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for Jeffrey Rosecan
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steven schechter
May 2, 2025
Dr. Rosecan saved my life when I was in the depths of my addiction and wanted to check out. If he was here I would give him a big hug.
Barbara Rosecan
May 1, 2025
We celebrated another birthday.
We still miss you and hold you in our hearts every day. The boys have grown in to two young men that you would have been so proud and happy with!
You are such a part of them and we all keep you close, all our love,
Barb, Sam and Andy
Barbara Rosecan
May 1, 2024
16 years, I will always miss you but you have continued to live on in my heart and in the boys. You would be so proud of the young men they are.
Your smile, your love of life will forever live in me sweetheart!
Happy Birthday!!!
Lou Moscatello
February 5, 2024
It was early 1986 when my girlfriend, now wife, somehow arranged for me to meet with Dr Rosecan for my out-of-control addictions. I agreed to go to a rehab he arranged and when I got out continued as his patient for the next year plus. I have been sober since and owe him a great debt of gratitude for my sobriety and the self-discovery he led me through. I only just now came across his name written on an antabuse warning card I was supposed to carry and decided to google him only to discover his passing and the wonderful tributes to him. So add this: Thank you good doctor.
Lou Moscatello
February 5, 2024
God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
barbara Gross Rosecan
May 1, 2023
Happy birthday! I spent it with the boys looking at pictures of you back in the early days,sharing stories about you. We love you and will always miss you
15 years but forever in our hearts!!!
Barbara Rosecan
April 15, 2022
Happy Birthday sweetheart, hard to believe it is 14 years. You forever live on in my heart and both Sam and Andy. You would be so proud of these two young men. Forever miss you!
Lauren Rosecan
October 5, 2021
It has been thirteen years since Jeff went to Heaven and it is only now that I can bring myself to write about my big brother Jeff who was my best friend, best man, confidante and my everything. I followed Jeff in everything my whole life. Jeff was smarter, kinder, funnier, more caring, more compassionate, and better in every way. Everybody loved Jeff because of who he was. Jeff saw the best in everyone. He was the ringleader. Everyone followed Jeff as I did all my life. It was so easy to okay follow the leader.
It is important for Jeff´s family, friends and patients to know what a saint Jeff really was, for real. I have no doubt that Jeff shared his genius for life with everyone who knew him. He was endlessly entertaining and was truly a renaissance person not unlike our father Marvin and our mother Ruth. We were so lucky to have had the best family, lived in the best and Morse artistically creative home that our parents custom designed, lived in the best neighborhood, went to the best schools, had best friends and went to the best Sunday school. We were all so lucky to have loved and been loved. I know this is what Jeff shared with all who had the great luck and fortune to have met him. Jeff had faith in the best part of all of us. He was the eternal optimist.
Jeff was a year and a half older and always a grade above me in school. We did everything together including playing football, basketball and baseball, collecting coins, stamps, fossils, butterflies, arrowheads, rocks and minerals, baseball cards. We were collectors. Jeff was interested in everything and so was I because Jeff was. We even went on our first dates together amd double dates through most of high school. We traveled on family vacations together, summer camp together, art museums, boating, waterskiing and everything. We were playing baseball together when Jeff went to cover home base and got slashed in his ankle by a metal shoe spike. I helped him walk off the field and to the car to get him stitched up by our doctor Dad´s friend who was the team doctor for all the St.Louis professional sports teams. That was the end of Jeff´s baseball and football career but he became the Steven Spielberg like film director instead. Jeff was handsome, smart and athletic but most of all he had the biggest and greatest heart and soul. I can´t blame our Mom for loving Jeff first. It was just them together for a year and a half before I came along. Like the Royal rule of primogeniture Jeff was the crown prince and I was next in line. I followed Jeff from Old Bonhomme and Spoede public schools to Rossman and St.Louis Country Day Schools. Jeff was a National Merit Finalist and I got a letter of commendation. I followed Jeff East to the Ivy League for college, medical school, internship, residency and fellowship. Jeff went to Columbia in New York and stayed for medical school, psychiatry and practice. I couldn´t understand how he could like the big city after our bucolic life in the suburbs but he loved the excitement and culture of the city. I stayed close first at Yale and then at Penn and went to New York Hospital-Cornell Medical Center because I wanted to be close to Jeff. I turned down Harvard and Johns Hopkins where I was ranked first because I figured I could learn the same things anywhere but wanted to be close to Jeff. I was so happy that Jeff found and married Barbara and had Sam and Andy. I didn´t learn until his funeral that they never spent a single night apart in 23 years of marriage and always had lunch together on a regular basis and always had date night. I was also happy they found a weekend beach house in Easthampton and got a boat called Chasing the Blues as a a double meaning of psychiatry and bluefish. Jeff snd I shared a love of art which we learned from our parents. I vegan collecting art in the last few years as a remembrance of Jeff and our family. I call it The Rosecan Family Collection: The Art of Love and Vision of Peace. When we were teenagers on a family trip to Europe we saw the Elgin Marbles of the Parthenon sculptures in The British Museum. Another tome we saw The Rodin Museum in Paris. Jeff had a picture of the Lovers and The Kiss on the wall of his room at our family home. It´s still there. Maybe that´s why I was drawn subliminally to the story of Cupid and Psyche, the marriage of love and the soul expressed in white Carrara marble and oil on canvas in remembrance of Jeff and our family. Jeff was ill when our father died so I read his eloquent tribute in his place. He described our Dad as a multitasking renaissance man. The apple doesn´t fall far from the tree.
I´m sorry it has taken me so long to open up about Jeff because in my heart and mind he is always with me just like our mom and dad. When Jeff went to Heaven I started calling our moms every day, sometimes several times a day. I knew how her heat was breaking. It was like after the divorce when we were in high school. I became our Mom´s
confidante and support especially when Jeff left for Columbia. I´m glad Jeff could help so many people. His loss left a hole in my heart that can never be filled. Saint Jeff the Divine was just like Saint Ruth the Divine. The apple doesn´t fall far from the tree. I know Barbara, Dam and Andy feel the same way. I thought of Jeff all the time especially when I was at their graduations from Columbia Prep and Grammar in Manhattan. God called Jeff back but his gentle, kind, loving spirit is with me and all of us forever. This I know for sure. Love you always my big brother Jeff, my best friend and my best man.
Helaine Delano
April 16, 2021
Out of sight but Never out of mind! Both as a caring human being and an extraordinary doctor, You will never be forgotten and always be missed. Thank you again with all my heart for all you did for our family.
Helaine
steven schechter
April 15, 2021
In loving memory of a wonderful person. Happy Birthday in heaven.. Rest in eternal peace...Thank you once more for saving my life many years ago. 40 years ago and still staying strong with your guidance.....
Barbara Rosecan
April 15, 2021
Happy Birthday sweetheart, I just lit the candles on your cake and made wishes for Sam and Andy and shared some memories. You would be so proud of these two young men.
You are forever in our hearts,always missed, always loved!
Maude Hart
May 2, 2020
You were an amazing doctor to me. I still think about things youve told me on a regular basis. Thank you
Deborah
May 1, 2020
Hi Jeffrey, I always remember your support. I have done all the things I told you one day I would do, and then some. Thank you Jeffrey, you will not be forgotten by many of us.
April 16, 2020
Happy Birthday Sweetheart! Andy is graduating College, Sam still working hard at his job. You would proud of them. We miss you, always in our hearts!
All our love
Barbara
Roderick Renfrew
April 11, 2020
I miss you so much Drl Rosecan. You truly helped save my life and my career. I . could never have become the man I am today without your wonderful and understanding warmth. I am a better person for having known you. I just wish y9ou were not taken from us way too soon! Why is it always the best people that have such a short time-yet he did more in that time than 10 other physicians, The best psychiatrist I have even known , or probably ever will,.
Rebecca Arend
April 16, 2019
This man saved my life and I only hope as a doctor to touch others lives half as much as he touched his patient's lives in honor of him.
Barbara
April 15, 2019
Happy Birthday my love, you forever live on in my heart and in Sam and Andy, your sons,you would so proud of the young men they have become!
November 10, 2018
A great and courageous Doctor, that I somehow got lucky from The Lords Grace came an met This Doctor ! He was for overa dozen years and did have Group Therapy with his Group as well ! I was thinking about this Doctor that saved Many Lives, and Googled him and found this and feel sad !to
Violet
July 29, 2018
I was a patient of Dr. Rosecan for many years. I was also a member of his weekly group therapy sessions for recovering addicts and alcoholics. I suffered from late stage opiate addiction, specifically pills. One day out of desperation to get high I took one of his prescription sheets and wrote out a phony prescription. When the pharmacy caught me they didn't call the police, instead they called him. I remember going home and waiting for his phone call - expecting him to be very angry and fire me as a patient. Instead, he told me to come in to see him the next day and I was greeted with a big smile. I remember crying because of the shame I felt in resorting to doing such a thing, and for the thought of losing his respect. But with him it wasn't about respect. He understood the disease of addiction and knew that I did what I did because that's what addicts do. He never judged me or shamed me when all I could feel was self-hatred for who I was. After that episode I began to follow his advice and stayed sober. I will never forget that wonderful smile, his warmth, professionalism, great advice, encouragement, and optimism.
When I found out he died I was no longer living in NYC but the seeds he had planted are always with me. My condolences to his wife, sons and other family members. It's sad knowing he's no longer on this earth - just a phone call away. He was special. Taken WAY too soon.
April 18, 2018
Happy Birthday Sweetheart. You are in our hearts forever
All of our Love Barb,Sam Andy
June 15, 2017
June 15, 2017
9 years,hard to believe,but you are in our hearts forever!!
All our love
Barbara,Sam and Andy
May 20, 2016
Out of Sight for 8 years now--But certainly not Out of Mind!
He will always remain in our hearts for his Advice, for his Words, for his Caring---Way Above and Beyond the Call of Duty! We miss you Dr. Rosecan!
Emily Klass
May 18, 2016
i have a glass fish from Jeff's desk on my desk to help me with my work.
May 7, 2016
Every year, on May 6th, there is a reminder on my calendar of Dr. Rosecan's passing. It's not that I could ever forget Dr. Rosecan but for me it is comforting, as it allows me to pause, think of him and the impact he has had on my life. As with everyone, so much has happened in the past eight years. In times of difficulty or joy, I sometimes wonder were I still a patient, what words of wisdom I would've heard from Dr. Rosecan. When I feel I have taken a step in the right direction, the reassuring words I know I would have heard would have been 'Progress'. (accompanied with a smile and look of happiness for both of us) Dr Rosecan remains forever a part of my life. I am grateful to have known him. Dr Rosecan was not only a doctor but for me as important, a healer.
JoelF -
May 6, 2016
8 years, forever in my heart and soul. Our sons have grown up,you would be proud.
My love, always,
Barbara
July 16, 2015
I met Dr. Rosecan in 1981,when we both worked in the emergency room of St. Joseph's Medical Center in Yonkers, NY. Jeffrey was "moonlighting" while serving as chief resident in psychiatry at Columbia Presbyterian Medical Center. I remember his careful clinical intervention with an elderly woman which ultimately saved her life. I learned a great deal from him both professionally as a social worker and also on a personal basis. I am so sad to learn of his untimely passing.
Linda N
May 6, 2015
Remembering Dr. Rosecan today. When I first came to New York in the early 80s, I needed therapy but couldn't pay very much. I heard Columbia/Presbyterian had a sliding scale to meet with one of their residents. What blind luck to be assigned to Dr. Jeffrey Rosecan, the young chief resident in psychiatry. No one had more kindness, patience, positivity, deep intelligence and humanity. He was serious and thoughtful, but full of easy humor. He gave me validation and confidence that I badly needed. I took that with me and it has helped me throughout my life. As I have read many times in the comments here, his words and smile after all these many years are clear in my head and are not forgotten. With gratitude to a great doctor.
Steven Schechter
November 1, 2014
I met Dr.Rosecan in 1981, at that time I was addicted to cocaine and totally hopeless and suicidal. Jeffrey Rosecan...A GIFT FROM GOD...Jeffrey Rosecan saved my life....So very sad to hear of his passing...I can hear his voice as a sit back and remember those sad days in my life....Thank you for all you did for me and countless others. You will always be missed.I know there is a special place in GODs world for you.
Helaine Delano
June 3, 2014
So many years have passed and still we think about him, talk about him and miss him . I find myself thinking if only Dr Rosecan were here , he'd help us decide what to do!
Although my son was his patient , he had an impact on our whole family.
We hope his wife & sons are doing well. What a gigantic loss to them and to everyone who knew him. He was one of a kind and can never be replaced!
R L
June 2, 2014
I wish I knew him, but only through Emma's book. I need a therapist like him but none are to be found. A great loss
Jan
October 4, 2013
I often think of Dr. Rosecan and wonder how his family is. I hope his boys still love boating and have matured into the special young men he must have dreamed about. I have yet to pilot my own boat without thinking about him.
March 30, 2013
Gone but never forgotten.
Andrew
July 8, 2012
Was going thru my old list of contacts, and was shocked upon a Google search to learn that Dr. Rosecan had passed so young. He definitely had a big impact on me, and I will definitely pick up Emma Forrest's book that I am just learning about as well.
H. Delano
February 25, 2012
It's still hard to accept that he's gone, although it's nearly four years now. We think of him so often. He had a powerful impact on our family. At one point we made an attempt to replace him, but unsuccessfully--He was one of a kind, there will never be another Dr Rosecan and he will never be forgotten.
H.D.
Matt
February 24, 2012
Jeff's smile was unmatched and lit up anywhere he went. His enthusiasm could not be contained, and made those around him feel his joy. He made the world around him a better place, and we were very lucky to have him with us while we did. You are missed very much.
Heather Deen
September 6, 2011
I believe dr R is the subject of a wonderful book called Your Voice in My Head by Emma Forrest. Great reviews
Delano Family
May 4, 2011
Three years--and It's still so hard to believe. How rare it is for a person to leave such an indelible mark on so many - That is why he will never be forgotten.
Deborah Molho
May 4, 2011
I can't believe it's been 3 years also. I miss my friend too.
Kathy
May 3, 2011
I can't believe it's been almost three years. Gone but never forgotten. I miss my friend.
Liz L.
May 2, 2011
Dr. Rosecan was a wonderful person, and I mourn his loss.
Linda Bernstein
January 22, 2011
I'm not sure how the google entry ended up in my search about something totally different, but I just found out about Jeff's death and I am deeply saddened. I was a close friend of Jeff's in college. (His first wife lived on my freshman floor.) Although we lost touch soon after his divorce from Iris, I did meet Barbara and was happy that he was settled nicely.
Jeffrey was one of the kindest people I ever knew. I also adored his easy-going nature and his sometimes ridiculous to the point of comic gullibility about stupid things.
I know that Lauren was with a group of us on July 4, 1976, as we celebrated the bicentennial together. Arthur and his sister and mother I met at graduation--and again when Jeff graduated from P&S. I remember sneaking pizzas into Lenox Hill when Jeff was an intern on all night. I remember "match" night when he got Columbia. I remember Sundays at Jones beach followed by fresh lobsters he would throw in the pot. I remember shopping with him for an analyst's couch! And I remember what he chose.
We ran into each other in the late 1980s when he was living on West 78th Street and my kids were attending PS 87.
He was someone I always assumed was there, waiting for me to find him again.
Dwayne Croft
June 8, 2009
I recently tried to get back in touch with Dr. Rosecan to start therapy again and found that the number was disconnected. I wrongly assumed he had moved out of New York, and I let it go for a few weeks . Today I thought I would find him by Googling him.... I did, and was devastated to read he had passed away over a year ago. I am so sorry for your loss and obviously for so many patients' loss. I came to him for a quick fix back in 1997 and he was truly wonderful . Just a few sessions with him showed me what a wonderful Doctor he was , and because of those sessions, I'm now profoundly sad to find he's gone .... A great loss for all ...... I'll always remember him and his kindness and clarity at a very difficult time in my life.
Sima
May 16, 2009
I miss Dr. Rosecan.. I credit him for my growth as a human being.. I dont think Ill ever be able to express my gratitude in how much he has helped me.
Doug
May 16, 2009
I only saw Dr. Rosecan for about a year. I moved out of state for college and kept up with Dr. R over the phone. My fondest memories of the time we spent together were the conversations we had about music or how the Sun has the best arts section. Looking back, I remember him as a friend. It's amazing to see how much he meant to the many people who have signed the guest book.
Douglas
May 15, 2009
I miss him. He was my therapist; and because of him, I moved forward in life; and ultimately became a therapist. I like to believe, in some way, I am carrying on his legacy.
Thank you Dr. Rosecan
Marsha Rozbruch
May 6, 2009
Not a single day goes by without remembering Dr.Rosecans extraordinary wisdom,kindness and optimism. I was extremely fortunate for having been his patient and will never,ever forget him
Marsha Rozbruch
May 6, 2009
Not a single day goes by without remembering Dr.Rosecans extraordinary wisdom,kindness and optimism. I was extremely fortunate for having been his patient and will never,ever forget him
Kathi LussaBell
May 6, 2009
I have been a patient of Dr. Rosecan's since 1990, shortly after my mothers death. Without going into detail, I was defeated in life and my severe drug addiction totally left me in a state of hopelessness, suicide and chaos...In a desperate moment, I turned to my father..He was given Dr. Rosecan's name and number from a friend of his who had been in a similar situation as mine..Needless to say, I think we all know how lucky and fortunate I was to of immediately become a patient of Dr. Rosecans...To say that he saved my life, is by far an understatement...It is very hard for me to explain how and why "this time" I decided to change my life and to have hope, but anyone that has ever been a patient of Dr. Rosecans surely understands. I was 30 years old then and now twenty years later, at the age of 50 I have been able to deal with all types of obstacles life has thrown my way..My oldest son being diagnosed autistic, the death of my father, my bipolar disorder etc...However, this obstacle, Dr.Rosecan's passing is probably the most difficult...
I officially ended my therapy with Dr. Rosecan about 16 months ago, as we both felt it was time for me to move on and basically I really didn't need therapy. Although most people would be happy to reach this point in their life or therapy, I was quite upset..Not having Dr.rosecan in my life was very scary and also hard to close such a long term relationship..patient-psychiatrist..But I also knew that Dr.Rosecan was only 8 blocks away and would always be available if I needed his advice, recommendations or support..
As recently as about a month ago I called his office to get his opinion about some medications my sons school was recommending for his behavior. I was quite puzzled when I did not hear him answering..as he always did.."Dr.Rosecan"instead the number was disconnected..I only found out a couple of days ago from Len Genduso of Dr. Rosecans passing..
I am not as brave as everyone to say that his memory, advice, and therapy will stay with me forever..I am devasted, lost, alone, confused and extremely sad..This is not easy for me to process..To me this is unfair..To me this makes me question life and the world in which we live..My heart hurts and my spirit is sad...I am having a hard time with this..As I am writing this now, with tears pouring out of my soul, this is something I never, ever thought I would be doing..writing on Dr. Rosecan's memorial website...I am grieving one year after his passing and will be grieving for the rest of my life..It is only because of Dr. Rosecan's help and therapy that I can even find the strength to process this and cope with his passing..
To Dr. Rosecans family and friends..My deepest sympathy, love and tears..
To Dr. Rosecans wife and children..Thank you for sharing him with me for all these years..I am truly sorry for your lose..My heart and soul goes out to you..
To Dr. Rosecan..I am not sure how many times I have said this to you but once again..Thank you Dr. Rosecan for your time, care, help and therapy..but most of all Dr. Rosecan, Thank you for being you..I will miss you and always keep you close to my heart..
With all my Love.
Kathi LussaBell
H. Delano
May 4, 2009
It's still so hard to believe that Dr. Rosecan is no longer with us even though it's been a year since he's been gone. My son will always hear his voice-the voice that saved his life with his wisdom,his kindness and his absolute belief in him when he no longer believed in himself. He may be gone from us but he will never ever be forgotten. And I know he will always be watching over Barbara and their boys.
Joel Lamm
November 12, 2008
I was shocked to learn of Jeff Rosecan's passing. I knew Jeff in medical school and after, and I will never forget the many happy times we spent with Barbara and my wife Karen. Jeff introduced us to St Barts and many other delights, most of which had to do with water. Reading the previous comments, it does not surprise me to learn how beloved he was as a physician. Time spent with Jeff was easy and effortless, his warmth was overwhelming. Barbara, Sam, and Andy my thoughts are with you.
rebecca arend
June 14, 2008
I came to Dr. Rosecan as a patient 12 years ago when I was an undergraduate at Columbia University during the hardest time of my life, a time in which just getting out of bed and showing up for life seemed absolutely impossible and to say that Jeff saved my life would be a profound understatement. He diagnosed and treated me for ADD, which allowed me to actually finish college and he continued to believe in me even when I didn't believe in myself. He was my rock for the past 12 years, truly the absolute most influential person in my life. I just returned from Africa, where I was for 3 months and found out the news by calling for an appointment. He called me to cancel our last appointment because he was "feeling under the weather," and said he would see me when I got back from africa. I had no idea he was even sick, which made the news that much more sudden, shocking, and unsettling. Last week I had my medical school graduation and it saddens me that I never was able to tell him that I matched at Columbia University for my residency because I know how proud he would have been, but last night as the faculty welcomed the new OBGYN residents in a beautiful restaurant overlooking the river I felt him right there with me. I want his wife, kids, and family to know that his love, kindness, and spirit will be with me and as I heal others in this wonderful field of medicine, he will continue to heal others through me. His legacy of saving peoples lives will never end and although his physical body is no longer with us in this universe, his spirit is.
Ellen Schwartz
June 10, 2008
I am so sorry to hear of Dr. Rosecan's passing. I was his patient for seven years, and he became more than just a doctor to me. I considered him both a friend and a source of constant support during some extremely difficult times. My sympathy goes out to his family and friends.
Helaine Delano
June 5, 2008
It is with great sorrow that I write these words. Dr. Rosecan rescued my son from a very serious drug addiction. He saved his life and gave him back to us.
Ever since then, for the past 12 years hardly a week has gone by without them seeing each other, or speaking on the phone if my son was out of the country.
Dr. Rosecan became his Mentor, Close Friend and Life Coach. He along with everyone who had the privilege of being in his care was at first horribly shocked to learn of his passing, and then completely devastated, which my son still is.
We send you, Mrs. Rosecan, your two Sons, and Family our sincerest and deepest condolences.
You don't need to be told how special and unique your Husband and Dad was. From the first time he took my son under his wing and into his loving care, I felt he was an Angel-- Now I know he is!
Sincerely Yours,
H.D.and Family
Richard Cohen
May 29, 2008
I only found out today about the untimely passing of a great human being-Dr Jeffrey Rosecan. Dr R helped me through a number of crises in my life with empathy and true caring. He will forever be in my thoughts and heart. Although I never met his family they should know from both me and others what a great person he was
emma forrest
May 23, 2008
If I were to say that Jeffrey Rosecan saved my life, it doesn't give him enough credit: he taught me how to save myself. I will carry that gift for the rest of my life, as I will carry him. To his boys: he adored you. I know because I often used the last three minutes of a session to trick him into talking about how much...
LD
May 21, 2008
To Dr. Rosecan's family: I send the greatest sympathy for your loss. An occasional patient, I found tremendous comfort in our sessions at times of my greatest stress, and can only imagine how profound his absence must be to you. He was such a gifted doctor and the consummate professional. Surely you know how incredibly helpful he was to those he treated.
Carroll Delaney
May 21, 2008
To Dr. Rosecan's family: My deepest sympathy and condolences to you. I was a patient of Jeff's for about 6 years in the 80's and 90's and I regarded him as a friend as well as a wonderful doctor. His sense of humor and twinkling eyes were remakable and he will be deeply missed.
Bev Piehl
May 20, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Rosecan family.
Jeff was a wonderful man with an infectious smile. Even tho, it's been quite a few years since I've seen Jeff in person, I remember how he always knew just what to say or even when to just listen. I wasn't surprised when he went into psychiatry at med school. It's been such a blessing to be able to read notes from his patients, who he helped so much over the years.
He will be truly missed.
tracy smith
May 20, 2008
I cannot fully or properly express all I feel and felt for Dr. Rosecan, and all I have to thank him for. But he taught me to accept my limitations, whether personal or imposed, and this is my attempt.
Dr. Rosecan saved my life, and made his success our success by teaching me the ins and outs of how and why to do so. He was kind, devoted and generous to the point of being selfless. He was sympathetic to the point of being empathetic. I never had to worry about not being taken seriously or dismissed by him.
Although I am proud and grateful to have been in his care for nearly 4 years, I wish we could have met under circumstances which would have allowed a two-way friendship; our time together was always about me. He was a great man and I will sincerely miss him. My deepest condolences to his wife and sons, his siblings, his nieces and nephews, his friends, and my fellow patients. The world is a colder place without him in it.
nick ackerman
May 18, 2008
I am a patient of Dr Rosecan's, and I always will be. His warm encouragement and affection will sustain me for the rest of my life. He sincerely believed in me, and I have a feeling that it wasn't because he thought I was particularly special but rather that he just believed in everybody. I guess that's called unconditional love. What better qualification is there for helping, healing, guiding, and teaching people? I'm fantastically lucky to have known him.
Sima Schloss
May 17, 2008
I have been a patient of Dr. Rosecan's for almost 8 years. Words cannot express how sad I am to hear of his passing away. Dr. Rosecan was an incredible doctor- He was the first doctor that treated my ADD properly and helped change my life . He was a huge supporter of my art -he even brought a painting of mine and hung it in his office! I thought of him as a second father to me, he was so encouraging and supportive. He was a wonderful human being.My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Arthur Rosecan
May 17, 2008
I'll always keep the image of Jeff, my beloved oldest brother, windsurfing across the horizon towards Gardiners Island. Balanced, athletic, gliding almost effortlessly between surf and sky. Coming in from the water, you begin to see the big smile, the charisma that lights us all up as he looks at you and connects.
Jeff made the world a better place, a happier, more secure place. He brought us together with warmth, humor, and optimism. He helped a lot of people, patients and otherwise, by lending his humanity, and leaving no doubt that they were understood.
Jeffrey lucked out when he met Barbara, the love of his life. Together they created the family he always dreamed of, his heart's delight.
Jeff was devoted to Sam and Andy. Not all of us are blessed with long life, but his boys are his legacy and he was so proud of them. He fought like hell to the very end to have more time with his family. In the days and nights ahead, in good times and bad, look in your heart and memories and he'll be there.
August, 2007
May 17, 2008
Caroline Boyle
May 16, 2008
Dear Sam: I was so sorry to hear about your father. He was such a great man. Whenever I saw him he was always laughing and wanted to hear every and any detail about you. You made him so proud. I will be thinking of you through this difficult time.
Jane Smith
May 16, 2008
It is quite possible that Dr. Rosecan saved my daughter's life. There's nothing more to say except. . . may he rest in peace.
Anna
May 16, 2008
Nine years ago, Dr. Rosecan saved my life. Because of him, my parents got their daughter back. We are forever indebted, and eternally grateful for the gift of his presence in our lives.
Over the years, I teased him about being a terminal optimist. Thank goodness he was one; i rode on the coattails of his faith and enthusiasm for a long time.
I will carry Dr. Rosecan with me always. I will strive to emulate his kindness and poise, especially around those who are sick and suffering, as I was when I had the good fortune to have landed under his care.
This loss is too large to describe. My love and condolences to his wife and sons.
RUTH SCHWALBE
May 14, 2008
THE DAY THAT DR. ROZBRUCH ENTERED MY LIFE WAS VERY FORTUNATE FOR ME. HE BECAME A VERY TRUSTED, WISE ADVISOR. HE HELPED ME GET THROUGH HARD TIMES AND HELPED ME TO ENJOY THE GOOD TIMES. HE WAS AN EXTRAORDINARY DOCTOR AND AN ANCHOR IN MY LIFE. I WILL MISS HIM SO MUCH-BUT WILL ALWAYS CARRY HIS ADVISE WITH ME.
Jan
May 13, 2008
Such a special, special physician and healer. The world has been cheated with his loss.
Bob Adler
May 13, 2008
I met Jeff in college, and I remember thinking that the term "Renaissance man" seemed to apply to him more than to anyone else I knew. A pre-med student focused on art history who played ball and laughed easily, Jeff was a larger-than-life figure, particularly because all of this intellectual and physical activity was infused with joy and optimism.
I recall only one instance of doubt, when he returned from his med school interview a little befuddled by the fact that the entire conversation had been about art. Those of us waiting to hear how it had gone assured him that such a conversation was a really good sign, because it seemed to acknowledge what we all knew -- that Jeff's enthusiasm was infectious, and that he was a well-rounded human being, not a pre-med workaholic with no interests outside of organic chemistry labs.
For Jeff, life was filled with joy in the present and hope for the future. Yet Jeff was not naive. He was a face-the-facts realist and bemused skeptic. Jeff's confidence in the future was rooted in a firm belief that it took an effort to make hope real.
Twelve years after we graduated from college, Jeff responded to a friend's call for help and helped save my life. He acted swiftly, with grace and calm -- and that ever-present unerring devotion to hope. I was never Jeff's patient, but I am alive today because he was my friend.
Jeff, my old friend, I thank you -- for having the courage to make your life a blessing. You lived your life both on the water and on dry land by always "chasing the blues." That is a worthy and noble legacy for your two boys -- and for all of us. With love and respect and a deep sense of loss...
Angie D.
May 11, 2008
Dr. Rosecan treated me for several years and was a major part of my having a functional life. It took me many years to get the wonderful life I have now had for eleven years, but he never gave up on me. I was always greeted with a big smile, always felt welcome, and never felt ashamed about telling him that I made a mistake because he was so accepting, understanding and positive.
Obviously, I never met his wife or two sons but I send them lots of bright light and prayers. I have no doubt that he was a great husband and father just from the aura he seemed to have around him. Sometimes people that you see in a professional manner for a long time seem somewhat unhappy or grumpy on some days. But he never did. I know several people whose lives he touched and he will truly be missed.
If you're out there reading yor guestbook Dr. R, I'll keep coming back! Thanks for giving me the mental toolbox!!!
Marsha Rozbruch
May 10, 2008
I met Dr. Rosecan at a particularly hard time in my life. I had begun to feel that life had truly let me down and I was no longer able to feel joy. It was by chance that I was referred to him on my birthday nine years ago.
When I called to make the appointment he said he had a cancellation. He said how about January 19th. I said it was not good, it was my 49th birthday; who goes to the doctor on their birthday, and he responded "why not, it's as good a day as ever". He was wise that way.
In retrospect, I now think of my first visit with Dr. Rosecan as the best birthday present I have ever been given. What a true gift and privilege to have Jeffrey Rosecan caring for me. He was able to instill an immediate sense of security and trust. After only one visit I had a restored sense of optimisim, a sense of confidence in the future. Ultimately he produced for me the greatest gift of all, the ability to feel joy again.
Jeff Rosecan was a gifted psychiatrist whom I considered to be "always at the highest point on the learning curve". An exceptional listener, he could retain everything that was going on in my life. With Dr. Rosecan in your corner life seemed that much easier to navigate and make sense of. I am truly a better person for having known such an exceptional man.
I did not know that Dr. Rosecan was ill. I saw him several months ago. He was his usual upbeat,caring, focused, inciteful self. He never lost a step in his stride. I realize now how brave he was that day. I will -forever- remember him as my hero.
My heartfelt condolences go to his family.
Cara and Clark Sugg
May 9, 2008
Goodbye Dear Friend, We’ll miss you.
Love always to Barbara, Sam and Andy.
Bob Goldman
May 9, 2008
The sportswriter Red Smith, asked to speak at a friend's funeral, looked out at the assembled mourners and said, "Dying is no big deal; the least of us will manage it. Living is the trick."
Jeff had the most fun being alive of anyone I have ever known. In the 25 years that we were friends, Jeff simply enjoyed life. He liked New York, he liked the Hamptons, he liked Saint Barth, he liked theater and music, food and art, watching sports and doing sports, he liked going out, and he liked staying home. He did not do all of these things well; no one does. But he was completely un-self-conscious, and willing to try, and willing to laugh at the things that went badly as well as celebrate the things that worked out.
He loved Barbara and his kids like nobody's business. But he also liked his family, Barbara's family, all of his friends, THEIR families (my Mom and Dad LOVED Jeff) and their friends to boot. There was an openness to Jeff, a friendliness, a graciousness, an optimism that was infectious. He was having a good time, and he wanted you to have a good time too. Always.
Reading the notes from his patients, I am reminded that there was a serious side to Jeff too, and that, for a living, he helped people get their lives together. But for anyone who ever wondered why he was good at that, it was because his own life was together, and he believed that life was good and worth living and that it could get better.
A person like Jeff can get sick, his body can break, and he can leave us – as the obit in the Times said – bereft. But the light of Jeff's smile and the warmth with which he lived does not die. Those things will sustain us forever. My heart goes out to Jeff's family, to Barb and to hers.
Robert Kertzner
May 9, 2008
I had the privilege of knowing Jeff for 34 years as a fellow medical student, resident in psychiatric training, and colleague (and office suite mate until 2003). Jeff had the most amazingly full heart of compassion, patience, and joy of life, all of which made him a beloved psychiatrist, colleague, and friend. He prescribed life -- and practiced what he prescribed, as an extraordinary generous and loving man. His smile will linger forever.
Emily Klass
May 8, 2008
Jeff helped me catch my first, and only, fish. Emily Klass
Joel F
May 8, 2008
My heartfelt condolences go out to the Rosecan family. I was fortunate to have been treated by Dr. Rosecan. From our initial meeting, I was treated with the utmost kindness, dignity, and respect. With his generosity of spirit and insight, he inspired me to become a better person. He was a true healer. I will never forget him.
Anonymous
May 7, 2008
Dr. Rosecan was such a help to me for several years. He was the utmost professional who treated me with respect and dignity. My prayers go out to his family and friends.
Bob Cohen
May 7, 2008
Barbara, Sam, Andy, Ruth, Laurie, Deborah, and Arthur:
Priscilla and I are at a total loss to express the deep sadness in our hearts. Words are completely inadequate.
I knew Jeff for more than 45 years. The hole in my life that his premature passing leaves will never be filled. I did not participate in his professional success, as we parted ways geographically after high school, but I reveled in it from afar. Maybe that was a good thing as it could have been quite intimidating. He was always a little brighter, more hard working, and more dedicated than I, going way back.
We saw each other several times over the years; at our 20th Country Day reunion and during a few trips I made to New York. I always called him on his birthday, April 14th, which was when I first learned he was gravely ill. Perhaps I should have flown in to see him, but was afraid that might unduly alarm him. One doesn't just drop into New York from San Diego. I'll debate that decision in my head for many years.
As I review the 1970 yearbook from our senior year and my Bar Mitzvah album a flood of wonderful memories come rushing forth, too voluminous and most too mundane to list, yet too personal and too important to ever forget. I have had many acquaintances over the years, but just a small handful of close friends. I was extremely proud to count Jeff among that elite group for nearly half a century.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Douglas
May 7, 2008
Your father/husband helped to get me sober. He was a good, good, man.
I'm so sorry.
My blessings.
Benjy Kleiner
May 7, 2008
Dr. Rosecan was a very kind man and I would like to send out my condelences to his family. He helped me a lot in my life and he will be truly missed.
Sandy Krochek
May 7, 2008
So very sorry to hear that such a kind human being has left us.
He was a wonderful support to our family.
We will always remember him.
Judy and Jay Damashek
May 7, 2008
Our favorite memory of Jeff was when we were on line for a lift at Jiminy Peak and we saw a man dressed in only swim trunks outside in below zero temperatures happily jumping in and out of the nearby hot tub. As we looked closer, we realized it was Jeffrey (who we did not even know was there at the time) having the time of his life. We yelled hello which was warmly returned. The memory will be with us always as will many others. And he will be missed by us and all who knew him.
Roslyn Streifer
May 7, 2008
Dear Andy and Sam: I am so sad to learn about the death of your father. May all the wonderful, loving memories you have of him sustain you as you go through the years. With kindest regards, Ms. Streifer, art teacher, Columbia Grammar School
Deborah Molho
May 7, 2008
You became a central, most important figure in my life after I lost my mom 5 years ago, on the 6th of January.
Forever in my life as a symbol of strength and unconditional support, you are, and will always be missed. I promise to continue the progress we made. My heart goes out to your family, who was blessed to have you in their lives. Love, Deborah
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