Spc. Jacob J. Fairbanks
Spc. Jacob J. Fairbanks
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Mom
September 4, 2025
We will never forget
Janette Fairbanks
July 2, 2025
Kayla has graduated (Jacob's daughter so proud of her
Janette Fairbanks
January 18, 2025
3/17/1986 - 4/9/2008
Mom
January 15, 2025
RIP
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Mom
March 28, 2022
Son, my grief is still very heavy . Sometimes I can't speak, I just cry.
Jeff Ward
May 30, 2021
Miss you brother! Never forgotten. Rest easy my friend, rest easy.
janette Lee Fairbanks
March 15, 2021
Celebrate his life !
Janette Fairbanks
October 22, 2020
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Janette
October 22, 2020
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Janette Fairbanks
January 21, 2020
Momma missed you. Love you. Proud of you. Never forget.
Janette Fairbanks
July 4, 2019
4th of July...Jake you loved the fireworks. I see them and think of you.
Janette Fairbanks
May 28, 2019
Jacob Thank you for your service Son.
James Fulliam
May 18, 2019
R.I.P Brother
Janette Fairbanks
February 20, 2019
Bright light around you!
Janette Fairbanks
March 17, 2018
Happy Birthday Jake.
Jan Fairbanks
October 18, 2016
Son I think about you so much . I see reminders of you everywhere . I will never forget . love ma
Janette Fairbanks
August 14, 2016
Someone contacred me about Jacob. I'm truly touched that he's touched this persons heart .
Janette Fairbanks
June 25, 2016
I still think about you everyday.
Janette fairbanks
March 16, 2016
I'll keep writing about you forever and ever .
Jan Fairbanks
February 6, 2016
If ever I needed you, Losing you has been difficult for me. You know what to do . Love ma
janette fairbanks
December 17, 2015
Missing you
janette fairbanks
December 17, 2015
Holidays miss you Love mom
Jan Fairbanks
October 22, 2015
Let us never forget the sacrifices we make.
Charlie Gili
December 19, 2014
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Fairbanks Family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to troops in Afghanistan this week and we'll be dedicating several of these to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and the hometown of Jacob J. Fairbanks US Army Specialist. We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Leila Campbell
August 16, 2013
To the family of Spc. Jacob J. Fairbanks:
As you may know, the Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation has honored your loved one at its Memorial Day Sunday worship service (each year in May) … since the time of your fallen hero's ultimate sacrifice. We will continue to pay tribute to our nation's veterans … lest we ever forget!
Now we would like to honor you … as the next-of-kin … who have also paid a great price on the altar of liberty. On Sunday 29 September at 11:00 a.m. we will host a Gold Star Family Sunday.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship … as we pay tribute to your sacrifice. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain (Colonel-Retired) Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “By Dying, We Live.” The special music will be the husband/wife vocal/piano — Wickman Duo. Following the worship experience, your family is invited to attend a social time in our Fellowship Hall … with some light refreshments.
As this historic chapel has limited seating, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/286-7296) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans' name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
fairbsnks
May 6, 2013
Please don't let him be forgotten.
Leila Campbell
May 4, 2013
To the family of Spc. Jacob J. Fairbanks:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Christian Memorial Day Remembrance worship service at 11:00 a.m. on Sunday, 26 May 2013. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the bordering states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with some 300 white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses representing all of the wars of our nation's history and give honor to all who have served in the United States Armed Forces and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today. Wreaths will be placed at the foot of each 8-foot cross bearing the number of U.S. Service Members killed in each of America's conflicts.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “Freedom:Free, but Costly.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and there place poppies at each of the crosses. A Memorial Rifle Squad of the Fort Snelling National Cemetery will fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the Memorial Garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception (weather permitting) outside of the Chapel. The Memorial Garden will remain until 5:00 p.m. on Monday, 27 May (Memorial Day).
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/286-7296) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans' name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (651/286-7296) or email the office ([email protected]) and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Saturday 25 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sunday, 26 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one's cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Jan Fairbanks
January 22, 2013
Son we miss you so very much.,
God bless you.
January 20, 2013
Jacob remains in the hearts and minds of many. Bless his beautiful daughter.
April 20, 2012
To the family of Spc. Jacob J. Fairbanks:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Christian Memorial Day Remembrance worship service at 11:00 a.m. on Sunday 27 May 2012. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the bordering states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with some 300 white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses representing all of the wars of our nation's history and give honor to all who have served the United States and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today. Wreaths will be placed at the foot of each cross bearing the number of U.S. Service Members killed in each of America's conflicts.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “Lest We Forget Freedom's Cost.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. A Memorial Rifle Squad of the Fort Snelling National Cemetery will fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the Memorial Garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception (weather permitting) outside of the Chapel.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/456-4410) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans' name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (651/456-4410) or email ([email protected]) the office, and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Saturday 26 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sunday 27 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one's cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Peggy Childers
April 9, 2012
To the family and friends of Spc. Jacob J. Fairbanks:
Always remembering Jacob. "Some gave all."
Kenna
March 7, 2012
Bless you, Fairbanks Family. Just wanted you to know that your hero Spc. Jacob J. Fairbanks will never be forgotten!
Kenna
[email protected]
L Neal
May 21, 2011
To the family of Spc. Jacob J. Fairbanks:
Please know that just as your loved one remains in your hearts and minds; his sacrifice, and that of your family, remains with the people he died defending. Words cannot express the gratitude we feel for his bravery and selflessness, or the heartache we feel for your loss. God bless and keep you always.
May 11, 2011
To the family of Spc Jacob J Fairbanks:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 29 May 2011. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with some 200 white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one. The Memorial Garden’s perimeter will be manned by members of the Patriot Guard and a honor guard from AMVETS Post #1 of Mendota will be posted at the entrance.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses representing all of the wars in United States history and give honor to all who have served their country and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today. Wreaths will be placed at the foot of each cross bearing the number of U.S. Service Members killed in each of our nation’s wars.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “A Believer’s Look at War.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. A Memorial Rifle Squad of Fort Snelling National Cemetery will fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the memorial garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception (weather permitting) outside of the Chapel.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/456-4410) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (651/456-4410) or email ([email protected]) the office and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat 28 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun 29 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Peggy Childers
April 16, 2011
April 9, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Jacob J. Fairbanks:
Please accept my remembrance of Jacob on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Christmas 2009
Janette Fairbanks
December 2, 2010
The holidays are not same without you, we all miss you and speak of you daily.
April 26, 2010
To the family of Spc. Jacob J. Fairbanks:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 30 May 2010. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses to represent all of the wars in United States history and give honor to all who have served their country and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled “A Day of Remembrance.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. An honor guard squad will be on hand to fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the memorial garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception; weather permitting will be outside of the Chapel.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (612/970-7866) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (612/970-7866) or email ([email protected]) the office and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat 29 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun 30 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
April 13, 2010
Never forgotten and forever Honored
April 12, 2010
April 10, 2010
We will never forget
Peggy Childers
April 9, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Jacob J. Fairbanks:
Remembering Jacob on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
March 17, 2010
Happy birthday we love and miss you
March 16, 2010
Happy Birthday Jake
January 29, 2010
God Bless!!!
Leila Campbell
May 1, 2009
To the family of Spc. Jacob J. Fairbanks:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 24 May 2009. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled “Answering the Highest Call.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. An honor guard squad will be on hand to fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the memorial garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception in the Chapel’s Fellowship Hall.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (612/970-7866) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (612/970-7866) or email ([email protected]) the office and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat 23 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun 24 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Peggy Childers
April 10, 2009
To the family of Spc. Jacob J. Fairbanks:
Jacob gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Mom Fairbanks
April 6, 2009
GOD BLESS OUR TROOPS!!!!
REMEMBER THE FALLEN!!
RIP JACOB FAIRBANKS
3/17/86 -4/9/2008
Mom Fairbanks
February 5, 2009
JACOB J FAIRBANKS
HERO!!!!!!!
T Starman
January 16, 2009
I offer my deepest condolences for your loss
Kenna Larra
November 24, 2008
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MY SMART, HANDSOME, KIND, & LOVING SON. WE LOVE & MISS U SON. love MA
September 30, 2008
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
July 20, 2008
My heartfelt sympathy to the Fairbanks family and friends in the loss of Jacob. I did not know Jacob, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Jacob you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"TO LIVE IN THE HEARTS
OF THOSE YOU LEAVE BEHIND
IS NEVER TO DIE"
~Robert Orr~
July 10, 2008
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Fairbanks and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
July 10, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Fairbanks!
Linda Cano
June 5, 2008
Jacob, thank you for your heroism. May God comfort your loved ones and greet you with open arms.
Leila Campbell
April 28, 2008
To the family of Spc. Jacob J. Fairbanks:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 25 May, 2008. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain, LTC Kenneth L. Beale, Jr. will preach a message entitled “The Price of Freedom” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. An honor guard squad will be on hand to fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (612/970-7866) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat. 24 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun. 25 May, a “PrayerVigil for Peace” will be held. You are invited to stop by and light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden, then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Administrative Assistant
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
April 27, 2008
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
Samantha Hartfiel
April 25, 2008
You were such a great guy.. with so much love to give. I still cant believe you are gone. I will never for get you, and i cant wait tell the day I see you again... I heard your song last night on the radio..Beautiful song just like your beautiful soul. You will keep living on in our hearts. Thank you for everything Jacob J. Fairbanks. Your BFF
Sarah Thompson
April 22, 2008
I know that there is nothing I can say or do that will take the pain away. This is a tremendous loss, and we all know this. Jake was a wonderful man, loved by many, and I know that his absence, even as time passes, will never cease to be painful. I just hope that during this time you will grow closer to each other, and that this terrible tragedy will bind you together instead of tearing you apart.
April 21, 2008
Jessica Erickson
April 20, 2008
I went to youth group with Jake and although I was much younger than him, I thought the world of him. I didn't know him as well as I would have liked because of our age difference, but I think the world of him and I look up to him so much. His leadership was simply amazing. The immense love he showed to everyone is something that I will always remember him for. There will never be another like him. I will miss him greatly. Thank you, Jake, for everything you did for this country, your family, your friends and myself. You were such a blessing.
Jennifer Hall
April 20, 2008
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Dwan, if you need anything please don't hesitate to ask...I'll always be here for you, Kayla, ALex, Kate and David.
Dwan Fairbanks
April 20, 2008
Jake, I miss you so much baby! My life is so incomplete without you here with me. Our children miss you so much. You were more of a husband, father and hero than I could ever ask for and I know that you will live on through our baby girl. Thank you for everything babe and please watch over us! I loved you yesterday, I love you today and I will keep loving you for all my tomorrows!
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Your proud and loving wife,
Dwan
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Linda Elwood
April 19, 2008
I am Jakes Step-Mom. Jake was one of a kind, I will never forget his kind words the first time I met him. He told me that I was a wonderful woman and that God had sent me to his father. Jake you will always be in my heart.
Rick Erickson
April 18, 2008
I was blessed to be part of Jake's life as one of his youth leaders. He was a gifted young man whose heart was a gift from God, and was willing to share his faith to others. He was often the first person who entered the door for youth night and the last to leave. He was always looking for the good in people and willing to help out whenever needed. If you needed something...he was the first to raise his hand. His friends and family were very special to him and he deeply cared for their well being. He will be remembered. God bless his family.
SPC Joseph Fontenot
April 18, 2008
When I first got to Ft. Campbell, and to 1/320 FAR, Jacob was one of the first guys I met. He made me feel welcome, like he did with everyone. Over the course of time that we served together, he became a close friend, and I will never forget the way he had an uncanny ability to make me smile even when nothing else could. He was a good soldier, and an even better friend, I'm sorry for your loss.
"FOREVER IN GREATNESS"
Jess
April 17, 2008
Thank you Spc. Fairbanks for your dedication to not only your family, but also your country. You fought for me and my children, and gave your life for all of those around. I will never forget that. To the wife, God is holding you in the palm of his hands, you are surrounded by angels in front of you, behind you, and on either side, and you are covered with his love. I hope that you are as well as can be expected, and I pray for your children. I know that they will grow up as proud of him as we all are, even more than the rest of us. Keep your eyes up, and your children around you, and know that they still love and need you even more than ever. You will never be alone, and don't be afraid to reach out to those around you. I don't even know you guys, but I want you to know that you are all so loved.
Sherry Nichols
April 16, 2008
To the Fairbanks Family: Jan, Jen, and Dwan my deepest sympathy to you all. I remember Jake,Robby,Caleb and Amanda being a strange,goofy group in high school. When Amanda(Roub) called me with the news of Jake's death I was so sad to hear. May God give you peace.
tasha rivera
April 16, 2008
I remember the goofball that was Jake, but really, the most powerful memory I have was one of his weaker moments...
Regional finals for speech team. Halfway through the season I became his dramatic duo partner, both because his original partner had dropped out and because I was really bad at extemp speaking. We were doing a sad piece called "Julia", about two fathers in a hospital waiting room, one whose baby was born dead. We both had trouble the whole time memorizing the piece, but we worked hard and thought we finally had it down.
But then after the first round, which I thought went well, he suddenly wasn't himself. I guess he had gotten a call, one of his relatives was dying (i'm not quite sure if that was right...), and he broke down. He couldn't do it anymore. We forfeited the rest of the rounds. He was in pain, and I tried to sympathize, but he felt so bad for ruining our chances.
I think this just shows how caring he was... What a kind heart. I'm going to miss him a lot.
Lashere Lee
April 15, 2008
Dear The Fairbanks Family:
I am so blessed to have met and known Jake in high school. Whenever I think of him or hear his name it makes me smile...and that was the best thing about Jake. He was ALWAYS able to make me smile or laugh no matter what the situation. He always seemed so stress-free, but I guess he was just self-less....always thinking of others before himself...Jake was someone who will go the extra mile just to make someone feel good about themselves.
My heart and prayers go out to you during this time and for always...Jake will never be forgotten. I only have good memories we've shared as friends....
Amanda McClellan
April 15, 2008
To the Family Of Jake,
Jake was a great friend to me, we went to youth group together and he always knew how to make the room smile. I went through a lot during that time and he was always there to comfort me. He was a great man and I will truely miss him!
Love always
Amanda and Hayden Heights Baptist Youth Group!
Gale Poindexter
April 14, 2008
I am writing to offer my deepest sympathies to you and your family over the loss of your HERO Spc Jacob J Fairbanks. I lost my son in Iraq on May 6/2007, so I can well understand your pain of losing a loved one so dear.
I pray you will be guided by a higher power to give you peace, comfort and strength in this time.
Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit
GOD Bless you and your family. Your soldier was a true American Hero and we are all very proud of his service. He will not be forgotten!
(Proud mother of Sgt Joel W. Lewis, 5/20, 3-2 SBCT /Ft Lewis
KIA 5/6/07, Baqubah, Iraq)
www.youtube.com/watch?v=DXAX__FZYg4
Beverly M
April 14, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Shari
April 14, 2008
May you find strength from Our heavenly Father as he gives us our burdens to bear.
We are another military family who has a fallen soldier and know the days ahead are difficult ones to endure.
Remember the wonderful beautiful person Jacob was and never forget he is a true American hero for his commitment to our country and its cause for enduring peace.
May God bless each of you and hold you close. Our prayers are with you.
April 14, 2008
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
I would also like to tell you about a website, http://groups.msn.com/SSPSoldierPor
traits/homepage,
where some wonderful people will make wood portraits of your fallen Hero for free for the immediate family. I became aware of this site when I wanted to do something special for Le Ron’s mother.
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett (Queens, NY)
Cindy McLean
April 14, 2008
To Jacob's Family - My heart and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. Jacob is a true American Hero and he will, certainly, never be forgotten! May you be comforted by wonderful memories of the man Jacob had become. I pray that God wraps you in his loving arms and bring you peace.
Cindy McLean
Proud Army Mom of Chris, 10th Mountain
SHIRLEY DONEY
April 14, 2008
REST IN PEACE SPC. FAIRBANKS, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU
Jacob with his daughter Kayla
April 13, 2008
Jennie
April 13, 2008
I want to offer my deepest sypmpathies to Jacob's parents. Try to remember that now he is at peace. I know it must be so hard and I don't even pretend to know what you must be suffering but please know that you are not alone. You are in my thoughts and prayers now and in the future. Jacob was a friend to my son when he first arrived at Fort Campbell and he will never be forgotten. My son is in Baghdad and I know he feels great sorrow. He told me that Jacob was a good soldier and a great friend. I hope that knowing his fellow Soldiers held him in high regard will help carry you through the difficult days ahead. God bless you.
Maurice Pickell
April 13, 2008
Jacob, its Pickle... I just wanted to let you know we all miss you, the patrols arent the same and the Spartans are incomplete without your smile and contagious attitude. You will always be in our hearts and your family in our prayers, may you rest in peace and I look forward to the day we meet at the lords gate.
With the love of a fellow comrade and friend
Maurice Pickell
Valorie
April 13, 2008
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
I know how you feel losing a "HERO",Becoming a "Gold Star" Mother myself on 25 March.. The sacrafice our sons and daughters are making on a daily basis should tell us all..These young HEROS knew full well what they were doing and did it proudly When you hug your loved ones tonight.... Remember... We also hugged ours and they were protecting you..We.. as Americans need to make the "Ultimate Sacrafice" by supporting all our military(HEROS)...the Proud Mom of SGT. Jason W. Swiger
5th Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne,Fort Bragg, N.C. KIA 3/25/007
Sandy Bonesteel
April 13, 2008
Please know that as a mother of a Soldier; I'm grieving with you. As are so many, many others.
Valorie
April 12, 2008
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
I know how you feel losing a "HERO",Becoming a "Gold Star" Mother myself on 25 March.. The sacrafice our sons and daughters are making on a daily basis should tell us all..These young HEROS knew full well what they were doing and did it proudly When you hug your loved ones tonight.... Remember... We also hugged ours and they were protecting you..We.. as Americans need to make the "Ultimate Sacrafice" by supporting all our military(HEROS)...the Proud Mom of SGT. Jason W. Swiger
5th Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne,Fort Bragg, N.C. KIA 3/25/007
Debbie , Kenny Coffey
April 12, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers out to the FAIRBANKS famil and all .Knowing now what they have always known is one of the many reasons that our HERO[S] shall NEVER be forgotten.Rest well brother as prommissed and in your honor that star spangled banner shall FOREVER wave.Your name stamped in steel shall be FOREVER clutched in the tallons,As your spirit FOREVER soars high in the skies in the symbol of our greatfull nation..THANK YOU... SEMPER FI......B.V.C.....
Garnet Jenkins
April 12, 2008
In Humble Thanks, to this Brave Young Soldier, who has lost his life, while in the Service of our Country. With so much gratitude for his Courage, and his Unselfish Dedication and Service.
Rest Safely now, Spc. Jacob J. Fairbanks, in the Hands of God and may the Peace of God be with your loving family.
Those who Make these Sacrifices, So Many and So Young, shall Never Be Forgotten, my brother among them, Killed in action in Vietnam in 1967.
"I consider that our present sufferings.
are not worth comparing with the glory
that shall be revealed in us."
~ Romans 8:18 ~
I am sincerely hoping that you can feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you today and in the days ahead, as this Grateful Country morns with you, for someone very precious to you, who is a True American Hero to all of us.
I am So Deeply Sorry for your Loss.
Shelley H
April 12, 2008
From our military family to yours, we would like to thank SPC Fairbanks for his service and sacrifice to this great country, as well as send our deepest condolences for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
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