My Prayers to you and your family. I grew up w/ the kids. I am Trish Gray (Bernier) I always thought it was great how the two neighbors blended together. When I go by the old neighborhood, I tell my friends of the stories. Even the day that "Thumper" went w/ us off campus for lunch for the first time and it was the worst day of his life. But then we laughed cuz he got a pool. We all had a lot of fun. May God help you in this hard time. But share the good memories, she will be watching over all of you.