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Paul Cain Obituary


 
PAUL FRANCIS CAIN  
On December 15, 2011, loving husband, father, and grandfather Paul Francis Cain peacefully entered Heaven. He is survived by his wife of 39 years, Joan Runion Cain, of Colesville, MD; his children Theresa Argandona (Andrew) of Alexandria, VA; Patricia Cain Pitkin (Douglas) of Washington, DC; and Paul (Christina) of Pasadena, MD; and three grandchildren Ayden, Brendan, and Megan. In addition, he leaves a brother, Joseph Cain (Margaret); a sister, Laura Green (Bob); and 13 nieces and nephews and their families. He was preceded in death by his brothers, John J. Cain and Bernard L. Cain and his sister, Sr. Patricia Cain, MM.Paul was born in Washington, DC and lived in the area his entire life. He graduated from Gonzaga College High School, and received an accounting degree from the Benjamin Franklin School of Accountancy, which later merged with The George Washington University. He served in the U.S. Army from 1953 to 1955, at Ft. Campbell, KY. He became a Certified Public Accountant in 1958. After working for Millard T. Charlton and Associates for several years, he joined Henry M. Witt, Inc. until his semi-retirement in 1999. Paul stayed active despite health battles over the past few years. He enjoyed traveling with his wife to most of the states east of the Rockies, watching sports, and visits with his family and friends. He was a member of St. John the Baptist Catholic Community in Silver Spring, the American Legion, and the Woodridge Club. His family and friends will greatly miss his humor, wisdom, and kindness.Relatives and friends may call at Collins Funeral Home, 500 University Boulevard, West, Silver Spring, MD (Valet Parking), Monday, from 3 to 5 p.m. and 7 to 9 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at St. John the Baptist Church, 12319 New Hampshire Avenue, Silver Spring, MD, on Tuesday, December 20, at 10:30 a.m. Interment Gate of Heaven Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Paul's name to the Maryknoll Sisters, P.O. Box 317, Maryknoll, NY, 10545-0317, or to the Wounded Warrior Project, 7020 A.C. Skinner Pkwy, Suite 100, Jacksonville, FL 32256.www.COLLINSFUNERALHOME.com  

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Published by The Washington Post from Dec. 18 to Dec. 20, 2011.

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JIMENEZ FAMILY

December 20, 2011

If You Love Me, Do Not Cry

Don't cry if you love me
If you know God's grace
And what Heaven is like,
If you were able to listen
To the angel songs
And you see me among them,
If you were able to think for awhile
About the beauty
That no other beauty can match,
Wipe your tears and do not cry,
If you love me.

Death is nothing.
It is just having moved to the other side.
I am still what I am and you are still what you are.
What we used to be for each other is still the same.
Call me by the name you used to.
And talk to me as you have done before.
Do not use a different tone.
Do not be rigid or sad.
Continue to laugh about what used to make us laugh.
Pray for me.
Smile.
Think of me and pray with me.
Let my name be mentioned at home as before.
Without any exaggeration or distress.
Life continues to mean what it always did.
And it is still the same
The thread did not break.
Do you feel I have become outside of your thoughts
Because I am far from your sight?
No.
I am not far from you.
I am just on the other side of the road,
And everything is fine.
You will find my heart and my love pure.
Wipe your tears and do not cry.
If you love me.

St. Augustine

Our Dearest American Dad, nuestra vida es mucho mejor gracias a que tú siempre serás parte de ella.,.. tan generoso,... tan inteligente,.. tan tan bueno,.. y siempre con ese gran sentido del humor. Gracias por TODO!!!

Mom, Tracy, Trisha and Paul, your family from Spain send you all our love.

Jenn White

December 20, 2011

Dear Mrs Cain, Tracy, Trisha, Paul and family.
So sorry to hear of your loss. I have very fond memories of Pop always being kind, generous and welcoming. Your family is in my thoughts at this sad time. Sending you much love xxx

Patricia Blandford Keefe Moran

December 20, 2011

My Deepest Sympathy to the family. I will keep everyone in my prayers.

Jane Penny

December 19, 2011

Tracy - So sorry to hear about your Dad, sending you and your family lot of prayers. Please know that the entire AECOM family sends their love to you and your family. Please know that we are thinking of you during your time of grief and sorrow.

The Katz's

December 19, 2011

You will be missed and lovingly remembered, Mr. Cain. We hold your family and your memory in arms of love.

Sue Gibbs

December 19, 2011

I didnt really know Tricia's dad that much, in fact I met him once in the UK when he ventured to Wales to visit Tricia who was living with me whilst studying at a local school and another time when we came to the US.
But I just wanted to say my thoughts are with you all at this sad time and wanted to share the following poem

What is dying?
I am standing on the sea shore. A ship sails and spreads her white sails to the morning breeze and starts for the ocean.

She is an object of beauty and I stand watching her till at last she fades on the horizon, and someone at my side says, "She is gone",

Gone where?

Gone from my sight, that is all;
She is just as large in the masts, hull and spars as she was when I saw her, and just as able to bear her load of living freight to its destination.
The diminished size and total loss of sight is in me, not in her, and just at the moment when someone at my side says, "She is gone", there are others who are watching her coming,
and other voices take a glad shout "There she comes",

And that is dying.

Richard Judy

December 19, 2011

Paul, Tricia, Tracy and the entire Cain family.
I am very sorry to hear about your loss and will always remember how funny, caring and genuine your dad was. He will be missed by everyone that had the privilege of meeting him.

Andi Dorsey

December 19, 2011

Tracy,
So sorry to hear of your loss. Having a wonderful father, comes with it wonderful memories, cherish those for they will last a lifetime. I will continue to pray for your family.

Mindy

December 19, 2011

So very sorry for your loss, Tracy.

Hold tight to memories for comfort,
lean on your friends for strength,
and always remember how much you are cared about.

Kathy Green

December 18, 2011

Uncle Paul will always be in our hearts and his family forever in our prayers!

Patti

December 18, 2011

We will miss you, Uncle Paul. We could always depend on you when we needed help. You were loved by all who knew you. Rest in peace.

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