Almost been a year. Thinking of my little brother
Oliver's Family and Friends,
You are all in my thoughts. Andrew was one our IT guys at Central Public Defender's Office and will be greatly missed. I always looked forward to his humorous view of things -- who knew toner cartridges and computer servers could be funny! He was always kind and patient to those of us not so computer literate, an obvious example of his character. A true gentleman. My condolences to you all, especially his wife and family. I am so sorry for your loss.
Oliver was a co-worker of mine. I really liked his poker-face humor. He always made me laugh every time I spoke to him. After an unexpected change in position, I had the pleasure of working with his lovely wife, Julie in H.R. When she told me Oliver was her husband, my eyes lit up because I missed the P.D. She welcomed me so warmly & w/chocolate. :) Thank you for that. I'm glad to have met both of you. My heart aches for you Julie. I am so deeply sorry for your sudden loss. The P.D. will never be the same without him. God be with you & your family.
Oliver-you will be greatly missed. It's not every brother that would give his sister and her geeky friend rides home from high school when it was sooo uncool to be seen with siblings. I'll miss your fun facebook posts, even though I'm a democrat. Be at peace.
Oliver - the night this picture was taken you were with us in spirit, but we were missing your presence. Twenty years later, your RHS friends are all thinking of you and missing you again. You will live in our memories forever ...
Oliver, you will be sorely missed! I had the pleasure of supervising Oliver the last 5+ years and came to rely heavily upon him for his knowledge and ability. His humor and wit were a potent duo that kept me constantly laughing, and sometimes on edge. Julie, Melissa and I are so sorry for your loss. It's so hard to believe a light as bright as Oliver is gone from this world. He will not be forgotten.
My heart goes out to your wife, parents the many memories of air force life......God Bless You......Bonnie underwood Hubers....highland, calif
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very painful time.
Oliver, I know we didn't keep in real close touch over the years but I've always thought about you. I'll miss you tremendously. You were like a brother to me. The one thing I'll always remember is that you were, you are, and you will always be...my FRIEND.
I miss my little brother. Time is too short. His humor in our childhood will live with me forever.
Oliver, you laughed with me, and you laughed at me. Your postings on Facebook always gave me something to look forward to. You will be missed by everyone! Even Chocut Jebus!
We are sorry for your loss. No one can truly understand the pain and loss more than the ones closest to them. His memory will live on in your hearts. May the memories you shared give you strength and god bless you. He will be missed.
-Amanda Quezada and Melissa Andrews
(Twin Falls, ID)
I miss my little brother. Never again will I take for granted time I have to say that I care while someone is alive. His humor I will have with me forever.
Oliver was a great friend whom I met about 20 years ago, an old Army buddy. He is a true patriot and a great American, I will miss him.
This candle is lit to reflect the light of your smile ... it burns brightly within our hearts as we share stories of your wit...
Ollie -- I know not many -- if any called him that ... I think he tolerated me calling him that because he knew how much I love his twin, Cassaundra. Julie and Oliver ...how I embellish the love story of their meeting ...and truth is it doesn't even need it ... it is repeated with love and respect to people that I encounter looking for that belief that love at first sight does happen ... and endure. There are no words that can remove the pain of loss, time passes in a vacuum when your heart is hit with the unexpected loss of someone you love so much. Oliver had the unique gift of really making me laugh ... that part of him...his eyes ...mesmerizing like Cassaundra's, his laugh, even tempered with our political disagreements, will be safely tucked away in my heart...and I will take them out like a prized possesion ... often to keep Ollie ever present as long as I live. To all the family but especially to you Julie and to you Cassaundra, Frank ...he is gone too soon and my heart aches with yours...I feel blessed to have shared memories with someone so loved by us all. ILYM-4P2, Thad
Oliver you were an Uncle to my daughter and a brother to my son. There are no words to tell you how much you will be missed by all of us. You irreverant humor brought hours of laughter and smiles to all. We love you and miss you. Cari Tortes and Family
"Oliver, I truly enjoyed getting to know you & your beautiful wife while we were house hunting....my heart is heavy that you only got to enjoy it for a few months..... Julie, may GOD give you strength and place his loving hand upon you to help you through this very difficult and unexpected time....the love you two shared is forever....
I was lucky enough to be able to call you my friend. I met you while you were stationed at Fort Huachuca, just a kid, fun loving who drove me bonkers with your paintball gun, and how much fun we had at Magic Mountain. But also a proud Army Soldier and proud American! Then when you called to say you got married & how happy you were. I knew that Julie was your match and you have always expressed your love for her.
I know you will be missed by so many people, because no matter who it was you made an impact in their lives! I know we didn't always agree but I still looked at you as one of my oldest, close friends. No words can explain how loved you are by so many. Please rest in peace, god speed. Thank you for your service, Love & will miss you! Charidy
To Oliver's wife & family: My heart goes out to all of you in this time of loss and as you adjust to life without him. His time on earth was not as long as it should have been but he touched so many lives while here. He was an amazing man, husband and friend and will dearly be missed. May you cherish and find peace in your beautiful memories.
My sincerest condolences to the Andrews family for their loss of Oliver. I had the pleasure of working with Oliver since he joined the Public Defender's Office and I will miss his wit and more importantly, his kind heart.
I am so blessed to have had the small window of time I have been given to get to know you. Your sense of humor and caring nature were truly your gifts. You always had time for me when I wanted to vent or laugh or even gross you out.....ha ha!! You always supported the group and your love for your country was wonderful!! I loved your posts about Julie and I don't think I will ever be able to look at another Gummy Bear without thinking of you both and your love for each other!! You will never be forgotten and this world is just a sadder place without you here in it!!
Rest In Peace, Oliver!!
I remember when you came over in the middle of the night to check on things because the dog was barking, thanks for being there for me then and many more times, you made me feel safe. I will miss you and all your joking around, Love you.
Oliver, I never saw you with anything but a smile and good sence of humor, we will miss you.
Oliver, I feel like you and Julie are family. I'll never forget that when Megan, Trey, and I needed a bigger house you traded with me. I always felt that my family was safe, and loved with both of you there. I love you and Julie and I will miss you're company.
Darlene S. Osuna
I never met Oliver in person, but I got to know him through Julie and FB. I always enjoyed his sense of humor and through his postings I got to know what a great person he was and how much he loved Julie. I know he will be missed by many.
Oliver, I regret that I hardly got to know you at all. We disagreed on ideology, politics, and gun control, but you always...ALWAYS...made me laugh out loud while I was disagreeing with you. You will be missed.
Oliver, we loved your sense of humor too, I remember your gasmask diaper changing adventure that gave my infant son nightmares lol. Now thanks to you my son is 20 and Army National guard MP and honoring your memory with your favorite pic of him from Basic training with his M4. I recall the many night of open door free dinners that help us get to know you and ask you to be the godfater to our children, thus meeting Julie my friend, your wife and lover.My only regret is you have yet to meet Nevada and Asher so I will add them to this list. We will see you in the blink of an eye Oliver, we love you and God bless you in your journey.
Oliver, you were a great person to know, growing up as your neighbor for most of my life was something unique and a well endowed memory to me. When I came back from the military you didn't judge what I hadn't done but instead was proud of what I did do and for that I am thankful. You were, are and always will be a great friend to me and my family, and we love you so much. You will be sorely missed.
Oliver, You were there for me while I raised my kids and you were like the brother I never had. We all love you and will miss you more desperately then we can know.
Oliver, you were there for me when my youngest was born and throughout her life. You were the brother I never had and will be missed.
Oliver you will missed for your sense of humor and love of your wife and country. RIP