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Jane Neff-Brain 1955 - 2013
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Friday, July 12, 2013
Don, Donald and Genevieve, I am so sorry to hear about the your loss of Jane. I will imagine that you will be getting more remembrances now about your mother with her passing being published in the Notre Dame Magazine recently. I unfortunately missed her obituary in the Star so I just now learned of her passing. I should have kept in touch with your mother more over the years. I went to grade school with Jane, Notre Dame with Jane and law school with Jane. It was so interesting to read all of the condolences from your mother's friends at Notre Dame. She was so tightly connected with Notre Dame. Your mother made a statement to our class in the sixth grade about Notre Dame that was so amazing that I have remembered it all my life. I had to check the web sites of Notre Dame to make sure I got the dates right. It was the school week of October 24, 1966. Your mom got up in front of the class to tell us what she had done that weekend. She let us know that she went to the Notre Dame Oklahoma game in Norman Oklahoma that weekend and that Notre Dame won the game (38-0 by the way) and that she had decided she was going to go to Notre Dame for college. That was your mother, a sixth grade girl announcing to the world she was going to Notre Dame, six years before Notre Dame had decided that it would admit women to the school. I can only say that I was lucky enough to get the chance to go to Notre Dame with her. She was an inspiration to all who met her and everyone who met her was better off for having known her.

My deepest and belated sympathy for your loss of such a wonderful person.
Tuesday, May 14, 2013
I knew Jane at ND. Same dorm, same class. My heart has been breaking for her. But now...I feel her freedom and love. For you, her family, my deepest condolences. She was a bright light in this world. Carolyn Short ND77 (Philadelphia)
Sunday, May 12, 2013
I remember Jane fondly as we lived in the same section freshman year at ND. I found some photos of those years and shared them with Jane a year or so ago. She said that it brought back good memories. My prayers and hopes for you is that the sadness in your hearts today will be replaced by the love and joy that she brought to your lives.
Saturday, May 11, 2013
Dearest Don, Donald and Genevieve,

Jane fought cancer like no one I have ever known. Selfishly I miss her terribly as she was one of my best friends for many years. She is in a better place now, and we join you in grieving for a dear lady. We are here for you, and are a phone call away. Love you, all 3 of you, from the 2 of us.
Friday, May 10, 2013
Our dear Jane fought the fight with grace and dignity. I will miss our long distance conversations, hearing her laugh and be always so sincerely interested in how her friend was. It was an honor to call Jane my friend. My heartfelt sympathy on her passing.
Thursday, May 09, 2013
Dear Don, Donald, and Gen,
I have many fond memories of Jane--my first.ND friend! Her spirit will live on in so many ways. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Blessings and love,

Peggy Hester Goralski (ND '77)
Wednesday, May 08, 2013
To Jane's family- I was a friend of Jane's from Notre Dame de Sion High School. I will always remember her as a sweet, funny and very smart girl. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Vicky Abreu Davis
Wednesday, May 08, 2013
Don, So very sorry to hear that Jane lost her very courageous battle. Barb and I send you and your family our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Wednesday, May 08, 2013
Barb and I were so sorry to hear of Jane's going home. I know she has been an inspiration to all who knew her and of her valient fight over the past many years. Our thoughts and prayers are with Don and all Jane's family.

Barb and Steve Harter
Wednesday, May 08, 2013
Don, Jane was an inspiration and model of grace and courage. She reached out to me in recent years when I needed comfort. I will always remember her and hold your family in prayer.
Kathy Walker Beenen (ND '77, Breen-Phillips)
Wednesday, May 08, 2013
Dear Don and Family

It is hard to imagine a world without Jane Neff-Brain. What she taught her ND classmates about courage, laughter, strength, endurance, faith and friendship will endure long after today. We shared in her battle these nine years and, although terrifically sad in her passing we know she is in a much better place. I feel her smiling down on all of us. Know that you are in our prayers today and in the days and months ahead. With love, Maureen O'Neill and family
Tuesday, May 07, 2013
Many wonderful memories from ND and after. Our thoughts and prayers will be with her family.
Tuesday, May 07, 2013
Jane's grace and courage will continue to inspire me. Your family is in my prayers.
Bev O'Connell Ashenden, Farley Hall
Tuesday, May 07, 2013
Sorry to hear of Jane's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. The pictures shared on here are wonderful. Take care!
Tuesday, May 07, 2013
May St. Michael the Archangel and all the angels lift you up just as they are lifting your beloved Jane to her heavenly home!
Peace & Prayers!
Michael Cullinan (Mr. C)
Tuesday, May 07, 2013
Don, Jody and I are saddened to learn of Jane's passing. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Mike and Jody Watkins
Monday, May 06, 2013
Dear Don and family,
My prayers and thoughts are especially with you during this time as you grieve, share memories and celebrate Jane's life and love....Daryl Grovenburg
Monday, May 06, 2013
Don,
Larry and I are so sorry to hear of Jane's death. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Larry & Mary Alice Worth, Liberty MO
Monday, May 06, 2013
Don, Larry and I are so sorry to hear of Jane's death. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Larry and Mary Alice Worth
Monday, May 06, 2013
Don and Family
We were very sorry to hear of your loss. We hope you find comfort in knowing that Jane is enjoying her eternal reward.
Bill and Nancy Ronan
Monday, May 06, 2013
Don,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. All of the good memories will help you through this difficult time. God Bless
Monday, May 06, 2013
Don and Family.....Cathy and I are very sorry for your
loss....The last time I saw Jane was the week before Christmas 2011 when we were both volunteering at the St. Mary's Food Kitchen.....I will never forget how happy she seemed...she was "in her element" that day bringing happiness and joy to others....our thoughts and prayers will be with you in the coming days and
weeks....May Eternal Rest Grant Unto Her Oh Lord and May Perpetual Light Shine Upon Her.
Monday, May 06, 2013
Long distance prayers to Don and the rest of the family.
Monday, May 06, 2013
My prayers and consolation to Jane's family and loved ones.
Monday, May 06, 2013
Jane was one of the sweetest persons in the class of '69 at St. Ann's. I remember what fun we had in Miss Fasci's class, and her parody of Batman, "Fatman and Boy Blubber" she wrote somewhere around 5th grade. I got to make the Fatmobile for her skit and helped with the music. She was putting smiles on faces back in the mid-sixties. Relish your memories, and know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Dave Ufford St. Ann's '69 and Leslie Ufford, SME '73
Monday, May 06, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss! Jane was a wonderful person who made the world a better place. Judi Gorske McMullen, ND 77 Walsh Hall
Monday, May 06, 2013
We have all been so inspired by Jane's wonderful spirit. Hoping her friends and family find peace in knowing that so very many have you and Jane in our thoughts and prayers.
Monday, May 06, 2013
Don, you and your family are in my prayers at this tough time. Trust in the Lord and lean not on your own understanding.
Brett & Sue Hackworth
Monday, May 06, 2013
Jane with a 10,000 watt smile, always the definition of strength, dignity and resilient courage. She was this way as a young woman at ND and in Angers; but in recent years, her amazing resilience and courage was a special example to all of us. My heart and prayers go out to family and friends, may you find comfort in memories of her love and laughter.
Leslie Barnes Karas '77, SUNDEF 9
Monday, May 06, 2013
Don-
We are so sorry for you and your family. We know Jane is smiling down on all of you.
God's speed.
Monday, May 06, 2013
What a brave and proud woman you were, Jane. True class. I'm thankful that I had the chance to know you better the past few years. Our chats and emails meant so much. So glad your pain is gone, cousin.
Monday, May 06, 2013
Donald and family, please know that our prayers are with you. For the women of Badin Hall, all gathering for the first time as freshmen forty years ago (mostly on that wonderful 4th floor) in the fall of 1973, we are heart-broken. Our Mother Mary is watching over all of you as she welcomes Jane into eternal life and happiness.
Maggie Smith Gillespie '77
Scottsdale, Arizona
Monday, May 06, 2013
Donald, I am so sorrry to read about the loss of your wife. May God give you and your family the strength you need to help you in this time of sorrow.
Virginia Bonino Geraci (Your 2nd grade teacher)
Monday, May 06, 2013
Don and family, I will always remember Jane bouncing down the hallway at Badin Hall, impeccable and speaking in French. My deepest sympathies to you and Jane will remain in my prayers as she has been for these last few years. Jan Blanck, ND ' 77
Monday, May 06, 2013
Jane, receive your eternal reward in a place of joy and light. Karen Daneu, ND'77
Sunday, May 05, 2013
Don and family:

I am so sorry for your loss. I fondly remember serving with Jane on the Nativity School Council, and seeing her for years at 7:30 Sunday Mass.

You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Sunday, May 05, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. I knew Jane at Notre Dame and liked her. She has been an inspiration to us all in her fight. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Cathlynn Cannon ND 77 Walsh Hall.
Sunday, May 05, 2013
Jane fought the good fight. May she now rest in peace. Sympathies and prayers for her and her family.
Molly McGuire Sample ND 77
Sunday, May 05, 2013
Deepest sympathy from a Notre Dame classmate. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Janet Laughlin Hogan, ND77, Walsh Hall
Sunday, May 05, 2013
God Bless Jane and her family. May angels walk with you today and always.
Sunday, May 05, 2013
Prayers of comfort for your family Jane and prayers and love to you as you glide on angels wings to the Lord. Love, Phyllis Provost McNeil (ND'77, Cheshire, CT)
Sunday, May 05, 2013
Jane was one of a kind. She was an inspiration and such a caring person. Jane, thank you for being such a steadfast friend to my family. Rest in peace.
Sunday, May 05, 2013
What a beautiful photo album. Thank you for sharing your family. May Jane's beautiful spirit live with you and guide you. May she rest in peace now.
Sunday, May 05, 2013
With my deepest sympathy.
John Tartaglione, Notre Dame, Class of 1977, (Hopkinton, MA)
Sunday, May 05, 2013
Dear Don, Donald and Genevieve,
Jane was the strongest woman we have known. What a fighter. She did everything she needed to do and was not giving up until that had been accomplished. The world was a better place because of her. We were lucky to have known and loved her.

Kathy and Steve antony
Sunday, May 05, 2013
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Sunday, May 05, 2013
Reading the notes and seeing photos from ND days shared, I remember Jane's kind presence. I extend my sincere sympathy.

Rich Sofranko Cavanaugh Hall ND '77
Sunday, May 05, 2013
On behalf of the Notre Dame Class of 1977, please accept our deepest condolences on the loss of a beautiful woman, wife, mother, and friend. A candle will be lit at the Grotto at the University and a mass will be offered by the Holy Cross priests in her memory this week. Our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends, especially Don Sr., Don III, and Genevieve -- who were the light and joy and pride of her life-- during this difficult time. May the Angels lead her into Paradise and may Jane rest now, at peace. Ginger McGowan Bishop, ND77 Secretary
Sunday, May 05, 2013
Straight to heaven where you are our angel. Thoughts and prayers with your family. Maureen Walsh ND 1977
Sunday, May 05, 2013
My deepest sympathies for this loss; I will say a prayer for you all.
Sunday, May 05, 2013
Don, I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my prayers. Take care and God bless.
Sunday, May 05, 2013
My condolences on the loss of your wife and mother. We are honored to have had her in our class at our Lady's university. God bless your family.
- Robin Raher Franciscovich ND '77
Sunday, May 05, 2013
Jane's strength, courage, and love were a shining example for all. Our prayers and sympathy are with her family.
Sunday, May 05, 2013
Her strong and caring spirit will live on in the many lives she has touched. Her generosity and kindnesses will be "paid forward". My condolences to the family, and may she rest in peace after her long struggle.
Sunday, May 05, 2013
I will keep Jane and her family in my prayers. She touched so many people in her short time with us. I was so impressed with her strength and kindness. May she rest in peace.
Joan Tomassi Monahan ND' 77
Sunday, May 05, 2013
My husband and I will keep Jane and her family in our prayers. May she rest in peace, and may her family and friends be comforted by memories of her presence and love.
Sunday, May 05, 2013
Although your beautiful life was cut short, you have left your imprint on our souls and made a difference in this world. You will always be remembered.
--Valerie Zurblis '77
Sunday, May 05, 2013
May she rest in the arms of Our Lady for eternity. -Chris Bergin ND '77
Sunday, May 05, 2013
Jane touched so many lives. Her strength and fortitude will remain with us all. May her spirit live on in all the memories. Lynn Mertensotto Girouard, '77, Farley Hall
Saturday, May 04, 2013
Jane was delightful, kind, interesting, strong and resilient. And, she wrote great notes and emails! What a loss for all of us who knew her. You, her family, are in our hearts in the tough days ahead.
Saturday, May 04, 2013
May you enjoy eternal joy, peace and rest in the arms of Our Lady. Julie Dunn Tallman Farley Hall '77
Saturday, May 04, 2013
Jane's spirit and fortitude were so evident. May she rest in eternal peace.
- Laurie Kinney McMahon, ND "77
Saturday, May 04, 2013
Our prayers are with you. Jane was a fantastic person! Always so positive when I knew her from Notre Dame and Badin Hall.
Marianne Morgan Harris
Saturday, May 04, 2013
I will remember your family in my prayers. May God comfort you in your loss.
Saturday, May 04, 2013
Jane will always remain among our loveliest Farley Hall women. I remember her grace, beauty and style...and her kind, thoughtful ways....she and her roommate, Karen, will remain in my prayers on campus....Alisa Hardiman Fisher '77, South Bend, Indiana.
Saturday, May 04, 2013
Gen,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Your mom fought a long and painful battle but now she is no longer suffering. It's the loved ones she left behind that must now ask God for the comfort and strength to carry on. Trust in the Lord and He will be with you in the days ahead.
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