Victoria Kent Pyle

1931 - 2000

Victoria Kent Pyle

1931 - 2000

BORN

1931

DIED

2000

Victoria Pyle Obituary

Published by Richardson Funeral Home on Jan. 2, 2001.
Victoria Kent Pyle was born on February 11, 1931, in Rochester, New York, the youngest of five children, to Polish and Russian immigrant parents. She was christened Wanda Victoria Suzanne Bileck, and her confirmation name in the Catholic Church was Regina. She was called Wanda, or Vonja in Polish (Polish was the language used at home and in her upstate New York community). Her four older brothers were Winfield, Edward, Victor, and Walter.

Victoria attended parochial schools through her first twelve grades and was always at the top of her class. Wanda studied piano at home from a very early age. Lessons were not easily afforded, and they took considerable sacrifice from her parents Walter and Michalina (Sadowski) Bileck, who were making a new start for themselves and their family in "The New World."

Through her high school years, Wanda worked for a local physician and dreamed of becoming both a doctor and musician. Upon graduation from high school, Wanda attended the Eastman School of Music, studying piano, voice, and dance. The arts seemed to triumph over science.

With her formal education completed, Wanda left Rochester for New York City to begin her career in the performing arts. As her "stage name" Wanda selected Victoria Kent, by which she was known thereafter.

As with all young artists, it was necessary to have a "job" to support a career. Victoria's first position was as a "gal Friday" on the brand new black and white television show "Meet the Press," working for Larry Spivak and Martha Roundtree, the founders of the show that continues to this day.

As Victoria continued to audition and perform, largely as a singer, other "jobs" to support herself came along. She taught piano in her apartment in off hours, and, having studied shorthand in school, she took a position as secretary in the law offices of one of the nation's largest communications law firms, Fly, Blume, Shuebruck, and Gaguine.

Victoria began modeling and was discovered by Christian Dior, becoming his top fur model in New York City. But music remained her first love, and she continued to study voice with Madam Valdez at New York's famous Steinway Hall. It was through this affiliation that Victoria was cast as the lead singer/actress in a revival of "The Merry Widow" to be staged at Carnegie Hall.

When the production was well into rehearsals, the part of the "Widow's" jilted lover was vacated by a gentleman who became ill. Quickly scheduled auditions for a replacement produced a young singer by the name of Tom Pyle. Tom announced to friends the morning after his first rehearsal that he had "met the woman" he would marry. And, indeed, seven months later, Victoria and Tom were married in The Actors Chapel of St. Malachy's Cathedral in the heart of Manhattan.

To help support her husband's career, she again took a "job," this time as a secretary in a French import cosmetic and perfume company - Orlane cosmetics and Jean D. Albret fragrances. "Business woman" Victoria quickly moved from the secretarial pool to Executive Secretary to the President, and just as quickly to Vice President of Public Relations for International Operations - working directly for the French owner-family and its head, Count Michelle D'Ornano.

Five years into her marriage, Victoria (or Vicki as she was known to family and friends) gave birth to the couple's first child, a baby girl named Pamela Victoria Pyle. Eighteen months later, Pamela was followed by a baby boy, Brett Thomas Pyle. Vicki became a full-time mother and supporter of her husband in his expanded career as a filmmaker.

About five years later, the family built a home north of Manhattan. Vicki began to teach piano again, and took up gardening. She started with just a few students, but her studio quickly grew by word of mouth until she was teaching as many as thirty young aspiring pianists individually each week. She became an active member of the Music Teachers National Association and several of its local chapters. Her students and family thrived.

A few years later, her husband's work took the family to the Washington, D.C., area, where they bought a house in the northern part of Virginia in a town called Reston. Vicki built her studio again, from scratch, and was soon teaching, mentoring, and counseling up to forty-five young people a week. She believed that all three activities were key to success with children and teens, whether in piano or any other aspect of life.

Vicki became an active participant in several music clubs: Northern Virginia Music Teachers Association, Western Virginia Music Teachers Association, the National Music Teachers Association, and she was a member of the nationally prestigious Friday Morning Music Club of Washington, D.C. Her studio was always filled and music abounded in her life and the lives of her students, on a daily basis, year in and year out.

Over the years, Victoria's students went on to succeed in many fields: music, computer sciences, philosophy, psychology, physics, teaching, and yes, in the area of her other "love" as well, medicine.

But that's Victoria the "teacher." There was also Victoria the "mother."

Pamela took after her mother in many ways, but more than in any others, she too began piano at a very early age, and later flute as well. In fact, her parents simply couldn't keep her away from the piano starting at 18 months of age. Though very young to be taking lessons, Vicki, nonetheless, initiated her formal piano training at the age of four. Within a couple of years, Vicki guided her daughter to other teachers, believing that the role of mother should take precedence. But her personal support of music in her children's life continued, always. Pamela went on to gain her Bachelor's degree from The New England Conservatory, and her Masters from The Juilliard School. Pamela then became a staff member at Juilliard, as well as at the Aspen Music Festival.

Brett, too, inherited an interest in music with classical and folk guitar, though his engineering and business instincts were much stronger. He obtained a degree in systems engineering from the University of Virginia, worked with Arthur Andersen in Washington, D.C., Amoco in Chicago and throughout the Southwest, and for British Petroleum in London. Through Brett, and his wife Jeanne (Jourdan), three grandchildren - Lauren Marie, Kaitlyn Victoria, and Jonathan Thomas, filled Vicki's life even further.

"Mother" and "Grandmother" Victoria played a major supportive role in the lives of her family, in all ways.

"Wife" Victoria spent 43 years in support of her husband, Tom, and his career, which often necessitated her reestablishing her own in new cities.

In the year 2000, Vicki once again followed Tom as they moved to partial retirement in Arizona, the place of her husband's birth. Here, the two of them joined the Pinnacle Presbyterian Church in Scottsdale, Arizona.

Beloved wife, mother and grandmother, musician, businesswoman, teacher, and Christian, make up the history, the contributions, and the legacy of Victoria Kent Pyle.

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Gina Stevens

November 7, 2005

I did not know Mrs. Pyle, but accidentally came across this page while searching online for information on my Grandmother's uncle, Lee Pabst (who my middle name is from).

Once I saw her beautiful picture with her peaceful and wonderful smile I had to read about who she was. I am so glad I accidentally came across this site, as the story written about her life is as beautiful as she is, and very inspirational to me. I have studied piano in the past - and wish to take it up again - and am a writer. Her dedication to her loves - music and family - are inspiring to me and represents what I hope to incorporate into my life.

Thank you to whomever for writing such a beautiful tribute.

Jeffrey Beaudry

July 2, 2001

REFLECTIONS ON TWO TEACHERS' LIVES

All was ready. I had borrowed a videocamera and purchased a blank videotape to use in it. I had selected a piano piece to perform on the tape - J.S. Bach's "Chromatic Fantasy and Fugue"- and planned to film myself walking around the studio while I talked about the instruments, equipment, and computer-and, of course, my students. Mrs Pyle had not seen my studio, nor had she heard me play the piece by Bach. I hoped that she would enjoy seeing and hearing these things.



Mrs. Victoria Kent Pyle was my first piano teacher, starting when I was age 11. In early December 2000, she was convalescing in her home and dying of cancer. I maintained a cursory contact with her over the years, and even performed a couple of times for her younger students. When I heard about her illness, however, I felt a strong need to show her what I had accomplished thus far in my musical career. After all, it was thanks to her that I was on this path of teaching piano.



I chose the piece by Bach because this composer was most central to my seven years of study with Mrs. Pyle. Together we had studied many of Bach's great keyboard works: the "Short Preludes", the "Inventions", the "Italian Concerto", the "B-Flat Major Partita." Now, despite my many accomplishments, I was once again the student and she, the teacher. I found myself apologizing to her for not playing the "Chromatic Fantasy" from memory, even though I had only sevral days to work up the piece again. How she might have smiled about that remark.



When the tape was finished, I sent it via Federal Express to her new home in Arizona. I hoped she would still be well enough to view and enjoy the tape.



News of her death on December 31 reached me in early January; I was unsure whether she had heard my efforts to reach out to her. Then I received a note from her surviving husband, Tom. It said: "Vicki would want me to let you know how much she appreciated your thinking of her at the end - and what a great deal of pride she had in you, when viewing your tape."



My performance had pleased my teacher. What better way to know whether you have succeeded, than to know you have earned the approval of a teacher that you respect?

There are other ways of measuring your success, but maybe none so simple or so satisfying. I had been given one final opportunity to receive the approval from my own, valued teacher.

Leslie & Rick Snyder

April 24, 2001

I want to say a few things about Vicki. She was truly a remarkable lady. The few times I was able to spend with her, I felt like we made a connection on an artistic level. She was beautiful, poised, and graceful, with a joyful spirit.

Susie Bilak

March 28, 2001

I found out my precious Aunt Vicki had been called to a higher ground. She was so, so special to me and through our letters and phone calls - she helped me tremendously!



She still and always will have a special place in my heart. Now we have our own special guardian angel up above to provide for us!

Vicki Wyatt

March 1, 2001

I want to say again what an inspiration you have been to me. You were one of the first teachers I remember when I moved to Virginia. I was about 25, and you were one of the "visible" teachers. I remember hearing your students, hearing how wonderfully they played and wondering how on earth you managed to teach them to do so. I would see you at meetings and notice immediately how stylish and fashionable you were,- not like most piano teachers, alas! - and was awed by you.



Still later, I relized that you also had children! Talented children at that! You were wife and mother! Good grief! How??? Truly, I was so inspired to see that one could truly do it all, and do it well.



As the years went by, I learned that you were also a warm and genuine individual. Vicki, please know that you and your presence have enriched the lives of so very many - besides the obvious contribution you have made to countless students, there have been so many others like myself.

Barbara Brown

March 1, 2001

It has now been over 20 years since Vicki began teaching our son Nathan. He majored in piano,graduated magna cum laude, continued his music playing for 15 years in various bands, as well as being the featured artist on many CD's. Nathan is now married and living in a beautiful home which has a studio in the basement and a music room. His new 15 month old daughter delights us all with her singing.



Vicki's legacy reaches way beyond the children she taught.



There is simply no doubt that YOU, Vicki, instilled the love of music and the art of performance in Nathan. A gift that will continue to grow and be nurtured for generations to come.



Although I was never very accomplished at the piano, you taught me, as well, so much during our time together which helped me a great deal with my accompanying duties.



But most of all, you taught me about Spirit. I admired your strength, and our love of family, and your determination.



God Bless you, Vicki, for all you have given us, we will be eternally grateful. Love.

Thea & Paul Tannous

March 1, 2001

We are sending this message to convey our heartfelt appreciation for all that Vicki has done for Lucas.



Luc graduated summa cum laude from Westminster Choir College in May. He is now attending the University of Illinois on a full fellowship, earning his Master of Music degree. Luc has continued to do extremely well in his opera performance studies.



Victoria gave him not only an excellent grounding in piano but also offered him, most generously, a wonderful opportunity to sing on stage in a supportive environment, filled with enthusiasm and appreciation. That's something that he, and we, will never forget.



We want to reaffirm how much Victoria has given to her students, working so hard with them to bring out the best they had.

Deborah Shih Carstoiu

March 1, 2001

I realize now that I wasn't the easiest and most pliable student you ever had. But, you never gave up and you always encouraged me to try as much as I could and taught me to never be afraid to try something new or tackle something that first appeared to be difficult. As I've gone through life, I've never been afraid to meet seemingly intricate challenges.



Looking back, I realize that all those difficult pieces you chose for me and all the recitals I had to nervously stomach taught me to view the world around me as conquerable. That with some sweat and tears, I would always make it through. That life's journey isn't always an easy one, and the terrain is often filled with peaks and valleys. But, with determination, patience, and belief in one's self, you can succeed at anything you try.



As I take a moment to reflect, I understand that this is what I've been able to take from the time I spent with you.



Thank you for all the things you taught me - on the simplest of levels, how to play the piano - but on a far greater level, patience, confidence, and an undying belief in my own success.



Looking back through my life and all the Christmases and birthdays I have experienced, this is one of the greatest gifts I could ever receive.

Donnita Whittier

March 1, 2001

Just a few words, Vicki, about our children, your students, who are all in music.



Kelly subs as an organist in Vienna, Austria. She got her Masters in Music in May from Emory and went straight to Austria to work with Human Life International. Ryan works days for a newspaper, but nights he is playing in his rock band which he formed right after graduation in May. Megan finished her freshman year at the Eastman School of Music and did very well with a 3.5 average.



All these children gained so much from you, Vicki, and were very fortunate to have you for a teacher. God Bless you.

Janice Shih, MD

February 28, 2001

I often play The Moonlight Sonata late at night - usually in the summertime with the doors open and the water sounds in the background. I can still hear your directions. Thank you so much for the gifts of music, and joy!!! Love.

Sarah Shipp

February 28, 2001

Virginia Tech has been great. I'm enjoying architecture and will be studying in Riva Van Vitale, Switzerland next year. I've been taking piano lessons for the past year and a half. It's a nice hour break in my day to practice. Right now i'm playing Brahm's Opus 79 #1&2 and Chopin's Fantasie Impromptu. I think of you often and am thankful for the love of music you shared with me. Love.

Larry Kelley

February 28, 2001

It's hard to believe that it's been 20 years. I just wanted to send this to let you know the positive impact you had on my musical talents, as well as my strong appreciation of classical music that I would not otherwise have had. Although I gave up the piano on a full time basis long ago, I do occasionally "dabble" in it from time to time. I STILL have, committed to memory, many of the pieces that I learned under your guidance. You also had a substantial indirect impact as well in that many of your students forged friendships that have endured long after the lessons ended. I am currently on assignment in Ciaro, Egypt providing coumpter-related support to the Egyptian Army through a US-funded program.

Maria Letonja

February 28, 2001

You are constantly in my thoughts every time that I sit down at the piano. What you taught me all those years ago is with me everyday. I'm graduating next semester with a music degree and a concentration in the music industry. I've wanted so much to tell you how much you mean to me, and how much you touch my life everyday. Your taught me the foundation of something that is priceless, and I can truly never thank you for it in a way that seems fitting. You inspired me to go into music and you inspire me everyday to continue it. Thank you for being you.

Thomas Pyle

February 28, 2001

TIL ONE OF US IS GONE (or)

HOLD HANDS ONCE MORE

(From Marriage Through Eternity.

In Loving Memory of

Victoria Kent Pyle.)



Let's take each others hands Darlin' til one of us is gone.



So take my hand Darlin'. Hold on til the pain is gone.



Take my hand Darlin' and hold on, for the children are gone.



So, take my hand Darlin', and hold on as life goes on.



Take my hand Darlin', and hold on til one of us is gone.



She took my hands Darlin's, and held on til it was time to go.



Then we smiled into each others eyes Darlin's and held on -



Til we could hold hands once more.

TAP



Jesus said to her, "I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me, though he may die, he shall live. And whoever lives in Me shall never die. Do you believe this?"



She said to Him, "Yes Lord, I believe that you are the Christ, The Son of God, who is to come into the world."



And when she had said these things, she went her way.

John 11: 25 - 28

John and Sue Cahlamer

February 14, 2001

We only knew Vicki for a short time, but in that time, she and Tom enriched our lives as they have many others.

Darwyn, Bonnie and Ryan Atkins

February 14, 2001

Although we have not met your family, we feel as though we do, through Tami, our daughter. We know it has been a very sad and trying time for you all. What a beautiful tribute to a very talented woman. Tami was fortunate to be able to share this sad experience with such a loving family. God Bless You All. Darwyn and Bonnie Atkins, Ryan Atkins

Michael Kelley

February 14, 2001

I never met Vicki but I did know that she was always first and foremost in Tom's mind all the time. What a full and meaningful life she led. What wonderful joy she and her music must have brought to the whole family.

Sally and Tim Blewett

February 13, 2001

We send our love and thoughts to you,



Sally and Tim Blewett

Julius Becton

February 13, 2001

Tom, what a beautiful way to remember Vicki and share her with those of us who did not know her.

Many thanks. God bless.



Julius

Alexandria Trelow

January 30, 2001

I am sorry about your loss.



alex

The Miller family

January 23, 2001

We want to offer our deepest sympathy to the Pyle's family in their loss and leave some thoughts of hope and encouragement. These words have helped us in the past when we lost a loved one in death. John 5:28,29: "Do not marvel at this, because the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out." Acts 24:15: "I have hope toward God...that there is going to be a resurrection of both the righteous and the unrighteous." We can share in this hope if we apply what is brought out in John 17:3: This means everlasting life their taking in knowledge of you, the only true God and of the one whom you sent forth, Jesus Christ. If we take in this accurate knowlege of Jehovah God and his son Jesus Christ we can look forward to a time soon, when there will be no more death, Revelation 21:3,4. Jehovah God holds out this hope of everlasting life to mankind. The earth will become a paradise and we will be living in perfect conditions. This was God's original purpose for the earth and man and he has'nt changed. I hope these words have brought your family some comfort. Once again we send our condolences. The Miller family

Nancy Holmes

January 21, 2001

What a beautiful lady! It seems she made a tremendous impact on a lot of lives. How blessed her friends and family must feel to have known her.



Nancy Holmes

LAYLA SWIFT

January 18, 2001

I AM VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS!!

MAY THE LORD BE WITH YOU

From the Staff of Carr-Tenney Mortuary

January 2, 2001

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

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