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Frederick Lucas Bala 1949 - 2011

Frederick Lucas Bala

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Friday, February 03, 2012
Hello Daddy,

i love u more than Pusa...hahaha...well it's friday 2-3-12 @2120pm, moe & i just came back from salinas, did another session of workouts at wolf's fitness...pusa & john came to check out the program...they were both laughing @ us, then we went to eat a healthy dinner at norma's next door with pusa & john...it was fun...we all drove home together, got home safely....

I just got off the phone with mommy about 20 min ago, she said she is feeling much better, she is able to walk faster now without holding on to rails or stairs, her hands are feeling stronger, no mater what she still plays tong-it...she also said she will be ready to go baguio in a couple days...

well papa, i hope ur doing ok up there with everyone, down here only 6 more weeks then spring begins..we didn't even see any snow up the mountains, although it hasn't rainned as much....yet...just keep warm up there..don't worry about us down here...always watch over mommy & Migz......Good nite papa....until next entry...i love & miss u dearly.....SEMPER FI!!!!!!

Friday, February 03, 2012
Hi Daddy,

I love you. Guess what??? It's Chachi's birthday! He's 1 today. He smells too. He needs a bath.

It's been really cold the past few days. When the sun shines bright, I know it's you making me warm cause you don't want my asthma to trigger.

Daddy, please continue to watch over mama and all of us, to make sure we are always safe, and also our dear friend at Stanford Hospital. I feel awful that I haven't visited her, but from what happened October 23, 2011-November 13, 2011, I just don't want to be around, or inside a hospital. The pain is still fresh, and it gives me painful flashbacks.

It's time for bed daddy. It's already 10:41pm.

Again, we all love and miss you. Give Lola and Lolo and everyone else a hug for me ok.

Good night, Daddy.
Thursday, February 02, 2012
Hi Papa,

It's 1709pm, i just got home a bit ago, work was ok. Guess what daddy, moe & i are trying out wolf's fitness in salinas, it's a trial basis @ $20pp for the week, then if we like it we can continue for $125pp monthly, it's a good program, we both attended the bootcamp class at 1800-1900, it kicked both out butts, i felt as if i was in the cdcr academy again...lol, went to work today sore as can be...hehehehehe.

well kooya & i called mommy last nite, kooya talked to mommy for a while then he came out his room crying, i guess they were talking about u..so when i got the phone, mommy was crying. i asked her what was the matter, she said she was thinking about u, how she misses u so much, due to the fact that she had been feeling ill, weak, they called a guy who does the "tawas" thing. Mommy told the man what was going with her, they did the tawas, the man then told mommy "there is a man in the house who has been watching over u & doesn't wanna leave ur side" . Mommy replied "it's my husband", the man then asked "has ur husband passed recently", mommy said "yes"...the man said he needed mommy then to get one of ur clothes, boil water, soak your clothes in the boiling water, wiper her whole body with your clothes when it's not too hot, then lite a candle, do an offering to u, place the offering in the back of the house, leave candle lit for 24hrs, 1 time only then mommy will be fine. Mommy started to cry when the man mentioned u, it made me cry also. i just hope mommy will get better, otherwise moe said we will bring her home here. Mommy agreed to that idea. She also said that she will go home to Baguio to get away from Caturay for a while in hopes she can rest, she will be accompanied by auntie Fely, & will stay with mommy for a while...i really hope mommy gets better...it's hurts me to hear mommy crying....i know she needs her time for herself to grieve...people just don't understand that...

hopefully what i told u doesn't get u worried...we r just thankful that u are there looking over us, that's a blessing for us from u!!!

Well Papa, i am waiting for moe to come home so we can go to the gym again....so until next entry, please tell grandma,grandpa,aunties,uncles that i love & miss then all...most of all i love & miss u more....take care...SEMPER FI!!!!!

Xtine - ur 1st born
Monday, January 30, 2012
Hi Daddy,

It's 1150pm... Just got done singing karaoke. I don't get why I always get below 68. I guess I can't sing. Oh well.

Anyhow, tomorrow is work. Oh yeah, you already know what we signed up for, so I ask papa, please give me the strength and motivation and be by my side for when I'm slacking or when I'm feeling lazy. I really need it, and I know you'll be there pushing me to my limits cause you always pushed yourself to the limits to accomplish everything you did for all of us.

Ate Riting developed your black and white tournament picture, the one where you did the flying side kick!!! I think that's what it was called. IT LOOKS COOL!!!!

Ok Papa, it's time for bed. I love you.

Your show cat,
Sunday, January 29, 2012

hello again Papa, it's sunday 1-29-12 @1717. i am listening to ocean's 11 movie while typing u an entry...moe & i cleaned our house...it was time since we have not cleaned in a couple weeks...

well yesterday, i took the Vette for a ride down to salinas to pick up some films that moe & i had developed from green's camera world, then after i was going to meet some co-workers at the laguna seca range but one forgot his phone so he couldn't reply back so i headed to seaside on hwy 68, saw couple Vette owners as well, it's so cool when Vette owners wave at each other for acknowledgement...when we pass each other anywhere. Then went to seaside to visit ur house & it's pretty cleaned up, i wished that i could have felt or smelled ur presense while i was there but i don't have that special sense like mommy & migz. Albert & i went to wally-world to check out gun safes, he plans on buying a hand-gun, that's what he said, u know albert...he's balbalatong....he liked the Vette & when i took the highway towards fort ord, i sped up to about 90mph, he nearly crapped his pantalon, i did the same when we headed home. i stayed in seaside for a while, he fed me neck bone soup, yours is better.

I also talked to mommy last nite, we call her every nite, to make sure she is doing fine, last nite she told me that her hands are numb & her knees were a little week, we always tell her not to do any trainious type of work using her hands, she may have arthritis or carpal tunnel on her wrists...please continue to look over her ok....otherwise if she doesn't get better anytime soon, we r going to bring her back here for a while...

well papa, i will let u go for now until next entry ok, take care, keep ur halo shiny, ur uniform nice & clean, inspection everyday.....SEMPER FI!!!!!

ur 1st born....christine
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