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December 24, 2014
Merry Christmas my baby brother. I am so heartbroken over you and Mom not being here. When you passed, I was struggling so badly with describing what I was feeling one night...Rob said it best - "it's like a link in the chain is missing." Now, with two links missing, it's getting harder and harder. I miss your antics...your personality is one of the best I will ever know, Charles. I love and miss you so much. You and Mom better make your presence known tomorrow. They say that you are the same on the other side, so without a doubt, you should have the strength to do it! Always & Forever.
December 11, 2014
Oh, how I miss my baby brother. I had a bad “Charles morning” the other day when I was on my way to Pat's. I looked back at Gianna, who gave me a huge smile, so I tried my best to move past it. Then, the next day, I see your old police car in front of the Courthouse. Coincidence? Perhaps. I don't think so, though. Please keep making your presence known…it brings all of us some comfort. I miss your smile and laughter. More and more, I miss straightforward, no fluff advice….you're my sidekick :) I love you so much!!
November 26, 2014
Happy Thanksgiving, my baby brother. As it has been for the last two years, it is going to be difficult. I know that you and Mom will be there in spirit. I love and miss you so much.
November 05, 2014
I meant to wish you a Happy 32nd Birthday! Oops :) I never mess this stuff up...mom-brain, I guess. Love you!!
November 05, 2014
Happy – early – Birthday! Since it is only one day early, you can't get mad :) haha!! I am sure that you were there with me when I was putting balloons and chocolate chip cookies on your grave earlier today. Oh, how I miss you and Mom. I am unable to digest the fact that I stand in between my baby brother's/Mother's grave...I will never be able to accept this. It will always be surreal to me. We were just looking at pictures from Pat and Sarah's wedding the other day…other than the eyes, Adrianna and Gianna are almost identical! It is SO crazy!! It makes me feel even closer to you, if that makes any sense. You and I look so much alike, so it makes me smile. I miss you so much, Charles. There is not one moment that goes by without you and Mom in it. Happy 31st Birthday, my baby brother. I love you.
October 23, 2014
Hey there. I miss you so much, Charles. I had a really bad "Charles day" this past Saturday. I hate that you are not here. I was talking to Donna the other day...through my tears, I just kept smiling and laughing. You have touched so many people. I am so proud to be your sister. I love you, my baby brother. Always & Forever.
October 07, 2014
Unbelievable!! I love you.
October 04, 2014
I heard honey bee the other day...it put a huge smile on my face :) Who am I kidding, you know I cried right after! I can hear you now, "Ro, stop, everything is fine." I love and miss you so much, Charles.
September 23, 2014
“Hey there, guy!” haha!! There was a good crowd on Sunday. Pat was so cute with his table that was dedicated to you. We were laughing at how serious you look in a picture of you and Maverick because you probably laughed, and turned red, immediately after the shot was taken…totally shy! Heather and Dad looked so cute together :) Of course, I maintained my long-distance relationship with Maverick…nothing has changed/every will change there! It's so cool to see the respect and dedication that is constantly given to all of you. I am so proud to be your sister, Charles. I miss your smirk. Whenever we talk about you, Josie always talks about your grin :)Adrianna looks so much like you...it's kind of comforting in a way. I love and miss you so much.
September 07, 2014
My thoughts are of you tonight and still saddened when I think of you. I past the cemetery today and always throw you a kiss as I pass by. I will always remember that sweet little guy I got to know. Be with all your family to get them through the next few days.
September 05, 2014
Thank you, Mrs. Judy! xoxo
September 05, 2014
Rosalie, I know that your mom and Charles are watching over you and the whole family. Hugs to you and everyone.
September 04, 2014
I know you know, but I just want to tell you that I am thinking a lot about you this week. It's crazy, Charles, I feel like I can smell the air from the week of your passing. Losing you and Mom has been the hardest thing…you are two of my “people.” Please keep the signs coming. I love and miss you so much, baby brother
August 11, 2014
Thank you, Charles. I love and miss you so much.
July 29, 2014
Really miss you lately, Charles. I love you so much.
July 06, 2014
I received your/Mom's message this morning, Charles. HONEY BEE it is for the both of you now :) I love and miss you, my baby brother.
June 30, 2014
Hi, my baby brother. Just want you to know that I am thinking of you. I love and miss you so much.
June 20, 2014
Love and miss you, Charles.
June 15, 2014
Happy Father's Day, Charles! Miss and love you so much.
June 08, 2014
Hi, my baby brother. When I was at your grave/Mom's grave the other day, I feel like you were trying to tell me something. It was so weird the way your windmill spun like crazy when I walked over to your grave, and would then slow down when I walked over to Mom's....her windmill would only kick-start when I walked over to her, even after I turned it in the same direction as yours. I know it's crazy, but I feel like you/Mom were trying to tell me that she is working on her abilities/powers. Again, I know it sounds crazy, but I feel like my thoughts are so much deeper and even more analytical (I know you are probably making a smart comment on that one). Pat and I were talking about how I have had so many dreams of you, dreams where I know you came to me. I know they say that grief can inhibit that from happening, but please do not give up, Charles; more than ever, I need to hear from you, Pop, and/or Mom. I love and miss you so much.
June 02, 2014
When you passed, I remember apologizing to Pop because I did not want him to think that I have forgotten about him, and now I feel like I need to apologize to you, too. I will never, ever forget about you, but I am so consumed with shock and confusion with Mom's death.

Rob washed and waxed the Chrysler for Heather last weekend….it's still such an awesome car! While I was driving it back to Heather, a spider came down from the windshield and I was petrified! Of course, I did not know how I was going to get it away from me, so I ended up swerving a bit, but I built up the courage to smack it in between my hands….while screaming, of course. I would like to believe that you were NOT laughing at me because that would be quite hypocritical of you!

I love you so much, Charles, and I miss you like crazy.
May 22, 2014
Although I know you are with Mom, I will try my best to write you more often like she did. I know you know this, but just remember that you are on my mind constantly. I love and miss my baby brother so much. Your signs are crazy, Charles, and they give us so much comfort, so please help Mom to be able to deliver her signs....you guys have the power/will. We are all still in shock over the wallet....unbelievable! Love you.
May 15, 2014
I love and miss you SO much, Charles. xoxo
May 13, 2014
Charles, I know you were there waiting for Mom. I can only imagine the reunion between her and her bambino....it gives me chills just thinking about it. Although we are not supposed to understand God's plan, I know that we have to trust it, but I am so baffled and so darn angry, Charles. After you passed, Mom never lost her faith, so I will have to do the same. We really need you to help us. I keep imagining you in Mom's arms and Pop's arms around the both of you. I love and miss you SO much, Charles.
April 30, 2014
My Dearst Son, Charles. I LOVE AND MISS YOU IMMENSELY!!!! Come home. Always and Forever. Mom
April 27, 2014
My Dearest son, Charles, Well I really missed you tonight. Truly needed you by your family. Adrianna looked so grown up, and you are so proud of Heather I know. She was so brave and held Adrianna's hand through her dance and then picked her up and held her through the rest of the dance. I am so proud of her. Charles my heart is broken and tonight proved that you really are gone. Like a hard punch in my gut. More everyday my reality becomes more hated. My God I miss you. Always and forever I will love you. I promise. Mom
April 26, 2014
Keep the signs coming, Charles! I love and miss you so much.
April 26, 2014
My Dearest son, Charles, Well I really missed you tonight. Truly needed you by your family. Adrianna looked so grown up, and you are so proud of Heather I know. She was so brave and held Adrianna's hand through her dance and then picked her up and held her through the rest of the dance. I am so proud of her. Charles my heart is broken and tonight proved that you really are gone. Like a hard punch in my gut. More everyday my reality becomes more hated. My God I miss you. Always and forever I will love you. I promise. Mom
April 22, 2014
My Dearest Son. My Derest Charles. Having a couple of bad days. I so need this to be a nightmare. I miss and love ou so much. Always and forever and always. Mom
April 20, 2014
My dearest son, Charles, Happy Easter to you. I love you so so very much!!!! I know you were here today. Sometimes your signs are so present. I know you wouldn't have missed today-the egg hunt, and just being around us-your family. I found a picture and paragraph that you did when you were in school on the Honey Bee. So coincidental--I was amazed after all the Honey Bee song!!!! I am going to frame it. No matter what when we are together there is a huge void. It's you, your not here. There is always so much pain. This is breaking me more and more every day. I want you to come home. Your shoes are where you left them, at the front door and I still can smell you on your shirt and your hat. Hope you smiled when you saw us all together. Always and forever I will love you Chi bella Bambino. Mom
April 20, 2014
Happy Easter, Charles. I love and miss you SO much...you are forever in my heart. I love you.
April 16, 2014
My Dearest Son, Charles, I MISS YOU!!!! I AM ANGRY THAT YOU ARE NOT HERE!!!! WHY WHY WHY!!!! As time passes so does the pain, the hurt just the anguish of your not being here. Easter is coming and I know how you would love so much this Holiday and the kids and above all the Easter Egg Hunt. I picture you running around trying to point out the eggs like I used to for you and Anthony, Patrick and Rosalie....Dear God please come home. I got a message last night. Thank you so much. Sometimes it is the only thing that keeps me going, knowing that you will come and leave a message to keep me strong. I feel you and sometimes I know it is you around me. I wish you could come back and live in the attic just as in the movie Beetlejuice did. I would not be so angry anymore and feel less of an impact on my broken heart. I try so hard Charles to stay strong, but how am I supposed to be happy or whole ever again with the loss of my baby. Part of my set----A piece of my heart and soul. I miss you and love you so. Waiting for the next sign... Always and forever and always. Your Mom
April 09, 2014
My Dearest Son, Charles, just wanted to tell you I love you so much. I'm sorry I had a melt down a couple of days ago. Just angry. Just missing and loving you. Always and forever and always. Your Momma.
April 08, 2014
My Dearest Son, Charles, just wanted to tell you I love you so much. I'm sorry I had a melt down a couple of days ago. Just angry. Just missing and loving you. Always and forever and always. Your Momma.
March 30, 2014
My Dearest son, Charles. I MISS AND LOVE YOU SO SO SO VERY MUCH!!!! THanks for the light the other night and yesterday. I got your message. ALWAYS AND FOREVER AND ALWAYS. Your Mom
March 26, 2014
The number of dreams have been crazy lately, Charles. Please keep them coming. I love and miss you so much, my baby brother.
March 20, 2014
My dearest son, Charles, I miss and love you so so much. I wish that all my wishes could bring you back home. Life is just too different without you here. I really don't know sometimes What I am supposed to do. I feel like I have to stay strong for every one but I can't do that as much anymore. It's just not that easy to hide From the pain that I feel from you not being here. Keep your signs coming Charles they mean so much to me and its the only its the only thing along withy Faith that helps me believe that you're still here loving and protecting us and being our guardian angel. It makes me look for a new day, to find a message from you. Always and forever and always, I will love you. Mom
March 12, 2014
My Dearest Son, Charles, why am I feeling so lost. Just seems to be harder and harder. As your Mom it's driving me crazy to know that you are waiting for me instead of the way that if should be. I just get so tired Charles. I miss you so very much. Day after day. Just no peace. I go from one day to the next just going through the motions of my daily routine. My day starts and ends with tears from missing you so much. I love you. Always and forever. Mom
March 05, 2014
Just want you to know that I think of you often :) I love and miss you so much, Charles. God, how I wish you were here with us.......
February 23, 2014
My dearest son, Charles, I love and miss you so very much more and more every moment every breath. Your sign was awesome last night. I asked dad if he saw and he said I see nothing I asked him three times. Dad kept telling me he did not see what I was seeing. There it was a large white orb over my dresser. How awesome was it for me. I have been having a really bad time lately. Crying snd then crying some more, Alone so noone sees me. I want to give my strength to your family they dont need me weak. I pray every day for your signs I look for them every day. Thank you so much. I know that there is life after death. I believe that you are around us every day. I love you so much son it breaks my heart more and more. Some days it feels like I wake up from a bad dream, a nightmare. But your signs help me get through every day. It eases me to some sense. It doesn't lessen any of my pain or agony that I feel with you not being here. I Love you more and more each day and I miss you so very much. Always and forever and always mom
February 12, 2014
It still doesn't seem real. I think about you often Charles. My thoughts and prayers are with your family daily.
February 11, 2014
As clear as day, Mom and I got it! Without a doubt, I believe you are with all of us....there is definitely life after death :) I love and miss you SO much, Charles.
February 10, 2014
My dearest son, Charles, another day same as yesterday, same as the day before, it'll never change. Every day gets harder and harder and I miss you more and more. Constantly on my My mind. Can't shake the feeling that it just happened. I go over the scenario every day of what if I just said don't go what if, what if. As your mother I don't know what I'm supposed to do anymore so confused. Just so heartbroken all the time. I see pictures of all four of you and I know deep in my heart and my soul there's a piece missing. I want that piece back I want it back so bad I prayed I've cried I just don't know how to bring you back. I know that there's a better place But there's no better place than the arms of your family. I've always known you to be a very special person. Protector and of much guidance, a person to talk to, giving, loving, always the best. I do know that you are a strong will person you remind me some times of my dad. He Was of the same nature. But like you don't get on his wrong side. So I guess you and Poppi have a lot to talk about. You have many of us to watch over. I've been told that you're around all the time and I know that because I feel it and because you have your signs. we get them a lot. We knew your spirit would come through because of that strong determination that you have. You are so very just very missed and so so loved. Stay by our sides, stay strong, keep sending your signs. Let us know that you're always here we need that as much as you do. I love you so much my baby boy and it breaks my heart that you're not here. Until we meet again. I love you Charles. Always and forever and always. your mama
January 28, 2014
My Dearest Son, Charles, I love and miss you so so very much. I wrote to you last week but it never posted. Just telling you of my love for you a and of how much I'm missing you. Always will!!! It is just so hard to live without you here sharing everything with us. There isn't a moment that goes by that my heart isn't breaking. A piece of it is gone. I try Really hard to make life livable for our family but sometimes I fall apart. I try to be strong but it's too hard. Charles I know that in spirit you will always be around us keep the signs Coming. They mean so much to me and give me so much strength. I love you so much and I miss you, so more Every day. Come home Charles just come home. Always and forever. Mom
January 27, 2014
Gianna's dimples are becoming more pronounced, and it totally reminds me of you! When we thought she was a boy, I kept saying that there is a good chance that “he” could resemble you because you and I look so much alike….crazy thought, huh? Rob has always said that you and I could have been twins…makes me feel good to hear that :) I would like to think that Gianna's dimples are the answer to thought :) I miss you so much, Charles. Love you.
January 08, 2014
Got it! :)
January 08, 2014
My Dearest Son, Charles, I love you so very much and I miss you immensely. Always and forever and always. Mom
January 01, 2014
My dearest son, Charles I love you so much. Happy new year and happy anniversary. It has been really rough these past few weeks. My mind is a constant of you. You and WHY WHY. I pray for peace for everyone. If I could take all of their pain and heartache from them and carry it for them I would. I would take this heavy burden from their heart and soul and give them some sort of peace. Please take this new year as an opportunity to turn this devastation around even if it was a little. I see it in their eyes when I look at them I feel it from their empty smiles and I see it when they look at me and pictures of you. None of us will ever be any less of pain and loneliness while we are missing a piece of us. I wish you here. I wish us you. Always and forever and always. I love you baby boy. Mom
December 27, 2013
My dearest son Charles I love you baby boy so much and I miss you with all of my heart I want to wish you a Merry Christmas it's just so hard it's not the same it's just been so bad more and more it doesn't get better It doesn't get easier it only creates a weaker heart that is broken I just miss you I want you to come home I hope you're okay and I pray for your happiness and your peace. I know that you miss us as much as we miss you but I know that you can see us and feel us and talk to us we just want you home I love you always and forever your mom
December 24, 2013
Merry Christmas, Charles. God, how I wish you were here. You are so greatly missed, and will never be forgotten. I love you so much, my beautiful baby brother. Please tell Pop that I love and miss him, too.
December 19, 2013
Love and miss you so much, Charles.
December 09, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, not a day passes without sadness. Without heartache and pain and misery without you. They say a Mom has to be the strong one and carry her family through but I am not sure how much longer I can go on without falling apart. When I get really sad and start getting upset someone calls my name and I have to pull my act together. I guess in a way that could be my saving grace, the only one I have. I just miss you so much. I just want you to come home, just come home. We all need you to come home. Charles we just miss you so. We are all a piece short of being whole. I want my heart not to have a piece broken out of it. Another bad day. My normal way of life. I love you. Always and forever and always. Mom
December 03, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles. I love you so very much. Everyday that passes seems to grow with the heartache of you not being here. Physically here. I believe that you send signs and we have all been able to know what they are. Keep them coming they are all we have to keep our faith and strength to go on each day. I miss you so. I miss you. I want you to come home just come home. Love you Charles. Always and forever and always. Mom
November 29, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles. I looked around yesterday and was so very grateful for what I have. As I felt joy and fulfillment but total emptiness came over me. You aren't here. I miss you so bad. I want to turn back time. I want to relive the last years again, but slower. A lot slower. I will hold you close in my dreams and I will see you again, my little one, Mia Bambino. I love you always and forever and always. Your mamma.
November 28, 2013
Happy Thanksgiving, Charles. I am very thankful for the time we had together...you will always be in my heart. I love and miss you so much.
November 27, 2013
Think about you often and hope you look down upon your family this Thanksgiving and bring them the peace that you are sharing with our Savior.
November 20, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles. I love you so much and that will always be and yet every day it grows stronger and beyond all depths that one could ever imagine. It's extraordinary. Being your Mom is one of my most blessed gifts and I can't ever imagine never being with you again. The thought of or not believing in the reunion would kill me right now. I believe in the love that only you and I share. A Mother and her bambino. A Mothers love, there is nothing more valuable than her child. There's nothing that I wouldn't give or do for you. I miss you more and more with every breath, and with every breath just more heartache. My son. Please don't ever leave us or doubt in the reunion that we will have when I can hold you close and protect you. For its your face I want to see, your smile, your dimples the light and life I see when I look into your eyes. I will find my peace then. Always and forever and always. I will love you. Mom
November 06, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles. I love you so so very much. Today looking back was amazing to me. Gave birth to one of my most prescious gifts you. You were a great baby, child and you became such an amazing man. A truly wonderful son, the best. As a brother you were their truth a quarter of thier heart. As a husband and a father truly dedicated. As a friend respected. When I think of you so many words come to me to express how I feel and for who you are. There isn't enough in the dictionary to tell anybody how I feel. I used to caress my belly and just hold it so tight. I loved feeling you move all around and kick get the hiccups. It was unbelievable to me. I miss it. I wish I could hold you again. Keep you safe. Charles I will sing Happy Birthday to you before I sleep tonight. I pray that you come to me in my dreams. I love you. Mommy. Always and forever.
November 05, 2013
Happy 31st Birthday, my baby brother. I am still missing you like crazy every single day of my life. I have come to realize that this will be for the rest of our lives...until, of course, we are together again, which I totally believe! Please continue to check in with us :) I Love you SO much, Charles! P.S. only one day early, so you can't get mad! ha ha!! Love you.
October 29, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles. I miss you so. I know you miss us and want to be here just as we do. I wish we could redo our lifetime together just to gain more time. We had a beautiful life together as mommy and son. We still have so much to say to each other. So many lessons to teach each other. I want to learn from you still. You came Into to my life and I learned more and more of life and loving someone and being loved by this tiny little boy who needed me so much and loved me and knows me and my heart and soul from the inside out. 31 years ago I was waiting for you and your time to come into my life was closing in. I remember getting tired, so tired. Chasing Anthony, Patrick, and Rosalie and all the daycare kids around. But I would lay in bed and talk to you at night and tell you how much I love you and caress my belly as to hold you so tight and close to me and let you know that I loved you so very much and could not wait to hold you in my arms so tight and look into your deep brown eyes and love you, love you so much my sweet baby boy. Sometimes I wish I was still holding my belly tight with you inside of me. It was the only time that I could protect you and keep you safe. The only time that I could do that. I feel like I didn't do my job. I didn't keep you safe. I let you down. I let your sister and brothers down. Dad is so sad inside. He feels guilty. I would imagine that as parents this is for us to carry for he rest of our lives. But it's not fair. You should be here sharing and loving our family and making memories, sweet sweet memories. Memories who knew when we are so busy making them that one day we would depend so heavily on them for our happy moments. And I DO My Dearest God knows that I do. But they make me smile and giggle and then I cry and sob. Sometimes I smile again and sometimes I don't. I am suppose to keep my family strong in order to see them through, but I have to be honest and tell you, Charles I am running low on strength. It just hurts so much and then so much more everyday. I will never let you go, I will see you in my heart and my dreams. I love you my dearest, sweetest little Bambino. Always and forever and always. Mommy
October 19, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, Good morning my baby. I miss you so very much. Why this is getting harder day by day I don't know why except that knowing your so far away and can never be here to share so much with us just makes it sad and hard. As good things happen to our family and we smile and laugh, not one of us doesn't look around the room and then the sadness hits. All we have to do is look at each other and the pain in our hearts comes through. Some would understand the pain, some would not. Some say it will get easier, some do not, some think that you shouldn't have as much trouble with it not and some do not. All I know is that every night when I go to sleep, I kiss your picture and say good night baby boy, I love you so much and when I awake I kiss your picture and say good morning Charles, I love you so much. It's just a heartache, can't be healed or let go of. My heart is broke and no one can repair it piece that is damaged, just won't be able to. When a mother looses a child there is such a tremendous amount of guilt. Not right, not the way it is suppose to be. I am suppose to meet you when it is your time to come to heaven. I just don't understand, and I know it is not for us to question, but sometimes I just yell out in my head why, why, why. I just want my baby to come home, just come home. I love you, Charles so very much more and more every second of every day and I will miss you more and more every second of every day. Always and forever and always. Your Mom
October 11, 2013
I am missing you more and more lately, Charles. I would give anything to have you here...we all miss you so much. When I first found out that I was pregnant, I remember crying because I wanted to call you so badly to share the news...without any thought of you being gone, I remember saying, "I can't wait to tell Charles." I know you would be so happy for us. It hurts even more now that Gianna is actually here, but I know that you held her soul before she entered this world, and I know that you have been by her side, protecting / coaching her. I will forever keep your memory alive. I love and miss you so much.
October 11, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles. So much going on Charles sometimes can't breathe. I love and I miss you so very much. Wish I could just see your smile feel your hugs. See you. Just see you. Just hear your voice. Always and forever and always Charles--always. Mom
October 02, 2013
Just want you to know that I still think about you every single day...love and miss you so much.
September 25, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, I miss you. Not a day goes by that I can not stop the tears and heartache. Sometimes I think that there is something wrong with me and I think about why can't I stop crying and people say that it is going to get easier as time goes by. Well, I feel that it is ok to cry for my boy, my child, my baby. I don't have to explain how I feel to anyone. My family knows, we are all going through the same pain and agony. None of us feel that it is easier, we just go through the motions everyday. And when someone, anyone, says it gets easier as time goes on did not know us. They have absolutely no idea how as a family we are connected. No matter what, for a long time it was just Anthony, Patrick, Rosalie, You and Me. We went through everything as a team and then Dad came into our lives and our team, our bond to each other, became so much stronger. What we have been through made us stronger, more loving, more of an understanding of what the word FAMILY means and should mean to others. So if I cry everyday, all day or hurt and feel your loss, it's ok. There is nothing wrong with me, I just miss and love you so much. Your skin, your blood, your heart and soul has me and your brothers and sister running through them as yours runs through us. That is a bond never to be broken. My bond with you is one of the ultimate that only you and I can share. A connection, you know how my heart and soul are, as I do yours. After all it is the truth we felt and heard and understood it from the inside to the outside. God and you know how I love and miss my baby boy. Always and forever and always. I love you, Mommy
September 17, 2013
My Dearest Dearest baby boy, I miss you so very much. My sweet sweet Charles I love you so. There is a story of children who go for a walk with God everyday. They lite thier candles before the walk. There's one boy and every time he tries to lite his candle so he can walk with our Lord, it is unable to lite. So he cannot go for the walk. So when he asked why his candle won't lite the little boys reply was because his mother always cries and her tears fall on my candle and i cant lite it. Stay by our side. Don't leave. Stay. Please. Always and forever and always. Mom
September 08, 2013
My Dearest Dearest Baby Boy, Son, Hero, I don't want to believe that you have been gone from this earth for such a long time. Everyday is a struggle. A struggle to get up and move through the day with any sense of peace. A piece of my heart is gone, never to be whole again. No one can say anything to me, because there is nothing that will make it go back to a year and one day ago. A Mother should never have to bury their child, NEVER! Charles, my Carmelo, my Bambino, I prayed for so long to turn back the hand of time, to take me and bring you home. But that's not going to be. I would give anything to bring you back home and take the pain away from Anthony, Patrick, Rosalie, Heather and Dad and their families and all of your friends and family that are so sad because you are not here with us. There is so many reasons our God needed you to be with him. But did he know how many lives would be so devastated by his need to have you home with him. Charles, I sm heart broken, lost, sad every day, I just don't want to believe that you are not home with us. I want you to come home, just come home. You are on my mind all day, every day. I look into the eyes of your loved ones and I feel their pain, their heartache. What am I suppose to do to help them. I try to be strong, I should have protected you that night, I am suppose to keep my babies safe and I didn't, I am so so sorry. Please forgive me for not doing so. I want to be able to accept and let you not be sad for us. Someone said to me last night, that there are children in Heaven with God and everyday they light their candle and go walk with him, except this one little boy who cannot light his candle and walk with God, and when he was asked why he can not light his candle and walk with them his reply was, my Mother's tears won't let my candle light and I cannot go for the walk. I am so sadden by that. I don't want to cry, I want you to be able to light your candle and walk with God, but my tears won't stop. Maybe one day will come when the struggle to live each day will be a lighter load to carry you might be able to light your candle my boy. I love you and miss you. Stay with us and protect us with your love.I miss your smile, it lit my heart. Always and forever and always, your Mom
September 07, 2013
Charles, I am still in disbelief, not wanting to accept that you are actually gone. It is not getting any easier to live without you. There is not one minute that goes by without me thinking of you...you are my first thought in the morning, and my last thought before I go to bed. I still find myself tossing and turning at night. It's so hard to try to comfort everyone when they are having a "bad Charles day" because I do not feel whole enough myself to help any of them. Without you, I feel so incomplete. I miss your beautiful face, your smile, your humor, and your advice. I am grateful for the years we had with you versus having nothing at all, but it just doesn't feel like enough. It hurts me so badly to know that you are not going to be here when Gianna enters the world in a few months, but I am comforted by knowing that you are protecting her in the meantime, holding her soul, as Mom says. As promised, we will continue to be there for Heather and Adrianna. I know you know that. I love and miss you so, so much, Charles.
September 07, 2013
Charles, I have to say that I have been thinking about you all day today. All day I have been looking at the clock and thinking about what we were all doing at that time just a year ago. I started laughing about our phone conversation when you said " Rob, hold on for a minute, you got us Dotty, you cracked the code". I can remember every minute of that night like it was last night. A lot of times you and I always ended up together, like when you wanted me to sit next to you at the strip club so none of the girls would come up to you, or on the bus when we were next to each other sharing the mixed teas you brought. I have to say my heart aches just as badly now as it did a year ago! You made a huge impact on my life and to this day you still do. I love and miss you very much. Please hold and watch over Gianna until it comes to the time for you to hand her over to Rosalie and I. LOVE YOU BUDDY!
September 03, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, Hi Sweetie. Just wanted to tell you that I saw you in your work clothes and it was a bright sunny day and you had the biggest of smiles and you stared right at me.I know that you were on your way to work, across some lot and the buildings were a blur, but it was a beautiful moment. The only thing was Maverick was not with you. Your buddy was here and not with you. Very strange. But thank you for that moment. The songs that come on unpredictably just when I am crying for you. I know that you are here and I love it. Your signs, keep them coming. I need them to survive until we meet again. Always and forever and always. I do love you my baby. Your Momma
August 29, 2013
My dearest dearest son, Charles, I miss you so so so much. I just can't seem to stop cryin day in and day out. I need you to come home. Anthony found a picture from his wedding and it was you, Shane and Jason Schnieder standing together. It's very weird that the three of you are standing there and now you are all gone. Gone within a year. This is the hardest and most heart wrenching pain I have ever felt and pray I never feel this pain again. I love my baby so much and it's not right that you are no longer here. If I could just turn back the hand of time. If I could only hold you in my loving arms. If I could just..........I just would. Always and forever and always. Your Mom
August 22, 2013
My Dearest Son,Charles, I am having several bad days recently. Just have been loving and missing you so much. I want you to come home where you belong with us. Your family your friends. Please. So much pain to have to deal with. It's not right to loose a child. Always and forever and always I wi love you. Mom
August 13, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, I love you and miss you so much. Danny got married Saturday and he and Kelly placed your name on their paper for Church. In Loving Memory. And he never filled where you would have been as an usher. I was so honored that his love for you was strong. Thank you for helping me through the reading. At rehearsal I fumbled and anytime I read it to anyone, I fumbled, that is why I prayed to you so much for help not to do that during the ceremony and you came through, got severe chills throughout my entire body and read it with such grace. Thank you for being there for me, as you always have been, as you always will be. Danny was a hoot, he did his bus driver dance, hilarious. I wish you were here, you never would have let him live it down. Anyway, I just was, as usual, thinking about you and loving and missing you with so much intensity that I feel sick to my stomach. God do I wish for the ability to turn back the hand of time, even just for a moment. Would give anything for a moment in time. I love you my little man. Always and forever and always. Your heartbroken Mom
August 07, 2013
My Dearest Dearest Son, Charles, Just can't sleep again tonight. Thinking about you and missing you so much more today. I wish so bad all of the time that I could turn back the hand of time and it would be that you are still here with us. Dearest God just doesn't know how much I need my baby here. My baby, my sweet sweet baby, I love you, you are always in my heart. I love you, Always and forever and always. Mom
August 07, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, Hi sweetie. I miss you so very much. Maverick still stands with attention and ears up when I yell out your name. He is such a good boy and I love him so much. I know he misses you and probably wonders where and why, but he knows his commands and we continue to use your ways with him, we want him to never forget who is his Daddy. I hate my days without you being here, your calls, your smile, just you. I just wanted to tell you although I know you are here with your family. Never would I have imagined life being so hard for me, Dad, Anthony, Patrick, Rosalie and Heather. We will forever be in such pain. I love and miss you. Always and forever and always, Your Mom
August 05, 2013
Got the Honey Bee sign...way too coincidental when it happens, so I know it's you :) Miss you so darn much, Charles. Love you.
August 02, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, I never knew pain could hurt so bad for so long, so much pain. Everything hurts outside and inside. A Mother should never have to know. I miss you more and more everyday, with every breath that I take. I love you so Charles. Always and forever and always. Your Mom
July 29, 2013
My Dearest son Charles I love you so very very much. Only God knows how much I miss my boy always and for ever and always mommy
July 24, 2013
My Dearest Dearest Son, Charles, One of those days, just keep yelling in my mind why. Why did God have to take my Baby, what did I ever do to take one of my most prescious gifts from me... He gave you to me and then he took you, without any warning, any time. I will never question my faith, but it certainly leaves me with a whole in my heart. I will understand I guess in time, when we will meet yet once again, and it will be a beautiful moment to hold my boy in my arms again, after what seems to be an eternity. I am certain that it will be as glorious and beautiful as it was the first time we met.You are the light of my life now as you and Anthony, Patrick and Rosalie have always and will forever be. And now all of those beautiful grandbabies that I am so blessed to have surrounding me. No matter what I still have an emptiness, a vacancy that was your place and will always be. I just am missing you so. Always and forever and always, Your Mom
July 22, 2013
I love you so so so much
Just spending my day missing you. As is my new norm. Always and forever and always. You mom
July 16, 2013
For My Dearest Son, Charles, How I miss you. There is no greater joy than to bring your child into this beautiful world and no greater horror than to bury your child. Yesterday, at Shane's funeral I was asked to do the first reading, I thought that I would be ok, but after I started reading I choked. I couldn't read anymore. My broken heart took over and I was hit in the face with your death and just how real it is and just how much I love you and miss you. It got really bad enough for Anthony to have to come up and try to console me so I could finish my part. Charles, I miss you so much more everyday and sometimes the pain just takes my very breath from me. It is so hard to keep going and finding a new normal is worthless, because it is just not going to happen. Your not HERE, what could possibly be NORMAL. There will never again be a normalcy for me, never. I just know that I will never let you go, you will never leave my heart, but my love for you will grow stronger everyday as it does for Anthony, Patrick and Rosalie. I know that you are here with me, so many signs, and I will never allow you to leave me and this family. None of us will allow you to ever go, so I would just come home. Come home, Charles, I need to see you, talk to you, hear your voice and laughter and see your smile and your eyes light up when you do so. Good God Charles please I want you to just come home. I love you Always and Forever and Always, Mommy
July 12, 2013
My Dearest Son , Charles, this has been such a long week. So much has gone on. We lost Shane and I pray that he is with you and Poppi. Stay safe and I miss you and love you so very much broken hearted more than ever. Always and forever and always. Your mother
July 05, 2013
For My Dearest Dearest Son, Charles, I miss you so much Charles. Sometimes it is just so hard to get up out of bed in the morning, too much. I know that when I get up everyday there is so much to face, especially you, you not being here, you not smiling and I can't talk to you. Your jokes, your laughter, it harder day by day. I can not stand when someone says that it will get better, IT DOES NOT!!!! It feels stronger everyday and there is so much happening with our family. We will be having new arrivals to bless us. Stella Grace and Gianna Francesca. I know that you have already held the souls of these babies in your loving arms way before we knew of their arrival, thank you for that. To be loved by you and protected by you is simply amazing. My protector, your baseball bat, your little oriole baseball bat in the grips of your little chunky hands, laying under my bed where you were keeping me safe. Who knew then as a little boy that you would grow and always be a protector and now knowing that you are a protector of immense quality, Our Guardian Angel. What a task for you, so brave, my little boy, such love, so missed. I will always be broken, there is no repair. I love you my Bella Bambino, Bella! Always and Forever and Always, Your Mom
July 01, 2013
My Dearest Son ,Charles, I love you so much and miss you so. Just a heartbreaking day. Always and forever and always. Mom
June 24, 2013
For My Dearest Son, Charles, I love you baby boy!!!!!!!!!!!! I miss you so, another one of those days, crying, wiping tears and crying some more. I will never get over you not being here to share our lives with us. I have no doubt that you are with us here, but it is not the same. I will never stop crying for you, or maybe its more selfish and I am crying for so many selfish reasons. I just want you to come home. You belong here. I can't even imagine living the rest of my years without you here. So much to tell you and show you, so many things to catch up on. I miss you answering the phone early in the morning so I can say HIIIIIIII! and you and Heather laughing and your words,Yeah Mom. God knows I want you to say that again to me. Just want to hear you call my name, Mom, and when your Anthony, Patrick and Rosalie call you Mommy's Boy, you say I know it, Mommy. I miss you so, my heart is so broken, not sure how to get some kind of peace not sure I want to find it. I am sorry, if this keeps you from where you are supposed to go, but oh well, too bad, stay with us, that is more important. You are such a good boy, I love you. Always and forever and always, Your broken Mom
June 17, 2013
For My Dearest Son, Charles, I miss and love you. I wanted to write to you yesterday but it was a hard day all the way around. I miss my Dad and I miss my Baby. You have given so much to everyone, especially me. You married a beautiful girl and together had the love of a lifetime. Then you both created this beautiful baby, Adrianna, my grandbaby. I am a very lucky woman. It seems like you were here for such a short time, toooooo short, way too short! I wasn't done being your Mom. I have so much more to show you and give to you and you have so much more to give to me. Oh God Charles everyday hurts so much more than the moment before. I am not sure that this will ever get better. I don't want to get out of bed anymore, just too much some days. I saw you yesterday, you came down and walked through the kitchen and smiled at me, as I was crying my heart out and saying you were gone, you bent down and put your tennis shoes on and turned and gave me your grin that you have had since you were a baby and I cried more, telling you please please don't go out stay home. You didn't know why I was crying, you just didn't know. It was so real, just so real. Happy Father's Day to you and all of the admiration and love is sent your way. Give your big Buddy a message, he is the best and I love and miss him, I wish I could have a talk with him, and him advise me. I miss us talking so much, wish I could hear your words of wisdom and love. Come home Charles, we love you. We need you, I need my broken heart repaired. Come home and talk to me. Always and forever and always. Your Mom
June 13, 2013
Since it's not Father's Day just yet, I want to wish you a Happy Father's Day! I know how much you love when I do things early, so....Happy Father's Day! Adrianna is so lucky to have you as her Dad. Charles, she will always know how amazing you are, how much you love her, her mother, and your family....we will never let your spirit die. I know you know that we will always be there for Heather and Adrianna. Please keep checking in with us. Please tell Arnold that I love and miss him so much, too. I love you so much!!!

P.S. Happy 31st Birthday, Happy Thanksgiving, Merry Christmas, and Happy New Year! ha ha!
June 07, 2013
My Dearest Son, I am sorry but it is another bad day and I am missing you so. Just wanted to write down how I feel, even though I know you know how it is for me. I miss talking and laughing and just seeing your smile with your little fat dimples. I love you Always and forever and always. Mom
June 06, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, How I miss you! You are such a good man. You are a very missed young man. You touched so many people, so much admiration. You love with your heart, with such intensity, much devotion and you deserve your Angel Wings like no one else could. God must have truly needed someone with your ability, compassion, your heart, your love. Just it was way too soon to leave, I cry everyday for my Baby to be here with me. You belong here at home with us. I will never understand why and with each passing day I am more broken and emptiness fills my day for my boy. I love you and miss you so so very much. At this fundraiser on Sunday there were so many people. Your extended family as I believe everyone is. The respect and love that they feel for you is special. You are one of a kind and I want you to know that without your friends your abscense would be so much harder on us. We are the fortunate ones for you bringing them into our lives. Thank You for everything that you are and everything that you have given to me. My Son, I love you. Always and forever and always. Your Mom
June 04, 2013
Marco held a fundraiser for Heather and Adrianna this weekend. Charles, it was such an amazing turnout! So many people love and respect you. I am honored to be your sister and to have been loved by you...you are such amazing person! It is still so hard to accept the fact that you are not here, but I know that you are still with us...the signs keep proving that. I miss you so much.I love you. Love, your favorite sister :)
May 25, 2013
My Dearest Son, I love you and miss you so much more today.I pray that you have found your way in Heaven to be peaceful. I am so sure that your Buddy, Poppi, is with you helping and guiding and loving and keeping you safe and secure within the love of his arms. Never worry he will hold you until the day that I am there to keep my boy safe and happy. Be our Guardian Angel and always by our side, we will always be by yours, I will always hold you tightly in my embrace and keep you here being your safety net and loving you more and more as only your Mommy can. Always and forever and always, I love you my sweet sweet bambino. Mom
May 22, 2013
charles,i'm on your site everytime a new message is added,oh my dear boy how your family is suffering,you were much to young to leave this world,much much to young,your nedded here because I think you would have made a difference in the world of law enforcement for the betterment of society.this passage is from a mom who lost her young son last yr,a local boy."could you beam meup? give me a minute.Idon't know what I'd say in it. I'd probably just stare.Happy just to be there holding your face.beam me up. Let me be a lighter,tired of being a fighter.I think a minutes enough. just me up."
May 22, 2013
HI CHARLES,MY FRIEND AND COUSIN YOU ARE MISSED SO BADLY BY YOUR MOMMA,WIFE,BABY DAD AND SIBLINGS....THIS SUMMER WILL BE YOUR FIRST AWAY,YOU WERE MUCH MUCH TO YOUNG TO LEAVE THIS WORLD.I WISH I HAD GOTTEN TO KNOW YOU BECAUSE FROM WHAT I READ I THINK YOU WOULD HAVE MADE A DIFFERENCE IN THE WORLD OF LAW ENFORCEMENT FOR THE BETTERMENT OF SOCIETY FOR ALL TO BENEFIT,NOT FAIR TO YOU.....TAKE CARE AND TALK TO YOUR FAMILY...LOVE,CUZ BRIDGIE...
May 20, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, Not good today, started yesterday, I think about the whole night and I can not shake the call, Anthony and Patrick, the look from their hearts when they got home. When I saw so much pain in Dad, Rosalie and Heather's face. Dear God when will you let my boy come home. I hate you not being here. Feel like not, not anything. I just wanted you to know that today is just the same as yesterday, just hurts more. Always and forever and always, I love you my sweet baby boy, Charles. I miss you. Mom
May 16, 2013
Thinking of you.....
love and miss you so much.
May 16, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, How do I say it? My fears that Angels move on. Do they? I know that you know how much you are missed and how very much you are loved. I miss you so badly and holidays, family dinners and gatherings are just not the same without your presence, your smiling face, your heartfelt grin with your dimples or as I called them when you were a little boy held so close and safe in my arms, your fat dimples. I miss our conversations, your advise, and I miss giving you advice just to hear the words, ok Mommy, got it Dottie as you grinned ear to ear. Oh Dear God please give my boy back to us. It is so hard on all of us. Me, his Dad, Anthony, Patrick, Rosalie, his Heather and God only knows for the future of his little Princess Adrianna. Just bring him back to me and I will do the rest. He is so loved and so missed and he is so needed here at home. I am keeping your page open because I feel like I can tell you stuff this way. I love you so much. I am sorry that you aren't here for your family, they need you so but we tell her everything about you and how you were the only one that she would give kisses to and nosey nosey, I call them Daddy kisses. I just wanted to tell you today how much I miss you and tomorrow I will miss you even more. I don't feel like getting up to do anything anymore. I don't even care to. I feel like if I stay in bed asleep that all of my pain and heartache will go away and when I awake from this nightmare my life will be back to normal, and all will be ok. But then my eyes open and life has not changed. You remember Always and forever and always I love you. Mom
May 13, 2013
Diane, I am so sorry for your loss and your pain. You, Heather, and the rest of the family are in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs, Judy
May 12, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, Where do I begin to tell you how today is such an emotional roller coaster. I feel like today is a slap in the face because you are not here. I will not love any of you less today than yesterday nor will I love you more today than tomorrow. The same with missing you, this is just so hard. With each passing day, as I have told you constantly, I miss you more with each passing day, each passing moment. Might sound very selfish, but I want you to come home. Every day I get sicker to my stomach and more saddened by you not being home, here with your Mom and Dad, Anthony, Patrick, Rosalie and thier families, and Heather, the love of each others lives and that beautiful little girl that you help to create. We stayed home today and I made brunch and cooked and it made me feel better, helped to keep me focused, but then in the shower I lost it again. Everyone says you need to find the new norm and I think that I have. Crying is my new norm. Being heart broken is my new norm. Missing and loving you more each and every day is my new norm. Just missing a huge piece of my heart and soul. I smile when I remember how you felt moving around and kicking me and stretching your arm across my belly, having hiccups, that was one of the most exciting times of my life, the best. I remember when I held you in my arms for the first time and I remember holding you as close and tight as I could the last time. I miss you so much Charles, I miss you I miss you I miss you!!!!!! Please come home. My only gift that I could get today is to have the four of you back together again and laugh and love each other. The only gift I would ever want. is my family whole. We all miss you. Heather got me a card from you that is so you, she said that something drew her to this card and when I read it I understood why. It was so you, so you. Well, I will say good night to you my little boy and want youi to always know of my love and devotion to you will always be. Always and forever and always, Your Mommy
May 02, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, I miss you. I am sorry it has been a rough few days. Seems to grow stronger each day, and I can not stand it when I am told that it will get easier as time goes on. Well, that is so not the way it is going, I feel that it is worse and harder as time goes on. I recieved a letter stating that I had to take your name off of the Chrysler. I remember the day that Dad, Patrick, you and me went shopping for a car for you and Patrick. I went with Patrick and the car he picked was perfect for him and we were done in no time, but when we went to catch up with you and your Dad that was another story. LOL. You were outside standing in front of a crossfire, I think that was the name of it, a two seater with speed, and my words to you were no way Charles that is only trouble for you and besides it only has two seats. Well, you stood there and I went inside and saw the 300 and ran out to tell you that I had found your care. You, not so willingly followed me inside. But then you saw it and I said get in, this is you, so you and I can not think of anyone else that can pull off driving a car like this. So you said OK Mom I'll get in it but I am telling you now I am not getting this car. Then you sat in the driver's seat and shut the door and turned and smiled at me and we knew right then and there you were getting this car. We used to laugh about it and I now cry about it. It is so you and now it bears the sticker with your name on it trimmed in blue and black. This will always be you. And I will so miss you pulling up and driving it and taking me in the car. So as hearwrenching as it is to have take your name from the car that meant so much kills me. Finally Heather and I went up to do so.But there will never be anyone who can pull the look you gave when you drove that car. You had the look. Of course I waited till the last minute because I could not find the courage and strength to do it. I was ok untill the attendant wrote down the reason for having to do this and spelled out Desceased, broke me at that moment like a slap in the face. And of course, that started the spiral downhill crying all day as if it just happened, but truly that is the way it feels everyday of my life as it is for Anthony, Patrick, Rosalie, Heather, Adrianna, and Dad and the rest of everyone who loves you so. I guess there will be other things that will come my way soon enough to remind me that you are not here with me. I am trying to be strong and brave and couragious for the famuly, but I am breaking, not as strong as I should be for everyone, but I just can not be. I want to see your smile, hear your voice, get a hug from my baby, look into your eyes and see what you see and feel what you feel. I want to make life right for you and bring you home. I will tell you that sometimes when I look into your Baby Girl's eyes, for a moment when she and I stare at each other I see you, as if it were you looking back at me. Crazy isn't it, but it is God's truth. That eases my pain for a moment, so thank you. I love and miss you so very much. always and forever and always. Your Mom
April 24, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, Just want to tell you how very much you are loved and missed. Always and Forever and Always. Mom
April 22, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, Hi Sweetie. Miss and love you so so much. Honey Bee was playing this morning and it made me think of what a beautiful day this is and I want to think all of the great thoughts of you. I cried this morning and my heart breaks non stop, but I know that will always be, so it is easier to except that my world crashed and it will be and I must choose to live with that. Just can't do it. My Baby Boy come home. I know you want to be here, so just do it. I love you Always and forever and Always. Your Mom Thank you for the talk yesterday and the crazy way the sun was peeping through a cloud with a rainbow, Dad and I had an amazing ride. Glad you could be there. XOXOXOXO
April 18, 2013
Love and miss you very much, my baby brother.
April 15, 2013
HI CHARLES, WHAT A NICE ENTRY YOUR MOM MADE TO YOU...SHE IS TRULY A WOMAN WHO SPEAKS HER HEART TO YOU BEAUTIFULLY...I SEE YOUR SIGNS ARE GETTING THRU TO HER,I TOLD YOU IT WOULD HAPPEN GOOD GUY. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK,CUZ YOUR MAKING YOUR LOVED ONES SEE A LIGHT....TALK TO YOU SOON.
April 15, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, Good morning my little one. Just wanted to tell you as I compose my thoughts, they run rampid, which means there is no composure. And being the person that you are your words are always in my thoughts but I have to tell you I can't stop the thought process and it doesn't seem to calm down. As in Simmer down Dottie. LOL NOT happening Charles, but I want to thank you as I always have your signs. They ease my pain sometimes. Keep them coming we love them.I love them and I need them. I love you and miss you. Always and Forever. Mom
April 12, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, Not such a good day today Charles. I miss you and love you so much with every beat of my heart. Always and Forever and Always. Your Mommy
April 11, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, Hi Honey. Thinking and thinking and thinking about you every minute. Misss you so much. Your little Princess is so you. She looks like you, has the determination and strong will that you do. Has the gentle side of you also, loving, needs to be loved and giving. Her Mommy is doing such an amazing job. She puts her everything into her and you. I want you to know that I am so proud of her. I will always be here for her Charles, I will always keep my promise to you. She's doing so many things, I know that you see your little girl, don't know why I am telling you this except that I am so proud of her and I love her so very much. Anyway, you know how much I love you and miss you and I will never stop telling you that 1000 times a day. Always and Forever and Always, your Mom
April 08, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, I miss you and love you very much!!!! Always and forever and Always, your Mom.
April 04, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, Just wanted to tell you how much I love and miss you. More and more with each breath. Tell your Big Buddy that I miss him and love him so very much. I wish you were both here to talk to, I need you. Alwlays and forever and Always. Your Momma.
April 01, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, I couldn't write to you yesterday, just could not find the words I wanted to say to you, still can not do so. Happy Easter, that is all I could say about the most prescious of days in our Religion. All I could think of is that you are not here with your family where you belong. We were all in such deep thought and I can honestly say that Dad, Anthony, Patrick and Rosalie along with me could read what was in each of our minds and hearts and we all had several moments, and I am always grateful that we can share them. Christian, Joseph, Sophia and your Little Princess, Adrianna had so much fun and they just love each other so much. I have been blessed with the love of my Dad and my Children and then been blessed with my Grandbabies. The life that I have because I am loved by them is the most sacred to me. I cry everyday for you and will never let go. I know that you are here at home with us. I feel you, I sense you. You have always been such a force to come up against and God knows that you have made your mind up to stay with us one way or another. I love you so very much and miss you. It hurts so much that sometimes it is just too hard to breathe and it becomes an effort to do. My heart will ache for you every moment of every day. Always and forever and Always, I love you my prescious little boy, and will always remember the gentle giant that you are. Your Mom
March 31, 2013
Happy Easter Charles I know you are celebrating with the risen Christ and what he did for all of us has made it possible for you to have a place with him in Heaven today. I knew you for such a little while but you were the sweetest little guy and I pray for your family to have the same peace I know you are having for eternity. I know in my heart that one day everyone will be back together again in peace with the ones left behind that loved you so.
March 31, 2013
Happy Easter, Charles! I miss you more and more everyday. I love you, my baby brother.
March 28, 2013
CHARLES,MAY THE GOOD LORD GIVE UNTO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY BACK HOME THE B LESSINGS OF A HOLY EASTER.SEND UNTO THEM YOUR LOVE AND FOREVER CARING AND WATCH OVER EACH AND EVERYONE OF THEM. HAPPY EASTER YOUNG MAN AND LOVE TO ALL.
March 27, 2013
My Dearest Son, Miss you. God knows how badly my heart is, as I am sure you do. If I believe, and I do, that you can see and feel us all of the time then I know that you know. Rosalie and I both had similar dreams about you and Poppi. So my heart tells me that you two are together staying strong and keeping us all safe. People tell me how it will ease up, I have NO clue what they are talking about. Your death has been hitting me like an elephant sitting on my chest and someone hitting me in the head with a baseball bat. I love you so much. I see your signs in which I need so much. I also believe that God did not know of the strong spirit within you, my prescouis boy. Bet he is sorry now for taking you home with him. He might have a beautiful Kingdom, but he didn't have your strength and conviction, nor did he have us crying for you all of the time. We as Famiglia is certainly a force to wreckon with. Nobody knows the power that we hold for each other and the strength not to let anyone take it from us. LOL. Anthony, Patrick, Rosalie, You and Me, that is what we had and built together, it is fortified with the strongest of bonds and then Dad came into our lives and gave us the courage and love and devotion to carry through, whatever it took to do so. We were blessed by Dad in so many ways as it still continues. How he hurts for you and misses you. I see it in his eyes everyday. So, my loving Son, Charles never forget the love for you and the strength to keep you here with us--BECAUSE WE WILL!!!!!!. Always and Forever and Always. I love you. Mom
March 21, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, How does anyone go on from here. How do I tell you that everyday that passes so does a piece of my heart. Rosalie and I both dreamed of you and Poppi last week. I hope this means that two loves of my life, one my Dad and one my Baby, are spending eternity together and keeping each other happy and safe until we are all together again. I miss you so very much. Not a day goes by that I have you in my heart and on my mind and out of my lips talking to you about stuff and sometimes getting mad at you for not being here for me to be mad at personally. I love you so much my Bambino. Always and Forever and Always. I love you. I Promise. Mommy
March 20, 2013
HI CHARLES,COUSIN BRIDGIE HERE HAVEN'T TALKED TO YOU IN AWHILE....I READ YOUR GUEST BOOK @ ALL TIMES.EVERYBODY REALLY MISSES YOU, YOU MUST HAVE BEEN MR. PERSONALITY TRULY LIKED AND RESPECTED IN EVERY ASPECT OF LIFE...YOUR MOMS LETTERS ARE TRULY SOMETHING,THAT POOR WOMAN STRUGGLES EVERY MINUTE OF THE DAY AND NIGHT,MAYBE YOU CAN VISIT HER SOMETIME THRU JESUS'S POWER AND TELL HER TO REST THAT YOU ARE AT PEACE.SOMEDAY I BET YOU WILL GIVE YOUR FAMILY THAT MIRACLE. UNTIL NEXT TIME GOOD NITE.
March 19, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, I miss and love you so much. Always and Forever and Always. Mom
March 14, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, Hi Sweetie! Hope your Angel Wings fly you back home where you belong and stay with us. I miss you so. Everyday it is the same, growing in pain and missing your smile, conversation, kindness, humor, humility and most of all your hugs and your love and devotion. Please know that you are loved and it will only grow with each passing day. To any of us, you have never left, you are still here and always in our hearts. From the very moment I knew you were one of the loves of my life and always will be. My dear dear baby boy, I love you Always and forever and always. Mommy
March 12, 2013
Without a doubt, I believe that you sent me another message the other day to let me know that you are still with all of us (Honey Bee). Charles, we are SO incomplete without you! Please know that you are my first thought in the morning, and my last thought when I go to bed…I miss you so badly. My baby brother, I love you so much!
March 11, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, Just loving and missing you immensly. With all of my heart and soul, Always and Forever and Always. Your Mom
March 08, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, Well here I am as lost as I was 6 months ago. I don't know what to do half the time and the other half I don't want to do anything. My prescious little baby boy, how I wish that the hands of time could be turned back to the days where I could hold you in my arms so close and safe from harm. I would give anything for that. I miss you so very much and I hope that I am keeping this family strong through this, but sometimes there just isn't enough strength left for me to try. I know what everyone says about Heaven and being with our maker, but the facts are here and your not. I know that you would be happier with us and all of the memories that I feel were taken and left us all cheated from. I just want you to come back home to us, with every passing day and breathe that is all I ask and cry for, you--home. This is such a heartache to endure. And trying so hard to be Mom to my family so that they will feel my strength and love always but I have to tell you I just am not complete anymore.The pain is too much, sometimes it encompasses me. Please Charles, it's on 102. I am listening and I will always wait to hear. Always and forever and always. I love and miss you so. Mom
March 07, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, I miss you so much. Another one of those days. It just seems to be sadder with each passing day. I find myself helpless anymore, not having the strength I used to at one point and time in my life. I look back and I could tell a lot about my future, this was never seen. I would have never imagined that I would have had to watch my child leave this earth and just not be there anymore. I know that you are in a better place, as everyone says, but me, I choose to believe that this is where it is better for you. With all of your loved ones, sharing and caring and growing our love each and everyday. I feel like puking every day when I awake. This pain is simply unbearable. I love you Charles, I wish you could come home now. Always and forever and always. Mommy
March 04, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, Well, I are approaching six months since my Prescious Little Bambino has left. I pray to go back so many times, all of the time. I know that you know how much I love you and how much I am grieving for you to be home, but I hope that I told you enough. I know that there wasn't a day that went by that we didn't talk several times, but now it just wasn't enough. I want to hold you close and surround you with my love, my heart and most of all the abiltiy to protect you. I need to know that I did my job for you. I need to know that you know I love you so very much. This is so hard, hard to live every day and go on without you. I am so sorry that you are not here and I know that I am being so selfish wishing that you were here for your family and friends, for Dad and Rosalie, Anthony, Patrick, Christian, Joseph, Sophia, the new babies that are coming, Rob, Sarah,and Jessica. For the love of your life Heather and so much for your Baby Bambina, Adrianna, and for me. I love you so much and miss you immensly and need you here. Mommom has your picture on her talble next to her every day, she mourns you and feels God should have taken her in your place. So much turmoil for this famiglia. If you could just come back, if this could be just a horrible nightmare. And we could wake up and be together forever. Chareles, my dear Son. Always and forever and always. Your Momma
February 26, 2013
Charles, I am really having a bad day today. I just miss you and love you so very much. I wish we could turn back time and redo our lives to August 2012. You would be here with me and your loved ones. Please know I love you sooooo much. Mom
February 26, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, Good morning to you sweetie. Oh my how I miss you.I feel like I am already gone inside. I look at pictures and watch videos and if, if, if, I could and would be able to just reach out and touch you and hug you and kiss your cheek I would be alive again inside. I would just be alive.I hope and pray every day that you are doing ok and that you are here with me, with all of us. We all need you so much to be here. I know how special you are, my baby child,and I hope that God knows how very special you are, since he took you from us. I want to get over the anger, but Idon't think I ever will. My heart tells me every moment how broken I am. I pray for peace in my sleep, but when I awake through the night my words are always of you, Charles-why, I love you and you know how I miss you. I will dream of good times with you. Always and Forever and Always. Your Mom
February 22, 2013
hi charles,cousin bridget here hoping all is coming together as to why you had to leave your beautiful family...your wife,baby girl your suffering momma and dad and siblings...time takes healing they say but how long i cannot imagine...keep your momma close to you and help her in your special way to heal her bleeding heart little by little,she will know when you do..find eternal rest and share it with all who love & miss you...PEACE
February 21, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, Good Morning to you my love, my sweet Bambino. I just wanted to tell you today how much you are on my mind. I awake with you on my mind and go to sleep wondering about you. What you are doing, where are you, can you see the pain we are in and how much you are loved and missed. Do you see my heart ache more and more with each breathe that I take. I am do sorry that you hear me everyday cry for you and yell at you for not being here, but it is the truth, only God knows this should not have happened, you should be here.You are loved by so many who miss you immensly. I love you forever and always and forever. Your Momma
February 18, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, Just had to tell you that I miss and love you so very much. Bad couple of days, crying and thinking of you and why, why and more why. I try to tell myself that God had his reasons and a purpose for you to be with him instead of with us, but some days just seem so much more intense with the pain of the loss of you, my Bambino and the knowledge that each day that passes is a nightmare and an eterinity without you. I love you so. Please I just want you to come home. Always and Forever and Always, Your Mom.
February 14, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, I want to wish you a Happy Valentines Day. I love you. Always and Forever and Always. Your Mom
February 13, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, Just wanted to let you know, I realize that you already do-but just wanted to say it, that I love you and miss you so very much and I am thinking of you every moment. Always and Forever and Always, Your Mom
February 11, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, It has been a really hard last few days. Friday was so difficult to know that it has been five months since you left us. I miss you more every moment that I breathe and it grows harder with time. I think all of the time about you, and wait for the door to open and you to come home. I want to believe that you are at peace, but I know the force that you are. I don't believe that you are totally at peace. I know that in your heart and soul, it is us that you are so worried about and concerned for. You are a force to be concerned about and I know that you have already let all of the Saints and God himself know that you are and that you miss and love us so deeply. I also know that he knows how I feel, I have told him every day. So between all of us who love you so much and yourself I am quite sure that God has had quite the earful. LOL, it's ok. Today has been two years since Pop, your buddy, has left us also, not such a good weekend. I hope that you can lean on each other for everything you need. I know that Pop would be there for you and hold you close until the time comes when I can hold you tight and safe in my loving arms again. I love you, Charles, and I miss you so. Always and Forever and Always, Your Mom
February 07, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, I am missing you so very much today. I love you. Always and Forever and Always. Your Mom
February 05, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles,
I Love you!!!!!!Thinking about you so much all of the time. Dad held your coin in his hand during the game, he called right after the win crying that he knew you were there with him and how he missed his traveling companion and he cried how much he loves you and misses you. Everyone is hurting so for you. Missing your voice, laughter, joking. Thinking about Mark the other day with Rosalie and we were laughing and how much we laughed at the sign you made for the game when all of you went to the Raven verses the Browns. and one side of the sign was, "If it's brown flush it down, and the other side was sitting with stupid with an arrow pointing to Mark, this is stupid". He was a good man and definitely like another son to me. So I hope that you both are watching over us and I am always watching over you, my Beautiful Charles. Always will. This is Dottie!!!!! I love and miss you so very much, it's breaking me day by day. Always and Forever and Always. Your Mom!!!!!!!!!!!!
February 04, 2013
Love and miss you so much, Charles.
February 03, 2013
I bet you are up there cheering your head off! Go Ravens!
January 30, 2013
My Dearest Son,Charles, I love you and I miss you. When I was talking to you the other morning and crying for you I got the smell of your cologne and it lingeered for the longest time. I know that you were here listening and trying to let me know that you heard. This is so hard Charles, how I am I and the rest of us supposed to live day by day without you physically here with us. Just impossible, not happening.Everyone is suffering as I know you are too. It's not easy loosing a limb. We are all joined in a way like no other. I love you so much and my heart aches to hear your voice and see you standing here and feeling the comfort and strength of your hold when you are hugging me. Son, I wish!!!! Always and Forever and Always. your Mom
January 27, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, Just wanted to let you know that I love and miss you so very much. Always and Forever and Always. Your Mom.
January 23, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, I was thinking about you an awful lot today, as usual. A lot going on in my head, wish you were here to talk to and help me figure it out. I love you so very much. Always and Forever and Always. Your Momma
January 22, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, I love you so very much. I think about you constantly, and I miss you so much. Sounds selfish everytime that I write to you. Never will understand nor will I ever accept you, my Bambino, being here with me, our family and friends. NEVER Charles. My Boy, how does a Mom find a new normal, it's never going to happen. There is not normal without you being here to complete my set. Simply is no more normal. I love you Charles Nelson Armetta, I love you!!!! Always and Forever and Always. Your Mom.
January 20, 2013
Chuck,
A month ago I spent Christmas with your family. Understandably, it was a hard time for them, your Mom and my sister particularly. It wasn't all sad though. People were smiling some times. We got my sister to laugh a few times between tears! Adrianna is developing into quite the personality and adversary for your Mother. I got to watch them feed her. Very entertaining. I can't wait to hear her words. Chuck, no one is ever going to forget you, ever. I hope you don't worry about that. And I don't know if you have any ability to help, but if you can, I would really appreciate it. If you can somehow extend their peaceful moments and shorten their sad times by just a few moments everyday it would add up to be a pretty big thing I think. And they could really use it. I hope that you're settling in your new surroundings and making a go of it. The Ravens are playing the Pats again today! I'll be rooting for them. Not a popular take around here, that's for shore but I can't take Brady and the hoodie hoisting another trophy! Miss ya, man. Be well.
January 19, 2013
Have I told you lately that I love you? You are always there for others and I want to be present for you, Diane.
Hugs, Judy
January 16, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, I just wanted to tell you that I Love you so much and I miss you. I know that I tell you all of the time, but I can never and will never tell you enough how much. Always and Forever and Always, Your Mom
January 12, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles,
You are so missed and loved always and forever and always. I promise you from my heart and soul. Just wanted to tell you eveyday, every moment how much I love and miss my boy.Your Mom
January 08, 2013
CHARLES DEAR CUZ,I DO THINK YOU GAVE YOUR MOMMA THE GIFT OF SOME PEACE, SEE MIRACLES DO HAPPEN...YOU HAVE THE BEST MOM,AS YOU KNOW..SHE IS TO BE CROWNED WITH GLORY,LISTEN AS SHE TALKS TO YOU SHE IS A WISE AND THOUGHTFUL MOMMA,TALK TO HER,SHE HEARS YOU...BLESS YOU AND YOUR WIFE AND LITTLE GIRL....
January 07, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles,
I think about you every day, every moment. I see all of your pictures all over our home, the four of you were a force to be reckoned with and God and I know the four of you still are.LOL. The commitment of family, love, honor and trust among you is so awesome, not many have what I gave to the four of you. I always told you I was so proud and that I could go to my grave with honor and so much love, because I know that my babies could make it without me,because of who you all became and who you grew up to be. If there is an award it would be given to you guys for loving me and giving me, your mother all and everything and the truest form of Mother and Child bond and love. To know that we can look into each other's eyes and see and feel what we were each seeing and feeling. That is time and effort into our relationship. I give the four of you all the credit in the world and all the love and devotion that I as your Mom could ever give to you. Charles my heart is broken, I say that a piece is missing now without you here with me, but in thinking about it in the last several months, your piece is not missing, it is there, it has never left me nor will it ever. You will be one of the strongest prescence in my life, you always were and forever will be, the same as Anthony, Patrick and Rosalie. You know me, you know my heart. Now with all of these grandchildren, I need you more than ever to help teach, give and show them the right paths to take and choose the way that is right for them and the knowledge and love that it will take to succeed, especially in family. It is the most important part of life. So I know that you will be by my side always and help and love and protect what is yours, who could ask for a more prescious gifted ANGEL, than you. I know that Poppi is guiding you as he always has give him my love and gratitude for being there for his little buddy and protecting you until I can be there for you. I will never give up and i will not give in to my saddness. I will forever stay strong for you and our family, until we meet again. Having moments of weakness and saddness and crying are not a bad thing. It is a good thing.A very good friend said to me that when it rains it is a good thing, because it is our loved ones letting us know how much they loe and miss us.And that you would know of my heartache and love because you know what my soul feels and my heart beating from the insie out.But I already know. I love you my boy. Always and Forever and Always, Your Mom.
January 03, 2013
My Dearest Son, Charles, I LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH. Always and Forever and Always. Your Momma
December 31, 2012
My Dearest Son, Charles,
I wish you so much, I wish you love, faith, happiness, trust and so much more. I wish you the brightest star in the Heaven's that surround you, my Baby Boy.I fell apart and cried for you for hours on Christmas Eve and then again on Christmas Day and every day before and since. It felt like the day you left me, so saddend, so broken hearted. I wish I could be that strong Mom that everyone says I am, but my boy I am weakening, I don't feel so strong anymore. I feel so broken, so lost a lot of the time. Never before knew or could ever understand this agony. The pain, grief and sorrow of the loss of a child is too immense. I feel down most of my day wondering if, if this if that IFIFIFIFIF, just doesn't stop some days. This is where i would be talking to you and bringing you in holding you and giving you advice and love as only a Mom can, so the only one that can help me is you. Everyone is supportive but I need you. The most beautiful of days is carrying and bringing into my world is Anthony, Patrick, Rosalie and you, Mia Bambino,Carmelo Neslon. I have said it before and I will say it till we meet again how lucky I am that I carried you and felt your first moves, your first kick, your first hiccups, heard your first cries and felt your heartbeat with mine. You after all know the meaning of my soul and the intensity of my heart beating, only you and Anthony, Patrick and Rosalie know that, because only the four of you heard it from the inside out. You four will only ever know how much I love, adore, and treasure you, only the four of you could ever understand the immensity of my love for you, my children. How lucky of a Mom am I. I look around when we are together and realize more and more just how loved I am and how much I have loved. Charles, my Baby, my Prescious, my Boy, you feel my love I know every moment, that is all I have to give to you, A Mother's Devotion. Never knew that until I became one, very strong, very true, never bending, never breaking. Always Faithful, Life lasting. Given of free will and honest of all emotions. Here it is New Years Eve, a very sad night for us. Remembering the Eve of your Wedding Day. Beautiful memories, spending the time with you. Your wedding cake, wow that is a memory we should remember. Poor Dad running to and from for us so that we could work on the cake, because you insisted not traditional, but celebratory of New Year's. And we did it, we pulled it off. The strobe lights the black and silver, the fun time, glad we got that cake done, LOL. What an honor to do that for you, always made me feel like Mother of the Year every day of my life. Happy New Year Mia Bambino,Charles Nelson for the eternity that we will share. I Love you so very much. Always and forever and Always, Your Momma!
December 25, 2012
Merry Christmas Charles!! We love you!!!
Love, Dana, Bill, Trent & Gavin
December 25, 2012
Charles, Merry Christmas.. I wanted to wish you a blessed day! You are thought of daily.. And are truly missed!! I know you are looking down on us and watching over us.. Know that we love and miss you so much!!
Love,
Dana
December 24, 2012
Merry Christmas, Charles. I so badly wish that you were here with us. I love and miss you sooooo much.
December 19, 2012
Hey Charles, just wanted to say Merry Christmas to you and the rest of our loved ones up there. You are thought about everyday in our home, we have your picture in the living room next to the sofa. It was truly a sad time when you left us so suddenly. Just hope you, mom and dad have a wonderful Christmas together, we will miss you all and please take care of the little angels that came up last week and watch over their families....miss and love you....Cathy
December 17, 2012
My Dearest Son, Charles,
Well I miss you so. Very rough weekend, as I know that you are aware of yet another loss for our family. I suppose that you are a busy busy person. I wish I could hear your words of wisdom and love right now. I miss your wisdom. You are so ahead of your years in thoughts and knowing what to do and when to do it. If you can read my thoughts, stop for the next several days, you might not like your mom using those words. LOL. But I do miss you and love you so very much and I wish that you were here. I miss your hugs and your smile and that would be very nice right now to embrace. Charles just come home, I'll forgive you for breaking my heart and leaving and I promise not to be mad if you would just come home. I have thought about it, remember beetle juice? LOL we have plenty of room. Would be awesome if that were so. I love your Spirit and adventurous soul, bring it. I love you so very much. Always and Forever and Always, your Momma.
December 13, 2012
Love and miss you every single day, Charles. You will always be in my heart.
December 11, 2012
For My Dearest Son, Charles, I want to let you know that I miss you so and that Thanksgiving was as always a beautiful day with our family. The beauty was there because of what we have built together as a family, love, devotion, pride, hope, constance and the desire to be as we are. The piece of pie that has been cut out of my heart along with all of us is you. You are so deeply missed and you are treasured, so treasured. I have you so tucked and safe in my arms and my heare and soul. You will never hurt or be alone ever. I cry so much for you, everyday. In the middle of my daily activities I always stop close my eyes and pray for you and yell at you at the same time. Kind of therapy for the both of us. I tell you how you need to come home and how much I miss and love you so, then I cry and then cry a little more. My Bambino, so beautiful, such a wonderful and loving soul, since the very moment you were concieved. God knows that and maybe that is why he needed the Angel of all Angels, you my boy, my precious baby. Looking through your baby pictures up until now you are still the beautiful baby I know. You have always had those cute little fat dimples and endearing smile. You are mine and I will never let you go. Of my blood, my body, my heart and my soul. Of my love, then there was you. Always and Forever and Always, I love you, Your Momma.
December 07, 2012
DEAR CHARLES,MAY I WISH YOU A BLESSED CHRISTMAS WITH JESUS ,ALL THE ANGELS AND YOUR POPPY. ALL THE STARS WILL SHINE ON THAT NIGHT LIKE A LOADED CHRISTMAS TREE AND OF COURSE CHARLES YOU ARE THE ONE WHO REALLY KNOWS WHAT CHRISTMAS IS ALL ABOUT,WHILE THOSE YOU LEFT BEHIND ESPECIALLY YOUR MOM,DAD AND SIBLINGS YEARN FOR YOUR PRESENCE , I BELIEVE IN MIRACLES SO LET YOUR FAMILY KNOW YOUR AT PEACE TO GIVE THEM PEACE @ HEART...A BLESSED CHRISTMAS WITH PEACE IN YOUR HEART FOR ALL.
December 05, 2012
For My Dearest Son, Charles,
I Love you and miss you so much. God knows how much. Please know that my heart is so broken and I want you to come home. Always and Forever and Always. Your Momma.
December 02, 2012
For My Dearest Son, Charles, I got your message yesterday. It was red, sparkling, glittery and spinning in the form of a heart. I knew it was from you. You were always the first to say Happy Birthday, Mom, I Love You. I know that I say it all of the time, but it is so true, I miss you more and more, day by day. Sometimes I feel like if I pass it will be from a broken heart. Never knew pain as I do with my Son. Never be anything that would devastate me the way your loss has. I know in reality that I haven't lost you, but your not hear, at my table, watching a show with me, sitting on the sofa listening to music or laying asleep with the dogs on you. You are a piece of my heart that I can not replace, or fill in or even heal the space that is missing. It is impossible, loosing one of my babies has been the hardest the most painful process I could never imagine having to go through. I thought bringing you into my life and nurturing you and loving you and seeing and feeling all that you have brought to me would continue for at least the rest of my life and that I would leave you and your siblings here to finish what I have started and then my grandchildren would repeat this legacy of ours. But you left and I can not believe or understand or deal with your loss of life. You are such a good man, the son that most never have, the grandson, brother, husband and Daddy that some will only dream of. How fortunate am I, how grateful am I, how thankfuly could one person be, that person is me,and I am, but it doesn't change the heart, the pain or the craving to see my boy here. Thank you for my gift. You Charles, you. I love you so much and miss you. Always and Forever and Always. Your Momma.
November 28, 2012
My Dearest Son, Charles, Yesterday was so hard without you here.I just miss you so much, your voice, your grin, your laughter, your smile that would open anyones heart and make them smile. You broke the code,Dottie, can you say it again, I miss you so much Charles that it hurts more and more day by day. I hate with everything I am that you are not here. I look at the door and pray that you will be walking through it. I miss you searching the cabinets for oreo cookies or chocolate chips and making a glass of chocolate milk. I want you to come home. I will be making cookies for Christmas and I am not even sure that I have the desire to do so. All your favoriets, especially my Nonni's Itlalian Biscotti and Italian Ladyfingers, the chocolate chips. I don't feel like Christmas the same as I didn't feel Thanksgiving or Halloween. Couldn't sit outside like we do with the neighbors and hand candy out, just was focusing on when you guys were little and I had the pleasure of taking you and watching you go from door to door. Expecially the year that Mommom and Poppi, Aunt Millie and Ty gave you all those cans of Baked Beans, who ended up carrying them, me. That's all you wanted and I wish that I could just hold you and love you here instead of in dreams and looking at the sky or your gravesite. I miss you so much, my hear aches so bad that sometimes it takes my breathe away. I love you, My Little One, Always and Forever and Always, Your Mamma, You sweet Bambino of mine.
November 22, 2012
Happy Thanksgiving, my baby brother. There is not a minute that goes by that I do not think about you. I miss you so much. I love you.
November 17, 2012
My Dearest Dearest Son, Charles, Hi Baby, I pray you are having peace today. I want you to rest happy. Know that we are all hoplessly broken hearted since the day that you left us. We will never get beyond the loss of you. I know that I die a little bit day by day knowing that my Baby is not here to share life with. I wish that I could learn that you are safe in the arm's of Poppi and God, but it just doesn't seem to matter to me.Crying everyday, often, is just the new norm for me. That piece of lonliness and emptiness is what I try to live with everyday of my life without you, Charles, Charles, why you, why. I will never except you not being here.I know that you love your family and I know that you miss us with such intensity, that is the way that I feel. They say that I have to stop because I am keeping you from crossing over, I do not believe that. In fact isn't that why we have Guardian Angels above to protect us. I knowt that you are and Angel, a Beautiful Angel who is watching over us always to protect us and love us. I will see you at night in a Mother's dream. I love you and miss you with every beat of my heart and each and every breath that I take. Always and Forever and Always. Your Momma
November 13, 2012
For My Dearest Son, Charles, I posted for your birthday but they can not figure what is wrong with the site. So hopefully this will. I love you, I love you, I love you. Well, Saturday Patrick got married, and you were there, had your own section with pictures and stuff. But I knew you were there, because you would not have missed it for the world, I know that you will be with your family always, sharing, watching over us and protecting us, the ones you love dearest. Thank you for yesterday on Old Joppa Road, scary, I had a very Special Guardian Angel on my shoulder. I miss having that Angel in front of me, but if this is the way it has to be I guess you sitting on my shoulder is amazing to me, thank you for being you and always loving me, your Mom so much. We had an amazing time on your birthday with your friends and we will be spending more time with them in a couple of weeks. A truely wonderful group of friends, your second family, as I feel they are. I love you so much and I love you. So hard, just so hard for me to live without you being here. Sometimes, I don't even know how I get up and get through the day, any day, they all seem to run together. I will pray tonight with you and for you and our family for easing of thier pain and yours. I will be praying for you to find peace and traquility.Keep me in your prayers, I really need them Charles. I miss and love you so. Always and forever and always, your Mom.
November 07, 2012
HAPPY BIRTHDAY YOUNG MAN. MAY ALL THE CANDLES OF THE ABOVE SHINE ON YOUR DAY
November 06, 2012
Good morning to you and Happy 30th Birthday Mia Bambino. I was thinking back of this day and what my travels were with the last moments that I held you in my belly and so close to my heart. It was an amazing journey with you from the moment that I knew you would be coming. Amazing because you were mine, and so adorable, so loving, so lovable as only you could be, from your chubby little toes to your little fat dimples as I called them until this day. My heart so broken and there is not a repair to be found. I know that I will carry this heartache and pain for the rest of my days. It is not right that I had to say goodby to you, not right at all. You are supposed to bury your grandparents, your parents, not your child, not your baby. I am angry, but I don't know how to take the anger and turn it around, I have a place that is broke in my heart that with each breath I take, it hurts with real physical pain. Charles I am constantly calling your name before I try to close my eyes to sleep and when I open my eyes to wake. I talk to you all day, I pray to you at night. Your my baby and this is killing me, I miss you so very much and never would I have thought that lonliness is so present even in a filled room. Happy Birthday to my Sweet Bambino. You were my Gift today for the rest of my life. Always and Forever and Always, I love you Charles, Your Momma
November 06, 2012
Happy 30th Birthday my baby brother! I love and miss you so much.
October 30, 2012
DEAR CHARLES,SUCH LOVE YOUR MOM,DAD WIFE AND SIBLINGS HAVE FOR YOU IS CERTAINLY THE MOST HONEST OF FEELINGS A MOTHER COULD HAVE,WHAT A WONDERFUL LIFE YOU HAD WITH A MOTHER SO GRACED WITH LOVE,BLESS YOU,I'M SURE SHE WILL TALK EVERYDAY TO HER HERO.
October 28, 2012
My Dearest Son, Charles,

Dad, Heather and I went to a DUI Checkpoint Friday night dedicated for you. I am so proud of you and always have been. It was an honor to be there for you, as your Mom it felt really good and piecing together as they pulled over each person, what would you do and your reaction to each of the situations. I just can't say it enough that I love you so much and miss you with every aching beat of my heart and every breath that I take, how very proud of you that I am and always will be. You know this and always have. I shared my Son, with the most loving Dad, siblings, wife and daughter, and so many family and friends, who all miss you. I think of you every moment. Always and Forever and Always, I Lovey You. Charles, Your Mom
October 26, 2012
My Dearest Son, Charles,
Hi Sweetie. Just wanted to let you know that I miss you more than life and I LOVE YOU so very much. I miss you more and more, day by day, minute by minute. It is so hard to breathe without you being here and sharing your love and emotions and just you. It's still a nightmare for me, it will always be. Sometimes I feel lie I have to actually remind myself to take my next breathe. I know that it sounds so crazy, but I get in such deep thought of you, I don't see or want to see anything but your smile and your beautiful dimples, that your Adrianna has. She's so beautiful, looks more and more like you, has your strength, which I admired about you always. You always have been a protector, a giver, a doer,such a fine yound man. I am so glad that you are mine. I am the lucky one for having carried you and that I could bring you into this world and love you. I just miss you my son so much, I just want you to come home, I want you to come home. Always and Forever and Always, I love you, Mom
October 22, 2012
My Dearest Son, Charles. How I wish you were small and young again, I would hold you in my arms so tight and never let you go. I would protect you a little better, like I should have that day. I wish that I could put you in my pocket and keep you there always. I miss you so much more everyday. Every breathe I take and every breathe I don't take hurts and becomes harder and harder. In my quiet time I can actually feel my heart aching and hurting. May sound funny, but it is so true. I know this heartache will be mine to carry the rest of my days. It will grow heavier each day as it already has, I will miss you more and more and sleep less and less. My family will always have a space that is empty, we will all have a broken heart and a huge piece will always be gone, and I know that there is no end to the pain before me. I love you, I love you, I love you. I kiss your pictures all of the time. I hold them close to my heart every night when i sleep, so that you know that I will hold you close always. Untile we meet again. Give you Big Buddy a Huge hug from me and a Great Big Kiss, tell him how much I miss him and how I really could use his shoulders and his smart advise and soothing words at this time. I want to hold you and I am very very sad that I wasn't there to hold you for your last breathe as I was there for your first. I feel quilty that I couldn't hold you close to me, I know you know that. I miss you so, and will never stop thinking about you and how grateful I am that you are my Son, MY LITTLE BAMBINO. I am grateful for the Man that you are, you are wonderful. Always and Forever and Always, I will love you . Your Mom
October 19, 2012
Dear Armetta family, I want to offer my condolences. My mother Jennie (Gabriele) Drobish was critically ill when I heard of Charles's passing. My mother was Jane Armetta's 1st cousin. Jane and my mother were very close (like sisters) in their younger years and still kept in touch in their elderly years. My mother passed September 12th. I didn't know Charles, but the news of his passing deeply saddened me, my heart goes out to all of the family. What a wonderful special person he was from the guest book entries I read. God bless all of you and keep you strong. Maria Drobish, Levittown, Pa
October 16, 2012
For My Dearest Son, Charles, Good Morning. I miss you, I miss you, I miss you.This is so hard I look at your pictures always, listen to videos of you your voice is still so crisp, so real. I see your smile with your cute little baby dimples. I can close my eyes and there you are. Tears and heartache are now just a normal daily ritual for me. They come and go, go and come. I know that for the rest of my life that this is just going to be my new norm. I wish that you could just come through the front door and say your home, I know--it's just my one wish for you to be back home where you belong. I love you so much Charles. I pray that you have found your new norm also. But never leave here. Stay always and watch over us as we will watch over you.Give your Big Buddy the biggest hug and kiss for me and tell him how much I miss him. I know that he was there for you to grab you tight and hold you in his embrace to Heaven's Gates. He loved his Little Buddy so much. If for that reason, I know you are safe and that you have not been alone. A Mother's nightmare, a Mother's heartache and now I own that fear. Charles, Charles, Charles, I repeat your name all day and through the night, I see your face and my heart breaks a little more. I just needed to write to you today. I love you my Bambino, Always and Forever and Always, Your Mom
October 11, 2012
Diane, I feel your pain and sorrow. The grief will always be present and every memory will remain and be cherished. You are a strong individual and a person of faith. May God in His mercy bless you and all of your beloved family. XOXOXO
October 08, 2012
My Dearest Son, Charles, I miss you so very much. Can not and will not believe you are not here with us. A very large part of my heart has been cut out and destroyed.It will never heal, never be whole again, and the ache is so painful and hard to deal with. I have never been so sad and sick to my stomach day in and day out,I don't even know what to say anymore to myself to t
ry and say I know you are with your Big Buddy and God and that you are safe in thier embrace, but I don't see it that way, I am suppose to keep you safe and hold you when you are scared and hurt and afraid. Such a nightmare, a month, that seems an eternity, time just goes by so slow. if I could go back just a little bit and change the events of this month I would do it so quickly. Stay by our side, I know you are here. I Love you so much and miss you so, I love you , I love you. Always and Forever and Always. Your Mom
October 05, 2012
Good Morning Charles. My loving Boy. My Cherished, it seems like a nightmare, cannot get over this. Every night I awake in a state of confusion, disbelief and grave sadness. I don't understand, entirely not right that you are no longer here. It seems like you steped out for a minute and I am waiting for you to return. I know it sounds crazy but so true, it's what I believe. Just can and will not accept the idea that my baby boy, Charles, is not here. Too sad to handle, I want to wake up from this state, whatever you want to call it, a state of the unknown or not willing to know. I can't figure it out. All I can keep saying is how so very much I love you and how much I need you to come home. Please, I love you. Always and forever, Your Mom.
October 03, 2012
Morning My Baby Boy,
Just thinking about you. Talked to Anthony,Patrick and Rosalie and then I talked to you. I guess if anyone heard they would think I was crazy, but you know that I talk to you off and on all day. Waiting for that hug. I love you Little Buddy. Tell your Big Buddy that I love him and miss him so much. Hope you are adjusting to your Angel Wings, use them fly on down for a while and visit your famiglia. Know this we won't let you go ever, EVER! I love you Always and Forever, Your Heartbroken Mom.
October 02, 2012
I love you, Charles. There is not one minute that goes by without me thinking of you...I miss you so much.
September 30, 2012
Hello, Charles I miss you so very much. Not a moment goes by without you in it. I am trying to stay strong for everyone, I know that you would want me to, you always thought I could handle anything. I remember you as a little boy wanting to protect me and your family. I remember how you built me a castle for me out of your blocks. You said I was a princess and should have a castle. You were so adorable, when you would lisp a little when you lost your front two teeth running around with your Sister,and Anthony and Patrick and Rosalie felt so bad that they would run and get you whatever you cried for. You would say Mommy me want a mmmmmm, and they would run and get you cookies. They were right you were spoiled, but no more than they were, but they remember me alsways carrying you on my hip, you were my Baby and you will always be. I Love you so and it's so hard to not hav e you here. My sweet Adrianna reminds me of you in so many ways, she resembles you, thank you so much for giving me her to see and have her in our life. You left a beautiful family to add to the beautiful family that we have. Still, I wish you were here, I miss you, I misss you, I miss you. I can not say it enough, I truly miss you.There are so many more moments in time that I think about more and more. Heather brought your baby book and pictures and baby stuff out of storage yesterday, and I have not found the courage to look at them yet. I love you, Charles. Always and Forever. Your Mom.
September 26, 2012
Good Morning,to my Beautiful Son. I miss you so very much. I made too much breakfast again today,thinking of how hungry you would be when you came home. I love you and I tell you all day long how much. I feel like I am in a nightmare and this will be over when I awake, but then when I do awake I have your picture in my hand with kleenex, it's real, it's real.Thank you for being such a loving son, such a good heart and soul you have. I am so lucky to have had your love for so many years and I sit and remember all day. I will tell my Grandbaby, Adrianna, and Christian, Joseph and Baby Sophia everyday of the man you are and who you are. I was so fortunate to carry you inside of me, I felt your first hiccup, an arm stretch across my belly, a kick that would have made a football sail across the field, and you flip flopping and turning around as if you were in a pool of water doggy paddleing.....These are some of the beautiful memories I will tell of you, as only I can, through my eye's, a Mother's eyes.I will tell them of the years that I got to nurture my baby. To help create the Man that you are. Very wonderful and fulling it is for me. I pray and cry for you all of the time, it's just too hard, how do I go on without you being here, my Bambino. I need your hugs and you telling me, I love you, Mommy as you had that grin with your beautiful little dimples. God knows how much heartache this is for me, I don't understand why you had to go and I never will. I just want you to come home. Please give your Big Buddy the biggest hug and kiss and tell him how much he is missed and loved,tell him from his Little Buddy's Mommy. Until. I Love you so and will forever hold you close in my heart and soul.Mom
September 24, 2012
I AM SURE YOUR GREAT,GREAT FATHER WAS THERE TO MEET YOU,HE IS ARC ANGELO GABRIELE, THAT IS ON YOUR DAD'S MATERNAL SIDE A BEAUTIFUL STORY ABOUTBHIS EXISTENCE,MAY HE GUIDE YOU AND CARE FOR YOU WHILE YOU ARE AWAY.
September 23, 2012
All family and friends of charles, I am praying for you all! I'd like to say Charles was always a man to live up to and he will be forever remembered that way. Charles taught me what hard work is, yet always made me laugh!
September 20, 2012
My Dearest Son, Charles,
Please help me with your family, to get through this. Between the two of us we can get it done. Your strength, determination and fortitude is needed. Your family needs you now just as much as when you were standing by thier sides. Be thier angel for they need the Angel of which you are. The Son, Brother,Grandson, Uncle, The Husband, and DaDa, and the Friend. All and every quality is what Charles means to me. So I know that you will be there as you always have been, only this time with wings from God. I love you, Mom
September 20, 2012
My Dearest Son, Charles. Just can't think. When I do it's you and you alone that I can't get off my mind. When I said Good by and stay safe, I did't know it was good by and I meant stay safe. You must not have heard me and I pray that we could redo that night. One thousand more hugs and kisses. One thousand more I Love You's. I know that I can't but don't I wish I could. I miss you and pray for you and all of us constantly. Don't be afraid, your Buddy is with you, he will keep you safe until one day I come to you and can keep you safe. I will talk to you as I have these last several days.I miss you so. Oh My God, if he could just bring you home.Here is a candle to help you find your way. I Love you. Always. Mom
September 19, 2012
You have my deepest sympathy. May good memories of Janice provide consolation for your family during this challenging time; and may God provide you with the assurance that you will see your loved one again in Paradise. John 17:3
September 19, 2012
You have my deepest sympathy. May good memories of Janice provide consolation for your family during this challenging time; and may God provide you with the assurance that you will see your loved one again in Paradise. John 17:3
September 19, 2012
The Armetta Family

My heart breaks for all of you. It has been a long time since I have seen any of you and I am saddened that I wasn't able to know what a great man Charles had become. My memories go back to Grapeseed Ct. and all of us having fun being kids. It's ashame how you tend to lose touch with people after they move. I've read so many wonderful things about Charles in the past week. He must have really been an amazing guy. You are all in my prayers and I hope God gives you the strength to get through this. I know Charles will be watching over you. God Bless you all.
September 15, 2012
RIP charles, you have a wonderful family and you willbe missed
September 14, 2012
We didn't know Charles, however Anthony and Jess are our neighbors and have become close and dear friends of ours. We consider them family and feel as though we have lost one of our own. We hope that God will see them and the rest of the Armetta family through this tragic time.
September 14, 2012
Charles I'll never forget the moments of you & Patrick teaching me how to ride a two wheeler. :) Swimming with your family. Halloween. Many good memories. Now you can protect the many angels in heaven as you did the people here. RIP my friend. Until we meet again. xoxo
September 14, 2012
I didn't know it then...but know it now i was touched by a special person..Glen Di Anthony Patrick Rosalie Bobby so sorry for your loss ..you all should be very proud..R.I.P.Charles and God Bless..
September 14, 2012
God rest your lovely soul in peace. You were the best neighbor my sisters have ever had. I got to meet you once and i knew what a exceptional and reputable person your were. Words cannot express loss, but whenever we see the stars we will think of you up there looking over your wife and your lovely daughter and all the rest of us. RIP Officer Armetta

Victor Njoka
Suwanee, Georgia
September 14, 2012
To the Armetta Family, I just wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss.
There our truly no words to tell you how sorry I am. God bless you all and my thoughts and prayers go to the family. Love. Jenny
September 14, 2012
My Dearest Charles you will always be in my heart and I will be thinking of you for the rest of my life. I know I will see you again some day. We have some great memories of growing up as kids that I will always keep close to my heart forever. Love you. Jenny
September 14, 2012
My deepest condolences to the Armetta Family.
September 14, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family. It has been some time since we have seen the family, but we wanted to let you know we are thinking about all of you and we are praying that God and Charles guide all of you through this terrible tragedy! God bless all of you!
September 13, 2012
My deepest condolences to the Armetta family. While I never met them, my husband is a NCCPD K9 officer and trained with Charles and has always had nothing but wonderful things to say about him and his family. I am keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. God bless all of you.
September 13, 2012
What a wonderful difference one life made in the hearts of so many....praying these memories give you the strength you need! Sue & Carley
September 13, 2012
Armetta I don't know where to begin. I never thought I would meet my best friend in jail. Fortunately we were on the right side of the bars. We had so many good times together. Every time we were together I laughed till it hurt. You have always made me cry, but that was from laughter. I never realized you could make me cry from how sad I am missing you. I'm going to miss your random text asking me if I'm going to La Tolteca for dinner. I'm going to miss you calling me on the radio asking me to come translate in Spanish for you. When I first got cut loose on the road I remember you taking me under your wing and working traffic together. You always had my back on every call we went on together. I'll never forget our trips to Buffalo, Police week, Dover, and the many other places we went. Your family is a second family to me. Working 4-12 I always felt I was with the family on Holiday's as I stuffed my face and then couldn't get up off the couch to go back to work. You are my brother, my best friend, and will always be one of my groomsmen. I wish I would have gotten the opportunity to ask you to be in my wedding. Have no fear Adrianna will be protected from any little rug rats trying to date her. Your Cuban friend will slash all their tires so they can't drive and then I will show them my arsenal. Maybe they can help me clean them too. I am so proud of you for getting into K9. I know how happy you were when you got into the unit. Today I made sure I changed out of the uniform and wore a suit for you for the simple fact you my friend taught me finally how to tie a tie. Charles I will never leave your family's side. I will do my best to protect your family. I know how much you loved Heather. I never thought someone could set you straight.... I was wrong!! Please look down and watch over us. There are no goodbyes between you and me. My brother I will see you later! -Your Dirty Mexican
September 13, 2012
You will be missed by so many! You were such an amazing person...your smile could light up a room and your laugh was contagious. My heart breaks for your family! The world lost a great man. Thoughts and prayers
September 13, 2012
Charles its was an honor to have worked with you. It was even more of an honor to have you as a friend. I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers. I'll miss you buddy.
September 13, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family. It has been some time since we have seen the family, but Charles was a very special young man and touched so many people with this wonderful personality and infectious smile. I pray God's comfort over each of you.
September 12, 2012
Cheap Chollie Dinero,,,,man I can`t believe you`re not here.Words can`t express how fortunate we were to have known you.My family loved you and all your brothers and sister.You boys felt like sons to me.Always joking and smiling,,,you were one of a kind.You will be sorely missed.Lots of memories we will cherish forever.Heather and Adrianna will perservere with all our help.Keep smiling pal and please keep an eye on us down here.Say hey to all our loved ones that have left us.
Uncle Wade
September 12, 2012
The lord took you charles for all good reasons, until we meet again buddy we will allways remember you,love Uncle Chuck and family!
September 12, 2012
Ms. Diane, Mr. Glen, Ant, Patrick, Ro, Bobby, Heather and Adrianna, and all of your families,

I have been thinking about you nonstop since I heard the news about Charles. I've been wanting to sign the guestbook sooner, but I am just speechless and in total shock. It seems like yesterday we were all living on Hoerner Ave sitting on the porches after school. I had to chuckle at one of the entries talking about his lime green integra, I remember that thing!

What a wonderful man, Charles. He had such a kind heart, and was one of the good ones. What a contagious smile too :) It is so unfortunate that he left this world so SO (too) early.

Heather & Adrianna, although we've never met, know that we are thinking of you always. This holds true for the entire family, we are praying for strength for you to get through this. We just can't imagine what each of you is going through. Our deepest sympathies and hoping you can find peace in this horrific tragedy.
September 12, 2012
Thoughts and prayers go out to the family. Charles, Thanks for the memories. You made ELC 11 fun. You will truly be missed by many. Rest in peace brother.
September 12, 2012
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Charlie will be missed by all.
September 12, 2012
I am so very sorry for your loss. I could not have asked for better neighbors. I was always grateful for Charles' willingness to lend a hand and am very appreciative of his kindness to my children. They have expressed fond memories of Charles. I will continue to keep the family in my thoughts and prayers.
September 12, 2012
My deepest sympathies to all of you that loved Charles.
September 12, 2012
Charlie, I was privileged to know you and work with you, and know so many who thought the same of you. We came up at the same time together, and I was glad to get to know you and felt I could always trust you. But more important than work, it was just good having a guy like you around. I'll miss you. All my prayers and sympathies to your family and friends.
September 12, 2012
To the Entire Armetta Family,

My heart goes out to all of you! I will never forget Charles' rosie cheeks, and how whenever he laughed, or got embarrassed, was happy, or mad---his cheeks got instantly pink---he looked like a little kid in a candy store. Charles it was a pleasure to work with you, you will always be one of my favorites!
A good one, taken way too soon.
God speed! Rest in Peace
Cate Kansler
HCDC
September 12, 2012
We are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts and prayers are with all of the family.
September 12, 2012
My deepest condolences to the Armetta Family. Charles will truely be missed. R.I.P.
September 12, 2012
Chic - So sorry for your loss. Know that he is in God's hands.
September 12, 2012
I have been truly blessed to have Charles as a friend. An awesome young man taken from us too soon. My prayers are with the family he has left behind. I pray you find comfort in knowing how loved Charles was by everyone who knew him. Diane Ford
September 12, 2012
We were so sorry to hear about your loss; this is such a tragedy. Our prayers are with the entire family. He was a valued member of the Harford County Sheriff's office and will be missed. Please accept our condolences during this difficult time. With deepest sympathy, Chris & Greg Lehman
September 12, 2012
Words can't express how sorry we are for you loss. Charlie was a great person and was taken too soon. May God be with the Armetta family during this time. RIP Charlie. You will truly be missed.
September 12, 2012
There are no words to express how sorry I am for the families loss. Charles' smile and personality were bigger than life and even though I hadn't seen him in a long time, I thought of him often with such fond memories! He was the kind of person that made an impression from the very first time you met him! From creating the "best" chicken marsala to training police dogs he was able to pursue his dreams and enjoyed life to the fullest. Watch over your family Charles and keep them safe! You will be missed by so many!
September 12, 2012
Please accept my condolences. May John 5:28 bring hope.
September 11, 2012
Charles - why you were taken from us so soon? This is so hard to understand and to comprehend the reality of it all. Such a terrible tragedy. I ache for your wife Heather and your precious baby girl. When I look at her I see you. We promise she will grow up knowing how special her daddy is. Your parents and your siblings are heartbroken and lost without you. It's unbearable to the family to go on without you. How can we do it? I pray that we have the strength to get through the hardest days yet to come. You are an amazing man, sweet, respectful, kind, dedicated, loyal, happy, unselfish, hard-working, always smiling, always caring about how everyone else is doing. When Wade & I first met you over 20 years ago, I thought you were the cutest little boy. Not only were you a comedian but I saw a serious side to you too. A thinker. It was obvious you had a caring heart, always had. You were raised the right way, to respect everyone and to treat others the way you want to be treated. You have amazing parents who worked hard to give you kids the best family life possible, full of love and laughter. I am so proud to be part of this family and to have shared my life with you. I only wish we could have spent more time together. I always enjoyed being around you and your parents and your siblings. Some crazy good times. I will never forget how you helped my family when we had a crisis and you came to our aide without hesitation - thats the type of person you are!!! I love you deeply for that and have so much gratitude and respect for what you did for us. We may never know why you were taken too soon but the only way to get through this is to believe God needed you more because you are one of the special ones on earth. There's a hole in all of our hearts and our lives will never be the same without you. We're lost without you. We will forever hold our memories of you and cherish the times we've spent together. I know Wade will really miss getting crazy with you at the Ravens games and I'm saddened that our daughters will no longer have a Uncle Charles to run to. I'm honored to be your aunt and miss you so much already. A very close friend of mine just told me this today...when you were falling you weren't scared because you were falling into God's arms and you were smiling because you know that you were going somewhere safe to live in heaven with all the angels. Rest now Charles. Your job here is done. Love you and miss you to the moon and back. Your Aunt Debbie Nigrin
September 11, 2012
Heather, We extend to you our condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May you find comfort and strength in your memories.
September 11, 2012
Charles,
I have to start this in the same fashion every one of our phone calls started with, "Hey buddy!, What are you doin?" This has to be one of the hardest things I have ever had to do in my life. You have touched my life in more ways than you could ever know. From the very beginning of my time with the family you have always treated me as if I was another one of your brothers, never a brother-in-law. I feel that I have a special, but different bond with each of the brothers, but your's was extra special to me. You could always take a person on their worst day and either make them laugh or smile. Well, these are some of the worst days of my life, yet I can still smile everytime I think of you or something stupid we did together, so to me, you will never be gone. I am not going to say "Goodbye Buddy!", just I will see you later. Until we meet again rest in peace.
Love always, Rob
September 11, 2012
My thoughts and prayers go out to Charles family and friends, especially his wife Heather and daugher Adrianna. I couldn't imagine what you are going through right now. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Charles was an amazing guy, and he will always be remembered for his beautiful smile and caring heart. I lived in his old neighborhood & he was a freshman when I was a senior, but I have known the Armetta family for some time now, and what a beautiful & wonderfully close family they are. Know that we are all here for you for anything you may need. Heaven has an extra special angel now, and I know heaven must have really needed him to take him from us so soon. RIP Charles, and to his family, please lean on us your family and friends if you need anything at all.
September 11, 2012
Our deepest prayers and thoughts are with you and the family. I know God has a plan and one day we will understand but for now, just believe and God will get us through. We love you and feel for you.
September 11, 2012
Heather, I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you and your family. You and your family will forever be in my thoughts and prayers. Love Lori
September 11, 2012
Diane, Glen, Rosalie, Patrick, Anthony, Bobby, and Heather,

Words can't begin to express how sad we are for your loss. Charles had such a warm smile and made time to chat when we picked up and dropped off the boys. He always made time to play with Tyler and Gabriel and they loved it! He was a wonderful guy, the kind of man that every parent hopes their son will become. His loss is a great tragedy. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
September 11, 2012
Charles you will be missed greatly by everyone that you came in contact with. Thoughts and prayers go out to the family. May you rest in peace my brother
September 11, 2012
So sorry for your loss. You are all in our prayers
September 11, 2012
our heartfelt sorrow goes out to both sets of parents may you find peace in your healing
September 11, 2012
Until we meet again my friend. You were a joy to be around. My Condolences to the Armetta family. My god be with you through this tribulation.
September 11, 2012
I will always cherish being apart of your life. Our memories made will not be forgotten and I will honor your spirit everyday. I am so sad. My heart goes out to the entire Armetta family, your wife, and your baby girl.
September 11, 2012
September 11, 2012
Remembering your great love story today and always.
September 11, 2012
My deepest sympathies.. My God bring you all peace in this difficult time.
September 11, 2012
I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of Charles. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Armetta family.
September 11, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss! Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers!
September 11, 2012
I feel like I'm still living this horrible dream.. I can't believe that my baby cousin is not here.. Charles, you were the most amazing person..You accomplished so much in your 29 years..I am so proud of you..I remember all the times we've shared..These memories will continue to live on..You helped me out so much when I needed family the most..You were one of the first to be there..I never had to ask.. You have an amazing wife and little girl..You had a smile that was infectious..You were always there to celebrate my boys..You and Trent will always have that birthday connection..And the interests of Police Cars..You will live forever in my heart..You will never be forgotten.. I know that you are in heaven, smiling down on us.. Your life will be celebrated!! God is very lucky to have such an amazing angel by his side. I love you very much, Charlie..
September 11, 2012
Our deepest sympathy and prayers go out to the Armetta family.
September 11, 2012
"No resident will say I am sick...Isaiah 33May the God of hope grant you the peace and serenity to endure your loss.
September 11, 2012
Diane, Glenn, Rosalie, Patrick, and Anthony - Words seem so inadequate at this very difficult time in your lives. I feel such sorrow for all of you on the loss of Charles. Shortly after Diane starting caring for Meghan, it became apparent to me that we had stumbled upon a genuinely kind, wonderful, and loving family. I hope that all of that love and the closeness that you share will bring you comfort in your time of need. Charles would have wanted nothing less.
September 11, 2012
Let us celebrate this wonderful man. Loving husband, father, son, grandson, brother and friend. Dedicated to protecting life, love and family. Continued prayers for you all and may you feel the love of God arms around you.
James and Colleen McGowan
September 11, 2012
May the love of friends and family carry you through this hard time. Thinking about you Heather as well as the rest of the family.
September 11, 2012
Charles, You will forever be missed by all who were blessed to have known you. I will forever remember the kid in middle & highschool who always kept a smile on his baby face, always cheered me up when I was down,brought me dinner when you worked at Mama Lucia's, I could go on and one. We have great memories my dear friend. My deepest condolences go out to Armetta, Nigrin,Volk, Bedsworth family and to your beautiful daughter. God really took a special person and made him his angel. May you watch over your family forever and always. This is not a good bye, we will meet again. Rest in Peace Charles xoxoxoxoxo
September 11, 2012
To one of the nicest people I have ever met. Charlie is someone you can never forget! Thanks for making me smile many times
September 11, 2012
My heart goes out the Armetta family. I only knew Charles from going into Mamma Lucia, it was always such a pleasure to see his smiling face!
September 11, 2012
My deepest sympathy to the Armetta family. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead.
September 11, 2012
Glen and Diane,
Words cannot express the heartache we feel for you and your family. We were extremely saddened to hear of Charles' passing. Please know that everyone is in our thoughts and prayers and we are always there for you.
May God Be With You.
The DiFonso's
September 11, 2012
To the Armetta Family, I can not begin to express my sincere condolences. You are all in my heart and prayers.
September 11, 2012
Our heart goes out to all of Charlie's family members, friends, and co-workers. He will be greatly missed! We love you Charlie! RIP Nicole`, Domonic ,and Jordan
September 11, 2012
My baby brother, I do not even know where to begin. This does not feel real. This is the hardest thing that I have had to face. Charles, I love you so much. How in the world are we going to live without you?

Rob and I were talking about how all of us would look over at you, waiting for the “Charles comment.” You would always ask us why we were looking at you, and then boom….there it was! You would then smile because you knew why. We were laughing over all of the random text messages you would send from Heather's phone, as if we did not know it was you. How about when I had recently pulled a muscle in my neck….. “Hey Ro, look over here. Ro, watch out! Hurry up, look over there.” I fell for your antics like three times that day. Your engaging smile is embedded in my mind…..I can see it so clearly. I will forever be able to close my eyes and see your beautiful face, hear your voice, and feel your embrace.

I am so thankful for Heather and Adrianna, Charles. When I hold Adrianna, I feel sooo close to you. I know that we have to be strong for them, but my heart breaks when I look at them. I wish that I could take the pain away.

I know that God has his reasons for taking you so soon, but I would give anything in the world to have you back. It's so hard to be strong right now. I need you to help me, Charles. I am comforted by knowing that Pop is right by your side. Since the moment you left us, I have prayed to him. Life is short, and I know that we will be together again, but it is going to feel like an eternity. Until that time, I will keep your memory alive every single day for the rest of my life.

I will NEVER let go, Charles. I love you so much.

“Wish I could see the angels faces when they hear your sweet voice sing.”
September 11, 2012
My baby brother, I do not even know where to begin. This does not feel real. This is the hardest thing that I have had to face. Charles, I love you so much. How in the world are we going to live without you?

Rob and I were talking about how all of us would look over at you, waiting for the “Charles comment.” You would always ask us why we were looking at you, and then boom….there it was! You would then smile because you knew why. We were laughing over all of the random text messages you would send from Heather's phone, as if we did not know it was you. How about when I had recently pulled a muscle in my neck….. “Hey Ro, look over here. Ro, watch out! Hurry up, look over there.” I fell for your antics like three times that day. Your engaging smile is embedded in my mind…..I can see it so clearly. I will forever be able to close my eyes and see your beautiful face, hear your voice, and feel your embrace.

I am so thankful for Heather and Adrianna, Charles. When I hold Adrianna, I feel sooo close to you. I know that we have to be strong for them, but my heart breaks when I look at them. I wish that I could take the pain away.

I know that God has his reasons for taking you so soon, but I would give anything in the world to have you back. It's so hard to be strong right now. I need you to help me, Charles. I am comforted by knowing that Pop is right by your side. Since the moment you left us, I have prayed to him. Life is short, and I know that we will be together again, but it is going to feel like an eternity. Until that time, I will keep your memory alive every single day for the rest of my life.

I will NEVER let go, Charles. I love you so much.

“Wish I could see the angels faces when they hear your sweet voice sing.”
September 11, 2012
Thoughts and prayers to your family in this time of loss.

Amy, Luke, and Levi Roueche
September 11, 2012
Me and my family have known Heather for almost 20yrs. I never had the pleasure of meeting Charles. However, I know Heather and she wouldn't settle for anything less than the best. It took her a long time to find "the man of her dreams" I believe Charles was that man.
Heather, I am sorry for your loss. You truly are one of the strongest, most determined women I know. Charles' passing has tested that, I am sure. Adrianna, along with friends and family, will be your rock.
To the entire Armetta family, my condolences and prayers will continue for you all. Our family will be there tomorrow night in support and to offer condolences in persons.
God Bless,
Tawanea and Family
September 11, 2012
Diane, Glenn and family,
Words cannot express the sorrow that is felt with the passing of Charles. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers knowing that you are surrounded by a wonderful family and many friends.
September 11, 2012
Please accept our heartfelt condolences on the loss of your son, Charles. May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead.
September 11, 2012
Glen, Diane, Heather, Anthony, Patrick, Rosalie, Bobby and the entire family, please know we are here for you all, whatever you need. We will always be here for you. Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers. Love you always, Reggie & Linda
September 11, 2012
Charles, you are very much missed and loved by us. You worked so hard to make your dreams your accomplishments. You have done so much in your short lifetime. From the time you were born, you were on a mission. You leave behind a legacy that make many proud to be a part of you. You will always be in our hearts and on our minds. You grew into a loving, caring, and compassionate man. I know that you are in loving arms now. Please tell him how much we still miss him. WE LOVE YOU! Aunt Debbie and Uncle John
September 11, 2012
Heather and family,
We are so sorry for your tragic loss. You are in our prayers
September 11, 2012
Baltimore County Police Explorer Post 9909 extends our Condolences to the Armetta family in these trying and difficult times.
September 11, 2012
While it has been quiet a few years since I have see you Charles, you have always been on my mind and in my heart. You were one of those friends that could never be forgotten. I will remember seeing your smiling face and your neon car :) This is a loss that will stay with me forever and I know that you will be as wonderful of an angel as you were a friend. Rest in peace. My deepest thoughts are with your family. Until we meet again friend.
September 11, 2012
Dear Glen and Family, I am so sorry for the loss of Charles. Russ and I will hold you in our prayers...
September 11, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Armetta & Nigrin families. We are so sorry for your loss.
September 11, 2012
Prayers and condolences to the Armetta family during this hard time.... Rest easy Charles....
September 11, 2012
Dear Diane,
So sorry for your loss of Charles. Our prayers are with you and your family during this painful time. May the Lord comfort you in your time of need.
September 11, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. You will be missed. You were a great friend, partner and role model to many.
September 11, 2012
I am sorry for your loss we went to high school together but lost touch over the years. When you meet certain people in your life you just never forget them and that's the kind of person he was. I am saddened by the thought of this tragedy and will pray for your family to have the strength to get though this.
September 11, 2012
Charles, I will never forget you. You were a true friend who was always willing to help anyone in need.
September 10, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with Charles's family at this time.We have lost a great person Charles I will never forget the times we had hanging out. Until we see each other again rest easy my friend.
September 10, 2012
Words can not express the sorrow we have for the entire Armetta family. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. Charles RIP.
September 10, 2012
Charles,

Where do I even begin. You truly were my favorite. I am so lucky to have had the time that I did however two years was not long enough. You were more than my brother in law you were my brother, my friend and my daughters uncle. You were there for me so many times I can't even keep tract. What would Sophia and I have done without you. We had a hard recovery however you made it so much easier. Everyday you devoted to me and my daughter without even a question. You picked on me as if I really was your sister. I am so lucky for the connection that I have with you. Aside from me you loved Sophia as if she were your own. You showed her so much attention and always included her with everything. I can not even begin to imagine a world without you. I feel lost. I am so lucky to have seen you Friday and sit next to you while our daughters sat on our laps. As we made plans for Patrick and I's wedding, I remember feeling that I missed you so much. I missed having you, Heather and Adrianna just a few houses down from us. I wish I would have told you that. You have impacted my life so much. I really don't know how to recover. Thank you for being such a huge part of my life, it will never be the same without you. I love you so much and will miss you terribly everyday for the rest of my life.
September 10, 2012
You will be missed! All our love to your family.
September 10, 2012
My deepest condolences to the entire extended Armetta family.
September 10, 2012
My most heartfelt sympathies to the Armetta family. I did not know Charles well as he was the youngest of your boys and I have been out of the loop for sometime, but what I do know is that the Armetta's have a special bond held together by the Mother of all Mothers! Diane, you and your family will be in my thoughts and I pray for all you to have peace one day.
September 10, 2012
I a so sorry for your loss. I can't begin to imagine the pain you all must be feeling. My Deepest Sympathy to your family. I really didn't know Charles but I know Patrick very well and I feel the pain and sorrow for him. It's so tragic to lose someone so young and full of hope and ambition with so much to live for. Your family will always stay in my heart and in my prayers. With much love and Respect. Rose Russell ( Erica Russell's Mother)
September 10, 2012
Charles,little did I know that our friendship would be so brief. I am grateful that I had the opportunity to get to know you. We had a lot of laughs and your were a great friend. I will cherish those memories always, and regret that you are gone way too soon. My heart is aching, you are missed.
To Charle's family, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
September 10, 2012
My heart aches for all of you. Charles was such an incredible guy and will greatly be missed. May god grant you the strength and courage you need to get through. Our deepest sympathies are with you and your family. May you rest in peace Charles.
September 10, 2012
Its so difficult to be parted from a wondeful person like Charles, he will be missed.
September 10, 2012
Charles, You will forever be missed by all who were blessed to have known you. I will forever remember the kid in highschool who always kept a smile on his face. You were one of the good guys one who had a heart of gold. My deepest condolences go out to your family and daughter. God really took a special person and made him his angel. May you watch over your family forever and always. You will never be forgotten !
September 10, 2012
Thinking about everyone during this most difficult time. Charles was a great person, I am so sorry for your loss!
September 10, 2012
Although no words can really help to ease the loss you bear, just know that you are very close in our thoughts and prayers. Hold tight to memories for comfort, lean on your friends and family for strength, and always remember how much you are cared about.
September 10, 2012
Glen, Diane, Heather, Anthony, Patrick, Rosalie, Bobby and precious Adrianna, My heart breaks for all of you with your loss. Charles spent so much time with our boys he was to us one of them. He always had a smile on his face and we never had any fears when Greg and Kirk were with him. We new Charles to be a very responsible and caring young man who always treated everyone he ran into with respect and always looked you in the face. Spent many friday nights with him at Mamma Lucia's eating pizza and watching and he was so good with people. I know that our boys thought of Charles as a brother and will be deeply impacted by this as will alot of others. I for one feel very fortunate and proud to have known you and been able to spend some memorable times with you as a part of my family and I thank you for that...Keep smiling down on everyone and protect them as you did when you were he with us....Our Love To You....
September 10, 2012
Our heartfelt sympathy to each of Charles' family members at this time of sorrow and great loss. When we first met Charles and Heather, we knew that they would be great neighbors. Observing the close bond between Charles and his brothers, we are confident that the extended family will help you, Heather, as you keep Charles' memory alive for Adrianna. Talk to her starting now about daddy so that she will always know him in her heart. We will keep each of you, Charles' family members, in our prayers.
Barbara and David Stover
September 10, 2012
I'm so sorry for Mr. Charles loss. Mr.Charles was an important person to me. he was very nice and maverick, his police dog, was someone who i did not get to meet very well. Mr.Charles was a person who was very good at video gaming and i did see how good he was. I would like to be a police officer when I grow up and be just like him. Bless you Mr.Charles and his family.
September 10, 2012
So sorry for the loss of a sweet guy who had a great smile. My heart goes out to the entire Armetta family. No words could ever heal the pain and suffering you are all enduring. By keeping his memory alive and through everyones thoughts and prayers, may you find the strength you need to help you get through this sad time. May God bless you all. His light will shine forever in your hearts!!
Love,
Ken & Dawn Dennis
Elaine Engers and Family
September 10, 2012
Di-Di and Family,

Tam and I are deeply saddened by the sudden and untimely loss of Charles.

Charles always had a smile on his face - that went right along with his fun-loving personality, whenever we bumped into him while either dropping EJ off or picking him up from your care. He would often take time to play with EJ and the other kids.

When Charles finally realized his dream and became a police officer, I sometimes would stay a few extra minutes and chit-chat with him about the profession we shared. No matter our conversation, I'd always end it with, "Be safe."

Now that Charles is in the company of the Lord, I'm sure he will keep watch upon those of us wearing the badge and do his best to keep us safe from the perils of the job. There's little doubt in my mind that he will do all that he can to make sure we, "Be Safe."
September 10, 2012
My heart aches for the Armetta Family. Please take comfort in the lives Charles has touched and the love and support of your family and friends. With my deepest condolences
September 10, 2012
I am so very sorry for your loss. Praying for the Armetta Family.
September 10, 2012
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers, we are so very sorry for your loss.
September 10, 2012
Chuck,
If I knew it was going to be the last time I was going to see you in May, I would have said something more profound than, "Go Browns!" I liked you the first time I met you. I fell in love with you the day you asked me if it was alright for you to ask my sister to marry you. I have never in my life made a decision as whole-heartedly as that one. You made me so proud that day. A dude that did the right thing not because he had to, but because he wanted to. Wow! How refreshing!
I'm all busted up over this, Chuck. My heart aches for the whole family. I will do my best to be as good a brother to Heather as you were a husband to her, to be a good uncle to Adrianna and to give her the kind of wisdom that you so freely gave Moira when she needs it and she will(all those conversations we had about her will come in handy someday I think), and to be kind and loving member of your family whom I adore and am so thankful to be connected to. Don't worry, I'll give all the siblings a hard time for you the best I can when I see them. I will never be able to watch a Browns/Ravens game without thinking of you and how much fun we had. Those memories of you will bring the smile back to my face eventually and I hope they do the same for everyone else. RIP Chuckles and Go Browns!
September 10, 2012
My deepest sympthay forThe Armetta Family.
I'm truly sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
May Charles Rest In Peace!
September 10, 2012
Charles,
Words can not express how much you will be missed. You have and always will be in our hearts and prayer's. Heaven has gained an incredible angle. My heart goes out to your family during this very tragic time.

With soooo much love, Rest In Peace Charles Armetta!
September 10, 2012
Very saddened by the loss of Charles - kind, humble, helpful, cheerful loving neighbor i ever had. Did not think life would be this short but I remain to cherish the times we shared as neighbors. May God bless you and all your family.
September 10, 2012
Our deepest condolences to the entire Armetta family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this trying time. Michael, Tracy and Malorie Morgan
September 10, 2012
Charles will be missed by all. He was a joy to work with over the years. I'm so sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace.

Cpl. Gary D. Tingler (Ret)
Harford Co. Sheriffs Office
and Cathy Tingler.
September 10, 2012
I am truly sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to the family and will you all in my prayers. Mary Feehley
September 10, 2012
Our deepest sympathies to the Armetta Family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We are so truly sorry for your loss. Our heart aches for you all. God Bless you!
September 10, 2012
Charles Nelson Armetta, I will forever remember you as a friendly, fun, caring, respectful, hard-working,determined, devoted, humble and courageous young man! No wonder God needed you! I've recently witnessed/read just how many lives your amazing character had touched! I can't say I am surprised! I am pretty sure I speak for all when I say.. We will forever miss you! We will forever love you! We will forever celebrate you! We will NEVER forget you! Rest in Peace Charles!
September 10, 2012
Prayers to all the family. May you all find the strength in the LORD to help you thru this most difficult time. Sincere and deepest sympathy to everyone. Thoughts and prayers are with you everyday!!

Mary Lewis,
Morgantown, WV
September 10, 2012
Our deepest sympathy goes out to your family. This is a tradgedy that has happened to the most caring and loving family I have ever known. I can not imagine the pain you all feel this time. Just know that God has truly received a special person and he must of needed him for a special reason. May you over time be able to try and understand why he was chosen to leave this earth so soon.. thank you for letting us all have the chance to meet such a great person in our lives.. from my family to yours our deepest condolences
September 10, 2012
Our deepest sympaties go to the entire Armetta family. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. Rest in peace from a fellow office and brother. You will be missed.
September 10, 2012
Our Deepest Sympathy To The Armetta Family.
Love & Prayers Always, Sarge & Judy
September 10, 2012
My deepest sympathy to the entire Armetta family. Charles left an amazing lasting impression on everyone he met. Truly an amazing man all the way around. You will truly be missed. Words cannot express how deeply saddened I am for all of you.
September 10, 2012
Glen,Diane& family,

So very sorry to hear about your loss of Charles. Please know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
September 10, 2012
Our hearts are so heavy to lose such a wonderful person. Our deepest sympathy to the Armetta family. Our hearts and prayer's are with you!
September 10, 2012
Charlie,
We are honored that we had to privilege of knowing you. Words can never say what a true,genuine person you were. It seems unreal that we will never hear your voice, or see you again. Rest easy brother and know we will make sure you will never be forgotten.

To Heather and the rest of the family- You will always be family to APD and we will support you and be here for you. If you need anything please reach out. Our prayers are with you always.
September 10, 2012
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for all of the family. You are in my thoughts & prayers.
September 10, 2012
Charles, I(we)LOVE all of your siblings, but you were my favorite. I can't believe you are gone. Please know how much we all LOVE you and will always keep you close in our hearts. Reggie and I will be there for your Mom, Dad, Heather, Adrianna, Anthony, Patrick and Rosalie with whatever they need now and forever!! This is one of the sadest times in our lives we are all heartbroken!! Jenny sends her love to you and your family and she will always keep you close to her heart. I know you are with you grandfather, he will keep you in his loving arms. Until we meet again and I know you will always keep a eye on everyone and keep everyone safe!
Love you always and forever
Aunt Linda & Uncle Reggie

p.s. please save a dance for me!! ???
September 10, 2012
When I first met Charles he was a senior in high school. His mother told me he wanted to join the police force and sure enough each time I asked him what he was up to he had new information to share about that very goal. His memory will serve as an inspiration for all who have dreams.
September 10, 2012
On behalf of the Connecticut Police Work Dog Association, I would like to express our deepest regards and sympathy to the family, friends and fellow officers of Officer Charles Armetta. Charles, you may be gone, but you will NEVER be forgotten. Rest in peace blue angel and thank you for your service.

Director / CPWDA
September 10, 2012
My sincerce and deepest sympathy to the Armetta family. You will always be in our hearts and prayers!
September 10, 2012
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal. Thinking of you Heather, and your family, during this difficult time.
September 10, 2012
Charlie we will always hold you close to our hearts and are thankful we were blessed to be able to call you friend. Heather Adrianna and the rest of the Armetta family please accept our hearfelt sympathies and know we grieve with you. Charles was loved by so many and we are proud to have known him. Words just can not express just how much he will be missed.
September 10, 2012
May Charles always be in everyones heart forever..My heart goes out to all of you!!! RIP Charles!! God bless all of you !!
September 10, 2012
My Dearest Sweetest Bambino, I carried you in my soul from the very start and in my soul is where you will always be. I held you tight and loved you so from the moment I knew you would be mine.From the moment, the very first seconds that your lie began and Poppi came in and kised your cheek and ever so softly rubbed your face and called you his "Little Buddy', I knew from that moment on that you would be a little buddy to everyone that your life touched. I could never and would never ask for a better Son than you have been for me.Nor would I ask for a better Brother, Grandson, Husband, Father, Uncle, and Friend. You married the girl of your dreams, one who loved you with all she has to give and you loved her with all you could give. And what you gave me next was a beautiful piece of you, my boy, a beautiful Baby Girl, Adrianna Caprice, who is loved by you so much. I love Heather for loving my Son and making you so happy, Now more than ever that is so important to me, that you loved and recieved such a great and deep love. Through them your legacy will live and so will you. They say that you and your brothers are Mamma's Boys and your Sister is a Momma's Girl. That's not so bad and you used to say I know, and now you know I am. Thank you for loving me and I am so grateful for the last several weeks to have so much time with you now more that ever I will cherish. They say that there is two things that we give our children-One is Roots and the other is Wings. They say if you love your children you have to let them go-I do not believe that-I have loved my babies and I will never let go, but I nurtured you to make you strong so that you could grow. This is the hardest and most painful thing that I will ever have to do in my lifetime, is to bury my son. So from here on, with your wings, I pray that Poppi was there to wrap his wings around you and keep you in his loving and safe arms on your last journey that you will ever have to make. Until we meet again Charles Nelson Armetta, you will always be "Mommy's Little Bambino". I miss you so much, taken to soon from me. A Mother should never have to do this,and I pray that whatever plan that God has set aside for you is very important, because Heaven is gaining the prescious of Angels, my Angel. Keep us all in your safe and loving arms, as you always have. My little one, I love you so so so much and my heart is aching, I am dead inside and I don't know what to do without your beautiful smiling face. Please, help me get through. Please Please wake me from this nightmare. Always and Forever, I will love you, I Promise! Your Mom.
September 10, 2012
My deepest sympathies to the Armetta family.
My heart goes out to you all. Charles may you rest in peace!
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