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Ronald K Clem
June 11, 2025
Dear Scott: Mother and I are on the move again. We are now in Sun River development in St George, Utah. We are both still doing well physically and enjoy being near some of the family. Although we won´t be visiting you at Fairhaven, you are never out of our hearts and thoughts. Another year goes by but we will never understand why you had to be taken from us so early in your active life. We love you so much and you will forever be in our minds and hearts.
Miss and love you Scott
Dad and Mom
Janelle Lopez
December 25, 2024
Still thinking of you and missing you every day, Scott. Especially at the holidays. We love you,
Janelle and Bobby
Ron Clem
December 24, 2024
Dear son. Another Xmas is upon us and you are missed even more during these Holidays. We will be thinking of you as we always do especially this time of year. Love and miss you so much. Dad and Mom
Ron clem
November 29, 2024
Another holiday season without you. Missing your smile and humor especially this time of year. Love you so much. Dad and mom
Janelle and Bobby
August 10, 2024
We love and miss you, Scott. You are always in our thoughts, especially on your birthday.
Ron Clem
August 9, 2024
Happy Birthday Scott. We are thinking of you as we do all of the many years that have gone by since we lost you. You are forever in our thoughts.
Love and miss you son.
Dad and Mom
Ron K Clem
June 12, 2024
Scott. Your mother and I are missing you on this day of your leaving us so suddenly.
Our thoughts and memories will forever be of you.
Love and miss you son so much.
Dad and Mom
Ron K Clem
June 7, 2024
Scott. Missing you on this day as we are getting settled in our new location. We have relocated in Utah to be near Stephanie and her family and Denise and family. Not a day goes by that you are not missed. You are forever in our thoughts. Loving you.
Missing you forever.
Dad and Mother
Ron Clem
December 28, 2023
Scott. Another Holiday passes without you. You are always in our thoughts even if you can´t be here with us. We miss you so much. Not a day goes by that we wonder why you were taken from us at such a young age. We miss and love you so much.
Dad and Mother.
Ron Clem
August 9, 2023
Happy birthday dear Scott. We are thinking of you on your special day. One cannot love more than we love and miss your wit and smile each and every day. We are raising a couple new kittens in the house.
They are keeping us active. Keep looking out for Zelda and Gelato.
Love you so much and miss you more.
Dad and Mom
Janelle Lopez
June 12, 2023
Thinking of you more than usual this weekend. Always in our hearts
Janelle and Bobby
Ron Clem
June 11, 2023
Dear Scott. Another year gone by and the pain of missing you doesn´t get any less. Denise is visiting with us for a few days and sends her love also. Know that you are always in our hearts and not a day goes by that Mother and I don´t miss your smile and love.
Dad and Mom
Ron Clem
December 29, 2022
Another holiday season gone by without your presence. Also another year that we have missed you. A day doesn´t go by that we don´t miss you and your love. Mom and I miss you so much.
Take care of Zelda and Gelato. Love you so much son.
Dad and Mom
Ron Clem
August 8, 2022
Dear Scott. Happy Birthday. Today we should be celebrating your 64th year. We are missing you so much on this special day as we always do every day. Mother and I are both in good health and doing fine. The girls and their families are also good.
Love and miss you so much.
Dad and Mom
Ron Clem
June 11, 2022
Hello son. Sixteen years ago you were taken from us and we have thought about you and missed you so much every day. As I have told you before, we have moved back to Arizona. You would love this little place we have now. We sit on our back patio and look at the Mountains and the sky and know that you are watching over us and the rest of the family. Hope you are looking after Zelda and Gelato. Mother and I love and miss you so much.
Dad and Mom
Ron Clem
December 17, 2021
Dear Scott. Another holiday season and you are sorely missed. Mother and I have moved back to Arizona and are near Janelle and Bobby. We are remembering all the Holidays before you left us.
Thinking of you and missing your love.
Take care of Gelato.
Love you. Dad and Mom
Ron Clem
August 9, 2021
Mother and I miss you every day that goes by. Even though it´s been 15 years, the hurt doesn´t get any less. You were taken from us too soon. Love and miss you son.
Dad and Mom
Janelle Lopez
June 7, 2021
It’s coming up on 15 years, so long ago but yet fresh in many ways. I think of the wonderful conversations we would be having and I remember “let’s tell stories”.
So many great memories to recall. You are gone but always remembered.
Ron Clem
June 7, 2021
It’s been 15 long years, Scott, without your smiling face and great wit. It doesn’t get any better as the years go by as you are in our daily thoughts. Mother and I have stayed well this past year in spite of the awful Virus that passed thru the whole Country. We love and miss you so much every day. Hope you are taking good care of Gelato. Love you so much Scott.
Dad and Mom
Ron clem
December 24, 2020
Scott. Another Xmas here and we will be thinking of you as we do every day. It still doesn’t feel the same without you. We will be spending the day with Stephanie and Denise’s families. You are missed by all. Mother and I think about you all the time and can’t wonder how this year would have been with you still here. We took some flowers to you yesterday. Enjoy them and take care of Gelato. Love and miss you so much. Dad and Mom
Ron Clem
August 9, 2020
HAPPY BIRTHDAY SCOTT. We sure do miss you every hour of every day. You were called way too soon. Hope you are taking care of Gelato . Love you son.
Ron Clem
June 7, 2020
Scott, another year gone bye since you were called above. We all miss you so much. Not a day goes without thinking of you and what could have been? Mother and I have been looking at some old photos of you and it has brought back such loving memories. Until we meet again, please take care of Gelato for us.
Dad and Mom
Ron Clem
December 3, 2019
Well Scott, another holiday season without your smiling face with us.
The Holidays are not the same without you. Not a day goes by without
Mother and I thinking about you and remembering the love we shared during this time of the year. We miss you so much.
Love you forever.
Dad and Mom
Ron Clem
August 9, 2019
Happy Birthday Scott. Just wish you were here so that we all could share it with you.
Missing you as we do every hour and day.
Thinking of you as we do always.
Enjoy the flowers that we left today.
Dad and Mother
Ron Clem
June 11, 2019
Scott
Thinking of you today as we have every day. You will always be in our thoughts and hearts.
Dad and Mom
Janelle Lopez
June 10, 2019
Thinking of you, still and always.
Ron Clem
December 24, 2018
Scott, another Xmas without you around to enjoy all of us and we enjoying you. Mother and I went to visit you today and placed some flowers. We can remember how much you loved this time of the year.
Sure wish you were here to enjoy another Holiday with us all.
Just know that you are and will always be missed by mother and me.
Thinking of you and loving you forever, until we meet again.
Dad and Mother
Ron Clem
June 10, 2018
June 11 will always be the darkest day in your mom and my life. You were such a good and loving person to be taken from us that day. We will be visiting you as it is easier now that we have moved back to Calif.
We miss and love you Scott and will always hold you in our hearts.
Dad and Mom
Janelle and Bobby Lopez
August 8, 2017
Missing you most of all today, on your birthday. We Love you Scott.
Janelle and Bobby Lopez
June 11, 2017
I can't believe its been 11 years since you left this world. We think of you often and remember you always.
Ron Clem
August 9, 2016
Scott; Thinking of you, as we do every day, but more so on this your Birthday. We will not be releasing any balloons today as the weather is not cooperating. We miss you and think of you always.
Love Dad and Mom
Janelle Lopez
August 8, 2016
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August 8, 2016
Remembering you today on your birthday, even more than usual.
Love from Janelle and Bobby
Ron Clem
December 26, 2014
Merry Christmas Scott. This is the time of year that families get together and we know that you are always looking down upon us and sharing this precious time. You are in our thoughts every day. We love and miss you.
Dad and Mom
Janelle Lopez
December 25, 2014
Merry Christmas Scott. Thinking of you and the fun we had when we were young, waking up early and running to the tree to see what Santa brought. The best gifts of all were the times we spent together as a family. We miss you. Always in our thoughts.
Love Janelle and Bobby
Joanne Clem
August 9, 2014
Always in our thoughts and forever loved.
Miss you on this, your birthday.
Mom and Dad
Janelle Lopez
August 9, 2014
Thinking of you even more today, on what would have been your Birthday. Hugs and kisses and lots of ove
Ron Clem
August 9, 2014
Happy Birthday Scott;
Another year gone by and mother and I sure wish we could have you spending it with us. Janelle and Denise will be releasing balloons today. We all sure miss you more and more each day you are away.
We love and miss you son.
Dad and Mom
Ron Clem
June 11, 2014
Can't believe that it has been 8 long years since you left us, Scott. We think of you every day and miss you so much. We will be going over to Calif. next week and will visit you again.
We love and miss you so much.
Dad and Mom
Janelle Lopez
August 10, 2013
Your family released balloons again for your birthday. Baby B held onto hers though. You would get such a kick out of her, just like her mom at that age.
We love and miss you a lot!
Ron Clem
August 9, 2013
Happy birthday son. We miss and love you so much. We will be releasing Red Heart ballons from here and in California later today. They will be filled with love for you.
Love and miss you. Dad and Mom
Ron Clem
July 21, 2013
Scott;
Today, Mom and I were in Calif, and put your Birthday flowers up in Fairhaven. Thinking of you every day. Denise's grandson, Robert, had a soccer tournament that we were able to spend some time watching. Mom and I are missing you more and more all the time.
Love you forever
Dad and Mom
Janelle and Bobby Lopez
June 11, 2013
Thinking of you and missing you more as the years go by. It's hard to believe it has been 7 years.
Our love, always.
Ron Clem
June 11, 2013
Scott.
Even after 7 years, the hurt doesn't go away. We can never forget that day, watching you slowly slip away from life.
We love and miss you so very much Scott.
Love Dad and Mom.
Ron Clem
December 31, 2012
Scott; Another holiday season has passed and I still can't get over your leaving us so soon. Every time I see a picture of you in the house I think of all the fun times we had around the holidays and the many times on the golf courses. Mom and I miss you so much Scott. You are in our thoughts every day. Until we meet again sometime,in Heaven, we love you always. Love Dad and Mom
Janelle Lopez
June 12, 2012
Always and forever in my thoughts.
Ron & Joanne Clem
June 11, 2012
Thinking of our son today and wishing we all had him with us again.
Time doesn't heal the hurt.
Children should outlive their parents.
Missing our Scott,
Ron Clem
August 24, 2011
Sorry we missed leaving a note on your birthday, but we were in Calif visiting with Denise and family. All our thoughts were with you. Mom, Denise,Janelle and Bobby all released Red heart shaped ballons on your day. We all miss you so much son.
Love Dad and Mom
Ron Clem
June 11, 2011
It has been five long years without you,Son. We miss you so very much. Today Mother and Janelle released a couple of bright red Heart balloons and they headed toward Calif. I think they want to make it a tradition.
We love and miss you more than ever.
Love Dad and Mom
June 10, 2011
Tomorrow will be 5 years since you died. I still think about you every day and miss you more each passing year. I'll give mom and dad an extra hug for you next time I see them.
Love, Janelle
Ron & Joanne Clem
December 31, 2010
Holidays are tough... Wish Heaven had a phone...so we could hear your voice again. We thought of you today ...but that's nothing new. We thought of you yesterday and days before that too. We think of you in silence and often speak your name. All we have are memories and pictures in a frame..... You will always be forever in our hearts
Love, Mom and Dad
Janelle Lopez
August 8, 2010
Thank you, mom and dad, for the wonderful gift to our family, 52 years ago today (Aug 9th)
(....Submitted on Aug 8th after 9 pm MST, which would make it officially Aug 9th in Michigan)
Remembering you today on your Birthday Scott.
August 8, 2010
August 9, 2010
Thinking of you Scott on your birthday, as always -
Death leaves a heartache that no one can heal;
Love leaves a memory that no one can steal.
Love, Mom and Dad
July 5, 2010
Scott I miss you! But I have some memories that will never fade...until we reunite!!!
Ron Clem
June 11, 2010
Even after 4 years it doesn't get any easier. I just think of you all the time and still can't believe that you are not with us anymore. I miss you so much and love you.
Dad
Joanne Clem
June 11, 2010
June 11 will always be a difficult date for us all. Love you Scott,
Mom
Janelle Lopez
June 10, 2010
It's been 4 years and still not easy to forget. Bobby and I think of you, and talk about you often.
Please look over Bobby during his surgery, the way you watched over him before.
We love you and miss you Scott.
Janelle and Bobby
Janelle Lopez
June 10, 2010
It's been 4 years and still not easy to forget. Bobby and I think of you, and talk about you often.
Please look over him during his surgery, the way you watched over him before.
We love you and miss you Scott.
Janelle and Bobby
Ron Clem
December 10, 2009
Dear Son;
Missing you more than ever as the Holidays are here. Think of you every day. Saw a shooting star the other night and right away I said, Hi Scott. I'll always remember that Cheryl saw one the night that you left us. Keep watch over us and we will be together again some day.
Love you; Dad
Janelle Lopez
June 11, 2009
Scott;
Thinking of you today, as we do every day. Today is just a little harder.
We miss you and we love you.
Janelle and Bobby
Ron Clem
June 11, 2009
Scott;
Although it has been 3 years since you left us, it doesn't get any easier not being able to have you to talk to and see you. You are in our thoughts every day and it is just as hard now as it was then. Know that we love and miss you and some day we will be together again.
Love Dad and Mom
Janelle Lopez
February 28, 2009
It's been a while since I wrote anything in this guest book. Every day brings thoughts of you, Scott. Still know we all miss you and love you.
Janelle
Janelle Lopez
August 10, 2008
I always think of you, Scott, but yesterday I thought about you all day. I was sure to give mom and dad a big kiss, and thank them for bringing you into the world 50 years ago. They are still the rock that holds this family together.
We all miss you and send out love and kisses.
Janelle and Bobby
Ron Clem
August 9, 2008
Dear son, You are in our hearts and thoughts today, on your 50th birthday, as you are every day. We love and miss you so much.
Love Dad and Mom
Joanne Clem
August 8, 2008
August 9, 2008
Remembering you on the annivesary of your birth 50 years ago. Time does not heal the sadness of your death. You are in our thoughts every day.
Love, mom and dad
Ron Clem
June 11, 2008
Dear Scott;
It doesn't seem like 2 years ago that we sat at your bedside during the last moments of your life. We have a ceramic solar memorial in the yard that decribes just how we feel about your absence: "Gone, yet not forgotten. Although we are apart, your sprit lives, within us, forever, in our hearts." Think of you and miss you every day.
Love you: Dad and Mom
Janelle Lopez
June 10, 2008
It is so hard to believe that 2 years have gone by already. I still see, read, and hear things that will remind me of you. Hearing the song Roxanne by The Police reminds me of when you and I went skiing together in Big Bear. Mom and Dad bought me one of your favorite books; Atlas Shrugged. I just have to find the time to read it. Also, thanks to Jim Williams, whenever I see a butterfly hanging around the house, I think of you and see it as your emissary.
I know you are watching over us all. We are all doing well, and still miss you more than ever.
I love you Scott, and miss you a lot!!
Janelle ...and Bobby too.
Ron Clem
April 10, 2008
Dear Scott
My thoughts of you are more than usual this week as it is Member-Guest week in Sun City. We always had such a great time playing golf together and I was so proud of the way you played and accepted the older men here at the course. Golf just doesn't feel the same without you to talk and play it with. Life isn't the same either without you. Mother and I miss you still very much. Our thoughts are of you every day.
Love Dad and Mom
Ron Clem
December 25, 2007
Dear Scott;
It's Christmas morning and Mother and I will surely miss your call again this year. We were asked by Cheryl the other day if the holidays get any easier as the time goes by. No, the weekends and holidays are the most difficult times as we miss hearing from you. It will never be the same without you here in our lives. We know that you are always looking down upon us, but it just isn't the same. Janelle and Bobby spent the day yesterday. We thought of you often. Mother and I miss you so much and think of you every day.
Love you
Dad and Mother
Denise Holm
December 17, 2007
My Dear Brother - It has been a while since I have posted a message here ... however, as Janelle mentioned, it is almost Christmas and I felt a need ... to write something. Your absence in our lives has been ... and still is, difficult. I will be visiting your resting place again, this week to take some time to rest, and enjoy our happy memories ... I look forward to this peaceful time.
Merry Christmas, Scott!
You are in my daily thoughts and prayers.
Love to you,
DeeDee
Janelle Lopez
December 13, 2007
Here it is, almost Christmas. Another Christmas without you in our lives. I have been remembering past Christmas and holidays from when we were younger. Those were the best times. Any time our family got together and did things, or went places, we had a lot of fun. Those are the memories I will keep forever.
You will be in Bobby and my memory this year too.
Janelle Lopez
September 15, 2007
Scott.... still thinking of you all the time, still missing you a lot. Sept 11 came and went. I still remember calling you on the phone after I got off work at 6 am, just to make sure you were not in the air somewhere on a business trip. Many things remind me of you, or of times with you. I miss you.
Love, Janelle
Joanne Clem
August 12, 2007
Dear Son,
We had put a message to you on the 9th and for some reason, it didn't show up on your guest book. We remembered you on the date of your 49th birthday and told you that we were thinking of you then, as always.
Love, Mom and Dad
Janelle and Bobby Lopez
August 10, 2007
Aug 9,1958 was a very special time for Mom and Dad.
Scott was/is/will always be very loved by his family, and will never be forgotten.
Scott- Dee brought you flowers today from M and D, and all of us Holm and Lopez bunch. She sent us the picture after setting them in the vase. It was so nice of her to do that from all of us. I am glad someone brought you flowers today.
We love you and miss you.
Janelle and Bobby
Denise Holm
August 9, 2007
Dear Scott --
Today is a special day ... and always will be. We are thinking of you and continue to hold you close to our hearts.
All our love,
Dee, Dan, Steph and Robert
Janelle Lopez
August 3, 2007
We were just thinking of Scott a few days before his birthday, and a few days after Mom's birthday. This year has not been as bad as last year, but things do get better.
Much love to you, Scott.
Janelle and Bobby
Janelle Lopez
July 6, 2007
Here it is, a few days after Nana's Birthday. That is still hard, and this August will be hard again as well. You take good care of her and Baba, and give them a hug from all of us!
I Love and Miss you, big brother.
Janelle
Ron Clem
June 18, 2007
Dear Son;
I thought the Father's Day of 2006 was the worst one ever, but yesterday was just as bad. I really missed your call again. The memories will always be there and I know that you are watching over us all. I love you always. Dad
Ron Clem
June 18, 2007
Dear Son;
I thought Father's Day of 2006 was bad, but yesterday was just the same. I missed your call again. I know that you are watching over us and the memories will always stay with me. Love you, Dad.
Janelle Lopez
June 15, 2007
Hi Scott.
I had a nice visit in Calif. with Dee, Steph and Robert. It was good to be with family. We all talked about our favorite family moments from the good ole days. We laughed. We talked about other things too. We still laughed; harder! If only Mom and Dad and Bobby could have made the trip, and if only Dan was home... the whole family would have all been together. We are still one family in spirit, heart and every other way possible, and we always will be.
We love you, we miss you, and we will carry you in our hearts forever. Does that sound familiar? Those are some words I spoke a year ago in the chapel.
We have never stopped thinking about you, and we never will.
Love,
Janelle
Jim Williams
June 13, 2007
Hey Scott,
Still missing you very much. Life goes on I know, and things change. But one thing that will never change is what a good friend you were to me.
We'll meet again, my old friend.
Love, Jim
Ron Clem
June 13, 2007
Scott; It does't seem that a year has already gone by since you left us. A day does't go by that we don't think about you and all the loving memories we shared as a family. You will always be in our hearts and one day we will meet again. We love you. You are gone but never forgotten.
Love Dad and Mom
Janelle Lopez
June 11, 2007
One year. I still remember. I will never forget.
Janelle
Denise Holm
June 11, 2007
My Dear Big Brother -
It's hard to believe a year has gone by ... without you here. I hold loving memories close to me and think of you always. I miss you, Scott.
Love, DeeDee
Kelly Adams
June 1, 2007
I was thinking of you today. Esmee is still watering your Bamboo Plant and when we see it we think of you. Kelly
Janelle Lopez
April 16, 2007
Hey there Bro,
Stephanie turns 25 today! Can you believe it!! It doesn't seem that long ago that she was just a little girl, now she has her own little mUnchkin and soon she will be 30!
I still think about you all the time, but today I decided to think about you in this way. It seems Bobby is in the hospital again. Not as serious as last time, but he went in yesterday and most likely (hopefully) will be home tomorrow.
I keep you in my thoughts, dreams and prayers always, and I will be by to visit your place in June.
Keep smiling down on us all, we can feel it.
Love,
Janelle
Ron Clem
March 26, 2007
Hi Scott;
Well another weekend gone by without your regular phone call. Mom and I sure miss you and wish that you didn't have to leave us so soon. We haven't heard from Cheryl for a few days but we understand what she must be going through. I hope that you can give Dennis some golf tips and maybe he can teach you to play the drums. Every time I go out to play golf, I put on the hat from Dove Canyon and wish you were with me. We had some great times at the different Member/Guest tournaments didn't we? Miss you very much Son. Love you and will see you some time again. Love Dad.
Janelle Lopez
February 24, 2007
Scott- Well I am still sad that you are not here on earth with us, where you belong, but Bobby told me how you spoke to him and helped him when he was in a coma. For that I am glad. It is still painful to not have you here, and now to have Dennis gone as well is too much for a lot of the family you left behind.
Bobby is home now. He is learning to walk and balance and do the everyday things some people take for granted, but on the plus side, his head pain, from the last 8 years, is GONE!
I will never understand the human brain. How one brain can suddenly turn against a person, while another brain just as suddenly heals itself. You know how I always hated questions with no answers. Some things "just are", you would tell me. Yeah. They are.
ok, I guess thats enough for this time. Just felt like reaching out by computer this time.
Love you bro-
J
Janelle Lopez
January 26, 2007
Bobby pulled through. Thank you.
Now I just have to wait for him to be well enough to come home. Keep watching over him... he isn't completely over it all yet.
Love and miss you.....
Janelle
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