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Yolanda Davis Obituary
Sp4 Yolanda Marie (Yo-Yo) Davis, U.S. Army Veteran, age 43 of San Antonio, TX went to be with the Lord September 6, 2009. She was born September 21, 1965 in Jersey City, NJ to Leroy and Sharon (Weldon) Borders. She graduated from the University of Phoenix with a Bachelor of Science in Business. She is survived by her high school sweetheart and loving husband of 25 years, Milburn L. Davis; sons, Anthoney Marques Davis and Avery Jerome Davis; daughter, Alexis Elon Karron Davis; mother, Sharon Borders; brothers, Leroy Borders, Jr., Elnardo Borders and John Borders; mother-in-law, Shirley A. Davis of Jersey City, NJ; father-in-law, Franklin Davis, Sr.; sisters-in-law, Sherry Ethridge and Sharon Towler; brothers-in-law, Franklin Davis, Jr. and Gary Davis; numerous nieces and nephews and all her co-workers at H.E.B. A visitation will be held Thursday, August 10, 2009 from 6:00 until 8:00 P.M. and funeral services will be Friday, August 11, 2009 at 12:30 P.M. at Colonial Funeral Home. Interment will follow at Fort Sam Houston National Cemetery with military honors. Please make condolences at www.mem.com.
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Sponsored by Milburn, Anthoney, Avery, Alexis.
Avery davis
March 24, 2024
Hey mom, it´s Avery 03/24/2024 it´s been quite sometime, I´m going on 29. Alexis is going on 27 and tony is going on 39. While tony still has 3 kids, I just had my first and would´ve loved for him to have met his wonderful grandmother. Im a truck driver now, with a house and a little bit of land. I just wish you could´ve seen how far your children have all come. I love you and always will -pumpkin
Eduardo Torrez Holeman
September 4, 2020
Yolanda was a beacon of light, hope and love. She cared for any and everybody and most of all she was loved immensely! She’ll always be a part of my story telling. I remember taking Yolanda to lunch at a very expensive steakhouse and she ordered her coke as usual. She continued to have a refill of her coke and we finished our meal laughing as usual. She saw my singing the lunch tab and saw that we were charged $3.50 X 4 for her cokes. At this time Yolanda says,” Damn I should have bought a BIG GULP at 7-11 for 99 cents and brought it in here!” I miss her immensely and extend my condolences again to her family and friends.
Avery Davis
December 7, 2017
Hey mom it's now 2017 in 22 tonys is 32 with 3 kids and Alexis is going on 20. Your little people have pretty much all grown up. I wish you could talk to dad and fix everything. I still think about you constantly and a hug and kiss would be great but in due time. Love you and miss you your second born Avery.
Eduardo Torrez
August 25, 2016
Mil Tony Avery Alexis
My thoughts and prayers to all of you. Yolanda was and still is a great part of my heart. She was my all time favorite secretary while at Incarnate Word. Gees I can still hear her laugh with such a great attitude that she had for life, marriage and motherhood. I will remember my YoYo and will pray that God keep his hands in your lives. Love to all. Peace to YoYo!! Mil my number is 360-601-2664
AVERY DAVIS
May 11, 2015
HEY MOM IM A LITTLE LATE BUT IVE BEEN THINKING ABOUT YOU LIKE CRAZY I MISS YOU HAPPY MOTHERS DAY
alexis davis
January 16, 2011
Wow its been more then a year now and reading all the comments just bring all my thoughts from the the first day having to deal with such a grave lost to me.. because of you mom I am strong enough to grow and carry this family and help through the bad times when we need you most. We all miss you terribly but I want you to be happy and I want to know your safe and there is no safer place then with God. I love you mommy always and forever "mommy and mamas"
Becky Nagy
September 22, 2009
Yo, you should be so proud of your family, each and every one of them. They are being so strong and brave, and yet, allowing themselves the time to cry when they miss you.
I'm sure you were watching on Saturday when Avery caught his first fish. Did you see that smile on his face? I know you are proud of Lexie for overcoming her fears and being brave enough to swim. The look of pride on her face was unbelievable. Tony introduced us to his new girlfriend, Sarah. I know you approve, she is a really nice girl. You must have been laughing along with all the rest of us at Mil. Did you see that ridiculous hat your husband was wearing? We were calling him Paddington Bear.
We had lots of laughs and had a really great time. Somehow I know you already know all this, but still I felt the need to send you a note. By the way, did you like your balloons? I'm sure you caught every single one of them.
Just know that we all miss you. Your family loves you so much and misses you desperately, but be proud because you have raised them to be just like yourself... strong and brave!
alexis davis
September 21, 2009
my eyes out is knowing that mymommy is happy now
alexis davis
September 20, 2009
my mommy i couldnt say this at the funeral but i can say it now my mommy was the best mommy i couyld ever wish for i cant stand being at home without hearing her cackle i luv my mommy and she is happy now and thts the only thing keeping me from crying my eyes
Dan DeVooght
September 14, 2009
My Dear Friend,
Let me first say that I cannot fathom what you are going through. The great depth of your loss is in direct proportion to the joy, love and concern that Yo brought to you and everyone she met. Yo "IS" truly "one-of-a-kind".
Her laughter is contagious. I remember the many times that she would laugh so hard that you, Becky and I could not resist joining her.
Her heartfelt concern for others has helped many people through the trials of their lives. I being one.
Just a few of the many fond memories:
-all of the good times we had bbq'ing
-watching Yo and you poke fun at each other until you both had tears of laughter in your eyes
-The great conversations Yo and I would have while I was shuttling her back and forth from her job at the hotel and home.
These are just a few of the memories-past. You and Yo will make more memories in the future.
Mil, God is with you, even when you "feel" like He is far away. He will help you and the kids through this time. God hears your prayers, understands your sadness, and knows that you are weak. He will carry you through this valley. I will continue to lift your family up in prayer.
Blessings and Love to You and the Kids,
Dan
Judy Hatch
September 13, 2009
Davis,
I am so sorry to hear about Yolanda. May God keep you strong and may your memories keep her close.
God Bless you and your children
Keisha Turner-Alston
September 12, 2009
Milburn,Tony,Avery and Alexis
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Yo will be missed I wish I could have been there with you all. Yo was always a great friend. I am glad to have grown up with her. She will be missed.
Tess Belken
September 12, 2009
Mr Davis,
My name is Tess and I was one of the people from Texas Med that worked with your wife. Please accept my sincere sympathy in your loss. I know your feelings well as I lost my husband 7 years ago. My only advice is lean heavy on God He will get you through this very diificult time. Right now He is carrying you but soon He will let you walk on your own beside Him. My prayers are with you and your children now and in the future, Tess Belken
Irma Esquivel-Toles
September 12, 2009
Dearest Loved Ones, It has been many years since I've seen Yo, but have never forgot her kind spirit. I was one of the many that was blessed to have known and work with her at the Sheraton Hotel. May the Peace of the Lord be with you at this time of sorrow.
Arlene Adams
September 11, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. yo ,was a kind and loving person she always brought sunshine through the day to the HEB family she was loved from all of us and what a personality she carried with her no matter how difficult of a day it was.
Michelle Taylor
September 11, 2009
I am very sorry for your loss that your family has incurred.I know Anthoney, and he loved her very much.She was a very beautiful woman. I know she will be missed dearly.I am keeping your family in my thoughts and Prayers during this loss. Condolences to your family.Anthoney:Keep the faith.Love always.
Gina Vargas-Ruiz
September 11, 2009
Davis -
I am truly sorry for your loss and know what kind of pain this has caused you and your children. Just know that all though right now it is difficult it does get better. Yolanda is looking down on you right now and knows that you will continue in life and raise those sweet children of yours. They need you!!!
Yolanda was the best, heaven just received another angel.
September 10, 2009
Miburn, Alexis, Avery and Tony,
What a shock!!!!!! We just talked a few days back. We were talking about how much we needed to get together...... how much we missed each other and was going to get together real soon. Remember we love you and will also miss Yo.
You guys know that our doors have and will always be open to you.
May God grant you peace and comfort now and in the days to come.
Juliette, Ida, Arnelle and Joshua.
September 10, 2009
"My thoughts and prayers to the family. Yo was a wonderful person. It was an honor to have worked and known her. The world has lost one of its best!" Erica Kent
Danette Boysen
September 10, 2009
Yo brought me many bright days with her sweet ways. She was full of life and always made individuals feel special; especially me. I will miss her; may God Bless you and give you strength at this very sad time.
Stephen Nagy
September 10, 2009
I am so very sorry for your loss. Please know that we are here for all of you. You are in our hearts, thoughts and prayers.
Steve White
September 10, 2009
I don't even know how to start cause I always depended on Yolie to write, grade, and of course censor my words. I do know we have lost a great friend and I have lost a close Friend and Sister. My prayers and thoughts go out to the family.
Norah Dodge
September 10, 2009
Yo will be greatly missed at HEB. We are blessed to have known her, worked with her and be friends with her. She was wonderful and all who came in contact with her knew she had a heart as big as Texas. I can still hear her laugh! And - Yes, her "Little People" were her life...Alexis "Leshi" was her "Mini Me" ...if you knew Yo - you knew about her family. God Bless all of you and give you strength.
Veronica Vazquez
September 10, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. I had the pleasure of working with Yo, she was a great co-worker and friend and will be greatly missed.
September 10, 2009
Davis, Tony, Avery, Lexi,
May the Lord's love embrace you and bring you peace in this most difficult time. Please know we are here for you if you need us. Please do not hesitate to ask. We will help any way we can.
With deepest sympathy,
Vince, Kristie, Javi, Livy and Ava
Lupe Melendez
September 10, 2009
We wanted to let you know that you have our greatest sympathy. Our sincere thoughts and prayers are with you.
With our deepest sympathy,
Debbie Ruiz & Lupe Melendez
Planning & Analysis, HEB
Dawn Torres
September 10, 2009
I am so very sorry for your loss, Yo was one of the greatest people I've ever had the pleasure of working with. May God be with you and bring your family peace.
September 10, 2009
Yolita...you're truly missed. My YA YA friend....
Rosa Padilla
Rosie Barboza
September 10, 2009
Words can't express the ache in my heart in losing my friend, YoYo. My biggest regret, not staying in closer contact with her. I remember when she first walked in at Health Services Command some 25 years ago. I knew we were going to be friends. We shared so much together. One thing I learned early on about her, don't talk to her until 10AM or at least until she had her coffee. Although Yo was 10 years younger than I, she was such an inspiration, so wise. Anyone who knew Yo, knows this is true. She was an anchor and one to get things done. She was never one to judge anyone and was always there to encourage you. She was my shoulder so many times in the past. To her children, know that you all were everything to her. Tony, I love you. You hold a very special place in my heart. Yo was so proud of you. And to the Little Peeps (not so little anymore)you all were her joy. Mil, I pray the Lord will give you strength to get thru this and to give you knowledge and wisdom in raising your children. I know you'll do your best. I'm gonna miss Yo. I love you all very much!
Martha Alvarez
September 10, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. I worked in a different dept at HEB but talked to Yolanda frequently and she was always so sweet and happy. She will be missed.
Edmund Almanza
September 10, 2009
Sorry to hear of your lose. It came to a shock to me when I heard.
May God be with you and your family. She was a great co-worker and friend. She will be missed. "Edmund Almanza"
Becky Nagy
September 10, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
Suzie Hamilton
September 10, 2009
Yo was like a sister, my Ya Ya sister. She is dearly missed.
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