So sorry for your loss Jay, praying for you.
I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I could be there to give you a hug. Please remember that I love you and you will always be in my prayers. Even though the miles separate us I feel your pain and sorrow. God Bless you and may time take away your pain. Just remember you will be with him again one day wrapped in God's loving arms.
I enjoyed seeing the pictures of Phil since I haven't seen him over the years. I especially liked the one of him with Russell and Jason when they were little.
Please know that I am praying that God fold his arms around you and everyone who grieves for Phil.
I am so sorry.