• James Funeral Home
    Massapequa, NY
In partnership with the Dignity Memorial® network
Thomas D. O'Toole Sr. 1949 - 2013
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Monday, August 11, 2014
Thinking about Tommy. We had our annual reunion at Lido, and toasted to our friend. We miss him always, but so much more intimately when we have get togethers and miss his physical presence. Til we see you again TOMMY! <3
Friday, December 27, 2013
thoughts and prayers for otool family. Friends with tom jr
Thursday, July 18, 2013
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to Tommy's family as he is laid to rest. His wit and smile will make Heaven an even happier place to be. Tommy, you will never be lonely again with Pat by your side. To say I will miss you is an understatement. This is a final salute to you from my son, who you admired so much. xoxo
Thursday, July 18, 2013
we are so sorry for your loss. my dad told me before he went home to the lord in march of this year, lifes about changing, it never stays the same. and he passed not long after that. My prayers go out to all of you, sincerely Donna Martin Lupinski UHS class of 73
Thursday, July 18, 2013
May my brother-in-law, Tommy, rest in peace. I will always remember how he took care of his family and treated Eileen and my mother with respect. He and I were stationed at Fort Jackson, SC at the same time.
Thursday, July 18, 2013
My condolences to the O'Toole family. Was very sorry to hear that Tom
had passed away. We had some great times , and laughs with the
EI-CGO gang in JFK. He got his EO too early.
Martin Kelly (EX EI -JFK)
Thursday, July 18, 2013
My deepest condolences to the O'Toole Family. Tommy was a great guy and so much fun! He will be missed by many. Tom and his family will be in my prayers. RIP Tommy...
Thursday, July 18, 2013
My condolences to Tommy and his family. Tommy was a close friend of my family and all the memories that I have of Tommy always will bring a smile to my face. Tommy was the greatest. Tommy you will be missed and never forgotten. Forever a fiend.
Wednesday, July 17, 2013
Rest in peace Tommy
Have fond memories of you at Aer Lingus
God Bkess and a good journey to heaven
Wednesday, July 17, 2013
To Tommy's family & friends ~ Having only met Tommy a few years ago, it didn't take long for me to come to know the kind, thoughtful & compassionate person he was. Like so many, I will miss "visiting" with him on FB and seeing him whenever I've gone to Borelli's. Remember to keep his memory alive by remembering the good times, telling the stories & celebrate his life always. Will keep him in my thoughts & prayers. RIP Tommy
Wednesday, July 17, 2013
Condolences to the family. Tommy was a very special friend to me and I have many happy memories and laffs from him. He was one of the most thoughtful men I have ever met and he touched the lives of everyone he knew. Lido and Borrelli gatherings will never be the same. We all love you and will miss you. BTW....thanx for the Sam Adams you gave me at Lido this past Saturday. RIP IRISH!
Wednesday, July 17, 2013
My condolences to Tommy's entire family. I am so sorry for your loss. Although I did not know him until the last 3 years - he was always so nice, and funny. He was quite the "mayor" of everything I saw him involved in. Will miss his posts on Facebook. May he rest in peace and you all know you have a very special guardian angels looking down on you. God bless you all at this very sad time. (Joan (Lucas) Esposito, Merrick, NY
Wednesday, July 17, 2013
LOVE TO YOU TOMMY AND YOUR LOVING FAMILY.YOUR MEMORY WILL LIVE IN OUR HEARTS FOREVER BUDDY.
Wednesday, July 17, 2013
Rest in peace Tommy. Your passing will surely leave a huge hole with the UHS crew and your humor, kindness and straight forwardness will never be forgotten.
Wednesday, July 17, 2013
Rest in peace Tommy...May you soar with the angels. You will be missed
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Heartfelt condolences to all of Tommy's family. Tommy made a positive impact on the lives of so many people.

His Uniondale High School classmates, both those who knew him personally and those who met him through Facebook, are grieving the loss of a fine and true friend.
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Tommy. You will truly be missed by all. I will miss your humor and how you always knew how to brighten everyone's day. You took it upon yourself to touch each and everyone of your friends. I thank you for all love you showed in just the short time I knew you. Thanks for always being there when we needed you to help my son win photo contests.
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Tommy I will miss you very much. Sorry I could not make it to lido to shake your hand and say hello again. God bless you and rest in peace my friend.
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Rest in Peace, Tommy. You will forever live in the hearts of so many that love you.
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Rest in peace my old friend. I will miss you more than you know. "Love ya kiddo"...
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
You are gone to soon! A wonderful member of the Uniondale Bandits. You will be missed. Condolences to his family. Susan Morrison Altrock
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Tommy will be sorely missed by all of Uniondale, loved by so many and left an indelible mark on my life. Godspeed my friend, until we meet again. Prayers for the family and may the Lord bring comfort to all.
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Tommy I will miss your kind heart and your sense of humor for everyday situations...You were a True Angle that walked among us all...May you rest in peace my Friend..
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Tommy will alway's hold a special place in my heart..His wit ,empathy and kind heartedness were beyond word's .We shared so many memories of a gentlier time on bandit's.He talked about Dougie all the time .I still can't picture life without Tommy in it .My heart is with his family and friend's at this saddest of times. God bless you all. ..
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Sorry I couldn't make it there Tommy. My prayers go to the loved one's left behind.
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Tommy,you were a dear friend to both Les and I,even tho we never met in person,,each time we do pizza here, we'll have the great memory of knowing you and how much guff you gave Les for getting to eat it.we will met again..love you.
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
A fellow bandit that was deeply loved by his friends from Uniondale. He is honored to be loved by so many- reading the guest book is humbling. My blessings and love to the family. Phyllis Levine( San Francisco , CA
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Tommy my dear friend, thank you for all the memories that will live on in my heart. The laughs, the sadness, we shared it all. Like you always said to me, love ya kiddo. Rest peacefully my friend...you will be missed.
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
As a fellow Bandit from Class of "68, Tommy was amazing in bringing us back to the Good Ole Days of Uniondale. We will miss him terribly but know he is in a good place ...holding down the fort with mascot Bandit. May God Bless you all as you go through the grieving process.
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Calm winds and following seas my friend. I will miss you at our Uniondale beach reunions but know Tommy you will live in my heart for ever as a close and true friend. You left us too soon. To your family our most heartfelt condolences during this most difficult time.

Ron & Kathy Blain
Cleveland, Ohio
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Although i didn't know Tommy personally, i knew him through the facebook page: "Uniondale Bandits." I will miss his funny, inspiring posts. I will continue to lift up his family in prayer! Be encouraged.
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
I am so sorry! Knew him a little when I was a kid, My brother Bob knew him. I was the annoying little sister. Bob is so sorry. He isn't on computer and wanted ne to tell his family how sorry he was and how he missed him.
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
In loving memory of a wonderful person. I will miss him.
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Deepest sympathy to your family for such a great loss...
Kathy Clark (Dewar)
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Tommy will be missed by so many of his friends.
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
It was a true pleasure knowing Tommy even if it was only through the Uniondale site on Facebook.
Our sincere condolences to those he loved and those who loved him.
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
I never had the pleasure to actually meet Tommy, BUT have heard only fantastic things of him from his friends and aquaintences. Earth has lost a great man but HEAVEN has gained a true inspiration. He is in good hands!!!! He is looking down on us and watching over us all!! Love to his family and friends>
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Our sincere condolences to the family of a wonderful man with a sense of humor to match. Tommy will be deeply missed and never forgotten. Cherish the memories you had with him.
..beatha shíoraí..

Sincerely, Christine and Carl Randazzo (formerly of Uniondale, NY)
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
When someone you love becomes a memory,
the memory becomes a treasure.
Heartfelt condolences to the family.
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
My sincere condolences to Tommy's family. His warm kind personality and generous heart will be truly missed.
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
You left this world too young, Tommy, you will be missed by so many, my condolences to his family and friends at this time of loss. I know you are in a better place with no pain or worries. RIP friend.
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Shared Tommy's love for dogs through the Uniondale Bandits page. He was both sensitive (when he lost his beloved Bandit) and fun-loving. Deepest condolences to his family.
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Our deepest sympathy to the family. Tommy always gave his friendship and love to all who knew him.
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Tommy - You'll be missed by all that were blessed to have you in their lives. Until we meet again my friend, RIP! - Linda & Dennis Fazzio :'(
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