Diann and family,
Words cannot express my sympathy at your loss. Losing someone whom you love is such a difficult thing, and you are faced with picking up the pieces and finding joy in life without them. You must hold dear that he wants you to be happy and that you should celebrate life - his and your own.
I have such fond memories of visiting you and hearing Uncle Chuck's deep laugh and seeing his eyes twinkle with joy.
Prayers and peace be with you.