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Tina and Allaysa Porter

Tina Porter Obituary

Three dead, 1 hurt in Marissa train crash
Young survivor's condition critical
BY DANIEL KELLEY
News-Democrat

MARISSA - A mother, teen daughter and teen friend were killed and another youngster critically injured after an empty coal train struck a vehicle at 7:43 a.m. Monday.

Neighbors have pushed for gates to be installed at the South Main Street rail crossing since spring 2005, but the state did not consider the project urgent. Thirteen other crashes and four other deaths occurred there.

Driver Tina Porter, 43, her daughter Allaysa Porter, 13, and family friend Donna Jean Calvert, 13, were killed in the wreck, said St. Clair County Coroner Rick Stone. They died from massive trauma.

Family friend Julie Seymour, 12, survived the wreck and was in critical condition Monday at Cardinal Glennon Children's Hospital in St. Louis, police said.

All four victims were thrown from the vehicle and all are from Marissa.

Marissa Police Chief Mike Kerperien said Porter was headed to Marissa Junior-Senior High School to drop off the seventh-grade girls. He said Porter was driving a 2004 Chevy Blazer north on Main Street and made no attempt to stop before she was struck.

Marissa Junior-Senior High School Principal Michael Guthrie said the girls in the accident were quiet students in the seventh grade.

"All three girls were really close friends, real good kids," Guthrie said.

Several students sought the help of counselors, and a few left school for the day.

"In a small school, everybody is affected," Guthrie said. "The kids in the junior high knew them very well and were affected tremendously."

The westbound train is owned by Union Pacific and was running on tracks owned by Canadian National Railroad. The conductor told police he blew the train's horn before the accident.

The railroad crossing lights were working, but there are no gates to stop oncoming traffic.

Illinois Commerce Commission spokeswoman Beth Bosch said there have been 13 other collisions at the crossing resulting in four other deaths. The last fatal accident at the site was in 1972.

There are plans to install gates at the crossing, but because the gates were not seen as an urgent need they were put on a five-year list of projects. Bosch said the deaths Monday could mean the project gets pushed forward.

Kerperien said police do not know if anyone was at fault in the accident and may never know.

Mike Parker of Marissa was at his home near the crossing at the time of the accident and said he did not hear the train blow its whistle before the crash.

"We had problems with the train there before," Parker said. "The train goes by at 70 mph on occasion."

Canadian National spokesman Jim Kvedaras said the Federal Railroad Administration allows trains to travel through the crossing at 60 mph. A train traveling at that speed takes more than a mile to stop.

Kvedaras said the accident in Marissa could not have been avoided.

"There is no reaction time in the world where an engineer could stop the train," Kvedaras said.

In 2005, Parker gathered 180 signatures to petition the Illinois Commerce Commission to install gates at the crossing.

"Whenever I came back from the accident I told my wife 'Well, the train finally killed somebody,'" Parker said. "I just sat down and cried because I kind of felt like if I would have tried harder they might not have died."
Published by Belleville News-Democrat on Nov. 21, 2006.

Memories and Condolences
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33 Entries

Donna Calvert (DJ's mom)

November 7, 2007

Tina and Allaysa,
It has been almost a year since you both and my Donna have gone away. I know you are all safe and but i cant help being a little selfish and want you all back here with us. The only comfort I have is to know the three of you are together and we will all be together again one day! I never knew lonliness, or emptyness until that horriable day almost one year ago. I miss you all so much! Tina please look after my baby girl until i can come pick up where tragedy made me leave off. Love you and Miss you ALWAYS and FOREVER!

Donna Calvert

July 31, 2007

8 long months have gone by since our loved ones have gone. I miss them so much and the pain wont go away but i want you to know i will always be here for you if you ever nbeed to talk. Love Donna Calvert

Kayln

April 30, 2007

Allaysa,
I will always remember our laughs in Science class about the bugs, marsh mallows, and the music. They were all good times. It's kinda hard since we were locker neighbors but you made me laugh so now i only have GREAT memories of you. I love you and i will see you sometime!!
<3

Donna Calvert (D.J.'s mom)

March 13, 2007

Please forgive me for taking to long to send you my love, as i was unsure what to say that would make a difference. I miss our loved ones so much, I know you understand. Of all the people i have known in my life time i feel soo close to your family! Maybe because we share a horriable loss and maybe because our loved ones are together in a place far better than we waiting for our arrival. But please know I am here and I am not going away, please call on me if i can help you in ANY way. I Love You ALL so much!

November 24, 2006

“Quiet and sincere sympathy is often the most welcome and efficient consolation to the afflicted. Said a wise man to one in deep sorrow, ‘I did not come to comfort you; God only can do that; but I did come to say how deeply and tenderly I feel for you in your affliction.’”

Alecia Hart

November 24, 2006

I myself know what it is like along with all the Hart family how horrific it is to lose not one but several with something in a single swoop, that only seems unfair. From the depths of our souls we only offer you the knowledge that your family is in our prayers. I would personally like to add:

I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love.

-Leo Buscaglia

Abbie

November 22, 2006

Allaysa and Tina,
This town has suffered from your loss. the people at school will always remember you. You were a great person. I send all of my sypathy to ur family.

Poppy Ferrer

November 22, 2006

Our hearts and prayers are with you. I know the heartache of the loss... There are no words that comfort. But know your not alone.
May the Lord carry you through this and always,
The Ferrer Family

gunter family

November 22, 2006

Our prayers r with u in this time of grief. So god bless u

Rachel Brown

November 21, 2006

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Kathleen Thoele Nagel

November 21, 2006

May God be with your family as he is with Tina & Allaysa. My heart goes out to you and my prayers are with you. I will Miss Tina so much and I will remember her always. I pray the Lord will pour his peace over your family and give you the strength and comfort you need at this time. God Bless You.

Kurtz Family

November 21, 2006

Thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of need.

Terri (Buehler) Imming

November 21, 2006

To Porter family, You are all in my thoughts and prayers at this difficulty time.

Sarah Jones

November 21, 2006

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

THE GOODWIN FAMILY

November 21, 2006

You have our deepest sympathy during this very difficult time. I also was taking my children to marissa school that morning but was running late, I wish there would have been something I could have done.
Sincerely

Chief Dean and Rebecca richardson

November 21, 2006

Are thoughts and prayers are with you

Jessica

November 21, 2006

You were always nice to me in school. I will miss you.

The Anderson Family

November 21, 2006

Please know that the thoughts and prayers of our whole community are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Lisa Heiken

November 21, 2006

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jeanice (Tevebaugh) Minemann

November 21, 2006

Time came between us as friends...but God will re-unite us some day! God Bless you.
These special people will not be forgotten. My prayers are with the family.

Diane (Kueker) Buch

November 21, 2006

May God be in your hearts following this horrible tragedy. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this sad time. The comfort you will have is the knowledge that both Tina and Allaysa are in heaven with our Father. God Bless

Serena Hagan

November 21, 2006

I am Miranda Hagan's mother, this tragedy has been a horrible loss. I send you my deepest sympathy, and may God give you some kind of peace. Miranda will miss Allaysa and Tina,they will not be forgotten.

Tom & Tammi Heizer

November 21, 2006

Thinking of you during this sad time.

Jason and Kelly Wissehr

November 21, 2006

Porter and Cheek Families,
My heart breaks for you and please know that we are here for you if you ever need anything. This is an unbelievably sad and tragic event that I wish had never happened to anyone. You have our support and understanding.

Leila (Mehring) Zeiger

November 21, 2006

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Porter family. I went to high school with Tina and this is just an unbelievably sad turn of events. The only thing that comforts me is the knowledge that both Tina and her daughter are in heaven with our Father. God bless the Porter family and all of their dear friends.

Debbie

November 21, 2006

All are prayers are with all three families, may God bless each and every family member and all dear friends.We will all pray for you all! From one small community to another.

The Community of Coulterville

November 21, 2006

Our condolenscences during this sad time. During this time, your neighboring communities will gather around you and mourn your loss with you.

Deborah

November 21, 2006

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Cara Kampmann

November 21, 2006

You are all in our prays at memorial hospital. May god guide you through this time. God bless you and you family.

Theresa Kerperien

November 21, 2006

May God Bless all of you at this time.

From the community of Marissa

November 21, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

November 21, 2006

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006

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