Rex Schad Obituary

Army soldier Rex Schad of Edmond was killed Monday in Afghanistan.

Published by Oklahoman on Mar. 13, 2013.

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C W

March 26, 2014

Had to look up this obit as I saw your remembrance in the Edmond Sun (3/11/2014). A very impressive man. His light lives on.

Steve Hull

March 22, 2014

To the family and friends of Ssgt Rex L. Schad, I extend my most sincere condolences on the loss of your loved one. To Colleen (my sister-friend) I love you and you will always be FAMILY to me. Your road buddy, Gaynell

Gaynell Morris, YNC, USN (Ret)

June 17, 2013

That was very nice article in the Daily Oklahoman today about SSG Schad & three other fine Oklahoma Soldiers who gave their life for our nation. I was an artillery officer myself during the Vietnam era but somehow was spared the awful experience of war. I have a tribute in wood that I do for the familes of fallen heroes. No cost to the family. Please contact me if you would like furhter information about Portrait Freedom. Best Wishes and God Bless you this Memorial Day.

Kenneth Younkin

May 27, 2013

You don't know me, but as a part of our church service today at Grace Episcopal Church in Liberty, MO, we each took a card with the name of a soldier who was killed in the war this year. We were asked to pray for the soldier, contact the family and honor the sacrifice.

The card that I pulled had the name Rex Schad on it. From reading the news articles and comments about Rex, he sounds like a remarkable young man. I'm sorry he never had the chance to become a teacher or politician. He served his country with honor and bravery.

Today I pray for comfort for all of his family and friends and fellow soldiers. I also pray for the repose of his blessed soul.

May God be with you this Memorial day weekend.

Sincerely,
Martha Huffman

Martha Huffman

May 26, 2013

I know there are no words to say at this time, except how sorry that I am. My thoughts and prayers are with you always. Rex will never be forgotten.

For you every single soldier
Those who served so honorable
Your life was forever altered
While I'm home safe and free
I stand with grateful admiration
I stand respectful and so proud
I know I'm only a civilian
And I don't even know if it's allowed

But I salute you; allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
Even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
My humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you.

For those missing in action;
for those who didn't make it home.
I know you're in God's presence you are not alone.
For every neatly folded flag;
for every shattered family
I will do the only thing I know to dignify your memory.

I salute you, allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
my humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.

I salute you .

I Salute You.

Suzanne MacDaniel - A Proud Aunt
Colonie, NY
SGT. David M. Fisher
KIA 12/1/04 - Iraq

S MacDaniel

May 25, 2013

Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your loved one Rex, and my sincerest gratitude for his service for our country.
God bless you Staff Sgt. Rex L. Schad...you will not be forgotten.

S. Kronenwetter

May 22, 2013

Everyone,

Thank you for all the kind words, thoughts, support, flowers and gifts during our family's dark days.

I am grateful to have had the gift and opportunity of being Rex's mother during his time on Earth, and I'm so very proud of the man he became.

Colleen Whipple

Colleen Whipple

May 1, 2013

My deepest condolences go out to the family and friends... it was a honor and privilege to serve with you.. fly high buddy...

chad ellis

March 25, 2013

I would like to offer my condolences & deepest sympathy for the loss of your precious child, grandchild, brother & fiance' while also thanking you for his ultimate sacrifice. May God bless you with peace & strength as you go through this very difficult time of grief.

Kay North

March 23, 2013

I wanted to express my deepest sympathy to the family of Rex Schad. I taught 3rd Grade at Will Rogers Elementary and Rex was in my class. I will always remember his good nature and positive attitude. He was a wonderful kid, and I am heartbroken at this news.

Lee Ann Teasley

March 23, 2013

Hello,
We wanted to express our sincerest condolences to The Schad Family, their friends and to SSGT Schad's comrades in arms. We are sending a donation to the Patriot Guard Riders in honor of SSGT Schad's service and sacrifice. We understand that this is a very humble tribute, but we want you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from the youth hockey community, their families and extended communities.
May God Bless you all and keep you strong.
Respectfully,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign

Charlie Gili

March 23, 2013

Schad, you were always the light in a dark room, I can't think of anyone else that could come close to how uplifting you were. You always walked around with a big smile and it rubbed off on everyone else no matter how tough the situation. My heart breaks for you and your family, but I do have comfort in one fact, you had run the good race, fought the good fight and if anyone on this earth was ready to take the next step in life it was you. Lead from the front brother and I can't wait to see you again.

Stephen "Scuba" Ewens

March 22, 2013

I didnt know Rex personally, but knew his mom, who is a wonderful, kind, sweet spirited, all around great person. I am lucky to know such a person who became a good friend. And I know for sure that Rex has all the wonderful qualities that Colleen possess. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with each and everyday.

Dorothy Thompson

March 21, 2013

I can't ever remember a time when Rex wasn't laughing or smiling. He and Jordan always had so much fun together. The service was lovely today. I know you are all heartbroken. I am sorry Jordan couldn't be there with us today to celebrate Rex's life. God bless you all.

Terri & Doug Folks

March 21, 2013

The Wagoner Chapter of Blue Star Mothers extends deepest sympathy to Rex's family, friends, & fellow soldiers. We share your grief, & offer you prayers of peace in the days ahead.

Janet Sharrock

March 21, 2013

Colleen, I am so happy I had the chance to meet Rex when I was working with you. I cannot imagine the loss you feel right now, but also know you are so very proud of the outstanding young man he was. My heart breaks for you and Max. May the love of God, family and friends comfort you in the days and years to come.

Debbie Cathey

March 20, 2013

May God's peace be with you and your family during this time, and may wonderful beautiful memories fill your minds and hearts hereafter. love to you all,

Cynthia Henderson

March 20, 2013

To the Whipple and Schad family,
Our hearts and prayers go out to you at this time of tragic and deep loss.
May you find comfort in knowing how much others care and appreciate your son.
Dr Brook D.Scott and Staff of Edmond North Oklahoma Heart Hospital Physcians

March 20, 2013

I never had the honor of meeting your soldier but as a military mom myself, I am so saddened by your loss. I cannot express my gratitude for his commitment to our great Nation and for the price you have paid. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Katie

March 19, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers with you and your family in this time of great grief.

Angela Davis

March 19, 2013

May God be with you in your time of loss

Pat Massie

March 19, 2013

As a friend and colleague of Marybeth's, words alone cannot express how truly heartbroken I am over the loss of Rex. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family during this difficult time. Rex was so full of life and energy. Whenever Rexie visited Chicago, I knew a fun time was imminent! Dear Rexie; thank you for the memories, and thank you for serving our country. It was a privilege to know you. Your indomitable spirit will live forever in our hearts. Rest in peace.

Barbara Silvestri

March 19, 2013

Rex was a true champion of life and friend to all he crossed paths with in life. without fear or worry he lived life as well as it could have possibly been lived. I know i speak for many when i say that it was a true honor to know, befriend, and serve alongside him.

Joshua "Robo" Roberson

March 18, 2013

I have been greatly saddened by the loss of your precious son/grandson. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Silver Star Mom,
Jill V Smith
Fairview, TX

March 18, 2013

Rexie and Max spent most of their summer breaks and Christmas breaks in Chicago and Florida with their grandparents, aunt Mimi and uncle Brent. We had so many great times together. We will never forget the joy that Rexie brought to our lives. I will always remember Rexie as a hero and a wonderful nephew. He will be missed by everyone that knew him. Uncle Brent Chicago

March 18, 2013

In times like this we value in one clear instant the blessings of days we once thought of as ordinary. We suddenly know what enriches us are the family and friends we love and who love us in return.

Rex was a hero. A hero who was taught by a loving mother to love, respect and value life and all it had to offer.

Colleen, I will be forever grateful for Rex's service to our country.

May God bless you with peace in your heart, joy in your life and a sense of hope. You are loved.

Nancy Kennedy

March 17, 2013

~A PRAYER In Memory of Rex~
TO HIS FAMILY & HIS BUDDY'S…………THAT WILL NOW LIVE ON THROUGH HIS SPIRIT & STRENGTH

Merciful God and Father, graciously look upon the family of our departed brother, Rex Schad.
Remember us, his brothers and sisters in arms, in our sorrow and grief. Support us when we are unable to understand the things that happen to us and those we love.
Comfort and console us, and grant that through Your merciful help we may have courage to face the days ahead; through Jesus Christ, Your Son, our Lord, who lives and reigns with You and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and forever.
Amen.


....sent to one of Rex's Squad members 3/13................

Adam's Dad

March 17, 2013

Prayer Shawls 4 Fallen Soldiers ([email protected]) is an organization with groups throughout the country who work to send handmade prayer shawls and/or lap robes to families who have lost a loved one while serving our country. Members of Trindle Spring Lutheran Church would like to extend our sincere sympathy and to honor your son's sacrifice and memory by sending our prayers and comfort through a prayer gift which will be mailed to you. If you are interested, please contact me at [email protected] with the names and addresses of those who would like to receive one and which gift they would like to receive. We will send our gift as soon as possible. Also, if you know of any other families who are grieving the loss of a loved on who died while serving our country, please pass along my e-mail address. May God bless you and comfort you in the days ahead. Sincerely, Lynne

Lynne Neibert

March 17, 2013

My heart is heavyly burdened because of your loss. I am a Blue star mother and we all feel the pain and grief when we lose a troop. prayers of peace and comfort go out to you.

ellen hoaas

March 16, 2013

Rex was a great friend growing up and I will forever remember his infectious laugh.He is a true American hero and your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Jessica (Lee) Gilbert

March 15, 2013

Dear family of Staff Sgt. Rex Schad,

God IS at work here…and I've incredible faith in the “PLAN”…but that doesn't displace the grief…nor should it. You must grieve…allow yourself the sadness and all that attends that! As a veteran and a “Friends of Electric Boat” Troop Supporter, I keep all our troops in harm's way, in daily prayer; I've used the following in the past as a grief enabler, and offer it, along with my sincerest ongoing prayers for your entire family. May God Bless and keep you all close during this truly sad time. And know we all appreciate the gift that is these fine, young heroes…and its cost!!! Email me via Contact Me and I'd be happy to forward this entry formatted for saving.

When my mother died, even after a years-long battle with cancer, I was shattered by the loss…inconsolable…she was my mentor! I like to think that I got my character from my father, but my mind and its capacity from m'dear sainted mother!!! BUT, "If your faith assures you she's in heaven, then what are the tears all about?!?" I hold eternity with My God dearly close...a cherished and hard-won prize...but, in the interim, that answer lies below.
SELFISH TEARS
(I EULOGIZE MY BELOVED MOTHER - MARCH, 1989)

Today we cry...must admit they're selfish tears.
You see...our faith assures your journey's done.
But it's not for you we mourn, at all, my dear;
It's for those of us you've left behind...alone!!!

We share your joy...share your happiness at rest,
Your painful fears now for forever stilled.
You've fought the good fight, passed the final test,
But you've left behind a hole that can't be filled!!!

So, until we each rejoin you some someday,
And, while your memory buoys us through those years,
We'll miss you...but continue on our way,
And, from time to time, we'll cry our selfish tears!!!

My sincerest condolences…my fondest prayers for peace and strength…

Ray Hamilton (c) March 19, 1989

(-=< Ray Hamilton >=-)

March 15, 2013

I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your fallen hero, SSG Schad. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

Janice Oswald

March 14, 2013

Greater love hath no man than to lay down his life for another. As mothers of military warriors, we share your grief and pray that your memories will comfort you in the days to come.
Blue Star Mothers Chapter OK21., Tahlequah, Ok.

Billie Walker

March 14, 2013

Staff Sgt. Schad, I heard the news of your passing from my son who is currently stationed in Afghanistan. He said you were a "great soldier,a great leader". I thank you for your service and ultimate sacrifice. To your family, may the Lord walk with you during this challenging time and always.

Lisa Berry

March 14, 2013

To the Family and Friends of Staff Sgt. Schad: Please, accept my sincere condolences for your loss of Rex. Americans are grateful for his brave service and ultimate sacrifice to defend our freedoms and protect our way of life. May he Rest in Peace and may you have healing from the pain of your loss.

Marcia C.

March 14, 2013

Please accept our shared sorrow. Rex was a wonderful young man and a never forgotten friend to my kids, Jamie and Kristen.

Tom, Jamie, and Kristen Nesthus

March 14, 2013

My heart, thoughts, and prayers go out to you during this difficult time. Rex is truly an AMERICAN HERO TO ALL. Cy Laundreaux (stroud, ok)

March 14, 2013

We loved him as our own we share your sorrow and we couldn't be more proud of the man he had become

David and Brenda Brown

March 14, 2013

Rex you were my brother man I'll never forgot you bro , you'll always be with me and I'm proud and honored to have known you love you bro

I have pictures and a video of him that I want to share with his family my phone number is 7177987260 SGT Baumann, Jesse Aco 3-69

Sgt Jesse Baumann

March 13, 2013

Colleen: I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Connie J White
Oklahoma City, OK

March 13, 2013

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Dianne Loyall

March 13, 2013

i can believe your gone bro. but i know your in a better place. rip

joshua bready

March 13, 2013

Rex Schad... Such a great person. He touched everybody's life he met. Forever in our hearts, sweet boy. God bless his family

Ashley Watson

March 13, 2013

So sorry to hear of such a great loss.Thank you for serving our country with pride Rexie. Forever young, way to young.Glad I got to know such a bright young man. My sincere condolences to your family.

Angie Patten

March 13, 2013

Rexie you will always be with us, we love and miss you dearly, you were taken from us, doing something you loved, wel all love you, love, ashley mary and dad

Ashley Stone

March 13, 2013

Colleen, our hearts go out to you and your family in your time of sorrow. Your son was a true hero,god bless you.

Jacqui Roulston

March 13, 2013

Colleen, you have raised such fine young men and given so much for your country. Now Rex's ultimate sacrifice is yours too, and my heart just breaks for you and Max and the rest of your family. (((Hugs)))

Gina Minson

March 13, 2013

RIP, Rexie. Great Guy and true american hero. The attached picture captures your infectious spirit. God Bless

Jeff & Anne Tischleder

March 13, 2013

We lift your family in prayer, even as we thank you for the sacrifice you gave of this young man that was most loved by you, who gave his all for all of us. We ask God for comfort and healing for you all.

Jay & Dorothy Einhorn

March 13, 2013

THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE SIR. YOU WILL NOT BE FORGOTTEN.

RANDY AND SHARON GILREATH

March 13, 2013

May God bless the family of Rex, he, who gave his life for all of us. May his memory live in your hearts forever.

Jack and Elaine Finelli

March 13, 2013

May Rex Schad memory be eternal. My deepest sympathies to all your loved ones and the others too.

D Drawbaugh

March 12, 2013

u will be very much missed. Rexie i am so proud of u as a brother n as a soldier. u r my hero and many others too. love u.

Crystal hicks schad family

March 12, 2013

we will miss u so much Rexie. I am so very proud of u. we all r.i am so glad that u r my brother. love u

Crystal hicks

March 12, 2013

We are so sorry for the loss of your precious son, brother, grandson, and friend. We are grateful for his service to our country.

Deborah Smith

March 12, 2013

i never got to meet Rex but Max has told me so many time that we would get along good i was look foward to him coming up here some time this summer. he will be missed my heart and prayers go out to the Schad and Whipple familey

Raymond Nichols

March 12, 2013

Thoughts and prayers for Rex's family. Brave young man and his loss won't be forgotten.

Janet A

March 12, 2013

We are heartbroken to hear the news. Praying that God's peace carries Rex' s mother, brother, grandparents through this time.

Tara Pena

March 12, 2013

God bless this Okie soldier. There is a place in Heaven for you, Rex.

March 12, 2013

I'm SO SORRY for your loss--lot's of prayers and THANKS for his service!! God Bless

Charla Ryel

March 12, 2013

Rex was a dear friend of both my sons. His infectious laugh will never be forgotten. Blessings to all. I'm glad he spent time in our home. I'm proud of you, Rex.

Kelly Fry

March 12, 2013

RIP Brother! We will never forget the sacrifice you and so many before you have made.

March 12, 2013

Rex and I went to school together since we started elementary school. You will always be missed and never forgotten. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family, friends, fellow soldiers, and other loved ones that were left behind. Thank you for your service Rex, you're one of the good ones.

M. S.

March 12, 2013

David Whisenhunt

March 12, 2013

What a brave soldier! He was such a hero. I knew Rex back in high school.. I wished I could have thanked him for his service to our country. I'm sending my prayers to all of his family and friends through this tough time.

K (Nelson) Smith

March 12, 2013

I did not know Rex, but as a fellow Oklahoman, a mother and grandmother my heart is saddened by this great loss. My gratitude to this fallen hero for his service to our country. May God comfort, bless and protect his family and friends.

C Foster

March 12, 2013

My heart is heavy, not only for the family left behind by this soldier; but because my Grandson is also in Afghanistan in a very dicey place. God love you, son. SF are warriors.

Vicki Brown

March 12, 2013

Rest in peace dear solider thoughts and payers go out to your family and friends.
Blue Star Mothers Chapter 11 Enid, Ok

March 12, 2013

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

March 12, 2013

Ive known Rexie since he was five. Many memories that will never be forgotten. My sympathy goes out to his family. I'm very proud of you and i will never forget the fun times we had. I love you. Uncle Brent

Brent Duchene

March 12, 2013

My condolences for your loss, this young man was serving his country and deserves all honors.

Greg Cole

March 12, 2013

I am absolutely shocked and pained by this loss, but I know that pales in comparison to the loss all of you feel. My thoughts and prayers are with Meghan and the rest of Rex's family today and always. RIP brother.

MSG Tim Waychoff

March 12, 2013

My heart and prayers to you. He is a hero.

Laura Newsom

March 12, 2013

Rest in Peace Rex. I am Honored that I knew you for the time I did. I will be praying for the loved ones left behind.

Kylie Salazar

March 12, 2013

As a military mother, my heart goes out to you. You must be very proud of what a fine young man he was. Our servicemen and women sure do us proud.

Sue Crumbo

March 12, 2013

I dont no you .but thank you for serving our country .rip im from okc

Sara Jacks

March 12, 2013

God bless the Schad family!! Rex gave the ultimate sacrifice for his country! We love and appreciate you!!

March 12, 2013

Rest in peace faithful soldier.

Mark Wilmes

March 12, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with you guys during this touhg time!

Aubrey Cotham

March 12, 2013

Prayers for you and the family left behind!

Kathy

March 12, 2013

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