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Marti and Bob Reale
July 7, 2021
Hey there FJ. Sunday July 11, it will be 11 years! We miss you just as much today as we did that morning you left us all. Since then Pat has joined you. Our Bobby has also left us.He would have been 55 this July 16th. Way too young. My heart aches for so many of you gone from us. The bright side of all this is the great memories we have and there sure are a lot! We hang on to them to keep going. We miss your laugh! It was in fectious. Please watch over us all down here. Sure do wish there was a direct line to heaven, just so we could check in every so often, just to hear your voices. We were so blessed to have you in our life, but God took you way too soon. You were our "go to" guy. You always seemed to make things better, even if it went against our opinion. Give Bobby a big hug for us. You and him have a piece of my heart, hang on to it until we meet again. AMF FJ, we MISS you, until next time?
Marti and Bob Reale
July 8, 2020
Hey there FJ. It has been 10 years since you left us and we miss you just as much today as we did when we first heard that day July 11, 2010, that you passed. But I need to ask a favor? Please if you haven't seen Bobby yet, find him and take him under your wing. He is one of your boys from Bosco. Please tell him Bob and I miss him so much but now he is with you. He left us without having the chance to say goodbye and way too young. Now I have the two of you to miss and my heart aches. A child is not supposed to go before his parents. Life goes on and the world does not stop turning. Please take care of him and the piece of my heart he has until we all meet again. AMF for now. Love and miss you.
Brian Fitzgerald
November 4, 2019
I have been gone for too long, wish we got to reconnect.. miss those summer camp days. If anyone want to reconnect from SDB Ipswich or Barrington let me know..god speed Jon
Martha Reale
July 7, 2019
Hey FJ, can not believe it is 9 years? We are caught off guard still when a song we hear brings tears to our eyes, so many times, we can't keep track, because it will remind us of you! Something happens and know it would mean either you call us or we would call you. You were taken from us, because God needed you more? Selfish of us but we needed you too? You were always just that phone call away. Always in our heart and have so many memories when we were blessed to have you here. Please continue to watch over all of us who MISS you terribly. You got so much done here on earth, what is taking you so long to get that phone connected from heaven to earth?? LOL Love and miss you......AMF for now, Marti and Bob. Talk again on your birthday?
July 11, 2018
July 11, 2018
My dearest Jon. Well here I go again another year down without you. I think of you often, morning, noon and night. I just can not get my mind to comprehend that you are not on earth with us. I try to tell myself that you will be coming home soon to try to easy the pain. I always tell people the we never get over the loss of someone we just learn to live with it. This I can do sometimes but not always. Writing this my heart is filled with gladness that you have reaped your just rewards but the tears still fall (when I am alone) and the sadness takes over my mind and heart.
Well, dear brother, over the past year so many things have happened, Janet Lynn tested out of her first test for teaching. She loves her job and very seldom wants to take a day off from her kids. They are hers during school hours. This year she started tutoring and still does aftercare on those days she does not have tutoring.
Kevin purchased a house in Covington and signed the papers on his birthday. It needs a lot of work but this way him and Tracy will make it their own. Construction starts this week. It is in the sticks just the way we grew up. He has a canal behind his house that leads to a river. I am not typing the name because I can not spell it. You know. Ok, looked it up Tchefuncta Tubing is big on this river.
Joey broke a shoulder this year the doctor would not do surgery because he could not do the physical therapy that would have been needed. He does have motion but is not able to put his arm us to sleep on it. But doing well non the less. Better health then me.
Uncle Lemm and Aunt Dee have health issues. Pray for them since you are closer to God's ear.
Conor is back at school going for his Masters. Hotty Totty..
We lost Aunt Gloria this year. I am sure you all have another one to add to the card games. I would like to know is Grandpa is still accusing Grandma of sand bagging HA! HA! Who has the largest Kitty? Does mom still collect the dimes?
I pray that you are holding my great grand baby and loving on him or her. Maybe another will come along before I see you.
Me I am hanging in there. I take one day at a time. Working with the Ladies club at St. Rosalie, and I am Secretary for the ladies KC's at St. Rosalie that carries your name for your honor.
Jon, you are so very missed here on earth. There is not a day that someone does not mention you and how much they miss you. You served God here on earth with His love and compassion. You touched many many lives that they hold close to their hearts. You did a good job as God's servant.
Well this is getting long. I pray you know what is in my heart for you. Pray for me that I may join you in heaven one day.
Love and Prayers. Cissy
Marti Reale
September 27, 2017
Another year and we remember your birthday, but you are not here. You are celebrating your "heavenly birthday " with all family and friends who are there with you. Not a day goes by we don't MISS you. Wish there was a special phone where we could just leave a message. We raise our glass here on earth and say Happy Birthday FJ. Always in our heart and never out of our mind. AMF for now......Marti and Bob
July 13, 2017
Always a smile on his face. Could not say no to anyone. We were on our way to see Joey in Alexandria, la when he received a phone call from a parish family who needed a priest for a family member. He was so sad that he could not be there for the family. He did, though, call a fellow priest and asked them to go to the hospital for him. Never saying no.
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July 12, 2017
As a student at Salesian Prep in Cedar Lake Indiana I remember Father Jon very often. He will always be loved and missed. Father Jon had a beautiful voice ( both speaking and singing). His teachings live on in all of us that he touched so gently. Rest in peace Father Jon.
Marti and Bob Reale
July 11, 2017
Hey FJ, can not believe another year has past without you. Gone from us all but never forgotten. You remain in our hearts and when we least expect it for whatever reason, we will get a flashback of something we did or you said. We love and miss you is putting it mildly. Until next time? AMF
July 11, 2017
Maxine Authement Happy Heavenly Birthday Fr. John you are missed. Chris you have beautiful memories that are all yours forever. Love you.
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Elaine Landry Missing that wonderful guy each and everyday.
Happy Heavenly Birthday Fr. Jon. Love you!
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Jeanette Authement Happy heavenly birthday Father Jon.
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Toni Savona Beautiful words, Chris he meant so much to do many
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Great Memories~Happy Heavenly Birthday to Your Brother Jon!!
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Duana Richards Boudreaux Happy Heavenly Birthday Fr. Jon. Wow Mrs Chris, what beautiful memories. They brought tears to my eyes. Beautiful, just beautiful. ❤❤
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Darlene Roussel Fantastic memories that no one can ever take away. We always have our loved ones in our hearts. God Bless
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Priscilla Grundmeyer He touched many lives❤
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Awwwww I'm sure his watching over you Marty thoughts are with you
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Denise Martinez Cavanaugh Gone but never forgotten. I remember when my daughter, Nadia, ended up in ICU at WJMC in her Junior year at John Ehret H. S. You spent the whole night with me and my family in the family waiting area. Such special memories of our Fr. Jon.
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Kathy Savona Happy Heavenly Birthday Father Jon .....thanks for all of your blessings ✝
John Scarsella
September 27, 2016
Father Jon Parks we miss you so very much! It is hard to believe that it is already one year since your passing. The legacy that you have left is one that will be hard to beat! Your contributions to the priesthood and the Salesians of Saint Don Bosco are significant! You have changed many peoples and families lives for the good. God Bless you in your new home in Hevean this year!

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Marti and Bob Reale
September 26, 2016
Happy Birthday FJ. Another year gone by and miss you just as much if not more! Boy it'd be great to celebrate your 67th with you but God had other plans. Gone but never forgotten and always in our hearts!
Love ya. AMF for now!

September 26, 2016
My dearest Jon, today you are celebrating another birthday with family in heaven. The last three days the only thing that I could think of was you calling me and teasing me that I was two years older than you. Well little brother today you start catching up.. I am now only 1 year and 3 days older than you. This brings a smile to my face. Wish you were here so that we could celebrate with you and Joey your 67th year of life here on earth, but Joey will celebrate his here. I love you and miss you to the ends of the earth and back.

Fr. Jon at Haverstraw
Martha Reale
September 11, 2016
September is the beginning of most schools. I'm sure you are watching over St. Rosalie's as they start theirs. Why you left us we will never know, God has his reasons, but you are missed daily. I still have your cell phone number in my contacts, wishing it would ring and hear, "hey, how y'all doin?" No one can "evah" take your place for so many of us. You took a piece of us with you and remembered so often when we least expect it. One thing not taken are the memories we hold on to. You live in our hearts until we meet again. love ya. AMF!
September 10, 2016
Hello FJ. It's so hard still without you and your smiling face. it's your Birthday time and it just shouldn't be this way. I think about you daily and the fun we all had. I hope your having a party in heaven with Pete and Ray, The holidays are coming so fast and that makes it difficult for so many of us .
July 12, 2016
Hello FJ, as Chris said, not a day goes by without thinking of you. Yesterday was tough as always because your not here. You know I still have your phone number in my phone. Always hoping you will call. I just can't delete it. Your so loved and missed by so many still. Every time I see a butterfly I know your near and I thank you for that. To lose both you and Pete is still so hard on me. Time has not made it any easier to accept. I miss you both so very much and hope that you are together causing havoc as usual. My family is fine and they talk about you and Pete often. I still say a prayer for both of you just in case you two need it.
Never will forget.
Love ya.
Pat
Marti and Bob Reale
July 12, 2016
Hey FJ, another year has gone by and can not believe it has been 6 years. We still miss you more than ever. So many more things to do on our bucket list we never got to do. Always in our hearts and every so often we will remember some of the fun times at Bosco. There were so many. When God took you for reasons we will never figure out, a piece of us went with you. We will always have the memories.
love and miss you.

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My dearest Jon:
Well brother another year has passed and you are missed just as if it were yesterday.
Many things have changed over the past year and I know you have been by my side, but my heart sill aches for you.
I still remember our times as kids growing up in Gretna. Walking to the Tower Theater on the weekends. Yes we walked the 18 blocks there and back on a Sunday afternoon with no fear. Mom would let us, but Ken had to stay home because he was too young to go with us. Sorry Ken. When you got old enough we did take you.
I remember that we would play outside. I taught you to ride a bike but could never teach you to roller skate. I was your protector and teacher. Because you were blind in one eye and the doctor told mom that you should not do anything that would possibly put you in the state of losing or injuring your good eye. I remember one of the neighborhood bullies was taunting and hitting you and I would not have any of that... I stepped in and beat the he## out of him. I knocked him down and sat on him. Every time I hit him I told him that he should never ever pick on you again. (And he left you alone after that day). His dad came out and so did mom, after hearing all of the commotion and neither of them said a word because I was there for you. After I got up off of him his dad beat him again for allowing a girl to whip him. He did not talk to me for many, many years.
I was a proud sister of you and Ken all my life. We overcame many obstacles in our life. Only one parent in the house with 4 children I know was tough. I know it was a hard decision by mom to send Joey so far away from us, but she knew she had 3 other children to provide for. We got the best of education and had food on the table every day. And to think people cannot make it without Medicaid and food stamps and mom did all of this on her own without any federal assistance. Joey is now home in the Gretna area and is flourishing. Purchased him a new rocker recliner this week for him to pass his time when not at day care. PS... He sleeps there too, no bed for him, he might miss something. Oh by the way for many years he would say GOO, GOO if he liked something. He now says GOO God! I believe that is you looking over him.
Thank you for encouraging my children and all children. When you would walk the school grounds or in church you would be asking the children Who loves you? Your answer would be God loves you. You always put God first in their life. They do miss that I am sure.
I loved how after baptism you would take the child to the alter, and while facing the tabernacle you would introduce that child to God. Heart touching.
As you know Janet has graduated from college and now has a job teaching 3rd grade science, math and social studies. Sorry but not at St. Rosalie.
Kevin and Tracy are moving home this week. I know I am happy to have my son close to home.
Just so emotional on this day because you are missed not only by family but many, many friends.
Please kiss all our family and friends and pray for us as you always did here on earth.
With all the love in my heart,
Cissy

Father Jon and Darren 2006
Liz Jones
February 2, 2016
Father Jon,
I continue to think of you often and wonder how we as a church and parish have gotten along without you - we miss you still every single day.
I know you are already aware of this but, that sweet little Pre-K boy who just had to take a picture with you every time I brought my camera to school has just turned 15 ! He remembers you letting him hold the cross during the Stations of the Cross when he was only 6yrs old - he couldn't wait to be an Altar Server. The desire to be part of the Church came from you Father Jon - and I will be forever grateful for that.He continues to be an Altar Server and has helped many of the new boys and girls feel comfortable serving as well. I know you would be very proud of the young man he has become -
Please continue to watch over him - we love and miss you so much !
Liz Jones and Family
July 14, 2015
Jon, I found another of your cards the other day. It seems they turn up when I least expect them. We now have a new granddaughter-Taylor Grace. She is Tommy's baby girl. Think of you so often, I thought we would have Greg Fishel around for awhile(in BelGlade) but he has been sent back to Chicago. Haven't caught up with him yet to find out why. Good night Jon
, until we meet again! Love, Karen Murman
Bob and Marti Reale
July 12, 2015
Hey there FJ, five years ago we said goodbye to you and can not believe it has been so long. To say we miss you is an understatement. Think of you when we least expect it. We might hear a song or I may pass a Toyota FJ SUV. We were blessed to have you in our life, but God had other plans and took you way too son. You are in our heart forever until with a little luck we meet again. So often I wish I could just pick up the phone and here you say "how y'all doin", just one more time. Love and miss you as so many others do as well. Marti and Bob
July 11, 2015
June 11, 2015
My dearest Jon
Well today it has been 5 years, 5 long years, 5 very long years. Brother I still cannot believe you are gone from this earth. I continue to have dreams of you and the most exciting one is where the Archbishop has you locked up in a house in New Orleans because you are ill. I cannot shake this dream. Maybe you are trying to tell me you are still working for Our Lord.
Many things have happened since you left us. As you well know Ray joined you in heaven. His suffering for 18 years ended. I was able to retire to spend time with Ray and I thank God for that time with him. My loss is Heavens gain. Kenneth has graduated from high school and will be attending college in September. Janet will graduate from college in December along with Elaine. Thank you for encouraging Janet to go back to college. Conor has graduated from Ole Miss in May and is now looking for a job. Please stay close to them. Kevin moved away all the way to Minnesota. Help heal my heart because he is so far from home but has found someone he loves. Janet has moved in with me and I am so happy about that.
I know you and Ray are around me because you send me my pennies from heaven, and Ray sends the nickels and quarters. My television still goes off and on by itself ( since you both are gone) and I have resigned myself that you or Ray want me to know that you are around. But the kitchen light coming on by itself gave me a scare. What are you trying to tell me.NOT TO LIVE IN THE DARK?
I am sure you know everything I have stated above but if you were too busy I have stated it for you.
I now must tell you that you are missed by everyone. Friends and family speak about you often. This past Tuesday at Ladies Club of St. Rosalie we talked about those thing that you have given us. Your love, patience, kindness, time and above all love of God and all people.
I remember when a parishioner passed away you were late for 4PM mass because you were down the street with the family. You went to the hospital with parishioners for the birth of their child so you could baptize the baby right after birth. When you baptized a new baby you took that child to the alter and introduced them to God. You walked the fair grounds at St. Rosalie to thank those working many hours during the 3 days even having chafe legs from sweating but you said they were sweating more than you and they are the reason the fair was so successful. You would go out of your way for weddings and funerals, hospital visits no matter who the people were. West Jefferson Medical Center had you on speed dial because they knew you would come any time of day and night. When we went to see Joey one time you received a call that a parishioners relative was dying and they wanted you to come and bless them. You found a priest to go to the hospital because you were in Lafayette. During a hurricane when we evacuated to Mississippi, you went to Baton Rouge and Janet and Kevin's grandfather was also evacuated there with the nursing home. Janet got a phone call to say that he was not going to make the night. You went out in the hurricane to check on him and give Janet peace of mind. You had people from up north come to Harvey to be married or have their children baptized by you. And most of all you took care of mom for many years.
But most of all during your two months in the hospital you taught us so many, including me, what dying gracefully was all about. You made sure the parish was functioning and all daily activity was continuing. Even making Ms. Ann, Jeanette and Mary come to the hospital and keep you informed of what was going on. When you were silent you said you were praying for the poor souls in purgatory and you were offering your suffering up for them. I saw the pain and anguish in your face every morning and evening. You wanted to give in to the Lord's will but you did not want to leave family, and when I say family I mean everyone that came into your life. You kept a lot of things to yourself but I knew your health was waning day by day. You lost the most important thing to you was being there for those God sent into your life and that was the only grief you had. I know you were not scared to die but you were sad for leaving so many. I hope you know how many came to see you and the family during that last week of your life. They came to heal their heart for what would be a great loss for them. They came to let family know they loved you and loved your family. At that time I was never prouder to be your sister and share their love for you. Many people came and only wanted to see Ken and me because they wanted to remember you as a vibrant friend and priest.
You may be gone from this earth but you are always on my mind and in my heart. And those lives you have touched will always remember you. People still ask me for Mass cards from your funeral. Uncle Charles Austin asks for them by the hundreds and gives them to anyone he meets to spread the word of you and your devotion to God. Go Uncle Charlie!! And thank you from the bottom of my heart by keeping Jon's love of faith alive.
Again I would like to thank those who spent the last week with us at the hospital, Janet Marmillion Lambert, Kenneth Lambert Jr. Ken Parks, Kevin Marmillion, Aunt Dolores Bauer, Lillian Hepting, Karen Perque, Darlene Dominique, Elaine Landry, Pat Craig, Charlene Landes, and Ken Parks and to Mary Wetzel for allowing me to get a few hours of sleep that last night. I hope they know I could not have done it without them and I love them so very much.
To all those who were with us in spirit and prayers, Thank you so very much. I know we all prayed for a miracle but the miracle was God's miracle not ours.
Jon I love and miss you every minute of the day.
Cissy
Love and prayers to all that read this. Never stop praying.

Bob and Marti Reale
December 31, 2014
Happy New Year, FJ...another year gone by! Time goes by so fast I can't comprehend it is going to be 5 years in July!! Miss you every day and are always in our hearts. It doesn't get any better....We will raise our glass tonight and think of you! Much love, Bob and Marti.....
December 16, 2014
F.J. another Christmas without your smiling face and the excitement you brought to everyone at Christmas. Sick people and healthy people during during this time. You are truly missed and never will be forgotten. Hope your celebrating in heaven. Love Pat
brought to Christmas for everyone. Your never forgotten and never will be.
Marti Reale
October 1, 2014
Hey there Father Jon. Do you realize just how many lives have been turned upsidedown the day you left us all? Everyone of us think of you probably once a day if not more. There is a star I can see from my back patio and I talk to it every night. It is so bright, has to be you. you could always fix things when you were here, always knew what to say to make us feel better and it wasn't as catastrophic as we thought.I know you are in a better place, but you will always be in my heart. You were a friend never to be forgotten. Love ya ! RIP FJ, 'til we meet again. God willing.
September 30, 2014
FJ, Your so missed everyday. I still talk to you and there is times I know by signs that you heard me. I so hope your happy there with family and friends. You will never be forgotten. Love ya.
Pat
September 28, 2014
Dear John-I'm saddened that you are not here to celebrate your 65th with your family and for me to sing to you in my horrible voice. I think of you often and wish you could see how
the family has grown(but then you really can see that can't you? A kiss and hug to you. It is almost 29 years since you married Tom and I. It was a beautiful wedding and you made it so special. Think of me once in a while. Love you. Karen Murman
July 12, 2014
You will never be forgotten. I speak to you often. There are times I get a feeling that you have sent me messages. That you know what i'm thinking about. Miss you so. But so glad you are with Pete. I can hear you two cutting up.
July 11, 2014
July 11, 2014
My Dearest Jon;
I am sitting here thinking over the past 4 years. Yes 4 years ago you went home as you said “to your heavenly Father”.
Well this year's is different for you and me. You have my loving husband Ray with you.
I know you both are with many of our family members and friends that you both made over the years here on earth.
Jon, every anniversary of my loss of you, hurts just as the day that you left. Why does this feeling not get easier? My memory of you is still as vivid as it was yesterday. Your smiling face. The scowl when there was something that you did not care for. The energy and love you had especially when you were saying mass, doing a wedding, baptizing the babies and adults, first Communion, and when you had as you said the “privileged ” of sending the soul home to God. Your life was dedicated to family, friends and God's people. You could never say NO to anyone. The poor on the street you comforted. I saw you go up to people in the hospital who were crying because their loved one was dying. Whether you knew them or not you comforted them. You held their hands you hugged them and gave them a blessing to comfort them. You were God's advocate. You would pray for those people who were on the side of a road with car problems. (I continue to do that in your name.) You found people a house to live in, furniture for others, and food for all who needed it. I know of a few people that needed a job and you found one for them. No one would go without the necessities of life with you around spiritually or physically.
You have left behind so many people who love you and continue to volunteer because you saw a need and asked for help. These people helped you because you needed for God and His people.
Jon I hope you know how much you are loved by so many including me.
Kiss Ray for me give him a big hug because I miss you both so much. My heart will ache for the both of you the rest of my life. Keep me in your prayers because God knows how much I need it. I pray that Our Lord will allow this sinner into heaven.
With all my love,
Cissy
Marti and Bob Reale
June 14, 2014
Hey FJ, not a day goes by that you are not thought of in some way. By a song or in conversation with Pat the other day Bobby sent me a text, saw a license plate. FJAY. Toyota makes an SUV FJ, I feel you are saying hello! Happy Father's day. You were a Father to so many of us and LOVE and MISS you MORE!
June 14, 2014
FJ, You are remembered on Father's Day and every day. I miss you always. You are still my rock. I pray for you and Pete. I hope you, Pete and Ray are together acting up as you always did. Smiling and laughing. Miss you, Love Ya
Pat
June 13, 2014
Well, Jon it is Father's Day on Sunday. I always wished you a happy one because you were the father of so many. Again I must tell you that so many people here on this earth are still aware of you and your work with them, their families and their friends. There is not a day goes by that someone does not tell me that they are grateful to you being in their life. I am also grateful that you were in my life. You now have Ray in Our Lord's place to keep you company. I miss you both so very much. I fell lost so many times a day. Sometimes I think my world is falling apart. Janet tries her best but I still miss you and Ray. Please pray for me and ask God to keep me on the straight and narrow. Let Ray know how much I loved him for being there for me and Janet and Kevin. For his stepping up to help me raise them into the productive, kind, loving and generous adults they are. Miss you both a whole lot. Love, Chris.
PS. Happy Fathers day to you and Ray.

Fr.Jon in Vegas looking at the beauty in Red Rock Canyon
September 26, 2013
September 16, 2013
FJ. It's almost your Birthday and I just feel the pain again of you not being here to plan how to celebrate being 63. I know you would be doing Chris's party first and would be a great one. Than all you would want is a gathering at the rectory with your friends and family and have Popeye's.Chicken. I hope you and Pete party on the 26th if the Boss lets you. I'm sure thou that he probably thinks he's working for you by now (ha ha). Miss and love you .

looking back over the years.
July 12, 2013
We can not believe that it is 3 years since you left us. Wish there was a phone in heaven so we could call and just say hello and hear you say one more time, "hi, how y'all doin'"! Always in our heart and never off our mind. You will never be forgotten and are missed sooo much. love you, Bob and Marti
July 11, 2013
FJ. It just isn't fair still 3 years but still feels like yesterday. I know or hope you and Pete are still raising a little hell. I'm sure God has a sense of humor. To have you two he would have too. Your never forgotten. Love ya
Pat
July 10, 2013
My Dearest Jon;
As I contemplate tomorrow I say:
Well another year has passed and the nightmare is still going on. You are not here and I pray every night that I wake in the morning and it is all a dream.
I once again go back to our youth. I remember many things both happy and sad. Mom was a single mom raising 3 children after putting Joey in a state run facility so that she could work to support us. She did the best she could. There were not all the programs that they have now to help single moms. No welfare, food stamps, or Medicaid. It was very hard but we had what we needed.
Being the oldest I became the overseer of you and Ken when mom was not home. At the time I am sure I was not the best, but I realize now that it was one of the best jobs I could have had. You and I only a year apart grew up together. Ken being 5 years younger than me and 4 years younger than you, we took on parent rolls when mom was not home. It was my great pleasure to be there for both of you.
Joey is now home, here in the Gretna area. I know have become a parent figure for him and it reminds me of our time together many years ago. This past week he had to have an endoscopy. While waiting he was in his wheel chair in front of me and I had my hand on the arm. He leaned down and kissed my hand several times and looked at me in the eyes as you use to do. I know it was you who made my day, because Joey would not have known this. Thank You from the bottom of my heart. You always made me feel special, and everyone around you.
I will always remember the many things in our life. Taking you to school on your first day, your graduation, entering the seminary, walking me down the aisle when I got married, your excitement at the birth of Janet and Kevin. Then the birth of Conor, and Kenneth. They were like your own.
I will always remember your courage. Your insistence that you wanted to be a priest. I know it was hard but with Our Lords help you accomplished it. You gave everything you had. You got several masters degrees and a doctorate. From a boy from a broken home at that. All our struggles as youths you overcame big time. You
I believe that you could have accomplished more had you not gotten ill. You touched many lives and still do. I hear so many stories from friends, family and acquaintances. Some do not know me but, will ask “You are Fr. Jon's sister”. When I say yes they get very excited. One lady said “look I carry the card from his funeral with me always.”
I cannot say how much I miss you. I ask Our Lord to help me get to heaven one day so I can put my arms around you and hold you one more time. Please hold a seat for me if God will allow this sinner in heaven.
Love Cissy (Chris Fleming)
Liz Jones
May 28, 2013
Happy Anniversary Father Jon ! You are not here in body - but your presence is still felt in and around St Rosalie everyday! We love and miss you more and more each day - I'm still not willing to take your cell # out of my phone ... just in case you call. Love, Liz and Bradd Jones
May 25, 2013
Happy Anniversary FJ. All those who were blessed to have you in their life know you left us way too soon, but not a day goes by that something will not trigger a memory connected to you. Always in our hearts, never off our mind. You are missed sooo much. Love you. Marti and Bob
May 24, 2013
I,m sure your anniversary was special with God. But you are sooo missed and loved. Not a day goes by that your not thought of and spoken about often. You will never be forgotten.
Love Pat
May 20, 2013
Yesterday you celebrated your 35 anniversary as a priest in heaven. I can not believe you are there. I think I am dreaming and awake to your smiling face. We miss you so much. Love, Cissy (Chris)
May 20, 2013
Yesterday you celebrated your 35 year as a priest. What a great way to celebrate than in heaven with Our Lord whom you served here on earth. We think about you every day and wish you were still here. I can not believe you are gone. I pray this is a dream and I will wake up to your smiling face. Love and miss you, Cissy. (Chris)
Tom and Mary Berninger
July 18, 2012
Jon is thought of often by the Berningers. Reading his sister's tribute left Tom and I in tears. They were good tears, though, as we remembered our dear friend.
Ed Lord
July 17, 2012
Father Jonathan and I were novices together in Newton. I remember him as a warm and joyful man. I only learned of his death today but wanted to leave a memorial of a good man and a good priest. Rest well in the Lord! Ed lord
July 13, 2012
FJ, As Chris has said, there is never a time that your not thought about or spoken about. I hope that your with your friend Pete and putting in a good word to your boss about him. But I know if you two are together God is saying not you two again. Love you and Miss you so much. Pete and you hold my seat till we're all together again laughing and being crazy.
Love, Pat
Bob and Marti Reale
July 12, 2012
Hey FJ, it is hard to believe that 2 years have past since you left us all! You are in our heart and mind EVERY day! The impact you had on all who knew you will never leave us. The only consolation we have is knowing we have the #1 guardian angel watching over us. Love and MISS you more! AMF
Christina Fleming
July 10, 2012
My Dearest Jon;
Tomorrow is your anniversary in heaven….
As I reflect over the past 2 years without you I can barely come to the fact that you are gone. My head tells me this but my heart is very sad. I miss you more than you know. As I reflect on these 2 years I must also reflect on our lives together growing up in such a small house with much love and attention to our needs.
I look back on our grammar school years with many smiles. I remember the first day you went to school. You see by that time I was a pro. I remember walking the 2 blocks with you on my hand and catching the pay bus, (no school busses ran where we lived) the Gretna Belt. You were scared but I knew the ropes because I had been doing it for a year already. Mom had Joey and Kenny at home and could not walk us to the bus stop.
I remember the noon church bells and all students stopping to say the Angelus, and walking on the school grounds and stepping on the acorns from the oak trees. You always helped in the cafeteria by handing out milk, clearing and cleaning tables for Ms. Sue and Ms. Arnona. Remember the bread they made by hand. They were so good. Students today just do not get the attention as we did by these ladies. I Reflect on your First Communion, Confirmation and Graduation. All under the watchful eye of your big sister. It was my pleasure, believe me.
Then on to high school, me at Archbishop Blenk and you at Archbishop Shaw. I can remember your Alma Mater better than mine because I attended more after school functions at Shaw than Blenk. I remember you going to the prison with Fr. Kita every Sunday and the many stories mom would tell about him taking you out to eat with no money in his pocket. I reminisce about Uncle Paul (Fr. Paul Avalone) whose family adopted you when you were in the seminary. They would make every family day because we were so far away to visit. They also adopted mom and gave her shelter on her many visits. Do you remember the Mardi Gras parade you formed in the seminary? We would send beads and a Burger King crown. You would be king and be pulled by one of your classmates in a wagon to the different classes to deliver not only beads but the spirit of home.
Aunt Nora worked at Maison Blanche's candy department and everyone would know when you received that special package from her, especially at Christmas when the Ribbon Candy (your favorite) would be delivered.
I can remember the day you came home from retreat after Janet was born. You arrived and I was not at the airport to great you. Mom said you paced the floors at home, and you could not even eat your potato salad because you wanted to see your niece. I remember you placing her on the sofa and watching her for hours on end. You were so amazed that “she came from nothing and was ours”. You held her as often as you could until you returned to the north to complete your studies.
You were at Archbishop Shaw when Kevin was born. You paced the floor with everyone else. When his life was in danger you were allowed to stay with me. You timed contractions, comforted me, and assured me everything would be fine. The physician performed a special procedure on me and you were allowed to stay. You knew Kevin's life was in danger but never showed it to me. You prayed with me when I had to make the decision to save him rather than myself in the event that decision was needed. You always kept me up. Thank you….
You were never so proud 20 years later when Conor was born to Ken and Iona. You could not wait to take that trip to Whidbee, Washington State to visit our new nephew. With your happiness, you would have thought that he was yours. And you could not wait to see him as often as you could.
Then several years later Janet was pregnant. Her pregnancy was a rough one. The physicians knew that there were problems, but only had theories. They gave us the worst and the best scenarios. Janet picked a date for his birth around your travels. Remember you were at St. Rosalie at the time. You arrived at the hospital over an hour before the patient. At that time you were pacing once again. Kenneth was born and he was beautiful with very little health issues.
Jon you were there through every event in my life. Even my senior Prom!!!!!! Thank you.
Most of all thank you for being my brother. I miss you every minute, every hour, every day, month and year.
I thank God for every minute we had together.
Now you are in heaven. You earned it. You not only preached God's word, but you were the very example of what we here on earth need to be. You never said “NO” to anyone. And when you could not be somewhere due to other commitments you made sure a priest was there for the person and family. You have baptized many souls, (even going to the hospital during births when a newborn was in distress). You did many Confessions, First Communions, Confirmations, Weddings and Funerals. You even had the strength to do your own mothers. What a great gift you gave to all these people.
I pray that you are making way for me and my family.
Love until then,
Cissy
Bob & Marti Reale
July 12, 2011
It is hard to believe it has been 1 year! We miss you now just as much, if not more. We think of you all the time and continue to remember the fun times we shared. You are MISSED soo very much everyday! Always in our hearts.
July 11, 2011
mpa. I know you are @ peace and have no more pain. Rest with GOD, Jon. Love, Karen and Tom Murman
John Scarsella
February 1, 2011
I would like to extend my deepest sympathies on the passing of Father Jon Parks. I was introduced to Father Jon Parks while a student at Ssalesian Cedar Lake Indiana. His fun, friendly, strict and disciplinarian manner strongly influenced me along with all the Salesians. May Father Jon find peace as he has now entered into the kingdom of heaven among the angels. God Bless Father Jon's Family and the Salesian Community.
Karen Murman
February 1, 2011
Jon, You taught our oldest son Edward @ Mary Help in Tampa, you guided our family when we got married @ Mary Help, you were our friend and blessed our new house(remember I burned the fried chicken,popped the cork IN the wine and we had to strain it with cheese cloth to drink?)So much time we spent with you and the Salesians in Tampa. We even went to see you in N.O. when the boys were 5,6,&7(what a trip that was. I am sorry we didn't know of your passing until October. We love you Jon. Rest in peace. With love and prayers, Karen and Tom Murman & family
Michaela Kavanah-Koehn
January 29, 2011
You were a great influence in my life.
Wendy Kennedy
January 20, 2011
God bless you Father Jon and your family, friends and parishioners that miss you so.
Priscilla Warren
November 29, 2010
Fr Jon was the kidest, sweetest man. I named my first son after him. All my thoughts for his family. He will be greatly missed. Priscilla Warren
Dorothy DiMille
August 24, 2010
Father Parks I will miss you. When I think back I think of the times Joni and I had fun cooking for you Father. My boys also will miss you. I know you are with your Father now who you devoted your life to.
Love Dorothy DiMille
Jacqui & Bob Leon
August 12, 2010
Our family has so many wonderful memories of Fr. Jon during his stay in Boston and our visits to LA.
Most memorable is Jon's love and devotion to God, family and friends.
We shall miss you, Jon and please know our thoughts and most especially our prayers continue to be with you and your family.
Love, Jacqui & Bob Leon & Family
August 7, 2010
FJ, You were there for the good in bad times with our family for over thirty years. Your friend Pete will be very happy and waiting with open arms I am sure. You were my rock since I lost him and made sure that my life would go on. You taught me that life can hurt deeply but that it goes on. I will miss you so very much. MY ROCK
Love always, Pat
Marti Reale
August 7, 2010
When Fr. Jon left this world he took a piece of each and everyone of us, who was blessed to have him in our lives even if for a short time. He will truly be missed and never forgotten. He has left many of us with soo many memories, so lucky to have known you. You are in a better place now and know you are catching up with old friends who have gone before you. Heaven will never be the same now that you are there. RIP FJ.
The Harteveld Family
August 3, 2010
Our deepest condolences to Father Jon's family. We were blessed to have Father Jon as a dear friend. He guided and took care of our family through his regular emails(always sharing pictures and updates on the St. Rosalie community and his family), his visits back to New Jersey, where he always brought joy and love to every occasion he shared with us. He has taught us so much and is deeply missed and will forever be loved.
Mark and the Stefanacci Family
July 30, 2010
Father Jon was a dear friend and spiritual leader to our family for over thirty years. It was truly a gift from God when he came into our lives at Don Bosco in New Jersey in 1979. We shared many special times together, from presiding over my wedding and those of my brothers and sister, to baptizing my children and my nieces and nephews. Father Jon was also there during the tough days and was a great comfort to my parents during the most difficult days of their lives. We will all miss his guidance, his caring nature, his sense of humor, but most of all his friendship. He was truly a once in a lifetime gift to all of us.
Jim Osborne
July 28, 2010
What a privilege and joy it was to know Jon and call him friend. Although I haven't seen him in a few years, we kept in touch via email. I will always cherish the memories of the entire Parks family. I am honored to be a part of such a loving family.
Christopher Martone
July 28, 2010
FJ, Thank you for your tireless service and friendship. You were a special person who will be sadly missed by many. Everytime I saw you it reminded me of my duty to live a life of charity through kindness, support, and goodwill.
Susan Crowell
July 27, 2010
Fr. Jon was a good friend who was such a big part of our lives here in NY. I am glad I got to spend time with him recently at a family wedding and listen to his wonderful stories. His smile brightened a room, his laughter was contagious, and his wit was quick. He had a big heart that couldn't help but reach out with love to those who needed it. You'll be missed by everyone who had the honor to know you. But I know that now you'll be watching over me and those I love. We love you, Fr. Jon, and we will never forget you!
July 26, 2010
I was saddened to learn of Jon's death. We were classmates at Don Bosco College many years ago and I will alway remember his ready smile.
Ed Quigley, Stoughton, Ma
Sammy Melanson
July 22, 2010
Fr. Jon...I hope you knew how special you were to our family, especially to Sammy. God sends someone into each of our lives to inspire us and love us unconditionally. You were Sammy's someone. We will miss you and love you always. Michele, Jerry, & Sammy Melanson (St. Rosalie)
Mary Robichaux
July 21, 2010
Fr. Jon,......We will always miss you and remember you as a special part of our lives, you touched our family in many ways. We will remember your many smiles, and always positive attitude, and your faith in the Lord. This is not goodbye, but only until we meet again......Todd, Mary, Brittany and Ashley Robichaux
Sharon McNulty
July 21, 2010
I remember Fr. Jon as Jonathan Parks, the boy I went to grammar school at St. Joseph in Gretna. In words I have learned since, I remember him as different from the other boys in class. He had a quiet calm about him and seemed very centered. It doesn't surprise me that he became a priest and touched so many lives. He was one of the really good guys.
July 20, 2010
May the LORD rise to meet you. May the wind always be to your back. And may the soft rains fall on your fields. And until we meet again, may the LORD hold you in the palms of his hands. We do miss you. Pedro & Evangelina Rodriguez
Mary Berninger
July 19, 2010
Jon, you were a wonderful friend to so many and the Berningers feel fortunate to have been a family touched by your love. Savio Prep was a wonderful school for our daughter and others because of your stewardship and devotion to students and their families. I will never forget the fun we had doing fundraising for the school or going out to dinner with a group of friends. Your sense of humor was unmatched. I will always remember our long-distance phone conversations about so many topics that we discussed. AOL instant messaging was a real skill you acquired!!
My husband has fond memories of visiting you when he was deployed to New Orleans as a firefighter to help out. His colleagues at Logan Airport still ask "How is the padre?" They, too, will be saddened by your leaving us much too soon.
We will keep you in our prayers.
Love from all the Berningers: Tom, Mary, Megan, Marc, T.J. and Jeremy

Fr. Jon at the St. Rosalie fair in Sept. 2004
Cheryl Sokol
July 18, 2010

Cheryl and Bob Sokol's vow-renewal in 2001, Fr. Jon making bunny ears
Cheryl Sokol
July 18, 2010
KATHY RODRIGUE
July 17, 2010
FATHER JON, YOU WERE AN INSPIRATION AND A BLESSING TO EVERYONE. YOU WILL BE SADLY MISSED.MAY YOU REST IN PEACE.GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. WE LOVE YOU. PLEASE SAY HELLO TO MY MOM,SHE IS ONE OF THE ANGELS THERE IN HEAVEN WITH YOU.
Michael Frey
July 17, 2010
Father Jon was one of my favorite teachers at Shaw back in the mid 70s before he was ordained. I kept in touch with him quite a bit after leaving the West Bank area and after I returned. He performed my late mother's funeral mass, and although unable to do the same for my late son, he sent his most heartfelt condolences along with a personal message of faith for me. The West Bank has lost a good priest and a better man. My sincerest sympathies to the family.
Gerald Ditta
July 16, 2010
There could never be enough adequate words to express or describe our feelings in the loss of a wonderful,great, caring and fun loving Priest as Reverend Father Jonathan Parks. I so looked forward to a kiss and a handshake in the sacristy from Father Jon EVERY Saturday before 6:00 P.M. mass, and enjoyed being an active but very minor part of His Holy Mass. There will never be a replacement as Father Jon was unique and one of a kind in all my years in the Catholic Church. I have no doubt that He is in a better place and will always be with us spiritually,continuing to love, guide and pray for ALL of us! We Love you Father Jon, Please ask Jesus to continue helping all of us in need. May God Bless and keep you forever and ever, Amen.
Gerald and Carolyn Ditta
July 16, 2010
I was secretary to Fr. Jon at Mary Help in Tampa. It was the best job I ever had in my lifetime because of him. When he left MHC, the school was never quite the same. He made going to work a pleasure. The students were crazy for him also. Save a desk for me Fr. Jon as we will be together again one day and I would be proud to fill that position again. Love, Virginia Lamy
Tim Spriano
July 16, 2010
Fr. Jon was a Salesian, priest, friend and family member to everyone he met every time he met them. His humor, energy, loyalty, faith and devotion will never be forgotten. Reverend Parks always viewed his vocation as an opportunity to give constantly to those in need while never asking for anything in return. Father Jonathan David Parks SDB, PHD will be missed by me and thousands of others who were lucky enough to know him during his short stay on earth. It's time to collect your 100 fold Jon. Rest in peace, you've earned it.
Kevin Cloud
July 16, 2010
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
chelsie allo
July 15, 2010
my daughter chelsie allo who attends st rosalie school said to me that she will always remember that every time u seen her in church u called her the princess you will be missed very much and bingo will not be the same any more cause when i watch sponge bob i will always think about u love chelsie
Justin Buckley
July 15, 2010
I had the honor of having Fr.Jon as my Headmaster at Dom Savio 93/94. He was an inspiration to me and he will be deeply missed. My condolences go out to his family.
The Killian Family
July 15, 2010
There are no words to express the sorrow of all of our loss but Heaven is surely a happier place now that you are there. You will truly be missed.
July 15, 2010
We had the honor of meeting Fr. Jon @ Don Bosco College in Newton NJ, where my husband & I both worked. Fr Jon was always such a happy & joyful person. We continued our friendship with him in Tampa FL @ Mary Help of Christians, where he baptized our first grandson. I am sure Fr Jon & my husband, Mariano, are now together remembering old times. Thank you Fr Jon for touching the lives of so many people. May you rest in peace.
Maria Pereira, Jesus (Jesse) Pereira,
Maria Pereira-Diaz & Family

Karen Doming Bergeron
July 15, 2010
I was shocked and saddened to learn of Fr. Jon's passing. We attended
St. Joseph's School in Gretna together from kindergarten through eighth grade, and I saw him occasionally at Shaw functions in high school.
Although I have lived away from New Orleans for the past 15 years in Washington DC, I always heard wonderful things about him as a Salesian priest from my Westbank family and friends on my visits home to New Orleans. I regret that I did not know him as a priest, but I am aware of how much he was loved by so many people. We know he has a special place in Heaven right beside St. John Bosco whose teachings he exemplified. I can only imagine how much Fr. Jon will be missed. Sorry I'm so far away and unable to attend his funeral. I will have a special Mass said for my former classmate. My deepest sympathy to his family! You are in my prayers. Karen Doming Bergeron
BOB REALE
July 15, 2010
My dearest friend in Christ,Jon, although you are in a far better place now; words will never express the way you have touched the hundreds and perhaps thousands of lives during your "short' time on this earth, I am sure the Lord needed you for something important to take you from us so quickly. Say hello to all our friends and we will all be together again soon.
May God Bless you and all of us for just having known you. You taught us to be unselfish, sensitive, caring, and how to pray in times of deepest pain and sorrow. I must admit; this time you gave us a really big task but it is time to practice what you have taught us. REST IN PEACE MY DEAR DEAR FRIEND
Bob Reale
lori schmitt marler
July 14, 2010
i remember father john since i was little he used to live down the street from my family he will be missed greatly.
July 14, 2010
You will be greatly missed, and have touched the hearts of many.
Darryl &Cherlyn Klein, Marrero,La.
Junelle Avery
July 14, 2010
So sorry to hear of Father Jon's passing. He lit up the halls of Savio..
Rest in Peace, Old Friend..
Gail & Vincent Culotta
July 14, 2010
We never attended one of Fr. Jon's Masses that we did not enjoy. He always seemed to get the point of the Gospel over to us. We especially enjoyed the little stories of his family that he sometimes began his homilies with. He will truly be missed at St. Rosalie, but we can all take comfort in knowing that he will be watching over us. Our prayers are with all of his family.
June Cox Buckley
July 14, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family of Father Jonathan Parks. Jonathan and I attended St. Joseph School together in the 60s. I remembered him from back then when I became reacquainted with him through the Salesians at Immaculata/Academy Our Lady. He was a wonderful priest and an inspiration to all. He will be sorely missed.
June Cox Buckley and
The Leo Cox family of Gretna
ANGIE MAHLER
July 14, 2010
MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO FATHER JON'S FAMILY. THANK YOU FOR SHARING HIM WITH US AT ST. ROSALIE. HIS SPIRIT WAS TRULY PRESENT AT THE SERVICES. I AM ETERNALLY GRATEFUL TO FATHER JON FOR TEACHING ME WHAT IT TRULY MEANS TO MAKE YOUR CHILDREN REALIZE HOW IMPORTANT IS TO "FEEL" LOVED. JESUS LOVES YOU TOO FATHER JON. ALEXANDRA AND I ASK THAT YOU TELL JESUS HELLO FOR US!
Dewey & Judy Gros
July 14, 2010
IT IS BETTER TO LIGHT ONE CANDLE RATHER THAN TO CURSE THE DARKNESS.MAY YOU FIND YOUR PLACE IN HEAVEN.YOU WILL BE SADLY MISSED.RIP FATHER JON.
Bob Sutliff
July 14, 2010
Although I have not seen Jon since DBC in Newton oh so many years ago I remember some wonderful conversations about vocation. I loved his humor and his caring about everyone, from my perspective. There are many fond memories I have of our connections when I was a Salesian. Be with God, Jon, and send blessings our way.
A B
July 14, 2010
Father Jon was always kind to me as a student at Savio Prep. I can remember him teaching us about crawfish my freshman year. God Bless
Liz Jones
July 14, 2010
Being in the presence of Father Jon for what now seems like such a short time made me want to be a better Christian. Thank you Father Jon for being such a huge part of the lives of the children at St Rosalie. Darren misses you so much it hurts.
Fr. Rolo Castillo
July 14, 2010
I first met Jon when I was a young Salesian at Mary Help in Tampa FL. You were always a friend, always welcoming when I came to visit from VA. I can't make it to your funeral, but I will remember you now as I did in life, always smiling, always welcoming.
Alex Walker
July 14, 2010
Father Jon was a great priest and a very nice person. His masses were very fun and cool. He will be missed very much.
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