love Selena Brenda Ozzie & lil selena
To the Aldworth Family,
Words cannot express the sorrow that we feel for your loss. We know oh so well what it is like and we are praying for God's grace and comfort for you all during this time. We only can hope that we can comfort you during this time as you comforted us. God Bless you.
Dennis, Lisa and Emily Brown
To the Aldworth Family, All of you are in my thoughts and prayers in this difficult time. Ashley was an amazing girl, loved by so many. I know she is watching over her family and friends. God bless all of you.
Harry & family,
We are so sorry to hear about your daughter Ashley. Our thoughts love and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
My deepest condolences to Ashley's family..
Harry, Donna and family, we are so sorry for your loss. Ashley was a beautiful girl. We will keep all of you in our prayers at this difficult time.
Words cannot express our sympathy for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and hope you are able to find some comfort from those around you as you have comforted so many others.
Love you Ash. Fly high beautiful <3
RIP Ashley, Prayers and thoughts are your family! FLY HIGH 3
To the Aldworth Family,
Words cannot express our sorrow for you loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. The ways that you have helped and comforted others in their times of grief, may it be returned to you ten fold now. God Bless!
The Snyder Family
Our deepest sympathy to Harry and your family. You are in our hearts and prayers at this very difficult time.
My condolences to the family. My prayers will be with all of you.
Love you Ash, we will miss your beautiful face and infectious smile. Know you'll be above watching over all your loved ones.
Love you, Uncle Vince & Aunt Gail
Words cannot express our deepest sympathy for Ashley's loss. Know that you are with us in thoughts and prayers. It was a pleasure watching Ashley grow into a beautiful woman, daughter, sister and friend. Memories will keep her alive in our hearts forever. Feel our hugs always and know you are not alone.
Love, Jim, Jan, Megan and Kristen
RIP Ashley! you will be forever missed and loved! my thoughts and prayers are with your family!
To Ashley's family: Her bright smile lit up a dark world. Every time she e transported me to dialysis/dr's appt that beautiful smile always greeted me down to the last time I saw her on 1/11/13. She will be greatly missed.
Sending lots of Love and comfort to the friends and family of Ashley, you are all in my thoughts and prayers!!
Our Dear Ms. Ashley,
Thank you for taking part in helping us raise our daughters. We are so sad to hear of your passing. You were very special in our lives. Please continue to watch our children as we know you are their special guardian angel now. Rest in Peace. xo
Bridget, Bob, Kylie, Kelsi and Kacie Cooley
How did she die. My prayers and thoughts are with the family andd friends
Harry and Donna and Family...
We are all deeply sorry for your Loss. Words fail at this Time...All the Prayers from your many Friends go out to you. God bless You all...May He hold Her, and You,in His Hands..
Dear Harry and Donna,
There are no words to express how sorry we are for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you, Dana and Lindsay.
I can't believe all this Ash .. Seems like just yesterday we were having slumber parties and hanging on Benson street <\3 you'll always be missed and the out pour of love from everyone shows just how truly special you were!
I still don't feel like this is real. When I heard the news all of our memories instantly just played in my head. I want them back. I want to just rewind 5 years. We had one amazing group of friends with times I will NEVER forget. I will never ever forget everything we shared when I first started hanging out with you, not to mention our St. Doms softball and cheerleading days. I love you Ash. You are forever in my heart.
My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family. Ashley was such a beautiful person inside and out. Riley and Nathan loved their teacher "Miss Ashley" and she loved all her kids too. Rest in peace sweet angel... We will all miss you!!
I am deeply sorry for your loss...
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Aldworth family during this difficult time.
There are no words to describe the pain and devastation of losing you Sissy... I promise to keep your bright, beautiful memory forever in my heart. I am truly blessed to be your sister... I Love You with all my heart xoxoxo
To the Aldworth Family,
To express my deepest sympathy for your loss could never be enough to soothe your hearts of the pain and loss you are all feeling. I am so sorry for your loss, and please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. I have known all of you for years, and my heart breaks for you. She will always be remembered for the beautiful woman she was, inside and out and will be sorely missed. My love and condolences to everyone that knew and loved her.
Our condolences to your family . Terlingo Family
Dear Dana and Family...
I know there isnt anything anyone can say to take away your pain but please know that you are in are thoughts and prayers... Love you xoxoxo
Dear Donna and Family,
God be with you all and bless you with strength and love. We are so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter.
Rest Easy Ashley. Thoughts and prayers are with your parents, family and friends. <3
Their are no words except to say how truly sorry we are for your loss.
Ash, my Dubby, I'll miss you more than you know. I wish I could go back knowing that I didn't have much time left to spend with you. I would have told you how much I love you and how big a part of my life you were. But I will cherish all of the great times we had and countless amazing memories My heart is broken. ='(
Ms. Ashley you were such a special person in my daughter Elaina's life! She loved having you as her teacher! Thanks for being her surrogate mom! You are irreplaceable! You will be missed by all! I am grateful to have had the pleasure to know you! You are our guardian angel now rest in peace sweet child!
I love you to the moon and back Sissy, and I miss u more then any words could ever begin to describe...xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Your sweet infectious smile and huge personality will be remembered by all. Rest in Peace beautiful girl. We will miss you greatly!