This candle is for both of my godparents. The memories I will hold in my heart! I am sure Uncle Andy is at his place at the card table in heaven with the rest of them. James, my godbrother,please know you are not alone! You are a child of God and you have people who love you just the way you are! I know I felt "wierd" after my parents passed on.....I was no longer a daughter not true.....Gods daughter! Once we get that relationship with a God of our understanding everything falls into place. Not preaching just living it! Sending love to you my godbrother! Kathy "Puss Irving"