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M.L. Kirtley Obituary

died suddenly of a heart attack at 64 years of age. Husband, son, brother, father, step-father, uncle, he will be dearly missed by all his family and friends. He is survived by wife, Mary; mother, Maxine; children, Rivka, Jessica, Amanda and James; grandchildren Roxanne and Daxton; his best four-legged bud Jake; a large extended family and many, many friends. Late in life Mike found the work that he loved, substance abuse counseling. He joined old friends working at Crossroads Residential Treatment Center and was dedicated to the residents. He loved music and singing, often substituting his own lyrics. He loved telling stories and talking to people. He would go for walk-abouts, coming home with tales about who he met and what they talked about. He had a wonderful sense of adventure and saw the humor in all things. Mike had a strong sense of fair play and always stood up for the underdog. He was loyal, fearless and had a big, big heart. Every morning Mike would open the door and say, "Hello world, here I come." In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to the American Heart Association or Sequoia Humane Society. "May the road rise to meet you, May the wind be always at your back, May the sun shine warm upon your face, May the rains fall soft upon your fields, And, until we meet again, May God hold you in the hollow of His hand" Please sign the guest book at www.Times-Standard.com, click obits.

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Published by Times-Standard from Apr. 23 to Apr. 24, 2011.

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Betty Silber

August 28, 2011

My deepest sympathies are with you and your children Mary. He was a very sweet man. I'm so sorry for your loss.

JD Berlingeri

August 11, 2011

Mike was truly a solid friend. Through thick or thin he had your back and would give you the shirt off his back, literally!

Ruth Woolworth

May 6, 2011

As you go through life you sometimes have an opportunity to meet someone you will always remember with a smile. Mike was one of those people. He would make you smile or make you think or just entertain you in general. So, when you think of Mike, remember to smile, because you had the opportunity to know someone very special indeed. My condolences to his family and friends.

Yvonne Ross

May 4, 2011

Mike was a huge part of my recovery. It was during a 1x1 with him that the light came on and changes started happening.I will never forget his kind heart and the way he loved his dog.See you in the next round.

Lindsay Demello

April 28, 2011

Mike truly was a great man with a passion for music, laughter, the people he helped and life. I remember sitting with him and talking about music trivia, he always spoke fondly of his wife Mary, his children, and of his four legged friends. It was such an honor to get to work with such a man of integrity...you will be truly missed Mike.

Don Johnson

April 28, 2011

Mike sure loved to tell stories--especially those including himself and Patrick. I completely enjoyed listening to Mike tell his stories. Mike, as I remember, loved to laugh and had a wealth of information when it came to trivia involving music. I will greatly miss Mike. Mary, my heart goes out to you.

Cherie Zygaczenko

April 28, 2011

My deepest sympathies, Mary, to you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss.

Carrie Lowe

April 23, 2011

Our thoughts are with you and your family Mary. The few times I had the honor of meeting Mike he was AMAZING. I know nothing can be said to make to pain go away but we are so very sorry for your loss.

The Lowe Family
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Dawn Fedder

April 23, 2011

April 23, 2011
Mike was a great guy with a huge heart. He helped many find their way for many years. He will be truly missed. Take care Mike, say hi to all those we know in heaven...

Diana Livingston

April 23, 2011

Mike had a calm, healing demeanor, and at the same time he could keep order amongst the chaos created by those struggling with life. He and I shared a common love of our four legged dog friends. I picture him playing with the many canines he loved over the years. Mike spoke often of the love he had for Mary and his adult children. I wish his family the best during this time. It is a loss for all of us.

Shawn Doney

April 23, 2011

Mike was truly a man of integrity. He always had something positive to give and helped hundreds find hope. Mike was the type of man that this world doesn't have enough of. Thanks Mike...I will never forget you.

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