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Paula Bregman Obituary

BREGMAN - Paula Woolley Bregman, age 56, of East Grand Rapids, passed away suddenly Saturday November 12, 2011 at her home. She was preceded in death by her father, Bill Woolley. She is survived by her mother, Dolores Woolley; loving husband of 32 years, Harry Bregman; son, Alexander "Xan" Todd; her loving sister, Victoria Woolley; and the newest edition, Zeus, the family dog. She was a graduate of Michigan State University School of Horticulture and took a great deal of pride in her Sparty's. Paula was a creative floral designer and wedding planner with a sense of humor and kept her friends and everyone around her entertained and comfortable. Her wit and personality will be missed by all that knew her. She took pride in working with "her" brides and making each of their wedding days very special. She worked at Eastern, Burgett and was a past owner of Hannah Floral. A memorial service will be held on Monday at 1 p.m. at Temple Emanuel, with Rabbi Schadick officiating. The family will greet friends on Sunday from 4 to 7 p.m. at the Metcalf & Jonkhoff Funeral Home. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions are suggested to Temple Emanuel or Special Olympics Area 11. The family is being served by Metcalf & Jonkhoff Funeral Service

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Published by Grand Rapids Press on Nov. 13, 2011.

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Debra Pate

February 3, 2012

Dear Harry, Xan, Victoria and Grandma Delores, my deepest sympathy to you all. I just learned of Paula's passing today and I regret not being able to be with you to celebrate her life. I have enjoyed getting to know all of your precious family and hope to see you again soon. I will miss Paula's wonderful wit, her vast wisdom and her kind heart. Please give Xan big hugs from his old school bus driver, Deb. Tell him I still love him and will see him soon. May God comfort you all with his love.

Vincent Turcotte

December 27, 2011

Harry, I'm so sorry to have learned of Paula's passing. Please know that you and Xan are in my thoughts and prayers.

Vince Turcotte

November 17, 2011

Harry, I just heard about Paula today and I am so sorry and sad for your loss of such a lovely lady. I didn't see her often but remember her quick wit and sense of humor. My prayers to you and Xan and family. Nancy Wanty

Nancy Pykosz

November 16, 2011

To all of Paula's family- my deepest condolences. My twin sister and I had the honor of being two of Pauls's closest friends at East Kentwood High School. Regretfully over the years we lost touch. Just this past September I lost my dear twin sister, Stephanie. Always being the kind and thoughtful person she was, Paula came to the funeral visitation. I had not seen her in over 36 years. I will always treasure the little time we had together that day. May Paula rest in eternal peace.

November 15, 2011

Dear Harry and family,
Please know we are keeping you all in our hearts and prayers as you struggle with the tragic loss of your Paula. We will pray for strength for you all in these difficult times ahead.
God Bless you all David and Kris Weidenfeller

November 14, 2011

Dear Harry,Xan,Delores and Vicky,
We were so very saddened to hear about Paula. She was an amazing woman who will never, never be forgotten! She was one of the loveliest women we have ever met. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Rick and Karen LaHuis
Stephanie and Sara

November 14, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time. The Lee Cunningham Family.

Cheryl Warner

November 14, 2011

Paula will never be forgotten. She was one of the world's most wonderful people.

November 14, 2011

Harry and Xan, we are so sorry for your loss. You are in out thoughts and prayers.

Mel and Linda Baskin

November 14, 2011

Harry and Xan,
I am so sorry to hear of Paula's passing. She will be greatly missed by those who had the honor of knowing her. She was such an advocate for you Xan! Know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Jill Fouch

Hannah Whyte

November 14, 2011

I worked with Paula for six years at Eastern Floral. She meant a lot to me-- she was always so kind and encoring, but also funny and interesting. She was always interested in how I was doing. A truly talented lady! I'm praying you folks, and am grateful to have known this special lady.

Lots of love!

November 13, 2011

I knew Paula for only a few years and she left a deep impression with her amazing talent and authenticity. I quote her often...."God is in the details." I am so saddened by your loss and wish you, her beloved family, prayers for healing this heartbreak. Susan Wittenbach

Julie Fox

November 13, 2011

My Thoughts and Prayers are with You~
I'm so Sorry for your loss.
Sincerely, Julie Fox

Stephanie Mayo

November 13, 2011

Dear Harry and Xan, I am devastated by Paula's loss and can hardly imagine how the two of you are coping right now. The talent and humor and compassion that poured from her will keep memories of her alive with me always. Prayers and blessings on your family.
Love, Stephanie

Sarah Bommarito

November 13, 2011

Harry and Xan,

I am so very sorry for your loss.. Sending you so much love and support through this time.

Bill Buck

November 13, 2011

Harry and Xan,
Words cannot express the sorrow we feel right now. Paula was an outstanding lady; thoughtful, caring , humourous and talented in many ways. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Xan right now.

Bill and Mary Lou Buck

Cheri Brockman

November 13, 2011

Paula, we will all miss you dearly! Your wonderful sense of humor will live on in all of our hearts everytime we think of you!! Your precious family will be held in the loving arms of God as they pass through this time. Be at peace.

Jan Fryling

November 13, 2011

Dear Harry and Xan,

Along with your loss, I have lost a very dear friend as well. We go back a long time and the memories are etched very deep. We laughed, we cried, we joked, we ate and we drank, but most of all we cared about each other. I will miss her deeply and grateful for the memories we share. You are both, along with the rest of Paula's family, in my thoughts and prayers today and always.

Love,
Jan Fryling

Laura Blum

November 13, 2011

To all of Paula's Loving Family,
Thank you for sharing Paula with all that called her friend. I will cherish that I could have one last Lunch with her in October. It was such a special time. She was such an amazing woman that gave true meaning to graciousness.

November 13, 2011

Harry and Zan, we are saddened to hear of your loss. We are thinking of you during this difficult time.

Kurt and Matt Singer/Schnitgen

November 13, 2011

To all of Paula's family, know that you are held even closer in our hearts and minds at this time. We wish you peace and comfort as time goes by and know that Paula will be too busy, with her wonderful smile and unbounded energy, making the angels laugh to "rest". Love to you all.

Ann Devries

November 13, 2011

Rest in peace Paula. I look back to our last lunch together and how we talked and laughed for hours. Your sense of humor, laugh, and kindness will be missed by all who knew you.

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