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Destry Horton Obituary
Destry Horton, 32, was critically injured March 1 while fighting wildfires near Duncan. He had been hospitalized in Oklahoma City since.
Horton suffered burns to about 50 percent of his body, including his lungs. Both of his arms were amputated.
Horton had given up his day off to help fight fires that were raging in southern Oklahoma March 1. Horton and a Rush Springs colleague entered a smoke-filled area, and their fire truck got stuck.
Memories and Condolences
for Destry Horton
408 Entries
Olivia Horton
December 21, 2020
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Hao Huynh
March 24, 2016
Thinking of you today, Destry. You've touched so many lives and made this world a better place. Thank you!
Fannie Flowers
January 27, 2011
Deeply sorry for OUR loss. Firemen not only belong to their own private families but they belong to the world because they are so altruistic totally giving of themselves. I have never met a fireman that beat his chest when he rescued someone and said look what I have done. But I have seen them cry as winniers and loser. I have a great love and respect for these people. To the family as you continue to miss and grieve for destry, May the God who supplies endurance and comfort continue to sustain you in your time of need through prayer, friends and the comfort of family.
kody clouse
February 3, 2010
when i heard the news about Destry,i remember crying in the hospital hall way with Justin. I could not believe it. Didnt want to believe it either. I always loved going to youth night at Grand. Destry was always there hanging out with us. I also remember so many nights going to the alter and soon after having destry lean over and start praying with me. Destry was a real man of God. Destry, believe it or not I am married now and have a beautiful little girl! Wish you could meet them, they are amazing. You Truely will be missed.
always,
LCpl Kody Clouse, USMC
Robin Glenn Weber
December 29, 2009
Last night I decided to do a google search on Destry after not finding him after several attempts on facebook. I had been trying to reconnect with old friends from childhood. I was shocked and deeply saddened to hear about Destry's death. Although, I did not know the man he became, I have sweet memories of the boy he was. Destry was my first crush, the first boy I ever went to a movie with, or shared a pizza with at Mazzio's. As I sat here last night with tears streaming down my face, I could remember like yesterday how my heart raced as I sat in a dark movie theater holding his sweaty hand in mine! My heart goes out to Destry's family, wife and children; to all who feel his loss. I hope that you all have found some peace and comfort in each other and the thought that he is watching over you. He was a very lucky man to have each and every one of you in his life and in many ways you still have each other.He lives on through you. Please know, you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Becky Looper
December 2, 2009
I thought about you today, I think it was because when you were my youth pastor you always knew how to get me out of a hole, I miss you and I'm always praying for your wife and girls
Agnes Budai
June 25, 2009
Yesterday I watched a movie about tornados on Discovery Channel, and had a tought. In 2001 I saw another tornado movie on National Geographic, and to my surprise, Destry was interviewed in it. It was such a good thing to see a familiar person thousand of kilometers away from the United States... I tought I would try to find it somehow on the internet, to save it for later. But when I typed in the words Destry Horton, and tornado, Oklahoma, this page popped up. I can not tell you how stunned I was. I can not believe this happened.
During 1998-1999 I lived with the Hortons (Johnny and Tawnya) as an exchange student. Destry was my brother...
Brandy, you were only pregnant with the your first baby girl when I left the states. I will always remember you with love. Let my prayers be with you.
Jeri Thomas
May 13, 2009
Dearest Son,
It has been 3 years since you departed this earth. It has been a struggle without you here. You were a wonderful husband, father, brother, and son and we miss you terribly. The first year without you was the hardest, but the 2nd year wasn't any better, and the 3rd year--well, we just keep praying for the Lord to return soon. There is so much pain on this earth.
You must be singing with the angels. I listen to your music and rejoice in your wonderful voice and the way you would praise Jesus. When I hear "hallelujah" I think of you--you said it often and with such love of our Savior.
Brandy, Kiley and McKenzie are doing well. I often wonder if you are their guardian angel. Those girls are just like you, Destry. They are smart, athletic, talented and good hearted. Brandy is doing an amazing work for God. She's the best mother in the universe, too.
Darin misses you so much. He looked up to his little brother...you were his inspiration spiritually.
You made such an impact on so many lives. I read the tributes to you and am so thankful for the good memories people have of you and the good that you did while you were here. You will never be forgotten, but more importantly, our Father collected you to Himself on the day of your Homecoming. So we will look forward to a wonderful reunion with you someday. I have read much about Heaven since you entered there. An amazing place! And that's what life on this earth is all about--to see Him face to face, and to be forever in His presence. I have learned, Destry, that it isn't about us on this earth, but about glorifying our Heavenly Father in all that we do. I pray I can get better at that before I am called home!
I love you son,
Mom
March 9, 2009
I think about you all the time. There are stickers on vehicles everywhere - honoring you. I miss you and wish I knew you better. Until we meet again, hero!
Forever in our Hearts,
July 3, 2008
Destry,
This will be the last entry in this book that so many people have signed and showed their love to not only you but the girls and I as well.
So many things have happened since your passing but we know there is a "Greater" plan that God has for each of us left here.
Your memory continues to live on and many continue to watch you not only from the Heroic Tornado story or how you survived but you've been on CNN numerous times in Ireland from the play where you went to heaven. It has been such a big witnessing tool to many overseas. A gentleman needed a pair of dress shoes and I knew that you had so many and wouldn't mind giving him a pair of yours. As I watch him praise the Lord and dance before God, you still touch lives because those shoes were anointed shoes by a man who walked the life that God mapped out for him and now a new life walks the "Walk of Faith" in them and he continues to grow stronger in Lord. He wears them proudly and tells many who wore them before he did and says it with such humility and honor.
You will continue to live on in not only our hearts but in the eyes, laughter, and talents of your babies. They both love to sing, play the piano and the guitar...just like you did. They sing to Lord and dance before him here while you sing and dance before him there. I know that you see us because God says in his word of those gathered around the throne that join in worship with us here on earth. We long to see the day where we will stand together and sing with ONE VOICE to the Lord of Lords and King of Kings.
We know the day is coming very quickly when God will tell his son to come get us and we know that day is quickly approaching. We look forward to what God is about to do in our lives because we know that it's far beyond anything we could ask, think, or even begin to imagine!
We love you and are so proud of you, your life, and the legacy that continues to live on and will throughout the days, weeks, and years to come. I am so proud of you and the man that you became and the woman that I became because of you! Thank you for loving me and giving me your name and your children. I love you and will always love you. I will forever be your "Little Angel!"
Joyce Cronk
May 5, 2008
Brandy,
I was just watching the weather channel on the tornado that hit in 1999. I saw your husband and listened to him talk. I noticed him more at first because his name is Destry. My son and grandson are also named Destry, not a very common name. He seemed such a caring, gentle man on screen and his persona seemed to scream HERO. I came in to my computer during a commercial to look up his name, thought I might e-mail him, tell him what an impression he made on me during those few minutes. I was stunned to read that he was gone. My heart goes out to you and your family, to Destry's family and to all those that knew him. You are all in my prayers. God bless and keep you
Jessica Horton
March 24, 2008
Destry,
Two years.... wow. I can't tell you how much I miss you. I am now an EMT, Brandy made fun of me the other day because I was messing with the veins in her feet, something she said you did. I have gone to church with them a few times. I think of you everytime I go because I can picture you up there singing and dancing. I look at pictures of you all the time and it sill seems like yesterday. I remember the good times and I always smile. Its an honor to be your niece. I miss you and love you deeply.
March 3, 2008
Brandy and girls
I am very sorry for your loss. Destry was a very great man and i had the pleasure of working with him on occassion. He was the best medic and firefighter i ever knew what him and his partner did was very brave. Just remember that one day you guys will all see him again. I will never forget how much he has made an impacted my life and my families life. May God be with you and your girls!
Missing you
March 1, 2008
Sweetheart,
Today it's officially 730 days since I heard your voice. I can't believe that it's already been 2 years since the accident. Time has gone by but yet it seems as though the accident was just a few months ago.
With each passing day, I know that I am one day closer to seeing you again. I've often sat and thought about what your doing and who all you've seen and because our time is not Gods time...I've wondered if you've made it to the throne room of God yet! I always thought that we would walk through the gates together but I guess that God has other plans. I wonder what your reaction was when you stepped into GLORY! Oh how I long for that day where we will forever be with the Lord and stand in his presence for eternity!
With each day that passes...my love for you continues to grow and your not even here. I think that it's because my relationship with the Lord has changed and is stronger then it was 2 years ago; and when you love the Lord with everything in you....your love for others just kind of spills out.
As time goes by for the month of March...I remember every detail of every moment...your voice for the last time, the last look you gave me as you stood in the hallway...you turned to look once last time and gave me a smile and a wink. Right down to the very last moment your heart stopped and I lost a part of me that I will never get back. I thank God for the 24 days that I had with you and I am so grateful for the very last conversation I had in the wee hours of Friday morning, the 24th. I was able to say all the things that I needed to and you responded by moving your legs. I remember looking into your eyes and knowing that we were gonna be okay. I miss you sweety and not a minute goes by that I don't think of you and what our life would be like had you not gone home to be with the Lord just yet!
We love you and miss you everyday! I know that one day I will look upon your face again...see your smile, your blue eyes, and your precious laugh!! Until we meet again, I will just say..."See you later!"
loving you forever
February 14, 2008
Honey,
Today is Valentine's Day and it's a bittersweet day for me! We always tried to see who come up w/the best idea for today and I miss that. I am keeping myself busy w/the girls parties but just a little down. I just wish you knew how much we missed you! You are never far from my mind...I love you so much!
Today....My Valentine may be far away, but God is always with me....Matt. 28:20
I have this promise and I will hold onto that and I know that with each passing day...it's just one more day closer to our reunion in heaven! I love you Destry...your amazing man of God, wonderful father, and truly indescribable Husband!
Jas
January 9, 2008
The countdown to Destry continues.....Well the last time I signed this guestbook was about a year ago so we're 1 year closer to seeing destry again.......
Jay Hamstead
November 28, 2007
Well Des,
To this day, I just dont get it, Why would God take a man like you from a world that needed you. Growing up with you was a privelege that I only recently recognized. You were the most consistent, genuine true friend, that I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. You had a true, real focus on what was really important in life, and never strayed. You made a mark on the world, long before your passing. And in your passing, the difference you made will only grow larger. There was probably a 10 year gap in the last time I saw you, to the previous time, and at the gas pumps at Hop and Sack, you came over to me, gave me a hug and asked me how my life was. Our conversation was short, but I thought we had got caught up pretty current. But little did I know the extent of the difference you had made in this community. Just like you though Des, humble, dont need no credit, you were fulfilled in the action, not the accolades. I hope to see you in heaven some day, and maybe play that round of golf we were supposed to go play. Until then, I will always keep you in my thoughts and I will always keep Brandy and the girls in my prayers, and offer my support to them in anway I can, anytime. Some day your story will be told my friend, the way you left may be the headline, the way you lived will make a difference.
Kiesha Baggett
October 27, 2007
I only met destry a few times, and those few times were enough to know that he was a very special man. My husband graduated with destry from rush springs, and he has told me a number of stories about how caring and courageous he was. I want you to know you are all still in my prayers, and we love you!
Your loving Wife & precious babies
March 30, 2007
Honey,
Today is the day I layed your precious body to rest. I can't believe that it has already been a year since my life was forever changed. I have often wondered what you were doing in heaven, who all you've seen, and how it feels to be in the presence of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Not a day goes by that we don't think of you. You're constantly in my thoughts and yes, even in my prayers. You would be so very proud of your babies; they are getting so big. Each and everyday, I see more of you in them. They speak of you, what seems like, every second, of every day. I would hope that you would be proud of me and the job of trying to be their mother and now their father. I am constantly reminding them of things you did for them and the great love that you had and still have for them.
I know many people can't understand why this happpened and the purpose God brought about. But this I can tell you, if for no one else, you have made me a better christian and I strive to be the very best that I can be each and everyday. I am raising our daughters to do and be the same.
We love you and long to see you soon! Please know that I love you with everything that's in me!! I am forever yours!! We know God has a plan!
Brent Bailey
February 25, 2007
Well Destry you will never know the impact you made on my life. You are a person I looked up too. When we were at rookie school man me and you connected like brothers. And about the time you passed away I was haveing shoulder surgery and couldn't make it to you funeral. I still have some pictures of you and you daughters in the the swimming pool I would like to give you. I love your family like it was my own. I love you brother and look foward to seeing you in heaven. For some reason I cry just about every night for the loss of you . But heaven gained one heck of a man. Brother there is not a day I go by without thinking of you..I went to see the memorial and it was more than I could handle. Brother I miss you just like a family member. But I know you are in a wonderful place singing praises wifh our father. Just wait for me and my entire family to meet you at the gates. My how I long for those days.
Your Loving Brother,
AFD 736
Brent Bailey
Johnny Davidson
January 7, 2007
John 15:13 "Greater love hath no man than this,that a man lay down his life for his friends." KJV
These are pretty powerful words to anyone who reads them. They are even more powerful to those who live by them. Destry was a father,a husband,a brother,a son,a firefighter and one of my dearest friends.To be blessed with that many titles in life is a gift. To know how to jungle them in all the right ways is a tremendous task on it's own.However Destry could handle it even if it meant having only mere seconds between one title and the next. To everyone that knows Destry you can understand what a blessing he was to be around.To the countless lives of individuals that Destry touched you know what it's like to be blessed by an Angel. To the many of folks who did not know him all I can say is 'you missed out". You missed out on that goofy laugh he had, watching him jump sky high when you goosed him, and knowing when you seen him what the word "Friend" really meant.
The above Bible verse is one that many Firefighters can relate too. Firefighters are usaully only talked about when we have a highway shut down, asking for a pay raise,or responding to your home and then we didn't get there fast enough! See to be a firefighter is not something you do, it's something you are. Destry not only saved lives as a firefighter, he also saved them with his awesome ability and love for Jesus Christ. I personally feel that he has saved more lives than he knows about and in more ways than he could have possibly believed. He helped me re-ignite my love and belief in Jesus Christ. If I have learned anything from him over these past months it is this."Love the Lord like your going to meet him tommorrow,Love your family like you'll never see them again". And if you don't know Jesus personally take the time to asked Him into your heart!
Do I miss my friend, very much! However each time I grab the handle on the side of that firetruck and pull myself up inside I know he is there with me. Everyone will carry a special memory with them about Destry for ever. As long as those memories are in our hearts Destry will be there too.
Brandy Horton
December 4, 2006
I had the honor and privelage of being Destry's wife. I loved Destry since I was 6 years old. He was and still is an amazing man of God, husband, and father. I see him in everything that our two precious daughters do. When they laugh, run, and even when they cry. I am so thankful that I was able to have a piece of him that I will be able to keep, raise, and watch them grow into strong women of God that Destry can and is proud of.
For those of you who don't know him, you missed out on a true gift from God. His smile and laugh could light up a room. Destry and I never had a fight during our entire marriage....just a few disagreements here and there...mostly on my part, but he would just stand there and laugh at me. He would laugh at me until I started laughing myself then the arguement was over.
In times like these, it has made me realize what is most important in life. I hug my girls a little longer and cherish bedtime stories and prayers so much more. I make sure that they know their daddy and mommy love them very much. I hang onto the memories of Destry and the little things that he did for me and I am sooooooo thankful and proud to be his wife. The simple things of just holding his hand and listening to him breath next to me on the couch are things I miss everyday, or when he carried our children to bed and laid across them and said a prayer over them while they slept. When I think of him, it's bittersweet....for he is where we all want to be.
Destry's cry was for souls to be saved, because he knew all sinners are saved by grace. The grace that only comes from our Lord and Savior. I hope that in some way his life has changed you and made you a better person and hopefully made you think of where you will spend eternity. Destry always said, "if one soul is saved from my life, it's worth all the pain I go through for Christ. It's the least I can do, for what he did for me!"
No one can and will ever take Destry's place in my heart. Only God fills the void with his love and my children take up the rest. I thank God for Destry and the life that he lived and still lives, for he made me a better Christian, wife and mother.
I can never thank all of you for all you have done for my girls and I. "Thanks You" sounds to cheesy but it's all I can say. Through your love and words, it gives me strength to know that there are soooo many of you praying for us. Please continue to keep us in your thoughts and prayers everyday....God is helping us and I know that he hears your prayers, for we are making it everyday. I will pray that the Lord will bless you and your families 100 fold as you have blessed us. God bless you and thank you again from the bottom of our hearts.
We love you,
The Horton Girls
BRYAN ROLIN
November 26, 2006
I believe a man is very lucky if he gets the chance to know someone like Destry Horton.This world is filled with evil, pain and despair.
People like Destry are the ray's of light to us all.I was blessed to get to know Destry very well when I was younger.I went to high school and then college with Destry.He was one of the best friends that I've ever had.I wish that I could say that we had remained close over the years, but we didn't.I really only saw him at the watermelon festival.He was always at the ambulance and he always had a hug and a smile waiting for me.When I heard about Destry's accident I sat down and wrote a few words.Those words soon turned into a song.These words will never do him justice,but I'd like to share them.I couldn't decide on one title so I gave it two.I call it "THE HERO"(DESTRY'S SONG)
Destry was and will always be my hero, not for how he died, but for how he lived.
"THE HERO"(DESTRY'S SONG)
THE CALL CAME OUT OF NOWHERE
AND IT BROUGHT ME TO MY KNEES
THERE'S NOT MUCH A MAN CAN SAY
IN TIME'S LIKE THESE
THEY SAY IT'S ALMOST OVER
THEY SAY IT'S OUT OF THEIR HANDS
AND WHY THIS HAD TO HAPPEN
IS SO HARD TO UNDERSTAND
BUT SOME QUESTIONS DON'T HAVE ANSWERS
SOME THINGS WE'LL NEVER KNOW
QUESTIONS OF THE HEART
MATTERS OF THE SOUL
IN A WORLD FILLED WITH PEOPLE
WHO TURN AND WALK AWAY
IN THE MOMENT OF TRUTH
THE HERO, HE REMAINS
NOW THEY GATHER AT HIS BEDSIDE
AND IN THE ROOM JUST DOWN THE HALL
WAITING ON THE NEWS
OH ANY NEWS AT ALL
THE BOW THEIR HEADS IN PRAYER
THERE'S NOTHING ELSE TO DO
BUT TO PRAY TO THE LORD
OH GOD PLEASE SEE HIM THROUGH
BUT SOME QUESTIONS DON'T HAVE ANSWERS
SOME THINGS WE'LL NEVER KNOW
QUESTIONS OF THE HEART
MATTERS OF THE SOUL
IN A ROOM FULL OF PEOPLE
WHO DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY
IN THE MOMENT OF DOUBT
THE HERO, HE REMAINS
HEAVEN WAS CALLING
OUR HERO HAS FALLEN
AND THE DAY HAS COME
TO SAY GOODBYE
BUT EVEN AS WE WATCH HIM
AS WE WATCH HIM FLY AWAY
FOREVER IN OUR HEART'S
THE HERO, HE REMAINS
ALWAYS
shelby horton
November 23, 2006
destry was my uncle. he was a wonderful person. i want to thank everyone who's came to the site and wished my family well, and for all those whove prayed for us. we will keep you in our hearts always.
Steve Horton
November 22, 2006
I'll miss you buddy and my heart goes out to your wife and children!
I have known Destry for almost 20 years and he will be sorely missed indeed.
Rest Well my good friend.
Jas Trent
November 13, 2006
JDH
Not a day goes by and don't think about you in some way......
JT
Marrisa Honeycheck
October 20, 2006
I don't know the Horton family, but something told me to look for the Prayer Pagers website tonight..I had seen it a year or two ago, and felt called to look it up again tonight. On that page, I saw the request for prayers for Destry. There was a link for updates on him, so I followed it...hoping to read about his recovery. My heart fell when I learned what happened. My prayers go out to the friends and family of Destry Horton - even though I have never met any of you. Based on what I have read, Destry was (and will always be) loved. He sounds like a wonderful man, and I hope his memory lives on with all who knew him.
Denise Kemp (Rush Springs, OK)
September 29, 2006
I knew Destry when he and Darin were little guys living with their dad in the white house on Hwy 81 just north of Rush Springs. I even baby-sat for them a couple of times. Destry's uncle, Justin Jones, was my very good friend and fellow student at RSHS when we graduated in 1978. Justin was always proud of his nephews.
My heart hopes you are healing as time has gone by. The healing never ends but does get better with time. I do know personally, as I lost my mom in a firey car crash on Hwy 81 just south of Chickasha on a cold winter day in 1982. I hope time is being kind to all of Destry's family and that your hearts are lightening with each passing day.
Continued prayers and Godspeed to all.
Tiffany Westhoff
August 8, 2006
I am sooo sorry to hear about your loss. It sounds like your husband was a great man and was respected by everyone that came in contact with him. My husband is a fireman and it terrifies me to let him go out on calls for this very reason. Now I see how much it can impact a persons life though. Your husband was a true hero. This has helped a great deal with my worries in some strange way. I want you to know that my prayers are with you and your girls. I also want you to know that YOU personally are an inspiration to me. I strayed away from the God when my church was closed down. I am going to start going back to church. It's hard to believe how God keeps us strong in trials like yours. God Bless, Keep the faith.
Michael Clark
August 7, 2006
to the Horton famley. im sorry to hear your loss even though i didnt know him i know what your going through and if their is anything you or u famley need you all can just let me know and me and my fd will do any thing we can for you you all are in my prays
the MOUNT OLIVE FIRE AND RESCUE DEPT.
Laurie Smith
August 6, 2006
I am one of the medics that took care of Destry immediately following the incident. After meeting Destry on March 1, I can tell you that Destry was an inspiring person. The care he had for his family that day can never be truly explained. His love for his wife and daughters was what kept him going. He was so worried about them. My partner and I can never tell you how sorry we are for your loss. If you ever have any questions for us, please contact us through AMR Duncan. We will never forget Destry. Stephens County will never forget Destry.
Kim Melancon
August 5, 2006
My husband has been with the fire dept for 27 years. It has become his life and it has become his pride. When we first got married. His job was his first love and then I gradually became his first love. I came from a family of 3 kids, upon my marriage I became a part of a family that were in to the millions,just as you had became part of that family. Remember your firefighting family doesn't just stop at the dept your husband works for but it is over reaching to across the country, as you can see from our post. My husband, myself and my family extends you the deepest sympathy and sorrow for your lost. Don't forget as a member of our family, if you ever needed anything all you have to do is ask us and we shall see what we can do. *hugs*
Steve Desrochers
August 5, 2006
To the Horton family, i would like to offer my condolences to you regarding the loss of Destry. I haven't gotten a chance to see the special on tv but im sure, judging by all the responses, he was a great man, again im sorry for your loss and may God be wuth you.
Warren Kelly Chief - Black River Rural Fire Brigade
August 5, 2006
As a volunteer rural firefighter of 25 years I count myself thankful that I have never been burned on the fireground. This is a very sad occasion and it is with the deepest of sorrow that I offer the family and friends of Destry the condolences of not only myself and family, but that too of the Black River Rural Fire Brigade located in the tropical north of Australia.
May you rest in peace in the arms of St Florian on this, your greatest journey.
John
August 5, 2006
Being A volunterr FF myself in Oklahoma
I had heard a Great deal about him after
the incident Unfortunatly ,He was by every standard a Great and Upstanding man ,I am amazed reading through these He was a Prof FF ,Volunteer ff ,Sports Umpire ,And evidently Heavily involved in Church
and Known Nationwide What a Amazing Legacy! I am very sorry for your loss And our Loss as a State of this wonderful selfless man! I wish you Your family,And his Freinds and fellow firefighters Godspeed,We look to be moving back into the fires again even earlier this year us Firefighters (I am sure I speak for us all) While looking into the mouth of the monster again this year will hopefully have his courage and his spirit to look over us.. Once again I mourn for your loss.
todd smith
August 2, 2006
i miss you every day buddy and this place isn't the same without you around.
Kim Rolin Holding
July 20, 2006
Brandy – I think about you often and have called a few times to check on you and the girls. Keep staying busy and I’ll get you when the time is right.
Since the accident, I have told countless people – strangers, friends, family members and co-workers – that YOU are the strongest woman I have ever had the pleasure knowing. I hurts me to the core that our (firefighter’s wives) worst dream has become a reality for you.
I wrote you a card – that was not sent via mail – the week of Destry’s funeral. I just want you to know that I feel a strong bond between the two of us, I think because of our husbands. Spending summers in Rush Springs and just knowing Destry as we grew up, he and Stuart have much of the very same “kid-in-a-candy-store” enthusiasm for their jobs. And I’m glad Stu had the pleasure of meeting Destry and encouraging him in the fire service.
Destry’s life and your life continue to be shining examples of what we all should follow. Your passion for each other, your daughters and OUR LORD are POWERFUL. I told you in the hospital and at the gravesite that I wanted to be more like YOU. Destry is looking down more proud than ever before. Keep that strong-hold on Destry’s memory and spirit, the Lord and your girls.
Even in your time of struggle, you must know that YOU have ministered to so many. Please let me be of service to you – whatever you need.
Your friend,
Monique Pappas
July 18, 2006
We were shocked to see the "Memoriam to Mr. Horton" this week on storm stories. Our deepest sympathies for his family and children. May they know that his heroic deeds and service to others has not been forgotten. God be with you during this time of sadness.
Michael Garrett
July 18, 2006
I saw 'Storm Stories' episode about the tornadoes in Oklahoma in 1999, & Destry's part in the story about the Father,& his daughter who thought they had lost the daughters's baby in the storm.
Destry seemed to be such a caring person. Our world suffers with the loss of such a person as he.
May God give you(Mrs. Horton & children) the strength and understanding to be able to survive the loss of your husband, and father. May God give you enough insight to maintain your faith in life everlasting, & in the comforting thought & belief that you will meet Destry again one day.
Eileen Maggio
July 17, 2006
Dear Horton family, my condolences to you all on the loss of Destry. I just saw the Weather Channel episode about Battle Creek and it showed what a wonderful, caring person he was and how he could put other people's safety before his own. May God bless you in your time of sorrow.
Jody Ashcroft
July 17, 2006
I was very shocked to see the memoriam for Destry Horton after the Storm Stories clip. I too ran to my computer and read the news stories and blogs people had written. I am so sorry for your loss. He seemed a very dedicated father and husband. God Bless You.
Michelle Pruett
May 8, 2006
I don't know really where to start. Destry and I were very close friends for several years. I met him while he was working in Farmington NM and we stayed in contact while we were both living in Tx. I was in Abilene and he was in Dallas. I was watching storm stories the other night with my mom, and was so excited to see his face. It has been a few years since we last saw each other and I am so sadden by this. He was such a fun and loving person and his spirit could out shine and fill a room anywhere. I want to tell his family how they are all in my prayers and in my thoughts. God and heaven are only so lucky to have him there with them. I will always hold him close to my heart, and he will always be one of my dearest friends. God Bless, Michelle Pruett (Texas Girl).
Michelle Forbes
May 7, 2006
Dear Horton Family,
I had just finished watching Storm Stories and saw it was dedicated in the memory of Destry. So I looked it up on the internet. I was very touched by your story because I myself am married to a firefighter from Springfield, Illinois and we have three children. I am sure that it is hard to find comfort in anything anyone says right now but know that people all over are praying for your healing and peace of mind and the Lord will be with you every step of the way. One of my inspirational calendar pages says "Even when the anwers don't come, if we can vent our grief, healing oozes almost unnoticed into our lives." - I will never leave you nor forsake you. Joshua 1:5
God Bless, Michelle Forbes, New Berlin, Illinois
Lisa Pinks
May 6, 2006
Unfortunately I have only had the chance to see Destry on television during the tornado broadcast. His efforts touched me and I couldn't believe it when after the program there was a memorandum about him. I jumped online hoping to find something such as this. I am so incredibly sorry for Destry's family and wish them the best during this horrible time. Destry sure sounds like an American Hero and I know you are all very proud. God bless you all...
Brooks Garland
May 6, 2006
I just finished watching Storm Stories on the Weather Channel about a tornado which occurred in Okla. Destry Horton was interviewed. The end of the program showed it to be dedicated to the memory of Destry Horton but gave no details. A check of the Internet revealed that Mr. Horton had died while fighting a wildfire as a volunteer firefighter.
I did not know Mr. Horton but felt very moved by his death under the circumstances.
I simply want his family to know that another stranger has been touched by his ultimate sacrifice. My prayers are with you all. God is with you always.
Sharon and Frank Rogers
May 6, 2006
I would like to express to the family my deepest sympathies, but know that he is in God's gracious grace now as he layed down his life for a friend, and no greater love is there than that. My fiancee and I saw him on the weather channel story concerning the F*5 tornado that hit Bridge Creek, and how his concern for the family getting medical help was shown. Then to our suprise we saw the dedication to his life was shown for that story, so I knew he had died for his fellow man I just knew it. I am so sorry for your loss, but know that he will look over you and help you and wants you to be happy and live again :):)
Sharon Turner and Frank Rogers
Aunt Ann and Uncle Stan Pittman
April 16, 2006
Brandy, Brandy, Brandy......I just do not know what to say.......I have read alllll of these wonderful things that people have written and cried over everyone of them and they have said it all....I will truly miss the excitement that I could always see in Destry's eyes when he would talk about things....he was so full of energy about everything.....I know someday God and time will heal your broken heart......it will take time for us all.....I know the first year is the hardest cause you are always thinking.....this is the first whatever without Destry.....I did this with my mom, dads, grandparents so I know from experience that after that first year the healing really begins......so hang in there and trust God to help you thru that healing time.....and in years to come you will find happiness again and things will be GREAT when we all get to Heaven to see Destry again.......you know where we are if you ever need us....just come or call........your Aunt Ann and Uncle Stan
Cody Gregory
April 16, 2006
Brandy and girls,
My deepest sympathy goes out to you in these hard days, keep God first and hold on to the memories.
Connie Morris
April 14, 2006
To The Girls, I will keep you and your Mother in my Prayers Daily,
Wayland, Kathy, Nathaniel, & Kaitlin Brown
April 13, 2006
Destry Horton Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with all your family. While it is so true that all volunteers are caring and selfless, we believe it is especially so for volunteer firefighters. The time they sacrifice, the physical and mental hardships they endure, are oftentimes much greater than is realized. They do what they do purely out of love and concern for everyone in the community. Like so many full-time firefighters, Destry dealt with the dangers and stresses of firefighting on a daily basis and still volunteered his off-duty time to protect property and lives. This is truly an amazing example of service to and concern for our community. Destry has made the ultimate sacrifice to protect all of us and is a true hero, just as he was each and every time he responded to our requests for help. Thank you and your family for sharing such a person with us all. All of you will always be in our thoughts and prayers, each and every day. God bless you.
Tammy Pittman-Henry
April 7, 2006
Brandy:
I am so glad that Destry was apart of our family. I know that Roger and I didn't get to spend much time with Destry but the times we shared over the holidays and at the singings were memorable. You have been a blessing to me watching you grow mature in every aspect especially spiritually. I admire your strength and your faith through all of this. I am proud, just like you to have the family that we have. I will miss Destry but we have the faith to know that one day we will some him again made whole and new. I love you and the girls and will always be here for all of you. You will have your good and bad days but always remember you have lots of support from your family and friends.
Destry even in his death is still ministering to people. His life has forever changed other's lives. Roger and I love you and the girls and pray for you daily.
With lots of love
Your cousin
Tammy
Christina Butler
April 7, 2006
Brandy and Family.
I would like you to know that I am still praying for your family. Even though I never knew Deatery,I belive he was a true man of GOD, and a true Hero.
Hannah McKenna
April 6, 2006
"Greater love hath no man than to lay down his life for another."
Chad, Melody, (Adamson) Caleigh, Caleb, and Madison Smith
April 5, 2006
Brandy,
You and Destry changed my life. It is funny when we are growing up and we know so many people we go to school and church with and we probably never think about how our lives or theirs will be in years to come. I know I never did. I went to church with you since you were a baby. I watched you grow up but I was so much older so I was gone from Rush Springs before your life really began. Kathy always kept me up to date about everyone. I moved back last fall and I was thrilled that you were helping teach Caleb. He really loves you. He has missed you so. All the kids have. You are such a blessing as a teacher to any parent.
When Destry had his accident I was not in church at all. I was not living for the Lord at all. I went to church that following Sunday after hearing about you and your family's faith. I rededicated my life to the Lord and I will never fail him again. We can be raised in church and still go astray. I am proof of that. I was so proud of you for your display of faith at the ceremony. I wish I had the faith you and your family portrayed that day. You are a blessing to many. Destry was a blessing to many people. I know he made a real difference in many peoples lives. He was a hero not only as a fireman but as a "Man of God" as well. We are praying for you and the girls and both families.
Tonya Davis
April 5, 2006
My 8 year old daughter made a card for Mr. Horton three days before he passed away. I would like to share her words: "Dear Mr. Horton,
Thank you for risking your life fighting fires for me and other people everywhere. I'm so sorry you are hurt. We will pray for you every night. And even though I've never met you, I love you so much. Thank you for saving our house. You are my Hero! Your friend, Lilly Davis on Fuller Road, Empire"
Jeri Thomas
April 4, 2006
Destry was our wonderful son, and we are so grateful for all the support and prayers for his family, especially his wife Brandy, and children Kiley and McKenzie, and his brother Darin. Destry was a blessing to all who knew him, passionate about serving others, generous, gifted with a beautiful voice, and loved the Lord with all his heart. He exemplified the 'fruit of the Spirit'-Galatians 5:22-23, "love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control." I thank my Lord and Savior for the time he let us have Destry. What a privilege! What a son, brother, father, husband, uncle, cousin, friend, and above all, a man who loved God and served Him with gladness!! Your mother who loves you so much,
Ron, Jill, Taylor & Logan Lyon
April 4, 2006
Brandy, You know my true feelings for Destry. He was a wonderful person and was a gift to each & everyone one in my family. May God bless you & heal your heart. We love you!!!
Rob Crow
April 3, 2006
God Bless you and the lives you touched. May god be with you and your family during this time of need. Let the Firefighter Brotherhood live forever...
Sue McConnell
April 3, 2006
To the Family: My son is a diabetic and I remember Destry Horton coming with the fireman when we had an emergency. We haven't lived in Chickasha very long when we first met this kind man. He was the first one who felt my son had pneumonia. He saved many lives and my son was one of them. My youngest son and I remember how very nice he was to us and very VERY kind to my son who was ill. He had so much kindness in his eyes and so much GOD in him and Patience. I know first hand how wonderful this man was even under stress and dealing with Emergencies. I am so thankful Mr. John Destry Horton crossed our path, how wonderful he was. I promise as soon as we can, we will be sending the Fire Chief, an undisclosed amount of money to start or help with a MEMORIAL to Destry. He is watching out for his fellow brothers/fireman and his family. You all have a wonderful Guardian Angel on your shoulders.
Christopher adamson
April 3, 2006
Brandi,
I just wanted to let you no that i am prayin for you. Destery was such a great friend. He always talked to me about bein a fireman. and he always said I had a callin on my life to helo people. I will miss him so much. stay strong and no that i love you and the girls. Destrey was just like one of my brothers. He was always there if i needed someone to talk to him. He was a man of god and i respect him so much for that
Crystal Kizarr
April 2, 2006
Brandi,
I want to extend my deepest sympathy for you and your family. I only knew Destry and you in passing, but both of you are hereos to me. Destry simply for who he was and perfoming his job to the fullest and you Brandi for the amount of courage and strength you have shown during this sad time. From one fireman's wife to another, I am truly sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers always.
Connie Rose
April 2, 2006
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Keep your faith in god and he will lead you through this very difficult time.
Sue Summers
April 1, 2006
My heart goes out to your family. May God give you strength and peace in this time of grief. Destry was a brave man and an example for us all in his service to his community.
Matthew Adamson
April 1, 2006
Brandy- I dont even know where to start.I remember when Destry first became a fireman...i was still little and i remember growing up watching him become one of the best firemen i have ever seen. It hurt so much for me to be stuck over here and not there. I looked up to Destry so much,an excellent father,fireman,and man of God! I dont have enough room to write in here what i feel about Destry and the ways he touched my life! Know that we love you and your family and that all of us are praying for you guys from Iraq!!!
shawna voorhees (hitt)
April 1, 2006
my deepest sympathy goes out to you and yours
Kathy Adamson
April 1, 2006
Brandy, I wanted to take the opportunity to tell you that I am thankful for the time that I have known you and Destry. My life has been richer for the testimony Destry lived every day. I remember the first time he got up and sang Thank You for Giving to the Lord and how blessed I was. He had a calling and wasn't afraid to step out and use that calling for the glory of God. He's touched my life and I can't begin to tell you how he's touched the lives of my boys. Ricky was so proud to give him is first job on the fire department and always says what an awesome fireman he was. Take care and know that we pray for you and the girls daily. We love you and was touched by your love for Destry and your words of love for him at the ceremony. It took great courage to stand on faith for his miracle, but know always he has his miracle...he has a glorified body. We love you and the girls...Rick and Kathy
terry green
April 1, 2006
god bless you and your children and your husband who gave his life for others.you will all be in our prayers.
Wickie and Peggy Riley
April 1, 2006
Brandy and girls, So very sorry for your loss. I know you will miss Destry terribly. Your faith in God will see you through. Peggy
LaDonna Hinch
April 1, 2006
My sympathy and prayers are with the family of Destry Horton. On reading the wonderful things written about him here, I remember an old Cherokee proverb: "When you are born, you cry and the world rejoices. Live your life so when you die, the world will cry and you will rejoice". It seems to me this young man has lived his life in this way. I am believer that one is never completely gone until they are forgotten. There are so many who loved and respected Destry, he will be "with us" for a long, long time. My sincere condolences to Brandy and the girls and with Destry's Mother, Jeri, and the rest of the family.
mike weixel
April 1, 2006
Brandy, you and your family are in our prayers. Be strong and rely on the Lord for your strength.
shawn altebaumer
March 31, 2006
As public servants we place our lives on the line on a continual basis. Unfortunately we do not always feel like we are appreciated for the job we do. In our line of work we rely on self gratification and praise from our peers, to be assured of a job well done. You died in the line of duty protecting others and answering the call for help of total strangers. Be rest assured that my fellow brother is seated next to the right hand of the lord for the commitment he made to helping others in need, which to the lord was very much appreciated.
Tim Whaley
March 31, 2006
My deepest sympathy goes out to all the Family and Friends of John Destry Horton! I met Destry five years ago when we started officiating basketball together, but our relationship transcended as we shared many intimate conversations about our past, present and future! Indeed he was heroic and courageous but above all he was loving and compassionate. He spoke often of his family and friends and never ever failed to tell Brandy that he loved her when they spoke on the phone. Destry always saw the best in people and was eternally optimistic. For those of you that did not know him you missed an opportunity to meet an incredible man. And for those of you that did, we were truly blessed!
Destry~
I was looking at our past BB schedule from November through February and I counted 27 missed opportunities to tell you how I felt about you and our relationship. I know you heard me as I stood by your bedside, but just in case….. I Love You and I am proud that you are my friend. I will do my best to see you again, so keep your whistle wet and we will call that State Championship one day, just like we always dreamed!
Your Partner, Friend and Brother in Christ!
Chad Murray
March 31, 2006
God bless you. My thoughts and prayers will be with you in your time of loss.
Teresa Nabors
March 31, 2006
Brandy, I am so very sorry for your lost. May God bless you and your girls. My son, Brad Maples worked with Destry at the Chickasha Fire Department. I am thankful for the short time that God allowed him to be a part of his life.Destry touched my son's heart, as he did everyone's. My son is a richer man today for just knowing Destry. May you find peace.
JIM WYNN
March 31, 2006
DESTRY AND YOUR FAMILY HAVE BEEN IN MY PRAYERS SINCE 3-7-06. THAT IS WHEN I RECEIVED A PRAYER REQUEST FROM MY FRIEND RANDY STEVENS.
AS A FRIEND OF RANDY’S AND A RETIRED VOLUNTEER FF MYSELF, I OFFER MY DEEPEST AND SINCERE SYMPATHY.
YOUR FAMILY CONTINUES TO BE IN MY PRAYERS.
Kristy Fink-Moses
March 31, 2006
I knew Destry when he lived in Norman with his mother Jerri. We were in 5th grade. When I would walk to school, Jerri and Destry would pick me up and let me ride in their car. Destry was an exceptionally nice boy. Never once when I was growing up did I ever have one bad thought about Destry. He always took his time to say hello to me when we would see each other. In the summertime when he was visiting Rush Springs, Jerri let my brother and I jump on his trampolene. It is an honor to have known Destry even though it was so long ago when we were kids. I am so sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
Kristy Fink-Moses
former neighbor and childhood friend.
Blanchard, Ok
Jared Bratcher
March 31, 2006
You are in are thoughts and prayers
(The Bratcher's)
B G
March 31, 2006
Mrs. Horton:
I will pray for you and your children every day for God to give you strength during this difficult time. I know that Destry is in heaven watching over all of the people he loved and touched during his life. I never met him but I know that I feel safer because there is another angel in heaven and someday I can thank him for all he has done. God bless you and your children.
Lorry Arbuckle
March 31, 2006
Remember to lean on God in this time. May he bless and comfort you in your time of sorrow.
Kristy & Bob Lindstrom
March 31, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers to you and your family. My husband, Bob Lindstrom is the Fire Chief at Will Rogers World Airport and he was at the funeral Thursday. His Assistant Chief was also there. He was so saddened to hear of a fellow fire fighter's death but yet we know how strong Destry's Faith was in God and are celebrating his new life in Heaven where there is no pain or suffering. God has chosen to bring him home. We know that as strong as your Faith is He will see you through. Our love to you and your family.
Brenda Prather
March 31, 2006
Brandy,I cannot begin to say in words how sorry I am for you and your precious girls about Destry's going home to be with our Lord, but in the same breath I also know he is worshiping at His feet, dancing and making Him laugh as he did so many of us here on Earth.
Brandy, you have been an inspiration to me with your strength and courage through all of this. You have let your faith and love for God show through. I hope you continue to allow God to "carry" you thru until your heart is completely healed. Please remember you are and always will be a part of our Chickasha Firefighter Family. We love you, Brenda and Richard Prather.
LISA BICKEL
March 31, 2006
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Mary B.
March 31, 2006
Dear Loved Ones of Destry: At Times Like These We Need a Savior, and comfort is hard to find. An obviously vibrant life is gone away but the vibrant spirit is still with us and will remain always and forever. I prayed so hard for Destry to be healed totally. I never met him but wish I could have. My love and prayers are with all of you, always. Mary B. Vancouver, WA
Eric, Lori & Caleb Long
March 31, 2006
Dear Brandy, daughters and family, You and your family have been in our hearts and prayers since the day of the wildfire. We will continue to keep you in our hearts and prayers. We did not know Destry personally, but got to know him through my sister and brother in law (Dave & Tina Wright). What a Godly man he was to those who knew him. Oklahoma has been blessed to have had such a man, as Destry, to protect our state by his heroic act of giving the ultimate (his life) to save the lives of others. Destry will always be remembered as a hero and will not be forgotten. May God Bless you Brandy and your family in the days to come and give you comfort and peace.
Philipians 4:7,
In Him,
Shena and Joe Layn
March 31, 2006
Our prayers are with you and the families. We lived in Marlow several years ago and had the privilege of knowing the Horton family and other relatives. We are so thankful for Destry's Christian testimony and his heart for others. God Bless You All, With God's Love and prayers, Shena and Joe Layn
Linda
March 31, 2006
Thank God for men like Destry Horton. They make this world a better place to live in.
God Bless
SONYA POSEY
March 31, 2006
God Bless your family and our prayers are with you.Thank you for all that you have done for this profession and your girls will always know their daddy was a hero!!!
Luke Gregory
March 31, 2006
I am truly sorry for your loss. You and your family will continue to be in my families prayers. May God Bless you and hold you and your girls tight.
Gary & Suzanne Russell
March 31, 2006
In the Bible it says that we have a great crowd of witnesses, looking down on us. I believe that they are the ones that have gone on before us and that they are cheering us on until it's our time to come too, if we know the Lord. I think Destry will join those who cheer us on now. He just seems to be that kind of person. Our prayers are with you and your family and we know from experience that you can make it, even through the darkest days, if you ask God for help. I know that you have and that you will continue. Rest assured that many people's prayers will be there for you. We are so sorry that it turned out this way, but there is victory in the future.
Christopher Miano
March 31, 2006
God bless your family in your loss.
Tecumseh Fire Department
March 31, 2006
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Travis & Jackie Harris
March 31, 2006
Brandy and girls: We had the privilege of meeting you at Lake Texoma last year when you were visiting Justin and Kara. I thought then what a nice family and such lovely girls. When we heard of the accident our prayers and thoughts were immediately with you as they are today. Justin's grandmother who is 94 years old could only talk about how nice Destry was and that he would come over early in the morning and drink coffee with her on the porch while everyone else slept. He touched lives in every way that you may never know but God has truly welcomed a WONDERFUL MAN AND HERO into Heaven's gates. May God Bless you during this time and give you comfort.
Louis Family
March 31, 2006
We are sincerely sorry for the passing of Mr. Horton. May God Bless all of you in this difficult time. Now Mr. Horton's soul is free, and he is basking in the warmth and love of our GOD ALMIGHTY! Our love, support and prayers are with you.
ALVIN AND GAYLE BROWN
March 31, 2006
OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. HOLD STEADY AND BE STRONG AND LET GOD LEAD YOU TO HIS QUIET PLACE. MAY YOUR PRIDE OVERCOME ANY SORROW. DESTRY IS WITH HIS LORD AND GODS GARDEN HAS GAINED ANOTHER BEAUTIFUL FLOWER. MAY GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU
james garland casey
March 31, 2006
my thoughts are with the family of one of the finest oklahomans the state ever produced. god bless
Vown & Daphyna Epperson
March 31, 2006
Though we did not know Mr. Horton, we have known other firefighters during our lives. We honor and want to give Mrs. Horton our deepest respect for her family's lose. All firefighters, knowingly, will give their life in order to protect our lives and belongings. May God easy your grief and bless you.
Our thought and prayers.
Sincerely,
The Eppersons
Fonda and Kim Smith
March 31, 2006
Thank you for allowing your husband to protect other's families. Duncan will FOREVER be grateful for the sacrifices that were made that dreary day. We are so very sorry for your lose, and Destry will always be remembered as a hero for Stephens county. May the good Lord be with you and your children.
T Dorl
March 31, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless.
Jackie Caldwell
March 31, 2006
Mr Horton is a true hero in every sense of the word. My prayers to his wife and daughters and his extended family including his fellow firefighters. Remember his spirit, and all the good memories and just know you will see him again.
michael and becky elrod
March 31, 2006
BRANDY,
WE JUST WANTED TO LET YOUR FAMILY KNOW THAT YOU ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. I KNOW THAT GOD WILL GIVE YOU SUPERNATURAL STRENGTH TO MAKE IT THROUGH THIS TERRIBLE TRAGEDY. I CAN GUARANTEE THAT DESTRY IS SMILING DOWN ON YOU AND YOUR GIRLS. MAY THE COMFORT AND BLESSING OF THE LORD BE UPON YOU. HE IS STILL A FIREFIGHTER THAT IS HELPING THE LORD OUT IN MANY WAYS. TAKE CARE AND GOD BLESS.
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