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Jeanne Traynor
October 1, 2024
Remembering Adam with love. Thinking of Lindsey and the kids as they honor him.
Richard Schintz
September 28, 2020
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Randy Dahl
September 28, 2019
Still think of you every time we go to the dirt bike races I think of that time you tried the one handed superman i talk about it to everyone good times brother!
Lindsey Merta
October 1, 2014
Its been 3 yrs since you've been gone and not a day goes by where I don't think or talk about you. It makes me said that our kids and myself have to live without you. I never thought I would be raising them alone and at times its so hard. Its just not fair at all. I know death is a part of life but yours got cut short and now we have to live with that. We love and miss you everyday.
Lindsey Kalstabakken
October 1, 2013
Adam it has been 2 years since you passed and I miss you so much everyday! I still think to myself why this happened besides it being an accident. Why couldn't you be saved and a huge miracle happen. I worry about our kids as they continue to grow, how will they turn out and how will this effect them. It seems like you were here with us just the other day. Alanah couldn't believe it has already been 2 years, she said it feels like it happened a few months back. I will continue to be the strong mom that I have been for our kids, just know that I think of you daily and I will always love you until we meet again.
Ebone Barrow (Suggs)
January 17, 2013
Adam, I still have the most fondest memories of you. My heart goes out to your family. Lindsay look forward to seeing Adam again in
A better place. Waiting to see you with that wonderful smile :-)
CRYSTAL BAUCH
January 6, 2013
LINDSEY THERE SERIOUSLY ISNT A DAY THAT GOES BY THAT I DONT THINK ABOUT YOU AND YOUR BABIES! I PRAY THAT GOD TAKES AWAY ALL YOUR HURT, PAIN, AND EMPTYNESS. I NO NOTHING OR NO ONE WILL EVER REPLACE ADAM BECAUSE HE IS EREPLACEABLE BUT STAY STRONG FOR THOSE LITTLE ONES AND ALWAYS REMEMBER HE IS STILL WITH YOU EVERYDAY, WATCHING OVER YOU AND YOUR BABIES SMILLING DOWN AT YOU PROUD THAT YOUR THE MOTHER OF HIS BABIES AND THE LOVE OF HIS LIFE! MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU ALL LINSDEY, THE KIDS, ANITA, APRIL, HIS HOLE FAMILY!! STAY STRONG!!
CRYSTAL BAUCH
January 6, 2013
ITS BEEN ALMOST A YEAR AND A HALF SINCE YOU WERE TAKEN FROM US AND I STILL HAVE A HARD TIME BELIEVING THAT YOUR REALLY GONE. IT BROKE MY HEART THAT ADAM HAD TO GROW UP WITH NO DAD AND NOW HIS POOR KIDS ARE FEELING THE SAME EMPTY FEEING HE FELT. ADAM USE TO ALWAYS SING THE CATS IN THE CRADDLE AND CRY ABOUT HIS DAD, I WILL NEVER FORGET THOSE DAYS. ADAM WAS SUCH THE LIFE OF THE PARTY NO MATTER WERE IT WAS OR WHAT IS WAS. HIS SMILE WOULD LIGHT UP THE ROOM AND MAKE YOU SMILE EVEN IF YOU DIDNT WANT TO.I LOVE YOU ADAM AND WILL BE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.
April merta
November 21, 2012
Happy thanksgiving adam. I miss u everyday!!!
Love u. April
April merta
October 9, 2012
Ur 1 yr was oct. 1 st and i blessed ur grave even though it was so hard for me to be there if mitchy didnt help me idk if i coulda done it. Cin ur name on ur headstone is to hard to c. My life w out u leaves me feelin incomplete and alone i hope i dont feel this way forever. Im alone w out my other half my brother. I love u adam
Inez
October 2, 2012
Dear Adam,
I think of you the long haired boy and the young man who's life was taken too soon when you were living life in a good way. I send prayers out to your loved ones Lindsey,the kids, your Mother & April. It is hard to beleive that it has been a year. If we could only turn back time. Peace to all your friends & family Be kind to one another one never knows when we will not get another chance.
Lindsey Kalstabakken
October 1, 2012
Adam its been 1 yr since you left us. I cant believe this still is happening. We love you so much, I dont know how I'm going to get through life without you here. It's so unfair that this has happened and that we have to go through this, especially our kids, they deserve to have you here. I think about you 90% of my day, and I relive that tragic day everyday. Love you always and forever. Were going to bring you flowers later on and let all the kids release balloons for you that have messages written on them.
Lindsey Kalstabakken
October 1, 2012
Adam I love and miss you so much. I dont understand why this happened besides it being a freak accident. I play it over and over again in my head everyday. Its not fair that me, your mom, sister, and especially our kids have to go on without you, they dont deserve this.
Tina Gobely
October 10, 2011
Adam,
I remember like it was yesterday running into you while driving on the freeway (of all places)you waved me down and I followed you off the exit. You told me how you had changed and I could tell you truly had. You asked about Lindsey and begged me to have her call you and I did. I was the first person Lindsey told when she found out she was pregnate with Alanah. She was so excited I never seen her smile so big..you truly brought out the best in Lindsey she loves you with all her heart! Thank you for letting me be there when Alanah was born it ment the world to me, and thank you for being such a great man to my best friend! I truly believe that everything happens for a reason..but this I just can't imagine! I love you Adam Rest in Peace.
Sherry Scherer
October 9, 2011
Adam,
My nephew I still got to call him, I love you so very much and always will. Even though your uncle Eldon and I divorced we stayed family, as we do for Eldon and I am so glad you all still concedered me as your aunt and when you brought lindsey into the famliy what a beautiful fit that was and those childern of yours what can you say but the best thing that every happened to you. The reason you became the man you where,
I Always got a hug from you and you hugged so big. Your every meaning of being is because of your mother Anita she stood by you and april through thick and thin and believe me I seen some of the thick as well as the thin. She has showed you what strong is and that is what you became and that is why you choose lindsay she is that very same women. One of my memories of you is one of the nights that I stayed at your mothers house you where about 3 or 4 yrs old I woke up and what do I see but Adam at the stove with a chair pushed up to it cooking us all sausage. I smile every time I think of that. Love all so very much Love Auntie sherry
Cheryl Heller (Donahue)
October 9, 2011
Anita & April I can't believe he is gone. I wish I could have been there for you but only heard about this today. (Sunday 10/09). I remember babysitting him & April. I didn't see him again until he was 13. He helped me get my jeans out of the chain on my bike. He was such a cutie pie than. That look he gave me (Like DUH) and than that bright smile. I'll never forget it. It looks like he still had that great smile and from what I read in his guest book that he was also a great man and Father. Doesn't surprise me though. He had a heart of gold even at a young age. I only wish I could have got to know him as a man. What a tragic loss. My thoughts and Prayers are with you all. Love to you all.
Roxanne Donahue
October 9, 2011
Anita & April: I am so sorry to hear about Adam. I remember I babysat him. He was such a good kid. They both were. My prayers go out to you and your family.
Gina Rosenberger
October 7, 2011
Adam, you were a fun, loving, goofy kind of guy. One who loved his kids more than anything and Lindsey as well. I am so glad that your kids had a good life with you while they got to know you as thier father, the one who taught them many things they needed to know in life. Now it is time for you to be thier angel from above...
Jeannie Lange
October 6, 2011
Adam you will truely be missed, you were a great man! When we first met (you were like 13) you always knew how to make everyone laugh. Although we haven't been in touch lately I'm sure you haven't change ... I love you budddy!!
Brian & Jeanne Traynor
October 6, 2011
Rest in Peace, dear, sweet Adam! I know that heaven is brighter with that radiant smile of yours up there. I will always remember how you lit up around Lindsey and the kids. I have a mental picture of you making pancakes at the 4th of July celebration and Adrian's - and singing karoke. You were a gem and will always be missed. We were all so proud of all of your accomplishments. We send our love and best wishes to Lindsey, the kids and the rest of the Merta family.
Kristen Boldt
October 5, 2011
Lindsey, My heart goes out to you. I remember sitting in the photo class dark room with you and listening to Joe (I wanna know) as we would talk about your plans after school with Adam. When we re connected on facebook I was so thrilled to see you where still going strong with Adam and now to see your two beautiful children. My prayers and deepest sympathy goes out to you. <3
Nicole Maxwell
October 5, 2011
Lindsey, kids and the rest of the merta family, You are all in my thoughts and prayers over the last few years I have known Adam through Lindsey and I am so sad to see such a great man, father go especilly at such a young age. I know this is a tough time and I am here to do what I can to help make this any easier on you. I love you all lots.
Nicki Shodin
October 5, 2011
Merta family- I am so sorry to hear about loss of Adam. I knew him growing up with Tiffany and all the other kids. Adam was a great person and God took him away to soon. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Jessica Lakin
October 5, 2011
My heart goes out to the Merta family. I am very sorry for your loss. Adam was a genuine man. Thoughts and Prayers with the deepest Symapthy!
Elvin Rodriguez
October 5, 2011
Its been a tough weekend to find out that a good friend had just pass and went to heaven a young age. I wish the best for Adam's family, Lindsey and their kids. I remember the first time I met Adam was in 3rd grade in Roosevelt.He Had the mulet going on. Never seen one coming from Puerto Rico. Adam was a good guy that loved to compete he will always be remember has Fun, funny and great father.love u buddy and rest in peace.
Lindsey Kalstabakken
October 5, 2011
My beloved Adam. I'm so lost, confused, stuck, and am not the same without you here. Me and our babies love you more then anything in this world. You were my rock, my other half. We will miss you so much and I'm not sure how I'm gonna get through this and go on without you but I'm gonna be strong for our kids. We will never ever forget you. You have changed all of our lives forever. Love you always and forever. Your fiancee Lindsey
green
October 5, 2011
Anita and April, I am so sad to hear of your loss , you are in our prayers.
The Green family
David and Jody Spear
October 5, 2011
Not often today do you encounter a young man who is so mature and genuine that they make you feel confident in the future. I felt an almost immediate connection with Adam, but then again, most people that knew him probaly also felt that. Adam was that kind of person. You knew when you met him that he would suceed because he was a hard worker and planed a great future for himself and his family. I got to see Adam in action first hand when he put in our sprinkler system. Although he directed a crew on the job, no one worked harder to complete the work then himself. Over the last several years I got to have a number of conversations with Adam at family events and gatherings that my wife and I attended. I knew from talking with him that he truly believed in the american dream; that if you persevere and work hard you will get ahead.At these gatherings you could also witness what a great father he was to his two children and how devoted he was to his future wife, Lindsey. Despite his dedication to his work and family he also knew how to have a good time as I saw him play horseshoe and do karoke. We saw him do a great Michael Jackson at Angie's birthday party this summer. Skip his future father-in-law was so proud to talk about the great person Adam had become. It is tragic not only for his friends and family, but for the community that we have lost such a fine young man.
Tanya Hunter
October 5, 2011
I knew Adam from growig up on 1 ave. You were taken way to soon. R.I.P. Adam. My thoughts and prayers go out to friends and Family.
Sheila Marik
October 5, 2011
Lindsey and family, our prayers are with you at this time of loss. Sheila Marik and family
Cheryl VonBerge
October 5, 2011
Lindsey and kids, I am so sorry Adam was taken from you too soon. I know how much he LOVED you all and I am so glad he made a point to spend so much time with his family. He is such a good person, always had a smile, always positive. He will be missed greatly! Rest in Peace Adam!
Lindsey Kalstabakken
October 4, 2011
My beloved fiancee, and a wonderful father to our children. I'm so lost, confused, broken, I don't know how I'm gonna do this by myself without you here. You have been my rock, my other half. I can't believe this is happening. All I know is me and our babies love you so much. I'm trying to stay strong for our kids. Love you always and forever my love....
Matt & Danielle Nicholson
October 4, 2011
Such a heartbreaking loss... Adam you may be gone but never forgotten. Lindsey & family you have are most heartfelt sympathy. It has been said many times but not enough what a wonderful man, fiance, & father he was.
Steve Lefkowich
October 4, 2011
Thank you Adam for all the car shows, the BBQ's, for being there for me when I needed you, for being a good father, a good friend, for all the arguments over who's got the better this or that, for the jeep race down 494, for the times when you hung out with Angelo, for teaching me how to be sillier than I already was, you where someone that I called brother and you meant a lot to many people.... you will be missed dearly my friend :-( Steve and Angelo~
Diana sanchez
October 4, 2011
Adam, I will never forget the good old times we have had. I will miss you deeply and will keep the memories of you close to my heart. To Lindsey and the family, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. He was such a good man with a great smile and was always so polite and will be missed deeply.
R.I.P Adam
mathew will
October 4, 2011
Gone but never will forget. I will cherish all the great memories that we had growing up. You were One of a kind. Rest peaceful My Friend. Until we meet again.
Amber Raak
October 4, 2011
To Lindsey and Adam's family. I'm so sorry for your loss. Adam was a great man and father. He will be missed by many and never forgotten. Adam left amazing footprints here on earth. God bless.
Mel
October 4, 2011
Deepest sympathies to your family. Adam was a great person and will b missed by many .
Monica Hoglund
October 4, 2011
Adam I will miss and love you forever.
You were a great fianc'ee and wonderful father and son.
Sara (Lucas) Vance
October 4, 2011
I have many memories of Adam growing up. I will never forget that smile. I'm so sorry for your loss. He will be greatly missed and just know he touched alot of people's hearts.
Donna Hulst
October 4, 2011
My deepest condolences Lindsey and family. My best memory of Adam is at your dads singing Michael Jackson. Absolutely hilarious!!
Kristi Carroll
October 4, 2011
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Inez DeCoteau
October 4, 2011
To the Family of Adam,
My heart and prayers go out to you all. Lindsey, his children, Mother and Sister. May the Creator comfort you and provide guidance with the unexpected passing of your loved Adam. He was a brother to my son and like a son to me. I watched him grow, from elementary,through teenage years. But he grew up and learned what is important in Life. Loving Lindsey and his children. Adam I will miss your smile but will never forget your long hair riding your bike on 1st Avenue. Peace be with you Young Spirt
October 4, 2011
I was Adam's 5th and 6th grade teacher in South St. Paul. Adam could be a handful but I loved that kid. His charm and his smile won me over. I have always had a soft spot in my heart for Adam. I am so sad for the family.
My deepest sympathy,
Nikki Laliberte
Sean Mason
October 4, 2011
See you in paradise my Beloved Friend!
Mark Smith
October 4, 2011
Adam you were one of the gratest hardest working most loving father/person ive ever met>>> You will truelly be missed by so many brother love you Mark Smith
Randy Dahl
October 4, 2011
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Merta family Adam We all will miss you it's hard to see someone you grew up with since diapers pass much love bro God Bless
Faith Handt
October 4, 2011
What a terrible loss!! Your smile is unforgettable and you are missed by so many. Peace to your family and close friends at this very difficult time...Sending prayers RIP Adam
april merta
October 4, 2011
My head knows what my heart refuzes to know. But u will forever be young fit and handsome my beloved brohiem i dont know how to breathe i feel like something is lost or broken in me. I dont wanna live all the yrs w out my brother. I wipl miss u every sec of every day for the rest of my life. I wish u were still w me
Kelly Mason
October 4, 2011
I met Adam in grade school, he always knew how to put a smile on your face even if you didn't want to. I will cherish the memories we had. I will miss you Adam
kelly barrett
October 4, 2011
Prayers are with the family...I have many fond memories of Adam. His giftto make anyone smile will never be forgotten.
Thomas Scherer
October 4, 2011
April and family, Im sorry for such a tragic loss, i really never got to know him but have heard wonderful thing, my best wishes and prayes go out o you and your family.
yvonne storey
October 4, 2011
Anita we are so sorry to here about this, we just found out, may god be with you and your family at this time, take care, and if you need anything let us know, jerry and yvonne storey
april merta
October 4, 2011
Though my brain knows my heart refuses to accept. U will forever be young and beautiful. I will forever be broken w out u we were the only 2 same and now im alone and missing something illnevrr get back. Love u brohiem. April
april merta
October 4, 2011
Though my brain refuses to believe what my heart already feels i know u are gone i will forever be half of what i was u were my brother u completed me u will forever be young strong and beautiful. Id give nething for u to be w me cuz u were the only man that was a constant and u are gone no matter what i do i will forever be broken inside w out u. Love my brohiem, april
October 4, 2011
Lindsey and Merta family,
There are a million prayers for your peace and comfort during these next few days and into the future. My heart hurts for you. I will miss Adam very much, as he has been a very good friend to me. I will always cherish the memories i have of him. Please let me know if I can be of any help - in any way.
Thinking of you and sending my love,
Chrissy DeNardo
Shannon Aubert (Moe)
October 4, 2011
I'm so sorry to hear of Adam's passing, it's just so hard to believe still. Adam and I were close durning High School. He had one of the best smiles and always knew how to cheer people up when he knew they were down. He was so fun to be around. Even though I haven't seen Adam in a couple years, I will never forget that smile. You will never be forgotten Adam. Rest in peace.
Terry Burger
October 4, 2011
Anita,April, Lindsey and Alanah and Malakai, What a tragic and unexpected loss. I am still in disbelief. I don't think the reality has hit me just yet. We lost our brother at a early age and I know how difficult that was for our family. I know that you have your wonderful family and many friends to help you get through this.please keep in touch.If there is anything we can do to help in any way, please call. My Thoughts and prayers to you all.. love Terry Burger
JANET MERTA
October 4, 2011
my thoughts and prayers go out to the merta family!
margie brambilla
October 4, 2011
Anita,I just can't think of any words to offer you that would help right now.I am just so,so sorry.If you want to talk or anything please call me,we've had many therapy sessions over the years haven't we? My heart goes out to you,please accept my condolences.See you on Friday.
jessica schintz
October 4, 2011
Adam you will be greatly missed. My prayers are with the entire family. It will be hard not seeing your smile at the family gatherings. Rip adam see u on the other side.
Mike Henthorne
October 4, 2011
Was alway a cool guy to hang with. Have not seen him in a long time.. Sad to see someone we know pass . My condolances to his family.
Melissa Dahn
October 4, 2011
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
margie brambilla
October 4, 2011
Anita,there are just no words I can offer you that would help right now.I am just so,so sorry.Please know that I'm always here if you just want to talk,as we have done so many times in the past.Please accept my sincere condolences,I just wish there was something I could do for you,please know you're in my prayers.I'll see you
Friday.
Dick & Nancy Schintz
October 4, 2011
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Jim Schintz
October 4, 2011
My prayers are with you Adam and family. You will always be in are hearts.
Amanda Wood
October 4, 2011
I miss you and love you cuz so... very much. Words cannot describe the pain we all feel in our hearts, knowing that we don't get to share new memories with you anymore. I still cannot believe that you are gone. I am so thankful for all the memories and I will definitely cherish them forever. You were and always will be an amazing man. I am proud to say that you are my family. I miss your laugh,your voice,your smile,especially miss your warm big hugs. Until we meet again may you rest in peace. Our lives have forever changed since you went away.
Hoffman family
October 4, 2011
My family and I are sending out prayers to Adam's family. We are very sorry to hear about your loss. He was such a great person!
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