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Toni
October 9, 2025
21 years. A lifetime. Feels like yesterday. Miss you kid.
Ashley Bowers
September 26, 2024
Had a smile today talking with a co-worker about the time I found out that Scooter's name was actually Ralph. He was always just Scooter to us. I idolized him as the cool older brother that I always wished I'd had. Gone but not forgotten. :)
Frank Visker
June 14, 2024
Ralph, thinking about you on your birthday. Almost 20 years later, I still think of all the fun times we had. Miss you lots!
Teresa Rose
July 25, 2023
So tomorrow is the first UFO Congressional hearing and I could not stop thinking about you today and how excited you would be to see this happening.
Miss you as always and I hope to see you in the stars.
Teresa Rose
July 9, 2023
Life has been so hard without you. I think about you everyday. Every single day.
I think about you when I see news about aliens. I think about you everyday when I pass your house and place of rest on the way to work. I think about you when I tattoo.
I wish you were here. I wish you could guide me through the tough times. I wish I got to have Dr pepper way too early in the morning with you.
So much here has changed and I wish you here to see it. I see you in the garden roses, in the stars. It's been really really difficult these past few years and I wish you were here to talk to. Sometimes I feel like you're the only person who would understand me. I wish we could watch Lord of the Rings together.
I miss you more than anything.

Frank Visker
June 14, 2023
Happy Birthday Ralph! Still think about you often and all the great times we had together. The other day on the radio there was a segment on senior pranks. One of my favorite memories was when you, Jason and I climbed down the hill to the school and turned the huge "R" backwards. I think we're past the statute of limitations now, haha!
Jess (Rosa) Ahlfs
November 2, 2022
Dia de los muertos.. you are on my mind all the time but especially today Pedro.. (the name he chose in spanish class that stuck as a nickname for years between us). I hate that you aren't here to share all the changes and crazy things life dished out, I hope you are giving everyone hell and feeling the joy so readily spread to others.
Frank Visker
June 14, 2022
Happy birthday Ralph! Still think about you often and miss you lots.
Mom
October 12, 2021
Another year ... God I miss you.
Frank
June 14, 2021
Hey Ralph, thinking about you on your birthday. Happy birthday, and miss you!
Frank Visker
June 14, 2021
Hey Ralph, thinking about you on your birthday. Happy birthday! Miss you!
Toni
October 12, 2020
Miss you kid..
Teresa Haagensen
October 10, 2020
It doesn’t get easier, just tolerable. God I miss you.
Frank Visker
June 14, 2020
Happy birthday Ralph! Was remembering you on your birthday and all the fun times we had together. Miss you!
Frank Visker
June 14, 2020
Happy birthday Ralph! Was remembering you on your birthday and all the fun times we had together. Miss you!
Frank Visker
October 12, 2019
Hey Ralph, I was thinking of you today. Still miss you, even 15 years later. You are never forgotten and have lots of people who still love you.
Toni Petric
June 16, 2019
The big 4-0!! Hard to believe it's been almost 15 years since you left us.. and that you would have been 40. We miss you like crazy!
Frank Visker
June 14, 2019
Hey buddy happy 40th! Was chatting on the trip today about your boot camp graduation and when we went to Mexico. Fun times! Miss you lots.
Teresa Haagensen
June 14, 2018
It still hurts .... a day doesnt go by that you are not thought about. I love and miss you.
Frank Visker
June 14, 2018
Hey Ralph was thinking about you today on what would have been your 39th birthday. Miss you!
Frank Visker
October 12, 2017
Hey buddy thinking of you today. I miss the times we had together, but also treasure them. Miss you lots!!!
Frank Visker
June 14, 2017
Hey Ralph, was thinking about you today on your birthday. Miss you a ton!
Frank Visker
October 12, 2016
Wow has another year passed by already? Doesn't make me miss you any less. Wish you were still around! I'm sure we'd still be having a blast together. Miss you!!
Frank Visker
June 14, 2016
Happy birthday, Ralph. Thinking about you today. Had a great time this past weekend with your family. Teresa Rose is done with high school and you'd be so proud of her. Miss you lots my friend!
Charlie hoadley
November 13, 2015
I sorely miss you my friend. The good and the bad. You were always there. I tell my kids about and all the stupid stuff we did. You will always live on in my memory. Love you man
Toni Petric
October 13, 2015
11 years... wow. It still feels like you were here yesterday. Missing you.
Frank Visker
October 12, 2015
Thinking about you today, Ralph. I ran across a deck of your alien cards that I keep in my safe the other day and it was good to remember all of the fun times we had together. Miss you!
October 12, 2015
Scooter 11 years and still miss your smile, pranks and mostly your bear hugs.
Auntie Laurie
Roxanne Burdette
October 12, 2015
11 years and not a day has gone by that I don't think of you. Miss you Ralph.
Frank Visker
June 14, 2015
Ralph, just wanted to stop by and say happy birthday. Miss you so much even to this day! I'm so glad for the great memories that we had. Miss you, friend.
Toni Petric
February 12, 2015
Just thinking about you today Scoot. It's funny how little things in our daily life always make me think of you and your smile. 10 years have passed since we have had a bear hug and I must say, it doesn't get any easier with time. Stop in for a visit soon... We miss you :)
Frank Visker
October 12, 2014
Thinking of you today, Ralph. Miss you lots and I will always smile when I think of the time we had together as friends. Hard to believe 10 years has passed, but you will never be forgotten.
Mom
June 14, 2014
Happy Birthday Son .... You would have been 35 today. I remember like it was yesterday, when you came into this world. I miss your hugs and smiles and the crazy things you would tell me about the world. Not a day goes by that you aren' t thought about. You are so missed.
Wyatt Billingsley
October 14, 2013
Ralph you are missed. I will cherish the memories that you gave us. My wife and I's wedding would not have been the same without your energy. You were always the life of the party and I am glad to have served with you and that you brought your joy into each day that I knew you.
Monica Williams
May 25, 2012
Scooter I miss you so much your birthday will be here soon I wish you were here so I could put your face into the cake...Everyday I think about you and everyday I wonder what you would be doing if you were here, how many kids would you have, what a great dad you would have been. I hate that I can't have these things with you...but I love you more then you'll ever know!
Frank Visker
October 12, 2011
It's amazing how fast 7 years go by. Sometimes I feel like I could pick up the phone and call Ralph, or I'll get to see him when I come home to visit. Ralph, I will never forget you as long as I live. You were one of my best friends! Still miss you and love you.
Laurie Morrow
October 12, 2010
Every day I think of you and how I miss your bear hugs. The anniversary of the day you left is always hard no matter how many years go by, you will always be missed so deeply.
Love,
Auntie Laurie
Toni Petric
October 12, 2010
6 years and each is getting harder... Love and miss you..
Roxanne Burdette
June 14, 2010
Happy Birthday Ralph!!
Cassidy Petric
June 14, 2010
I was a baby when Scooter was around so i don't remember him. I wish i could've known him better. My mom tells me he was a sweet guy and he was great. I believe her and I wish I had a memory or two with him. Love you Scooter, always will!
Andrea Hopper
June 14, 2010
Happy 31st Birthday, Scoot. I miss you, little bro. You are loved and missed by all. I will have a beer for you tonight...cheers my friend. Keep looking out for us. It is a comfort to know I will be seeing you again someday, then we can cheers together. :)
Toni Petric
June 14, 2010
Happy Birthday!!!
Toni Petric
September 30, 2009
5 years since you left.. I never thought I would be counting this as a milestone in your existance but unfortunately, it is weighing heavy on my heart this year. Teresa turned 11 and boy would you be having a ball with her. She is artsy like you and has the wierdest sense of humor. But sometimes when I look into her eyes, I see staring back at me and I have to smile. I think you were the best uncle she will ever know.. I miss hearing you call me Toots too... I love you Scoot
jenny wells Miner
July 2, 2007
Ralph you will be missed at the Class of 1997 reunion this year well be thinking about you
Toni Petric
July 1, 2007
Well Scoot.. Your friend is on his way and I hope your there to greet him.
Not a day goes by that we dont think of you or share one of your little quirky stories. I hope Jason's family does the same.
"Your smile is missed by those left behind but upon entering the gates to Heaven, your smile will greet me again"
I love you both...
Laurie Morrow
June 14, 2007
Another birthday is here without you, and another year is gone without your bear hugs. I deeply miss you. Love Auntie Laurie
Jenny Miner
October 13, 2006
Ralph was a wonederful friend to all of us and i know he been missed by everyone who loves him today i think of him as a dear friend of mine
Monica Stewart
October 12, 2006
My Dearest Scooter,
It's not just today that I remember you, it's everyday that I'll never forget you.
You are all around me, and some day's I swear I can even feel you holding my hand. I keep things around me to remind me of you, but you know I don't need them because you are part of my soul. I just have them around so that people can ask me why I have all of these alien’s and jack balls (on my desk, in my car or house), and I simply tell them about the Legacy of my Scooter.
I miss and love you always Scooter!
Love Always,
Monica (Ca-Ca)
Monica Stewart
June 20, 2006
My Dearest Scooter & Family,
Happy (late as usually for our family) Birthday! I know your watching us from heaven, laughing at us for being silly & crazy, crying when we are sad, panicking with us because we didn’t have access to a computer to write you in memory of your birthday.
But thank you for knowing our hearts. Thank you for being my Guardian Angel. Thank you for helping me to live now so that I will live again in heaven with you. I miss you deeply, and I love you always Scooter!
Love Always,
Monica (Ca-Ca)
Dana
June 15, 2006
There are no words that could ever express the memories that I have of Scooter.... He helped make me who I am today. May he rest in peace.
Teresa Haagensen
June 14, 2006
27 years ago today you blessed my life with your spirit. At the time I didn't realize how lucky I was. So many times you were taken for granted and I didn't realize the pain you were feeling. There are no words to express the loss I feel. Even time has not healed the pain in my heart and in my head. I am so sorry that I could not take away your pain. I love and miss you so much. Mom
Toni Petric
June 14, 2006
It's has been a little over a year and a half since Scooter left us but it seems like its been an eternity. Everything is missed from his laugh to his extreme self make overs... I love you and you will always be in my heart...
Roxi Burdette
October 20, 2005
To Teresa, Terry, Toni, Aaron, and my little Teresa Rose.
There is not a day that goes by that i don't think of ralph/scooter. I miss his laugh and his smile but most of all I MISS HIM. you guys are my second family and with out you i would not have gotten through this. I thank God every day that i had a chance to be with your son and that we have some many great memorys that i will hold on to for the rest of my life..My condolences are still with you and will always be.
Love Always Roxi
Jenny Miner
October 13, 2005
What a great man he was i always think about him when i look into the high school year book and think how lucky i was get to be in the same Class year has Ralph my prayers are with you and the family
Jill Mason
October 12, 2005
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family of Scooter today as it was one year ago that he left us. He will be truly missed by everyone.
Andrea Hopper
October 12, 2005
Scoot,
You are forever remembered as my random run-ins guy. You lit up the lives of those around you, and we are comforted by the knowledge that you are looking out for us all. Love you, Scoot!! Always....Forever!!
Matt and Brooke
October 12, 2005
Always Loved, Never Forgotten, In Our Memories Forever
Toni Petric
October 12, 2005
Today, take a moment and remember Scooter (Ralph). The adventures you had, the troubles I'm sure you got into, the help he surely gave you, and the soul he was never afraid to bare....
Monica L. Stewart
October 12, 2005
My Dearest Scooter & Family,
Today I remember. Today I'll never forget. And today (wherever I am and whatever I am doing) I share it with others in the celebration of your life. When I awoke this morning there is only one thought & song that came to my mind I changed it a little for you.
Scooter, you are my sunshine,
my only sunshine,
you make me happy when sky's are grey,
you'll alway's know scooter how much I love you,
and my sunshine (Scooter) will never go away.
I Love you & miss you always.
Love Always,
Monica (Ca-Ca)
Derrick Stewart
June 14, 2005
Hey Scoot. I miss you and I think about you often. I'm usually not good and remembering others' birthdays, but your's has never passed without me thinking about you. I know this has been difficult your family, and I've learned about more about strength and love through them. I miss you pal.
Monica L. Stewart
June 14, 2005
Happy Birthday Scooter!
You are thought about everyday, all day long, and today is no differn't. But today we celebrate your Birth, 26 year's ago it was labor pains felt by Auntie T, and today it's our heart pains felt by all. I miss you so much and I love you always.
With Love,
Monica
LAURIE MORROW
June 14, 2005
26 years ago today, you came into our lives, with a whirlwind of never ending boo-boos. I miss you more than words could say and you are always in my heart.
Love,
Aunt Laurie
Colleen Crowe
January 13, 2005
I am so sorry for the loss your family has faced. I just found out about Ralph's death and wanted to let you know that I was his teacher at Rocklin High School. He was one of the nicest young men I have met and always had a great sense of humor. He came back to visit after finishing basic training for the marines and teased me about owing him a candy bar. I have thought of him often. He had a great spirit, and a lot of energy. My prayers are with you.
Colleen Crowe (Campbell)
Jenny wells Miner
December 6, 2004
Ralph was one of my friends from high school i know when our class Reunion comes i know Ralph well be missed with our hearts i send a song out to the family it is called Go rest High on that Moutian by Vince Gill it is a very touching song i will miss him as a friend i would always say hello to him
Monica Stewart
November 3, 2004
To My Dearest Uncle, Auntie & Cousins:
I know that right now peace feels like its non-existent, and the sound of comfort is like a stake threw your heart. I know that completeness of peace and comfort would be to have Scooter back.
There are questions with no answers and answers with no questions.
All of this brings us to here and now. I don’t know if understanding is accepting that Scooter is gone, or maybe we are the ones who are gone and Scooter is the one that is living now. Either way he is still living inside of all of us, so he will never really be gone.
I love all of you so much.
And as for you Scooter, I love you always, and I can’t wait for one of your loving bear hugs.
Love Always,
Monica L. Stewart
Laurie Morrow
October 25, 2004
Dear Terry, Teresa and Family,
Our sorrow is with all of you and I know how much my nephew Scooter was loved by his family and friends. You know I'm always here for all of you, and I will "Smile When I Think of Him". All of our Love and Deepest Sympathy be with you.
Love, Chris & Laurie Morrow
Derek Haagensen
October 22, 2004
Terry,Teresa,Aaron,Toney and Lil' T. Hey guys, We can't even imagine the pain you must be going through. We are deeply sadened buy the loss of Scooter. He was a wonderful nephew and cousin and always a joy to be with. He will be sadly missed. Take care and be strong. Love Derek,Darla,Curtis and Taylor.
Derrick Stewart
October 21, 2004
Hey. I'm going to miss Scooter a lot. I wish we had more time to spend with him. All of you have my love and sympathy.
Toni Petric
October 21, 2004
To all those friends and family members who have came forth with their words of sympathy and kindness,
We appreciate and value all of you. Scooter would be so proud and we will all miss him greatly.
Paula Chappell
October 20, 2004
Ralph was a great guy and a good friend. Always helped me thru some tough times and it was always a good time when hanging out with Ralph. You will be greatly missed. My prays go out to him and his family.
maria price
October 19, 2004
we will miss you ralph love price family
rose conkle
October 18, 2004
Dear Teresa & Terry,
Words can never express the love and sorrow we feel for you at this time. We are so sorry for the heartache and pain you are going through. I remember Scooter as a boy always one step behind Aaron & Toni, running and lauphing with that beautiful, open smile. We hope you find comfort knowing that he was loved by so many people,and he will be missed dearly.
Our thoughts are with you,
Love Jack & Rose
Kevin Scott
October 18, 2004
Terry & Teresa,
Sarah called on Friday to tell me what had happened to Scooter. I truly am sorry for your loss and I hope that you and your family remember that you are never alone.
I know it has been a very long time since we have seen each other or spoken. I honestly want you both to know that no matter how much time or how many miles that may have come between us, we can never be separated in spirit.
Regards,
Kevin Scott
St. Croix, USVI
megan schmidt
October 18, 2004
I loved scooter very much,he used to babysit me.He will be missed by everybody that knew him.I love you scooter! love Megan
Kathy & Johnny Huff
October 17, 2004
Theresa and Terry,
Words cannot express our sympathy. I can only imagine how difficult it is to lose your child. Know that you have many prayers with you to help to give you the strength that is needed at this time. In fact, my whole school of 186 kids offered prayers for your family. They say that God never gives us more than we can handle. I'm sure that you are questioning that right now, but believe that Scooter is better off now. May God help you to understand with the passing of each day. Love, Kathy and Johnny
Ross & Shontel LeDoux
October 16, 2004
Teresa.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless you and your family.
Ross & Shontel LeDoux
bobbie lefler
October 16, 2004
i will love miss and never forget you love always
cousin bobbie
bonnie & terry wickum
October 16, 2004
We'll miss Ralph's great sense of humor, his willingness to go out of his way for others,and his goofy smile. He was our second son and we loved him dearly.Our hearts go out to his family and friends. Nothing will be the same without Ralph. Bonnie and Terry { Mom and Dad #2}
Roxanne Burdette
October 15, 2004
I dont know what i should say, I loved scooter with all my heart. I wish i could have been there with him but i know he is in a better place now.
with all my love ~roxi~
Sandra Jones
October 15, 2004
Words can't express how bad I feel for the loss of Little Ralph. I remrmber the last time i seen him was at the reunion. I told him my Ralph you have grown. He told me, you know your the only one that ever called me Ralph. May the lord give you the strength to get through these very trying times. Our hearts are with you. Love Auntie&William
Lena Raneses
October 15, 2004
Ralph was one of the most unforgettable characters I've ever come across in my life....his smile and humor will be with me always.
I'd like to extend my condolences to his family; please know you raised an amazing son...and Jason Powers your strength and support in everything inspires more than you could imagine...i feel blessed to have you too as a friend..
Dean O'Shaughnessy
October 15, 2004
To Terry and Teresa:
There are not any words that can be shared as a friend but my thoughts are with you and your family.
Dean,Lisa,Phoenix,& Brock
"Lucy" Lacey Swol
October 15, 2004
I am so sorry for all of your loss. I never had the pleasure of meeting any of you, but I can imagine how wonderful you are. "Ralphy the petri dish" always had great stuff to say about his beloved family. He was my "aleium pal". I will truly miss him. Once again, I am so sorry about this loss. I wish you guys the best...with love...
Jim Stilwell
October 15, 2004
My Friends, Ralph was a very good friend. I wish his famiy well. I can only be there for you. A small group of us that went to School got together today, we all are Sorry for yours, and our loss. I wish everyone the best.
Jim Stilwell
Kristen Stapleton (Formerly Galvin)
October 15, 2004
My heart goes out to you all. I am so sorry for your loss. I have never felt such a pain as I did this morning when I read this. My heart hit the floor. Just know that his smile now lights our sky with the moon and stars at night and is there again with the sun in the morning. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Love always, Kristen (Krissy)
Don, Cindy & Justin. Downs
October 15, 2004
We are so sorry for your loss. "Tigger" is what comes to mind when we think of Ralph. Always so full of energy and laughter that was so contagious to everyone around him. We can't begin to imagine how difficult this must be for your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Cheryl Lind
October 15, 2004
Teresa and Terry,
We were so sorry to hear about Scooter. I don't know what to say to make it better but wanted all of you to know that we were thinking of you.
Cheryl, Kurt, Nicolette & Toriann
Heather Landrum
October 15, 2004
Teresa, Terri, Toni, and Teresa Rose, I am so sorry for your loss. Scooter was a great kid. I saw what a great uncle he was to Teresa Rose. I can't imagine what you are feeling but I want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Please let me know if there is anything I can do.
All our love,
Heather & Jim Landrum
ps. Mandy sends her love to Teresa Rose.
Robin Baker
October 15, 2004
We are so sorry for your loss. I remember Scooter always full of laugher and Kindness. We will always remember Scooter. We love you guys. Love Robin & Ken, Sarah & Josh
Jessica Wolfe (formerly Anderson)
October 15, 2004
I am so very sorry for your loss. Scooter always knew how to make people around him laugh and has touched many lives. I can’t even imagine how difficult this time is for your family. Please let me know if you need anything at all as I live just around the corner from you. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Please don’t hesitate to let me know if you need anything. My e-mail addresses are [email protected] and/or [email protected]
Jessi ca Wolfe (Aaron & Toni know me as Jessica Anderson)
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