I sit here at work thinking of you and our time together. I don't do well in situations like these, I guess for the most part because I don't like to face the future alone without those I care the deepest for. I joke and recount our crazy but meaningful time together, but underneath my cold hard gaze and smile, is a sadness chisled like stone in my soul. I am not going to waste my time with cliche'd tributes and goodbyes. If I did that you would not believe it was me. You were a man I respected, looked up too and most importantly loved without reservation, so you deserve me being James David, not a poser. Everyone knows or should know that you were a protector of the family because you loved us so much. One of the many attributes we have in common. I thank you for giving and asking nothing in return but to be loved and treated equally. The main reason I am writing is because its just one of those days where I would think to myself "hey, whats Bubba and Anita up too?" and I would call and see how you guys were doing and see when we would all get together. I was just telling Mom the other day how I miss and would always anticipate a call from you wanting to meet up at macaroni grill when I would come in from school. I am mad b/c this Christmas is not going to be the same :(. I told Aunt Anita that Annie and I would be up sometime in December for a visit, so even though you won't be there in body we know you will be there in spirit. I just want to thank you for teaching me the following: Not being ashamed to have fun in life; taking time out for family and friends; work to live, not live to work; not taking for granted those you care for; being not just a Uncle, but a friend and just loving/liking me and Annie for the people we are. Speaking of which, shes a woman of few words and private, but misses you more than anyone knows. I love you!! No goodbyes, just see you later.
I will miss my Christmas card this year. Rest in peace my friend.
Uncle Bubba was one in a million, true salt of the earth. He was a man of great integrity. He meant what he said and said what he meant and was never shy to express what laid heavy on his heart. He loved his family and was very loyal.
I am thankful for our visit Thursday and also thankful to have been able to tell him how much I appreciate him, how much I love him and how much I will miss him! He asked when he got to heaven, what he could tell my mom for me...he was always considerate of others before himself. I love you Uncle Bubba and will always cheerish our final talk and all of our memories.
Anita, our thoughts and prayers are with you. We love you.
Karen, Rick and family
Goodbye old friend, may you rest in peace.
I had the privilege of working with Tommy at the CPD, many years ago. He was always kind and a friend to me. I can still remember his laugh, and always makes me smile. Remember the good times. He will always be in your heart! Praying that the peace that passeth all understanding will lighten your heavy load at this time, and know that he is with our Heavenly Father free from pain & troubles.
Our memories will support celebrating his life. Our prayers will be for the loss to the family and his friends. We grew to know Tommy while working with him. His scruples and sincerity will be missed.
Michael & Karen
I have only met you a few times when you lived next door to my sister, Drema. I am so sorry for your loss. Blessed peace be with you during your time of sorrow.
Tommy, you were more than a neighbor, you were also a dear friend. Thank you for always being there for me. I will miss you tremendously! Anita, we are praying for you and the family.
The best brother a sister could ask for.....He loved his family....God surely blessed me with giving me a brother like Tommy Allan....I love you brother and so happy these were our last words to each other before he passed.
Our family is praying for you. We love you and are here for anything you need.
Darren, Stephanie, and Alissa