• Caldwell's, Hennessey, Goetsch & McGee Funeral Home
    Portland, OR
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Paul James Bonar 1923 - 2013

Paul James Bonar

Wednesday, November 06, 2013
Grandpa - My Friend

My grandfather was my friend.

He held me as an infant when I couldn't hold myself up,

I'm sure changed my diaper more times than he desired.

Always he was ready to whittle a boat from wine cork,

And let me be endlessly fascinated with its floating.

He wondered me with tales of the great world war,

of life in a different time, another age.

His vast store of tools he taught me to use,

and made sure I had plenty of opportunities for application.

An accomplished fisherman,

he first showed me to string and tie tackle,

then wondered as I caught more fish than he.

A hunter, he instructed me

to recognize signs of cloven hooved beasts.

For some reason he seemed content,

allowing new drivers to operate his quick cars.

His house always open, always the aroma of good food to greet you, and the sounds of televised sports,

more loudly his instructions to the players and especially referees.

Always for bringing family together,

with the cohesions of loving fellowship, and pork roast, dessert, wine, cigars.

Always ready to give time, talent, treasure, encouragement

and occasionally detailed instructions to a project or cause.

Strong of character, will and conviction,

he never knew the extent to which those attributes rubbed off and continue to influence.

Teacher, supporter, foreman, one who cared.

Most of all he was my friend.
Wednesday, November 06, 2013
Dear Grandpa,

Thank you for showing us how to live life. You never took a day for granted.
Thank you for your calm patience and assuring voice during driving lessons when the license test was coming up.
Thanks for always making sure that donuts were stocked when we came for breakfast, or even lunch!
Thank you for telling us the vast and colorful stories from your life, and the lessons you learned from them.
Thanks for being a champ at the crossword and Wheel of Fortune.
Thanks for always being a chivalrous example.
Thank you for always giving a bear-hug goodbye.
We love you so very much, and you will be sorely missed.
Sunday, November 03, 2013
Paul was a good officer and a credit to the Police Bureau. As Commander of the Sunshine Division he oversaw the growth of this essential activity for the poor in our comminity.
Captain Jim Harvey
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