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LOUISE PENCE Obituary


PENCE LOUISE BURNER PENCE Louise Burner, born in 1923, grew up an only child on a farm by the Shenandoah River in Woodstock, Virginia. Her parents slaved through the Depression, nearly losing the farm, but saved it by taking in guests from Washington, DC. At age six, working 16 hours a day cooking, feeding chickens, doing laundry seemed normal to Louise. She didn't know any better then, but soon would. A bright girl, her father taught her to read at age three. At registration for school, she had been reading LIFE and LOOK for two years, so she skipped a grade. She attended the same one-room school as had her father. School got her off her lonely farm. In winter, her father walked across the big meadow to the county road, making holes in the snow so little Louse could follow behind. At the road, she walked two miles to school. As a teenager, a larger world acknowledged her. Although unsophisticated, she matured quickly. She especially enjoyed Sunday afternoons in a town that housed the hundred cadets of the Massanutten Military Academy. Graduating from Woodstock High School at 17, she was hired by Wender's Department Store, the most fashionable store between Winchester and Roanoke. She worked there for a year before moving to Washington, DC. Midway through her first year in DC, Japan bombed Pearl Harbor and suddenly this city swarmed with thousands of strangers coming together to start new lives. On a bus-trip home, she re-met Gilbert E. Pence, Jr, another only child from Woodstock, whose father had saved her father's farm from a bank-takeover by taking a case to the Virginia Supreme Court. She married Gil in 1947. During the war, Louise worked in real estate. While carrying her first child, she studied at night for an accounting degree from Strayer Business School. For most of her life, she managed several apartment buildings in downtown Washington, which she and Gil bought from savings. She also managed the finances of a local construction firm. All her life, she made shrewd investments, and thus in her later years, lived comfortably. In 1952, she and Gil bought a house in Glenmont, MD, living there for the next 50 years. Raising 5 children and with Gil working downtown as a Trademark Examiner, she still arranged for repairs, evicted derelict tenants, and interviewed prospective tenants for her several apartment complexes. Louise loved Washington, seeing it grow from a sleepy Southern backwater to an international cosmopolis. Appreciating farm-life, she never regretted leaving it. In her last decades, she traveled to cultural events downtown and around the East Coast. She visited her children in Alabama, Vermont, and Washington, attending weddings and graduations. She stoically cared for Gil for a decade, who died at 87 in 2001. In 2002, she moved to Leisure World, happily living alone there for a decade, winning prizes bowling at Glenmont Lanes and leading the Going-It-Alone Club. She drove until her last months. She passed away suddenly on April 22, 2013, just shy of her 90th birthday. Five children survive her: Gregory Pence of Birmingham, AL, William Pence of Burlington, VT, Marie Pence of Seattle, Robert Pence of Gaithersburg, MD and Carolyn Pence Kummerlowe, Seattle; and nine grandchildren, Jonathan Pence of Burlington, VT, Melody and Lauren Pence of Honolulu, Hawaii, Carly, Anna and Conner Kummerlowe of Seattle, and Luca and Julia Pence of Seattle. The family wishes to thank the team of Dr. Joel Kalman of Kaiser-Permanente, and Vicky Hulcher and Michelle Burchick of Compassionate Care for Seniors, LLC for their wonderful help in keeping Louise independent during her last two years. Memorial Service will occur at Inter-Faith Chapel, 3680 South Leisure World Boulevard, Silver Spring, MD on Saturday, April 27, 2013, at 2 p.m., followed by a reception in Clubhouse I of Leisure World. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the American Heart Association Memorial and Tribute Processing Center, PO Box 5216, Glen Allen, VA 23058-5216.Memorial Service will occur at Inter-Faith Chapel, 3680 South Leisure World Boulevard, Silver Spring, MD on Saturday, April 27, 2013, at 2 p.m., followed by a reception in Clubhouse I of Leisure World. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the American Heart Association Memorial and Tribute Processing Center, PO Box 5216, Glen Allen, VA 23058-5216. www.COLLINSFUNERALHOME.com

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Published by The Washington Post on Apr. 25, 2013.

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Marie Pence

April 19, 2021

Thank you to all who wrote about my Mom...of course, my tears are flowing....I miss her so very much! She had such a generous heart..
was always giving $$ to those in need....how the heck she fed and
raised the five of us....and worked...and carpooled...if only I had a 'do-over'.... REST IN PEACE....my sweet Mother -- Your loving daughter...Marie

Marie Pence

April 18, 2021

My Mom! Her birthday is coming up (May 9) and it often falls on Mother's Day - so bittersweet! I miss my Mom every single day...as her listening ear (and so non-judgmental) was always there for me. Going to watch her favorite Alfred Hitchcock movie in her honor (we both LOVED Alfred!)...'The Lady
Vanishes'.....you instilled in me a generous heart...and an acceptance of all.....I miss you! Marie

May 5, 2013

I loved seeing Mrs. Pence when she came to visit in Seattle and Bainbridge--she was always so fun to be with, warm and kind--I can still hear her voice and see her smile! I really enjoyed reading more about her life and many accomplishments in addition to children and grandchildren.
In loving memory of Louise, Frances Douglass

May 3, 2013

She was a beautiful person - loved being around people and doing things for people. She was instantly likable and very giving to anybody. Never missed a birthday or graduation or family gathering. She was the world's best Grandmother, and I will miss her dearly. - Julia Pence

Carol Skinner

May 2, 2013

I did not know her personally, but this is a beautiful and moving tribute to her and her life. It made me wish I had known her. My condolences to the Pence family. You had a wonderful mother.

Marie Pence

May 1, 2013

To my Mom -- God may have you in his arms...but I get to
always have you in my heart. I will always love you. Marie

April 29, 2013

she was a kind and loving person. I enjoy seeing and talking to her when she came to Seattle.May the love of friends and family carry you through this time. xoxox Nicole

April 29, 2013

Thanks, everyone, for your beautiful comments about my mother Louise. -Greg Pence

Mrs Karen Thompson

April 28, 2013

We send your family Prayers and many memories from the Joe Crabill family. A donation has been sent.

April 28, 2013

My sincere condolences go to the family and friends for your loss. Please turn to our heavenly father in prayer for support. Psalms 65:2.

John Wittig

April 25, 2013

Greg:

My heartfelt sympathy. Your mother was clearly a remarkable woman. You were lucky to have had in your life for such a long time.

Linda Seal Mason

April 25, 2013

I did not know your mother personally but she and my mother knew each other. They went to the same church while growing up in the Woodstock area. I did know your mother's parents and visited the farm many times. With deepest sympathy..

Alan Stovitz

April 25, 2013

Thank you for writing such a lovely memorial obituary for Louise Pence. My mother, Dorcas, was born in Mt. Jackson in 1916, just down the road from Woodstock. Dorcas lived within 5 miles of Glenmont from 1951 to the end of her life. Thank you for including the fact that Louise was still driving until a few months ago. This is a lovely essay about Louise, thank you and God bless you. -- Alan

April 25, 2013

With sympathy,

Carolyn Xander

American Heart Association

April 25, 2013

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

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