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October 08, 2014
Well Carol, Its almost another year over and I can't say that that I feel any different from the day you left us. I know how much you loved this time of year, as I do especially with
the kids at Halloween. I wish you could see the little Yorkie that was given to me and Joe for our 45th Anniversary by your girls, Ed and James. I was so surprised and in shock that they went an did all this for us. I love them all so much. This puppy has brought us joy. I think the girls feel that having the dog will stop me from thinking so much about what I can't change. I hope that you are with Mommy and Daddy up there. Someday we will all be together again. I love and miss you so much. Every time there is a situation that comes up I always wonder what you would do and that's where I also miss your advice. But I am trying my best. I miss and love you very much.
You were the best.
RIP
Love Always Betty
August 19, 2014
Hey Carol. Well its been 15 months since you left us and the feelings are the same as the day you left. I am sorry that I didn't write to you last month. As you know a lot has been going on. I was going to the dr for my heart, but now they say that I am alright. but who really knows. We are dealing with Dots sickness, but she is like you a fighter. It was good to see the family a few weeks ago. Kelly does keep in touch and lets me know what is going on.
I am leaving for Vermont with Catherine on Monday to meet up with Georgie. I know that if you were here, you would have come on this trip with us to see Mrs Borlin in the nursing home.The worst part for me is when I am around other people who still have a sister or two, that is when I really feel alone. You would always be by my side if were at a party and share a lot of laughs. This is when it really hits me. Your grandbabies are so beautiful. I feel happy when I do see them. Can't believe that Jayla is going to be 5 soon. I know you will be there in spirit for her party. Those kids are all a reflection of you.
I love and miss you so much. I keep waiting for your call still.
RIP
Betty
June 30, 2014
Well Carol,it is now 13 months since you left us and things have still not changed I miss you more than ever. I do my best to stay busy between working and with friends, but that empty feeling still remains. Hope that you are with Mom and Dad and all the other people who have left us,
I know you are watching over the family. You are the reason they are here. Love and will forever miss you

Betty
May 21, 2014
Hey Granny,

First I just want to apologize for how long it has taken me to write on here for you. I miss you so much and my keyboard is already being wet as my tears fall onto it. Mommy tells me all the time that I need to write on here because it is almost like I am talking to you. Well here I am at 1 am on a Monday night, one week after your 1 year anniversary; which I shouldn't even say it like that. Anniversaries are to be celebrated, and going on with life without you for a year is nothing to celebrate. But what I can celebrate is the 19 years I got to have you in my life. While I think about you every single day and wish that I could have had you for so much longer, I know that the time I did have with you will be treasured deep in my heart, where it doesn't ache for you of course.
So much has happened within the last year but hopefully I get build up the courage to write on here to you more often. I talk about you all of the time, not even exaggerating. I refer to your house as, well, your house. No offense to Pop but we were never going to “Pop-Pop's” house, it was always Grandma's house, and it always will be. Speaking of Pop, we all know he is computer-alliterate so he will most likely never make it to write on this “wall.” But he misses you Granny, he misses you so much. He is really doing great, stronger than any of us.
Mommy and Aunt Ro yearn for your so bad and to have you call them and talk about everything going on but they both hide their hurt so well for Me, Jim , Carissa, Jayla, and Jake. Aunt Betty, as you can see, writes on here every month. I promise I will write to you more often, hopefully as I write my eyes get less swollen and my sobs calm down, you always taught all of us that you can't count on anyone completely until you can count on yourself. I would love to sit here and just write all of your best qualities and admirable traits, but that is not what you would want. You never took enough credit for all that you did. God, I miss you so much. You know I promised myself that I wouldn't write this on here but I have pretty recently had my heart broken by, well you know. It sucks but I can honestly say it absolutely nothing to the ache and pain I feel when I think about you. I don't want this to be sad but you were just always a part of absolutely every big event in my life until this point—every birthday, dances, first day of school, both proms, High School graduation, and I want you to know how much I appreciated all of that and all that you ever did to me.
When Aunt Ro comes to visit we obviously always talk about you, usually the conversation starts with tears, and eventually those tears keep coming except they stream from our eyes as we crack up and go back and forth telling stories of you. There was never a dull moment with you Granny, and it didn't take much to make you happy. I know your always watching me, and I guess one can never really understand that until someone they love is taken away from them. I think about you every morning, every time I see a beach, every time I see a boat, I think about you before I go to sleep, not to be weird but I even think of you when I am in the shower. I have your pictures on my desk at school and I have the crystal-dangly-thing that you bought for me when I first got my car. It hangs right in my review mirror. It's only a diamond thing and a crystal but I feel like it's your way of being with me, especially when I am driving, and if I drive anything like mommy we all know I need the guidance (lol).
One Day we will meet again. One Day I will be telling my kids about you. I hope One Day that missing you becomes easier because while I think of you all the time, it is the missing you part that hurts. I can't explain it, it literally feels like there is a hole in my heart and sand in the back of my throat. But I know I'll see you One Day, until then keep watching us, all of us. If you promise to never fully leave me, I promise I will write on here forever to talk to you. “Oh Carol!” (lol) I love you Granny, and cheers to having you with me for 19 years.
Love always,
Your Mams
Hey Granny,

First I just want to apologize for how long it has taken me to write on here for you. I miss you so much and my keyboard is already being wet as my tears fall onto it. Mommy tells me all the time that I need to write on here because it is almost like I am talking to you. Well here I am at 1 am on a Monday night, one week after your 1 year anniversary; which I shouldn't even say it like that. Anniversaries are to be celebrated, and going on with life without you for a year is nothing to celebrate. But what I can celebrate is the 19 years I got to have you in my life. While I think about you every single day and wish that I could have had you for so much longer, I know that the time I did have with you will be treasured deep in my heart, where it doesn't ache for you of course.
So much has happened within the last year but hopefully I get build up the courage to write on here to you more often. I talk about you all of the time, not even exaggerating. I refer to your house as, well, your house. No offense to Pop but we were never going to “Pop-Pop's” house, it was always Grandma's house, and it always will be. Speaking of Pop, we all know he is computer-alliterate so he will most likely never make it to write on this “wall.” But he misses you Granny, he misses you so much. He is really doing great, stronger than any of us.
Mommy and Aunt Ro yearn for your so bad and to have you call them and talk about everything going on but they both hide their hurt so well for Me, Jim , Carissa, Jayla, and Jake. Aunt Betty, as you can see, writes on here every month. I promise I will write to you more often, hopefully as I write my eyes get less swollen and my sobs calm down, you always taught all of us that you can't count on anyone completely until you can count on yourself. I would love to sit here and just write all of your best qualities and admirable traits, but that is not what you would want. You never took enough credit for all that you did. God, I miss you so much. You know I promised myself that I wouldn't write this on here but I have pretty recently had my heart broken by, well you know. It sucks but I can honestly say it absolutely nothing to the ache and pain I feel when I think about you. I don't want this to be sad but you were just always a part of absolutely every big event in my life until this point—every birthday, dances, first day of school, both proms, High School graduation, and I want you to know how much I appreciated all of that and all that you ever did to me.
When Aunt Ro comes to visit we obviously always talk about you, usually the conversation starts with tears, and eventually those tears keep coming except they stream from our eyes as we crack up and go back and forth telling stories of you. There was never a dull moment with you Granny, and it didn't take much to make you happy. I know your always watching me, and I guess one can never really understand that until someone they love is taken away from them. I think about you every morning, every time I see a beach, every time I see a boat, I think about you before I go to sleep, not to be weird but I even think of you when I am in the shower. I have your pictures on my desk at school and I have the crystal-dangly-thing that you bought for me when I first got my car. It hangs right in my review mirror. It's only a diamond thing and a crystal but I feel like it's your way of being with me, especially when I am driving, and if I drive anything like mommy we all know I need the guidance (lol).
One Day we will meet again. One Day I will be telling my kids about you. I hope One Day that missing you becomes easier because while I think of you all the time, it is the missing you part that hurts. I can't explain it, it literally feels like there is a hole in my heart and sand in the back of my throat. But I know I'll see you One Day, until then keep watching us, all of us. If you promise to never fully leave me, I promise I will write on here forever to talk to you. “Oh Carol!” (lol) I love you Granny, and cheers to having you with me for 19 years.
Love always,
Your Mams
May 12, 2014
Well Carol it is hard to believe that you left us a year ago. They say that time heals a broken heart, but for me it is
not true. I love and miss you more each day. I know you and Mommy were there with us for Mother's Day and feeling proud. I want to thank you for giving me the most and best nieces and nephews anyone could have. I hope that you are at peace. You were the best sister anyone could ever have.
Love you eternally. RIP little sister.
Betty
May 10, 2014
Tomorrow marks the first anniversary of Carol leaving us - and leaving the world with a little less joy in it. I can still hear her one-of-a-kind laugh that would just crack me up! I remember her as Betty's kid sister that would always follow us around, threatening to "tell Mommy" if we wouldn't let her tag along. Wow, it just seems like yesterday. But there will come a day when Carol will be able to laugh again - when the resurrection of the dead occurs. And, I'll do my best to get that laugh out of her..and I will! Georgi
May 01, 2014
Happy Wedding anniversary to you in heaven I hope you are celebrating with the angels. Love you forever and ever

Betty
April 17, 2014
Hard to believe that you are gone from us for almost a year now. I love and miss you more as time goes on. I know that you will be with us in spirit on Sunday when we will all be together for Easter. Still waiting for your call. Love you forever and ever. RIP
little sister.
March 14, 2014
WelL Carol, Its now 10 months and still I can't accept your passing. James came here on Saturday for a visit. Its always good to see him.When we get together with him we always talk about what the four of us use to do together. They were the best memories of us. Today we are leaving for Florida for 2 weeks. We need this vacation with all that has gone on. I love and miss you so much. No one will
ever understand the relationship you and I had. Please RIP
Betty
February 14, 2014
Well Carol hard to believe its already 9 months since you left us. I wished that I could say that I have accepted that, but in my heart I can't. I miss you far too much. Talking to you would always make me feel better when ever a situation occurred. I pray that one day soon you will come back in a dream and let me know that everything is ok.
Love you so much and missing you more than ever. Betty
January 09, 2014
Well Carol, Today was a day that I wanted to pickup the phone and call you. You would always be the first person I would call. Tiki died today suddenly . I felt so heartbroken for Kenny. I am having a hard time excepting it. I am really gonna miss him being here.Seems that everything that I love is slowly leaving me behind. Kenny is going to have him cremated. Well I just wanted to fill you in. Love and miss you so much.RIP
Betty
January 04, 2014
Happy Birthday sister! Miss you so much.
Been getting by with everyday life.Its Kenny's birthday Sunday too. I know you are watching over the family and that you are so proud of their acomplishments. Going to see Georiganna in Memphis with Catherine. She just found out that she too has breast cancer.It was the worst year ever, hopefully this one will be a little better, but not as it should, cause you are not here with all of us. I still have a hard time sleeping and thinking that this is all a bad dream and that when I wake up I will get a call from you and hear your voice telling me that everything will be ok.
I hope you are at peace now and having a good time up there surrounded by mommy and dad and everyone else who has left us behind. I love you so much.
RIP little sister. Talk to you soon. Betty
January 03, 2014
Happy Birthday Mommy! I just wanted to let you know what's been going on in our lives. First of all this is the worst year ever. So much tragedy and bad news for our family and friends. Please watch over us and make this year a better one. Anyway first kris is doing amazing and enjoying college life. You would be so proud. You always said that was your mams and so special. Your right she is! She misses you so much. Her and I cry, laugh and talk about you all the time. Jim is finally driving. He's doing good he's such a good boy and talks about you too! Jayla is doing so good in school. Her teachers love her. She is still. Her bratty self. But talks about you and says grandma is still a angel in heaven but she wants you here and not in heaven anymore. Big Jake is running all over the place and talking pretty good. I always show him your pictures I want him to know who you were and how spe iCal you were to all of us. Rosie and I talk on a regular basis and remain close. You would be proud of us mom. I think we are closer now than ever. She works a lot, and always going to drs trying to take care of herself all while raising Carissa Carissa is growing up so fast and is such a good little girl I talk to Aunt Bet and see her a lot too. Her and I went in the fall. To visit Kris at college. We had so much fun! We were talking about memories of you. Rosie was so sick and couldn't come. But she's coming next time with us. Pop is lost without you. But you would be proud of him. He comes over all the time and plays with the kids. jake is so attached to him. Ed and I are doing good.We talk all the time about the good times with you. Our trips and especially the boat. I know you loved that boat. We didn't go on it this past year. It was just too soon and too hard for all of us. But we are gonna this summer, As I know you would want. jayla always plays songs and says this is grandmas boat song. She loved that song! Mom I miss you every day,especially our talks. You were my best friend and the one person I shared everything with. I miss the phone ringing in the morning and thru out the day. My heart still has this numb feeling without you in my life everyday. But I still talk to you and wonder why god had to take you so soon! I love and miss you so much mommy and hope you have a great birthday in heaven! Love you and forever missed, Kelly
January 03, 2014
Happy Birthday Mommy! I just wanted to let you know what's been going on in our lives first of all Christmas was very sad without you but we all were together just as you would want. Rosie and I talk on a regular basis. She's doing ok. Going to her dr apps and trying to take care of herself. Carissa is growing up so fast and be oming such a wonderful little girl! Aunt Bet is doing good. She's always in touch with me and we try to get together quite. Often. She and I went up to visit Kris @ college. We had so much fun! Wish so bad you were there with us. Rosiewas very sick at the time but will come with us next time. Kris is doing amazing! She loves college and is making us all very proud. Jim is now driving! Can you believe it! Jayla is in school and doing well. She loves it. Still her bratty self but always talks about you. Always says grandmas an angel and she wants you to come back down here.Jake is running all over the place and starting to talk very good. I show him your pictures all the time. Pop is doing ok. He is so lost without you. I see himall the time and he comes over a lot and plays with the kids. Ed and I are doing good. Our basement is finished.you would have loved it. Your picture is hanging up.mom this past year has been one of the roughest years any of us have faced. I really miss talking to you every day and you coming over all the time. There is such an empty space, a void in my heart without you here. You were my rock and my best friend. The one who I always talked to. Good and bad. Ed and I always talk about the good times we had with you. jayla always plays songs and says this is a boat song. Grandma liked this song too. Mom even though your not here please try to pray that this year is a better year for all of us. Our family has benn thru one bad thing after another and cannot take any more tragedy. We are a special one of a kind family that shares a bond most families don't have. That's because of you. You always kept us close and together. But we will remain that way with you in our hearts now and forever! I love and miss you so much! Love you mommy, Kelly
December 23, 2013
Mommy,

This will be our first Christmas without you. Our family knows how much you always enjoyed this time of year and spending it with all of us. This will the first time I am not spending Christmas Eve overnight at your house. It is also the first time, Carissa won't be spending the night and opening her gifts Christmas morning with you. She asked me a few times how come we can't continue our tradition of spending the night before Christmas at your house. I told her I just couldn't do it. In reality, I felt as though I wanted to hide under a rock until all of this "holiday stuff" passed. Kelly and I spoke a few times about this and both agreed you would want us to not change a thing, you would want us to all be together and enjoy the day. That is exactly what we are doing.

When you were alive, you and I spoke on how life would change one day if you were to leave us. You told me over and over, we would all have to continue to be strong, and be there for each other. We are trying Mom, I can promise you, but this has been a horrible year for our family to say the least. Losing you was the beginning of all of the other horrible things to come. Kelly and I were just saying we feel like every week we are saying "what else can happen." You are truly missed and there is not a day that goes by that I don't find myself thinking about you. Carissa even sees it and doesn't even say anything anymore when she sees me upset. She just hugs me and says " you miss Grandma right Mommy" and I just hold her tight. I have said it before and I will say it again, Kelly and Ed have done so much not only for Pop, but for all of us. You were always the rock that held our family together. I strongly believe my sister has stepped in and taken that role and I can't thank her and Ed enough for all they do for all of us. I don't even have words strong enough to define how lost I am without you, I can tell you its a pain I don't think will ever really go away. I often wonder if you hear me talking to you. Remembering you is easy, I do it everyday. Missing you is the heartache that I feel never will really go away. I love you so much.
December 13, 2013
Well Carol it is now been 7 months and time has not healed the way I feel. Christmas will not be the same without you. I do thank you for my beautiful nieces who are a reflection of you. I love and miss you, mom and dad and think of our memories we had as a family, especially during the Holiday time. RIP little sister
November 22, 2013
It is now 6 months since your passing and I still am waiting for you to call. the Holidays are coming and it just makes me sadder knowing your'e not here with us. Had a great timebeing with Kelly and Krisi in Conn.
I look at them and think this all cam e about because of you. I know you are so proud. I will be there for them if they every need me, as I have told Kelly n Rosie many times. They are always on my mind. Love you so much.
RIP Betty
October 23, 2013
Well, Carol 5 months have gone by and it still has not gotten any easier for any of us. I know you would be happy knowing that we do all get together at least every 2 weeks. I miss you more than anything. I feel so lost without you in my life. I use you famous words all the time now "why not" and follow thru. RIP LITTLE SISTER. Love you Betty
September 14, 2013
Just wanted to come through here and say you have been on my mind....I told Rosie that I had a dream about you telling us you were glad we were such good friends and for me to watch Ro. It was so real and it was your voice telling me this....you may be gotten in physical but living on in spirit!
September 13, 2013
Carol, It has now been 4 months since you left us and as the time goes on it still has not gotten any easier I know that you will be glad that I am going to go with the girls to Connecticut to see Kristi. You will be with us too in spirit. I still want to pickup the phone and call you and ask for your opinion I things that go on in my life. You would always comfort me like that. I am trying to be a stronger person like you would want. I love and miss you soo much. I know you are in a better place now. RIP sister
August 22, 2013
Well Carol its been 3 months and as time goes on I miss you more and more. I want so many times to pick up the phone and just be able to talk to you. We are having the annual picnic this Saturday but it won't be the same without you here. You were always the first one to ask me what can you do or make for the picnic. I am trying like you asked me to just live my life and enjoy but I have that emptiness in my heart that will never leave and I am doing my best to stay busy. I wished that I could be there for Rosie to help her out , cause I know that is what you would be doing for her while
she goes thru this surgery today. I promise that if she wants me to come and help her out, I will go.
I wonder all the time if you are with Mommy and Daddy and that you are all looking down at all of us.
I love and miss you all so much.
August 03, 2013
Mommy, I wanted to come here sooner but I couldn't bring myself to finish what I was writing. Kind of like the last time I read you the letter I wrote to you when you were in the hospital. I wanted you to know Pop is doing as well as he can be. Kel and Ed have been doing a great job of keeping him entertained. He definitely makes an awesome Pop Pop. Jake is extremely attached to him. Speaking of Jake, I took the kids camping. Jake was so cute, he was walking all over the place and of course I let him fall asleep right on my chest. Jayla and Carissa had a great time too. I let Aunt Bet know that camping reminded me of all of our childhood memories. Uncle Joe & Aunt Bet would bring us camping everywhere. I know you always wanted your family to be close and I wanted you to know we all are doing the best we can to stay in touch and just enjoy each other. I rather hang out with my family over anything else any day. Kelly had a birthday dinner party for me. She even made me my favorite, macaroni. To be honest I think she makes sauce as good as you did.

I just had the first part of my surgery. I fought with the hospital staff to bring your ashes in with me. You were there with me through it and I know you will be there with me again in a few weeks when I have the second part. Carissa asked me a few times why you had to leave us so early and how come the doctors could not fix you. Those are the hard questions. We all miss you so much. Everyone tells me this gets easier...I don't think that is the case. Just wanted to let you know we are all doing as well as we can be. I try to thank my sister and Ed often because without them, I am not too sure how Pop would be. Aunt Bet & Uncle Joe too. You kept telling me I have to stay strong when this happens and I promise you I am trying. Wish I could hear your voice, most of all I wish I could hug you and see you smile. Your baby misses you so much. I am very thankful for our family. I just wish you were here to enjoy it too. Miss you and think of you all of the time. I love you Mommy.
July 23, 2013
Well Carol it has been 2 months since you've gone. Still so hard to believe. I went to church Sunday with Beverly. She had a mass said in your name. It was nice to hear. The girls keep in touch with me and I am so glad they do. There are so many times when I come home from work and look at my answering machine to see if you called. I love and miss you so much.
June 13, 2013
Just thinking of you mom and wishing I could hear your voice one more time. I love you so much! Love u always and forever, Kelly
PS. Big Jake started walking about a week ago. I know you would wanna know that!
June 10, 2013
Hey Little sister its been a month since you have gone, I thought that it would get a little easier each day, but that is not true, I miss you more and more each day. I am still waiting for your phone calls, wanting to tell you things that I want to talk about to you and no one else. I keep hoping for some kind of a miracle to happen. I hope that you are with Mommy and Daddy looking down at all of us. I know they must be proud of what you have accomplished. I love you forever and I know that in my heart things will never be the same without. You are a true angel
May 20, 2013
Its been over a week and I still feel like your gonna call me like you do every morning or walk thru the door. I have so many memories with you as a mom and as my best friend. You are the most amazing woman I know and I only wish I could be half of what you were. I love you mommy and I will keep talking to you every day and know that your watchong over all of us. God really got a great angel this time ??? love u alwaysand forever, Kelly
May 18, 2013
I worked with Carol in Dunellen.
There are no words other than:
"We are Stunned".
Our thoughts and prayers go with the entire family at their time of sorrow.
Carol will be greatly missed.
May 18, 2013
You will be missed so much, we always had such fun hanging out,all the last minute parties in your backyard and mine. You me and Janel always had a great time. you will forever be in my thoughts and prayers. Stacey and Dewey Nami
May 16, 2013
Rosie and Family,

Marion and i are so sorry for the passing of your Mom. You all have been blessed for having a Mom , Wife and Grandmother that was so good to you and Loved you all. Our thoughts and Prayers are with you and may the memories carry you through the days ahead.
May 16, 2013
My heart goes out to your family. Your mother was so full of life and carefree. She left a lasting impression on everyone who met get.
May 15, 2013
My dear Carol I am so sadded that you have passed! You were a woderful person and friend I can remeber when you talked me into working for verizon and I also had the peasure of knowing your daugthers Kelly and Rosie and of couse your sister who I also worked with. This is so hard to beileve that you are gone and how truely you will be missed!! You were a real genuine person and I loved that about you! You will be missed greatly!! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! Love you carol please R.iP! Xo
May 15, 2013
My deepest condolences are extended to you and your family Rosie.
Carol and I worked together for many years in Dunellen NJ and of course you and I in Bridgewater NJ. You know that I was always very fond of your mom. She was one of a kind.
May the wonderful memories of your mother be with you in your heart always.
May 15, 2013
James, Rosie and Kelly, I am so very sorry. Carol, Stacey and I had some really good times. I'll never forget our trip to Key West,Fla. We had an absolutely good time. It was the best week. I'm sorry. I will miss her very much. With all my love. Janel (Bayville,NJ)
May 15, 2013
Betty I am so saddened by your loss. Although I haven't seen you girls in a number of years you have both been special people to me. We were so close as kids looking after each other. I remember well trying to comfort you as kids when you lost your Mom. I will never forget your trip to visit us and you bringing Rosie. Please give my condolences to Carol's family and you take care of yourself. If I can make it up there I would love to see you. Sandy Krystopik Moss
May 15, 2013
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
May 15, 2013
To the Allocco family my heart is saddened today by the loss of your wife,mom,sister and grandma. I will always have great memories of Carol the laughter and the tears. She was a vibrant star every night when I look up in the sky I know she will be there shinng brightly as always. You will be truly missed,but never forgetten. Be in peace now Carol love ya
May 15, 2013
To a beautiful family I am so sorry for the loss of your wife, mom, sister and grandma. I will always have fond memories of Carol the laughter and the tears of life we shared . She will be truly missed but in our hearts forever. love ya carol be in peace Bev/Bill
May 15, 2013
DEAR JAMES KELLY AND ROSI IAM SO VERY SORRT FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS.IA AM SO HAPPY I GOT TO SPEND TIME WITH ALL OF YOY A FEW WEEKS AGO WE SURE DO HAVE ALOT OF GOOD MEMORIES TO KEEP TALKING ABOUT.CAROL YOU NWILL ALLWAYS BE IN MY HEART .LOVE AND MISS YOU DOREEN
May 14, 2013
"Grandma" we all called you Grandma because you really were like a Mother and Grandmother to everyone. I will never forget the many memories myself and family have had with you over the last 14 years. One of the best is when Rosie took you to Vegas with all of us. We laughed so hard especially when all of the kids came home at 5am from the club, and asked you to come gamble one more time. You hopped right up, put your lipstick on, and we laughed all the way to the slots about Vinnie Bag of Donuts. We had code names for many, jokes that only me, you, and Rosie would get and tons of laughs. I am going to miss your daily calls hearing you laugh as we joke about all the money we threw away on rub offs but you always said "we are going to hit big Fuzzball". Whenever my family heads to AC or Parx, we will do "our special rub" on the slot machines that always made you laugh. I won't be able to tease you about the smokey blueberry muffins or my famous "light them up" saying. I will always be there for Pops, Kelly and her family, and of course Rose and Carissa. Love you "Grandma"
May 14, 2013
Grandma,
You are pretty as diamonds. I will miss you calling me everyday while I wait in the truck to go to school and you calling me after school to see how my day was. I will miss signing songs to you and seeing my favorite lady and Grandma. Mommy and me miss you so much.
May 14, 2013
Mr. Allocco, Kelly and Rosie, I am so sorry to hear about your mom. I have so many wonderful memories of your mom from the old SP days. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
May 14, 2013
So sorry for your loss. My prayers go out to you. Hugs
May 14, 2013
Mr. Allocco, Kelly, and Rosie!

I am so sorry to hear of Carol's passing. She was a wonderful woman. I have many great memories of her while growing up in SP.

Pam Oliver-Goldsmith
May 14, 2013
Ro,
I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. Your Mom is with the angels now, watching you and Carissa from Heaven.
May 14, 2013
Words cannot express the sorrow I feel for you and your family Rosie. I have such great memories of you're mom while working with her in dunellen. She loved her family and friends. I still remember how proud she was when she brought you to work for visits. May the love and support from family and friends ease your sorrow. Love and prayers to you and your family. God bless.
May 14, 2013
I worked with Carol at Verizon in Dunellen and live in South Plainfield. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
May 14, 2013
I will always have you in my heart Carol. We had great times together.. especially just a few weeks ago. Know you are cherished and loved by all who have had the honor of knowing you and loving you...You are missed and never will be forgotten..
May 14, 2013
RIP my beautiful sister. Not only are you my sister, but my best friend forever. We have so many memories together that will always remain in my broken heart. I miss you so much. You are now an angel in heaven looking down at us. I was blessed to have you as my sister.
Love you forever and ever
May 14, 2013
RIP my beautiful sister. Not only are you my sister, but my best friend. We have shared many memories together, that I will cherish forever.
You are now an angel in heaven looking down at us. I love you very much. I was truly blessed to have you as my sister. You will always remain in my broken heart. Love you!
May 14, 2013
RIP my beautiful sister. You are not only my sister, but my best friend forever. I already miss hearing your voice and us talking on the phone. We have many great memories together. You will forever remain in my broken heart. I love you so much. You are now an angel in heaven looking down at us.
May 14, 2013
Childhood friends are with us always ~ in our hearts and in our minds. Carol will always be with me. May God bless the family in this sad time of life. Love, Georgianna Borlin Gilardi
May 14, 2013
My thoughts and Prayers go out to all of you during this difficult time. We have shared so many memories over the years, the stories are endless and the memories are what we will hold close to our hearts. may all of you find the strength to get through this time of sorrow. Aunt Carol may you rest in Peace forever! I am so happy we had the last visit with you!
May 14, 2013
Thoughts am prayers are with you.
May 14, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time!! We have many fond memories of our parents and all of the "get togethers" as we were growing up over the years!!! We love you all! Stay strong!
May 14, 2013
God has called one of His special People Home. The hurt in the heart is Strong. I do Pray for all the Family and Feel the loss. Carol put unto this Earth two Angels Kelly and Rosemarie. I Know God will give His strength to the Family. You are in My Heart and Prayers and I will be there for the whole family. God Bless
May 14, 2013
Since I found out, I have been praying for God to uplift your family and give your family all the strength it needs. In time the pain will ease. The memories will be able to sustain you and when you least expect it, on your roughest days, things will suddenly become lighter.
May 14, 2013
I still cant believe its true....i am at a loss for words! I called her mom because she was my second mom to me...Rosemarie and I began our friendship throughout preschool and she is the sister i never had. I always felt at home and as if i was part of the family. You were an extremely beautiful person and your legacy will be carried on by your two beautiful daughters. There were so many times when you comforted me and gave me advice. I will never forget your caring ways and will be forever grateful that you were a part of my life. Rosemarie is my angel here and you are our Guardian Angel looking down upon from heaven. My mom always laughs at when Rosie and I took a limo to the shore at 15...both of you were waiting for us to get home from our adventure. My deepest prayers and sympathy...you are gone but never forgotten.
May 14, 2013
We wanted to express our thoughts and prayers with all of the family. We heard so much about Carol each week when Rosemarie would come in for her treatments. What I remember most is Carol and Rosemarie would be on the telephone while Rosemarie sat in recovery and the two of them would laugh and laugh and laugh while the two of them battled the same horrible disease. Rosemarie you are not just our patient but you have become both of our friends. We are here for you and your family. Our prayers go out to the entire family during this horrible time.
May 14, 2013
Will always remember Carol's High Spirited personality full of good humor and pray for the happy repose of her soul. Rest in Peace, Carol.
May 14, 2013
Carol, we will always remember your beautiful smile and your kind heart. Before meeting you, while at the office, we would always hear Rosemarie talk about how special her Mother was to her. You truly are her hero. I can still remember 20 years ago finally meeting the woman I had heard so much about.When I met and hired your daughter, I knew right then she would become a special part of our family, along with her family. You could light up a room Carol and you definitely passed on your sense of humor, your huge heart, and "tell it like it is ways" to Rosie. Most of all I believe you are the reason she continues her own fight. Our family wants you to know as we told you long ago, we will always be there for your daughter and all of your family. Thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
May 14, 2013
On behalf of Telephone Pioneers Life member Club Sending our Deepest Sympathy to Carol's Family
May 14, 2013
James,kelly & Ed, Betty, my thoughts and prayers are with you. It was an honor to have known your Mom she was such a loving woman. I will treasure my fond memories forever.
May 14, 2013
So many fond memories of your mom, she was practically my second mother our growing up years.. no matter what we did as teenagers- good, bad or embarrassing- she always accepted me with open arms into your family. I am so honored to be able to hold her smile and laugh so close to my heart. She was a remarkable women and will be dearly missed by many. Love you!
May 14, 2013
We want to express our condolences to you and the family. I only met Carol a few times but she was always very friendly, warm and outgoing. She will certainly be missed at the family get to-gethers. God bless you, Irene and Arne Anderson
May 14, 2013
My thougts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of grief. May your wonderful memories bring continuous comfort to you all.
May 14, 2013
Mommy,
I cannot begin to say how lost I will be without you, literally. You are my heart. Words cannot express how much we will all miss you. I know you hung in there for as long as you could so you could have all of our family there with you when it was your time. You were the rock that always kept everyone together and made all of us laugh and smile. I will never forget all you have done for all of us. I not only lost the greatest Mother any child could ask for, but I lost my best friend. I would do anything to be able to talk to you again and hear you laugh. Mommy, I don't know how I am going to do this without you, but I know exactly what you would say to me. I love you.
May 14, 2013
My condolences, may she rest in peace
May 14, 2013
Jim and I just wanted to express our deepest sympathy and condolences to your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Carol always made us smile!!
May 13, 2013
I have many fond memories of friendship with the Aiken girls during the mid 1950s and 1960s growing up in South Plainfield. They were my very first friends before starting school. We lost touch over the years but through Facebook, Betty and I have rekindled that friendship and I'm grateful that I had the opportunity to see Carol again at Betty and Joe's summer picnic and then at Betty's Birthday this past winter. Sincere condolences to the Allocco family for your loss. She loved her family so much and leaves us all with good memories. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
May 13, 2013
I wish to express my condolences to the entire family. Carol Ann was my good childhood friend and neighbor for many years. I will always fondly remember her sweet personality and sense of humor. Prayers of peace and healing sent your way. Peggy Coyle Gorsky
May 13, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
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