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Michele Chebetar Obituary
Michele Boylan Chebetar, 34, died on May 16, 2011. Michele was born on March 2, 1977. She graduated from Maria Regina High School and attended Manhattan College. In May 1998, she married Bryan Chebetar and they lived in Tarrytown, NY. Michele was a homemaker and was actively involved in the Tarrytown schools where her children attend. She was a member of Immaculate Concepcion Church in Sleepy Hollow. Michele will be especially remembered for never-ending devotion to her three children, Gabriella, Payge and Alexandra. They were her life. She also put her energy into the Tarrytown schools where she worked part time and loved so very much. She was involved in school concerts, plays and the Girl Scouts. Survivors include her husband Bryan Chebetar, her mother and stepfather Lucille and Robert DiMeglio, her father and stepmother Harold and Barbara Boylan, stepbrother Robert DiMeglio and stepsister Jamie DiMeglio, her grandfather Angelo Lombardi, her uncle Anthony Lombardi, cousins Katie and Lauren Lombardi, and her aunt Katherine Merkin. She leaves behind a multitude of friends and children who loved her so very much. To honor Michele and her committment to education, contributions are welcome for a fund that will be established for Michele's children's education.
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Memories and Condolences
for Michele Chebetar
Tammie Boylan
May 13, 2020
Not a day goes bye, I love and miss you with all my heart ❤
Tammie Boylan
December 7, 2017
I miss my "little" cousin Michele. Not a day goes bye that I don't think of you.
Janine Lucas
May 20, 2012
Not a day goes by that you aren't thought of....know that your spirit lives on now and always. Save me a seat my dear sweet friend, so that when I arrive you can twirl my hair forever...I Love you and miss you so much more than words could ever express.....Nini
claude badie
May 24, 2011
words can not state how hard this loss must be. if there is anything at all that i can do - please contact me right away!
The Recchia Family
May 23, 2011
To the Lombardi Family....May god give you the strength to carry on and keep Michelle in your hearts as someday you will meet again! Our family will keep Michelle in our prayers and hope the girls find peace within themselves to move forward and keep their most happiest moments in their hearts forever and ever. A tragic loss for the three beautiful little girls....may god be with you all. Rest in peace Michelle.
Susan Gugino
May 23, 2011
Michele, I didn't know you but I have been best friends with you beautiful cousin Tammie for many years. I see you were so young..God bless you babe.I am so sorry for your entire family you have left this life and am sure you were loved by all and will be missed by many..God only takes the best..God rest your sweet soul. With love and heartfelt prayers to your family and your little Angels..SUE May you rest in peace in Gods kingdom..<3
Kayla Maddox
May 22, 2011
Our dearest sympathy goes out to you and your loved ones, May god bring peace into your home and lives at this time of loss. God needed another heavenly angel to watch over all. May god bless each and every one of your loved ones. <3
Alan Ficik
May 20, 2011
Our condolences to your family and friends in this time of devastating loss. Gone to soon. Rest in Peace.
Al Ficik
May 20, 2011
Our condolences to your family and friends in this time of devastating loss. Rest in Peace
Al Ficik
May 20, 2011
Our condolences to your family and friends in this time of devastating loss. Rest in Peace
May 20, 2011
Our hearts go out to the Boylan and Chebetar families in this time of sorrow.
~The LeDoux Family
Lois Kyle
May 20, 2011
Until we meet again, God has called home another angel to watch over her loved ones. Rest in Peace Michele.
May 19, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with your children and family.
We will always remember your zest and love of life. Your girls will always have you in their hearts. Anne & Rich D'Alessandro
ellen bozzi
May 19, 2011
Warm Summer Sun
Warm summer sun,
Shine kindly here,
Warm southern wind,
Blow softly here.
Green sod above,
Lie light, lie light.
Good night, dear heart,
Good night, good night.
By Mark Twain (Samuel Langhorne Clemens)
The Poetry Foundation
May 19, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Gabe and Lucinda Rivera
Karen Brown
May 19, 2011
Michele, You will be missed for your energy, creativity and involvement with the kids of Tarrytown Sleepy Hollow. Yearbooks with pictures of every single student, school plays with gorgeous makeup, every kid looking great on picture day, this is what I'll remember about you. My heart goes out to your 3 little girls and the rest of your family.
"May the memory of the righteous be a blessing."
Lusi Almanzar
May 19, 2011
You will be missed very much. We all love you
NEIL CORKERY
May 19, 2011
I'M SO SORRY HAROLD MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
Tracy Eiseman Sinatra
May 19, 2011
Thoughts and prayers to Michele's family and her daughters. A beautiful person taken way too soon.
Richie Boylan
May 19, 2011
On this sad day I am thinking of you, your beautiful girls, Uncle Harold and Aunt Lucille. We Boylans have a funny way of being family which is sometimes difficult. That never affected us....it was a Lovefest from day 1. We all love you and the INCREDIBLE job you've done at being "Mommy" . I know I speak for Tammie, Jimbo, Danny, and Robbie when I say a part of you will always be with us. Whether it was playing at Aunt Catherines house as kids or partying in Jamaica :-) as young adults, you made people around you smile and that says more than anything. Uncle Jimmy, Aunt Susie and all of the Boylan's(James) are proud of what you accomplished during your brief visit. I'm sure Heaven is a happier place already. Rest in Peace beautiful.
Linda & Ricky Yon
May 19, 2011
Our love and thoughts are with you Lucille and your family. Words cannot express how Michele has always made the effort to keep us in her life. She will be truly missed by everyone.
May 19, 2011
Our love, thoughts and prayers are with our Family today. You will always be with us. God now has you as one of his Angels and you will watch over all of us. We love you and will miss you.
Patti Chebetar Lynn, Wappingers Falls NY
Doreen Reisert
May 19, 2011
My condolences to Michele's family - so sorry for your loss. Michele, may you rest in peace and know you've touched so many lives and will be remembered always.
Marguerite Wolfe
May 19, 2011
My heart felt condolences to Michele's friends, her Uncle Tony and family.
May 19, 2011
Dear Mrs. Chebetar
You were one of my best friends. You were SO much fun. I am going to miss you forever.
Lexi Savino
AnnMarie Savino
May 19, 2011
Michelle, an angel on earth and now in Heaven. Thank you for being the eyes and ears for us and our children when we could not be there. You were loved by so many, especially our chidren. We will miss your your big, bright smile, your crazy hair and makeup for Crazy Hair Day, St. Pat's Parade, Circus and just about every other event you were so wonderfully a part of. We will look after your children as you looked after ours to make certain they will always be cared for, and to remember how much you were loved. Rest in Peace. XOXO
AnnMarie, Vince and Lexi
Jennifer McCarthy
May 19, 2011
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your girls. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Cousin Jennifer and Family
Blanche Ritchie
May 19, 2011
Know that you are in our hearts and thoughts. Our prayers are with you.
Aunt Blanche and Uncle Joe
Diana Ferro
May 19, 2011
My deepest condolences to Michele's family....RIP Michele
Bill Losier
May 19, 2011
To the family and friends of Michele - may you find the strength to make peace with this terrible loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Tammie Boylan
May 19, 2011
My sweet cousin Michele. Over the last few days I have been thinking about you and all the great times we had together. There are so many awesome memories I didn't know where to begin, so I just started looking at photo's and your beautiful smile. Days like today I wish with all my heart I wasn't in Florida as I so want to be with you. Gaby, Payge and Alex are so lucky to have you as their momma. You are the brightest star in the sky! You will always be in my heart and I will always love you and your girls. Rest in Peace Ish.
Grandma Lynda and Ed
May 19, 2011
Deepest sympathy to Michele's family during this extremely difficult time, especially to her wonderful children --Gabriella, Payge, and Alexandra. Always remember that you are loved by so many. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
fjohn reinke (mc1968)
May 19, 2011
The Manhattan College alumni community shares the grief, and is now praying for our fellow alumni and the family at this time. The Alumni Office has been informed. As well as the Jasper Jottings community that I personally can reach. We are all a little poorer now. "No man is an island, entire of itself ... any man's death diminishes me". We are sorry for your loss.
On a personal note, I too have just lost a spouse. I can only imagine what the children, husband, and family are going through. I know that platitudes, mumbled condolences, and well-meaning phrases are little comfort. Wish I had the "silver bullet" to offer, I don't. I'm told that "time heals all wounds", but at the 82 day mark, the loss is as it was yesterday. I recently heard a C&W song that seemed to sum it up: "the living goes on after the thrill is gone". My prayers and good thoughts are with you. I have nothing to offer, but if you need to vent, I have ears.
Donna Nobis Pacem.
Missy Prunella
May 19, 2011
Michele, I am so lucky to have had you as a friend. We had some good times growing up and I am glad we were able to reconnect over facebook. I do wish that we were able to catch up in person, I am sorry that I am so far away. I will always remember the fun times we had and you will always be in my heart. Rest in Peace.
Brian Miller
May 19, 2011
Michele you were more than my best friend, you were my like my sister. You made your family my family when I needed one.
Love Always,
Brian
Yanira Castro
May 19, 2011
Michele was the most loyal friend and a devoted mother. She lived her life for her three beautiful daughters. I will miss her tremendously. Her leagcy is everlasting and I urge all who knew her to always share stories of her to the girls so they can awlays remember what an incredible woman she was.
Jen Bozzi
May 19, 2011
I love you Michele! I will miss our Friday's reunions and miss how you always loved to twirl my hair with those long nails!! You were and are loved more than you imagine!! We will all miss you!! We will keep the reunions going in your honor! I wish I could "wish" you back. All of us do! You were an amazing mom
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