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April 2, 2010
For Jeffrey...a great
keyboard player.
WEEP NOT FOR ME
Do not weep for me when I no longer dwell among the wonders of the earth; for my larger self is free, and my soul rejoices on the other side of pain...on the other side of darkness.
Do not weep for me, for I am a ray of sunshine that touches your skin, a tropical breeze upon your face, the hush of joy within your heart and the innocence of babes in mothers arms.
I am the hope in a darkened night. And, in your hour of need, I will be there to comfort you. I will share your tears, your joys, your fears, your disappointments and your triumphs.
Do not weep for me, for I am cradled
in the arms of God. I walk with the angels, and hear the music beyond the stars.
Do not weep for me, for I am within you;
I am peace, love, I am a soft wind that caresses the flowers. I am the calm that follows a raging storm. I am an autumns leaf that floats among the garden of God, and I am pure white snow that softly falls upon your hand.
Do not weep for me, for I shall never die, as long as you remember me...
with a smile and a sigh.
© Joe Fazio
~
[email protected] /Joe Fazio,
Beverly Hills, California
matt crandon
September 27, 2007
growing up, carter was one of the nice guys. not a quality always appreciated then. but he was genuine, the real thing. enviable. like stacie, i feel so lucky to have grown up in derby, kansas. i have fond memories of carter then and wish i had more recent ones. to ken and judy: you are inspiring. you have handled yourself with amazing class and dignity in your time of grief, in a very public way. my heart goes out to you.
Stacie (Warren) Winslow
September 13, 2007
Wow. I clicked on the guest book on a whim and am so overwhelmed to see all the people who signed it. As incredibly difficult as all of this has been, it was the Derby contingency who came to the funeral that held us all up. For those who remember Carter from the old DHS or El Paso days, I can only say that even more impressive was the man he became. The adult Carter was more than I ever imagined he would grow to be. There is a part of me that will never be the same, but I love that he is still touching lives. One thing I have learned...I am so glad I grew up in Derby, Kansas. I am so glad many of the names listed here have been a part of my life.
Julie Stover
September 11, 2007
My heart and prayers go out to the friends,family and loved ones of Carter. We had only recently reconnected over the last year and had plans to catch up the next time i was in Dallas. He was such an amazingly talented young man with so much to offer. I will always think of him down in front of the our Philharmonic choir at Derby, pounding out those parts while always keeping us laughing,making his faces,etc to make things "a little more interesting." Goodbye Carter.....We will all miss you.....
Gordon Given
September 10, 2007
To the family and friends of Carter: our prayers are with you in this very difficult time. His passing is a great loss to us as a worldwide community. May you find peace!
Chandra Hahn (Sander)
September 9, 2007
Carter, you will be missed. From all of your friends who grew up with you in Derby, to all of your friends in your musician's circle, we know what kind of a person you truly are...kind, funny, talented, goofy... I am proud to consider you one of my friends. I will miss you.
Cathy Quantic Thurston
September 7, 2007
Carter. What an amazing person! I saw him perform with Edie Brickell twice here in Washington, D.C. and always got a kick out of seeing him perform. But is wasn't until Edie took one line from the audience and made up a song on the spot, with Carter supporting from the keyboard that I realized what an amazing musician he had become. I just liked him because he was my brother's friend and we grew up together in Derby. This is a tragedy for everyone in Derby and for everyone who knew Carter. But especially for his parents. All our prayers are with them today at the funeral.
Ben Stein
September 6, 2007
"If you believe in forever,
Then life is just a one-night stand, If there's a rock and roll heaven, well, you know they got a hell of a band..."
Rest in Peace Carter...
Kevin Swinger
September 6, 2007
Carter was a great inspiration to many people. He will be missed. I cant tell you how many great conversations we had. I spent hours listening to him sing. He made a huge impact on my life. To his parents thank you for the gift that Carter was. He is one of the few people I know that changed lives for the better.
Eric Hogan
September 6, 2007
Carter was one of my dearest friends. He was quite simply the most talented person I ever met, and one of the most humble. He never looked down on anyone, but everyone looked up to him. You will forever be remembered as one of the greats.
Casey Loose
September 5, 2007
What an incredible loss.Carter and I were only casual friends during our last years in high school; although we did share many of the same friends.I will never, ever forget the late nights spent in the culvert in Derby where many of these friends gathered to share in the making, singing and playing of truly amazing music. Although I did not regularly participate, I was a witness to Carter's natural brilliance on many occassions. He was the reason why we were all there...and yes, the cops did show up at least once. Rather ironic. A bunch of guys singing down under the street...they were easy on us. I still have some old recordings of his; some solo material he recorded during our college years as well some originals from the culvert back in '91. I've played the tapes a thousand times over the years...almost completely worn out and now they're priceless. His gift was immeasurable - boundless. To us...back in '91, he was iconic. He still is. He's gone...but not too far away. In fact, I just listened to him today and I think he's doing just fine. Farewell my friend...
Kevin Obermeyer
September 5, 2007
There are no words for such a tragic event. For many years of friendship, from playing great music together to rooming together in Germany, and even conversing like old friends at our 10-year after many years apart, some great memories will always be cherished. For Carter's family, know that our hearts beat with yours.
Proverbs 17:17
Shelly Brown - Murrow
September 5, 2007
Im so sorry to hear about your loss I went to school with carter. I have always thought he was a really kind person.
Diane Quantic
September 5, 2007
Our son David was Carter's friend through Derby schools and at SMU, and they remained friends as their creative careers took paths to different cities. Following Carter's career has been a source of pleasure for us. It was exciting to see him on David Letterman, his lanky frame visible in the shadows behind Edie Brickell. That he was gifted was apparent from grade school days. Never could we have imagined such an ending for his story. We pray for Carter's family, friends and all those for whom Carter made music come alive.
Sharon Baugher
September 5, 2007
From a parent to the parents of Carter: I feel your pain. My son Joshua Baugher and Carter were good friends in Derby High School. I can truly imagine how hard it is to accept this loss. Sharon Baugher
Owen Obel
September 5, 2007
Carter played the most beautiful 12-string electric guitar on my song during a studio session last week. It was the only time I met him. I am devastated and pray for his family.
Ralphine Schnebly
September 5, 2007
To Carter's Parents: May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived. The loss of a child is the worst sorrow any parent could have. May God help you during this difficult time.
Traci Shanks
September 5, 2007
Carter and I went to JR/SR high and took piano lessons together. He was a talented musician and it's unfortunate most will never get a chance to experience that talent.
Suzanne Timmerman
September 5, 2007
My thoughts are with his family and friends in Texas, he'll be greatly missed.
Carter was an exceptional guy, even as a child you could tell how talented and creative he was. In sixth grade, he brought a little eletronic keyboard to school and recreated the song "Axel F" on it. We were so impressed, we badgered him to play it over and over. He was more than just a talented musician, I remember him as considerate, smart, friendly and often goofy.
Rest in Peace, Carter.
Chris Egan
September 5, 2007
An amazing person. I knew him back in the Derby High School days. My thoughts are with all his family and friends.
Anson Veach
September 4, 2007
I had the pleasure in meeting Carter and seeing him do what he loved the most while playing with Sorta. He was true a talent. You will be missed. God bless you.
delia garcia
September 4, 2007
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
Gordon Given
September 4, 2007
In such a trying time, it's difficult to convey how much my heart aches for everyone touched by this loss. It won't just be the music community that suffers, but the entire community. Our prayers are with you all.
Nicholas Bowen
September 4, 2007
Carter was an incredibly talented musician. I loved the song "Laugh Out Loud," and I will remember Carter as I listen to that and other Sorta songs this evening and for the rest of my days. May god blesss and comfort those who were close to him.
John Arrowood
September 4, 2007
what a tragic loss. Heaven has just set rehearsal times for a great musician. our deepest sympathy to his family and friends.
He will be deeply missed on both your local and world over music scene.
Jerome Miron
September 4, 2007
I am truly thankful that a good friend turned me on to Sorta and that I was able to see them live three times before Carter’s untimely passing. He was a very talented musician who touched a lot of people’s lives with his music and his persona. Never have the words, “Strange and sad, but true...” rang more poignantly today as I read this story.
Andrew Griffin
September 4, 2007
I will never forget you Carter. You were always a great friend and inspiration. You introduced me to a world of music that I otherwise might never have discovered.
Joseph Gonzalez
September 4, 2007
I honestly wasn't much more than a fan of Carter's, but he always treated me like we were lifelong friends. I feel lucky to have crossed paths with him. Carter was a Dallas treasure and he will always be remembered. My heart goes out to his friends and family.
David Williams
September 4, 2007
My sincerest sympathy to those who love Carter. May God Bless you.
Ernie
September 3, 2007
The DFW music scene shines a little less bright tonight without you, Carter. The only thing that came more easily to you than playing music was making friends. Rest in peace. I know you'll be jamming in heaven with all the old Metroplex legends...
Mike Fuentes
September 3, 2007
we will miss you Carter
philip granger
September 3, 2007
There is a empty space in my heart tonight,God bless Carter and his family and many friends.
chef jeff - granada theater
September 3, 2007
the music you have left for all is your spirit talking, you will be missed but never forgotten
Kenny Smith
September 3, 2007
An amazingly nice and exceptionally talented guy.
Go in peace Carter...
Justin
September 3, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Heather Lanier
September 3, 2007
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
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