Deepest sympathies. My name is John M. Thomas, Jr., and my great-grandmother was Ila Cockfield. Her son, Wyman Cockfield, was my grandfather, and Bessie Cockfield my grandmother. I think my great-grandmother was the sister of the deceased's father. You don't see the last name very often, so I thought I would send a note. My email address is firstname.lastname@example.org, and I would welcome any email. Ila died at age 100 in 1989, and my grandmother died at 95 in 2007.