• Cotten Funeral Home
    New Bern, NC
In partnership with the Dignity Memorial® network
Julia Darlene Pare (VonNida) 1959 - 2014
Print   Close
Sunday, June 22, 2014
You are in our thoughts and prayers. A donation has been made in Julia's honor to the Gideons. May her memory be honored through the spreading of God's word, just has she spread His word when she was with us.
Monday, June 16, 2014
Darrell and family. So sorry to hear about the loss of Julie. God healed her - divinely! May God wrap His loving arms around you and bring you comfort. Praying for you all! BIG HUGS!
Saturday, June 14, 2014
Darrell, please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of loss. It is our prayer that the cherished memories you have of Julia will be a source of comfort in the days to come.
Maurice & Judith Phelps (New Bern, NC)
Tuesday, June 10, 2014
Darrell, are prayers are with you and your family during this very sad time. May you draw strength from your family and friends whom God has placed in your path.
Tuesday, June 10, 2014
Darrell- we missed you both this year at the symposium but know you were where you should be, beside your lovely wife. Please know your friends at DHG have kept you and your family in our prayers. Godspeed.

Kathe Hoots
Tuesday, June 10, 2014
The Radford family holds the Pare family close in prayer now and in the coming days! Julia was a very special, a very kind, and a very sweet friend! God bless you and we love you!
Darryl & Jen & the girls
Monday, June 09, 2014
Darrell and family, So sorry to hear of you loss but thankful to hear of God's blessing in Julie's life. I know you have strong faith to make it through this terrible time. Just know you are in the thoughts and prayers of Grace Baptist Church in Granite City, ILL.
Monday, June 09, 2014
Darrell - I'm so sorry to hear of this. It's been so long since I have seen you, I had no idea. May God bless and comfort you my brother.
Monday, June 09, 2014
To the Pare and VonNida Family, god plz wrap your arms around these Family members with comfort , and guidance. My thoughts n prayers are with you all......????????
Monday, June 09, 2014
Darrell... its been awhile since I've seen you, but I just wanted to say how sorry I am to hear of your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers; lean on God to comfort you in the days, weeks and months ahead.
Monday, June 09, 2014
Dear Darrell and family, I sang in the choir with Julia when I was at Temple. I was saddened to hear of her death but rejoice in knowing the she is with our Lord. May God give you His peace that passes all understanding. I was asked to join the choir in singing, "Thou o Lord." It will be my honor and privilege. "God is our refuge and strength..." Psalm 46:1 KJV
Monday, June 09, 2014
Darrell and Family just wanted to let you know that you are in my prayers.
Monday, June 09, 2014
Darrell --- Wanted you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Memories of Julie will ever be precious in our hearts. We love all of you. --- Kathy Rudolph & the Members of Grace Baptist Church
Monday, June 09, 2014
Darrell and family:
God bless you all. Julia is rejoicing now in the best place possible. Your support and devotion showed us how to love.

Jerry & Helen Cox
Monday, June 09, 2014
Julia walked the Christian walk with her family by her side. She is now at peace and in the presence of God, our Almighty Father. We shall pray for you Darrell, Courtney and Patrick. It was an honor to know Julia and share so many laughs with her. HOW SHE LOVED LITTLE ABBEY!!!!! She will be missed.
May God's love give you comfort today and always.
Dick and Barb Stoll
Sunday, June 08, 2014
Dear Darrell,, Courtney and Patrick I am so sad to hear of your loss. I know there are no words that can comfort, but we have a God that will give comfort. I remember Julie as a great woman of God, always on the go doing something at Grace Baptist. I leave you with my favorite memory verse- I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me Philippians 4:13. In Christ Love- Billy Lynn Hale (Tedder)
Sunday, June 08, 2014
To the Pare family with love. Your mother and wife was such a beautiful and sweet lady. I'm glad I had the opportunity to get to spend time with her. She definitely always made me smile and was very warm and welcoming. She is happy now and can go with each of you where ever your paths take you each day. May she be your angel in heaven and bless you in ways you never had imagined. ?? God bless your family.
Sunday, June 08, 2014
Darrell, Courtney and Patrick, I share your grief. I will miss my sister every day. We had a wonderful telephone conversation everyday at 3:00 for the last twelve years. I see no reason to stop talking to her now. I know she will still be there to share my joys and sorrows and I look forward to the day when I will see her again. I urge you to talk to her and keep her alive in your hearts. She will be there for you just as she always has been.
Sunday, June 08, 2014
Darrell, I am so sorry for your loss! Julie was one of the best people I ever met. Heaven is a better place with her in it. I pray for you and your family!
Candee (Staicoff) Damron
Sunday, June 08, 2014
Thinking of you all and praying for you during this difficult time. We have many fond memories of Julia. She was such a strong woman and a wonderful wife, mother, and grandmother. Love to you all!
Sunday, June 08, 2014
Uncle Darrell, Courtney & Patrick,
Aunt Julie was such a strong warrior! She was also very lucky to have the 3 of you taking care of her for all these years. I will miss her terribly!
I love you all!
Sunday, June 08, 2014
Darrell, Our prayers are with you and your family. You know she is with God now, singing and rejoicing on them streets of gold. May you find peace and comfort in your memories. Heartfelt love and sympathy, Donna and Sue Edwards
Sunday, June 08, 2014
Dear Darrell and family, Heaven's choir has gained another angel. I will fondly remember Julia as part of the choir at Temple, Bunco and just getting together with the girls. I'd like to share a funny story: I was sitting watching a TBC baseball game with my sister Stephanie and I said to her (and I thought I whispered) "Oh my, I have a chin hair." I heard a little chuckle coming from behind me and turned around, caught Julia's eye and we busted out laughing! She said "don't worry, you'll get more!" I will never forget sharing that moment with her and laughing about getting a little older. She was truly an inspiration and I know she made you proud. Big hug from Lisa and Dale Rossiter
Sunday, June 08, 2014
Prayers for peace and comfort for family and friends. So sorry for your loss.
©2014 Legacy.com. All rights reserved. Guest Book entries are free and are posted after being reviewed for appropriate content. If you find an entry containing inappropriate material, please contact us.