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Elvira Cavazos Obituary

Elvira Cantu Cavazos August 14, 1939 - May 5, 2005 Elvira C. Cavazos, daughter of Amalia and Eutimio Cantu, passed away peacefully after a brave and extended battle with cancer at the home of her beloved son, Jess, Jr., and companion, Jeff Murray, in Concord, CA. Survived by her loving husband of 49 years, Jesus R. Cavazos, and their children, Gloria, Jose Angel (Leticia), Jaime (Roberta), Jess, Jr., Javier and Jorge (Norma), her ten grandchildren and one great-granddaughter, her brothers and sisters and many nieces and nephews. Elvira was known for tremendous faith and love that she passed on to her family and many friends. Her courage, strength and spirit will forever live on in those whose hearts she touched. She is an inspiration to us all. Elvira's loved ones wish to thank Hospice and Palliative Care of Contra Costa for all their comfort, care and compassion. Her funeral services will be held on Wednesday, May 11, at 9:30am at Christ the King Catholic Church, 199 Brandon Road in Pleasant Hill. Viewing will be held on Tuesday, May 10, from 5-6pm and a Rosary from 6-7pm at Oakmont Mortuary, 2099 Reliez Valley Road in Lafayette, CA. In lieu of flowers, donations and contributions may be made to Hospice and Palliative Care of Contra Costa, 3470 Buskirk Ave., Pleasant Hill, CA 94523 or the American Cancer Society, 1885 Oak Park Blvd., Pleasant Hill, CA 94523. Oakmont Mortuary (925) 935-3311

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Published by Contra Costa Times on May 10, 2005.

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May 7, 2012

I visited you yesterday took your walrus and flowers and I could her your laughter at least remember it I love you so much and miss you mami, I will see you in my dreams and laugh with you, your Princess.xoxoxoxoxox

Gloria Cavazos

April 25, 2012

It's that time of year again and I hate it. I know your not suffering anymore and that you are in a better place, but I feel cheated, I know you see us all and you know our problems, sufferings, and joys. I wish I could just hug you. Miss you so much would love to hear your laughter, and your voice. Love you forever mom. (See you in my dreams

Gloria` Cavazos

August 17, 2008

Mommy I had a tough time getting thru August 14, this year,It's hard not to say Happy Birthday in person
I sang to you in the morning, then said a prayer, still hoping that these years that have past is still a really bad nitemare. I read the poem and it help me. Thank you for watching over us. Love you forever,, your princess...

Rhonda Freeman

August 16, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived
okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here
is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you
every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up
and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were
gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.

There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for
me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's
chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life
on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not
be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.


I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But
one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.


There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a
time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will
give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day
was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the
way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick
him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in
your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember
you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Javier Cavazos

July 28, 2008

Mom, Necesito su ayuda. Ya no se lo que tengo que haced. Seinto como estoy periendo todo. Sin usted o papa con quien hablar como antes que les pedia por por su informacion de que hacer. Ustedes siempre estan en mis pensamientos. Los amo mucho

Gloria Cavazos

April 14, 2008

I had a dream about you and we were together, I really felt you mom.
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxglo

Gloria Cavazos

September 5, 2007

I was going to call you and remembered, miss you mom.
love you Glo.

Gloria Cavazos

August 15, 2007

Yesterday was your birthday, I sang Happy birthday to you and lit your candle, love Gloria

Jorge & Jacqueline Cavazos

August 13, 2007

Ay AMa, it seems like you were still here just yesterday. I feel you always with me and Jackie, she remembers you often and at times cry her tears for her Wella, as she called you. Mom thanks for still looking out for Me and Jackie, you have been guiding us well these last two years with your angel spirit. The greatest gift you left me was my faith in God and I thank you, because it has helped me so much. Miss you and love you so much - Happy Birthday Mom and Wella...XOXOXO Jorge & Jacqueline Cavazos

Gloria Cavazos

August 12, 2007

Happy Birthday mom yesterday we took Dad out and Robbie brought the carrot cake Jess gave him a very nice shirt,so did Jaime and Robbie, there the kind of shirts he likes the ones with the snaps on them, we went to visit you and bring you flowers. Your grandchildren and great grandchildren were there too. I love you Mom. Kisses Gloria

Norma Mendoza

May 8, 2006

Grandma I miss you and love you.

Norma Angelica

Jr. & Becky Castro

May 5, 2006

Our condolences to you're family.

Gloria Cavazos

May 5, 2006

Hello mami, it's been a year, I feel like you are still here, I see you in my dreams, and smell your perfume at times when I least expect it. I know you are happy because I feel such a calm within me when I think of you, (which is always).When I have questions I somehow know that the answers I'm looking for come thru you, Thank you Mami I love you and may you rest in peace...Kisses your princess.

Mom and Dad in Corpus Christi, Texas

Gloria Cavazos

October 4, 2005

I miss you mom and I think that you know that,,, Daddy miss you mucho,Love Glo( I thought that people would enjoy this picture )

Stephanie Smart

August 16, 2005

In the short time I knew her, I feel privileged to have met someone with the rare qualities of a woman who was truly beautiful inside and out; a “lady” who in every since of the word, carried herself with such dignity that she brought pride to all of those around her.



I am blessed to know her Family. I have never seen children with greater respect, love, adoration and devotion than the Children of Jesus and Elvira Cavazos. I know that she will be greatly missed by each of them.



I pray that with every memory they hold dear they will be reminded that nothing can ever take away the beauty of the love they shared; and love – love remains a part of us forever.

Jaime Cavazos

May 12, 2005

Thank you with all my heart to all that have kept us in your thoughts and prayers. My Mom loved us all (family & Friends). My cousin Jaime (Elva's son) said it best - Her biggest worry when she was alive was she couldn't watch us all at once and now she can. This is very comforting to me and I hope to all of you also. Thank you Hector for taking such good care of Grandma and Grandpa you are the best. Thank you Gloria, Jess and Jeff - Bart too! - for all you have done to make Mom and Dad comfortable and safe I love you guys so much.

Roberta Cavazos

May 11, 2005

Elvira is the strongest, bravest woman I know. I will miss her so much. I thank her for the greatest gift in my life, my husband Jaime. Love you lots,

Robbie

Lucinda Serrata-Roman

May 11, 2005

I will always remember the time spent with your family at Christmas with Elvira's beautiful Nativity and the delicious tamales. Your family is very dear to ours. I wish each of you peace and may all the good memories of her fill your hearts with the love she had for you.

Jeff Murray

May 10, 2005

Thanks so much Elvira for your children and grandghildren. They are a legacy to be proud of. We all love you very much. You will be missed.

Gloria Cavazos

May 10, 2005

As the eldest and only daughter, of Elvira I feel very blessed to have had the time I did with her and I wish to thank all her family and friends who attended the services, My mother was a very unique indiviual and I for one will always cherish her, Thank you mom for always being there for me and my children, you will forever be in my heart and see you in my dreams,,, we will take care of dad so lady you just sit back relax and enjoy for soon we will all be together again, love you for ever your princess.....xoxoxoxo

Christine Cavazos Brown

May 10, 2005

Our deepest sympathy to Tio Jesus and my cousins. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love always. Donnie and Christine Brown

Raquel Cavazos Adame

May 10, 2005

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. It is honor to say that I was the niece of my Tia Elvira. I will always remember her courage, faith and smile.



With All My Love,

Raquel Cavazos Adame

Linda Merlo

May 10, 2005

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. Your mother was an inspiration to all of us who knew her. Her faith in God was unwavering during her illness. She will be blessed forever with the angels.

Maria Pollard

May 10, 2005

My deepest sympathies to the family and friends of Elvira.

I know the family because my sister is married to Gonzalo, Elvira's brother-in-law.

Alma Tejeda

May 10, 2005

I am the daughter of Concepcion and Evodio Jacuinde. We send you all our deepest condolences.

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