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Lucylle (Stokes) Stender 1941 - 2012
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Thursday, April 25, 2013
bye bye guest book.....you will always be alive to me....Your garden is doing well and will have lots of pretty flower soon.....
Friday, March 22, 2013
It is almost one year that you left us we miss and love you.
The 28th will be a hard time for your family. We will light a candle for you and your family.
Thursday, March 21, 2013
Love to all your kids and grandkids throughout this hard time....One year in 7 days and it always seem like yesterday. hug
Saturday, March 16, 2013
miss u alot and wish all did not happen
Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Lucylle it will be one year soon.. I have missed you more than anyone can imagine...I sit in your garden and visit with you most days....love love love hugs hugs hugs.....
Sunday, February 17, 2013
Grandma, I cant believe its been a year almost. I miss you so much. I wish you were here to see how big your great grandkids are getting.You are never forgotten and there hasnt been a day that has gone by you cross my head everyday. I sure do miss you silly laugh your silly jokes and most of all your advice you would give me. I love you grandma and want you to knw you are always in my heart and soul. love you grandma and miss you. also please give everyone the strangth to continue the hope and there lifes and let all of us knw that you are okay and you are in a happier place and no more hurt and pain from what you were hurting from and let all of us know that one day we will see you agian with open arms we all love you and miss you grandma xoxoxox love you sara
Sunday, February 17, 2013
Next month will be 1 year you left ..Sure have missed you and love you with all my heart. I put flowers out there for you...my dear love
Thursday, February 14, 2013
Happy Valentine's day to my love and will always be my love...
Monday, February 11, 2013
MOM, ITS ALMOST BEEN A YEAR, I CANT BELIEVE YOUR GONE LET ALONE BEING GONE A YEAR ALREADY. MOM I AM SO SORRY ABOUT ALL YOUR PAIN AND NOT BEING ABLE TO HELP TAKE IT AWAY. I LOVE YOU MOM, YOUVR DONE SO MUCH FOR SO MANY, IF ONLY THERE WAS SOMETHING WE COULDVE DONE FOR YOU. I LOVE AND MISS YOU FOREVER.
Sunday, February 10, 2013
happy valentine miss and love you
Friday, February 08, 2013
A special Valentines Weekend at the Channell Lodge,(Captains Suite),Laconner,Wa.
Saturday, January 26, 2013
love you and miss you
Friday, January 25, 2013
Hello there Grandma!
I hope you know just how much you are loved!
I miss you and think of you often! Allenah is getting so big and smart! I know you would love the pictures of her!
I also wanted to say thank you, for keeping a watchful eye on us!
I love and miss you ALWAYS!!

*and thank YOU,for paying to keep this open for us! (: i love and appreciate that SOOO very much! *
Friday, January 25, 2013
Lucylle, we get to talk to you until April..So anyone can sign your guest book each day...We love and miss your jokes, laugh, good heart, and so many many good things about you.....
Friday, January 25, 2013
This is your Birthday month so Happy Birthday to our dear loved one...YOU...
Friday, January 25, 2013
Lucylle we miss you and Think of you a lot this month because
This was your month.
Thursday, January 24, 2013
may your bright lite keep you safe and you delighting in his glory
Thursday, January 24, 2013
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
http://www.ruthann1.com
Wednesday, January 23, 2013
Lucylle, I miss our daily emails and will always miss you..It has been a hard year....your memorie will always make me smile and laugh...I plant a garden for you and go visit yard garden most days. Flower will bloom galore come spring just for you..
Wednesday, January 23, 2013
We miss your laugh and your good heart and loving ways and so many more to mention.No one loves you more and enjoyed you more than your loving , helpful family....
Tuesday, January 22, 2013
Well, Lucylle, Today we all miss you and no one been there for you but, your family and friends..We are still with you always...
Sunday, January 20, 2013
Lucylle, Not a day or night goes by that I don't think about you and all the times together we spent,and with all your family and mine,I so miss you every day bringing your mail for you,and just saying, Good Morning Sweetheart,and planning to do something together in the yard,or you asking me to look or fix something. I have alwayse been there for you Lucylle. With all My Love (BoB)
Thursday, July 19, 2012
my dear aunt lucylle first my mom then you. my mother and you were like sister to the end . your guys friendship lasted almost fifty years way before some of us kides came along and were born . i will hold all the memories i have of you close to my heart. i love you and will miss you . i hope you girls are finally at piece now. love you
Friday, May 04, 2012
I LOVE AND MISS YOU MOM, I DONT KNOW HOW WE (I) AM GOING TO MAKE IT, YOU TRUELY HELPED ME THROUGH MY ROUGHEST TIMES AND HELPED GUILD ME WHEN I QUESTIONED WHAT TO DO. ILOVE AND MISS YOU, I STILL DONT UNDERSTAND, AND GUESS I NEVER WILL BUT JUST KNOW YOU ARE DEEPLY MISSED. SHERYL
Wednesday, May 02, 2012
I miss u so much Lucylle
Wednesday, May 02, 2012
Miss u so much Lucylle...
Saturday, April 14, 2012
HI MOM, I MISS YOU SO MUCH, I DONT QUITE UNDERSTAND,AND IM STILL NOT SURE WHAT TO SAY. I LOVE YOU AND MISS BUNCHES AND WHOLE BUNCHES!^Sheryl
Saturday, April 14, 2012
HI MOM, I MISS YOU SO MUCH, I DONT QUITE UNDERSTAND,AND IM STILL NOT SURE WHAT TO SAY. I LOVE YOU AND MISS BUNCHES AND WHOLE BUNCHES!^Sheryl
Saturday, April 14, 2012
We are sorry to here of your loss... It was only last December she was laughing and sharing stories of her lost one. Love to lucylles family and friends past and present. Rachel (Lori's sister)
Monday, April 09, 2012
Heather and family...with my deepest sympathy for your loss. I pray that you will be surrounded by god's love during this difficult time. Sheryl
Friday, April 06, 2012
Her infectious laugh, love for her family and heart of gold will be missed for years to come. We love you all...Robin, Kelly, Brandon and Shelby Schimetz
Thursday, April 05, 2012
We all have so many wonderful memories of our Aunt Lucylle. She did so much for others which included hosting our family Easter egg hunts in her back yard (when it was full of trees). Aunt Lucylle & Mom would color a goose egg and the person that found it would get a big prize. This Easter, my family is going to introduce the "Lucy" egg at our Easter egg hunt, it too will have a big prize. Thank you for all you did and I will miss you in so many ways.
Wednesday, April 04, 2012
May God's Presense be with you all, not only now but thru the many lonely days ahead. Just remember that you will have His comfort surrounding you at all times.
Wednesday, April 04, 2012
Lucylle will be truly missed. Know that you are all loved and in the prayers of many. God is with you in this difficult time and in beyond. Heather I love you and your family like so many. Let us know if there is anything we can do for you.

Teri and David Fryman.
Wednesday, April 04, 2012
Lucy,

I did not know you very well but every time I saw you, you were smiling ear to ear, letting the joy of Christ shine through you. I cried when I found out, as if you were one of my close friends. A light went out in the world the day you left us. Your light will never be forgotten.
Tuesday, April 03, 2012
Heather and Heidi...I don't think I ever really knew your Mom, but I'm quite certain of your love for her...I've been seeing posts on Facebook that y'all lost her...Although we don't talk much these days, I want you to know that I am truly sorry for your loss...I wish you both the best lives you can live....
Tuesday, April 03, 2012
God's peace to your family and my sincere condolences at the loss of your loving mom, g-ma, great g-ma, sister and friend.
Tuesday, April 03, 2012
Auntie Love and Miss you more everyday! Give mom a big hug for me! Love you both!!!!
Tuesday, April 03, 2012
Oh Auntie! you were such a fun, loving person. I am going to miss your funny ways. I will always remember the fun times we had just visiting.Your laugh was contagious!!! I miss you and love you very much!!!!
Monday, April 02, 2012
I love you Aunt Lucyclle and will always cherish our times together. I have such wonderful memories of us telling spooky stories together. We all will miss you but I know your spirit is still with us.
Monday, April 02, 2012
wow what a wonderful person you are and I am going to miss you so much.....loved your humor so many talents . You know I am here thinking of you and you are at peace...love you so much Lucylle, Joanie
Monday, April 02, 2012
Being a Shoreline high school chum of Lucylle's, I was lucky enough to get to see her just a few weeks before she died. she visited me with her sister, Joan. We had a really nice time. I was so happy to be with her. she was such a nice person. I miss her already. We had only just renewed our friendship. Donna Dalglish Dees
Monday, April 02, 2012
I am praying for you and yours. I was so shocked to see this, I ran to Beverly to see what what... I will miss your posts and I remember our younger days when our kids were so little and played together everyday. Kathie Blackett
Monday, April 02, 2012
Auntie: You are a wonderful,fun,loving person. We will Love and Miss you always. You will Always Live in our Hearts and Prayers! I LOVE YOU!
Monday, April 02, 2012
We are all lighting a candle here in Arizona on our family vacation in honor of your beautiful life and passing.
Monday, April 02, 2012
Grandma, I now you have always had a special guardian angel to watch over you. Now may one day you can be are angel and watch over us. I love you so much and miss you already. I am so glad that my daughter had a special relationship with you and i am so glad that you made such a wonderful family for us. I love you so much. The flowers Amanda and I left on your steps the red is for are love the white is for are friendship the candles were lite with a special prayer so are harts will ALWAYS stay lite for a special grandma and great grandma. love you and miss you xoxoxoxoxox
Monday, April 02, 2012
I am blessed to have known you for the last 6 years, you were continuously making people laugh and feel welcome. You were definitely a light in many peoples lives and I hope that you will continue to be a guiding light for your loved ones from Heaven.
Love you
Monday, April 02, 2012
I was blessed to have known you for 6 years, you would continuously make everyone laugh and feel welcome. You were definitely a light in many lives and I hope that you will continue to be a guiding light to all of your loved ones from Heaven.
Love you
Sunday, April 01, 2012
GRANDMA, I LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH! YOU WILL ALWAYS BE A PART OF MY LIFE NO MATTER WHAT! YOU WERE SO SUPPORTIVE AND ALWAYS THERE WHEN I NEEDED YOU THE MOST. I AM SO THANKFUL MY DAUGHTER GOT TO SEE HOW A GREAT PERSON YOU WERE AND GET TO LOVE YOU LIKE I DO. WHEN AMANDA AND I GOT THE FLOWERS AND PUT THEM ON YOUR FRONT DOOR STEP IT SIMBELIZED LOVE, FRIENDSHIP AND THE CANDLES WILL NEVER BURN OUT FOR THE LOVE WE HAVE FOR YOU! WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU! YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN! YOU ARE THE BEST! LIKE I ALWAYS SAID XOXOXOXOX MY LOVE WILL NEVER END FOR YOU! LOVE YOU GRANDMA
Sunday, April 01, 2012
Grams you had an angels heart in the devils hands my lonesome dove my love and memories will never fade love and miss you always
Sunday, April 01, 2012
GRANDMA I DONT KNOW WHAT IM GOING TO DO WITHOUT U. YOU WHERE THE ONLY GRANDMA THAT I HAD LEFT HERE ON EARTH AND NOW U R GONE. I LOVE U AND MISS U SO MUCH. NOW I HOPE THAT U REST IN PEACE.
Sunday, April 01, 2012
My dear dear siter love you so more than words can say...Love your humor, fun, a great women.. Everyone will remember your kindness, caring, giving, a great womem...will always carry you in my heart. forever...love to you sister Joanie
Sunday, April 01, 2012
ALWAYS loved and NEVER forgotten!
I am grateful to have been apart of your life and in YOUR family!
I light this candle in rememberance of you and the love you gave to us all! I love you! And I will take you with me always and forever!! <3
Sunday, April 01, 2012
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
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