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for Connor Graver
Raymond Balkishun
September 22, 2009
Susan & Jon, Our warmest and heartfelt condolences to both of you. Susan, I cannot imagine what you and Jon must be going through.Prayers help, and we will keep you in ours. God bless you. Sincerely. Raymond Balkishun& family.(We worked at Admiral's cove)
Maureen Flanagan
September 21, 2009
Mr. & Mrs. Graver,
My son John Paul Flanagan and Connor played football with JTAA when they were little boys and before you moved to Hobe Sound. I remember he came to John's birthday party one year. He was such an interesting boy, He made me laugh and I enjoyed having him over. I am so sorry for your loss. John Paul and I will keep your family in our prayers.
Maureen Flanagan
John Napolitani
August 25, 2009
Jon and Susan,
I just heard the awful news about Connor. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Dan Crowe
August 12, 2009
Jon,
I`m so sorry to hear about Connor. You and your family are in my prayers
God Bless.
Dan Crowe PGA
the scholls
August 10, 2009
dear susan and jon,
everytime i try to write something for you nothing seems right. there are no words to express the sorrow everyone is feeling for you and the graver and mathews families. please just know that you are all in everyones thoughts and prayers. there must be something very comforting in knowing how many lives connor touched in a tremendous way. he will never be forgotten. peace be with you.
moira and patrick scholl
Lisa Piccitto
August 10, 2009
Jonathan,
Our thoughts are with you always. Connor was such a good boy. Will and I think you did an amazing job. We are always here for you no matter what.
Love,
Lisa & Will
August 9, 2009
rip
susan Fraleigh
August 9, 2009
Susan & John
We just heard the very sad news about your son Connor. We know there is nothing we can say or do to ease your pain but you are both in our thoughts. So very sorry for your loss.
Susan & Dennis Fraleigh
HEATHER LUDWICK
August 8, 2009
Susan and John,
We are so very sorry about the loss of your beloved Connor. Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. Ben,Heather &Lauren Ludwick
Jeanne & Bruce's kids
Cherie, Doug and Dana Faucher
August 8, 2009
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Sherry Skinner
August 8, 2009
Wow, I have watched your son grow up into a fine young man. I live accross the street from Bill in the yellow house. Didn't know much about him. It just seemed like he was a good kid from what I gathered over the years. I'm sure more that enough people will miss him. But most of all, you as the parents will miss him the most. Take care. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Nancy & Chuck Kritch
August 7, 2009
Susan,
Kristina told us the very sad news. We can not imagine the sadness John and you are feeling. I just wanted you to know you are in our prayers.
Love,
Nancy & Chuck Kritch
justin gentry
August 7, 2009
you get mad at some friends over stupid things. you loose friends if you don't talk to them for a while. Graver was everyones friend. I knew no person who did not love Connor Graver. He was a friend to everyone and he will be missed very much and will always be in my heart.
Sean & Chrissy Murphy
August 7, 2009
John and Sue,
I was so sorry to hear the news of Connor's passing. My deepest sympathies are with the two of you now. We will keep you in our prayers. Stay strong.
Melissa Moore
August 7, 2009
Dear Jon, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. No words can express how deeply I feel for you and your family. Try to stay strong and know that there are many of us praying for you and sharing your pain.
Sincerely, from the bottom of my heart,
Melissa
jon and mary ogden
August 7, 2009
Dear sue and jon, all the time we spent watching our children being good sportsmen through the years. We are so sorry for your loss. He will always be a part of our memories. We send our deepest sympathy to you all. Our prayers and thoughts are with you!!!
Marcey Broedell
August 6, 2009
Jon and Susan,
We are thinking of you. Connor will be greatly missed!
The Broedell Family
Frank, Marcey, Rachel, Broedy, and Bryce
Angel Duignan
August 6, 2009
Dear John & The Graver Family, I cant even imagine what your going through oh I know is Connor was truly loved by you and this is such a tragic tragic loss. Im sooo sorry!! Angel, Joe&Bridget Stuart Fl (PGA)
August 6, 2009
To the Graver family, Our prayers are for You and Connor in your time of sorrow. I am sure that the God is holding Connor in the palm of his hand. we will continue to pray that as time passes todays pain and sorrow will be eased by the beautiful memories of his life here on earth. John and Peggy Bocker Brielle, new Jersey
Butch & Marie Schneider
August 6, 2009
Jonathan and Family,
Marie and I want to offer our deepest sympathies and condolences. This has to be the ultimate nightmare for any family to go through. We will pray for you and your family to find the strength to see you this horrible time in your life.
Trish/Jay Fuld
August 6, 2009
Susan & Jon.... So, so sorry about your loss and we will be praying for your family, I know its hard but, try to find comfort in that it is the beginning of a new life for Connor that is far better and will never end.
Trish and Jay Fuld
(PGA National Resort-PBG, FL)
Kathleen Holland
August 6, 2009
Dear Susan and Jon,
I cannot express how deeply saddened I am about the tragic loss of your beloved son Conor. Please know I care and am keeping all of you in my prayers.
With love and sympathy,
Kathy Holland
Jon, I can still see you in your kitchen as we (YOU) worked so hard.
Brian Duddy
August 6, 2009
Jonathan and Family,
I am sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
rosie salice
August 6, 2009
i know words will never come close to ease the pain you must be feeling but connor was an amazing kid and loved by so many. My prayers are with you.
connor we all love && miss you dearly i know your in a better place and you will always be in our hearts.
N. Burns
August 6, 2009
We will all miss you Connor... You had the best jump shot I have ever seen. You were a great kid and a natural athlete. May you rest in peace and watch over us all...
B.J. Weichel
August 6, 2009
jonny,
I'm so sorry brother! My thoughts are with you all. If you need ANYTHING, call me. stay strong!!
Karen Kienzle
August 6, 2009
Bill, Jon, Susan
I was so sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
Valerie Tarplee
August 6, 2009
Jon, Sue, and Bill -
No words can possibly be expressed that would ease the heartbreak in your souls right now. All I can do is pray for each of you. Connor was the sweetest boy. His smile would just light everything up. Now he is an angel in Heaven and his light shines down upon us all. The Lord has him by his side now, and his memory will live on forever. I wish there was something to help your pain. Please know you have many friends and family who are all here for you. God bless you, and God bless Connor. Rest in peace sweet boy and as I watch the stars every night, I now know one of them is you.
Eileen Morgan
August 6, 2009
Jon & Susan, I am so very sorry over the loss of your child. Although I never had the pleasure of meeting Connor, I know he was a great kid because of parents like you. The Morgan Family is keeping you in our thoughts & prayers.
Bill White
August 6, 2009
Jon and Susan,
So sorry to hear about this tragedy. May God bless you during this most difficult of times. Why bad things happen to good people will always be a cruel mystery. May the memory of Connor always put a smile on your face.
Joe and Marilyn Moore
August 6, 2009
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
August 6, 2009
Dear Sue And John, Our thoughts and prayers are with both of you. John, although we never met Connor, we are sure he was a great person like his Dad. You have a lot of people praying for you in New Jersey. God Bless
The Herrmann family.
August 6, 2009
Dear Sue and John,
Even though I only met Connor briefly he was full of life and will be sorely missed. God chooses his most angelic to be his brightest angels. He will be with you forever. I'm here for you both always. Love, Pam
Dj Layton
August 6, 2009
Dear Aunt Sue and Jon,
Im so upset about what has happened..i wish we could go back and have got to known eachother more.I love you guys
Jacqueline Miller
August 6, 2009
Connor, I am laying here in one of your old shirts, exhausted beyond belief but can't sleep. It still hasn't registered why you haven't called me in two days. Wish I could say "See you tomorrow!" I wish we were out together right now, and you were giving me one of those huge hugs. Your mom told me today that you give the best hugs, and that's when I remembered the pictures we took in the mall area hugging eachother.. and then I realized the shirt your dad ran outside to give me today is the one you're wearing there. I went and got your favorite lunch at Hobe Sound Deli today.. and I didn't forget the rice pudding. (Even though you know I didn't ever really like it.) Please keep looking out for me Connor, I won't ever let you go, I promise I won't. Can't wait to see you again one day and jump into your arms all over again, I love you more than you could ever imagine. RIP
Johnny Uzar
August 5, 2009
Connor you were the man, you always made football practice fun for everyone and in class it was even more fun. Im gonna miss you dude, keep a watch on all of us down here. Rest In Peace Connor you'll always be remembered.
Carly Graver
August 5, 2009
Dear Uncle John and Aunt Susan
I'm so sorry I didn't get to see Connor as much as I should have. I just want you to know how much we all miss him and that he's in our prayers everyday. Were all thinking about him and love him. Connor didn't deserve this he was such an amazing kid and is going to be missed for eternity. Stay strong Uncle John I love you.
Stephanie Corman
August 5, 2009
To the Family of Connor,
I recently met Connor this summer at the Hobe Sound Fitness Center, where I work as Trainer. He always worked hard in the gym trainig for FOOTBALL. His presence will be missed greatly. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this dificult time.
Teresa McCarthy
August 5, 2009
Dear Sue and John,
We just got word of the awful accident and the loss of Connor. Our hearts and prayers go out to you both.
Brendon, Teresa, Drew and Kelly McCarthy
Jennifer Layton
August 5, 2009
Dear Jon and Sue,
No words will ever come close to expressing my sympathy; there are none. Please know that the family and you are in my thoughts. I pray that in the near future you find peace. All my love,
Jennifer Layton
August 5, 2009
Jon and Sue,
I wish I could find words to express my condolences, but there are none. All I can do is tell you that the family and Connor are in my every thought. I pray that in the near future you find peace. All my love,
Cambi Mannion
August 5, 2009
Dear Susan and John,
I was so very sorry to hear of your great loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Don Layton
August 5, 2009
Jon,Sue,and Bill
As I try to think of words and thoughts to express to you my condolences, my heart grows heaverier by the minute. I am realizing there are no words that will take the hurt and pain away. Nobody can fully understand what you are going through.I will pray for you and Connor. God Bless You.
connie cook clarke
August 5, 2009
Dear Jon and Sue
I would like to express my deepest sympathy for the loss of your son, Connor. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
August 5, 2009
Jon, Sue and Dad
You were the best parents to Connor. Dad, you were the best grandfather to Connor.Connor was the light of your lives and to those who knew him. What a boy.Though his journey here too short his impact on the world and to those he encountered was tremendous. As, I read these entries i am full of wonder how he was admired and loved. I loved my nephew very much and we had a bond from Florida to Houston. Our moments communicating are those which I will cherish. He was a special person to me. he, now is a bright star which will guide us to some resolve. As the Lord wraps his arms around him to comfort him now, we will do our very best to comfort you and Sue and Dad. He is now our angel and will always be now and forever.God speed sweet Connor. jon, stay strong for Connor and we will stay strong for you. our love for your son will never waver. I will be here for you always.
Your sister, your daughter,
Nancy Louise Graver-Layton
Houston... Katy, Texas
August 5, 2009
man connor we was post to walk across da stage together rite next to each other graver then gregg im gone miss u!
love contresa gregg
Kristin Roland
August 5, 2009
Connor, I can't believe you are really gone. It feels like yesterday we were together and you were picking me up and spinning me around like you always used to do. I miss you so much and love you more than you will ever know. More than anything i miss your smile and how you made everyone around you laugh. You are forever known as "The life of the party" and forever will be in our hearts, prayers, and thoughts. Senior year is not going to be the same, especially you not coming into the yearbook room everyday & making my day at the lunch table. Just last year, me you & andrea went to the school to get our schedules. Walking into school knowing you won't be there, is going to break my heart. I love you so much I promise you, I will never forget you, ever, not even for one day.
Travis Drake
August 5, 2009
Connor man i remember this past year we were in mr. kobolds class n we would always joke with him with our group of all the right side of the classroom n the partys we always went to we had a blast everytime man i gotta tell u there was never a dull moment with u at all u made me laugh wen know one else could u could make ne one laugh no matter the time of day and im going to make a speech of u at graduation bkus u would be walking across that stage with me and along with everyone else in the class of 2010. you have made such a difference in everyones lives god we will miss u and we will never forget
Travis Drake
August 5, 2009
Connor man i remember this past year we were in mr. kobolds class and we would always joke with him with our group and the partys we always went to we had a blast everytime man i gotta tell you there was never a dull moment with you at all u made me laugh when no one else could u could make anyone laugh no matter the time of day and im going to make a speech of you at graduation bkus you would be walking across that stage with me and along with everyone else in the class of 2010. you have made such a difference in everyones lives god we will miss you and we will never forget!!!!
Tracy Horner
August 5, 2009
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Alisia Harriel
August 5, 2009
To the Graver Family,
My deepest condolences go out to you all. May God continue to strengthen you in your time of grief. Know that Connor is looking down upon you. God has everything in store! Keep on pressing on! God Bless
Hailey Gartman
August 5, 2009
Connor I don't know what I am going to do without you in my life. You have made a tremendous impact on so many lives, you were never without love. I love you so much and will never stop. Rest in peace.
Fiona Hobday
August 5, 2009
To John and Susan:
I was so shocked to hear your very sad news, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Ashley Evans
August 5, 2009
John & Susan
I can not even begin to express to you my sincere and deepest sympathy. I am so sorry for your loss. We will always remember Conner as a kind and respectful young man. You both are in our thoughts and prayers.
Dennis and Ashley Evans
Ashley Evans
August 5, 2009
John and Susan,
My sincerest sympathy for you both. I will always remember Conner as a very kind and respectful young man. Our family is praying for you.
Dennis, Ashley Evans
Betsy Callaghan
August 5, 2009
Susan, Jon,and Family,
Words can not describe the deep sadness we feel about the loss of Connor. Sue, I have great memories of Conor and I will never forget the day he was born. I am blessed to have spent so many precious moments with Conor. You are all in my thoughts and prayers...Conor was a true blessing and will never be forgotten.
Love,
Betsy, Barry, and Luke Callaghan
Suzie Barton & Tom
August 5, 2009
Legend and Susan, I can't express enough my deepest and sincere sympathies in your sudden loss of Connor. It's been a while since we've worked together at the Spa but I do remember the picture of Connor and Susan in your Chef knife kit and how we'd talk about how they were doing. How Connor was either starting to play football or lifting weights. I never got the opportunity to meet Connor but if he was anything like you and Susan- he must have been a great kid.Please know we are thinking of you both and your family.
The Baker Family
August 5, 2009
Graver Family-
You are in out thoughts and prayers. Please find comfort in Connor's friends and how much they loved him. He will forever be missed.
edna pardo
August 5, 2009
Connor, your the best. i know you are watching over all of us.
your in our prayers
rest in peace
lovee youu
kayla bishop
August 5, 2009
i really miss you so much connor you will never ever be forgotten. all of your funny jokes and the way you used to make me laugh. and all the fun memories we had together. this was a complete shock. you are amazing. i love you so much. you will always be in my heart.
Glen @Darcy Snow
August 5, 2009
A smile we will never forget! Our prayers and thought to the Graver family and Conner's friends at SFHS. Glen @Darcy Snow
August 5, 2009
Dear Susan and Family,
I was so sorry to hear about Connor. When you talked about him at Mccarthy's your face lit up! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
May God bless you!
Warmly,
Dayle Rousseau
Jacqueline Miller
August 5, 2009
Connor, I can't believe I'm not going to see you today. I can't believe we won't go to prom together this year like you promised, I can't believe you won't be calling. I am going to continue bringing flowers to Cove, and I can tell you one thing- I WILL NOT stop thinking about you, not today, not next week, not ever. You were like my big brother, and I need you to keep watching out for me. You had so much going for you and it breaks my heart over and over again to see you go. I love you more than you could ever know, and can't wait to see you again one day and jump into your arms like I always do. You're the best Connor, and you made more of an impact on my life than you know. From here on out, I'm going to live like you and the boys did- to the absolute fullest. Only the good die young baby, isn't that the truth?
I love you,
Your little JQ
August 5, 2009
A smile we will never forget ! Our prayers and thought are with the Graver family and Conner's friends at SFHS. Glen and Darcy Snow
Rick, Teresa and Russell Schoemer-DeMilt
August 5, 2009
Connor, watch over your friends and family. We know you will be forever in our hearts.
Tara Holly
August 5, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Kevin & Tara Holly
August 5, 2009
Susan and John,we heard the sad news while in Italy, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this difficult time, there are no other words that can be said.
Talk to you upon our return.
With our deepest sympathy-
Raffaele and family-
jade sih
August 5, 2009
connor ill never forget you i still cant believe your gone... it seems so unreal. ill miss you. please watch out for me connor. your in my prayers... i cant sleep tonight, your on my mind. i cant believe how many people where there for you tonight. you were such a great friend you always knew how to make me smile... i love you connor. how is this even possible? i wish i could just hug you right now. you have a special place in my heart for you. i miss you so much. love you<3
Cathy Reynolds
August 4, 2009
Susan and John,
We are so sorry about the loss of Connor. We wish that we could be with you in this tragic time. We will always remember Connor's smiling face and charming ways. Our thoughts, prayers and love are with you always.
Love, Cathy, Greg, Moia and Gregory
David & Naomi Wallace
August 4, 2009
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Cathy Reynolds
August 4, 2009
Susan and John,
Our hearts and prayers are with you both and Connor. We love you all and wish that we could be with you in this tragic time. We will always remember all the good times we have had together. God Bless you and our thoughts, prayers and love is always with you and we will always remember Connor for his loving and winning ways.
Cathy,Greg,Moia and Gregory
Brett Layton
August 4, 2009
Connor... Miles caused distance between us, but nothing can come between FAMILY. I love you very much and know that you are going to be missed. I will try to remember you are in a way better place than this. Watch over us :)
Jeanne & Bruce Nierman
August 4, 2009
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. We cannot imagine your sadness today, our deepest condolences are with you and your family as you grieve.
Samantha Henderson
August 4, 2009
connor, we went to middle school together i just talked you a couple weeks ago to see how life was going and how you were doing. when allison gillett told me what happen i cried because even though the last time i saw you and we talked we were so young i no that you didn't deserve to leave us. i just thought i would tell you that i'll miss you and i hope your in a better place now. p.s. i didn't forget you and i never will.
Matt Hinds
August 4, 2009
Ima miss you man, even though you always beat me in basketball i loved you man. Had great times whenever i saw you at a party and you were the man. Last time i saw you was at the baseball game and we all wanted you to cover us with the umbrella cause it was raining. RIP Connor, we will always remember and love you!
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