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Dean Winslow, Col-ret, USAF
September 11, 2022
I think of you often, my brother in arms.
Jenell Thompson
September 10, 2022
Hello. I know it's been some time, but I just want you to know that I still think about Matt and his family. I deployed with him in Afghanistan. I was in Iraq when the Blackhawk went down. It was a complete shock to me. I remember Matt being a super family man. His love for reading. He actually lent me Harry Potter to read for the first time. Please know that you are strong. And I hope those previous children know what a hero their dad is.
Charlie Gili
October 22, 2020
Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let your family and friends know that we have made a small donation to the Fisher House Foundation to honor and remember Matthew L. Tallman US Army Sergeant. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals across the American youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Micheal Asher
October 29, 2012
Matt wasn't just a good man, he was a great man. This may sound trivial, but once when I was stuck in a severe depression over either having to reclass out of aviation or being med-boarded out, Matt was there with kind words and a shoulder for me to lean on. I have been on this page at least a dozen times since Jody told me what happened a few years ago.
Matt was the type of guy that people wanted to know, and in a short few months of afternoon PT sessions and random gatherings of overstressed soldiers I grew to think of him as a trusted friend.
It is time that I left my respect for Matt, and I hope that wherever his soul resides that he understands my delay.
I will miss you Matt, and may the legacy of your service and sacrifice endure in loving kindness within hearts and minds of your beautiful children and loving family.
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Mathew and his big brothers and sister and cousin, Misty
Susan Tallman
August 28, 2012
To my little brother, Matthew. I was always so proud of you and what you did for our country. We certainly didn't have enough time. I will always miss you and our father dearly. I look forward to seeing you both again some day. In loving memory, Susan E. Tallman.
David Tallman
August 28, 2012
To my brother, I will always remember your zest for life and your goofy sense of humor. I miss you and think of you always. I bear this tattoo on my left forearm proudly, which commemorates you and our older brother John.
Sleep well my brother, you are my hero.
Love,
David "Big Bro"
Debbi & Steve Dresser
December 25, 2011
Merry Christmas Matthew. You are NEVER forgotten. God Bless You & your family!
Brandon Wilson
December 19, 2011
I was looking through Army Aircrews and saw that Matt had been killed shortly after I left Iraq in 2007. I remember him and his wife very well as we had all gone to AIT together at Ft. Eustis in 2000 and am still saddened to have learned about his death.
Matthew, you'll never be forgotten.
NSDQ
Peggy Childers
August 22, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. Matthew L. Tallman:
Please accept my remembrance of Matthew on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Debbi Dresser
December 25, 2010
Merry Christmas Matthew. You & Your Family are in my thoughts & prayers today....you are NEVER forgotten. God Bless You All!
Wall of Honor in Old Sacramento
Debbi Dresser
November 9, 2010
October 31, 2010
First, I would like to offer my sincere condolences on the loss of your son. My heart goes out to you.
My name is Beverly Worthington. I am one of many from a group on yahoo called “The American Soldier Memorial Project.” We are a group of dedicated stitchers who wish only to honor our “Fallen Soldiers” for their sacrifice. The memorials are in the form of needlework for the soldier’s family. They are stitched with love from a grateful heart. It is our small way to let the families know that their loss will NEVER be forgotten. It is our hope that these memorials will bring some measure of comfort to the families left behind.
There is no cost whatsoever to you – this work is done voluntarily as a tribute to your loved one.
One of the stitchers in my needlework guild has chosen your son‘s name to honor. Once the memorial is completed, it will be mailed to you at no cost. Please contact me by email to let me know whether you will allow our member to complete this memorial for you, and, if so, make sure the information we have is correct, and make arrangements to get the finished product to you. The information you provide will not be shared with anyone other than the stitcher completing the memorial.
If you have any questions, I will be more than happy to answer any and all. I look forward to hearing from you at your earliest convenience and await your decision. Thank you for your time.
Sincerely,
Beverly Worthington
Debbi & Steve Dresser
August 23, 2010
You are in our thoughts & prayers as always. We will never forget you. God Bless You All!
Peggy Childers
August 22, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. Matthew L. Tallman:
Remembering Matthew on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Rachel McCoy
August 22, 2010
I did not know Sgt Tallman, but I knew Rickey Bell, who died alongside Matthew three years ago. I would just like to say to his family that you do not grieve alone- as I remember Rickey, I also remember the other men who lost their lives in the same crash, and I send you my deepest condolences. You will be in my thoughts and prayers this weekend. God Bless.
Kurt Krause
May 10, 2010
I just found out about Matt. I was Matt's squad leader in Afghanistan in 04-05... He was a great person and soldier!!! I am soo sorry for your loss. He will be missed...
Tony Maurer
April 4, 2010
Still think about you guys! Miss ya bud!
Peggy Childers
August 23, 2009
To the family of Sgt. Matthew L. Tallman:
Matthew gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Sue Stoutenburg
May 25, 2009
Dear Virginia,
I Have thought so much about you this Memorial Day weekend. You have suffered a loss that no mother should have to bear. Matthew was a wonderful son, father, and served his country with pride. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I hope to see you soon my friend when you are hiking the Sierra's and searching for some peace.
Debbi & Steve Dresser
May 25, 2009
Matthew & Family...You are all in our thoughts & prayers this Memorial Day as always. Thank you for your service & sacrfice. God Bless You All.
Sue Spahr
May 24, 2009
Dear Tallman Family,
We honor your loving husband, daddy, and courageous soldier this weekend and always through our prayers and support of your beautiful family. The Cedar Springs community loves you!
Sue Spahr, Cedar Trails Elementary
Debbi & Steve Dresser
December 25, 2008
Merry Christmas Matthew. You & your family are in our thoughts & prayers today & always. You will never be forgotten. God Bless You.
Melissa
September 16, 2008
I lived next door to the Tallman's when Matt was about 11 or 12. My most vivid memory was when he set the microwave on fire while making popcorn. While I am deeply saddened to hear of Matt's death, I am truely over joyed at the man, father and son he became. Your family best be proud of you Matt. May God Bless you.
In Memory of Matthew ~ (Debra Estep)
August 22, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Matthew, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
July 3, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Tallman!
Close-up of Memorial Tile for Sgt. Matthew L. Tallman at Marines Memorial Club in San Francisco, CA.
June 25, 2008
Memorial tile for Sgt. Matthew L. Tallman at Marines Memorial Club in San Francisco, CA
Debbi Dresser (Proud Army Mom)
June 25, 2008
Dear Virginia & Nicole...
Last Sat. my friend, Diane, & I made an unplanned trip to SF to go to the Marines Memorial Club with some out of state visitors. While there we went to Floor 10M where there is a Wall of The Fallen which has tiles with names of our Fallen Hero's. I found Matthew's tile & took this photo for you. Next time we go we will do some rubbings & if you'd like I will do one for each of you. I was at Matthews funeral & will never forget any of you...you are in my prayers always. I still have photo's on DVD if you wish to have them please contact me & I will send to you.
God Bless You,
Roz
May 26, 2008
I knew Matt 10 years ago and just found out last night via KNTV news in the bay area, my mother had to repeat the name for me several times, my husband then found this online. Complete shock and hurt, I cant imagine what your entire family is going through. To Matt's mother Virginia your son was absolutely amazing. To his wife Nicole, I will keep you and your two children in my prayers always. My husband served in the US Army, served a year in Iraq and I know how difficult it is just to have them so far away, let alone not even counting such a great loss in your young family. Thank you for your sacrifice. He will be greatly rewarded in heaven.
Douglas Rauch
November 12, 2007
To: the Family of Matthew L. Tallman i am sorry for the lost of Matthew i had to go to a funeral of a man name Tim Brown back in Michigan in Ceder Spring it was the hard thing to do.My Dad was in world war 2 and Koren action he die in 2002 of collen cancer it was hard on me but the good lord broth me throw it as god will to i wish i knew him he must have been one great man in this world i am 33 years old and i wish the men could come home soon to all of there Family's well i better go god bless your hole family in peace Douglas A. Rauch
ROBYN GARSIDE
October 24, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Sue Stoutenburg
October 20, 2007
Dear Virginia,
My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you as each day passes. Our weekend visit meant so much to me. You are a strong, courageous mom...just like your son was. Hope you have a wonderful time with your grandkids next week.
Love Sue
Carolyn Fenster
October 19, 2007
Virginia, our thoughts and prayers are with you and Matt's family during this time. We were very saddened by the death of Matt.
Jerry, Carolyn and Brian
Mary Boardway
September 17, 2007
Dear Nicci,
I want you to know that you have been in my prayers regularly. I wanted to call but heard from Aunt Kay that you were not taking calls. Just because it has been a few weeks, I haven't stopped praying and thinking about you. I will try to call again soon.
Your cousin,
Mary Boardway
al arroyos
September 15, 2007
my name is al arroyos and i served with matt in hawaii. we were both crewchiefs and flew together. it breaks my heart to know this news. my prayers go to his family, so sorry for your loss. and matt thanks for making the ultimate sacrifice for our country you will be missed and remembered as a hero. god be with you. al.
Erin Henderson
September 11, 2007
Dear Nicci and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! I went to high school with Matt and he was a very honerable man as he is still today! I am very sorry to hear about your loss. May he rest in PEACE~ He is a hero to all! May God Bless you and your family!
September 8, 2007
I did not know your Matthew, but as a family member of a recently deceased Matthew of my own, I can sympathize with your pain. Please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers for the coming days.
Sincerely,
Heidi Perry-Hipp
Proud Aunt
Spec. Matthew M. Murchison
US Army MP
KIA 8/4/07- Baghdad
James Brodnick
September 7, 2007
To the family of Sgt Matthew Tallman,
I am so very sorry for your loss. I know exactly how you feel because my son Phillip was also on that helicopter. Take comfort in the fact that these brave men were all together. My heart goes out to you and if you ever need to talk please contact me. God bless our troops.
Tom Gugliuzza
September 7, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Tallman family in the loss of Matthew. I did not know Matthew, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Matthew you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Ann VanderGraaf (Kauffman)
September 6, 2007
Nicci,
My prayers are still with you and your family. Although I never met your husband, I knew you would grow up to choose a man of great character. Your husband is a hero to us all.
Dan and Marilyn Saccani
September 4, 2007
We met Matt in 1995 while he played football at Saint Lawrence Academy (it was our sons freshman year). He was a fine young man. You should be very proud. Our deepest sympathy to the family. You are in our prayers. God Bless.
Dean Winslow
September 3, 2007
Nicole and Virginia,
I am so sorry for your loss. Nothing anyone can say will take away the pain. The Army chaplain's words were about as close as one can get. Having served in Iraq I can tell you with certainty that Matt's service was important and he made a difference. Both of you and Matt's two children will remain in my prayers.
September 3, 2007
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
Heather Sheridan
September 3, 2007
Dear Nicci,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this, the most difficult time of your life.I wish I could just hold you and make all the hurt go away, like I did when you were small and lived with me. Remember you have love and support in Mass. All our prayers and sympathy are with you,your beautiful children and Matt's family.
With Love and Prayers.
Nana Sheridan
family+1
September 3, 2007
doing what he loved
September 3, 2007
family
September 3, 2007
matt
September 3, 2007
our hero
Nicole Tallman
September 3, 2007
Thank you all for your kindness. It has been soothing for both Virginia and I to have seen how much love and support we and the children have. Matt was a good soldier, a great father and husband, and the best of men. It would mean a lot to him to have seen your support. Thank you all
Betty Welch
September 2, 2007
Sorry to hear of your loss. My nephew Rick Welch escorted Matthew home. I know that he will miss him a lot.
Cindy Sheridan Ziemba
September 2, 2007
Dear Nicci,
Boy, where does the time go, I remember you as the little girl of 10 years old, not a mom and wife who is dealing with one of lifes worse tragedies, My heart goes out to you ! All of us in Masachusetts keep you, your children, and Matt's family in our prayers.
You can count on us anytime for reassurance.
Hugs,
Aunt Cindy (Sheridan-Ziemba)
September 2, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Tallman and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Chris Able
September 1, 2007
I had the good fortune of getting to know Mathew briefly via an online game, Everquest 2, which he played with some others he was stationed with in Hawaii. I am the co-leader of the guild, Mandate of Honor, that he was a member of in game. He wasn't with us long but we like to consider MoH a little family. So, from that family to you, his real family, I send my heart felt sympathies.
In the brief time I spent playing the game with Mathew he seemed a wonderful, bright, and funny guy. We have missed him in game since his deployment but I can only imagine how much more he will be missed now.
Our thoughts and prayers will be with you in this time of sorrow.
Kathy Sheridan-Bourque
August 31, 2007
Dear Nicci,
I can't begin to let you know how deeply sorry I am for your lost. Matt sounded like a great guy and will be truely remembered as a hero who served our country.
You, and your children, along with all of Matt's family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Please remember that you have family in Massachusetts that love you very much and wish you all the best for you and your children
Linda
August 31, 2007
He will always be in our hearts. We will miss him forever.
Michael Seidler
August 31, 2007
To Matt's family & friends,
I taught Matt at Saint Lawrence high school. Today's military service remembering Matthew was inspirational - taps on the bugle, God bless America on the bagpipes - was fitting for the memory of Matt. He will be missed by all who knew him as he is welcomed into heavan.
Eric Tallman
August 30, 2007
Please accept my condolences. All of our thoughts are with Matt's friends and family.
Joylynn Pugsley
August 30, 2007
My deepest sympathy to the family
Debra Dinsdale
August 29, 2007
Dear Family of Matthew L. Tallman,
My deepest regards for your loss. My son is a crew chief on Blackhawks in Iraq also. Like you, I constantly monitor the news. I am not sure if that is a good thing. My heart breaks for you dear Mom, because I did hear from my son on that day. Please accept my prayers. I will think of you and your grief as I constantly pray for my son in Iraq. May God's Mighty Comfort heal and give you all strength to face tomorrow. I share your tears.
Sue and Chuck Berghoff
August 29, 2007
Virginia,
Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family.
Sue and Chuck Berghoff
Michelle Chaput
August 29, 2007
Dear Nicci,
Our most heartfelt symphathies go out to you and your family on the loss of your husband Matt. Take comfort in the knowledge that you married someone that the entire country regards as a hero and your children will always be able to look up to and be proud of him. He sounds like a wonderful person and it warms my heart to know that you had someone like that in your life.
Please know that you have family in Massachusetts that is thinking of you and sending you their deepest sympathy. We will keep you and all that knew Matt in our prayers.
Love,
Michelle Sheridan Chaput
anthony & irene lopez
August 29, 2007
To the Family of sgt tallman,As a grandmother of a soldier,i want to thank your son for his protection of us all,our men and women who serve are such Hero,s.May he rest in peace and you and your family are all in our thoughts & Prayers as you go thru this trying time. May god bless you all.
Phyllis
August 29, 2007
My deepest sympathy to the family of Matthew Tallman. He was a true hero, serving his country and giving his life for freedom. I just want you to know that so many people feel the hurt when we hear of these young men serving our country, not coming back to their families. God Bless you all
Eileen Straley
August 29, 2007
To the loving family of Sgt. Matthew L. Tallman,
As a mother and a citizen of the United States of America, I salute you and your son/husband/father who wanted to make a difference and maintain the freedoms we enjoy by living here in the United States. I live in Washington state near Ft. Lewis and McChord AFB. I see military around me all the time and always make it a point to shake their hands and give them a heartfelt thank you for their desire to serve their country. Matthew is now a hero for he was willing to make the ultimate sacrifice for all of us. May your memories give you comfort, and may your understanding of the Gospel give you peace that we will all be together again for eternity. In our family, we shall continue to keep Matthew in our prayers.
Mary Dolan Bell
August 29, 2007
The sacrafice made by Sgt. Matthew Tallman is appreciated and will be remembered. He is a Hero to all Americans. May he rest in peace and may his family be comforted.
Lawanda Motokyosan
August 29, 2007
Matt was a very brave man who had the courage to protect the freedom of all of us fortunate enough to live in America. We care, very much, and our prayers are with his family and friends at this most difficult time.
Nelson Rasmussen
August 28, 2007
Sorry it ended this way. You were there for us. I'm very sorry.
PFC Joseph Phillips
August 28, 2007
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.
M Gong
August 28, 2007
Thank you for your service Sgt Tallman. Rest in peace...
Jenn B
August 28, 2007
On behalf of all your classmates from St. Lawrence, you will forever be remembered.
Melissa Dominguez (Deverse)
August 28, 2007
My deepest sympathy goes out to his family and friends. I attended St. Lawrence with Matt and remember him well. May God Bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Thank you for serving our country!!
Jessica S
August 28, 2007
I went to school with Matt and remember him well. He was a very kind individual; very sweet. My heart goes out to his family.
Rich Huber
August 28, 2007
From a fellow soldier and grateful American. Matt is a hero in the true sense. Thank you for your service and sacrifice so that my children may grow up and thrive in a free world... God Bless.
LeeAnn Holmberg
August 28, 2007
My husband worked with your son, husband, & daddy in Kirkuk. He was very well respected and an inspiration to other soldiers. Your family is in our prayers.
Meghan Esparza (Brennan)
August 28, 2007
My condolences go out to his mother and family. I attended Saint Lawrence with Matt although he was 2 years older then I, when I heard the name I remembered him so well. May my thoughts and prayers be with his family.
God Bless.
Diane Layfield
August 28, 2007
To the Parents and Family, of Sgt. Matthew,
My deepest, most heartfelt Condolences, in this devastating time for you all.
No words can possibly express, the sorrow I feel for your Tragic loss of Matthew.
I am also a Gold Star Mother, of Lcpl Travis Layfield, KIA 4-6-04.
Our Brave, and Courageous, Sons and Daughters, are Truly American Heros, and will never, ever be Forgotten. As long as we say thier names, thier Lives, and Memories are forever ethced in our Hearts, and minds.
I ,as many other Gold Star Parents, are here for you, at any time, day or nite. God has chosen our Loved ones for his reasons, and we are on this Journey together, and will hold each others hands, to support one another.
Sgt. Matthew, now guards his Final Post, with Honor and Dignity.
Sincerely
Gold Star Mother
gary Allain
August 27, 2007
Sgt. Matthew L. Tallman
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.
Melody Moore
August 27, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to Nicci, Sandie, Ryley and all the family and friends of Matt. I hope you can take comfort in the love and great memories that he gave you and that he gave the ultimate sacrifice doing what he felt he needed to do; to serve his country.
My deepest thoughts and prayers are with you Nicci, please know that I am thinking of you always.
Mom
Eric Metcalf
August 27, 2007
I served with Matt in Hawaii and flew with him quite a lot. My heart sank when I heard he is no longer with us. My deepest sympathy goes out to his family. Matt was a good guy and will be deeply missed.
debbi rivers
August 27, 2007
To the parents of Matthew, I would like to extend my heart felt sorrow as I know what you are going through and what you will yet go through in the coming weeks. I too am the mother of another fallen soldier and with God's continued support in my life I try to reach out to other who might need the support of someone who has been where you are. I want to offer you the support you may need to contact me anytime so that you may vent, talk or just seek comfort I am here for you. As a Gold Star Mother I've reached out through God's blessings to many across the country and we have a good support group. May God continue to give you and your family the love, comfort and healing that you need. In memory of my son SPC Harry (Buck) Winkler III KIA Samarra, Iraq November 12, 2006
Judith & Pacifico Icasiano
August 27, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Please accept our condolences for your loss.
Carol L.
August 27, 2007
Although I did not know him, I wish to thank him for his courage to protect the feedom of those such as myself. We do care and my prayers go out to his family
Jody Solorio-Bogner
August 27, 2007
I was deeply saddened to hear the news about the sudden death of Matt. My thoughts are with Virginia and Matt's wife and family during this difficult time. I would like to thank Matt for being an outstanding solider and for protecting our country. Rest in Peace.
Edward Froelich Family
August 27, 2007
The Tallman Family
Thank you for being such a great
family and having a son like
Matthew. Thank you Matthew for
protecting us and having the
wisdom to do so.
God/Jesus bless us all.
Till we all meet again you will be
in our prayers.
Michael Butler
August 27, 2007
I would like to express my heart felt condolences to your family during this difficult time. I would like to thank you for your service to our country and your sacrifice in its future.
god bless you and your family
Gale Poindexter
August 26, 2007
I am writing to offer my condolences to you and your family over the loss of your son Sgt Matthew L Tallman. I lost my son in Iraq on May 6/2007, so I can well understand your pain of losing a child.
When things settle down, I recommend that you contact a man named Michael Reagan @
www.michaelgreaganartist.com
He will draw one portrait of the fallen soldier. He does this for free and will draw any picture of your choosing. He has drawn presidents and other celebrities. My husband and I got one and it has helped me with the healing process. Michael is a truly gifted artist that captures the very essence of the person he draws. I look at my picture everyday and it gives me a connection that I cannot explain.
I pray you will be guided by a higher power to give you peace, comfort and strength in this time.
Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit
GOD Bless you and your family. Your son was a true American Hero and we are all very proud of his service.
(Proud mother of Sgt Joel W. Lewis, 5/20, 3-2 SBCT -KIA May 6/07, Baqubah, Iraq)
August 26, 2007
My love and support go out to Mattews family, especially his mother Virginia, one of my best friends, and his 6 year old daughter Sandie who I met the afternoon we received the news that her father had died. This family and all the families of warriors who have fallen in the line of duty, deserve our everlasting thanks and pride and our resolve to do all we can to make our world a safer place so they never have to be sent again.
Joan Miller
Ken in Najaf, Iraq
Thomas W Ballard
August 25, 2007
A tribute to the fallen.
You will never be forgotten.
A Hero’s flame is eternal.
A soldier’s watch is never ending.
As you are laid to rest with honors.
We as a grateful nation salute you.
Here, you join the ranks of our silent sentinels along with my son.
From above you will watch over your fellow brothers in arms.
This poem was found on the wall of the Alfred P. Murrah Federal Building in Oklahoma City.
Author unknown.
It was passed to me by my father.
I read the poem at my hero’s funeral in June 2004.
My Son passed on Memorial Day 2004 in Najaf, Iraq.
It gave me strength, as I hope it will bring the same to you and yours.
AND GOD SAID
I said, "God I hurt." And God said,
"I know."
I said, "God I cry a lot." And God said,
"That is why I gave you tears."
I said, "God I am so depressed." And God said,
"That is why I gave you Sunshine."
I said, "God life is so hard." And God said,
"That is why I gave you loved ones."
I said, "God, my loved one died." And God said,
"So did mine."
I said, "God it is such a loss." And God said,
"I saw mine nailed to a cross."
I said, "God, but your loved one lives." And God said,
"So does yours."
I said, "God where is he now?" And God said,
"Mine is on my right and yours in your heart."
I said, "God it hurts." And God said,
"I know."
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I am sure you have heard it said many times, “I wish there was something I could say or do”. The truth is there is nothing anyone can say or do to change what is. You can only reply. “Simply knowing your heart and prayers are there, gives us comfort and strength”.
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow. Please extend my condolences to your family and friends.
Much love to you all.
From Tom Ballard retired U.S.A.F.
Father of 1st Lt Kenneth Michael Ballard
Jim Balsley
August 25, 2007
This evening, I am again filled with great sorrow. For another brave member of the men and women who defend our Nation has made the ultimate sacrifice. My wife and I are also Gold Star Parents.
When Michael enlisted, I was filled with pride and a fear that grew stronger every day. That fear became reality, Jan. 25, 2007. A parent's worse nightmare begain that night when the CAOs informed us of Michael's death.
I am so so sorry for your tragic loss. Matthew will be in my Prayers. Please contact me. Jim
SHIRLEY DONEY
August 25, 2007
REST IN PEACE MATTHEW, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU
SGT Steven Weeks
August 25, 2007
To the family of SGT Matthew Tallman,
I offer to you my sincere condolences after this great tragedy. Words can not express my sorrow. I was stationed at Ft. Lewis with Matt when he was a SPC. I re-enlisted and moved to Hawaii after he told me of the good times he had here. I will always remember Matt for being a good soldier, friend, father and husband.
Nana S.
August 25, 2007
My heart breaks for you. May the peace that only God can give fill your hearts and minds.
Your son was one of my son's best friends, as were the other nine on that copter. He was part of their team. Your son will always be remembered as a hero.
May God bless and keep you.
Sandy Bonesteel
August 25, 2007
As the mother of a son who is deployed, I want to send my condolences. Please know that there are many, many people who grieve with you.
valorie
August 24, 2007
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
I know how you feel losing a "HERO",Becoming a "Gold Star" Mother myself on 25 March.. The sacrafice our sons and daughters are making on a daily basis should tell us all..These young HEROS knew full well what they were doing and did it proudly When you hug your loved ones tonight.... Remember... We also hugged ours and now they are protecting you..We.. as Americans need to make the "Ultimate Sacrafice" by supporting all our military(HEROS)...the Proud Mom of SGT. Jason W. Swiger
5th Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne,Fort Bragg, N.C. KIA 3/25/007
Lydia Daugherty
August 24, 2007
My sincere heartfelt condolences to the family of Sgt Matthew Tallman who was a courageous soldier and an American hero. He will not be forgotten.
Lydia Daugherty, mother of CTT1 Steven Daugherty, KIA 07-06-07 Baghdad, Iraq
Dewayne Standridge
August 24, 2007
Rest In Peace Sgt. Tallman, God bless you.
August 24, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
Garnet Jenkins
August 24, 2007
My Deepest and Most Heartfelt Sympathy goes out to the family of Sgt. Matthew L. Tallman, with a Multitude of Thanks for this Brave Young Soldier's Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.
The price Matthew and his family have paid, Will Never Be Forgotten. May he Rest Safely now, in God's Care and may the Peace of God be with the Tallman family.
I am the Sister of such a young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago
"Surely He hath borne our grief,
and carried our sorrows."
~ Isaiah 53:4 ~
May you find comfort and strength, in the beautiful memories of times spent with Matthew.
Quietly and gently, may healing come, with each new day.
You are in my thoughts and my prayers.
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