Matthew J. Holley Obituary

Still miss you Matt!

Matt, John, and Stacey
Its five years later and I am finally brave enough to put a web site of my artwork together including the painting I made for you all. I wish I had had your strength years ago to overcome my fear of rejection. Your image deserves to be out there and perhaps to remind others what you all have done.

I pray that our wonderful God will strengthen, encourage, and comfort you all.

God bless you all abundantly

Scott and Vicky

Thank you never seems to be quite enough Matthew... As I sit and reflect on this Memorial Day weekend I think of the young man who said I'll go when so few in our country chose to. I'm humbled by such a brave and selfless decision. Thinking of you, your Mom and Dad especially at this time of year. Lifting your parents up in prayer, knowing this journey has not been easy for them. They are so admired by so many and even through their own pain, they keep giving back to your brothers and sisters in arms! Godspeed my friend, Godspeed until we meet again!

Hey Matt, just stopping by to say hi! There isn't a day that goes by that you're not thought of by me and so many others. Miss you bro! I'll be forever thankful that you were a friend to all of us! Peace out brother!

Thinking of you friend. I believe you are a gaurdian angel. It would be fitting.

You are missed beyond words... Your beautiful smile, your hugs, your laughter! With love the goes far beyond this world...

John and Stacey - you may not remember me, but I remember Matthew. He was someone my brother and I (and all of us kids) looked up to at our karate classes. Every November 15th, I light a candle for Matt. He was older than me, but he truly left an impression that lasts to this day.

With love,
Shannon and Dylan McCarthy

Matthew,

Our paths have crossed by happenstance, and I've come to know you through the words and actions of so many; your family, your friends and even complete strangers who heard of you in passing or perhaps through reading the book your parents wrote Medals, Flags and Memories.

Your parents are to be admired in so many ways. It's clear they hurt, and that they miss you far beyond anything words can convey. Yet I can't help to admire them for choosing to uphold your legacy and to honor your choice to serve our country. Through them it's easy to understand where your zest for life came from. Your motto “to serve a cause greater than myself” has encouraged and beholden others to reflect upon the choices they make and in turn continue touching lives beyond the grave. Your choice to serve our country in time of war is both admirable and convicting. I equally admire those who knew you, and who made that same decision, to follow in your footsteps. It is clear all these years later that so many respected you, loved you and still hold you close in all they do. Thank you Matthew! Thank you for making a difference in our world, in the lives of so many. Well done good and faithful servant, well done.

Watch over your Mom and Dad, be with them and strengthen them, until one day you'll all be together again. God Bless!

A Grateful and Humble American,
Timmy

I will never forget you Matt.
Uncle Vince

Hey Matt,


2009 has long passed yet you are still influencing our lives. Kind words from a person can warm the heart and finds its way into our memories where it never falls away. My little sister was only 11 years old when you taught her a lesson that she remembers even today and that helped her when she needed it the most. We still bow our heads in prayer every year in remembrance of you and we will continue to do so. We remember what you lived for and how you spread happiness wherever you went. We love you always and forever. Look down on Roan and Pablo and encourage them to stay strong and to never lose sight of what is truly important.

I belong to the Fallbrook, CA quilt guild and I am researching for a quilt we are making to honor our fallen heroes. My name is Sibyl Mills

Hi John, you probably dont remember me but you played football with my brother Carlos Santana at Montgomery and I was a cheerleader Marie Santana. I have three sons and my two oldest (Sean Michael McMullen & Patrick McMullen )are both in the Air Force. (Sean was also born in 1984, Patrick in 1986)I heard about your son from my ex-husband Mike McMullen and I have always wanted to get in touch and let you know how awesome I think your son was. You and your wife are so BRAVE and I can not even begin to know what you two have been through and all of the pain in the loss of your beautiful son. My heart goes out to the both of you. I have been reading all about Matthew on your site and he sounds so great what a blessing from God, he even had your great smile :) My brother Carlos also wanted me to let you know that his heart hurt as well when I told him about you and your family. I remember you two always clowning around and I loved cheering for the AZTECS. Anyway, just wanted you too know that even though it has been many many years I still remember you being a good friend to my brother and just being a great guy. You will always be in my prayers. regards....Marie Santana McMullen King class of 1977 AZTECS #1

Dear John,
I appreciate your call this evening, and I can say that I believe Matthew would be very proud of your efforts to continue supporting youth through his name and memory.
Respectfully,
Chris Lavallee

Dear John & Stacey,
We served together in Herlong. I was attempting to locate some Army friends and came across your website. I have educated myself on the devastating loss of your son, Matt. Please accept my most sincere condolences. John I have read nearly every one of your entries and what a great relationship...very special.I viewed some photos and you guy look great. Very sorry to learn of Matt, what an amazing individual. Please say "Hey" back if you get the chance.

To the family and friends of Spc. Matthew J. Holley:
Please accept my remembrance of Matthew on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

Hey Matt,

Today is Veterans day. I have been thinking about you all day. Thank you for giving your life for our freedom. Not a day goes by were I dont think about you. I miss you so much! I had the urge the other do to call you and talk like we use too. Love you!

Hey Matt,

I was thinking about you the other day and came across this website. I remember you so well from your karate training. All the kids looked up to and we as parents admired you. I can still remember you walking into the dojo talking about going into the military. We were all so proud of you. I will never forget walking into Starbucks to get a drink and seeing your huge smile behind the counter. As you know I proudly fly the American Flag 24/7 to remember all those who have served and made the ultimate sacrifice. I also fly a small flag "honor & remember" in your memory. I am proud to let people know that are my friend. Thank you Matt

I miss him alot...

There are no words .....God Bless each & everyone of America's Fallen Heroes. I'm am truly sorry for your loss. I honor America's Heroes every year in runs all across Our Great Nation. I would love to honor Matthew. Please contact me when possible. Thanks Jennifer Roberts

Matt,

I have come to this page more times than I can count just to catch a glimpse of you.I have not been brave enough to verbalize just how much I miss you.It seems like a not so distant memory that night you told me you were going into the army.My heart sank.The boy I found myself in love with was leaving?!?!I was so proud of you and no lie to be said I was saddened.We were kids, foolish high school love right?That summer was a summer like no other.Any second I got with you I took.Taking you with your cousins to the train and me finding myself not wanting to let you go.I guess I still have not let go.Your parents are doing amazing things in honor of you.I sit here with tears of sadness and overwhelming pride.Thank you for letting me be just a small piece of your life.The impact left with me is one that can not be expressed in words.I smile everytime you dance across my thoughts.Pigs will never be anything but hilarious to me now because of you.There are so many that miss you and love you dearly.Thank you for being you!

John and Stacey,
I am sorry I have not spoken to you sooner.I live in San Diego now and would love to get in contact with you if possible.You raised an amazing man!!His heart, his integrity and his character were all built by you both.God Bless you and know you are always in my prayers.

Dear Matt ,
Though I haven't met you, I have known your dad for a long time. He being one of my brothers best friends , he feels like a brother to me. I read your story, what an awesome you man you were. What a privilege it would have been to have know you. So, thank you for your self-less service to our country , your courage and strength. I will keep you in prayer as well as John and Stacey.

Hey Matt. I miss you so much and its still hard not hearing your voice or seeing your face with that great smile. I wish you were here everyday. My big brother your my hero and I know when I look up at the stars your somewhere up there. I love you so much. Keep watching over us. Love you cousin Jeannine

To the family and friends of Spc. Matthew J. Holley:
Remembering Matthew on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Dear family and loved ones of SPC Holley, I did not have the privilege of knowing Matthew -some day I hope to personally thank him and all our fallen heroes for their sacrifice. I can't imagine your pain & I am just so very sorry for your loss. I wish each stroke on my keyboard could erase all of your hurt. May the delightful memories keep on comforting you until you are reunited with Matthew...what a glorious day that will be! God Bless you

Hey Matt you were on my mind today as always, but it is that time of year again when we acknowledge your Birthday and are thinking about the coming holidays without you around the family.
I really miss you; I hope you got your birthday balloons.
You're still the best son I ever had Bobalouie...
I hope all your questions of life have been answered by GOD.
One day in GOD's time, mom and I will be there and have our questions answered too, 'cause I sure have a lot.
Tell Grandma I love her and miss her too and give her a hug for me.
I'm doing the best I can, but could use your help sometimes.
Well all for now 'till next time...

I Love You,

Dad

Matthew, Thank you for your ultimate sacrifice. You will never be forgotten. You are a hero.

Matthew, on this Memorial Day weekend 2010, we Thank You for the sacrifice you gave for our freedom. You are a true American Hero!

Matthew, I met your parents at the Christmas Eve sevice at Midway two years ago. Your folks are incredible people and touched my wife and I so deeply in our brief conversation. I've since moved from SD, but we keep your Foundation card in our kitchen as a reminder our how precious our freedom is. The contributions of your beautiful life and those of your loving parents will live with me and my children and my children's children. I've never been so humbled, you are our hero.

Hey Babalouie,
I miss you. Saw you in a dream last couple of nights.
It made me happy and sad that's why I am writing.
I love you so much and every one else thinks about you all the time, especially around this time of the year, because thats when you went home.
Mom and I will be there when we can and we'll catch up.

Love Always,

Dad

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Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna

Hey Matt,
Dad here. I just wanted to say (as if you didn't know) we had a great Karate Tounament yesterday and sold a lot of your art for the foundation. It was awsome.
Your karate art piece is getting more and more known. One of the black belt women said she was going to send your poster that we made of your drawing to a sensei in Japan.
Pretty cool. I am so happy that your art is being appreciated, that was always my wish for you and I know it was yours.
I wish I knew what you named it, if you did you never shared it with me.
So I will name it after consulting with your mom.
Sensei Ferdie and Jill were there as were many others.
I know you were there in spirit so you already know all this but I have to write it anyway.
Well all for now. as you know I really miss you, everyday.

I love You,

Dad

To the family of Spc. Matthew J. Holley:
Matthew gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know Matthew, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol



Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b

Dear Matthew,
Another year as gone and today is Veterans Day. My heart aches with pain missing you so much. I have a screen saver on my PC that I have been staring at all week and remembering all of our time together as a family. The picture is of you and the girly girls laughing so hard. Jeannine is crying she is laughing so much and wiping the tears from her eyes, you are starting at Charissa and holding both of your cousins in your arms. Charissa is laughing and is bend over a little bit to catch her breath with her eyes shut. Boy, those were the days. I miss hearing the three of you laughing and horsing around at our house. I can remember many summer nights, the three of you dancing to music, joking around, and telling stories. I would wake up late at night (or should I say very early in the morning) to check on you guys. There you are dancing and jumping around with a big smile on your face. When you would see me, you quickly turn the dance into a karate chop, showing the moves and laughing. Your auntie Di caught you dancing (lol). I do have to admit they were pretty slick moves.

I can remember all the drama the three of you would get into and how you guys could not stay mad at each other for very long. You use to pick on the girls so they would talk to you and you would not let up until they did. Your uncle Phil and I would stay out of it, knowing you would get them laughing in few minutes. That is after they would give you an ear full first. My three beautiful kids. You had a very special way with your cousins. You were their brother and my boy that I always wanted but never gave birth to.

I am still having a hard time knowing you are not physically here anymore. In 4 days your anniversary of leaving us behind and starting your new life begins. It will be three years. So much has gone by and yet it seems like yesterday you were here. Your cousins sure could use you right now. They also miss you so very much and wish they could have a two way conversation and not just one. I know in my heart God wanted you for greater things, but the reality is, we were not ready to let you go. I always pray for you Matt and I hope you can hear my prayers and what I say to you. I love you so much and miss you. Please stop by and in your special way and say hi.
Love always, your auntie Di.

Hey Matt,
I was thinking about you on your birthday Sept 19. Wrote your folks and asked them to send up a balloon from me.
Just thinking about you. Your bravery, courage and sacrifice are still not forgotten.

Hey Matt,
Just wanted you to know that your Mom and I are going to receive an award on Saturday from the city of San Diego.
It's a Humanitarian Award for the "Holley Provision" that we got passed for you and all the other troops.
I miss you a lot and wish I could talk to you in person.
It's still hard you know, but we are carrying your flag forward in your honor. We wouldn't be getting this award except for your sacrafice and that of your brothers, Grigg, Roman-Cruz and Estepp.
Brian was doing ok last I spoke with him and Shawn is doing fine. He's getting stronger.
I miss calling "Hey Matt" and you saying "ya Dad".
Your Mom is staying strong and Grandma Allen is doing ok.
I know you are enjoying yourself and I will see you when I get there and we'll play some checkers.
Well all for now.
I love you,
Dad

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Holley!

Hey Matt,
It's late and I'm pretty sad right now.Been thinking about you a lot the last few days. Wish you were here. I'm trying to be strong like always, but it's getting hard. The constant struggle is really tiring me and mom.
Just was listening to this song about soldiers and had to write you a note and say that "I love you" and will see you as soon as God allows.
You have it lucky Matt, you aren't stuck here anymore with all the crud this world continously dishes out.
I can't understand how people can be so cruel to one another.
Well all for now Matt.

Love and Thumbs,
Dad

Hi Matt,

It’s been a rough week son. Two years have past, and sometimes it seems like we were just in the living room, celebrating the holidays together. We reconnected with Dr. Andrada the other day. He said he had just been talking to his sons about you. He remembered a conversation he had with you about when it would be time to switch the boys from Tae Kwon Do to Karate. He smiled, and said maybe that time is now. People do remember, just like Dad and I, as if it was yesterday. Love you bunches and miss you even more.

Matt! All I have been thinking of today is you! I want to cry and I also want to smile! You are so awesome Matt! I miss you more everyday! Sometimes I wonder why I couldn't be the one to die! You had so much more to live for then me! I am sorry Matt! But at least you were helping people which was what you were good at! I love you so much and am praying that I get to see you soon!

Hey Matt,
Today is the day you went to heaven.
I'm doing the best I can.
Mom and I still struggle with your being re-deployed to be with God, but I know it is much better there than here.
In 35 mins it will be exactly 2 years that you left.
My only wish is that I could have a weekly conversation with you. I miss our little debates. You were getting so good at it.
I know life with me was not perfect, but I did the best I could. You know that.
If it's allowed please come visit me from time to time, I've been waiting.

Love and Thumbs,

Dad

Matt I really miss you man i wish we had more time to truly get to know each other your family is probably the greatest group of people i've ever known they are a second family to me i wish that i could talk to you one on one it's veterans day and if your looking down on me i hope you see that i'm advocating daily for soldiers past and still living your father inspired me with his drive to see you taken care of i just want to say to you and the rest of the holley family that i truly love you all and i will never forget i will always push for everyone to know the things we went through thanks doc for the laughs and the support i love you john and stacy.

Hey Matthew,

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

There is no doubt that one of the greatest joys a parent can experience is the birth of a newborn child. By contrast the greatest pain a parent will ever experience is the loss of life of a child. I will always remember September 19, 1984 at 10:30 in the evening and those words your Dad shouted, words of joy “he’s a boy”, Matthew John Holley. We chose that name early, because it conveyed strength, courage and calm, and you were all those and more. Whenever someone asked, your Dad would always proudly exclaim that you would be born.

The second date I will never forget is the November 15, 2005. In an instance, you became forever 21, and yet with every passing year we vow to never forget your birth and to celebrate a life taken from us way to soon. We’ll celebrate this year with family and the closest of friends, those who knew you well. We’ll send 23 balloons your way to the heavens, we can only hope you see them and smile. We’ll let them go at dusk at the park that looks to the ocean. We miss you everyday… Hugs and kisses from afar.


I wrote this is for you – Happy Birthday Son!

You Gave

The joy of your birth was blessed,
The pain of your death was harsh
No more so for your parents,
For those closest to you

For God, for cause, for country,
You gave your life.
With pride, honor and courage,
You paid the ultimate price.

Six comrades carried you softly
They laid you down gently
On the sunny side of Glen Abbey,
As TAPS played softly

A folded flag for all to see
For the price you paid,
That kept the fight for freedom
Alive another day

Some said you were crazy
To stand, fight and die.
We would say they have no courage,
They would just as soon run away and hide

Yet others have followed you,
They’re proud and willing
To serve, to give their all,
For God, For cause, For Country

They carry forward the banner, that call
Knowing their day could come too
That loved ones hearts can be broken
And yet they follow because you gave.

Love you Matthew...

John and stacy,
hey guys we're coming up on two years already it's crazy. i love you guys i hope everything is well i hope you guys know you can call anytime to talk i think about them everyday also. you all take care i hope to visit you soon

love, brian

If this person can stand in battle to ensure my freedom, then I will stand in grief with his/her family to honor him/her. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guest book for the rest of my life, but I promised LE RON A. WILSON (a dear friend KIA 7/6/07, 18yrs old) that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Holley and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

Dearest Matt,

It's been awhile since I wrote you last. Man, do I miss you...I think about you constantly. I miss those days when we used to spar at the Dojo, beat each other bloody, then laugh and shake hands afterward. You have so many people who love you and miss you as well. Your parents have done so much good for your fellow servicemen and servicewomen since your passing, I know you would be proud of them! You will always be in my heart and soul and I will never forget our hard work together and your ultimate sacrifice. Thanks again brother, I know we'll meet again someday.

Dear Mr. Holley,
We cannot thank you enough for your efforts in how our beloved son and brother came home to us after being killed in Iraq on 12/24/2006. PFC Evan Bixler was flown into Racine's Batten Airfield on a private jet on 01/03/2007. Through our local newspaper, we now know that it was due to your assertive efforts that we were able to welcome our son home in a private and dignified manner. If the US Armed forces should ever need any input on how to do things more "expeditiously" and more "compassionately", we would be happy to give them suggestions. In the meantime, we thank God for you!
May God grant you peace~
PFC Evan A. Bixler's family
Lisa, Kevin and Amy

Mr. John Holley . Sorry for the loss of your son. Thank you taking a stand in the way our soliders are bought back home. We read your story in our newspaper today. we know your lost is great.
You have made a differance and may you find peace in knowing that.
Thanks again. may God bless you.
we have a son in Iraq . Gloria

Matt, I miss you man. I am hoping to get in contact with your parents again. Hoping that I can dig up some old pics from AIT, and share some memories with them. I'm working on it. And Jett is sending me up a bracelet from Campbell remembering you. I'm holding on. I look at your name and phone number in my cell phone. I won't erase them. I can't. I'm looking at deployment this time next year. Some soldiers run and try to get out of it. What kind of soldier would I be to run, when you, my friend, gave the ultimate sacrifice. I owe it to you to serve. I'll be there. I'll fight for you.

Hi Matt,
It has been a tough year for all of us. The first year seems like a bad dream, I was going to wake up and you will be there. The phone is going to ring and it is going to be you at the other end.

This year reality hit and it hit hard, you never called, you did not show up for the holiday gatherings. I did not hear your laughter in the girl’s room or catch you in the middle of dancing in the living room, only to see that beautiful smiley face of yours, knowing that Auntie Di caught you in the middle of your dancing frenzy act, which turned into a karate chop, then into a kangaroo jumping work-out event (LOL). Busted!!! Yes Auntie Di is telling all, I caught you dancing and not just once, but many times. How I loved having you there at the house. I loved watching the three of you together or listing to you guys in the next room laughing. I miss your stories and watching you interact with my girls. Our home was filled with so much joy and laughter. I miss you Matt. There is not a day that I do not think of you or pray for you. God bless you my son I always wanted but never had. I love you so much Matt. Love your auntie Di.

Matt,
I can't believe it has been over a year since you were taken from us. Father Time has done his best to try and stanch our raw emotions of loss and the cavernous void left in our lives by your passing. Your parents have been instrumental in improving the way in which our war heroes are treated. You would be proud of them as much as they are proud of you. As you have heard in my prayers, you have my love, respect, and thanks for letting me be a part of your life.
Uncle Wayne

No matter how much time passes, it doesnt change how much youre missed Matt. The picture of us from Salt Lake City Nationals still hangs on my wall, and I think about you all the time. I hope you never forget how much youre missed and remembered...

Hey Matthew,

What a year, and what a journey. At times it's been so hard to remind ourselves that we are not the only ones who miss you.... Dad and I have met so many people over this past year who we've come to know loved you and miss you very much. Your quirky laugh, the jokes and the serious side. We know you're here with all of us. It’s been hard to not see you come through the door proclaiming “I’m here”! We know it's not to be, and we miss that.

There's not a day that goes by that we don't think about you, if only for a brief moment... We hope you hear us. It gave us such joy to see your smile and the twinkle in your eyes. It is so hard to not know what it is like for you in heaven today, but we’re sure you’re happy and that your watching over everyone, just like you always did.

We miss your hugs, and the “I love you’s”, almost to a fault. We just wanted you to know… You’re the best son a parent could have asked for. We realize in the end you chose your profession, and we know from talking with others that you loved what you did, that you cared, and that’s admirable.

Dad went to Iraq because he wanted to “walk a mile where you walked.” It’s opened his eyes to all the good you and the others have been doing over there. We just want you to know we love you, and hope you’re able to see how hard we try to be strong for you! Please continue to be with all of us this next year.

Love you bunches,
Mom & Dad

Remembering Spc. Matthew J. Holley, on this first anniversary of the day he gave his life for our Country, with a Multitude of
Thanks for his Courage, Service and Dedication to our Country and for Freedom.
May Matthew rest in God's Loving Care and know that he will NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
May God's Grace and Comfort, continue to be with the Holley family.
From the sister of a Fallen young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam. KIA~1967.

Hoping you continue to feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you each day, as this Country remembers someone very precious to you, who is a Hero to all of us.
I am deeply sorry for your loss.

holley i got to meet you for a short time and wish to got to know you better. You knew my husband, you were my husbands medic and he died with you in the humvee.And you were a great guy and now you are in good hands now.But the time will come then we get to meet again.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MATT!!!

We toasted you at dinner last night and wished you a VERY happy day! WOW! A birthday in Heaven with the "Big Guy"! How cool is that!!!!! We sure do miss you and think of you all the time. See you in the ice cream room Einstein! Aunt Marcia, Uncle Vince, Spencer & Shannon xoxoxoxox

Matthew,

It's just me your other half. God I miss you so much your birthday is just a week away and I'm not sure if I'm prepared for it. Shawn is coming home next week it's hard to imagine that the love of my life wont be coming out of that plane with his best friend. I love you baby. I still have a hard time comprehending the fact that you will no longer be here physically, But I'm glad that everyone who's written in this guest book had so many good things to say about how you've impacted their lives. Your parents and I miss you so much and so does Seth and Mikhail. I will be seeing your dad next week and going back to San Diego for Thanks giving.

love your fiance

Hey doc I love you man thanks for the times. You rock Ranger doc. TO doc's family I love you guys call if you need anything i'm always here.

It's been so long since I've been able to talk to you. I'm sorry it took me so long to find out about your passing. You were a really great friend to me. I remember hanging out in AIT. And then cruising to Nashville when we both got to Campbell. Always know that you are a true hero. And I will miss you!!!

Thank You For Your Service!



YOU WILL NOT BE FORGOTTEN!!!

Matt,

We talk about you everyday and remember you every night in our prayers. Spencer & I always hope you're in the "ice cream room" in heaven and are eating it all up! We'll meet you there one day but you better save some for your Aunt Marcia!! We love you Matt and miss you much. Give Amos a hug for us and Grandma too!

To the Holley Family:

I went to AIT at Fort Sam houston with Matt and I was stationed at Fort Campbell and worked with him at the Troop Medical Clinic until he deployed. I enjoyed being around him because he was always saying something silly to make me laugh. I was devastated to hear about your loss. My condolences go out to you.

I trained with Matt at Ft. Jackson and Ft. Sam Houston. I can truly say he was one of the most popular guys there. He had a goofy sense of humor but was always cheerful and always thought of other people's feelings. I only just found out that he passed away and I'm in total shock. Matt was like a younger brother to me, we went out on the town and had some great times together. I only wish I could have been there for him. Nothing will ever erase his memory and my deepest sympathies go out to John and Stacey. Matt love you bro!

I trained with Matt at Ft. Jackson and Ft. Sam Houston. I can truly say he was one of the most popular guys there. He had a goofy sense of humor but was always cheerful and always thought of other people's feelings. I only just found out that he passed away and I'm in total shock. Matt was like a younger brother to me, we went out on the town and had some great times together. I only wish I could have been there for him. Nothing will ever erase his memory and my deepest sympathies go out to John and Stacey. Matt love you bro!

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. THERE JUST AREN'T ENOUGH WORDS HERE ON EARTH TO EASE YOUR SORROW I KNOW. HOLD TIGHT TO HIS TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI



A MARINE MOM

John and Stacey, it was an honor to be of service to you and to have the opportunity to learn how Matthew touch so many lives including my own. You are both always in my thoughts and I will never foreget my time in your service.

Hey, Holley everyday you been gone your face runs in the back of my mind regardless of im having a good day or not, i remembered all the good days we had just chilling at the barracks, and its hard to believe that when i move back in the barracks your not going to be my neighbor anymore, we werent the best of friends but you were always there and its been a tough deployment without you, i wished you were still here, I miss you I will never forget you, Ryan

Matt,



I love you so much man! I think about you everyday! I still wish so much that you were here and things were back like they were. Everything got so messed up when you left Matt... we need you here. I hope you know how much you mean to all of us! I love you dude.



Shawn

Matthew,



It's hard to believe that tomorrow will be four months since you passed away. Your Dad and I are so proud of all the accomplishments you achieved in such a short time here on earth. You will always be my HERO and will live in our hearts forever. I miss you more than words can explain. There are so many people who love you and are so grateful for the sacrifice that you made for us. I miss your hugs, your laughter, your quirky little jokes, the emails or quick phone calls and most everything else about you. I miss those days when we just hung out because we could. Next to Dad, you are my best friend and I look forward to seeing you at the gates of Heaven one day.



Love you forever and ever,

Mom

Son,

I've just been sitting here crying my I eyes out 'cause I miss you so much. Mom and I are so very proud of all you accomplished.

It still hurts so bad to think that I won't get to give you a hug or thumbs again on this earth. I've been reading all the nice things that people have said about you on different web pages and I just can't understand why You.

I do know this though that the day when I see you again can not come soon enough.

I Love You Matt,

Dad

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My heartfelt sympathy to the Holley family in the loss of Matthew. I did not know Matthew, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers.

I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.

Love and Peace

Tom



To live in the hearts

of those you leave behind

is never to die"

~Robert Orr~

I remember John from Elementary School. God bless him and his family. Thany you, John, for your service to this country. Let us never forget our heroes.

We care and share your sorrow.

Thank you for serving this great country of ours. Thank you for what you have given us all.



I will not forget and it's my mission to remind all of who you are and what you have done for us.



Iraq War Heroes



Don't Let the Memory Of Them Drift Away

God speed and my prayers for John and Stacey.

MR.& MRS Holley,

May Gods love & grace at this time comfort your heart. When i saw your sons unit patch my heart broke & tears fell down my face, as my son is also with the mighty 101st in iraq, as you i also am army, & with all my heart, i thank you so very much for the brave, noble service that your kind hearted son gave to the world, may young matthew live forever in your hearts, & god bless you, hooha.

Thank you for serving your country. God bless you and your family. You are truly an American hero. Rest in Peac.

Matthew,

Thank you for giving me the best 3 years of the purest love. I love you so much. You always use to say "When the worst is over you can have the best of me."...but I did Matthew, I had the best of you!Everyday for the past three years because you did such a good job loving me. You were so good to me! Distance was not an obstacle we couldn't handle so why should death be one? You are blessed in every way sayang, we will continue to celebrate your life and I will see you soon baby.

Your fiance,

To Mr. and Mrs. Holley,

I am Shannon McCarthy, I'm not sure if you remember me, but I was on the karate team with Matt. He was an awesome guy, and was always there to talk to me. I know it may not have seemed like much, but he meant a lot to me. He always made me feel included and he was so fun to be around. My favorite memory of him was during Nationals. He was so full of spirit and determination and I always used him as a role model. He is always in my prayers and thoughts. He will be sorely missed.

~Shannon~

To the Parents of Matthew: I just found out about your loss. I "adopted" Matthew thru the Soldiers' Angel Program & was just sent a letter stating that he didn't receive my letter. I'm heartbroken & can only say that he was a true American hero & we are so proud of him. Our love & prayers are with both of you during this difficult time.

Matt,You will always be in my thoughts! I love you! John and Stacey, I love you guys! You are in my prayers! Love, Bethany

Dear Matt,

I will always remember you trying to teach me to draw and then you decided to teach me karate because I could not draw for a darn!:)I will always love and miss you very much! I can't wait to see you again in Heaven!

Matthew you are my friend, my god son, my brother in Christ, my hero and I can't wait to see you in heaven to give you a big hug and kiss. Thank you.

All my love and more, Louise

p.s. Our prayers and thoughts are floating towards heaven for you Stacey and John, knowing that the LORD is carrying you through day by day.

What a beautiful service. Our thoughts and prayers are with you John and Stacey. Thank you for allowing your son to be a part of our lives in America. God bless and keep you.

John and Stacey,

How to begin is the biggest dilemma of all. You have lost your one and only child to a deadly and vicious force in a far away land. My heart as a parent weeps for you. Your child gave all he had to give for his country in the knowledge that what he and all his comrades were doing was right, honorable and necessary. I can only hope that you two strong individuals will weather this horrible storm of loss together. I am not sure we could. My deepest sympathy and prayer for you and yours.

May God bless and keep you in the palm of his hand forever.

Lynda Northcutt

John & Stacey, the memorial and funeral for Matt were moving and beautiful. He was a wonderful young man and will be greatly missed by everyone who knew him. We look forward to being with him again in heaven one day.

Love, Mary and Kevin

My dearest Matt;



I cannot begin to explain how fortunate I feel to have known such a caring and strong individual as yourself. Your charisma and humor are something I will never forget. It is incredibly hard to let you go, but I thank God for allowing you to be in my life, and for so long. I cherish the time we did have, and will remember you always. Thank you for giving the ultimate sacrifice, and for doing it with your warm smile. You are missed.



With love,

Kathleen (Miss Peppermint Brownie)

Matthew, I only met you one time. I know your mom and dad. I hope that they will find comfort in knowing that you are in a better place now. I am very thankful for your service to our country. I am sorry that we lost you. May God Bless and be with your family at this time and always. You are truly missed!

MATT (MATTCHU), YOU HAVE ALWAYS BEEN THERE FOR ME NEVER AS A COUSIN BUT AS A BIG BROTHER,AND I KNOW THAT EVEN THOUGH YOU ARE NOT HERE, I KNOW YOU WILL ALWAYS BE HERE FOR ME. I MISS YOU SO MUCH,AND I LOVE THAT I HAD SO MANY MEMORIES WITH YOU. I LOVE THAT I CAN SHARE THEM WITH PEOPLE,AND I FIND MYSELF SMILE AND KNOW ONE DAY I WILL BE WITH YOU AND WE CAN SHARE MORE MEMORIES TOGETHER. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH..LOVE ALWAYS AND FOREVER YOUR CUZ AND SISTER JEANNINE (JENNISON)

Dear Matt,



I'm so sorry to hear of your passing. Thank you so much for your sacrifice and for serving our country. I will always remember how your happy nature belied your mental and physical toughness! I will really miss you and pray for you often.

You were my first best friend ever!I'll never forget you. God now has his best Angel!!

Matthew,

Thank you for protecting our country. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you and your family.

Cheri DeLong and Family

Matthew,

I am thankful that your parents raised such a fine young man. I am thankful that they shared your special flame with this family. I smile always at the thought of you and the impact you have had on all of our lives. You will always be a part of my heart. Uncle Mark

Matthew,

We haven't seen you since you were 11 but we are so proud of you. Thank you for protecting our country. John & Stacey, our thoughts and prayers go out to you. God Bless you. We love you.

Matthew,

You will live in my heart. I have many happy memories of you. Your kindness to the children has made a difference.

What I cherish most is when you started calling me Aunt Susan.

I respect and will miss deeply the wonderful young man you became. You will always be my nephew Matthew.

My heart truly goes out to your family for your loss. Although I never knew Matthew, my nephew Travis was killed in the same incident with Matthew. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers as I know we are all grieving and dealing with the loss of a loved one. Please know that we were proud of Matthew for his commitment and service to this country. May God Bless you and give you comfort and May God Bless all the men and women serving in the US military at home or abroad.