God gave us a jewel named Pam. Her brilliance shined and touched many lives. I know she would want everyone to stay strong and keep faith in God. My heart felt sympathy especially to my friend Gary and all of the family.
You were my best friend in High School. Part of Drags' Angels. We lost touch but recently reconnected and simply lost touch again. I did not hear of your passing until yesterday and I am heartbroken that I wasn't there for you in the end. I love you and will always carry your memories of friendship with me until we meet again.
My prayers to your dear family! Linda Leonard
Life is so funny and sometimes seemingly unfair.
I thought you would be around for a long time but God has other plans. I know God is holding you tight and you are at peace.
your sister, Cynthia
Pam was a beautiful person, and I knew her as a neighbor. She always had a kind smile and sweet words to say no matter how cold or hot is was outside when we were passing each other walking our dogs. My prayers are with you, Gary and all of your family. Many blessings to all of you. I loved Pam very much.
To Gary, and all of Pam's family and friends,
Pam was always a pleasure to share time with and a breath of fresh air. She loved to entertain, cook, laugh and share a good joke. She will live on in everyone who had the honor and pleasure to know her, whether for a brief moment or for a lifetime.
This awesome woman will be dearly missed.
PS . . . Pam, It is definitely 5:00 pm around a campfire somewhere, enjoy!!!
With all of our love and prayers,
Bob, Debi and Brian Nichols
I knew Pam because we were neighbors. Pam had a very calm, kind personality. It seems as though she always wore a smile .She, even in the last few difficult weeks, had a genuine smile on her face. She will be missed. My prayers are with the family.
There are no words to describe the pain in my heart with the loss of one of my closest and dearest friends. She wanted so much to beat this disease and fought with all the strength she could muster. She will be in my heart always. Gary, I am always here, for whatever you need. Love you much!
The thoughts and prayers of the Dykema family go out to Pam's family. Pam was loved and respected by many here at Dykema, including many in Detroit and Bloomfield. It was our privilege and honor to have her here. She will be missed.
I only knew Pam through our phone conversations at Dykema due to being in different offices but knew she was a special person with a great smile and wonderful love for life. I know she will be greatly missed but I pray the beautiful memories you hold in your hearts will remain forever and bring you peace & comfort in knowing Pam is in the arms of our Heavenly Father, worry & pain free and smiling even bigger than usual, if that's possible. God bless your entire family and know you are in my prayers.
Our most sincere condolences to the Dudley family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Tom and Gina Harrison
Your smile, loving heart and quick laughter will leave a silence that cannot be filled. Our sympathies are with your family, and we are thankful to be able to say we love you and are forever your friends.
Thinking of all of you at this sad times. My heart goes out to all of you we all lost a GREAT person but God has her now. Sending prayers and love to all of you <3
our condolences to the entire Dudley family.
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
My thoughts are with all of Pam's family and friends at this time. When I think of Pam at family get togethers when we were young, I remember how her laugh could fill a room! She was always so happy and I recall her round, flushed face and broad smile accompanying her laugh. She is at peace now, of that I am sure, and I know she is laughing still.
Love from Pam's cousin,
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Death cannot take the love and happy memories of Pam from you, so keep them with you always.
With much love,
Carol and Stormy Bruckner (Dudley)
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Please know that she is at a better place, and in peace.
God Bless all of us who will cherish her memory forever.
Kathy and Tom Dudley
My family and I offer our condolences to the entire Dudley family.
TO GARY AND PAMS FAMILY__WE ARE SO VERY SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF PAM>OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.ALL OUR LOVE___DARRELL AND LILLIAN WHITE___BELLAIRE MI.
Guess my message to Pam & Gary sent yesterday was (materially) too late, though perhaps from the heart being written, sent timely ...
I'm greatly touched to hear of the seriousness of your illness, Pam. Without being there, or having been in touch consistently through the years, I can't imagine how you and Gary are feeling. I've been reading The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle (see p btm 98 & top p 101) and finding it quite excellent and guiding. I'd like to share a bit with you, hoping that this might be of some comfort, if possible. As well, I want you to know what a nice pleasure it was to meet you and chat occasionally - sharing our life experiences. Family are always special, and meeting and knowing my biological family members has been extraordinarily special to me. I wish for both of you a peace that surpasses the material, mortal world as your bond knows no end. With much love - your cousin, Ann (quotation from The Power of Now deleted for this posting)
It is difficult to understand Gods Plan, but God's plans are always for good. He gave you memories for tomorrow and forever. We will all meet in that great cloud of witnesses. Love Steve & Fran Piorkowski
I hope you, my Mom, your Mom, and Grandma and Grandpa Dudley are all enjoying rhubarb with sugar!
Gary, Jack, Wayne, Helen, Chris, John, and children
I am so sorry to read about Pam's passing. I'm glad Dave and I went to the hospital to see her. Be kind to yourselves.
My condolences to Gary and all of Pams Family.
Pam you are the sister I never had. I have so many great memories. Your generosity,laughter,cooking and so much more. Life will never be the same without you here. But I will carry a piece of you in my heart forever!!!
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. You are in my prayers.
Our prayers and sympathy are with you at the loss of a great woman. Pam will be dearly missed.
Offering our deepest sympathies during this time.
Rest in peace Pam, my prayers for her family, we were class mates at Willow Run High school class of 1979. Remain blessed and love each person daily cause you never know when that end will come.
You were more than an Aunt.
You were one of my closest friends and confidant.
You had a huge part in making me into the woman that I am today (especially my love for food!), and so many of my fondest memories of my childhood and teen years are ones that you made so special!
You taught me to take chances, tattoos are cool, to love with no limit, live for today, and it is ok to make mistakes.
I love you. You are missed dearly. The impact that you have made in this world, and in so many peoples lives will keep you alive in our hearts forever.
To Wayne, Helen and the whole Dudley Family, I send my condolences with a heavy heart....The good Lord now has a beautiful angel in Heaven cause she was a beautiful lady here on earth.....She will be greatly missed...My love and prayers to you all, Vickie Cooley
My dear friend thank you for your warmth, your light and your love, your voice! You leave a hole in my heart. I miss you and love you!! Look forward to seeing you again. Julie