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May 05, 2014
It has been 6 months since we said goodbye to you, beautiful Julie. There is not a day that goes by that I don't think of you. My prayers are with your family. May god give them strength everyday. I miss you and I love you.
May 02, 2014
Dear Family and Friends,
I just found out about Julie's passing from facebook and I'm so sorry. I knew Julie from Patrick Henry. I remember her always "SMILING". She was always so positive and friendly and loved to laugh. She also was a great runner and loved to run around Lake Murray! I just ran into her again at Wells Fargo in Hillcrest last year. I will chant for her peace and happiness. Much love..
January 29, 2014
There are no words to describe your loss Julie, we love you so much. I hope we can live up to the challenge of looking out for your family, as you would have for ours. You always were and are, an Angel, love you so much. Aunt Val XXX
December 23, 2013
Dear Peggy, Nick and family,

I was so sorry to hear from Coco on Fri 12-20-13, after I saw you briefly at Memory Cuts, Peggy-about Julie-my heart goes out to you, you are in my thoughts and prayers-such a beaurtiful young woman, here on earth for way too short a time! Take good care of yourselves!

with love,

Liz Hersch
619-490-9518
December 05, 2013
One month has gone by and I still can't believe you are gone. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family. May God help them through this holiday season.
November 24, 2013
So sorry to hear about my friend Julie! I worked with her at Wells Fargo in La Jolla and I will always remember the good times and dinners we had together. She was an amazing,beautiful, loving and funny person and I will always remember her! =)My thoughts and prayers go out to the family!!! She was gone too soon and will be deeply missed!!! RIP Julie!!!=( xoxo With deepest sympathy from her friend... with love from Lucy Gray- Recasner xoxo
November 22, 2013
Peggy, Nick, Gary -- You retain a presence in my thoughts. The funeral for Julie was a lovely tribute -- the beautiful eulogy that captured her so well, the inspiring music, the huge turnout of those who loved her. It was difficult to see the shared anguish at Julie's unexpected and unfathomable death. Sometimes, a loss gets harder as the days pass -- shock wears off, the distractions of doing the various necessary activities are completed; and we're left alone with all the thoughts and feelings. Please know that even in those alone times, people who love you are sending thoughts and prayers. If you ever feel the need for a willing ear outside your immediate circle, please think of me. Mickey
November 14, 2013
Dear Peggy and the Botte Family - my heart is sad trying to understand your loss - our condolences and prayers are with you and the Family!
November 12, 2013
I was so sorry to hear about your daughter. My love and prayers will be with all of you. Sincerely, Kathy Dunn from the Hallmark Store.
November 12, 2013
Friends from long ago sending you and your precious daughters family our deepest sympathy as you go through this tough journey....I remember Julie as a toddler when we did hair together so many years ago....this is a loss like no other and we wish you strength and love as you try to live without this great young woman....we are so sad for all of you and wanted you to know. Would love to talk to you when you can. DeeDee and Tony Larson...760-445-7450
November 12, 2013
Dear families of Julie,
My deepest sympathies to you all. I had the pleasure of working working with Julie at WF in Santee. She was always thoughtful and kind with a beautiful smile. Julie will continue to live on in precious memories in all our hearts. My thoughts and prayers are with you. God's peace and comfort to you all knowing she is now in God's loving arms.
November 11, 2013
Brashear Family,

We are so sorry that you are going through this. You all will be in our thoughts and prayers. If you need anything, please let us know. Julie was a wonderful person and she will be missed greatly. God Bless you Gary, Carter and Carly. Love Jaime, Nikki, Antonio and Helena Paredes
November 11, 2013
To the entire family,
There are no words to describe how sorry I am for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort and even joy as she watches over you all.
Zak

From Rob, Randi and the entire Whiting Family-
They send there condolences and love. Her smile will live forever in our hearts.
November 11, 2013
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you, Carter, and Carly during this difficult time.

~Kris (Prasser) Nabors and Family
November 11, 2013
A beautiful woman with a beautiful heart, she touched many lives in her short untimely departure from this life. My heart aches for her family. Rest in peace sweet Julie.
November 11, 2013
Peggy and Family,
Deepest sympathy for your loss....we cry but the angels are rejoicing!
November 11, 2013
Nick, Peggy and Nicole, we were so sad to hear about Julie. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Pat and Diana Ryan
November 11, 2013
We are all praying for you guys at this time of sadness. We too will always remember Julie's great smile and personality. She will be missed by all who knew and loved her.
November 11, 2013
To Gary, the Botte and Brashear families,
My deepest condolences and prayers for tou all!. Warm thoughts and hugs are with you during this challenging time. All my love, Sharon
November 10, 2013
Peggy and Nick,
What a beautiful woman your precious daughter is. My memories are of short, dark, curly hair but so much fun to be with whether it was girl scouts, cheerleading, soccer or just having her spend the night at our home with Tiffany. I can't imagine the pain you are having as you go thru each day. Blessings to all.
November 10, 2013
Our deepest condolences to the family, Julie will be missed.

Rex Berry and family
November 10, 2013
Our deepest condolences to the whole family! We are so sorry for your loss. Love Stephanie and Theresa Boryla
November 10, 2013
To Gary, the Botte and Brashear families,

I can't imagine the feeling of loss that you must be going through. I only had the distinct pleasure and honor to know Julie while we worked at Wells Fargo Bank together. I believe that we met way back in 1993 when we worked together at the College Blvd. branch near SDSU.

Julie was always there with a smile; you could never get through a day without seeing that little twinkle in her eye that was accompanied with her smile. Her energy, strength and her bright, sunny disposition warmed my heart. When I ran my own branch, Julie was the first person I knew I had to have working with me.

Of course, over the years we drifted apart but whenever I would see her she still had that twinkle in her eyes along with her great smile.

I can't begin to tell you what the sense of loss I feel and we were only friends. Gary, I am truly sorry for your loss. There are no words that can express my deepest sympathy for you, your children and your families. If there is anything I can do for you, please let me know.

There is at least one solace you had and no one else had and that was the pleasure of being a husband to Julie for 14 years of marriage, good and bad, for better for worse, in sickness and in health. She left you with two beautiful and, I have no doubt, wonderful children that every day you can look at and see Julie's twinkle in their eyes, along with her smile, her Joie de Vie.

My heart goes out to you; my thoughts and prayers are with you. I pray that Julie is in the arms of our Lord and Savior, in the warm embrace of our Father in Heaven, and that His Holy Spirit will continue to do good things with you and for your young family.

Sincerely, your brother in Christ,

Eric Jay
November 10, 2013
Dear Brashear and Botte Families,

We are so sorry for your loss....our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Ann and Steve Luby
November 10, 2013
Peggy and Family

You are in prayers at this time and always. Blessings!

Cristina Dulleck
November 10, 2013
Julie was a beautiful mother, wife, friend, and person and now a Saint in Heaven.
November 09, 2013
Gary, Carter, Carly, and Botte Family,
We are deeply affected by the sudden passing of such a great person, Our hearts and thoughts are here for you Gary, and if you need anything in your time of crisis, you know you can lean on me, we love you and are here to help in any way...

Hinesley Family
November 09, 2013
Mr. and Mrs. Botte, Nicole, Brashear and Botte Families - I am so, so sorry to hear about Julie. She was always so nice to me and treated me the way she treated Nicole whenever I spent the night over there. I'll be thinking of all of you!! <3 <3 <3
November 09, 2013
Nick and Peggy, Our heart goes to you and your family.Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Pete & Dianne Micklish
November 09, 2013
Dear Peggy,Nick and family,
We were shocked and saddened by your untimely loss. May you find strenght and peace in your faith. Our prayers are with you.
Edith and Dan Standler
November 09, 2013
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. May you find hope and comfort in God's Word, the Bible, during this very difficult time.
November 09, 2013
Julie,

It just seems like yesterday that we all jumped in a limo and had an awesome night for your birthday. I will always remember and cherish that day. You will always be loved and missed by your loved ones, especially Gary and the kids.

May your love for everyone shine down from Heaven always!
November 09, 2013
My condolescence to the family. Our prayers are with you. Connie Mallett Moore
November 09, 2013
May God Bless All Julie's family at this very sad time.
God Bless all of you.
November 09, 2013
I had the pleasure of working with Julie over the past 12 years. There isn't a time I can remember where she wasn't smiling. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends during this very difficult time. Julie your Wells Fargo family will miss you dearly. God Bless you all.
November 09, 2013
You and your family are in out thoughts and prayers,Nick.Art and Cindy Carrillo
November 09, 2013
Julie always happy and smiling..thats how she will always be..I am so very sorry, my thoughts and prayers are with your family, the children, Gary, Nick, Peggy, Nicole..everyone will comfort each other thru this sorrow..you have a wonderful family. May God Bless and comfort all of you during this sad sad time.
November 09, 2013
Nick, Peggy, Nicole & family. Our hearts go out to you all and our prayers are with you. The Dunning family
November 09, 2013
THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOUR FAMILY, DURING THIS TOUGH TIME.ARE KIDS DID KARATE WITH CARTER AND CARLY. THE CARLSON FAMILY
November 09, 2013
I am deeply saddened by the passing of Julie, I had the pleasure of getting to know her through work and we will all miss her. she was the sweetest and kindest person you could know, thoughts and prayers to her family.
November 08, 2013
Sorry for your loss I will keep u all in my prayers
November 08, 2013
Julie I still can't believe that you are gone. My heart breaks for your family. OLG will always bring fun and happy memories. I am so happy to have reconnected and loved watching your adventures on Facebook and hearing stories from your mom. To the Brashear and Botte families our prayers and thoughts are with you. We send our love and support. Julie's smile was a ray of sunshine and will be in our hearts forever.
November 08, 2013
November 08, 2013
Our deepest sympathy and prayers to you all
November 08, 2013
All of love and prayers to you all. We remember fondly the years the girls and boys grew up in our neighborhood great times. We love you all God bless you at this difficult time. Paula & Richard Davila
November 08, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family during this time. May the wonderful memories you have of her comfort you and bring you peace.
November 08, 2013
Our thoughts and love go out to the Botte & Brashear family. Julie was a special person and we are fortunate to have had her in our life. Love you always.
November 08, 2013
Maureen and family,my thoughts and prayers are with you all.god bless you at this very sad time....love Barbara
November 08, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with you Jr., Carter & Carly.
November 08, 2013
Our Beautiful Julie B. We ran into each other a few months ago. You were with Gary and the kids and I was with my family. I knew then how happy I was to have run into you.If I only would have known that that was going to be the last time, I would have hugged you just a little tighter my friend. You were so kind and fun to be around and I knew how much you loved Gary and your beautiful children. This just breaks my heart. May you rest in peace and may God give your beautiful family the strength to carry on. I love you
November 08, 2013
You were a beautiful person, inside & out. So sorry for this loss.
The Comana Family
November 08, 2013
You will never be forgotten. Our discussions we use to have and laughs will be cherished and remembered forever. Your the most special person that I have ever met
Your cousin Nate
November 08, 2013
Dearest Family & Friends, and with deepest heartfelt sympathy to Julie's closest...Gary, Carter, Carly, Aunt Peggy, Uncle Nick, Nicole, Mykel, Izabel, & Sophia,

May peace be with you and mend your broken hearts. May Julie's beautiful smiling face comfort your soul, and the memory of her great sense of humor give you giggles even now, when you are going through such a heartbreaking time like this.
Always know she is in our hearts forever, will never be forgotten, & loved so very much by many.
Julie was an awesome , beautiful woman. She was very kind, funny, caring, & always smiling.
I will miss her always, and cherish all the beautiful memories we have shared.

She truly is an Angel.
November 08, 2013
Dear Ones, there are simply no words to comfort in times like this. I have found comfort in this: I imagine Julie being lovingly held in our Lord's arms, just as his mother lovingly held him in her arms when he was taken down from the cross. Then I imagine that there is a big banquet hall, like when someone gets married and all the family are there sitting at one big table ... Noni and Papa DeTuri, Mr. and Mrs. Botte, my grand parents, Uncle Roy and Aunt Billie, Uncle Tony, and Aunt Lena and Uncle Richard, Mr. and Mrs. O'Connor and Colleen. They all see Julie and they welcome her to take her place at the table with her family in Heaven.

Our hearts are broken. We can't understand why, but we don't get to choose.

With Love and Sympathy,

Gloria Gerak
November 08, 2013
I was so sad and shocked to hear the news. I didn't know Julie well, but I have known Jr since I was a little kid and the love between them was obvious. Im'm so sorry for your loss and I'm praying for peace for all of you. <3 Leasa (Epps) Eisele
November 08, 2013
Gary & family, So sorry for your loss, my love & prayers are with all of you.
November 08, 2013
Dear Botte and Brashear Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Nicole my heart aches for you. Thinking of you all.

Rachelle "Ting" McCray
November 08, 2013
Brashear & Botte Family,
You are in our thoughts and in our prayers. Julie will forever live in our heart. Her beautiful smile and energetic spirit for life is something that we will always treasure.
Love,
Claudia, Hector, Jr and Mia Casanova
November 08, 2013
My thoughts and prayers to the Botte and Brashear families
November 08, 2013
To Peggy and Nick, I am sincerely wishing you and your family will be able to find peace together. Love, Jodi Roisman.
November 08, 2013
Julie, Our hearts are truly broken. We will never forget you. Thank you for your friendship,so beautiful inside and out, so kind, loving, and funny. I can hear your laugh right now, it's how I will remember you always.
November 08, 2013
Brashear Family,

Julie was such a great mom to Carly and Carter. She will be missed and remembered by her SMA Family. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family.

Mike Mains
November 08, 2013
I will always enjoy the memories I had with Julie in our OLG days. My prayers go out to the Brashear family. Julie will always be in our thoughts and hearts.
November 08, 2013
Julie, you were always a bright light in my days that I had the pleasure to work with you. You had the best smile, the best attitude, and always such a positive outlook on life. You brought sunshine to everyone's day you interacted with. Rest in peace. My thoughts are with you and your family.
November 08, 2013
To all the Botte Family,
My deepest sympathy and prayers go out to all of you! I am so sorry for your loss. May God bless you and give you strength.
Love, Giulietta Buono Khaledi
November 08, 2013
Having such a precious family across the street has been a joy for us. Please know we will do whatever we can to ease the pain of this unbelievable loss. We love you,
November 08, 2013
Gary, Carter and Carly,
I only knew Julie for a short time the year we danced and Carly danced with Aubrey. She was always so happy and beautiful and had such nice things to say. She will be missed by many. I am very sorry for your loss.
November 08, 2013
My prayers are with you Jr, Carter & Carly.
November 08, 2013
Your legacy is kindness when I needed it most. I remember your smile, letting me know its alright to come into your life. I remember you as a friend when I needed one. A note to Carley and Carter, your mother was compassionate and accepting. When you think of her, know that she made people feel safe and loved. God bless. Michelle DeWitt
November 08, 2013
November 08, 2013
words are not enough... Belinda
November 08, 2013
Julie I will miss you so much. Please look down from above and fill me with the strength to help heal Nicole's breaking heart. No words can ever describe how much love and respect I have for you welcoming me as family, friend and brother. Rest in peace knowing Gary, Carter, and Carly will always be taken care of by Nicole and I. Till we meet again, I will walk the path Nick and Peggy have shown me for you and our family. I miss you.
November 08, 2013
We are thinking of you, praying for you all, and will help and support you any way we can.

Love, your friends and neighbors, the Doughertys
November 08, 2013
Julie my beautiful loving cousin. I am heartbroken that t you were called home so young, and only rejoice in knowing you are resting in the arms of our Lord. I have loved you since the day you were born and came into our family. Rest in peace beautiful angel. My prayers are with you Gary, Carter & Carly.,
November 08, 2013
Julie, you lived every day with love and dignity. Your sudden departure has left a hole in our hearts but we find solace in knowing you are in the best possible place with our father in heaven. I love you.
November 08, 2013
Dear Botte and Brashear Families,

We are sorry for your loss. Heaven truly gained an angel. Although she has left this earth, she has not left your lives. She lives in through her beautiful children and the love she spread. May God give you comfort and peace at this most difficult time.
Leslie & Michael
November 08, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this sad time .All our love.Rosie and Eddie
November 08, 2013
Gary, Carter, and Carly,

I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our family's prayers at this difficult time.

Mark Laumakis and Family
November 08, 2013
My family and I are sending our love and prayers from Vermont. I had the absolute honor of being childhood friends with Nicole and Julie. I'm so grateful for all of the memories we shared. My deepest condolences to Julie's whole family. Love you guys so much.
November 08, 2013
My heart goes out to all and you have my deepest sympathy.

Marilyn Clarke
November 08, 2013
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
November 07, 2013
I love you
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