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BARBARA REED Obituary

Barbara Ann (Olms) Reed, 54, of Kingsville, MO, passed away unexpectedly on June 26, 2011, at her home. In keeping with Barbara's wishes, cremation has been accorded. In memory of Barbara a Celebration of Life Service will be held at 2:00 p.m. Saturday, July 2, 2011, at the family home. Bro. Don Henson officiating. Please dress casual. In lieu of flowers the family suggests contributions to Best Friends Animal Society, 5001 Angel Canyon Road, Kanab, Utah 87451-5000. Barbara was born September 13, 1956, in St. Louis, Missouri, the daughter of John Otto Olms and Dorothea Carol (Henry) Hellon. She was a graduate of Southwest High School, class of 1974. On October 5, 1985, she was united in marriage with William S. Reed, Jr. in Kansas City, MO. Barbara was a "Homemaker Extraordinaire," an animal lover and had worked at Hellon & Hellon Associates with her mother, but above all else she dedicated her life and love to her family. Barbara is survived by her husband, William S. Reed, Jr. of the home, one daughter, Hannah Lea Hoover and husband C.J. of Kingsville, MO., Her father, John Otto Olms of Kirkwood, Missouri, her mother, Dorothea C. Hellon of Lee's Summit, MO., two brothers; Robert "Bob" Olms and wife, Sandy of Lake of the Ozarks, MO. and Steve Edwin Hellon and wife, Darece of Blue Springs, MO., and two granddaughters; Gracie and Aubrie Hoover. Wallace Funeral Home, Pleasant Hill, MO.

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Published by Kansas City Star on Jun. 30, 2011.

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Nancy Wheeler

June 26, 2012

Today, it has been 1 year since we lost a beautiful person. I so hope that God has helped you to heal through this grief. Know that you are in my prayers and thoughts daily. I have missed Barb daily for the last year. Your daughters show so many of her qualities and they look so much like her. RIP Barb and keep watching over your family as I know you are.

June 24, 2012

Going on a year without Barb..Amazing how her passing changed my life so drastically! I went in and quit my job the following week. After working 45 years, it was actually easier then I could have imagined. Could hear her telling me, all you have is today, start living your life!

I now have a flower garden,(never grew a flower in my life) with a water-fountain, that she would be proud of.
I have Betty the bubble bee and gardina the snake that come visit, these things~I never noticed before, never took the time...
I also have my beautiful light dove, I know has Barb's spirit, comes and drinks out of the fountain, when I'm sitting only 2 feet from it, to remind me...this is what life is all about!
Thank you Barb, for showing me the way!
Love and Miss you,
Toni

Bobbi Reed

July 4, 2011

I remember my sister-in-law Barbara for her beautiful way with nature. I was always impressed with her gardens and how beautiful her home was. She even came to mind last Sunday because I was cooking bacon that morning and using my bacon press that she found for me. Such a little thing but still a good memory that made me smile.

July 4, 2011

Bill,Hannah, CJ and Girls:

What a beautiful service and rememberance of Barb. She will truly be missed by many wonderful people. She was a true and wonderful friend to many people. She is now IN THE GARDEN of heaven and will keep is just as beautiful and she did your homeplace. I still have the lilies that she gave me many years ago and am honored to have them to remember her by. Love you all, Nancy

July 4, 2011

Bill

Kimberly Burnell

July 3, 2011

I would rather really live a life cut far too short, than to coast through never fully experiencing it. This is to always saying how you feel & what you think; of which I've learned from you. You embodied the saying 'Big things come in small packages'.

July 2, 2011

Hannah,
My heart breaks to read your pain. Your Mom taught you, above all else. "To Love Life and the people in it" She always had her priorities straight, there could be no better teacher of this... Remember her words of wisdom, at this time, and know she is still all around you...Love Toni

Tony Droz

July 2, 2011

Barb was not only a friend, she was family. She welcomed me into Ron's family with open arms and never once looked back. I'll miss you Barb! Love you Bill & Hannah!

Linda Christian

July 2, 2011

May you rest in peace

ginger cornwell

July 2, 2011

your family are in my thoughts and prayers i am glad i grew up next door and had a chance to get to know you all

Kathie Shinn

July 2, 2011

Let this candle burn bright for Barb's memory, letting everyone know that she is loved and missed dearly!

Kathie Shinn

July 2, 2011

Barb became a friend of mine very quickly, and we stayed friends for at least 20 years. She was a very unique woman and she was always there for me. I could always count on her to shoot me straight. She helped me through some difficult times in my life and I thank her for that very much. Hannah and my daughter Rachelle grew up together and Barb was always there for Rachelle, too. She will be missed very much. She is loved by many and her memory will live on through Bill, Hannah, CJ and the girls. My love goes out to Bill, Hannah, CJ and the Girls.

ginger cornwell

July 2, 2011

i am so sorry for your loss she was a wonderful women and a wonderful neighbor

Hannah, C.J., Gracie and Aubrie Hoover

July 2, 2011

we will miss you more than words can even begin to desribe. you were my est friend, mother and wonderful grandmother and i will never forget all te great memories and all the fun trips we had together. nor will i ever forget you talking me into things i would of never done but once i did i was so happy... I love you more than life itself...

July 2, 2011

My heart so goes out to your family. Words could never express the sadness in my heart right now. Just know your pain is being shared by many at this difficult time. Words just aren't enough right now, so will just tell you, I loved Barb, I love you, and time does heal....Toni

Ron Mosey

June 30, 2011

Barb will be missed by all of us, she was a garage sale queen and best friend. My condolences to the entire family.

June 30, 2011

Bill, Hannah, CJ and girls:
I can only say that I am so saddened by the loss of Barb. We have been best friends for over 25 years. We spent many hours together with the Girl Scouts and watching Hannah and Amy grow up together. Lots of laughs. I always knew if I needed something I could call on Barb. If I needed an answer, she had one for me. Now that she is in heaven, I know that she will still be there for me to give the straight answers that I need. I will miss her dearly. My heart goes out to you all.
Love , Nancy, Alan and Amy Sue

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