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Kathy Raifsnyder Obituary

Raifsnyder, Kathy Ann 55 Feb. 17, 1957 Feb. 26, 2012 Kathy Ann Raifsnyder was born in Seattle. At the age of four, she moved with her family to Puerto Rico, her mother and siblings' birthplace. Even after returning to the Northwest as a young adult and enjoying her life here, her heart always remained in Puerto Rico. Kathy Ann will be remembered for her love of music, dance and everything "boricua". Her true love, however, was children. For 20 years, Kathy Ann worked at Fruit & Flower Child Care Center where she cared for infants. Her loving ways and gentle manner endeared her to the children, parents and staff. She touched the lives of all those with whom she came in contact. Even during her long illness, she loved nothing more than to receive the visits of the children, many of whom she had in her class and never forgot their "Kaffy." Kathy Ann was a devoted daughter, sister, aunt, friend and teacher. She is survived by her mother, Carmen Raifsnyder; her brother, Harold Raifsnyder Jr.; her sister, Elba Kunsman; her nephew, Donald Kunsman and wife, Cicely and their sons, Nicholas and Daniel; and numerous cousins, aunts and uncles. She was preceded in death by her father, Harold Raifsnyder Sr. and her brother, Robert Raifsnyder. Her network of intimate friends is too numerous to mention by name, but those friends were her extended and beloved family and lovingly supported Kathy throughout her illness. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to Fruit & Flower Child Care Center, 2378 NW Irving Street, Portland, OR 97210, 503-228-8349.

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Published by The Oregonian on Mar. 2, 2012.

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Katie Wisdom Weinstein

April 28, 2012

My heart is so sad. Kathy taught me how to laugh and love my daughter for her sassy, loving, crazy ways. Kathy always said she understood and saw herself in Ruby. They understood each other. I loved to laugh with Kathy every single day at Fruit and Flower. I loved her stories and her energy. My heart goes out to her family. The world has lost a truly good one.

Rober D Bigler MD

March 4, 2012

After caring for Kathy for many years it was easy to tell how special she was. Despite her disease she was almost always warm and cheerful. If she wasn't, it was clear that there was something wrong even if she didn't want to mention it. In this field there are always certain patients that you somehow feel more attached to because of their personality. Kathy was one of those patients. I will miss seeing her after all of our times together. My thoughts are with her family and friends who will miss such a wonderful person.

Chris Pitton

March 3, 2012

I will forever miss Kathy. She was one of a kind. I will miss her smile and her possitive personality.I had the great privlige of working with Kathy. We became fast friends and enjoyed working with each other!

Marian McDonald

March 3, 2012

My thoughts and prayers go out to the family and friends of Kathy. May she watch over us and may we continue her message of faith, love and peace. RIP Kathy. :)

Tina Gamboa

March 3, 2012

Can't tell you how saddened I was when I read of Kathy's passing. I first had the opportunity to know her and work along side her when I worked in the infant center at Fruit & Flower Daycare. She was always so full of the love for life. She was wonderful with children and anyone who had the opportunity to have her as their children's caregiver was truly blessed. I know she will be greatly missed.

Audrey and Mike Llewelyn

March 2, 2012

Kathy took care of our babies at Fruit and Flower and is one of the reasons we had our daughter. She loved our babies and we loved having her care for them. We hope she is dancing freely now with her wonderful smile lighting up the world.

Marguerite Cohen

March 2, 2012

I was shocked and saddened to see Kathy's obituary in the paper today. She helped to care for both of my sons (Sam and Nick Roberts) when they were at Fruit and Flower. She had a wonderful way with children, and was dear to our hearts. To her family: I'm so sorry for your loss,please know she was well loved, and helped us to raise wonderful children.

Rich Meyer

March 2, 2012

I am so sad to hear of Kathy's passing. She cared for our daughter in the "infant room" at Fruit and Flower, and she was such a joy to be around. Kathy taught us young parents so much about how to care for kids. We went back to visit year after year. She always had a smile and hug for our kids, and she also kept the big "1" candle she put in our daughter's birthday cake. May her memory be a blessing.

Jon Folkestad

March 2, 2012

Harold - I am so sorry to hear of your sister's passing. I hope and trust that your happy memories help you through this time of grief.

Kris Moore

March 2, 2012

I was privileged to work with Kathy for 2 1/2 years at Fruit & Flower, and was blessed by her love, cheer and devotion to others. Her former babies would return even when they were in high school, and she would hug them and remember them warmly, and then tell me stories about them. She cherished each family and recognized that parents entrusted her with that which was most precious in their lives, and she earned their affection and respect. She will be sorely missed, but so fondly remembered.

Theresa Gradt

March 2, 2012

Our hearts are saddened by the loss of a wonderful human being. Over 20 years ago, Kathy was one of my daughter's first caregivers at Fruit & Flower. I'll always remember Kathy's cheerful deameanor, and her love and devotion for not just the children in her care but all the children attending Fruit & Flower. At the end of a long work day, I looked forward to Kathy's enthusiasm and warm smile. Her remarkable interaction with the children (and parents) was tireless. Kathy will be truly missed.

Pete Morris

March 2, 2012

My heart is burdened by this sad news. Kathy was a second mom to my daughter for many years at Fruit & Flower. Her calm, happy welcome brightened every day. Kathy's supportive influence lives on in the hundreds of young lives she nurtured. We have lost a treasure. I extend my deepest condolences to her family.

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