Deb...I don't know what to say but need to say something. I'm just numb. Tom and I grew up together, like brothers. In fact, I never spoke of him as my "cousin" but always as my "brother". I just wish the family had been closer, but I know you understand why that didn't happen. But I always tried to stay in close touch with Tom. Now I can...through prayer. He is not gone, Deb, but lives in God and is therefore near to us all. +May his soul, and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. And may Light perpetual shine upon him. May his memory be eternal in Christ. Amen. My love to you and the kids.