Pfc. Alex Oceguera

Pfc. Alex Oceguera

Alex Oceguera Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 7, 2006.

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March 8, 2025

Internet Drifter posted to the memorial.

September 9, 2019

Gaby Oceguera posted to the memorial.

November 21, 2018

Charlie Gili posted to the memorial.

Internet Drifter

March 8, 2025

Rest in peace.

Gaby Oceguera

September 9, 2019

Hola bro, si vieras a papá te llenarías de tristeza, él esta tan sólo y cada día te recuerda, al igual que nosotras,a veces me gana la nostalgia por tu partida, como el día de hoy, todo sería tan distinto si estuvieras aquí, I really miss u

Charlie Gili

November 21, 2018

Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let your family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this holiday season and several of these will be dedicated to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and hometown of Alex Oceguera US Army Private 1st Class.

We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families and friends and others who support our mission.

We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.

Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign

Iain King

July 20, 2016

It's our turn now young fella, time for you to rest we've got your back, step down and leave it to us we will be there for you and yours. there's a cold one waiting and a comfortable chair, kick back your job is done.

Lidia Oceguera Valencia

May 31, 2012

Not a day goes by that I don't miss you; I miss you more than words can ever explain... I. Wonder "Who You'd Be Today". That song by Kenny Chesney reminds me of you and makes me cry each time I hear it. Its as though it was written for everything it he says is exactly how I feel and what goes on in my head...Life is not the same without you here. Your nephews are getting so big Matthew is starting High School Anthony Jr High. Angel reminds me a lot of you, he is tall, handsome and very smart I know if u were still around u guys would most likely team up on me in talking smack or lecturing me. I wish I could just see u and give u a huge hug and tell u all the things I didn't have a chance to say...I love you, bro. Till we meet again, until then I ask God to give me strengh to get me through the day/s when I just wanna give up

Maricela Cornejo

May 10, 2012

Alex, I remember u as a kid! Lidia use to be like ur lil mommy! She took very good care of u always! Alex give ur sis the strength and love to be in a good place!
Thinking of u!

Peggy Childers

October 31, 2011

To the family and friends of Pfc. Alex Oceguera:
Please accept my remembrance of Alex on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

Ana Luisa Mendoza

October 12, 2011

Pronto un aniversario mas; Alex que el dolor que enluto a tus seres queridos y amigos llegue mas alla de tu sacrificio y que se refleje en el mundo. Que todos los que te recordamos cumplamos con nuestra parte de construir un mejor mundo.

claudia mirella gonzalez

September 21, 2011

to your family and you i wanna thank you first of all for giving your life for all of us i hope that every single person in america realizes all you guys do for us next i would like to let you sister lidia that i know her pain of losing a brother and that well they at least have a place 4 u where they can go pray for you and that they know you are in heaven for a year and4 months my brother "pelon" went missing and we don't know anything of him its so hard to go by every day but we will always have hope or even some day have at place to pray for him.again thank you and hope your family is strong and doing well

agdilene rangel

September 21, 2011

Primo te extrano tanto pero dios desidio llebarte con el solo Nos quedan tus recuerdos. Te quiero mucho primo x sienpre te llebare en mi corazon descansa enpaz

Chris Ward

September 8, 2011

Rest in peace, young man. Thank you for your service. God bless your family and friends.

None None

July 28, 2011

I miss you, not a day goes by that I don't think about you! God bless you =..(

lidia oceguera

July 1, 2011

Missing u, its hard to believe its been 4 yrs and 10 months since i last seen u, i think about u every day and all the things i did not get to say.

jessica cazares

June 29, 2011

it seems just like yesterday i seen you remember all the times we had together before you left ive been knowing you since middle school to high school remember the time we had p.e together and you playing football running crazy seeing your smile at graduation and now your in the heavens looking down on us i miss you alex and your smile its hard to know that your not here and me not believing it but no matter what i love you friend and im glad i got all those years to know you

Kenny McCormick

June 14, 2011

Leaves from the vine
Falling so slow
Like fragile tiny shells
Drifting in the foam
Little soldier boy
Come marching home
Brave soldier boy
Comes marching home

Chris Cavoli

October 31, 2010

God Bless You, OC.

October 31, 2010

God Bless You, OC.
Chris Cavoli

Peggy Childers

October 30, 2010

To the family and friends of Pfc. Alex Oceguera:
Remembering Alex on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Jimmy Valencia

October 8, 2010

Hey Alex,
Like Lita said our grandma passed away this morning. I know that you, our grandpa, our two tios that we never knew in this world, and now our grandma are all together in a better place. I miss you a lot cousin

Acdaela Valencia

October 8, 2010

Hi Alex, Today our Grandma passed away. I know she's with you and our Grandpa now, I know you'll take care of her. I Love You.

Chris Cavoli

May 31, 2010

God Bless You, OC.

Van Sloan

November 1, 2009

Three years now and I think about them everyday. Alex, Doug, and CJ will be in our thoughts and prayers forever as will all of you.

June 16, 2009

OC taking care of business

June 1, 2009

Goodbye, for now.

June 1, 2009

R.I.P.

June 1, 2009

Eric Silguero

May 24, 2009

It's almost been 3 years and I still remember that day like it was yesterday. I wish you were still here brother. I pray for your friends and family everyday. Take care.

May 21, 2009

Ricardo Cruz

May 20, 2009

I wonder as I wander
Our under the sky
Why do people I care about
Always have to die?
Are you happy where you are?
Wherever that may be?
I wonder as I wander,
Do you still think of me?
I look up at the winter sky,
And Shed a single tear.
I think of all the days gone by,
I’ll always hold you dear.
By: Cruz _Ricardo.

Ana Mendez

March 17, 2009

A los familiares y amigos de Alex Oceguera:
Antes que nada deseo expresarles mi más sentido pésame por el fallecimiento de Alex. Aunque ya han pasado algunos años desde su muerte, seguramente el dolor y el vacío que dejó todavía están presentes y es por eso que hoy les escribo.
Quiero compartir con los familiares y amigos de Alex las maravillosas promesas de Dios para el futuro cercano. Debido a que Dios sabe cuánto dolor causa nuestro mayor enemigo, la muerte, Él ha hecho arreglos para eliminarla por completo. La Biblia en Isaías 4:8 dice que “Él realmente se tragará a la muerte para siempre, y el Señor Soberano Jehová ciertamente limpiará las lágrimas de todo rostro”. ¡Qué maravilloso es saber que muy pronto la muerte no tendrá poder sobre nosotros y no habrá nada que nos cause lágrimas!
Para los que ya han sido víctimas de este enemigo, como en el caso de Alex, también hay una gran esperanza. Cuando Jesús estuvo en la Tierra él prometió: “Así como el Padre levanta a los muertos y los vivifica, así el Hijo también vivifica a los que él quiere. […] No se maravillen de esto, porque viene la hora en que todos los que están en las tumbas conmemorativas oirán su voz [la de Jesús] y saldrán”. (Juan 5: 21, 28, 29) Así es, muy pronto Alex Oceguera oirá el llamado de Jesucristo y será levantado a la vida de nuevo. Entonces todos sus familiares y amigos le podrán dar la bienvenida y podrán recibirlo con un fuerte abrazo.
Realmente deseo que estas palabras y escrituras bíblicas sirvan de alivio y esperanza ante el dolor que ha dejado la pérdida de Alex.
Sinceramente,
Ana Méndez

Kenna Larra

March 10, 2009

We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,450 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna

Dense Lopez Oceguera

November 24, 2008

Dear Alex,

I just found this web page and decided to write you a little something. I know we never met but when my cousins told me about your passing away, and telling me about us being related it touch my heart. Thank you for being as brave and fighting for our country! God bless you and your family, Always! Just give them that strenght they will always need to continue in life!

Thank you for the picture of Alex, here is one of my brother Doug

November 11, 2008

Van Sloan

November 1, 2008

Our family will never forget your name. Though we never met you our families will be forever linked. You are a true hero. From the Sloan's-My brother Doug was KIA with Alex on 10-31-06

In Memory of Alex ~ (Debra Estep)

November 1, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know Alex, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol



Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b

Peggy Childers

October 30, 2008

To the family of Pfc. Alex Oceguera:
Alex gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

samantha cerros

September 22, 2008

Alex,

How You been up there?
Well I have been thinking about you lately how when you came to my house to say bye because you were leaving to Afganstan.
I was also thinking when my mom use to baby sit you,you would scare my with your eye lidsturned inside out lol that was so scary You and Jorge(my brother) would always scare me and just those old times are in my family every where we go.
Its almost going to be 2yrs of your death time goes bye so fast.Well I just wanted to say hi and show my respect and that We still think of You everyday.


Always Family Cerros & Pavan

George Oceguera Sr

August 12, 2008

My condolences to the Oceguera Family, I also have a son in Iraq.

May god be with you all.

Anastasia Oceguera-Garcia

July 23, 2008

My condolence and prayers to the Oceguera Family. I came across this site, when I was searching for the “Oceguera Family Tree” This is my father’s last name too. Not very common either.
You must be going through difficult times in the loss of your son, Alex. I have a son in the service and everyday I think of him, if I’m going to see him again.
My heart goes to all of you. Stay strong and may God Bless you and give strength.

Sincerely,

jazmin galvez

July 1, 2008

HEY ALEX, I WILL NEVER FORGET THE LAST TIME WE ALL HUNG OUT, IT WAS FUN, I SWEAR JUAN N ME WERE ALL SCARED CUZ WE WOKE UP UR GRANDAMA ALL GHETTO EARLY, LUV U THUG SOLDIER, LOOK OVER US AND TAKE CARE OF US K

June 14, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Pfc Oceguera!

Joshua Balami

May 20, 2008

O. You are the best soldier in the world, and i am proud to serve with you

gabriela valencia

May 11, 2008

hey my love i cant believe how tme is passing by so fast i still feel like i lost you you yesterday

Brittany Williams

January 14, 2008

Wow this guy is a real hero!I'm a girl from Tennesee and the reason I know about this inredibe man is because my best friend is Anacaren Oceguera who is a cousin of his.She told me about him not to long ago.The sad thing is she never got to meet her brave and honared cousin and she wished she had.So Anacaren and I send out our respects to this incrdible war hero.

You Will Never Be Forgotten. I love you bro.

Lidia Oceguera

December 25, 2007

During times of turmoil and confusion I read an old letter you
sent to me about 2 years ago.I Wanted You To Know What A Special Brother You were To Me You were always There for me, to lift my spirit when I felt like nothing was going right You were There To Encourage Me And Helped Make My Life Shine Bright I Thank You For Being So Wonderful And Being My Bright Shining Star I'm Glad You were My Brother And The Wonderful Person That You were Your spirit has become for me a guardian angel guiding, and watching over me. You are with me and I am not afraid.
I love you, Bro see you when I get there.

gabriela Valencia

December 23, 2007

Hi my love I miss you so much, I am at work right now. I just broke down and cried at work you have no idea how much your death effect me. I miss you so much Alex!!!!!

-Your favorit Girl Cuzin
Gabriela Valencia

R.I.P. Alex Oceguera

Paola Valencia

November 19, 2007

In Memory of a Soldier and a Friend


My heart is torn and my feelings are so broken inside,
my eyes so red and swollen, these tears I cannot hide.
God I miss you so much each and every day.
ever since the angels came that day and called you away.

Each time I look back on the memories I have of you,
I ask God why, wasn't there anything I could do?
I don't like this pain that I constantly feel,
I didn't want this to be true but I know that it's real.

You were a soldier and yes, duty was your call,
but I didn't want to hear that trumpet play the final call.
I tried so hard not to believe the words they told me, I even tried to block it all out,
I even tried to yell at God, but all I could do was barely shout.

Each day seems so distant, dreamlike, and unreal,
and I can't stop visiting all the pain that I feel.
Whenever I see our flag, I picture it draped on a soldier's coffin,
and it reminds me of you and all those who gave so often.

I try not to take anything for granted in each and every day,
and I hold our memories close to my heart where they will always stay.
Sometimes at night the dreams I have tease and haunt me,
of the visions of you here and what used to be.

I have even woke up calling your name,
It's like I caught myself slowly going insane.
I often stop and think about you,
but even I can't imagine all that you must have went through.

Why did it have to be you to leave?
All I do now is cry and grieve.
I pray that it was fast and the pain wasn't to much to bear,
As I lay awake, at your picture I stare.

I carry this picture I have of you where ever I may go,
so that people will understand the price you paid, so that they will all know.
I want to scream and shout and tell everyone why you aren't here today,
that it's not fair but war never is, at least that's what they say.

So why does it all have to end like this?
I just want you back, if only I had one wish.
Many of us have cried so many unstopable tears,
but that's just because we wanted you here.

I cry, I yell, and I shout all night at God that this just isn't right, it just isn't fair,
but it just seems like I am yelling at an empty sky with no one really there.
I try to live my life the best I can each day,
but it's always so hard when I feel this way.

So many soldiers have paid the ultimate price,
but I guess you always knew the possible sacrifce.
You were an amazing soldier, a strong warrior, a hero, and a true friend,
and I know that death is never a final end.

But anyone who knew you would agree that it's just so hard to say goodbye,
and I remember on the night that you died the sky was dark, even stars shone in the sky.
So much heartache and this constant lingering sorrow,
I don't always look to forward to waking up tommorow.

I can't stop asking why,
I can't stop these tears that I cry.
I don't know if I will ever truly understand,
but I do know that you are with God in that far away land.

No matter how many years may come to pass,
these memories of you will always last.
So please forgive me for not wanting to let you go,
but it's just because I cared for you so.

I am sorry things ended up this way,
and it's not fair that with your life, you had to pay.
Too many sacrifices have already been made,
in this realm, every soldier should have stayed.

All I can do now is hope and pray, and wait to see you again,
a Soldier, a Warrior, a True Hero, and a True Friend.

(In loving memory of a soldier and a friend)

Written by: Angela
December 2, 2004


I Love and Miss you so much Alex, I'll never forget you, I Promise!!!

August 17, 2007

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

August 2, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Pfc Oceguera and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

Brandon Weathers

June 12, 2007

The Last time i signed one of these it was for my dad, I never thought i would sign this for someone i would walked side by side in high school for a whole year after wieght lifting. We had some pretty funny times didnt we. Words cannot express the sorrow and the pain that is felt to see your picture and know that there wont be any others ofter its time. Alex I hope you know that theres people down here who still love and know that your in a better place. Im very gratefull and honored to know that I knew someone who died doing what they believed in...Standin up for what you believe in...huh...thats a term very loosely used in todays society...But when that some one commits the act of standin up and goin through what you did you become an inspiration and a hero. People like you don t die they go on to live as long as your name is remembered. Even though it is nt the same nor dose it even amount to even half of who you are its still there for people to know there is such thing as a heros and legends. Make sure that you watch over all your friends down here in the 909. Take care dog and I wont forget.

Gary

May 7, 2007

A true American hero.God bless Alex and his family.

Robyn Garside

April 2, 2007

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI

A PROUD MARINE MOM

Karen Irwin

March 8, 2007

To the Oceguera Family. I think of Alex every single day. I know that Mike misses him terribly. I'm sure that he is still with his guys over there. I can see him in my mind, spreading his wings to shield them from any harm. He is a true hero and will always be in my thoughts and prayers.

Rita Fry

March 7, 2007

Dear Oceguera Family,
I cannot imagine the heartache you have endured by losing such a wonderful man in your lives. Alex was also one of my son's best friends and touched his life thru the 10th mountain. Our condolences are with you. You now have an angel watching over you for the rest of your lives. Alex is in very good hands now and God has wrapped HIS arms around him to comfort him as I am sure your faith will comfort you. God Bless.
Love & Prayers
The Fry Family

Lidia Oceguera

March 7, 2007

With a burdened heart and a troubled mind,
I kneel by the side of his grave
And I cry for my brother, I love so much,
For no longer can I be brave.

I know he'd hate to see me cry.
But, everything's gone wrong
And I need to tell him I love him.
I haven't told him in so long.

He used to dry my tears away
And put a smile in their place.
Oh God, I'd be so happy
If I could only see his face.

You see, I miss him terribly.
We were close, him and I.
He taught me so many things, Lord.
He took the time to answer why.

Why did he have to leave me?
I feel so all alone.
I long to hear his voice again,
To call him on the phone.

Oh Lord, please give me strength
To bear this awful pain.
Tell him that I love him, Lord.
Slow these tears that fall like rain.

Assure me that we'll meet again,
Upon your Golden Shore,
And once more he'll be my brother
In Heaven, forever more...

Glen

February 1, 2007

“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers

Soldiers write history, we pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still

We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever

Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away

Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go

We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light

Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray

Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound

Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go

Lee Sirotnak

January 26, 2007

Please accept our condolences for the loss of your loved one, and our prayers that you find peace and consolation in God’s grace. We are indebted to your Soldier for his great sacrifice and we will not forget.

Strawberry Cruz

January 16, 2007

My Alex it's been almost 3 months since you've passed and I still don't want to believe your gone I still think that your out there somewhere smiling and laughing and joking around like always! There will always be an emptiness in my heart where you were but you still remain in there because i will never forget you and everything you did you are so brave and heroic and I love you always for that! my prayers go out to your Mom and family and especially the love of your life Elizabeth. I miss you soldier and I really wish it could've been me! I love you mijo!
Strawberry

Lidia Oceguera

January 4, 2007

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

aida rangel

December 12, 2006

alex u were a grate man who care 4 others and went to fight 4 u r cuntry u know every one is so proud and happy 4 what u did but then we are sad u past oway u will always be remeber as a very nice man we all love u goodbels u

SALVADOR AGUILAR

December 12, 2006

QUE ONDA PRIMO, AUNQUE NO TEAGA CONOSIDO BIEN, TU SABES QUE FAMILIA ES FAMILIA Y SIEMPRE SERAS RECORADO AUNQUE HASTA AHORITA ESTE ESCRIBIENDO ES MEJOR TARDE QUE NUNCA QUE CON DIOS DESCANSES AQUI TU PRIMO SALVADOR AGUILAR

Daniel Graves

December 5, 2006

I can neither fathom the depth of your grief, nor a more noble sacrifice. Thank you for raising such a fine young man willing to risk his life for our country.

Elizabeth Martinez

November 26, 2006

Babe OMG im going to miss you so much.Im so proud of you no sabes cuanto not everyone would of done what you did for this country and all those you love.I remember the last time i saw you at the airport i never thought in a million years it would be the last i also remember you hugged me and said hasta luego and walked away but when you saw me crying you came back and hugged me once more and told me 5 more months .Babe I love you so much i dont know what to do with out you its so hard but trust me i will make you proud ,like you made me feel,You are a great man and i will always keep you in my heart you were one of the few people in this world who loved me unconditionaly and that is something so special so thank you babe. Take care of me and your family we will need it bacause this world is just hard to live in. god bless your family babe i promise to be with them in these hard momemnts>I Love You Mango!!!!! Elizabeth

Bea Lancaster

November 23, 2006

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Abraham and Family Oceguera

November 20, 2006

Alex Oceguera~
para la familia de alex los tenemos en nuestras oraciones en estos momentos de dolor y nos unimos a su pena con mucho cariño de parte de Abraham oceguera y familia.

Van Sloan

November 20, 2006

To the Family of Pfc. Alex Oceguera,
My brother, Major Douglas Sloan, was in the vehicle with Alex and lost his life as well. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Alex was and will always be remembered as a true American hero. Our family is sorry for your loss. We grieve with you. I know that there are no words to take away the pain you feel, just know that you are not alone. God Bless you and thank you for Alex's service to this country and it's people.
Van Sloan, Major Douglas E. Sloan's brother

susan holbrook

November 18, 2006

From the Tributes it sounds like Alex was a very special person and will be missed greatly. I had 2 sons who served in Iraq and I can only imagine the sadness your family is going through. My sincere smypathy and prayers are extended to you and your family in this tragic loss of your love one. I also send my deepest respect to your love one for the sacrifice that he gave in serving his country. May God wrap HIS arms around you and comfort you.

CLAUDIA RUIZ

November 17, 2006

You were a brave kid and I admire you for that! You'll always be in my heart Alex! Remember that you will be in every body's heart also. R.I.P "ALEX OCEGUERA"

Raul y Teresa Valencia

November 16, 2006

Descansa en paz Alex y que Dios de tenga con el en el cielo. Nunca te olvidaremos estaras siempre en nuestros corazones. Desde el cielo se que cuidaras a tu mama y hermana. Te queremos, Raul, Teresa y familia.

Aldo Oceguera

November 14, 2006

Alex. God be with you and family. Descansa en Paz. Heres un tremendo heroe. Grasias por defender y pelear por la libertad. Estaras en nuestros corazones siempre...

ROGER OCEGUERA

November 14, 2006

YOU WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED R.I.P. ALEX

Cindy Kocian

November 14, 2006

To the Family of PFC Alex Oceguera,
I saw your son's picture, and the smile says it all. To be so young, and taken away. I am so sorry for your loss. My son is also currently deployed and my heart aches for the families that have to endure the pain of losing "one of our's". Because we all love these young men and women who are protecting us. Thank you for blessing this earth with such a fine young man. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you and take care .

G T

November 14, 2006

My condolences for the person who died and we hope that family finds peace and to never forgett that god is the person we need to rely into in our times of sorrow

Michelle DeAmicis

November 14, 2006

You are my hero Alex. I will always remember you and I think about you all the time. May you rest in peace forever.

gabriela valencia

November 14, 2006

Hey alex,
man I miss you so much. I was so hard for me to see you get buried. I could stop crying. I cant believe I am never going to see you again. Man I never thought this was going too happen to you. I love you so much and I will never forget you.Your favorite girl cousin
gaby

Jeri Rogers

November 14, 2006

My nephew served in the 10th Mountain Division and was wounded in Afghanistan, and these soldiers are my heroes. Pfc Oceguera will never be forgotten. God Bless the Oceguera family.

Luisana Mendoza

November 13, 2006

Alex may you rest in peace at the side of God. You will always be missed and loved dearly but you will not be too far away for one day we will all meet once again. I remember when we were little we would play together and we would always be laughing....and now look at which path life has taken us. You will always be remembered as the rightful hero that you are. Rest in Peace Alejandro.
Love, Familia Mendoza

Fam. Gonzalez Oceguera

November 13, 2006

May you rest in peace and God bless you under his wing. You will truly be missed.

MIRIAM OCEGUERA

November 13, 2006

ALEX,
I CAN ONLY PRAY THAT YOUR IN A BETTER PLACE RIGHT NOW. IT SADDENS ME TO KNOW THAT I CAN NEVER MEET YOU OR THAT WE WILL NOT GET TO KNOW EACHOTHER AS I WISH WE COULD HAVE. I AM HONORED TO HAVE YOU AS A COUSIN AND CAN ONLY HOPE TO MEET YOU ONE DAY IN THE HAVENS ABOVE.

WITH LOVE,
MIRIAM OCEGUERA
CHICAGO, IL

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

November 12, 2006

My heartfelt sympathy to the Oceguera family in the loss of Alex. I did not know Alex, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Alex you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~

BARB DIGIOVANNI

November 12, 2006

GOD BLESS YOU, YOUR BEAUTIFUL CHILD, AND I HOPE YOU FEEL A SENSE OF THE GRATITUDE I FEEL FOR THIS UNBELIEVEABLE GIFT YOU HAVE GIVEN TO ME AND MY FAMILY.
I CAN'T IMAGINE YOUR PAIN, BUT I ONLY WISH I COULD MAKE YOU UNDERSTAND HOW GRATEFUL I AM THAT THIS CHILD HELPED MY CHILDREN TO LIVE FREE.
THANK YOU........ONLY THAT.........
JUST.........THANK YOU.

Robert Cortes

November 11, 2006

Nuestro Mas centido pesame....Familia Cortes Perez

Daniel perez

November 11, 2006

Mi centido pesame de familia perez godinez

ANA MOSQUEDA

November 11, 2006

My prayers go out to you & your family. I admire you for your heroism & I will always be thankful to you & those left behind. You are in our thoughts and prayers.The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.

Jesse Mosqueda

November 10, 2006

Thanks for supporting our country and we will all miss you rest in peace ....

Mayra Guzman

November 10, 2006

HEY ALEX
WELL I DONT KNOW WUT TO SAY...I NEVER IMAGINE THAT I WOULD HAVE TO SAY GOOD-BYE TO U.SO I WONT.I'M GOING TO SAY SEE U LATER.ONE DAY ALEX I'LL GET TO SEE U AGAIN AND WE'RE GOING TO LAUGH AT ALL THE DUMB THINGS WE DID IN AUTO TECH.YOU KNOW HOW MUCH U MEANT TO ME...U WERE LIKE A BROTHER TO ME.I LOVE U ALEX!TO TELL U THE TRUTH I STILL DON'T WANT TO BELIEVE IT.BUT I GUESS IT DID HAPPEN AND I HAVE TO LEARN HOW TO LIVE WITH IT RIGHT?U RISKED UR LIFE FOR THIS COUNTRY AND EVERYONE THANX U FOR IT.U'RE A TRUE HERO IN MY BOOK.WELL ALEX BEFORE I START CRYING AGAIN I'M GOING TO LEAVE.I'M GOING TO MISS U SO MUCH.WE'LL SEE EACH OTHER SOON.MAY U REST IN PEACE.MUUUAAAAAHHHHHH

Sharmaine Reyna

November 10, 2006

Your son has made one of the greatest sacrifices a man can make, he will always be a true hero.

Alex rest in Peace

God Bless
Marine Mom

Maria Elena Lopez Oceguera

November 10, 2006

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Darlene Underwood

November 10, 2006

I extend my sincere condolence on the lost of Pfc. Alex Oceguera. He made the ultimate sacrific in upholding the cause of freedom for mankind. He will be remembered by friends and his fellow members of the armed forces. May God be with his family during this difficult. We who wear the uniform saluate you and know the Lord welcomes his brave child with open arms.
Lieutnant Commander Darlene Underwood, MSC, USNR

Lupe Arteaga

November 10, 2006

I never met you, Alex or your family, I found out about your death through a friend of mine who went to Montclair High w/ you...Arleen has nothing but good things to say about you Alex. My prayers go out to you & your family. I admire you for your heroism & I will always be thankful to you & those left behind.

Suzie Oceguera - Valenzuela

November 10, 2006

Thank you Alex for defending our country. You are a hero to us all. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Veronica Oceguera

November 10, 2006

You were a brave kid and I admire you for that! You'll always be in my heart Alex!

Gail Raphael

November 10, 2006

"Greater love has no man than this, that a man lay down his life" John 15:13 How I wish I'd had the privilege of knowing your brave Alex. I grieve your loss and am humbly, unspeakably grateful for his sacrifice. Your entire family has my prayers not only today as do all the selfess, honorable, courageous men and women serving this country. May God strengthen their loved ones and bless and comfort your family and all those who mourn Alex's memory.

Acdaela Valencia

November 10, 2006

Alex,

when i heard the news i couldnt beleve it. I didnt want to believe it. Even now, i just want it to be a dream, to wake up and you be here with us. The pain this brings me and th family cant be described. We loved you so much, and i hope you know that. I wish i could see you one last time, to tell you everything i now feel i should have told you. Thank you for the reat memories you left me and everyone else who came in contact with you. You were so special to be around, and everyone you met noticed that. Thank you for always being you, and that great smile we will never forget. Con mucho Honor y Amor ..... Te Quiero Mucho

Julissa Lopez

November 9, 2006

Iam sorry for the loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Here in Chicago we are all proud of Alez. May the Lord bless you all in your time of grief.
Julissa Lopez Oceguera

Ryan Haskins

November 9, 2006

Alex,

I am sorry my dear friend I did all I could and I wish it could have been me instead of you.

SGT H

Victor Cortes

November 9, 2006

Hey bro. we are all missing you much down here. You gave your life for Your Country and for our freedom. Your mission was cut short to Join God's Army of Angels in Heaven, We will never forget You Alex, always in our hearts and thoughts. RIP bro
meet us at the crossraods when our time to join you comes.
See you soon.

Victor

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