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Mary Jaenichen Obituary
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for Mary Jaenichen
101 Entries
November 16, 2017
Our college is painting a mural to honor fallen soldiers. We would like to add Mary's image but we need a signed release from a family member. If someone could please contact [email protected] with information about the family we would really appreciate it.
Amanda Loder-Krahel
May 9, 2016
MJ, I can't believe it's been 8 years since we lost you. I think of you often, and of the bravery you inspired in the hearts of many. Reading through this guest book here, it is clear you are loved and are an inspiration to young women everywhere, even after departing. I send you my love, in hopes it reaches you wherever you are. Until we meet again my friend.
Allie Gilmer
November 5, 2014
Hey. My name is Allie Gilmer and I am in the 12th grade at Winfield City High School in Winfield,Al. We are taking a Government class and studying about Veteran's Day. This project was to find a person with the same name as us that has fallen in the line of duty. Mary, just like SPC. Mary J., is my first name. I just wanted to give thanks for all the sacrifices that she,
as well as her family, have sacrificed for our freedom. For her time spent in military forces, it has given me the opportuinity to do the things I enjoy doing everyday. I enjoy playing softball and basketball. I am so thankful that I am able to attend school without being afraid. I am blessed that Mary sacrificed her life so me and every other American can live in freedom and enjoy our lives everyday. If you would like to contact me, you can email my Government teacher at [email protected] so I will know you recieved my message.
Thank you again,
Allie Gilmer
Christian Baeumler
October 29, 2014
Hey, just stopping by to say that you're not forgotten. I wear your name on my bracelet everyday. I miss your smile and positive attitude. Until we meet in Valhalla!
Amanda
October 23, 2013
I had to research about you today in class. You are an amazing person and I too love Elmo.
May 2, 2013
The days fly by so quickly yet the memories will never fade. The thoughts of you still make me smile. A piece of you is carried with me in my heart everyday that can never be taken away. I thank the lord for your presents in my life and the love in my heart. Hugs and kisses brat doll baby...
Peggy Childers
May 9, 2012
To the family and friends of Spc. Mary J. Jaenichen:
Always remembering Mary. "Some gave all."
H. P.
May 9, 2012
R.I.P. Mary J. Jaenichen
There is a heavenly reward for those who sacrifice their lives for the freedom of others.It is not easy to do so. Our hearts, who are living in this part of the world, goes with you and your respectful family. You will not be forgotten. May you have an eternal life there in heaven with your almighty God.Live good & be good.
Edward Conroy
May 12, 2011
For it is our way as Americans to support and defend this great nation.It also reminds us that there is a price to pay for freedom. I know that our warriors are in the our lords house they want for for nothing for they are in glory, grace, peace, and love. We mourn, we hurt, but let not your hearts worry for they continue in his great works . peace be to his family and God Bless you
Frank Bowman
May 11, 2011
Thank you for serving and protecting are freedom bless you may god keep your family safe SEMPER FI
Peggy Childers
May 10, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Mary J. Jaenichen:
Please accept my remembrance of Mary on the anniversary of her passing and know that she will never be forgotten.
H.P.
May 10, 2011
Mary J. Jaenichen
Rest in peace for ever in heaven.
Your being here in this region where we live and being miles and miles away from where you lived, is sufficient enough for us to wish you well in heaven and be grateful to for sacrificing your life for the freedom of others.God bless you and may God give patience to you family.
March 3, 2011
Happy B Day!
Candela
SFC Rod
Vilenia Mora
March 2, 2011
Someone just posted on fb that it was your bday just a few hours ago. I remember you from hs n we only talked a few times. I'm so very grateful for you protecting our freedom! Happy 23rd birthday! xoxo!
joel stevie sanchez
November 17, 2010
i remember her from the apartments down the street in oceanside.on calle montecito. r.i.p maryjane..from stevie sanchez
Ray Duffy
September 7, 2010
Just letting you know that I still have not forgotten about you girl. You are always in my thoughts and prayers. Much love -SGT D.
shaunise dotson
August 17, 2010
sooo many things go thro my head when somone mentions ur name i miss u soo much remember we would say maryjane + shaunise= trouble awww how i miss our conxo on the phone or computer u were y i did everything i wish i can get my motovatin back
Peggy Childers
May 9, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Mary J. Jaenichen:
Remembering Mary on the anniversary of her passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Diana Brown
April 25, 2010
My beautiful MJ its almost 2yrs and I still remember you like it was yesterday. I still have that pink flowery note you left me on the counter top introducing yourself when you first moved in the baracks. It will always be my most treasured memory of you. Thank you for the courage you tought me and the memories you left behind. I love you and miss you babygirl.
Alberto Rodriguez
April 23, 2010
I won’t forget again not ever "Candela" was an honor to serve with you. We all miss you and I wish that you were here with us. Donde quiera que estés que Dios te bendiga.
Christian Baeumler
February 24, 2010
MJ, its been so long but I find myself being reminded of you all the time. Im glad that I know I will never forget you. I miss you so much and i miss the fun times we had. I still have those same pics that Truong is talking about...a few months ago before we deployed I meet a girl that looked exactly like you and I was so shocked because I truly thought it had all been a misunderstanding or something and that you were just fine...how I wish that was true...your missed and loved and will never be forgotten..not but this Soldier or friend...R.I.P MJ
Andrew Truong
December 1, 2009
Hey buddy, this is odd..im in iraq bored on the job...Sgt Padilla brought you up like a week ago and it just brought back memories. I wish you'd never left the unit and maybe stuff wouldnt have happened. decided to do a search for you and maybe get some clues onto what happened. Anyways dude miss you and so does the 163rd I still have a photo of us when we both first got to the unit! We were so young haha..yea well godspeed and hope everything is doing great up there..
K'iara Byrd
November 24, 2009
hi i would just like to say thank you for support me by fighting World Wars and for that i would just like to say thank you. I will also like to say Happy Thanksgiving and a Happy New Year and I am also sorry that you cannot be with your family and friends on this special celebration but i will keep you in prayers
Maria Brooks
November 10, 2009
Its been two years! I know who you were, no matter what we always found each other. No matter how far or how long it would take we would always find each other. Its just so hard to think that you were taken to a place where I cannot follow. At least not yet, but I promise you this with all my heart I'll find you on the other side.... I love you and I miss you sissy for ever and always. You God-daughter and God-son will know who there God-mom is... I MISS YOU...
Mark Gault
October 26, 2009
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Melissa Griffin
August 31, 2009
Maryjane I miss you so much and think about you all the time. You were a great person and i wish i never moved away. You were a great friend!! I will never forget you. Especially those moments of watching horror movies...haha good times. Rest In Peace sweetie!!
Bill
May 25, 2009
Rest In Peace. I did not know you in life but from all that I read you were an amazing person and that the world is a darker place with out you. I will never forget and I will always cherish your gift of Freedom.
Catharine Ledesma
May 12, 2009
We will not forget what you have so bravely given for our Freedom...
Peggy Childers
May 10, 2009
To the family of Spc. Mary J. Jaenichen:
Mary gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
jessicah turmna
April 28, 2009
wow babe its almost been a year yet it feels like it was yesterday.... ill go by and see you soon i blow you kisses every time i pass by you i miss you girl
IM LOOKING UP!
Braiden
April 26, 2009
Hey bestfriend..I miss you alot and I think about you everyday..Imma stop by later and give you some flowers..I love you
Rakeena Lipkins
March 17, 2009
the thought of you is always there some days more then others.... I will never forget the day you blessed me with your presents AKA Bratz Doll Baby....... The thought of you makes me smile and the love for you never lost..... Your parents afforded us a wonderful opportunity and for that I am always greatfull......
SSG Rakeena Lipkins
FOB Kalsu Iraq
T Starman
January 9, 2009
I offer my deepest condolences for your loss
Kenna Larra
November 21, 2008
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families at this time. This is a Nonprofit Organization to honor are Soldiers!
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Sincerely,
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Bree'aunna Turman
August 26, 2008
hey wify just thought i would say that i love u babe keep looking down
brenda larry hebert
July 22, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
July 21, 2008
My heartfelt sympathy to the Jaenichen family and friends in the loss of Mary. I did not know Mary, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Mary you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"TO LIVE IN THE HEARTS
OF THOSE YOU LEAVE BEHIND
IS NEVER TO DIE"
~Robert Orr~
SPC(P) Preston Honstead
July 14, 2008
To the family of SPC Jaenichen I would like to let you know that it was an honor and a privledge to serve with Mary Jane. Her death had a profound effect on us all. Thank you for allowing us to know her as a soldier, a person, and most of all, a friend.
July 12, 2008
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Jaenichen and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses her! May God bless all of you!!
July 12, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Jaenichen!
Stephanie Rafoss
July 6, 2008
Prayer for Peace
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace;
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
And where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master,
Grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
To be understood, as to understand;
To be loved, as to love;
For it is in giving that we receive,
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
And it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
Amen
Steve Willis
June 28, 2008
Loss is a very hard task to accept of a loved one. Mary although I didn't know you, I want to say thank you for helping us in keeping our freedom. Mary you are a hero. As a Vietnam Veteran, I salute you. You will always be in the prayers of all your friends and family and even strangers like me. Thank You Mary for protecting our freedom. Steve from South Central Georgia.
Steve Willis
June 28, 2008
Loss is a very hard task to accept of a loved one. Mary although I didn't know you, I want to say thank you for helping us in keeping our freedom. Mary you are a hero. As a Vietnam Veteran, I salute you. You will always be in the prayers of all your friends and family and even strangers like me. Thank You Mary for protecting our freedom. Steve from South Central Georgia.
kathi poppert
June 27, 2008
to the family of mary, we are so sorry for your loss as we to lost someone, my newphew pfc aaron j ward on may 6,2008 in iraq. you are all hero's and will never be forgotten. may god bless you all. to mary thank you honey for protecting our freedom now go in peace and god will protect you, join the so many other fallen hero's and watch over the so many other still fighting for our freedom. we love you
jessicah turman
June 26, 2008
im looking up baba. to the family and friends im very sorry. god bless you mary jane you were my light and friend. ill never stop thinking about you never. kisses
debbi rivers
June 26, 2008
To the family and parents of Mary I want you to know that you are not alone in the grief you are feeling. I too know what you are going through and what you will go through in the coming weeks and months ahead. You will have many questions as to why? You will have many things to get ready or go through and that should be done in time. Sometimes it just can’t be faced and that’s ok, for you will know when the time is right for you. There is no right or wrong way to grieve it’s an individual journey that unfortunately we now have to take. I ask that God give the comfort, strength and courage that you are going to need. When and if the time is right for you please contact me. You can cry, vent, or just talk as only another person who has been where you are can really know what you are going through. May God continue to be with you and heal you.
In memory of my son
Spc Harry (Buck) Winkler III
KIA 11/12/06 Samarra, Iraq
82nd Airborne 2-505th PIR
Barb Conklin
June 24, 2008
Thank you dear Mary. You are not forgotten, even by strangers. Your service is truly appreciated.
eddy pierre
June 17, 2008
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
June 13, 2008
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To her family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss her, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by her presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
Kim Straker
June 11, 2008
Today I sign this memorial page with the hope that the family of this young soldier will gain comfort from all the words that have been written about her, by family, friends, community members and even those who didn't know her in life.
That life, while few in years, was clearly well lived and she made many friends. Given that Mary's place of birth was Camp Pendleton, it's surprising that she didn't become a Marine but it was the Army's good fortune to have her join their ranks instead. Rest in Peace Spc. Mary J. Jaenichen. Your Duty is done.
SFC Heshimu Faggins
June 10, 2008
I was SPC then PFC Jaenichen Platoon SGT when she was assigned to our Reserve unit. Alot of us just found out this weekend that she passed. She was one of the few soldiers who I did not have a problem with and wished she would have stayed in the unit. She will always be remembered as a soldier in our unit.
William McDonald
June 10, 2008
Thank you for your service, Mary.
May our precious heavenly Father hold you safely in His hand.
SSG William McDonald
U.S. Army, Retired
n murphy
June 6, 2008
Thank you for your sacrifice.
CINDY GUDINO-REYES
June 3, 2008
SPC JAENICHEN WAS MY SOLDIER BEFORE SHE WENT ACTIVE DUTY. THE LAST TIME I TALKED TO HER WAS MAY 2008. I WOULD LIKE TO GET MORE INFO ON HER SERVICES AND WHAT HAPPENED TO HER. SHE WAS A GREAT PERSON AND SOLDIER.
Beverly Montgomery
June 2, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
In Memory of Mary ~ (Debra Estep)
May 31, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
I did not know Mary, but I am remembering
her service. She is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Valerie Williams-Gillespie
May 31, 2008
Mary Jane will always be remembered in my heart and mind as a very kind, caring and compassionate young lady. I came to know her through my son (Jonathan). My deepest sympathy to her mother and brother's for their loss.
arlo bollinger
May 28, 2008
Having served in several tours in Iraq and experienced personal loss, this one hits home the hardest and the most painful. Her passing has had the most profound effect on me and will continue throughtout my military service. We have known Jane's family for almost 18 years and they are one of the kindest family we have the pleasure of knowing. And Jane (the quietest one out of the bunch) has grown into a beautiful and headstrong young woman. Her service to her country is the most noble and selfless act there can be. She is a model of what a woman Soldier should be. She will forever be missed by all. Our heartfelt condolences to the Jaenichen and Mislang family from the Bollinger's. May God comfort you and ease your pain.
MJ-
May the LORD bless you and keep you;
the LORD make His face shine upon you,
And be gracious to you;
The LORD lift up His countenance upon you,
And give you peace.
-Numbers 6:24-26
Brandy Washington
May 27, 2008
I have no words to say about mary jane death.I knew her since I was in elementary school and luckily we see each other again in highschool.She was a sweet and fun girl.Everytime we see eachother and hangout we will go back to memory lane and laugh,talk about teachers we had and the school.For some of u that knew her she was a tiny lil thing with full of energy and strength she makes u smile when u were down and its hard to accept the fact that my childhood friend is gone.I'm going to wonder everyday what she will be like when shes 30 cause i've watched her grow up into the beautiful person that she was.Ill miss her and I know she wouldn't want us to be sad and would want us to support each other and be there for one another.thats what would mary jane say to us.Mary Jane was truly loved by her family and friends.We will all miss her.My prayers go out to her family.
JT Butler
May 26, 2008
Especially on this day, we honor Mary's sacrifice and the sacrifice of the Family and Friends who love her still.
Dan King
May 25, 2008
God bless her family, for their loss and sacrifice.
Thank God for women like her.
Mary's Dad ("J") is a fine, upstanding Marine, whom I am proud to know. My prayers are with the entire family.
Bluejeans Patriot Guard Riders
May 25, 2008
To Mary Jane's family. It was my honor to be a part of Mary Jane's Patriot Guard escort both on 15 May and 24 May. I know you had other things on your mind and probably didn't much notice us but if you did you know many if not most of us are ugly old Vets with some nice young woman that ride motorcycles. Most of us have been on more then a few missions for our hero's. This mission for Mary Jane was a little different. There were PGR members from all over southern California and I noticed that there were many red, wet eyes amongst us.
May she rest in peace. Mary Jane I salute you. I sincerely hope the family finds peace with time.
the last picture taken of her...
Erika Rodriguez
May 24, 2008
Thank you to all of you that have left messages for MJ's family and friends. SHe was like a sister to me, we were best friends all 4 years of highschool. I loved her more than anything... I even gave her the guy that I loved,because i found out that she liked him. I never told her that... and Bermoy, you know who you are.
Some of the messages posted state that they would like to visit her once they get back from Iraq, and I thank you for still having her in your thoughts.. for those of you that killed her Elmo..lol..i thank you for keeping her busy while she was with you.
MJ.... girl, we mis syou and love you. though you were layed to rest in your final bed only a few short hours ago... you are still here with all of us.
If you need someone to tell you or take you to her final resting place.. you can get a hold of me, and i will gladly take you or give you directions to her plot.
WE LOVE YOU MJ!
Edward Conroy
May 24, 2008
Its our hearts that lead us into harms way, our pride and sense of duty to our country. our young believe in this. let it not be in vain. my deepest condolences for your loss she will never be forgotten.
Sheldon Brown
May 23, 2008
May God comfort all of us as He has taken home a wonderful person. I will miss you and will forever remember your smile.
Catharine Ledesma
May 23, 2008
TO THE FAMILY & FRIENDS OF MARY JANE AND TO ALL WHOM HAVE SUFFERED & SACRIFICED FOR OUR FREEDOM -
Our family holds you dearly in our hearts and prays for your comfort & healing. We are truely appreciative of your honor & dutiful service to keep us SAFE & FREE. Mary Jane went to school with all 3 of my children from Reynolds to ECHS and though I did not know her, I'm sure I must have met her while she was out there providing community service with her JROTC unit. She is a beautiful young women, a shining star, a Hometown HERO... who will not be forgotten.
GOD BLESS YOU AND BRING YOU PEACE.
With Heartfelt Appreciation,
The Ledesma Family
Angelina Hughes
May 23, 2008
To the family and friends of Mary Jane Jaenichen, or how most of us in the platoon called her MJ.. I'm so sorry for your loss. MJ was considered my best friend in the platoon and I am going to miss her so, so, so much. Memories of her flood my thoughts constantly and I think about her everyday and talk to her often. I'm never going to forget your daughter, sister, and friend to those back home in California... MJ made the ultimate sacrifice with all of us being a Combat MP and deployed in Iraq... I wish I could be there for the funeral service, but know that I am there in heart and mind; and when I get back from this deployment in Iraq -- I will be making a trip to Oceanside, California to pay my respects to MJ and the family. MJ, girl, I'm gonna miss you and I will always love you, and you will always be my battle buddy.
JEFFREY GHIOTTO
May 22, 2008
MAY GOD BLESS YOUR ANGEL. HER SACRIFICE WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. WE'RE FREE BECAUSE OF HEROES LIKE MARY. I WILL ALWAYS ADMIRE HER FOR HER COMMITMENT AND COURAGE. DEAREST MARY GO AND TAKE YOUR PLACE IN THE LORDS EMBRACE FOR YOU CERTAINLY HAVE EARNED THAT.
Victor Abon
May 22, 2008
The memories of Mary Jane have flooded my mind since the day that i found out that she had passed away. The days of her calling me her Kuya (Big Brother) and of me calling her my Ading (Little Sister) are long gone but my memory of her will last forever.
I just deeply regret losing touch with my ading and never really getting to say good-bye to her.
Mary Jane you will be missed.
Stacy Hogan
May 19, 2008
God Bless you Mary for your dedicated service to your country and the American people. May you never be forgotten. We need to remember you and all fallen military personnel for their service and sacrafice.
Former Marine
Mom of a 82nd Airborne Paratrooper
Marine Spouse
John Simon
May 18, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for allowing your daughter to serve in the US Army. Her service is greatly appreciated.
Patricia Hight
May 17, 2008
God bless you family. Many thanks for your sacrifice, May our heavenly Father give you all the strenght need at this tragic time .
Proud Army mom of daughter serving in Iraq. Patricia
CW4 DIPPEL
May 17, 2008
To a fellow MP and Soldier; God bless you and God bless your family.
Janice Oswald
May 16, 2008
To the family and friends of fallen hero SPC Jaenichen....I am so sorry for your loss. May God bring you comfort during this difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers. She will not be forgotten. God Bless You.
Manny Cajuguiran
May 16, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers with the family during this difficult time. Free America will never forget your sacrifice.
Manny Cajuguiran
SMSgt, USAF Retired
O'Fallon IL
cynthia gast
May 15, 2008
Dear family and friends of Mary,
My heart goes out to you for the loss of such a beautiful, brave, young woman. May God bless you and give you comfort. There are so many entries from other families who have lost their loved ones in this conflict. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Cynthia Gast, USAF (1975-1987)
Debbie ,Kenny Coffey
May 15, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers out to Julieta & Alfred and all.Knowing now few of the many things they have always know,are but a few of the many reasons that our HERO shall NEVER be forgotten.Rest well sister as promised and in your honor that star spangled banner shall FOREVER wave.Your name stamped in steel shall be FOREVER clutched in the talons,as your spirit FOREVER soars high in the skies in the symbol of our greatfull nation..THANK YOU..All Hard Chargers If you are wonded I will carry you**If you are captured I will come for you**If you are K.I.A. I will FOREVER reamber you.We have one and all COME by NORTH**COME by SOUTH**COME by EAST**COME by WEST, We were all gathered and united on that great day as strangers. As we stood and upon those last [4] spoken words we are......FOREVER BROTHERS / SISTERS.....................B.V.C...................SEMPER FI. .. ........ ..
Bill
May 15, 2008
A Grateful nation will never forget your sacrifice. America will always be the land of the free because of the brave.
Rest In Peace
Rest In Peace
Michael Iezzi
May 15, 2008
Father we entrust our sister Mary to your mercy. You loved her greatly in this life: now that she is freed from all its cares, give her happiness and peace forever. Welcome her now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Mary in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathies.
Bree'Aunna(wify) Turman
May 15, 2008
hey Wify,
to this day and days to come you will always be in my heart as alive and well....you are so beautiful and you never let anyone tell you any diffrent.... your smile could last 100 days and that voice you could notice from a mile way... you will never ever leave my heart... i remember when you use to call me about boy probs and we would talk for hours and when we ran all the way to mc donalds from knotes barry farm... the few moments in our lilfes together ill always remember... ill never admit that your gona cause in my heart your still alive and full of life like you are... so i wont talk about you in the past cause to me you are still here watching over me... im actully jealouse because now you are in a far better place then here no bills no rent no drama no boy problems lol... i just want you to know that i love you with all my heart and nothing well ever change that... you well not fade with time or run away from my memory you well always be the one in my heart telling and guiding me threw the hard times....i know you dont want me to cry but sometimes its hard but ill be strong for you in the best way i can... you are the star in the sky and the true meaning of amazing.. i love you so much... and as you make you journy home let every one know that MJ is coming to town
#1 wify
love you hun ill see you soon!!!!
Suzanne MacDaniel
May 15, 2008
To the Jaenichen family,
I know there are no words to say, except how sorry I am for your loss. May you hold Marys' memory in your heart and please remember she shall never be forgotten.
...For you every single soldier
Those who served so honorable
Your life was forever altered
While I’m home safe and free
I stand with grateful admiration
I stand respectful and so proud
I know I’m only a civilian
And I don’t even know if it’s allowed.
But I salute you; allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
Even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
My humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you.
Suzanne MacDaniel
A Proud Aunt
David M.Fisher
Jason Green
May 14, 2008
Mary Jane wa a friend of mine from high scool she was a great person, she will always be in my prayers. My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Rosio Preciado
May 14, 2008
I'm sorry for your loss, I met Mary Jane in the sixth grade and we were neighbors at Libby Lake apartmets. I look back at all those times that I spent with Mary Jane and although we lost touch after high school it saddens me deeply to know she is gone. She will be missed.
Roberto Sarinana
May 14, 2008
Mary Jane you will be missed a lot. Best of wishes to your parents. See you later We love from Oceanside and your family at ECHS MCJROTC and also you will never be forgotten. We love you.
Cheryl Parks
May 14, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family as you go through this difficult time. Thankyou Spc. Jaenichen for your sacrifice.
Pfc. Larry Parks Jr KIA 6-18-07
Sarah
May 14, 2008
Deep condolences on the loss of your courageous daughter. We are all grateful for her commitment and sacrifice on behalf of all Americans. We'll keep you in our prayers.
Valorie
May 14, 2008
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
I know how you feel losing a "HERO",Becoming a "Gold Star" Mother myself on 25 March.. The sacrafice our sons and daughters are making on a daily basis should tell us all..These young HEROS knew full well what they were doing and did it proudly When you hug your loved ones tonight.... Remember... We also hugged ours and they were protecting you..We.. as Americans need to make the "Ultimate Sacrafice" by supporting all our military(HEROS)...the Proud Mom of SGT. Jason W. Swiger
5th Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne,Fort Bragg, N.C. KIA 3/25/007
Derik Rosario
May 13, 2008
MJ was a very dear friend of mine in High School. I loved her very much. She was an incredible individual with a great heart. She could brighten any room she walked into. I am very sorry for your loss and wish the best for you. I send you much love and a big hug. Feel free to contact me if you ever need anything. I registered my email with this book. Please take care.
Gale Poindexter
May 13, 2008
I am writing to offer my deepest sympathies to you and your family over the loss of your HERO Spc Mary J Jaenichen. I lost my son in Iraq on May 6/2007, so I can well understand your pain of losing a loved one so dear.
I pray you will be guided by a higher power to give you peace, comfort and strength in this time.
Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit
GOD Bless you and your family. Your soldier was a true American Hero and we are all very proud of her service. She will not be forgotten!
(Proud mother of Sgt Joel W. Lewis, 5/20, 3-2 SBCT /Ft Lewis
KIA 5/6/07, Baqubah, Iraq)
www.youtube.com/watch?v=DXAX__FZYg4
(mom) from Illinois
May 13, 2008
You do not know me, but i read these on line from Illinois. As a mom with a son that is 17 i can not imagine the loss you feel. Thank you for all that each and every solider has given us here at home and bless your family and Mary and all who have given and all who have lost a family member, i pray that this will all end soon.
May 13, 2008
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
I would also like to tell you about a website, http://groups.msn.com/SSPSoldierPor
traits/homepage,
where some wonderful people will make wood portraits of your fallen Hero for free for the immediate family. I became aware of this site when I wanted to do something special for Le Ron’s mother.
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett (Queens, NY)
Saray Ramirez
May 13, 2008
I knew your daughter since middle school. I will remember her as always having a bright kind soul. Her bravery and commitment will never be forgotten.
SPC Ramiez, Saray
Mark Chamema
May 13, 2008
Hello my name name is PFC Mark Chamema I went to school with your daughter and is very sorry for your lose. Me and my fellow soldiers keep you in our prayers.
SHIRLEY DONEY
May 13, 2008
REST IN PEACE SPC. JAENICHEN, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU
Sandy Bonesteel
May 13, 2008
Please know that as a mother of a Soldier; I'm grieving with you. As are so many, many others.
Pfc. Aaron Joseph Ward 4/28/89 - 5/6/08
Gary Tolle
May 12, 2008
We are so sorry for your loss and share your sorrow. Our nephew Pfc. Aaron Joseph Ward was killed on 5/6/08 in Iraq and this is the hardest thing parents, grandparents, aunts,uncles and family can do is to lay to rest our young. May god be with you and your family during this time. My nephew is a great kid and I will say a prayer to him to watch over your daughter. May they both live forever in our hearts and memories until we get to see them again.
Garnet Jenkins
May 12, 2008
In Humble Thanks, to this Brave Young Heroine, who has lost her life, while in the Service of our Country and for Freedom, With so much gratitude for her Courage, and her Unselfish Dedication and Service.
Rest Safely now, Spc. Mary J. Jaenichen, in the Hands of God and may the Peace of God be with your loving family.
Those who Make these Sacrifices, So Many and So Young, shall Never Be Forgotten, my brother among them, Killed in action in Vietnam in 1967.
"I consider that our present sufferings.
are not worth comparing with the glory
that shall be revealed in us."
~ Romans 8:18 ~
I am sincerely hoping that you can feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you today and in the days ahead, as this Grateful Country morns with you, for someone very precious to you, who is a True American Hero to all of us.
I am So Deeply Sorry for your Loss.
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