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    Sugar Land, TX
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Stephanie Kay Kirkpatrick 1985 - 2014
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Tuesday, March 25, 2014
Cindy, I am so heartbroken to learn of this inconceivable tragedy. Stephanie was truly an amazing human being. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Monday, March 24, 2014
So very sad to hear this news about Stephanie. Such a beautiful girl from a wonderful hometown family. Sending prayers and love and peace during this very hard time. Our hearts are with you all.
Monday, March 24, 2014
Our most heartfelt sympathy is with the Kirkpatrick family at Stephanie's tragic loss. Clearly, she was an amazing daughter, sister, teacher, and friend. God Bless.
Sunday, March 23, 2014
Sunday, March 23, 2014
To the whole family: our hearts go out to you! May God give you all you need each hour by hour. May you be surrounded by close family and friends for strength as well. Prayers are going up for you!!
Friday, March 21, 2014
Neil, my dear friend. I just heard about this horrible news. There simply are not enough words that can describe the suffering you are going through right now. Such a beautiful life cut down so soon.

Neil we do not know why God allows us to go through such suffering but he promised that we would. Sometimes God calls those he loves the most home sooner. I know that today your angle is with him waiting to see you again in his kingdom. Please accept my deepest sympathies for you, Sylvia, and your family. You will be in my prayer. Koorosh

John 6:40
For this is the will of my Father, that everyone who looks on the Son and believes in him should have eternal life, and I will raise him up on the last day.”
Thursday, March 20, 2014
Neil,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts search with yours for understanding and comfort. Prayers that peace may come to your family...
Thursday, March 20, 2014
Neil, I'm so sorry for your whole family for all of whom I'm praying for peace some day soon.
Thursday, March 20, 2014
My deep sympathies. Hearing about Stephanie from my daughter (Marzieh) broke my heart. She sounds like a gentle beautiful soul and a wonderfully kind teacher.

May god bless her soul, and may she rest in peace.
Wednesday, March 19, 2014
Stephanie was such a beautiful and talented young woman. My husband and I had the pleasure of directing The Wiz which she was in, and then she helped out with teaching summer camps and assistant directing a show for Applause Theatre in north Houston. The kids absolutely loved her as did the staff. We had a hard time believing that anyone so talented and ambitious was still so generous of their time. She volunteered and went above and beyond for us always. I also had the pleasure of meeting Dean at our production of "13" that Stephanie helped with and I remember how proud she was to introduce her dad. I wanted to stay and talk to you Dean after the services yesterday but when I saw your face, my heart welded up with so much sadness for your loss that I couldn't even speak. I am so very sorry for this horribly sad end to the beautiful life of your sweet daughter. She truly was loved by so many. I wish that you had access to all of the texts and emails going back and forth between hundreds of Stephanie's friends...talking about all of the memories that we have of the good times she helped create. There is no justice for your loss, but the knowledge that you and Cindy raised such a beautiful young lady who changed everyone's life who knew her in such sweet and positive ways. I feel so lucky to have known her and I wish that I could help fill the void. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers and we feel Stephanie's spirit even now. Rest it peace sweet girl.
Wednesday, March 19, 2014
Neil and Cindy, I am so sorry for your loss. My heart aches knowing the pain you are enduring. Stephanie grew into a beautiful, talented young lady and was taken from this world way too soon. Please know you are all in my prayers.
Wednesday, March 19, 2014
Your short life was dedicated to helping others. God has a special place for you.
Tuesday, March 18, 2014
Neil - We were shocked and saddened to hear about your daughter. Our hearts go out to you and we will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. May God wrap his arms around you and hold you tight in your time of need. Ron and Debbie Frerich, St Angela Merici, Sugar Land, TX
Tuesday, March 18, 2014
I was one of Stephanie's teachers at Notre Dame and directed her senior thesis on Flaubert. I was very fond on Stephanie and was terribly sad to learn of her death. My best wishes to her family.
Tuesday, March 18, 2014
So sorry for your family's loss.
Tuesday, March 18, 2014
We were so shocked and saddened to hear about your tragedy. We immediately thought back to Cindy as our flower girl and what a heartbreak this is for your entire family. You are in our thoughts and prayers, as well as Kristi's and Wendy's.

God Bless You.

Clyde and Janice Wallace
Luling, Texas
Tuesday, March 18, 2014
The universe seems to us empty and cold, random and cruel.

And yet Love remains, and endures all.

My heart goes out to all of you.
Tuesday, March 18, 2014
Deepest condolences to the Kirkpatrick family. My heart goes out to all of you in this time of loss.
Tuesday, March 18, 2014
Neil,
Though I never met Stephanie, I remember how proud you were of her & showing videos of her singing. Such a beautiful voice. So sorry for you loss. You & your family are in my prayers!
Tuesday, March 18, 2014
Cindy I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that God will wrap his loving arms around your family. Those we love don't go away...they walk beside us everyday...unseen, unheard but always near, still loved, still missed, and very dear.
Tuesday, March 18, 2014
Neal Dean, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. The Pike active chapter asked me to convey their condolences on your loss.
Tuesday, March 18, 2014
Neil Dean,

You are in my thoughts, brother. May time and the love of your many friends help ease the pain and shock and grief.
Monday, March 17, 2014
I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family.
Monday, March 17, 2014
May God bless you all! You now have a saint in heaven. I remember Stephanie with the fondest memories as little girls at JLCCS, she was a true friend. My prayers are with you all.
Monday, March 17, 2014
To the Kirkpatrick family: You are all in my deepest thoughts and prayers. May Gods love and mercy comfort you for Stephanie's beautiful light shines on in heaven.
Monday, March 17, 2014
I remember this very talented young lady when she was a youngster performing in Corsicana at the Warehouse Living Arts Center. My heart is sadden and praying for family and friends. Peace be with you all.
Monday, March 17, 2014
Love, love, love her! So glad she touched our lives! Our thoughts and prayers are with you all! Dick and Pearl Skewes
Monday, March 17, 2014
Cindy, I didn't have the honor of meeting your daughter but I know how special & close a daughter's love is. There is nothing irreplaceable. Hold on to those precious memories as they will eventually get you through these terrible times. You & your family are in my prayers.
Monday, March 17, 2014
Neil,
I wish I had some magic words to help comfort you and ease your heartache. I am so very sorry for the sudden lost of daughter. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Monday, March 17, 2014
To the Kirkpatrick Family: "We are truly saddened by the news of your loss. Stephanie was a good friend to the two of us in elementary/middle school. Even though we all went on seperate journeys after school, we never forgot each other, most importantly, we never forgot Stephanie's bright, genuine, caring spirit. We send our deepest sympathy and prayers for your family during this time.
Monday, March 17, 2014
To the Kirkpatrick Family: " We are truly saddened by the news of your loss. Stephanie was a great friend to the two of us during elementary/middle school. Even though we all went on seperate journeys following school, we never forgot each other, nor did we forget her bright, genuine, caring spirit. Stephanie will be deeply missed. We send our deepest sympathy for your family. We will be praying for you."
Monday, March 17, 2014
Neil,
My heart hurts for you and your family. I am sorry for you loss. Prayers are being said for peace and healing.
Monday, March 17, 2014
"To the Kirkpatrick family: Our family is truly saddened by your loss. Stephanie was a good friend to us both in elementary/middle school and though we all went on to seperate places after school, we never forgot each other especially her bright, caring spirit. We send our prayers and deepest sympathy to your family. Stephanie will be greatly missed."
Monday, March 17, 2014
Steph,

You have the best freakin' shoes, which is appropriate since you will always walk with me.
-Callahan
Monday, March 17, 2014
Neil, we were so blessed to have met Stephanie and you at the theatre. She was a joy to be with and we will miss her deeply. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!
Monday, March 17, 2014
Neil, words cannot express our sorrow over the loss of Stephanie. We felt so blessed to have met her and you at the theatre and she will always be in our life and memories. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Monday, March 17, 2014
Cindy and Neil,
I am so sorry for your loss. May God comfort you and your family during this time of sorrow.
Monday, March 17, 2014
Cindy, Im truly sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers
Monday, March 17, 2014
Neil and Cindy, I am so sorry. I have many fond memories of your precious daughter. Please know you are in my prayers.
Monday, March 17, 2014
Cindy, my heart breaks for you. My deepest sympathies.
Monday, March 17, 2014
I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Monday, March 17, 2014
Cindy - you and your family have been in my prayers. I am so sorry for your loss. I'm praying God's peace and love fill you today and in the days to come, and may you be filled with His strength as you move forward in this life knowing that one day, you will be reunited with your beautiful daughter.
Monday, March 17, 2014
Roger and I were shocked and saddened to hear about your unimaginable loss of Stephanie. There are no words. May God bless you, keep you, and grant you peace.
Much love,
Ellen and Roger Polansky
Sunday, March 16, 2014
Cindy, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sunday, March 16, 2014
Hi, I'm so very sorry for your loss. I recently graduated from The Monarch School and I have known her since I was 12 or 13 years old. I truly believe that she is with god now, and she is in a better place. To the family of Ms. Stephanie, I'm so sorry that this happened. I wish you the best of luck.
Sunday, March 16, 2014
May God and the Holy Spirit fill the emptiness and pain in you life that you are feeling for loosing such an Angell in this world. Remember that He can not always controll the evil in this world, but he does offer us a better world in the near future. You will be together with your angel, Stephanie, in a world that God promise us. Lean on our God for comfort . He will give u strength and hope to continue this life on earth until we are all called to Heaven. Your daughter, Stephanie is with you, next to you, and she is in a better place. Your are just letting her to temporarily, until you meet again. My love and Prayer are with and your family. Love you. Anna
Sunday, March 16, 2014
Our sincere heartfelt sympathy is with the entire Kirkpatrick family at this time of incredible loss.
Joe and Sylvia Cutrer
Sunday, March 16, 2014
Stephanie was one of the most interesting people I knew . Knowing her makes me feel like she wouldn't want her family to stay sad over her. Honestly I wasn't like her best friend , but that doesn't mean she didn't mean anything to me. At least in heaven she can't be hurt anymore
Sunday, March 16, 2014
Stephanie, you are and will be in my heart, always.
Sunday, March 16, 2014
Love and prayers to all.
Sunday, March 16, 2014
Our hearts are so heavy with grief for the Kirkpatrick family at the loss of Stephanie. May the grace of God and prayers of family and friends surround you throughout this difficult time.
Sunday, March 16, 2014
Stephanie was a lovely and beautiful girl. She will be missed. My prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. I am so sorry for your loss.
Sunday, March 16, 2014
To the family of Tank,

I met Tank my freshman year at ND. While she was a senior at time, that did not stop her from extending her friendship and lovely sense of humor my way. While I did not know her well, the memories I have of her are filled with kindness, laughter and praise for Texas being the best state. She even gave me a sweatshirt with Texas on it that reads, "The Notre Dame of States." My deepest condolences go out to y'all. Sending love and prayers your way.
Sunday, March 16, 2014
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Sunday, March 16, 2014
Blessed are the pure in heart for they shall see God. Matthew 5:8
Dear Kirkpatrick Family,
Stephanie was a joyful blessing to all. I know she was your heartbeat. Your sweet girl was a positive, loving teacher who had a tremendous love and devotion for her students. As her family, you were always there every step of the way for her with words of encouragement and prayer.
Our love, thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire St. Agnes family.
We are so sorry.
Sunday, March 16, 2014
Thinking of you Cindy and your whole family.
Saturday, March 15, 2014
Stephanie was truly a special woman and our Lord has gained a very special angel. Our prayers go out to the loved ones and may our Lord bring you peace during this difficult time.
Saturday, March 15, 2014
What precious memories we all have of sweet, sweet Stephanie. Praying that somehow you will feel the love and prayers of all who have known your family through the years.
Saturday, March 15, 2014
What an incredibly beautiful person inside and out. I'm so sorry for the loss of Stephanie for her huge circle of friends and loving family. God Bless, Terri Lively
Saturday, March 15, 2014
May God comfort all of you during this very difficult time. We know what a star Stephanie has always been to the Kirkpatrick family. Now she will be shining down on you and your hearts each day. Our love and sympathy,
Saturday, March 15, 2014
Cindy,
My prayers go out to you and your family during this time of loss and unimaginable grief. We never understand why something as heartbreaking as this, happens to good, beautiful people. I will pray that God wraps you in his loving arms and comforts you.
Love from across the miles,
Laura
Saturday, March 15, 2014
To our dear friends, the Kirkpatricks – our hearts have been full of sorrow since learning of this tragic and incomprehensible loss. We may not be related by blood or marriage, but you are family to us and our prayers remain focused on you. While we realize the empty place in your hearts left by the loss of Stephanie will remain until you reunite in heaven, we pray that our Lord brings you the strength and peace you need to continue on, and that you can see her not in death, but more beautiful than ever now in the glorious company of Jesus. You are much loved by us and more importantly, by God!
Saturday, March 15, 2014
Our deepest sympathies. You are in our prayers.
Saturday, March 15, 2014
My heart is broken I love you all and pray that God will give you peace.
Saturday, March 15, 2014
We feel pain for the loss of the Kirkpatrick family member. Stay strong...
Saturday, March 15, 2014
Our prayers are with your family. We never know the how or why, but our faith & memories help to heal our wounds. God Bless. Marge & Chip Fink
Saturday, March 15, 2014
Cindy and family, our thoughts and prayers are with you all. When you read this someday just know that you aren't alone in your grief. When one of us is in pain, we are all hurting. We love you.

Victoria High School Class of 77
Saturday, March 15, 2014
We want to express our deepest sympathies in your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always.

Johnny & Suzanne
Saturday, March 15, 2014
My prayers are with you. May God hold you in his arms and comfort all of you in this time of sorrow.
Saturday, March 15, 2014
Prayers are with you and all your family at this most difficult time. Briefly, Stephanie and I reconnected in choir at St. Laurence. What a talented and pleasant young woman.
Saturday, March 15, 2014
There are no words for the loss of such a beautiful person inside and out. Steph was a huge part of my childhood. I am a better person having had her as a fellow actress, teammate, classmate, and friend. There have been many years in between, but I will think of her every time I see a beanie baby and I will teach my kids how to play poop deck because that's what always made us laugh the hardest! I pray time eases the pain for the entire family and that they truly know we are all blessed for having known her
Saturday, March 15, 2014
Cindy - May God be with you and your family and heal your broken heart with his love.
Saturday, March 15, 2014
We were shocked and grief struck when we heard the news. Stephanie gave us hope. Our son has grown and blossomed so much under Stephanie's wing at Monarch. She was more than just his teacher. She made school a joyful place for our child. The last three years she has invested in our son is truly priceless to us. Her life will have a long-lasting impact on him, and my entire family is forever grateful and truly blessed.
Saturday, March 15, 2014
Deepest sympathy, to you Neil and Cindy. I only had the privilege of acting with Stephanie once, but through that time was able to see the generous and sweet spirit she had about her. May God comfort you all as you go through this most difficult time.
Friday, March 14, 2014
Cindy,
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Your mother is my cousin. Your family will remain in our thoughts and prayers.

Junetta, Wayne, & Teri Thompson
Friday, March 14, 2014
Cindy, Neil, and Dean,
Our hearts are full of grief and sadness for you and for all those who love Stephanie. What a beautiful, loving, giving young woman we have all lost. The goodness and kindness and love she brought to the world will never be forgotten. You are all in our thoughts and prayers and in those of hundreds and thousands of people around the world.
Friday, March 14, 2014
Cindy, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time.
Lisa Sloan-Limmer
Friday, March 14, 2014
Cindy, May the Lord lead you through this difficult time and bring great healing to the coming days. Please know that Stephanie brought joy to everyone that came into her life. She was so grown up and bright when she was a kid. She always made me laugh.
Friday, March 14, 2014
The St. Laurence community grieves with you as you experience the tragic loss of this beautiful young woman. Having taught Stephanie in Middle School, I know the kindness and generosity she shared with others. I understand that those some qualities continued to be exhibited by the life she led as a special education teacher and community theatre supporter. God bless you all!
Friday, March 14, 2014
Cindy & Family, I am overwhelmed with sadness. Let us know what we can do. Our prayers are with you all.
Friday, March 14, 2014
Neil and Cindy,

May the knowledge of the positive influence Stephanie had on the lives of those with whom she worked be a source of pride and comfort.

Margaret McElroy
Charlottesville,VA
Friday, March 14, 2014
Cindy, I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and the entire family.
Friday, March 14, 2014
Neil and Cindy, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know we are thinking of you and keeping you in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Warmest regards,

Mike and Sharon Keeney
Humble, TX
Friday, March 14, 2014
Neal! Jim and I are truly sorry for this senseless tragedy. Our hearts are grieving for you. We send you our sincerest condolences. Mela and Jim
Friday, March 14, 2014
Stephanie,
I only got to visit with you a few times during your life but I have known you since before you were born. Your mom is one of my dearest friends.
You have been a shining light in this world and your light will shine on in the hearts and lives of the people you touched. So gifted, so talented,and taken too young. We all will want answers, but the answers don't soften the pain of your sudden transition. My heart aches for the grief felt by your parents, your brother and your friends.
Sending love and prayers,
Friday, March 14, 2014
Cindy, My heart is grieving for you and hope you'll know how much love we all feel for you and your family.
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