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Allen Haughay Memoriam

Allen "Skip" Haughay was riding his horse, Regal Bull, over to a neighbor's mariachi party on Hale Avenue with a handful of friends. At about 8:20 p.m., Haughay and Bull were struck by a 2004 GMC pickup truck. Haughay was flung from his horse's back onto a parked Ford, according to the California Highway Patrol. Sgt. Adam Rodriguez said Haughay suffered major head injures and was flown by helicopter to Valley Medical Center, where he was pronounced dead.

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Published by Mercury News on Sep. 5, 2011.

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James Lee

January 1, 2024

Skip and I worked together for IBM (West Palm Beach office porting ViaVoice to Mac. Skip was a pleasure to work with and a nice person. I only worked with him a short time but enjoyed his way of making droll programming fun. He is missed.

Shane Esposito

July 15, 2020

Almost 9 years ago I received the horrific news that you had passed. It took a while to sink in! We had just beat stomach cancer! Your commitment and discipline to do everything in your control to recover as much as possible were rewarded! I was beyond happy when you told me you were in remission. Whod of thought a couple days later youd get hit while riding your 1200 pound bright white horse that stood 8 feet tall. I miss you all the time! You were so pleasant and enjoyable to work with! You always looked out for me! Referred so many great people as well! You were one of the few people who understood was life was really about. Gone, but never forgotten.

Bruno Bowden

February 7, 2016

Skip, you were a great friend of many years. We first met at a Coldplay concert back in 2005. The most memorable time we spent together was the day the iPhone launched... he called me up to say "Someone has canceled on me, so do you want to go to the iPhone launch party tonight?" Craziest question anyone has ever asked me. Skip was one of the few people in Apple that had possession of an iPhone and I'd just purchased one earlier that day. So we had an amazing evening demo'ing the iPhone to many of the Apple employees that hadn't yet seen one. Incredible. Years later, visiting his farm down south, he would reminisce about "this is the farm that the iPhone paid for". From high technology to a love of animals, he was a great friend.

Scott Wistar

August 18, 2012

Godspeed Skippy. You were a memorable soul indeed.

Scott

January 16, 2012

Hey Skippy. I miss your smiling face every morning at work...seeing you come through smelling of horses and telling jubilent stories about your farm life...I miss you so very much. i send you hugs in heaven...<3

chris s

January 15, 2012

I had not spoken to Skip for some time and found out about this tragedy when recently thinking of how he might be doing. The world has lost a great person. My condolences go out to his family and friends. Rest in peace.

Evan Roper

November 13, 2011

I also just found out about this tragedy. My thoughts, prayers and condolences to you Able, your family and friends.

Erick Martinez

October 14, 2011

I just found out about this today. I knew Skip had cancer and thought that was the reason for his passing, up until I read his tragic death.

I only knew Skip for a brief period of time, but he was such an awesome person to be around. He had great energy and was so very friendly. His farm had such beautiful horses.

My deepest condolences go out to his family and friends.

Rest in Peace, Skip. I will miss you dearly.

Briarlee Barrow

October 10, 2011

I just found out and am in shock. Skip was brilliant. We went to school together in Riyadh. I'm so sorry for your loss Abel

Farewell Skipper....Big Hugs & Kisses. Liz

Liz Richardson

September 15, 2011

Oh Skip…you were taken from us way to early!

I’m still wrapping my head around the news Moe delivered to me yesterday of your passing. My heart broke in an instant; my tears flowed like rivers but not only for the loss of my friend so special and amazing, but for your family and Able! Whose loss is felt more deeply, my heart and prays are with them at this difficult time and always as their hearts heal.

Your departure from our lives is extremely saddening, but the thought of meeting up with you again someday in a beautiful place with Ruly and Regal Bull brings happiness to my heart.

Share one of those big sentimental hugs with Ruly that he was always so giving of. That’s the memory I will hold closest to my heart of you. In life those moments of you two always brought a little tear to my eye, so tender a moment.

I love you, adore you and will miss you to pieces!

~Liz
“W.E.”

Jo Ann Valdez

September 12, 2011

Condolences to Skip's partner and his family. What a tragedy to lose such a wonderful person.

September 11, 2011

Skip, wonderful man, man of humor, brilliant man, yep, I enjoyed our email friendship. I am so sorry that you and your beautiful buddy had to die so soon. We all are. I am sure that you and Regal Bull will be together forever, and I bet you one think, Regal Bull is happy to be with you! Somehow, where ever you are, I sort of think you are chuckling and thinking to yourself, "heck, I might have had a long and painful death with the cancer but I got it over with in a flash." Anyway, Skip, I will miss you.
Thanks for being my email friend. Vernon Shehan, PhD, RN.

September 11, 2011

We are going to miss Skip a lot, for us he was a role model to follow, rest in peace Skip and Regal Bull.

Salvador Moreno (Toro) San Jose, CA

Kavita R.

September 11, 2011

As a fellow major animal lover, I am deeply saddened by your loss. We never met, but I have been overcome with emotion upon learning of your passing. Sending healing energy to your family and loved ones. May you rest peacefully.

Delia Donlon

September 10, 2011

Rest in peace. My thoughts & prayers are with Abel and all the rest of your family. Thank you for being you.

Cathy Meehan

September 9, 2011

Skip, even though I did not know you I would like to send your family and your partner my deepest sympathy in their loss. As a fellow Apple employee and fellow horse owner I can only hope that you and Regal Bull are galloping up in heaven.

Diane Cascia

September 9, 2011

Skip, I only knew you thru emails at work, but you were well liked and I am happy you did follow your dream and live it on your farm. Your spirit will always be there :)

Chris Brooks

September 9, 2011

Skip, although I haven't seen you lately, I have thought of you often. I remember working together at UD.

V. Barajas

September 9, 2011

I have had alot of trouble thinking of what to say Skip. Before you even moved to California, I felt like we knew you. Maybe it was all the pictures you sent us of you and Regal Bull. ;) You offered to help us move without hesitation when Gavin was months old. You came to his first birthday armed with the biggest stuffed horse for Gavin to love. You filled our home, and the barn with your contagious laughter. Not to mention, you always made time even when you didn't really have any to spare, to help with technical computer problems. You were so kind to everyone... especially to those that many would overlook. I'm so heartbroken that I didn't see you after we left. I hope you knew how much you meant to us. I'm so sorry this happened to you and Bull. I send my love and prayers to your family. This is a tremendous loss.

Johanna Primeaux

September 9, 2011

After losing my horse just this year, this brings up memories for the loss of not just a horse but a person that loves the horses. I wished I would have met you, Skip. We lived so close. May you and Regal Bull rest in peace~

Luz Rico

September 8, 2011

Skip, I only just read about your passing and though I did not know you I would like to send your family and your partner my deepest sympathy in their loss. May you ride Regal Bull in the beyond and may you rest in peace and continue to look over your loved ones and may they find peace for they must continue on without you physically but spiritually may they always carry you in their hearts

Rhonda

September 8, 2011

Skip,
We would wave to as we drove by you and regal Bull,You would always wave back and smile. You will be missed

Sil Kruger

September 8, 2011

Questions as to why beautiful soul Skip and his beloved horse taken so tragically. Know that my husband Ken and I feel emotion for Skip and Regal Bull. Ask the Almighty to console you in your grief.

Ice Pony Girl

September 8, 2011

May you ride...together, forever.

Reiki sent to Skip's partner Abel, family and friends.

{{{HUGS}}}

Sue Rizzo

September 8, 2011

Two stars dimmed the day you left us. Our loss is heaven's gain. It is with a smile on my face that I will remember our good times in Wilmington.

Kathleen

September 8, 2011

I never had the opportunity to meet you. I am saddened at the loss of life from the accident. I happened to be going home to San Martin moments, merely seconds after the accident,was overcome with emotion and wondered how something like this could happen. I learned later that my daughter and her friends had known you and Abel. As I mentioned before i never met you but you and Regal Bull will remain in my thoughts for a very long time. May the two of you forever now be with the Lord, riding together in heaven.

Michael Sandler

September 8, 2011

Skip permeates my finest memories:
The Office of Computer Based Instruction
Electrical Engineering
crazy college road trips
Science Fiction and Star Trek conventions
E-Vend.net
The list could go on for another few pages.

Dorothy Hayes

September 8, 2011

Skip I only knew you from The Beekman Boys facebook page. It was always a pleasure. You will be missed. Love to your entire family.

Rodrigo Garcia

September 7, 2011

Abel, lamentamos mucho tu perdida. Deseamos de todo corazón que Dios les de paz y resignación a ti y a la familia de tu pareja. Recibe nuestras más sentidas condolencias.
Rodrigo Garcia y Hugo Badillo

Michelle Moreno

September 7, 2011

Skip, you will be missed so much by so many, including me. You were one of our clients that we enjoyed going to and taking care of your animals. Your love for them was endless! May you and Regal Bull ride through the green lush pastures of heaven forever...we will meet again someday!

John Vermeer

September 7, 2011

Skip, you inspired me more than you ever knew, I wish I could have met you.
The planet will be a little lonelier without you.

September 7, 2011

Abel, Dave and I were shocked and saddened to learn
of Skip's death. We are thinking of you and his
family. You both were so kind to us at Beekman.
Peace to you.

Jackie and Dave Purcell

Jaime Estrada

September 6, 2011

Abel I am sorry to hear of the loss of your partner Skip, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.

Michelle Walker

September 6, 2011

You and Bull touched my life more than you will ever know..My heart breaks at the loss of 2 of my friends...May you ride freely up above...much love till we meet again. My sincerest condolences to Abel and your family. Love you Skip!!!

valerie Dunn-Rasmussen

September 6, 2011

I will always remember taking a picture of Skip and Bull after one of the many horse shows we went to....With all those blue and red ribbon hanging from Bull's bridle.....Ticho, Moonie and I will always remember you both....Valerie

Michele

September 6, 2011

So sorry for your loss...:(

Jorge Mogollan

September 6, 2011

Abel siento mucho por lo que estas pasando al igual que los padres y familia de Skip, no hay palabras para decir lo mucho que lo siento y solo recibe un abrazo y un beso de parte de nosotros, Jorge Mogollan y Manuel Gonzalez Jr. nos vimos en la fiesta de Fer.

Natalie

September 6, 2011

Skip--My family and I always waved to you and your horse every time we saw you riding down the street. My son (2 yrs old) would always point to ya'll and make a horse sound. Even though we never actually met know that you will be missed!

Roseann Campbell-LaVia

September 6, 2011

I am so glad I got to see you and Abel and have dinner together when I came out to California. You will be sadly missed. Godspeed to you and Bull!

veronica n

September 6, 2011

Prayers to the family.

Teri Tighe

September 6, 2011

the planet will never be the same. It was wonderful meeting you and hope to see you in the afterlife.

Felipe Barraza

September 6, 2011

Skip your smile and hearty laugh will be missed in Mariani 1. My sincerest condolences to the entire family.

September 6, 2011

We thought you were crazy when you built that amazing arena. We will miss driving down our little road and seeing you outside with all of your animals. Your neighbors, Ian and Christine

Ann Wimmer, DVM

September 6, 2011

Skip was one of my favorite clients, and I always enjoyed going to see him and his animals. His enthusiasm was infectious and his affection for his animals boundless. I will miss him tremendously.

Tia Smouse

September 6, 2011

I met Skip at work, he was carrying in an old English saddle. I was so happy and proud to be friends with him, and had the privilege of many great rides together. Skip was smart and funny and warm. I'll always say a prayer when I drive by his farm.

Tanori-Alvarez family

September 6, 2011

Ride em Cowboy!

September 6, 2011

Skip, I don't know you but heard your story, may God bless you and Regal Bull always and may your Family and Friends keep your memory going forever.

Chris Yochim

September 6, 2011

Skip joined our family 8 years ago when he came to board at Easy Rider Stable. Through a friend of ours, Skip found one of the passions of his life, his beloved Regal Bull. They were inseparble even when the expense of owing a horse in California immediately after his move to Apple required sacraficing his own needs. Skip thrived at Apple, his life enhanced when he bought his farm and met Abel. Skip did more for us than we could ever have hoped or asked for. Apple benefited too, from his 1st project as a consultant on the the ipod, to his contributions to the iphone and countless other devices. His friendship and generousity was beyond measure. Even his recent health challenge was something we all could rally around to encourage him to overcome. Our sincerest condolences to Abel and to Skip mother, Sandie and Bill. A Better Day, may it Dawn Tomorrow.
Chris & Daryl

September 6, 2011

You were my friend when we both had nothing. You were there the day I met my wife and stood next to me the day we married.I am so proud of you and what you became. Thank you for your friendship. I love you Skip and I will miss you. Take care of Ruly, Havoc, and Kaos for me. Your friend Robert.

M Taggart

September 5, 2011

you will be missed

Daniel Arias

September 5, 2011

Skip was truly one of a kind. He was living proof that one can lead a fulfilled, optimistic life full of laughter and joy no matter what the circumstance. Thank you for coming into my life and changing it, a part of you lives in all is who have crossed paths with you. Tear it up in rodeo heaven buddy! Our paths will one day cross again.

David Root

September 5, 2011

Skip, I knew you for a very short time but immediately saw what an amazing, wonderful guy you were. It's a heartbreaking loss for all of us who got to associate with you. May you and Regal Bull ride on happily forever, man. Much love.

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